Time to Become a Husband: Jessica Oliver v Tremell Pickett 

Never let a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you..Judge Lynn Toler

Unfortunately ppl need to stop creating a family and living together. We don't need to have a child with everyone u date or move in with the person no matter how great they are. Ppl need to stop performing so called wifey duties. Then never be the wife.

She said it's "hard to start over again." Girl you never got started! He is still PLAYING.

I can’t stand when dudes are willing to do fatherhood but not marriage. I said what I said. ‼️‼️

He’s not slick!! He closed on that house because he didn’t want no chicks to see that he was in a relationship!! He’s not slick!! He’s very self absorbed.. all about himself!! He’s wack for that!! He had no intentions of putting her on that deed!!

Ladies protect your wombs realize that you are stuck with these bums for life you can always get a divorce and move on with your life

"Never do wifely duties at girlfriend prices." Judge Lynn Toler.

Did he steal her half of the money and purchase a home? Oh hell naw! He is immature and she is a dam fool.

Idc what else is said he bought the house without you which means he’s not with you leave him!

I'm a dude but he is playing games. Don't play with people emotions

He really sitting up there with those fake chains acting like he’s all that and then some. She’s completely slow for having more kids without even getting a ring first like CMON! Women need to start taking some accountability. This is ridiculous

You’re not ready to marry after 5 years????? Really???? You’re to busy getting what you want sir without marriage. You want all the benefits of marriage without a license .

Wifely duties on girlfriend prices

He would be watching us as we LEAVE.. playing in my face is a trigger. He's still for the streets and he loves the attentionhe gets. Let her go if you truly love her.

If you’re not completely ready to be completely grown and grow up, then leave single parents alone. Lady take your kids and focus on them.

He just told you he not ready put him on child support and step

She's going to have to take accountability for the fact that she already had a couple of children before she met him and 5 years ago he was only 22. The Average 22 yr old is NOT ready to settle down and take on the responsibility of marriage and step children. Now Fast Forward to present day and she has a new baby with him, yet still not married. He's bought a house without her. I mean, this is painfully obvious that he is NOT going to marry her.

STOP PLAYING HOUSE LADIES!!!!!POINT, BLANK PERIOD!!!!! Get a MARRIAGE LICENSE no more than a year after dating. You should know by then if this is the one. Once you get comfortable performing wifey duties, you give the man NO reason at all to make it official. It’s going to be hard as hell if you keep on giving milk away for free.

He's sooooo taken with himself. She made the mistake of believing what a lot of girls do....that living with a man and/or having a baby makes her a wife. You're a WIFE when you get MARRIED! There is no way I would play house for 5 YEARS. He has shown her who he is...she better believe him!

i live with a man for 25 years and he would not marry me, we had 4 kids together, he up one day pack up his stuff and move in with somebody else,. It did not work out with the other woman and he wanted to come back to me after her ex-husband shot at him, i told him hell no.

His “bro” is finna turn up as his next bm or girlfriend.

She can't count on him as a man. She's wasting her time with him. Was her money used to purchase his house?

i like the plaintiff..leave that clown alone..sis

Here's what's wild..i'm a minute in.saw this dude with his name on that chain and automatically knew he's guilty of sum shit

HE used her and her MONEY to get himself a house and SIGNED THE DEED WITH OUT HER NAME ON IT SO IF THEY BREAK UP SHE gets NOTHING he thinks he is SLICK..

When this guy bought the house without her she should have left him. That says it all.

I don't know what's going on, but what I do know is that it seems stressful as heck to be in a relationship. It don't seem worth it at all.

Baby mamas and baby daddies create broken homes and continue generational curses

He keep saying she's delusional.....why would you want to be with her then.....he full of s**t....

Babygirl...RUN 🏃🏽‍♀🏃🏽‍♀🏃🏽‍♀as fast as u can...QUICKLY 🤦🏽‍♀

Marriage is only as good as the character of the people in them. It does not have value if the people in them don't value it. He's not going to and if he was it will not change his character.

