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@vasseurbeauty 27 дней назад

@patbenedict6966 27 дней назад

2, 10:03 a book stop thinking start living helped me a lot .pat

@Techmkbh 27 дней назад

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@queenoflasvegas 27 дней назад

Keeping you in my prayers, sorry for your divorce.

@GotItAtGoodwill 27 дней назад

Option 2.

@StephanieBogart 27 дней назад

Option 1. Location is a big deal.

@cindyvw 27 дней назад

It's not falling apart. It's falling into place

@vasseurbeauty 27 дней назад

LOVE THIS!!!!

@andreabaena5598 27 дней назад

It's from a Christian song. Jesus is calling. Will you answer?

@snudder.s.m.l.5026 27 дней назад

Perfekt said.. I love 🌹🥰

@cindyvw 27 дней назад

@andreabaena5598 yes! So glad Brittany has us prayer sisters in support of her.

@SusieQZee 27 дней назад

@@vasseurbeautyBrittany, please check out North Coast church. They have singles ministries. Helped me so much in my past. I was in a similar situation as you about 7 years ago. Jesus changes your life. ❤

@Vegas052209 27 дней назад

Ryan, I know you are watching. Get your sh!t together and let your children stay in their childhood home. Be a man and let your kids stay. Stop being so mean and think of your children and their future! Man up!!!

@Blahlalovely 23 дня назад

I agreeeeeee!!!!

@wakeupstylellc 22 дня назад

Amen

@theresiatull2928 21 день назад

Whilst I agree such people do not like to be told. So seeing such comments can fuel his unjust behaviour even more as they often want to rebel and do the total opposite what’s good and beneficial for everyone. He clearly doesn’t care about his kids if he’s taking them out of a big house with a pool in a nice neighbourhood and makes Brittany having to consider apartment buildings which can be more risky for little kids and a single woman.

@nicolecargo9455 13 дней назад

Agree!

@OlgaSmirnova1 День назад

😂 you have some balls! That’s his house and he should take it and his children too!

@dianedoskoch9650 27 дней назад

Because you are a homebody, I vote for apt number 2. You even sound happier in there while filming. Don't worry about the location. It's not forever. The shift in your mind set from the view will speed up your healing.

@777nms 21 день назад

This!!! I agree!!!

@cdeuell86 27 дней назад

If your plan is to rent for 1-2 years, then I would go with option 2 because it made you happy. When you're ready to purchase your next house, then focus more on location. That's what I would do.

@JesseObed 26 дней назад

Good tip!

@Nuttinell 27 дней назад

People thought I was nuts leaving a newly built house when me and my ex husband split but at the end of the day - it’s just a living space. A house filled with anxiety over not being able to afford it and what not is not worth it, life and peace of mind are on the other hand! ❤

@dianebaker5243 27 дней назад

👍💯

@Annie-dt8jb 27 дней назад

to a new beginning and a fresh start without any bad memories!!!

@Kc-dq7zj 27 дней назад

Yep!! You're absolutely right!

@Joley964 27 дней назад

Yes,me too ! I have decided that I would rather leave my lovely house than put up with any more of his abuse. He can have it .I will have peace and my family around me.That’s worth much more than a building.

@soniabisschoff746 27 дней назад

Option 1. Location counts

@laureninthesky 27 дней назад

Girl, Option 2 - you literally sounded like a different person when talking about how happy the light made you. I also personally like the space better. I can understand hesitancy about location, but what about the location concerns you? You’re able to work from home so would it be the proximity to schools? Grocery stores? Shopping and nightlife? Ask yourself how many days you would be driving and how far. The space is so beautiful I want to see you in it lol.

@IVvOOvVI 27 дней назад

Nothing option number one because that place has like two it’s not like it’s dark. Number two you have to go to sunblock a lot because too much light can actually affect your skin as well and sometimes too much light will affect your sleep.

@pasta_girl 26 дней назад

Agreeee!!!

@pasta_girl 26 дней назад

@@IVvOOvVI it’s funny because I immediately thought about how I would need to wear a lot of sunblock moving into a place like that. Lol, but I don’t know at the end of the day. You can always draw the shades down if you don’t wanna deal with that. It still looks gorgeous with all the white furniture.

