Classic Divorce Court: He Won't Shower 

When you dont love a man anymore anything he does is irritable.

Honestly with the hygiene, he might be a little depressed. That’s what happens sometimes when you’re down.

When I was depressed I didn't shower starved myself, didn't want to go to high-school let alone work, HES DEPRESSED

When she started describing his shower routine, I knew immediately that he was telling the truth about her being controlling. That’s so ridiculous.

She is private but she is coming on national TV and say he smells. If my man smells I wouldn't tell no one , I mean no one. We'll work on that by ourselves.

He was blessed by losing those jobs cause he got to see who he was sleeping with and investing in

“It’s called being a woman, try it!” Dayum. Honestly didn’t expect her coming full force down on her like that, that shit was needed. Respect.

I love that the judge stood up for him. He doesn’t deserve to be treated that way

This lady tried to embarrass her man... but she only embarrassed herself! LOL

Was it neccessay for her to talk about his hygiene on national tv. She think she doesnt have any flaws....girl bye.

The look on his face when she says he smelled... He was humiliated. You don't want or like him anymore. Leave him alone, find someone to take of you. He's not what you're looking for.

She’s only 24? He looks his age, she doesn’t. She look and act like she his mama

Seems like he is depressed And I see why

“I’m very private” *on national television* “My husband doesn’t shower”

My mom always said, if a guy decides to leave the relationship, there is chance he can stay. But if a woman wants to leave the relationship, she is already out the door. She is just physically there.

DAMN, I needed to see this episode. Me and my man are going through something similar. How this woman treats her man is the exact way I've been acting towards mine and it took me watching Divorce Court to see that. Thank you Judge Lynn!

He hit it right on the head. When everything is good, then no complaints...but when he's struggling, then the problems arise.

When I first read the title I'm thinking he was going days without showering 🤣

When you fall out of love, everything that person does will annoy the living sh-t out of you. It's sad but it's extremely true.

Toler is an amazing counselor. The whole time, the wife thought Judge Toler was siding with her, and she was just gradually drawing out the truth.

This guy looks completely defeated and I'm guessing he isn't truly happy with his financial circumstances. She belittles him every chance she gets because she lost respect for him once he was unemployed. He needs to pick his esteem up and not fall into depression.

when she talks and moves her head and stuff she reminds me of Hilary Banks. She seems so rude tho. She thinks shes cute but her attitude makes her look a lot less attractive.

Him losing his job was a blessing in disguise. She displayed her true character once he fell on hard times.

When you fall out of love with someone, everything will be an issue.

Judge: It’s called being a woman, try it. I felt that through the blood cells in the marrow of my bones

Im on unemployment . loosing a job can make you feel useless, angry, sad, stressed. Its a grieving process and can take a tole. She needs to give him a little break but needs to go thru the process of finding a new job or even go back to school

My sister graduated 3 years ago (she is one of the smartest people I know) and could not find a job with her degree. She now has a job doing something she likes without her degree... sometimes it just takes a while to figure things out. But also people should help out a bit if they’re home all day.

Her true colors came out at the end. The judge read her!!👏👏👏

She showed her true colors after Judge Toler said she was being extra. "Clap it up"! She had no problems until he lost his job, now all of a sudden he isn't man enough, or not doing enough. I've been in that situation before. They love you when you have it, and hate you when you dont. FOH wit that trash.

She's classic example of a woman with pretty face with bad character. very selfish and narcissistic. She needs to stay single.

If you stop ‘loving’ someone because they are broke temporarily, you never loved them to begin with.

If a woman stays home it's expected that she'll clean and take care of the household, when a man stays home he should do the same.

If he showers every day, what’s the problem lady? I thought she was going to say he don’t shower but every two days or something. He’s 24. He will get another job!

She has another dude

I can understand with the whole cooking and cleaning thing. I mean, I’d be pissed off too if my man was home while I was working and I had to come back to a sink full of dirty dishes AND to cook. I didn’t like the whole, “I’m a man, we don’t really do dishes” thing because it’s not the 1900’s anymore. Housework should be done by everyone who lives in it. But, the fact that she took it upon herself to say he has bad hygiene on national television and made him feel like shit about the job thing is out of line. She obviously has no compassion about that. If your s/o has bad hygiene, speak to them about it in private. Don’t go blasting him on public television, like wtf? She has a lot of issues, but SO DOES HE and I feel like a lot of people in the comments aren’t recognizing that. Her attitude isn’t helping her case, I agree. She lacks compassion and does seem to be nit picky HOWEVER, a lot of her complaints aren’t wrong. She’s working two jobs to support them and he can’t blame her for wanting to save money. When you’re struggling, two dollars isn’t just “two dollars”. Two dollars is “i could put that money towards food had I not spent extra on that wallet”. He throws around “I’m the man” a lot and that leads me to believe he was raised to think that his say has more power over hers and I don’t like that at all. Relationships are an equal partnership and once you treat it like that, you won’t have much problems. If she’s working, the LEAST she can do is make sure the house is in order. He’s being hypocritical. Yes, your woman is supposed to hold you up in your time of need, but he isn’t doing the same for her.

