Cold approach in INDIA - is it even possible? 👳🏾‍♂️👸🏾 (+ infield examples)

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This video was created in 2016/17 - LONG before I started my RU-vid channel and confidence coaching company. Back then, I was planning to become a documentary filmmaker and traveling the world with my camera. But I was already interested in real-world social skills, since dating apps didn't work for me. And I thought it would be an interesting story to accompany an offline dating coach in India (arguably the most conservative place in the world, when it comes to love & romance). I couldn't find one, so for 3 days I turned into one myself. I quite liked that role.
If you are an Indian living abroad and want to find a partner on your own, sign up for my next online Master Class: www.indowesterndating.com/

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@peak_911 5 месяцев назад

More than the concept, i love how the video was recorded.

@6abhisekbackup9 5 месяцев назад

This has to be the best infield 'documentary' ever. It shows how men are so afraid to even talk to people. Love it man, I feel you will fill a gap in the dating sphere

@consciousconfidence 5 месяцев назад

thanks a lot! Much more to come to fill that gap :)

@Thepankaz1 4 месяца назад

As if women are giving Ted talk in public, we are all humans, women are equally afraid to do, it's just that women don't have to, but men have to do the talking because no one gives a f otherwise.

@keet428 9 дней назад

"Raj escaped and I never saw him again" died laughing to this one😂😂

@chakrabortypc 5 месяцев назад

it's a really cool documentary man , loved it

@thebabyoftechnology7115 5 месяцев назад

Raj escaped and I never saw him again😂 that's epic🎉

@sumanyadav-ey9oh 5 месяцев назад

yeah , I liked that part too. It was funny.

@gohan3kalab872 5 месяцев назад

Raj looked like creep when he was finding a girl to approach 😂

@shaifali9429 5 месяцев назад

Bro loved the video please carry on n upload more infield with these guys..love from Kolkata

@nitiz281 5 месяцев назад

wow! love this way documented, such rare type of content.

@danish2462 5 месяцев назад

From 6:10 really great advice amigo. This is how you shoud proceed in the dating marketplace. But remember that men face a lot of rejection in comparison to women in general. So detox yourself for a few months from social media or any such platforms when you need to take break. Because taking a break and maybe just travelling somewhere for a few days is really good for your mental health. Sadly nobody talks about this in our society.

@darkie_playz2868 5 месяцев назад

Amazing bro! Really love this video

@milan6782 3 месяца назад

17:25 - Thank you, I really just got a jolt of realisation and thinked about it for a second. This is the best line I've heard today and it's more than enough for me to log out and do what I need to do in life.

@sahil5496 5 месяцев назад

In india it works but people should be socially calibrated , the people need to work on pre approach and emotional engaging conversation and learn solid number close and instant date and play with rejection.The place where you went is best place for game in india there are tier 2 or tier 3 city but we still do it there 😅

@fizzlord078 5 месяцев назад

What do I need to do in pre approach? Also what is solid number close?

@DeveshSainiTheGreat 3 месяца назад

how do u do in tier 2 tier 3 cities?

@1Yunko 2 месяца назад

It gives vibe of 2016-2017 ngl

@ArthurMorgan24 5 месяцев назад

This video is underated man.what a documentary.this video just change my fucking perspective of my life

@AmitTiwari-sb3qy 6 месяцев назад

Hi Achill, I live in Kreuzberg, Berlin. That was a really nice experiment. I hope we will meet someday.

@consciousconfidence 5 месяцев назад

yea, let's make it happen .. join the upcoming online Master Class for Indians abroad (www.indowesterndating.com) or feel free to schedule a free call through offlinedating.com where we can find a way to connect & meet

@lordemo123 5 месяцев назад

Really impressive and entertaining video Achill. I actually joined a couple of your daygame sessions in Berlin a while back and during that phase I went out to approach girls many times on my own, leading to some amazing encounters. Funny enough, I ended up with a friend I already knew, and now she's my girlfriend! Thanks to guys like you who instilled the confidence in me to speak my truth and avoid the friend-zone trap. Huge thanks, keep it up and wishing you all the best! Cheers, Lourens

@consciousconfidence 5 месяцев назад

Amazing to hear that man!!!