She's 30yrs old with 3 kids... with no career other than hair dresser from home . She should put more energy into building a solid future for herself and children.

As soon as he said she delusional I knew he was about to be a whole fool

Oh no, he has "like ocd"?! How awful 😂 he is super delusional about his appearance😂

No reason to trust him. Trust that lady on social media and leave this dude.

Girl why did you move into a house with a man that is not your HUSBAND???? That is not smart....

If that’s you potner, then go be with her!!!

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk free. He feels no pressure to change. But she will probably stay in tolerate the mess just because she wants a man and baby daddy.

This is a very silly woman. And this guy is nothing but a child.

Them fake chains on his neck is making my neck itch!!!!!

Women and men need to realize that just because you're in a relationship with someone does not mean they are your one person

17:39 she’s a placeholder-he does not want her because he’s “pulled the trigg3r” on everything else

He purchased a home & SIGNED the deed w/o you. He went out of the country w/ his homeboys (or another Woman) while you & the kids stayed home! He's not ready sweetie, you know it. Move on for your health, safety, & peace of mind.

Robert is a handsome man!

This young lady has messed up by having another baby by a man that ain’t her husband.

This breaks my heart because the kids are the ones who will suffer, the woman is beautiful but she is not getting what she needs and he gets to still play the field. Wow you're not ready to pull the trigger, what are you waiting for. Selfish and inconsiderate. Ladies y'all need to expect and demand more from these men.

This is too much.Run.He will never be ready.He does not want to get married nor lose on his investment.

Never give a partner spousal duties at dating prices.

Not only did she not tell him she didn’t like the lady, she doesn’t KNOW the woman!!! Who wants someone they don’t know to watch their children???!!! 😮 They keep talking about like, it’s more important that she doesn’t KNOW her!

If you come to court and complain about everything that you consider to be a part of yours even your man....its time to let go....no one should feel locked down he's not ready why are you forcing him

I get so frustrated when women start naming off all the things that confirm the man she's with is no good for her, yet she stays. Why does it take years of mistreatment and distrust ???? If it's not working for you, it's working against you!

He is for the streets.

Is funny how every woman wants to end it but yet, wont leave.. She needs him more than he needs her

If u are NOT ready then DON'T have babies with her STOP leading her on

Never buy property with a spouse unless you are married.

I love what the Lord tells Jeremiah! You better give it to them, or I’m going to give it to you! That's what my mama use to say to me you better give it to them, or I’m gonna give it to you! God was telling Jeremiah don’t be afraid just let them have it! Just like my mama would tell me don’t be afraid just let them have it! Now is not a time to hold back you didn’t hold back when you were in the world, so don’t hold back now! You weren't afraid then, so don't be afraid now! What God has given you to say just SAY IT! Jeremiah 1:17 Get yourself ready! Stand up and say to them whatever I command you. Do not be terrified by them, or I will terrify you before them.I encourage you not to dwell on the things your enemies did to you because it opens doors to unforgiveness, bitterness and evil thoughts. Praying for them and letting go is the best way to handle it.

Why do young ladies feel the need to make a family and have kids just because they're in love. Give it time to find out if the person is worthy. Like judge lynn says, "watch em for a few months, then watch em some more. In the words of judge judy, dont play house then later on expect the courts to figure it out.

He corny she holding on to that fantasy of what it could be. We all do it and he handsome but she’s just as beautiful. How u start a family then quit midway through cuhz it’s probably more than he thought. He said ppl want me boy we b wanted every minute of the day but forbid we step out. Call it quits sis!

"I'm attractive, I'm handsome, people want me." Seriously, Trey? It's time to move past that ego. There are countless men who are not only more handsome but also prioritize and care deeply for their families, always putting their partners first. "Handsome" is more than just looks! I am attractive my a..

ngl, feels like old mate is used to being slick and funny to get through whatever problems come his way. He doesn’t look like he’s taking this seriously at all, with how he dismisses his partner and the faces he keeps making while she complains.

he is stringing her along until someone better comes on the scene. total bake

I love how they say red flags with such confidence and proceeds to list a bunch of major red flags and the states it hard to move on or I love him…. So!!!

