One thing about Club Shay Shay they gonna find things out that I thought nobody knew. #garyowen #garyowencomedy #Getsome #Getsomepodcast #Clubshayshay #shannonsharpe
🔥🔥🔥 Say it again. We wanna argue and fight family and friends over celebrities. Nicki vs Megan, Drake vs Kendrick.. say something bad about Beyoncé..you see how UNITY the Black Community is. 🤷🏾♂️🙄The fact that Black people participate in “Cancel Culture “ is a shame. We had very little smoke for Sleepy Joe saying you ain’t Black if you don’t vote for him. 😡
Like Katt Williams Said Club Shay Shay Podcast Will Be A Safe Place For People To Come And Tell They Side Of The Story I'm So Happy Gary Owen Was On Club Shay Shay God Got You Gary Stay Strong Brother 🙏💪 💯
The hardest part to hear was how your father, your former business partners and staff were snitching to your wife during the divorce is crazy. Like Judas & Brutus level of betrayal. Much success to you and your new family.🙏🏾
I never expect entertainers to be faithful, the temptations are too great . I wouldn't be in a hurry to remarry either. One thing too, no joint bank accounts or credit cards.
Entertainers Or jus ppl in a whole … who or what is keeping 2 people together … Married people or people in relationships spend their relationships trying too figure how too make it work long term … Marriage doesn’t the relationship unbreakable
I'm I'm gonna say. Publically, loudly. I've watched your career since the beginning. and you're a Dad who really gave it your all and I heard that from your shows your TV show and from listening to your peers talking about you. Yeah divorce is never pretty and in most situations..it's a sad thing for the kids but No one deserves the sole blame. The kids have a tight to be safe but he Was a good dad. I hope sooner than later they realize that and remember the love. The hardest yet probably the best thing I told my kids was now 3 people love you instead of two......Gary, everyone screws up but you Are a Good Dad.
Very early in my marriage my ex asked for a divorce and I fought it. Now I think of all the heartache I could have avoided if I would have just listened. Determine to make it work instead of having my peace. Wish everyone the best
No one can replace your first two children but I’m happy you are blessed to father and show love to two other children. The grown ones will come around someday. Keep buying gifts for them, write letters to them and keep telling them you love them and say that you understand. Keep all of those things in a special place so that, God forbid you leave this earth before the reconciliation, they will have that to cling to cause they’re going to need it!
No matter what I’ll never disrespect my father, especially after raising me. At the end of the day that’s my mf father. I’m happy he got more kids growing up is realizing no ones perfect. These kids are grown as hell 😂
@@Robskimaskthat’s what I’m saying People keep blasting him but them kids are adults, they can make their own choices. Not saying he don’t need a relationship or not keep trying to reconcile, but he can only do so much. He can keep trying but it’ll come down to them making that choice at the end of the day
Do you think his kids resent him even more because he has twins now? Idk my sister was upset with my dad for going out and having another kid late in his life instead of building a relationship with her.
@@Kenxclout could be But him and Kenya were already separated since 2021 and finalized the divorce in 2023 So they weren’t together for a while But I can understand, we don’t know the complete details of everything it’s their personal business at the end of the day
Glad you got your side of the story out. Thank you for being so honest. And being responsible, like your vasectomy. I hope men hear this podcast. Your funny as hell Gary!
It's funny how people in the comments in that interview was mostly fixated on the infidelity aspects of your life. But man! When you got to your family background, I was saying that "this man has been through some shit!" Listening to your backstory in it's entirety & you being transparent about it is very humbling. It made me realize that my problems in life aren't as bad as I may think. Thank you for inviting us a bit deeper into your life Gary and may you, your ex, and your children receive blessings that repair all wounds and brings about healing.
Your kids may be over 18 but the fact that they are not mature enough to realise that banning you is choosing a side is a tragedy. This is a Mr & Mrs' problem and has nothing to do with them they are children, and they should know their place. You are their dad, and that won't change, and you are the one who gave them the privileged life they have.
The Mr & Mrs problem affects everyone in the household. There is no way to pretend it doesn’t. The kids have a right to heal too. They will ultimately be able to communicate what they’ve experienced and work through it - it takes time. When they are ready they will open up. Side note - he’s already creating new memories (and human beings). They owe him nothing.
I am heartbroken for you. I can definitely identify with the family dynamic, growing up, you described. I empathize with all of that. No matter what you do, people are going to judge, like we don’t have shortcomings. The most important thing is to learn the lessons and apply them going forward. I pray that your children and you are able to reconcile. All the best to you and GOD Bless!
Respect man. As men we usually get more of the blame during a separation regardless of what actually happened. Many of us have been there and we get it. Doesn't make you/us a bad guy. Stay funny
It was a great conversation too, even my wife watched it and she doesn't watch any of them. She enjoyed it and is now a fan! She can't wait for the next special.
Gary you give your kids the lifestyle that you never had growing up. They never wanted for anything and still don't. Hold your head up on that. Keep reaching out, They don't realize how blessed they are that you actually want to be in their life.
G the grown seasoned men and women who've lived understand what happened. A lot of these triggering comments are from kids...be it 21/49. There isn't anything you can do about your grown kids...find a way to grieve. You fulfilled your responsibility as a dad. They simply don't want to be friends. I hope your new partner brings you joy.