@LoriVasconcellos 24 дня назад

Agreed. Option 2,but we don't know the actual issue with the location for her daily life, so... Idk

@mrs.alimouse 27 дней назад

One tip I can give you about apartments is to read the reviews on them. Does maintenance come that day if something is broken? Do they like to give a lot of fines for trivial things? Are the people happy there? Reviews can say a lot. Hoping for the best possible outcome though! I am really rooting for you Brittany!! ❤

@irasemaromero3624 26 дней назад

I agree with this! Also the mail room situation, that used to drive me nuts when I rented. My mail/packages would go to a mail rooms that were very very poorly managed and they lost so many of my packages 🙃

@Hummingbirds2023 25 дней назад

Great advice! Always read the reviews. Property Owners always show the shining penny, but tenants tell how it really is..

@tinkerbell2939 23 дня назад

Fines? I never heard of those.

@mrs.alimouse 23 дня назад

@@tinkerbell2939 There are lots of different reasons that certain apartments give out fines. For example the one in Florida would fine you if you didn't clean up after your dog. They did a DNA test of our dog before we signed paperwork so that they would know who didn't pick up after their dog. This didn't stop people though. There were also fines at every apartment I've lived in that you couldn't have a trash bag on your door step for over 24 hours. Each day was a fine. I'm sure there was more but I can't remember right now.

@tinkerbell2939 23 дня назад

@@mrs.alimouse wow

@lauram4124 27 дней назад

Don’t worry, you don’t want any of the memory with him anyway, so moving and making yours and the kids own space is the best option!

@MyThomas16 27 дней назад

Agree 100% … best to start a fresh chapter😀

@kimfallen7282 18 дней назад

That's what I said on the last vlog. It's sad that this didn't end up being their forever house. But now she can live in a house completely free of his existence. I wouldn't even allow him in the driveway for child exchanges.

@alisummers7984 27 дней назад

I got divorced last year- and I couldn’t afford to buy my ex out so he bought me out of house- I moved into an apartment for 6 months to regroup and see what I wanted to do- I ended up buying a beautiful 4 yr old townhome- I love it and my life is finally settling down- and yours will to sweetie! My Kids are all adults and on their own- but divorce is still hard no matter - I’m now dating a wonderful man who treats me better than my ex ever did ❤ you will come out on top of this Brittany!!

@VC-jb8mc 27 дней назад

🥰

@vasseurbeauty 27 дней назад

this gives me hope!!! I'm just sad to leave bc my dad lives down the street but I know it will work out

@alisummers7984 27 дней назад

@@vasseurbeauty i understand completely- I felt my world was upside down- but I promise each day- gets better- keep telling yourself - I got thru today- one more day till I am over this nightmare ❤️ and your sun will shine brightly again-

@vasseurbeauty 27 дней назад

😭

@K9buddy 27 дней назад

Just based on the feel of the apartment, I like number 2. But not sure what makes one location better than the other or what’s wrong with the #2 location.

@Lumi-oz6nd 27 дней назад

Option #2 is my dream house, choose # 2.

@tamaramartin4015 27 дней назад

My thoughts exactly 🥰

@IVvOOvVI 27 дней назад

Choose number one

@tamaramartin4015 27 дней назад

@@IVvOOvVI The main bedroom suite is gorgeous in the first one.

@AMontaque-zd9uy 27 дней назад

Option # 2 Hands down. There is no comparison! The light, the sky, the bathrooms.

@staceymorgan5715 25 дней назад

I agree, number two was amazing! All that light made it seem so much bigger and a happier place to be. The kids will love the views!

@GraceandLaceJournals 27 дней назад

When you don't know what to do, Jesus Christ, the son of GOD, will guide you! Just pray and ask Jesus what to do. He will show you the way!! Jesus will always guide you in the right way. Blessings to you sweet Brittany ✨️🙏🌷😊💕🥰❤️

@Dana2419 27 дней назад

Option 2..... Please make yourself happy and heal yourself. Then your kids will be happier when you are happier. You don't plan on staying there long, and the kids will be fine for 1 year or so there.

@annlavine3576 27 дней назад

Be sure that they allow cats

@annlavine3576 27 дней назад

House 2 if cats are allowed

@vbetta8979 27 дней назад

I like #2 because all that sunlight will be good for her mentally. But #1 is VERY nice as well.

@wendyreynolds6959 26 дней назад

Love them both. I would take the one that is closest to your support groups (family). They both seem to be high up. Do you worry about your children and the balconies?

