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It's annoying how any content having to do with Austin is focused on the downtown area. Downtown living is mostly reserved for students, techies, and people who get subsidized by their well off parents. A true Austin experience is sitting in traffic for a little over an hour to get back to your barely affordable place in Manchaca.
Connections made easy but forget to connect with people. People need to give each other a chance, build friendship and relationship. Dating is not only about sex as it can be a spiritual conections.
That's the problem, women won't give any man a chance if they're not experienced in the bedroom. Men in their 40's who don't have any experience are viewed as losers and failures by everyone else and when a girl does decide to give him a chance, everyone else is doing everything they can to undermine him.
I lived in Austin for a year in my late 20s and EVERYTHING THEY ARE SAYING IS TRUE!! The dating scene is impossible!!!! Flake city!!! But lots of fun lol
Colorful enough but not too colorful. In Portland, the weirdness is OK as long as people dont attack you with it. A little tech weirdness beats being made to feel like Brad and Janet in Rocky Horror Picture show.
@CreeceMarquis I used to hang out a lot in Austin when I lived in Nashville as a 20 something and I loved it thought about going there for grad school but ended up in Berkeley so I think it is sorta like what Berkeley was like before the entire SF Bay Area gotten taken over by Tech Bros.
I sincerely hope you explored more of Texas than just Austin. It’s pretty much a southern version of LA. It really feels deeply disconnected from the rest of Texas, and because of that, it bleeds into the dating scene in Austin. That’s not to say that I don’t love Austin or it isn’t apart of my state. It’s just an odd city and why the slogan is “keep Austin weird.” I think the dating problem doesn’t exist much outside of that city.
As a former resident in Southern Texas, the dating problems definitely exist outside of Austin. Lots of flaking, ghosting and people who either don't want anything serious or want to get married right away (hardly any middle ground). People are just more vocal about it in Austin.
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These young people are either trying hard or just plain ol' unreliable. Still children in their mind. Austin is just a huge playground for young adults.
It's really easy to talk to people in Austin, but most do not establish a long term connection. Even if you had a good time hanging out, it's not likely that you'll hang out again
As one of the people that was born here and mostly raised here, I agree with this video. No one knows how to connect whether it be because of distraction, or too many choices or nerves. You need a miracle to meet someone here and I don't that the amount of gay people here are more than Houston etc...I don't think anyone knows the specifics on that! Haha....but it's hard here for sure. Just got done talking to a girl that called it quits over me having a dog because "she's spontaneous and if she wants to do stuff she doesn't want my dog to hold me or her back." I responded I have roommates and we all help take care of each others dogs and nothing back. So if any girls tell you it's the guys that don't know how to commit or don't want to commit...that's not necessarily true because we are out there...they just don't know what they truly want or don't want to be honest with themselves about it. Also, the broken spoke is cool but all you do is dance there, I guess if you feel like waiting to be asked and then hoping you connect with that guy during the dance and get him to sit down and talk to you after is what you want then go for it but otherwise....there are other places with the same quality but more date friendly or meet people friendly environment.
If your response to being blown off about a dog is to argue that it’s not a problem, the problem isn’t the dog. She was letting you down gently. It’s not the dog, you’re just awkward.
The atmosphere is completely different in Texas. I went to Dallas, Texas a few months ago in April and I enjoyed it although it was for work related but I got to explore around the city on my downtime.
Austin isn't weird anymore. It's cringeworthy. Too many fake weird wannabes from California etc. That's why the dating "scene" is difficult for these shallow people to navigate. It's a mix of minority real and majority phony surface. Add in women can't make up their minds what they really want without being offended or hurt either way. Idiots. Real men won't touch them since #metoo
Nebula Jo where do you live? I live in east Texas and we definitely see it that way and call it that. As someone who temporarily lived in Plano (pretty much Dallas) and away from the city, you can objectively tell that Austin is weird compared to other large cities in Texas. It’s why Austin has such a high influx of people moving to Austin from LA.
Not much has changed in Austin since I was stationed in Texas in the mid 80's. If you want to meet someone that is commitment oriented then you have to go outside the city areas. There the people are much more down to earth and more conservative also. The major city areas are pretty much like any other major city area in the U.S.
I'm so used to being in awe at the scenery in your You Know You're Dating videos, so it feels so weird recognizing the places in this video (my dear hometown Austin ahh ❤)! Excellent video!
I live in Austin Texas and I noticed a lot of the stuff that is shown here is incorrect and I feel that this video is just hand-picking certain answers from people to give it a certain perception on the dating scene here. And if you want to meet someone and have a long-lasting relationship I don't think you'll meet them at the club or bar that usually just leads to one night stands, if you meet someone at the park the store in passing there's a higher chance of something being built on a more solid foundation then on a alcohol filled night looking for fling and not for something serious.
Peaky brain performance at it's best. Thanks for being rational man. I'm 16 and looking to move country to Austin, I heard it's more conservative so maybe I can actually have a relationship and quality of life. The second option being #1.
Four types of women in Austin, Texas 1. Drunken party girl 2. Career women in her mid to late 30's with biological clock ticking 3. I wish I was from Los Angeles wanabee "instagram model" 4. The 4-5% of balanced, healthy and feminine women we're all competing for
The advice I’ll give these women is to act like you like a guy. The reason a guy will ghost a women is due to her no giving him anything that lets him know she’s interested. She want him to do the work but he’s not willing to work unless he knows the work is worth it. So give dudes something to work with.