@daksh_sheoran Месяц назад

Good work bro , when will you come nest time to india , love to meet you irl

@ravindrasinwar9477 Месяц назад

I rarely comments on videos....but had to do om this one....great video!!

@consciousconfidence Месяц назад

Thanks !! means a lot to me

@user-lj8rc8qd1g 6 месяцев назад

Legend ❤

@atharvapawaskar3155 5 месяцев назад

woo this is Gold

@sumanyadav-ey9oh 5 месяцев назад

Brother, I am from Nepal and I am living in the capital city of nepal which is Kathmandu but even though i dont have any female friends . I want to improve my social skills but i dont have that courage to go and talk to that attractive girl. Please help nepalese guys as well . Its not just the problem of indian guys but its the problem of everyone here in south asia. Among all other youtube videos , your is the best . Your filmmaking skills is on another level. I really liked it and i really can relate to it. Thank you so much for being there on youtube .

@achatterjee6531 4 месяца назад

Approach the Europeans who come in Kathmandu. Works

@Dudewhoboxes 4 месяца назад

@@achatterjee6531LET HIM COOK 🗣️💥🗣️💥🗣️🗣️💥🗣️💥💥💥🗣️🗣️

@arnabdas9220 Месяц назад

Pehle jindagi mein kuch ukharo phir milega sab

@MoritzWinter 6 месяцев назад

Incredible

@jobhimai4467 6 месяцев назад

Its really helpful its helpful in many ways you are really good coach not just girls I can't thank you enough:)

@agnesh677 5 месяцев назад

Impressive.

@surajmishra6900 12 дней назад

Physically speaking, you could pass for a North Indian!

@socialsofshyam7 6 месяцев назад

Do one in chennai, south indian is more difficult

@theanonymouse05 6 месяцев назад

no cap, south is difficult

@nishayandebnath 5 месяцев назад

@@theanonymouse05 Can you pls explain why ?

@chetanpandey5044 5 месяцев назад

Yep, mumbai is much more open

@Vipined 6 месяцев назад

I saw a reel of yours but if this video is 7 years old and u have posted it now why

@consciousconfidence 6 месяцев назад

It wasn't originally intended for RU-vid, but rather as a documentary film to be shown at a film festival... my filmmaker career never happened, though, so I decided to re-publish it here on my channel

@smart-g-one 3 месяца назад

@@consciousconfidencebut the video is full of goodness

@user-ep7ul7dk6c 4 месяца назад

bro this loved this documetry them please stick to this theam

@1Yunko 2 месяца назад

W bro

@divy3993 4 месяца назад

All good, but I really hate and am irritated by them using the word chick. It just shows your mindset for what you want in the end, I am not saying you are trying to find your soulmate but...

@consciousconfidence 3 месяца назад

Yea, it's an immature use of language .. forgivable I think, considering that these guys were around 18-20 years old

@user-xn2hu3so2j 12 дней назад

That's how I have girls in 30+ countries

@samuelmathew3179 4 месяца назад

22:59 Here after that trending reel 😂

@kerrybarnes2002 6 месяцев назад

2016-17 it could work! Now not so much! in India at aleast

@fabfest1294 5 месяцев назад

Wrong if u have that skills u can also get success

@kerrybarnes2002 5 месяцев назад

@@fabfest1294 ok. hope you are right. I said that because from 2011 to 2016-17 it was easy for me to connect with people men or women in a variety of contexts. be it simply making new friends or flirting. Flirting, my style is very forward but I try not to be cheap. But post-2017, the same mannerisms and approach which earlier people seemed to find whacky and unique now started to put them off! That's what gave me this impression! People are after all influenced by trends! What was cool earlier is now old! passe! etc! But if you're right then great!

@fabfest1294 5 месяцев назад

@@kerrybarnes2002 be simple it can fit every wher Try again with new skills U will still find there are more chance in big city I'm from small town but still trying my best it's not about getting girls num but it can improve communication skills improve confidence that's what I wanted in my self my journey is started just few days ago but I will also try whenever I visit big city

@exoticindiaa 5 месяцев назад

@@kerrybarnes2002Exactly, it’s quite difficult to pull a Post 2000 born girl. They have different mannerism and skills

@dwight.kschrute2936 5 месяцев назад

Now , its even easier because today's girls are much into westernization .