@DeplorableJaredBrodersen 26 дней назад

House #2 for sure. You'll need that good lighting for recording and to better your mood.

@BallroomJenni 27 дней назад

I just keep thinking about how you are trying to stay so positive and it makes me think of japanese kintsugi where a bowl is broken but repaired with gold to become more beautiful.

@ThaniaAbigail 26 дней назад

This is beautiful 😢

@Evelyn-minoux 24 дня назад

Omg yes 💗

@hurley1191 25 дней назад

After watching you for years, option 2 seemed like it sung to your soul more. The views and lighting were amazing. It felt more you with the style. But ultimately, go with your gut! Wishing you all the best ❤

@lisaaustin4561 26 дней назад

#2!! The bedrooms aren’t right off the living room giving the illusion of larger. The architect on 2 was stellar. He really did a great job of creating the illusion of large. The bedrooms in #1 are right off the living room. Think about that?! Your life will be one of constantly tidying up or close the bedroom doors, making the remaining space look really small.

@jgheart3018 27 дней назад

You've got this kiddo! You need to consider all of that outdoor space in each complex as part of the "square footage" available to you & your kids. You may also want to go back on a weekend to revisit both sites while there is more family time visible to see how many actual families with kids at similar ages as yours live there. That sense of community interaction will do a lot to broaden their new life changes as this is how you WILL make your lives' better 😁

@vasseurbeauty 27 дней назад

GREAT ADVICE yes I need to also get a sense for how loud it is ...I'm spoiled with a quiet neighborhood

@jlina 27 дней назад

@@vasseurbeauty as a former apartment manager for 30 years go at 2:00 in the morning on a Saturday night!! Also check out all the vehicles in the parking lot

@karenchristopher122 27 дней назад

I love option 2. The layout seems more spacious. However, if location is important, then option 1 is still beautiful.

@jg1551 27 дней назад

Option #1. More space for your kids. I still can't believe that the father of your children is putting you through this. I'm proud of how you are handling this situation..I have you in my prayers ❤.

@SammiPandi 25 дней назад

I love option 2. Sunlight gives me so much serotonin, so all that light would be amazing when I am going through a harder season of life.

@Mamabear788 27 дней назад

Option 1! If it’s in a better area, that’s super important with children!

@lauraclark92 27 дней назад

I think negative thoughts and feelings have their place. The key is to not dwell there too long ... but it's healthy and healing to allow yourself to be sad/hurt/angry and think and feel everything that is associated with those thoughts and feelings. That's how you grow and ultimately get stronger. Though it's not pleasant, constantly denying it, pushing it away... not allowing it isn't healthy or productive... it keeps coming up for a reason! But do limit the dark clouds... it's not healthy to wallow in all the dark stuff for days on end either, you need balance, you need both, the sunshine and rainbows 🌈 but also the darkness. ❤ This approach will chase the dark clouds away the most effective and efficient way possible because you are allowing it instead of constantly denying it, it's not going to just magically disappear until you face it and deal with it.

@dawnbluedavis2315 25 дней назад

Area is everything!

@aliluck3903 24 дня назад

I like the view but would likely want more privacy. But both properties were very similar.

@melannyz 27 дней назад

I got divorced after the pandemic. I was crushed, but I finally realized that I was with a liar narcissist and I was trapped in a toxic cycle. I was not only putting myself through pain, but I was also affecting people around me. Mental health is very important and sometimes is hard to break a cycle. I was able to rebuild myself and bought my own home at 27, focused on my career and my health. After 4 years of being single I met a wonderful man who treats me like a queen and loves my parents as much as I do. We got engaged after only being dating him for 3 months. We have a beautiful baby boy and im living my best life with him. You will get through this and you will find peace and happiness in your life. Im glad you are changing your moto and thinking about the positives. Just remember we are all here for you and we are sending lots of positive thoughts your way! 😘😘

@melannyz 27 дней назад

Option 2 is my favorite, looks spacious, airy and bright! 😊 regardless of which one you choose I hope it brings you the peace you need! 🙏🏼

@debby42162 26 дней назад

I like Apartment #1 because while you're cooking, you can see what the kids are doing while they're in the living room. It just looks more kid friendly to me. I think you're doing great!

