Completely valid reasons why men SHOULD reject a woman; with 3 examples 

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If you are looking for a long-lasting relationship communication is the key. If you don't have that, then all the other stuff doesn't matter.

❤read my post about #3 you would have been miserable with her

My man!

Hilarious story

They don’t care because it’s like a game to them.

@@richparise5753 if they had to deal with repercussions of false accusations, that shit would drop REAL fast

That woman is a terrible "comedian" I went to her IG to tell her. "Hoe Math" said her name.

I sadly couldn't agree more. I lost the count of how many women said "No" when I suggested to go to my place, to then receive a text message later in the night saying, "You should have been pushy". Sorry, "No" means No, and food in jail tastes horrible

People like this NEED TO BE "ON A LIST" ...

Not until they get equal consequences

#DizzleDizzle my bruh...

haha, good one.

If I’m not mistaken, someone looked into #3’s social media and supposedly she’s a comedian and her video was a skit. Not sure if it’s true, but shiddy none the less.

@@gwall1789 also not funny. Women like that and mixed messages endanger other women. I mean I have a concern about that too that if women like that are too prevalent and men can't trust clear communication then men could potentially cross a line and then a woman is hurt or something. I mean I doubt men will get violent or forceful but they could not pick up that this no really means no and make a woman feel unsafe and I wouldn't want that. I wager most men don't want that. We want to be wanted back and to receive enthusiastic consent and maybe a bit of hawk tuah as well. 🤣 But we want to be wanted back as much or even more than we want. You know? But yeah it's not funny and causes problems for all of us.

my wife told me she was a virgin,she lied thank god

@@dethray1000 Why are you glad that your wife lied to you about being a virgin?

@@purelightapologetics4930 i have no solutions for how you get all the knots out of your panties,sounds insufferable--i could say a lot about apologetics but won't...ugh

So, on those cut flowers. is it because they're going to die soon even if you put them in water. Because I'm the guy would have brought the hole plotted plant so she can enjoy the full life cycle of the plant. Because that's a memory she can fully savor.

@@mrt5187 Yep that was it exactly. So that's the kind of flowers I normally got her. They all eventually died, but she enjoyed them much longer.

not exactly, "no" means whatever the person using it wants it to mean, so sometimes it will mean no, sometimes it will mean yes, sometimes it will even mean maybe or even something else entirely, but the fact that you can't know out of the bat means that you either have to confront that person about that or just leave them be(without you, that is)

@@San-lh8us And that is what makes that kind of person so dangerous. The best thing is to leave them be; they cannot understand that they are sending mixed messages or full well know they are as part of some weird game.

@@gabem6863 the problem is that not always they are so upfront from the scratch, you often only discover what type of people they really are after a few months of seeing them every day

@@San-lh8us What's the point of language anymore if words mean whatever the speaker wants them to mean? We might as well be chirping like chimps.

@@devonm042690 i'm not saying that is how it should be, just explaining that that's how it is. I agree with you, if that happens then using human languages becomes kinda pointless

That and I would like to see the actual photos of her on her social media. I have a suspicion that it is far more than she is making it out to be.

Yes. I think Emily missed the real problem here. Not the lack of attraction, but the deception.

Story Two: The woman is not un-attractive. No, not for me, I'm not attracted to her, she's not my type, but she is attractive. I agree, It is the Deception, it is the Lie, because that's exactly what makeup is and what filters definitely are. Using filters and/or makeup, are you showing to the world that you're one thing, and then in reality are something Completely Different.

@@pendraggon4080 I think it depends on how heavy the makeup is. If it makes you look like a totally different person, than it is a lie. If you look basically the same without makeup, then it is alright. The filters do far more than the makeup especially if they are in constant use. You can tell how high maintenance and conceited a woman is by the makeup and usage of filters that they use though. If every image has a filter on it, they are quite vain. I dated a woman that did the filter thing and everything went great until a friend introduced her to a more attractive guy and she immediately dropped me. This is the issue. If they are that worried about looks, you might not measure up to the next guy. They are also attention hounds.

​@@pendraggon4080 She's not attractive...

"psycho". Boom, you hit the nail on the head. I don't mean the "stab you in the shower" psycho from films but the genuine medical definition of someone that doesn't have empathy for others. She doesn't see that guy as a person who has feelings and opinions and respect. She just sees him as a tool to affect her own mood and idea of self worth.