@Optimistic_mind441 5 месяцев назад

Your skin color is light to only Mumbaikars. In North, where I live, there are plenty of light skinned, even more than you.

@user-cs8kz6tw6x 5 месяцев назад

Bro does cold approach still works in india please answer my question By the way luv from pune❤

@consciousconfidence 5 месяцев назад

It works everywhere and always will .. most people are just too lazy to learn it

@user-cs8kz6tw6x 5 месяцев назад

Thaks for the reply❤

@sumanyadav-ey9oh 5 месяцев назад

Do you think it will work in kathmandu,nepal?@@consciousconfidence

@consciousconfidence 4 месяца назад

@@sumanyadav-ey9oh talking to and attracting humans works wherever there are human beings who procreate :)

@AryanKumar-jo1pz 5 месяцев назад

The amount of pauses between words and the editing and music is so slow paced that I scrolled down to see the upload date LOL Decent video but I skipped through most of it

@AryanKumar-jo1pz 5 месяцев назад

12:09 LMFAO 😭the music makes it so much funnier!!

@avinashnair8433 5 месяцев назад

The only thing is in this video, you should refer to the term girl or woman instead of referring to the term chicks 😌

@consciousconfidence 5 месяцев назад

agreed. i'm sure my clients here have matured in that way by now..

@VirajShevare 18 дней назад

Brother 🫡🫡🫡🫡❤❤

@user-wu5bm5tn9t 24 дня назад

U didn't put any approach here

@ronitrajput3934 6 месяцев назад

As an Indian I would never date a girl who gives her contact to me on my first day first instant of communication. Its not about some thing like a girl who gives her number she is easy or something like that. But there is a common courtesy that you don't invade lives of people you don't know anything about. Until there is a reason or place to build an understanding. I have the guts and the looks to communicate with anybody anywhere (not pull of hot chicks, thats hell of a disgusting idea. but to communicate my point through). and I really don't understand how can you look across the street and just decide, Oh this girl looks interesting thats just tinder IRL without its filter.

@MrBlackjack456 6 месяцев назад

Simply say you shit your pants approaching a girl.

@prashanttripathi2395 6 месяцев назад

@@MrBlackjack456lol ture!

@nikethac 5 месяцев назад

If there was a reason and a place to meet people that I am interested in, then you are right, that's the right way to go about it because you take the time to get to know the person and they don't feel creeped out or anything. But what if that person is committed? All the effort you put in is gone to waste. And the sheer probability of being in the right place at the right time, that is, to have a reason to meet the person that I am interested in, how many are actually lucky enough to be in that situation? Very few. So in my opinion cold approach is the best way there is. But there is also the risk that you don't know the person but it's just like anything, you get to know the person and then you decide whether to keep it going or not or are you satisfied with it. You are in the drivers seat. And just because a person dresses a certain way or has insane looks or because they give you their number doesn't necessarily translate to them being a low quality woman, period.

@creepybucket8738 5 месяцев назад

do you really think they would give you their number? lol youre delusional

@ahmedabdulazeem1309 20 дней назад

bro this wouldnt work in delhi

@datteshpradeepnaik1468 5 месяцев назад

Name of this place shown in video

@consciousconfidence 5 месяцев назад

infiniti mall, Malad

@darkie_playz2868 5 месяцев назад

Why are you uploading it now??

@consciousconfidence 4 месяца назад

It wasn't originally intended for RU-vid, but rather as a documentary film to be shown at film festivals... my filmmaker career never happened, though, so I decided to re-publish it here on my channel :)

@ArjunArya05 4 месяца назад

Bro does height matters? I am 5ft4.

@daksh_sheoran Месяц назад

Even if it matters what you gonna do about it , fuck it and just be yourself

@user-sg9uq5is8h 5 месяцев назад

where are you rn?

@consciousconfidence 5 месяцев назад

Berlin!

@user-wu5bm5tn9t 24 дня назад

Bro t won't works for every girl..u guys don't have conversation..

@ashwinpawar5325 Месяц назад

18:34 u approached a girl who had a bf with her. You jus didn't see him. 😂

@aghaydn 5 месяцев назад

What a wannabe dating coach. These days any guy no matter if he has skills or not is becoming a " Dating coach" as there is no barrier to entry in this field.