Ever since I moved to Austin, it’s been nothing but flings and friends with benefits. A lot of girls here don’t prefer a serious relationship unless you get lucky enough to find one outside of the night scene. It’s still rare at that. Church or a library setting seems to be the best chance lol.
This poor Canadian woman just hit the extreme difficulty setting when she visited Austin, Texas. You have to be at least a tier 10 to deal with Austin, especially downtown Austin.
Sounds like hookup culture ain’t workin out so well. Honestly, as bad as Austin is, it’s still an improvement compared to the Portland area. At least guys in Austin actually have the balls to talk to women and ask them out. If I had to guess I’d say that has something to do with the higher testosterone levels in Texas.
no, its because portland is a shithole leftist city. as soon as a man approaches a woman to ask for directions in portland, the green haired woman starts yelling „abuse, metoo, he wanted to rape me“
I grew up in austin but left when i was 18. Moved to houston. Spent time in va beach. Recently had to spend most of the last 4 months working in austin. Its become kinda a gross place with loads of homeless and drug addicts mixed in with regular people. Tent cities all over the place. Its a shell of what it was 20yrs ago. Just my opinion though. I prefer houston over dallas and austin.
@@Tate.TopG. I would think it would be better too and plus Houston has more poverty areas. Dating in poverty is always better then dating in suburban because nobody is really stuck up, people don’t have as much haha
Most true Austinites don't like transplants or the growth of Austin or both because in the pass years or so there been to many transplants to Austin that it has become less weird like the saying going "keep Austin weird" so a lot of Austinites have moved to San Marcos for example
Ya whoever is scrolling through the comments I hope you have a phenomenal day. Get ya bread and all the crumbs too lol 🤟🏾💯🔥. But this is the internet so lemme stop being positive aha
I agree with the last guy, dating is such a scam. Why even bother entrusting someone if they didn't take the time to earn your intimacy without being a friend? Just do things you love, have fun, and it will happen.
I've never been able to see the differences of people in the States. Like someone from California, New York etc. Everyone seems the same to me. But i can see a difference here. They're a lot different to everyone else. A bit more laid back.They don't seem so on edge haha
Advice for Texans, Don't let Austin take over and define your state. Living in Washington we let Seattle take over and now every time I tell someone im from Washington state, they assume im some liberal, Starbucks drinking soy boy. Its infuriating having 1 county run your whole state
I have one problem with both Texas videos (I mean the video itself). There was a talking bit (specially the street interviews) that I barely understand, so I turn up the volume, and then the music came and it was deafening. Please make the loudest and the softest volume closer to each other during the editing. Thank you.
I am from India and I have heard that especially in Austin, Texas people tend to have multiple partners which is little bit weird concept for me. I truly don't understand what makes a person so hollow from inside that it tries to squeeze out joy from the life of other person. What is the psychological or moral reasons for which people seeks physical relationship with multiple partners. May be my way thinking is wrong or may be it is not relevant as per American/ Western society
In the end most of the comments in the video come down to the familiar "Everyone's on Tinder and can't get focused on one person" thing which is actually common in most big cities. But isn't too much selection in a city a good thing, though? It's one of the key reasons why young people move away from the provincial towns and villages. I'd bet most of the people seen in this video would appreciate Austin more if they checked out provincial Texas...
Lots of women complaining in this video. They don't complain when the man spends his money on her. I've never met so many stay at home moms, girlfriends, and wives in Austin. It's like another career and women here are proud they're leeching off men's money
I have been to 36 states,Canada and i lived in Alaska for 8yrs but I’ve never been to Texas also was Austin more liberal or conservative? Just curious considering it is the south but is a big city
I realized something ...if people were to practice saving their virginity for marriage we would not see as many people in our population .. but we would also see more comitted relationships vs the culture we have now .. no one said dating is forbidden its just that what we are doing now is not working out . I see it like this if you have access or treat others as if sex is part of the initial dating process then thefe really isnt a major payoff and women obviously feel less valued ..
idk majority of people stop having sex after getting married, so if you remain a virgin until getting married, then you'll end up not ever having a sex life at all.
Men should start asking women out on proper dates, and not push for sex at the end of the night. Treat her like a lady, have some romance and respect. Most women would be thrilled.
Oh that’s so weird! I’ve met a guy from Austin he’s from Europe too but lives there and he’s absolutely incredible and totally opposite xD I guess you just have to find the right one?
If you are impressed and decide to move here from a liberal state like New York or California please open your mind and learn what we Texans are before you get all involved with liberal ideas Most of us are right of the isle for a reason it works in Texas
I live in a rural area in the mountains needles to say there aren’t many single women here except for the local town bar chicks that you know well let’s just say they aren’t dating material. if I saw all these women walking around ready to mingle I wouldn’t know what to do with myself…..
People or men and women only ghost if they don't find the victim attractive enough to keep longer than a better option that gives them an opportunity to trade up.
Girls here is a clue - we do not like short hair. Attitude. Fat or overweight. Tattoos. Non feminine. That rules out 80% of Austin girls. #Truth. And please FFS stop dressing like a dude.