Women like to be degraded and dominated. If more boys knew this, they could become men faster. PS: Not in a hostile way.

​@@alexhanson6577It's scary to think about when you lay it all out like that LOL but you're spot on.

God, I am so glad that i am not a young guy in this current environment. It was always similar but social media has made women Even more narcissistic or insecure

She also maybe wanted an excuse to say he graped her, so she would have dirt on him and the ability to bring up charges later in life. I've seen that happen twice.

Fact is you could be charged for not doing anything. When the girl really wants you to, but, says no it really pisses them off if you don't go for it. It's not uncommon for girls to file s/a or rape for that reason.

Narcissism is highly toxis and her being that way can put you in jail.

That rules out most women, considering they have sky high vanity and rock bottom honesty.

@@Thor-Orion Correct. Be very selective.

​@@Thor-Orionwelcome to modern feminist society, they've been told since birth how amazing and special and better than everyone else they are, hard not to get an ego when everyone's telling you you're the best thing ever

73 here, widowed in 1991 (wife drowned in A pool.) I was not there. I Loved her soo much. In A wheelchair now, but financilly secure, & i'm with you on your points

So a good woman like me is robbed of meeting a truly good man. Feminists and idiot women who don't appreciate men are my worst enemy. I am 62, stable, happy, and looking for a good man. Not to be found. I'll probably die alone because all men will put me in the same basket as these selfish vacuous women.

@@GumbyPW So sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you went through.

LOL! I'm 67. I was married to my ex for 30 years. I did everything I could to make it work, but, for her it was a marriage of convenience. Always had been, always would be. It's been 21 months since I divorced her and my best friend keeps pushing me to get out and start dating. He just doesn't get it. I'm fine. I get to sit around playing video games, I go out to eat or a movie when I want to, hell, I actually have money in my account now. I wouldn't mind hooking up now and then, but I have no intention of getting into another relationship any time soon. I like my new found freedom!

I can very mush relate

She could of got that from the get go. But nope, gotta go for the gold, gotta get in there real deep and then try to pull the shenanigans, good thing it back fired. Now she can get the full resentment for herself for doing something real dumb.

Lol or the next day they say you could have had me last night. Get ..the F out... Best words said ever

Yes, ugg !

I ran into this type back when I was 19. I drove truck and had an over night stay on this run, asked type 3 if she wanted to ride along. She said fine but I'm not sleeping with you... "fine, no problem". Next morning she was all pissed off. Come to find out that she was pissed because I didn't try anything.... Made for a LONG QUIET RIDE back home when the delivery was over with.

The push and pull right away (accusation forcing you into the "playful" yet self-deceptive Defensive stance) is not deceptive. It's abusive. It is a pattern and people should (and she probably does) say what they mean and mean what they say == honesty. THAT is what she has in her mind. Like Emily said, it is due to trauma and SHE brought it in the relationships. Once again: That is abusive.. not playful nor pleasant. She perceives it as such because she is chaos. A toddler whose never had a Dad. His response was clean and it's distressing to see how a simple compliment is turned down just cuz her mind is so sh_t. Men dont get compliments so get lost _du m bo.

From time to time, my wife wakes up and looks like a dump truck, but that's okay to me. She's all mine. I don't even want to imagine what she sees when I get up. I avoid looking in the mirror when I head to the bathroom, so I'm just thankful she'll even want to be SEEN with me.

why are you here? lol

@@PremiumUserUltra Did your dad not give you the birds and the bees talk? There's only one way any of us are here.

I love that.

Good for you. A woman's smile is more important than implants,

As soon as she said "...but don't try anything", he should have said "OK, I'll call you tomorrow," and left. Period. Let her stew on that.

@@MrFox-rf3cu Amen

Must be a Youth of Today thing.. back when I was a lad, guys could handle this situation by intuition. Gen-X.. the Chad generation. 😂

Potential? She was setting the trap.

A lot of colleges/universities no longer teach "No means no" and have switched to "Only Yes means yes" (a verbal yes). At first, it sounds dumb, but it eliminates any possibility of misunderstanding. No man can say, "but she was being seductive" and it leaves no loophole for if she's unconscious, too drunk to respond, roofied, etc.