"It's called being a woman, try it!" Spat my food out damn

Ol girl didn't walk out of the court room....she stormed out!!!! LOL Judge lit that ass up!!!

She's foolish if she thinks it doesn't take 3-4 for a job. Even being well educated and such....it can take up to a year or more at time. Especially if you want decent or good 💰. I have a Master's and when my company relocated it took me 12 months to find another job comparable.

You can tell she doesn’t want to be in the relationship because she literally came on tv to talk about small nonsense that could have been discuss at home .

what got me is when she said she has 2 jobs to pay bills and he said "that's what you're suppose to do". My ex said that. I was about to leave his funky ass because he said that. Should have when he did lmao.

His braces are cute. Love seeing adults with braces, it’s never to late to work on your smile 😬

Her issue is she works and he’s not. She feels superior. They’re relationship is 80/20.

She is selfish and high maintenance AF! Jerome seems like a bright intelligent young man. He can do BETTER!

He seems like a nice young man. I hope he has since been able to get a good job and becomes very successful.

She 'liked' him while he was ticking all her boxes. That's artificial. Not genuine love.

She deserved every piece of that READ!!! 💁🏾‍♀️🤣

you know the judge feels passionately about something when she curses lol

Hillary Banks needs more money. “Daddy, I need 300 dollars”

He can't smell that bad if I've stayed 4yrs

She's private but on divorce court🙄🤔and telling the young mans buisness like that omg 😶

She’s annoying af! She don’t want to be around when the chips are down.. Run cutie run...

When he said to her that she’s supposed to work two jobs..my sympathy for him blew away with the ‘wind’.

She has another man and no longer wants him

Funny how she said he don't want to shower and he looked so clean 😃😃

The poor girl she’s exhausted :( they’re both depressed

Oh my that walk at the end was serious! She was big mad😂

Damn he is a fine brother

I think ol girl thinks it’s beneath her to help her man when he’s down...... she feels like she can do bad all by herself !

I been in her shoes for years.. he’s to comfortable not working He feels like she owns him .. everything gets old

"I want my woman to hold me down" such a hypocrite. How is she suppose to hold you down when don't even do the same for her? If she is the one working and bringing money home, you should be the one keeping the house in order (cooking and cleaning).

I love how insightful the judge is. “What are you really mad about?” She’s nit picking instead of elaborating what the real issue is. Sn: he’s really well spoken and good lookin. Somebody will look out for you young man. Hang in there

Damn 3 months? She acts like its been 3 years. Chill out. I been w my husband 13 years, i worked for 8.5 yrs up til i had our son and i took 5 years off to be a SAHM w him. I know different circumstances but still. He is trying and its not been that long. She is one of those shallow females that only cares about money and sees it as taking care of a man instead of holding the house down while hes down. My husband had gotten hurt on the job 5x in 6yrs. Was off anywhere from 6-8 weeks each time. Workmans comp took 4 weeks to send check and it was only like 50% of his salary so during that time i paid everything including his truck note and his insurance. I didnt complain once! When they released him one time i was actually mad bc it was too soon since he still had pain. But thats the difference, i am a woman and a wife she is a materialistic, brat who wants to play wife only when the gettins good.

Bet when he gets on his come up she gonna be trying to get him back

I went to high school with bro. He’s a fool 😂😂😂

When babe say “it’s time to go “ Ima go

Somebody already digging in her guts that’s why she tripping bout every little thing and him not having a job is just the icing on the cake.

When you marry a psychopath, you're not concerned about taking a shower.

So she’s not complaining that he doesn’t shower daily but at the time of day that she desires. She truly is despicable.

what if she gained weight or lost her hair/beauty and he started treating her differently. It's the same thing, Women like security men like beauty. if you love each other you should be patient and loving while he gets his financial situation together.

SHE SOUNDS LIKE SHE WANTS TO CONTROL HIM LIKE SHES HIS MOMMA! “NOW GET IN THERE AND WASH THEM DISHES!” SHE DON’T RESPECT HIM.