@Hannah-nm9nr 27 дней назад

Love option 2 unit, but from my experience, i'll always choose a house based on location.

@user-mr3wx3uu6c 27 дней назад

This!!! Location and safety is so important especially with kids.💛

@Supra_Na96 27 дней назад

Had to pause the video on option 2. Listening to you talk about option 1 and then I paused at *6:13* because not sure if you realized but immediately everything you said was a positive, uplifting, calm, happy feeling regarding telling us about option 2. And I love it!! (The apartment and hearing the smile while you talk about beginning a new journey). Ok continuing the video :)

@keke8880 27 дней назад

I noticed that too! She seemed much happier with #2

@vickigage2949 26 дней назад

Option 2 speaks to her soul. That's where inner healing happens in a happy space

@MGSpecial2023 27 дней назад

You sound so much happier talking about option 2. That will impact your kids as well. It's so much Brighter and à more open feel.

@cindikiser8282 27 дней назад

I like number one. Kids don't need a big place, they will think of a move as an adventure. My 2 were happier with less stress and a new room they could help decorate. Continue the positive and taking control, in the end you will be super proud of yourself and will appreciate all you have learned. Hugs

@IVvOOvVI 27 дней назад

Thank you doodle common areas that they can play in. We can take them out and just explore this space but still have Atticus base is better for your mental health because that means less cleaning.

@SophieMia806 27 дней назад

#1 was pretty, but it seemed too narrow and dark to me. #2 was more open, bright, and felt more relaxing to me. Plus, the view looked amazing from what I could tell.

@sonja437 27 дней назад

I love option 2. All that light and space that can be visually scene through the windows, I believe would contribute to positive energy.

@GraceandLaceJournals 27 дней назад

GOD has a better plan for you Brittany! I will be praying for you to stay strong and be happy!! Love you sweetie 💖✨️🥰💗

@christineg6123 27 дней назад

As someone that lives in an apartment I'm so excited for you to move and start decorating exactly how you want!!!! No compromising. Make it as girlie and cute as you want 😊

@vasseurbeauty 27 дней назад

yesssss

@MissAmyTV 27 дней назад

My favorite thing about leaving my ex fiancé was getting PINK DECOR without judgement 🩷🩷🩷

@meximom2870 27 дней назад

Option #2 is amazing but you are soooo right about location. You’re a mom and you know where the kiddos are safer. ❤ keep your head up momma ❤❤

@glendasully 24 дня назад

I think you should do everything possible to stay in your home. It'll be stressful & expensive initially, but worth it in a few years. Moving in addition to a divorce are 2 major life stressors. Try to avoid moving. Keep making videos & getting sponsors to increase your income & buy him out. The children need the comfort of their home & especially the bedrooms they've known since birth. I'm 72 yrs old, divorced when my kids were little & moved so many times. I now know that I should have stayed in their childhood home.

@ArtworkofBeauty 5 дней назад

Option 1 for sure! If it’s temporary, go with the less nice but better location apartment 100%!! Location is everything.

@tenntea2910 27 дней назад

Apartment 2 just gave me good vibes. Love all the light and the view!

@vasseurbeauty 27 дней назад

I know now looking back I'm leaning towards that one. Sun and light makes me happy

@pinkypromise111 27 дней назад

@@vasseurbeautyCheaper electric bill also not having to put lights on all day with all that natural light coming in !

@Llorali 27 дней назад

But higher energy bill with all the sunlight. I love it though, and would pick that one for sure, for myself. I live for light. But we don’t know the details on location preference, and also - the fingerprints with your two little ones. It WILL drive you crazy, I can almost guarantee it. Especially with the place being as small as it is, and no way for you or the kids to get away from it.

@roxanne3047 27 дней назад

It’s 100% big enough for them. But being in a higher floor with small kids would drive downstairs neighbors crazy

@donnamullins2089 27 дней назад

Please stay positive. It all comes back around. #1 location. If it is close to your parents or school Win Win. It is just somewhere to lay your head. I would be outdoors with my children. That's where the fun is. Love the sweet gift.

@lesliesaperstone172 27 дней назад

Option One. It's gorgeous. The outside is beautiful. Location IS very important.

@jmarie419 27 дней назад

Option 1 is more cozy and probably more comfortable for your kids

@CarolynWeislogel-wd5il 27 дней назад

Personally, I love Option #1. Option #2 was beautiful but floorplan was split up more - not as open. Beautiful, light-filled place, but all the windows with children (fingerprints) would personally drive me crazy. Good luck!! Praying things will level out for you in 2024.