That’s including if you’re in a sexless relationship, she keeps saying no it also means no at that point trying to get a divorce

Modern culture has embraced victimhood; seems especially true of young single women, unfortunately.

Even if it's a yes, they may change their minds to no halfway through then say you graped them. It's starting to seem like men need a signed consent form and a recording of the woman signing the consent form in case they change their mind.

I learned this one very early on. I was 17 or 18, and there were these stuffed monkeys with their arms around each other that my 16 year old girlfriend and I saw at the mall. And she wanted me to buy them for her. Then no, no. It's OK. She doesn't want me to. Except then we get home, and actually she DID want me to. What she didn't want to do was have to TELL me that she wanted them. She wanted to tell me not to buy them for her, but then have me buy them for her anyway. Confusing at the time, but I took the lesson - and fortunately it was a trivial matter - nothing that I could go to jail for.

You are better off. I suspect she was really just angry because she resented having to struggle. She thought she deserved easy street. Ingratitude!

@@fredhughes4115 Been there done that. It can be confusing.

@@fredhughes4115 I learned it early on too ha ha, I just assumed, marriage, maturity, joint finances and a lengthy discussion would somehow make it different. like I said, I'm an idiot. Turned out for the best though.

@@OldTechNerd Yeah, I get it. It's amazing that that behavior has that kind of staying power. It's understandable that one might just think that the behavior of an older, more mature married woman - under the influence of a real life situation and a lengthy discussion - would have evolved beyond that of a 16 year old schoolgirl, but ...no.

how is it different from makeup?

​@@0biwan7 Most women won't show themselves in heavy makeup then show up with no makeup. And, makeup is physically real when filters are literally fake.

@@0biwan7 it isnt thats also lying and you shouldnt do it

​@@0biwan7Makeup can change a woman, but a filter is fraud.

@@0biwan7 - 0ne reaches earlier & makes up where the Other0ne fails to makeup enough in it's makeup. 😀

That word didn't need quotes, TBH

My Ex-wife was like that. Pretty on the outside but ugly on the inside. I was blinded by her beauty. Dummy me.

@GaryH-pw9cm We all gotta learn sooner or later. It's just a shame that it often takes PERSONAL pain and suffering to learn the lesson. Stay strong, bruv

That's ridiculous. She's insecure. You have a low threshold for "ugly."

@@GaryH-pw9cm You're not alone, there's even a name for it...The Angel Effect. This is where good looking people get away with shit/bad behavior because we ascribe positive values to their looks while ignoring all they crap they actually do.

That is the best feeling ever knowing this person loves me what ever come what may, and 100% what it’s all about.

I have a friend from high school that was a model, Who is happily married now for many years. Stories I heard from her mom is she dressed down and no make up with sweatpants ,for her first dates because she didn’t want to be recognized.

Nice! Congrats on finding happiness.

My husband's hair was thinning and he had a receding hair line when we first started dating. Some women found that unattractive. Their loss and my gain. He is the most wonderful man and has the best personality and attitude. And when he started shaving his head, my physical attraction for him increased. He looks hot as a completely bald man!

I remember thinning hair. I was 12. Only shallow people care about your hair line.

This guy was really good and did not waste any time. Better to find out now than later.

Me call police 😂

Me call police 😂

@@L6901Malice Me Grimock not feel sorry, me Grimlock laugh.

Me offended me call police😂

The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.

Incredible! Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?

Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.

Thank you for this valuable information.

psychhacks has a great video about dealing with hearbreak. it might help.

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Agree with your explanation on the first one more than that of Emily. She largely gets the gist , buy yours is more on point.The second one is even more accurate. I think she misses the explanation by an even larger margin.

​@@georgedunkelberg5004human imprefection generates the world of indiviuality.

@@kevinerbs2778 I think that is remarkably well said. Thanks.

Nailed it, Marcus!

An erudite reference. Thank you.

Some things never change.

Best of luck to you, @Onanewjob! As a man, I say: Listen to Emily -- she is right 99.9% of the time in what she says.

