When adult children express to you how they felt growing up parents just listen.. That isn’t a time to disregard their experience/feeling, validate their feelings..No one is perfect..Deion’s advice is solid about how you say things to people also.. Deiondra is a beautiful smart young woman Deion should proud ❤❤
Great seeing you with your Dad! I am a first born daughter as well and I understand what you mean that when you were growing up your Dad was different compared to how he was with your younger siblings- I felt the same way but don't take it personal- fathers just get older and wiser and try to become a better version of themselves! We can tell how much he loves you!!
Facts ,whit the first kids we as parents are very intense,then we learn ,so when the other kids come along we are more chill,and what Deiondra don’t realize when her dad said I was at all your events gif you is that when he was a kid no one was there for him ,I understand that because I lived it
I just ❤her she’s so pretty and sweet. Coach please go visit her and take her on a dad daughter dates. Although she up in age looking at her video she still acts like daddy’s Lil girl🥰
@@melissawilliams6324Are u slow and/or dumb bc your commentary very much gave dunce AF🙄?! That was a stupid reply bc their post was specifically in reference to his daughter. 👉🏽🤫🪑🪑🪑
I am the oldest of 5, and most times us older siblings take the lumps for our younger siblings. I used to hold resent for how my dad showed up for my younger brothers and sisters, but I know myself as a man has needed time to grow and heal from my own mistakes, so I allow my dad to share some of that grace as well.
Yes, my oldest points it out all the time! I told her our first kid was an experiment (i.e. didn't have all of the parts/ingredients) but with each kid, we learned how to make the experiment work.
Truly a man of wisdom; “you have to tell me I’m wrong the right way”. What I’m learning is that we all what to feel safe with our love ones even when we are wrong. It’s a soft voice that turns away anger. I’m from the era of “it’s not what you say but how you say it”!!!Deiondra soak up all that wisdom 🙏🏿❤️
Have you also noticed in some people?. When they yell they're not yelling. It's their tone. Mind you some people do yell when they're upset. But I always tell people. Watch your tone. You're not yelling. It's your tone that's getting louder.
Deiondra, let me say this to you: doll you are just that, a beautiful doll! Both inside and out. As your dad was saying, you just be YOU! As you get older you grow more into your womanhood, bringing confidence that gives you wisdom and security. As I watch you, you have such a kind heart yet I see a fierce self in you as well! You actually have a balance. So coming from a “ big sister” to a little sister, you got this! Trust me honey, it will all come together and click one day. Don’t try to worry, ponder or think about minor things as it will all come into a clearer vision when it’s time if that makes sense. Many of us great women have been there, and can tell you it will be just fine. You reall got it in all ways, you’re a full package k? I love your content and family and God bless you doll! Pastor Tee❤
I understand both side of the conversation. Deiondra is speaking from her experience as a woman who's been through some things. Deion is speaking from an elders viewpoint who been through some things and more things. Love the dialog...Father daughter love. Deiondra you BAE is a sweetheart❤.
Prime is speaking wisdom and as you grow understanding will come. In the meantime, protect your heart so that you can have peace and joy at all times. We as women are emotional so we speak from our feelings alot. There is an old saying, "it is not what you say but it is how you say it" . 😂 God has you baby girl!! Keep shinning!!
Seems a different conversation was being takin within the conversation that only daughter and father can understand and interpret. Great video. It was really deep !
Lady, Prime was saying, observe that person's character to learn how to offer a critique in a way that INDIVIDUAL PERSON will receive it. Because everybody don't receive criticism the same way. You must study them for behavioral patterns and what they respond negatively and/or favorable to. Once you master that skill, you can get anything you want from a person.
@@DeiondraSandersthat’s why Coach Prime was saying you want people to suffer/hurt the way you do/did. Because if you didn’t…you would do what @okyena brought out. I feel u though. It’s tough
Deiondra, You are so beautiful. It is a great responsibility to be the oldest daughter and the child in the middle at the same time. You have witnessed and experienced so much because of your love for your father and siblings. You love hard and expect greatly. I'm sending you great big ehugs. It is a task to be Coach Prime's child, especially when you didn't ask for it. You are an amazing woman, sister, and daughter. My goodness, you and Shilo are dead ringers. I'm the oldest kid, so I feel what you were saying. I also now understand what your Daddy was saying. Go back and tell Little Deiondra it's okay because Big Deiondra is HER!!! Stay gold! I love your content, and that smile lights up 1000 nights!!🌻🤗❤️
I feel her she feels she didn’t get the same treatment as her younger siblings and coaches prime should see her point of view and tell her sorry she feels that way and say to her how can he make her feel better from this point on don’t argue with her just see her point
I love Deiondra and Jacquees together so much. You guys compliment each other so well! I understand your rebuttal to your father too. Hope he understood where you were coming from too☺️🥰✌🏾
OMG, What did I just hear? I knew it was something different between the two sets. I hope everything is okay. I like the way the young man explained it to her, he got it.