@sammij 22 дня назад

No. 2 is stunning. If you’re going to be alone for some days this place will lift your spirits!

@Makeupry 27 дней назад

If option #2 brings you to a happy place, then I would say that this should be your choice. Location is important, but as someone who chose a condo based on location, I regret it. There was another home I ended up passing on because of location despite it being the perfect vibe and layout. Having an ambient space will really help your mental health, especially since you work from home. ❤

@lalasings1 27 дней назад

I love number two better but if you really need to be in a better area or closer to a school then make that choice. All the windows and the light is really lovely in number two.

@sweetkaroline22 27 дней назад

I feel like based on what you said about location, I would pick number one. The second one was beautiful, but you can’t “fix” location issues. You can decorate and make any apartment your own and kids don’t care about the amount of space, they are usually pretty resilient. Schools, safety, access to other places like grocery stores, that’s what matters, in my opinion. Hoping for the best outcome for you and your kids! 🙂🫶🏻

@tpayne0318 17 дней назад

Option 2. You were happier there.

@jennynsumit2547 27 дней назад

Option #2 is my dream house, choose # 2

@vasseurbeauty 27 дней назад

the bright light made me happy

@saracopeland6593 27 дней назад

Option 1 would be less scary to the kids because it’s more cozy and small. Perfect place to allow them to adjust to the change. Option 2 is BEAUTIFUL too but maybe when they’re a little older and already use to the separation.

@noorarahimi1498 24 дня назад

I believe as long as it’s a rented place you can change your place anytime you want but for your kids I think option 1 is a better environment for them from safety and entertainment. Wish everything goes well for you and your kids

@user-xm6rj8rg3o 26 дней назад

My advice is to rent a townhouse if you can. Apartment living is tough with 2 kids & their stuff. WE forget about the little things like bringing in groceries, keeping them quiet and to not run around. It drove me nuts for 2 years. I’m glad we made it out. It’s great for singles, but tough on families.

@stephanieramirez6888 27 дней назад

I love how bright the second option is. It’s absolutely breathtaking. I like all the amenities of the first one. Sooo, I would go with the one that is safest for you and the littles.

@JessicaMillerNashville 27 дней назад

Brittany, your positive attitude is amazing! We should all be thinking that way! Thank you for being open and transparent with your viewers. It's refreshing to see!

@LeanneDickeyThibodeau 18 дней назад

I loved your advice on how we can “feel our feelings , but then we can choose which way our thoughts go.” That was very helpful to me. We found out some health news about my child that wasn’t great. I’ve been having a hard time wrapping my mind around it , but I felt like the advice you shared really will help me. Loved your video! Can’t wait to see which apartment you choose if that is the path taken.

@kimroddy943 17 дней назад

Option 2 for sure. The vibe screams you

@pikapika7654 27 дней назад

I want you and the kids to keep the house. Buy him out!! I know it will be a large amount. However, you will get to keep what's yours. I believe you can. I know your success will continue to grow even bigger!! 😇👩‍👧‍👦

@carolinebrown8965 27 дней назад

A great affirmation : My point of power is in the present moment ! ......it helps anxiety

@spfisterer3651 24 дня назад

Loved the light n views in apt 2 but that's it. Apt 1 looked a lot better to me, esp the layout.

@prettyandpetiteover50 25 дней назад

Option 2. It’s a rental. Enjoy your space. The first one was a standard apartment. The second one is gorgeous. It’s a community. It’s not like your kids are going a block down to play. 2nd one for sure.

@SLP4Life56 27 дней назад

I have a tattoo that says "C'est la vie" to remind me that life brings many challenges, some more than others. It always helps me put things into perspective.

@alyshal9853 27 дней назад

Option 1. Location is a huge benefit especially if it saves time in your day (commuting, etc.) The kids won't mind less space (plus less to clean! :)

@laurasutton8230 27 дней назад

Option 2 - you felt happy there!

@julieweismann6232 26 дней назад

I liked them both but #2 seemed more like ‘you’, and I love the more casual look of those beachy waves!!