This right here. Them kids are grown and need to stay out of other grown folks business. They can be silently mad, see ya at dinner. They are gonna regret missing this time over pride and ego 🤷🏽♀️
Keep your up head Gray, your kids will come around eventually man. It takes a man to admit his wrongs, and you did so. You don't have any smoke from me, and I still support and keep up with your content. Lol welcome to the life of a brother brother
She is...she kinda favors Kenya to me anyways. I hope they have a long engagement though. You know the saying, "If they do it with you, they'll end up doin it to you." 🙂
Gary, I never knew much about you. But, I admired your character. Now, I see why. Even though, you were treated wrong from people closest to you. You give people So Much Grace. Mr. Gary Owens, you're a great human being. So many people would be Honored to have had, a Dad like you!! Keep your head up....
Are you happy? As happy as you believed you would be? Was everything worth the outcome? If you had to do it all over again, would you do it the sane way? Life is about learning and growing through experiences. Congrats on the twins.
Sometimes kids don’t understand the dynamics of their parents relationship and that’s how it should be because they are the children. When they only hear one side of it, the relationship between the parent and child becomes strained. You just keep living in your truth and keep God first. Your kids will have their own relationship issues and will understand when they’re older. They will come around eventually.
Gary, there are so many mean people out there! I wish you the absolute best❤ You don't owe anyone an explanation about your personal life. These things do happen in life!
I thought it was good if anything made the world love you more but I’d be lying if I didn’t feel like you’re doing a great job of hiding that pain especially with the whole ordeal with your kids it’s sad to say the least but the fact that you didn’t trash talk your ex or none of that and how hard you’re still trying to be in your kids life you’re a real one Gary keep your head up you’re LOVED !
Society has us conditioned to believe it's better to sacrifice our happiness in order to STAY. That's why there's so much DV, folk be staying just to stay. AND I remember an interview you did where you said she had a PHYSICAL reaction when you tried to leave previously. But feels like I'm the only one that heard that. Imagine being cut off from the money YOU primarily earned because you don't wanna be with someone anymore. How is it OK to be held hostage in relationships?!!! Live your life Gary!!!
My dad was a terrible husband but I still love him as my dad. Not even that great of a dad, but the relationship between him and my mama is a different one from mine with him.
Def a dope interview, nice to see you open up more than you do here already. I gotta be real...u did kinda blindside her w/ the divorce bruh, with the way you laid it out, but gotta protect your $$$. The kids will definitely come around, especially your son. Much luck and love to you and yours. Can only be in that Al Bundy life for so long, definitely get it.
@terickastidbits2342 from my understanding he had asked for it several times before over the years, but in the Shannon interview he made it seem like this final time he kind of dropped it out of nowhere so he wouldn't have to discuss fixing any problems and just wanted out....In which case u can understand her reaction a bit more. It's one thing to think you're having martial problems and that it can be worked on, to....oh u already filed and they are at the house trying to serve...before we discussed anything about this?
@GaryOwen Put God First, and let him heal the relationship between you and your kids, but no more cheating, find a better way to deal with relationship woes.
Oh I get it now! I was always curious why as they always looked so happy. Well lets just pray that he can get the relationship back with kids. Seems very fresh alot hurt and many different sides of the story.
People need to understand a person is a grown ass person can change we evolve over time and when you be doing some stuff in young day's it's called trauma and then you grow apart trying to hide the you that you've been this whole time and grew apart it couldn't be fixed and kids stay out grown folks ish it has nothing to do with ya'll you still have a mom and dad they just not sleeping in the same bed, get them counseling, And the vindictive shit just hurt you
Wow. How can ya dislike the man? You can despise the behavior but the person is authentic and flawed like all of us. I just wondered if they went to family and marriage counseling? Temptation is all around whether or not you work in the entertainment/sports industry or in an office. It sounds like when the sex stops,--then the arguing happens and then the cheating. I just hate it for the kids because this disrupts their normalcy when they come home from college breaks and then you introduce new kids afterwards and the first family kids feel replaced. I wouldn't hold my breath on waiting for them to meet them. Those adult children will always find fault with the "mistress" that deliberately got pregnant knowing his relationship with Austin and Kennedy was strained. Nope, not now. maybe when the twins are school-aged but without the twins' mom present.
I listened to the Club Shay interview. I know when a man has an unstable relationship with their parents, especially with their mother, he will never be totally faithful with any woman until he gets therapy and takes it serious. I know from dating those men. They are good guys but they never reach greatness.
I understand man. I have had issues and spoke with my significant other 8-12 years over these issues. Each time, thinking everything will be ok and we will come to a compromise. Here we are 17 years later. Same shit different day. I even told her I was going to cheat if shit didn't change.....nothin. U did absolutely nothin to the kids. While I do understand why the kids are acting that way, it's this public opinion about marriage that throws it all off.
None of us are perfect and the negative comments people make are just miserable and just want attention. Transparency is all us fans ultimately need and you have given that to us. You good though. Your true fans still rock with you. Now if you get you a white girl, idk....🤣😂
Bad thing about being a celebrity, everything eventually becomes public.. I think you handled it well. You’re only human and owned your mistakes. Still a big fan and wising you continued success ❤️
She was with the man for 20 years and birthed his 2 children. Not saying she's right but it proves she still has feelings for the man whom she obviously wanted to stay married to. If she didn't care...you wouldn't hear a peep. She's not over him, yet.
These kids these days are waaaay different, they act as if you havent done anything for them.. Like they catch amnesia towards the father, but not the mother.. No matter what, they seem to just take the mom's side and turn their backs on the dad! Cold game!!
I felt you wanting to tell Shannon he doesn't know what he's talking about, you leaving for work and not being there is way different on how your dad left and not being there. I felt it so bad but you didn't want to disrespect Shannon.