I'm sorry, she ignored all the red flags and still chose to stay. She's not going anywhere.

He's smart for not marrying her but his mistake was having a kid with a woman who already had kids when he didn't have any of his own

Tell me you from NY without saying your from NY

My mama always said why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? 👍😮💯

Fornication leads to poverty, disease, and servitude. Just sign the papers first. ✝

Why waste time going on Divorce Court. This guy showed you who is was and you STAYED. You do not need a judge to tell you what you already know. C'mon now.

He playing games lets me fr. But this episode was very entertaining

Never let a man tell you more than once they don't want you. Their mouth can tell you they want you and don't want to lose you, but if their actions don't match count your losses and move on. You will drive yourself crazy loving the wrong person.

That dude's energy just screams "liar and manipulator."

What he did is what a lot of Pookies do. Won’t try to marry a woman unless it’s a come up for him, hook up with a baby momma because she becomes attracted real quick if a Pookie do some stereotypical fake superhero type garbage, easily tricked and duped into having a child by him, and lie lie lie drama drama drama her to death….

MISLEAD

The show is good with judge star too and but can they tell us what happened after the show

Whats with those awful chains he has round his neck..it looks tacky..

Soon as she said DR I was like homie definitely living his best life

If a man do not respect you enough to give you his last name you should never have a child by them. That means he don't respect you it's just that simple 🤬👎🏼🤦🏻‍♀️🤪🤷🏼‍♀️😕📰📽️📺🐇🥚🐇🍀✨🍀🪙🍀🪙💰✨🍀💵

I feel like he wants to laugh every-time he’s talking. 😅

Judge Star, Same thing happen to me, but we were married so 5yrs in & 1 baby girl, I choise to walk & Not look back...So abusive, I've had Peace of mind now for 36yrs 😅

This is a joke. Not a real relationship as said by judge at all. first of all why did she have ANOTHER have a baby with him? Secondly, she has trust issues & rightfully so (to some extent) and I don’t see him reassuring her and easing her insecurities.

I don't know why the judge said that the online account is not credible. How often does that happen where people are just trolling? That is a rare occurrence. It's much more likely that it's somebody that he cheated with.

My mom always said, "If you give them what they want without martiage, they don't need to marry you."

Never do wifey duties at a girlfriend price Now all this extra bs is what a person aloud another too do to them

Did this ninja say we from NY she know bro, sis it means the same thing😂😂 ninja I’m from NY bro, sis don’t mean NOTHING because later ya do be SMASHING bro, sis 😂😂😂😂😂 I’m done🤦🏾‍♀️

"We were not we was." One of my pet peeves. 😏 People, please correct your grammar! 👍🏾

The going behind her back and buying the house??? The reddest flag ever. And children don't give a damn about your OCD...grow up.

Keep on building these men up… sprinkle sprinkle 😊

The judge is right. He has no motivation to make her a wife because she’s giving all the benefits. Even with the evidence: texts/calls/behavior-she’s going nowhere and he KNOWS it. She will be strung along until he meets the one. Then she will get dumped and look dumbfounded!

I wish a MAN WOULD use MY MONEY 💰 for a 🏠 and I'M not on the deed !

It's a no it goes both ways I would've befriended the other chick because she probably knows what he's up too can we get a Tammy

He left her off the deed for the house but she put him on the deed of her uterus…clown shyt!

Not many males in their 20s are ready for marriage and it's clear he's not

She needs to pull out of this Judge you was sharp as a knife. Thank you. Girl get your own Place and take care of your children and stop playing house.

Judge Star Jones...A hood girl...Jackie -O!!!!!!!!!!

ma'am stop lying to yourself. Be brave.

Lady get out take kids run asap 😮 stop being a doormat.

You hear from his mouth he not 🚫 ready to wife you up . Leave him alone, move on sis

Stop laying down ladies and brothers the same stop playing and stop making it easy for them to cheat

That’s some shadyyyy mess he pulled. Run!

He needs to have ocd on that hair and beard