@just_eat_kid9462 27 дней назад

2 house. Please take your time to heal! Life is not a sprint, is a maraton. You will find joy and love again, prohabs not as you thing in the moment. You will smile again and feel the sun warming your face. You will think about this situation as a short, hart time that you manage with grace in you life. you will have a great life! Don't worry it will be as I said, you will see! ❤❤❤

@anadevera2905 27 дней назад

I like option 1 if accessibility and location is better. Everything will be better... Everything will fall into place, Brittany ❤

@bobchevallier8456 4 дня назад

Number 2 makes you happy whatever makes you happy

@nicolewilson4718 17 дней назад

2 - loving the sunlight windows

@368chen 27 дней назад

I like the fengshui of option 1. Love all the light of option 2, but not all the angular features. Also, option 1 with the crazy amenities, even more than one can ask for.

@pasta_girl 26 дней назад

Option 2️⃣🤍🤍 !! As someone else already noted, you just sounded way more excited as an initial gut reaction. I think it’s gorgeous, especially with all that natural light and white furniture but of course only you know your situation and how valuable the location is. I would give anything to be able to afford a place like that 🥲

@evmartini5750 27 дней назад

I’d go with location . But you can’t beat the views in option 2

@NFD3122 18 дней назад

As long as it’s not completely unsafe, number 2! Like everyone else has said, your voice says it all. Also, My mom taught me that in *most* situations, if I have nothing nice to say to not say anything at all, sooo I will refrain from leaving my thoughts on here about ‘him,’ which is honestly sort of difficult 😬… BUT , GIRLLL 💗, you are such a freaking rockstar. I can’t imagine all that you have gone through and are still going through, but thank you for being such an inspiration to all of us. You’re a real one, sis 😘 All good things! 🫶🏼

@lynnwales2937 25 дней назад

I like #1, but #2 seemed to make you really happy! The only barrier for me on location would be safety and schools. My kids are my first consideration :)

@maryalbert6138 27 дней назад

Brittany I would choose number one. The location is most important for your children. The apartment is lovely and the grounds are beautiful. You’ll have your house again in time. One step at a time. Blessing ❤

@justbeachy8821 27 дней назад

Hi Brittany, I’m a longtime follower here. You’re so strong and are such an inspiration through these difficult times. I’m so sorry for all you’re going through. Everything is going to work out for you as you have such a positive outlook. You’re paving the way for a beautiful future for you and your little angels. Happy to be part of your YT family. ❤

@YourNextStep1234 25 дней назад

Great reframes girl!!! Having faith that there IS light at the end of this tunnel is everything!! In 10yrs you'll look back and be SO HAPPY you escaped and being in the same house won't even matter. Which apt doesn't really matter much either since it will be temporary. Each day is one day closer to your BEST LIFE. We're all rooting for you!!!

@luluscrooge3891 25 дней назад

Option 1 is nice and I like that it's near ground level if that makes sense? But Option 2 is gorgeous and it's brighter and I think it would help with your overall mood since there's a lot of light, and the layout is also interesting. (I do hope that all goes well with your case and you get to keep the house without paying anything that big - I have watched you organize and amp the house up a lot of times in your vids, you built a family there, man, I just hope for the best for you. You deserve it!)

@girlymel2323 27 дней назад

I like number one and the location is what you want I would consider a huge cabinet along the hole wall where the TV is now to provide extra space for the kids toys and stuff on the bottom and other things on top since you’re downsizing from a full-size house, I would move the TV to the corner between the windows and the sofa with the back to the table

@JulieanaCorner 27 дней назад

I love option 1 ❤ keep your mantra, I loved it 😍

@hollychabaud6500 22 дня назад

Option 1 - seemed more spacious and in better area. You say you plan on spending more time outdoors so the light you love in Option 2 you’ll get plenty of

@heathercosner5864 24 дня назад

I would go with option two... unless its in a high crime area. A lot of things can be worked around for a year for that amount of space and light. Its STUNNING!

@hope3894 27 дней назад

Love option 2!

@LenaSandul 27 дней назад

Number 1 looks cozy and the facilities are amazing! Loved the skyline in 2 though

@JoyceMary89 26 дней назад

I would choose option 2 because you seemed much happier there, and I love natural lights and views. You only plan to be there one year, but even if things change, you would be in a place that makes you happy. Go woth thenpne that makes you happy, but also the one that allows cats.