Yes, you are doing great, trying to compensate for what you didn't get as a maternal tradition. It is a great step forward to decide that bad heritage stops with you. As soon as you can afford it, try personal therapy, to help you handle 'issues', because things like these go deep. It is a difficult thing to grow up with deceptive people, it affects one's perception of reality. One needs practice in positive and self-respecting behaviour, not just increased awareness of what is negative. So I support your insight and honesty 100%. Start with always trying being very honest in your communications in a constructive manner, for example, pick up words, lines, phrases, that people you admire use, to tell their truths in a way that was not meant to be offensive. How would they have told/handled that Grandmother when she was negative to your father on his wedding day? By reliving and redacting in our minds (or diaries) we can learn a lot. I absolutely wish you all the best in every respect! I too think Emily has many good points in her videos. There are also many good books, and for example Thomas Gordon on communication has been very effective for me. I've studied his books thoroughly, trying to get rid of patterns I did learn negatively in the family/kin/school setting when I grew up. (Once upon a time I, too, could not take a compliment seriously as in example 3, I was so used to criticism, and sarcasm, and putting down in an inversed way... but I've gotten less self-centered around that, and braver to put up boundaries: like my hubby knows, that I don't like to be teased at all and that I can't "take a joke" - I'm damaged goods in that sense. He can accept that.) An imaginary encouraging hug from a grandmother in Sweden.

Be glad you have/had father figure that played a role in teaching you all that. As you see, not every one has and it is being passed on generation to generation.

Yes, listen to Emily, but also protect yourself. There are plenty of men out there with big red flags, too - not the false accusations by bitter women, but the genuine ones in the F-boys, bad boys and players.

That's a tragedy, and I can only hope you find your happiness. Remember: Communication is king. Being afraid of talking out your problems in a relationship is how you end up unhappy and miserable.

Bit of makeup is ok. It is like wearing nice outfit. Each has its own preference. But nowdays a lot put a literal mask on. And filters on social make it even worse. To further to this, make up is like outfit. You put a nice top on or put a clown suit. Not many want to date clowns 😂

"...in their mind that's different." That's chick logic for you!

I had a similar encounter and we have remained friends 20+ years. This woman (I say that with the utmost respect) taught me the value of returning something you borrow in better shape than when you received it. We have also cried together and laughed over various ‘partners’ along the way. She is happily married with children and lives on the other coast. When in town, her husband and I enjoy hanging out while she visits her family. It all goes back to we respected each other and had honest expectations when we met for that first date. And after seeing that we had different aspirations we didn’t throw the relationship in the garbage, we recycled it into something of value.

THAT WAS HUMAN CONNECTION MORE THAN PHONE DEEP!

Connecting on mental level with me actually comes before physical attraction.

I have this thing of mine I've cultivated for many years now. I call it,, " The Mona Lisa Complex". If you know of this famous piece of artwork, then you know. Is Mona Lisa beautiful?? Maybe a bit 🤏. Stunning?? Obviously not. Compelling,, definitely!! She has an Alure that is almost mesmerizing. That said,, a woman doesn't have to be a 8, 9, or 10. No thanks. But she does have to have that Allure. That little something that pulls your attention. Intelligent, compassionate, empathy and a good bit of cute doesn't hurt. No one is perfect.. Myself included,, and still learning at 65. Take care , G. ✌️

​@@kevinerbs2778physical pass. Mental lasts.

If you like pina colada getting caught in the rain! That song hit me when I read your post.😂

20% isn't too bad. Furthermore, it's not about abdicating your humanity, it's about staying out of jail.

@@BryceShamwow Was definitely being conservative, thinking about it more I observe that the more they had been told by men that they were beautiful / hot etc (ie the more they looked like a runway model) the more likely that this would happen. And, yes, staying out of jail is a useful thing :) After a few times I really wanted to let them know how they were filtering in the worst kind of men, while filtering out the best kind of men with this tactic - but never did in case I came across as jaded, defensive etc, so just let it go and try to find people who don't do weird stuff...

Most are more attractive in real life, pics are almost always really overproduced and cover up little feminine features and quirks that they have no idea are actually a lot more attractive than the porcelain mask they put out there.

Most men find a natural look more beautiful. Women don’t get that.

@@mrquatchcause they are secretly bi sexual.. women can sleep with other women like it’s no big deal..

5:30 Men are very visual and this woman showed him one thing but delivered another. Women never get good results with that strategy.

Do I have to be the asshole to say it? She also had a slight trans vibe. Even if he didn't think that, the idea would put off a lot of dudes.

I felt that. Protect yourself gentlemen. Because we've learned absolutely no one else will.

