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Co-Parenting vs Parental Management: Navigating Blended Family Challenges with an Uncooperative Ex 

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Let’s face it-blended family life isn’t easy, especially when co-parenting with an uncooperative ex. In this video, we break down the difference between co-parenting (where you and your ex can actually work together) and parental management (where you’re just doing your best despite their resistance). Whether you’re dealing with constant pushback or struggling to make decisions for your kids, we’ve been there, and we’re here to help.
We’re also sharing two heartfelt warnings that every parent needs to hear when navigating these tough situations with an uncooperative ex. Don’t let frustration sideline you or damage your relationship with your kids. We’ve been doing this blended family thing for nearly 30 years, following God’s guidance every step of the way-and we’re here to offer you the wisdom that’s worked for our family and countless others.
If you’re looking for real, faith-based advice from someone who’s lived through the ups and downs of blended family life, you’re in the right place. Hit play, and let’s dive into how you can survive (and even thrive) in these challenging parenting dynamics.
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Комментарии : 8   
@totodiledundee6354
@totodiledundee6354 10 дней назад
Hi guys love the channel!!
@momsmixedfamilyblender726
@momsmixedfamilyblender726 10 дней назад
@@totodiledundee6354 We love that you are here!! If there is anything we can do to support & encourage you please let us know! Take care!!!
@totodiledundee6354
@totodiledundee6354 10 дней назад
@@momsmixedfamilyblender726 so many issues with the mother of my child The list is to long 🤦
@momsmixedfamilyblender726
@momsmixedfamilyblender726 10 дней назад
@@totodiledundee6354 Sorry to hear that. If you have topics that you need advice with you can leave a comment and we will make videos on those or you can email us at info@blendedfamilymomentum.com please specify if you’d like Mike’s guidance, mine (Brenda) or us together. Hope that helps!
@chloehoward3877
@chloehoward3877 10 дней назад
Hey im a stepmum whos stepchildren hate me and my husband has to meet the children once a month as me and our younger children our not allowed to see them and hes not able to parent them or speak about our faith infront of them. Please could I get some advice?
@momsmixedfamilyblender726
@momsmixedfamilyblender726 10 дней назад
@@chloehoward3877 Are you in the USA? I am only asking so I can give correct advice. That said we do always encourage bio parents to “fight for” their kids. Seeing them once per month is not enough. I will watch for your reply and give specific advice once I know where you live. Hugs to you! ~Brenda
@chloehoward3877
@chloehoward3877 3 дня назад
We live in the uk thanks for your reply x
@momsmixedfamilyblender726
@momsmixedfamilyblender726 3 дня назад
@@chloehoward3877 Okay thank you for letting me know that. I know that things are different in the UK but seeing his children 1 time per month is not enough depending on their ages. If you guys live a distance away from them and cannot get over to see them more I would encourage him to video call them more. I would also encourage him to have a sit down talk to the kids and matter of factly tell the kids that you are his wife and you will be involved in the calls and visits. Because he also needs to fight for you. Again depending on the kids ages. It sounds to me like his ex is part of the problem and may be trying to poison them against you… this is very common. If that is the case I’d encourage your husband to take legal action. Here in America we have what is called mediation. It is where there are 2 unrelated mediators who sit through the meeting and keep the peace, ask questions if something is not communicated clearly, they get the conversation going if no one is talking etc.mediation is a very affective way to open lines of communication and get things sorted out. Mediators submit agreements to the court (if needed) and they become legally binding so both parties still have to follow through on plans they made together. It is MUCH cheaper than going to court as there are no lawyers involved and it frees up the courts. I would encourage you guys to see if there is something similar in the UK and do that if his ex is high conflict or they cannot have a civil conversation. I hope that advice helps you! If you have additional questions please leave another comment. Hugs to you! Brenda
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