@theshanny8 7 дней назад

I like the second one much brighter and positive vibes like the open light and glass and bathrooms are awesome

@cherylduncan5158 27 дней назад

Option 2 is gorgeous! But location is important

@klaire74 27 дней назад

Yes, falling in to a new place, not falling apart. And of course will not be perfect and good every day, but in the long run is better to have this approach, to switch the thought process. I love nr. 2, so much light, and yes, it seems bigger. Such a great view, open, indeed a good vibration. But is important what you want and need, what makes you content and happy, and how is better for your little ones. Stay strong!♥♥♥

@Clare-kz3cb 21 день назад

Wherever you live, you will make it amazing ❤

@beetleblooming 27 дней назад

One of my favorite quotes is by Wayne Dyer, “when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” Sounds like the approach you’ve taken. ☺️. Things may change as the divorce goes on and the way money is distributed/worked out could shift. Good luck!

@kendrathomas4584 27 дней назад

I really think both are beautiful and knowing you, you will make either space beautiful. I see what you mean about the second one having good vibes and being light and bright! But I think the first one with furniture was so warm and cozy. I don’t think you can go wrong and sometimes a fresh start helps with the healing process

@GenericAccountVLR 27 дней назад

Things will definitely work out. Transitions are super hard and can be confusing. But it will work out!

@Jane-ic4dg 18 дней назад

You kept saying yoy felt so happy in the second d one. That emotion of happy in your space can go a long way! 😃

@CarrieByTheBeach 27 дней назад

Apartment 2 for SURE! You even said it made you happy! If it’s a little bit outside your area, that’s okay! Those views are soooooo stunning!

@esteevfb 27 дней назад

Brittany, something I wish that someone made me do when I got divorced is buy an RV. With what I wasted on an apartment, I could have gotten an amazing gently used RV (so no depreciation) and still had it later. There are legit land yachts out there (and you won't realize how much like a house they are - especially ones with slides - until you see them), and the market looks super good right now. You could have a whole new set of adventures to vlog, and there is so much stuff to enjoy learning and doing with your hands (just know there is a learning curve and to not judge how much you will like living in an RV based on the first two weeks if you are feeling like some resource management or organizational tasks are more complicated - becomes second nature). If nothing else, go tour some RV's for vlogs at all different pricepoints!!! It could benefit a lot of your followers in different life circumstances, because not everyone will think of this. Most people think that they are trapped into renting. But with an RV, you can take the entire house to a state or national park for quality time with your kids - no packing (just shopping for s'mores - and they make vegan/vegetarian healthy marshmallows now). I am in an RV right now, and it's been pretty interesting so far! I just got back from spending quality time with a friend at a state park.

@ghoulgoil5029 27 дней назад

1 because of location but 2 is amazing.

@anwlaw 26 дней назад

Option 2 is much better. Looks more open space and with all the sun light you will feel happier

@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend 27 дней назад

Also, kids can be happy in any amount of space - but please do have a think about the cats. Particularly with balcony safety!

@irisdanagher 27 дней назад

Use the equity of the house to buy him out surely? Could your mum give you a loan she has a company right? So unfair that you need to move.

@vasseurbeauty 27 дней назад

also I would have to refinance at the current interest rate of 7% (I currently have a 2.8% rate) so it's just likely not going to be viable

@irisdanagher 27 дней назад

@@vasseurbeautyOK, hopefully it doesn't come to that. We are all supporting you Brittany ❤

@susanmolnar9606 27 дней назад

@@vasseurbeautyWelcome to the real world. Any divorced person will tell you this.

@kendrathomas4584 27 дней назад

Think of the apartment content!

@vasseurbeauty 27 дней назад

small space organization content !

@AWAKENIUM 27 дней назад

@@vasseurbeauty omg this brings me back to the old days of your channel!

@kendrathomas4584 27 дней назад

@@vasseurbeauty exactly! Or how to make a “temporary space” still feel like home without permanent things. Or to go with your “making my bedroom feel like a 5 star hotel” you could do “making my apartment feel like a 5 star resort”. The content is writing itself

@bijoux171 24 дня назад

Option 2 because that lighting!! 😍🥰

@jamibrooks6890 24 дня назад

2- You can commute to the good areas. You need bright and happy in your life. #2 is bright & happy. Seems look like a good kitchen to sip your coffee, admire the views & bask in your peace while enjoying the sunshine.