She'll find a man that treats her bad and then treat him like a king.

It’s easy to say hold him down. These men don’t appreciate you when you do. You get them to where they are doing good then they either cheat or leave. I vowed to never help another man get on his feet. I did it twice. Never again!

She couldn't even keep still at the end to hear about herself. The Judge should have sat her down too.

She was so wrong. At least he was trying. But now she’s going to leave him after the show.

"it's called being a woman, try it" Judge Toler is such a boss

My mother used to do the “ask the stranger an opinion “. About me breastfeeding my daughter. I stopped going anywhere with my mom. People need to just stay out of it.

She was suppose to hold him down temporarily on hard times

From the way she look at him ' i think she's done and he should see it and move on.

Him showering last minute or when she comes home honestly sounds like he may be down in the funk and feeling depressed about not being able to find a job and having his partner there is the encouragement in his head

Having a woman putting you down instead of lifting you up can be depressing. I bet he is working now ( if they aren’t together).

That woman is crazy. I was unemployed for 3 months and didn’t get a job making what I was before the lay off until 5 months. It’s not easy to get a job. Judge hit it right on point, she loved and put up with whatever minor issues he had, but the moment he hit hard times she got hot about it and everything he did just irritated her. Smh gold diggerish

I've never ever seen Judge Toler that hot!!! Sooo hot...she did the "This black woman ain't havin' it, (not today) NECK ROLL"👀👊🏼👑

This episode was rigged against her. I seriously disliked her in the beginning because of her attitude, but as more information came out, I realized it was him that was unreasonable. How is he gonna say he’s not gonna do the dishes because it’s not his priority as a man, but she works 9 hours a day, and he brings in random couples into their arguments, and this poor girl is trying to use coupons to save money and he wants to buy the expensive stuff? What...

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 You go Judge. She’s pissed cause she can’t go shopping. 😡

Rinky dink jobs?? It’s better than no job at all IMO. 🙄🙄 They’re young they both have time to figure it out. Man we give up too easily nowadays. I’m glad the judge let her know how a marriage works. She’ll miss him one day for sure( and I’m a woman saying this) sad!

I strongly believe that she was seeing someone else or at the threshold of seeing someone else 😏

He is capping big time. I was on his side about the job search being hard rn, but when she said he didn’t help cook or clean my sympathy vanished. Sir, that is the BARE MINIMUM. Don’t talk about “as men, we don’t really do that” bullshit. “As a man” you provide & she works in the home, if you wanna drag out these crusty gender roles. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Everybody’s taking the guys side because he’s cute.. umm no! Some people can’t go all day without showering! My ex used to be so musty that it made me nauseous! That’s not ok. I think the judge came down a little too hard on her.

She seems superficial and controlling. I think it’s some underlying issues of why she’s so ANGER; something that happened in her life outside of him. Being this anger is very unattractive and even more unhealthy smh.

Its irritating to hear the judge asking a question or making a statement and ppl try to talk over her. Come on, be more disciplined.

the way she walked out of the court room tells you everything you need to know about her.

He talking about conjunctivitis man just say pink eye making me pause the video to go google it🤦🏾‍♂️😂

Judge Lynn is so beautiful 🌹

I feel her pain, but calling him out on the hygiene is so cold. Some things you don't embarrass someone about.

"I'm very private." Good thing your not on a nationally televised program, that happens to be one of the longest running live court shows, being broadcast to millions of people.

There is one thing i don't like about the man he keeps saying the words "respected as a man" people who say that usually feel like when they speak there woman should listen. And that's wrong your woman shouldn't be below you. Both of you should have enough respect for each other and trust each other enough so when one person says something you listen. Not just for the man but also the woman. If the guy says let's leave i think those people are sketchy you should trust him enough to listen. If the girls says i can't really afford to buy you that right now you gonna trust and understand her enough to listen.

I used to be this girl. I left and been single since. You can’t expect people to do what you want, how you want. She’ll be at peace alone if she loves herself.

This guy was RUDE when he told his girlfriend that she's SUPPOSED TO WORK 2 JOBS 😮. AND the boyfriend doesn't take care of cooking/cleaning while she works long hours. I waz VERY surprised by the Judge's ruling. This couple is NOT married, so the girlfriend needs to just breakup with him. She can clearly do better.

They physically look good together but hopefully they can make it work

I feel like he charmed his way out of a lot of shit he was called out on. I don’t think she deserved to be laid onto like that in the end. The girlfriend also didn’t need to put his business out there like that. They both are wrong in my opinion.