Dieondra you are a beautiful daughter. I pray that i continue being a loving father to my beautiful daughter! The love you two share jumps off the camera!!!
I just love watching the interactions between father and daughter ❤️🙏🏿Had the same relationship with my dad but lost his years ago suddenly so cherish the moment beautiful 😍 had to watch it again and rewind because you Dad was dropping some jems!!!
CP brings me joy and positivity! I got to give him a wave and a shout at the bball game last weekend and I got a smile and a wink back! Gotta love him!
Prime Time is in the building, 🙌🏽💯 he’s dropping serious Jewels 💎 he’s straight forward out of love I love how he’s so protected of his Daughter..love their relationship 💕😊
Young beautiful lady, one should Listen to get Understanding. Most of the time, people listen to respond, and really not Hearing the message or “gem” of it all!🤷🏽♀️ You are a proud daughter, who loves her father, that’s a blessing and a beautiful thing!💞✌🏽🙏🏾
4:09-6:36 🔴🔴This ENTIRE SEGMENT Coach Prime was telling Deiondra truth. Nothing but pure wisdom. Thank you Coach Prime for giving out wisdom gems in this video.
Salute sis, another dope video...been Supportin' and Rockin' with Prime and the family long before the Jackson St. days and still here, Blessings from Dallas Texas 💪🏿🫡🔥🔥
I don’t even know how this video came up for me, but I’m glad that it did. I love the fact that you felt comfortable enough to share your thoughts and feelings with your dad. That speaks to his comfort in listening as well as your emotional maturity in expressing yourself. I also love that you pushed back when you didn’t agree. Thanks for being so vulnerable! I’m sure that many young women can relate to what you talked about. ♥️
Coach taught me something today that I needed to hear because I definitely want people to feel convicted when I want them to then it turns into constant repeating myself and honestly I only feel worse for trying to make them feel how I feel in the moment
Yeah me too. The feeling worse is because you’re drinking your own position. It’s pride to want someone to suffer for doing you wrong. Think of yourself more highly than you should. I’m guilty of it. Holding grudges etc. the people usually don’t even care about you and how they hurt you etc.
Amen, I've been there done that last year. Wanted someone to hurt like I did, and then afterward felt really bad when I heard the hurt in his voice. Let it be on God's timing.
Priceless!!! You and your Dad remind me so much of the relationship and rapporrt I shared with my Daddy. He passed two months ago and this video bought back precious memories. Continue to trust the wisdom that he is imparting to you. You’re a beautiful intelligent young lady. Thank you for sharing. Missing my Daddy❤️🙏🏿.
Awesome video & message Learn to genuinely give Love to those who actually deserve it , You a Sanders girl Strong & Beautiful stay positive keep that head high ma ❤️
Wow reminds of conversations I’ve had with my daughter. Girls are different than boys and require more…Thanks 4 sharing, will most def help some father daughter relationship..
Girl, I am the oldest and it wasn't easy. I had to let go of Toxicity. It will kill you. Let go of the past and enjoy your Dad + family as they are today. Stip bitchiin and count your Blessings. I wish my Dad was alive, right now. Forgot about should of ...Stipy judging, I had to learn. You won't get the Right man until you get your heart Right. Peace can be a Gift.
Awww Deiondra. I feel like I'm looking in a mirror as I watch you respond. Actively listen to what your dad is saying. Don't listen to respond. Take time to receive and then meditate on what God is saying through your dad. Sending nothing but love and hugs to you.🥰
@@DeiondraSanders Happy Nu Year, young lady...as a 74 yr old grandma, watching erthing you post, from Bmore...want you to know that you are bringing the LIFE girl to your podcast....just love you so much & besides you are beautiful.
Hello, my Aries sister. I'm your parents age. I support you because of your energy and spirit. I heard you say you don't dress yourself, but you wear it well. I just lost my dad. He was also the "mean dad" turned cool as I aged. He raised us well along with friends and relatives. He taught us all. I'm also first born. I understand the bond. I always said "My Daddy". This video brought joy to my heart. Thank You.
I understand her feeling - and she has every right to express how she feels. I just wish some of her concerns were not dismissed in the way that it was. But, it’s all ❤
He wasn’t being dismissive to me just direct and to the point. He heard her and just told her what the issue was and didn’t do it in a pacifying round about way. He’s a man not a mom