Yes, building a life together is what it's all about. The rest is trivial.

@@neilreynolds3858 *together* is the only word that matters here.

Having the right attitude wins every time.

HOW CAN FEMALES TRUST THEM SELVES WHEN THEY ADMIT TO LYING FOR FEMALE GAMESWOMAN SHITS? EVOLUTION EXPRESSES FEMALE HUMAN REALITIES IN TERM -ELIMINITING SURFACE ATTRACTIVENESS.

She didn't want him, she's messed up. We're just people at the end of the day, but setting such a clear a boundary and then acting differently is dangerous for him and her when they're in an obvious location for sex.

I haven't gotten to that example yet, but a pre-emptive comment (I'll add another if my thoughts change after seeing the third example). As a woman, if i say that I just want to snuggle, then that is what I should expect. If it changes from that, it's 100% in me to be direct in what I want from there. Don't change the action from the last consentual action and immediately stop if she says to. Any female that respects you as an individual won't get upset when you do precisely what she asks. If she does, walk away since it isn't worth it. And the obligatory: The same goes if the roles were reversed.

Update: 100% walk away from someone like this. They need to work on loving themselves before putting themselves out there for someone else. If you do this, please be kind to not only her, but yourself too.

It is called "playing hard to get" and was totally normal before Feminism hit mankind. Now it is dangerous to play this game as a man bc jail might easily be your future.

They also made it possible to care less, whereas before people couldn't.

HERE'S YOUR SIGN! AND WHAT-ME? WORRY!

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Hell yeah. It should be subtle enough that you don't notice it but accentuates her own beauty. Too much make up and it can start to look a bit clownish.

Zero tats. Simple single-piercing per ear, no piercings anywhere else at all. Simple necklace. Zero hair coloring. Tasteful classic feminine hairstyle. No fake lashes. No fake brows. In other words, protect and take care of your natural beauty. Put that beauty on display, not mask it, not deck it with distraction.

WHO WAS THAT MASKED????? TAMMY FAE B?

Yeah, just wait.

This is gold! Boundaries respected in both directions.

Or maybe, if she feels like it this day, she may put you in jail and destroy your whole life.

@@nathanielguggenheim5522 A woman like that is danger for any man.

I wouldn't have at my house unless I had a video camera filming us while she was their because she is the one that would accuse you of something to get more attention

I once knew a girl who was a total drunk party girl. She took a guy home from a bar, had some bang bang time, woke up in the morning and regretted it. Called the cops and said she had been graped. The guy did 20 years!!!

To be fair, girl 3 was pretty common years back and guys knew how to handle them. I certainly wouldn’t have had any problem with her... that was a hand job for sure.. and then she’s left frustrated, so next time she’s a dead cert. Guys, you need to up your game.. don’t be feminised with the “no means no” bull. “No” means “no... but keep trying...”😂

Number 3 needs to work on her inner beauty. In her case a crash program.

That's putting it mildly. In the US legal system, that's the kind of woman who puts innocent men behind bars.

@@Saavik256 I am in Australia and it much the same here. There is channel called "Hoe_math" where he does an extended analysis of this video. His conclusion was if you guess one way, you get unsatisfactory sex with a person who it's best to forget. He said that if you get the guess wrong, "you have ruined the rest of your life." He finished by saying that being called "gay" is really not a problem. Have a really lovely day.

This guy was lucky nothing happened. It's a jungle out there.

If she can’t take an honest compliment, that’s a red flag. Some women say stuff like that ‘playfully’ to play mind games, others have some kind of emotional insecurity that makes it difficult to accept compliments, others think the guy’s a player and does actually say that to all the girls he dates. Guys hate mind games, don’t want to deal with toxic emotional baggage, and absolutely hate being generalized as a kind of man he isn’t. His reaction may have been blunt, insensitive or rude, but it was the correct one. Most men are done with wasting their time with red flags on a first date.

No, she was rude and dismissive. She showed her true colors in the way she reacted to him and he was absolutely right in the way he handled it.

"It wasn't like she insulted him" ...Tell me you're a woman without telling me you're a woman. She got into his car, sat down, he gave her a compliment, she replied "Oh please, I bet you say that to all the girls you date". Not as a joke. Not playfully. As a dismissive insult. She didn't giggle, she didn't laugh, she just shot it down by reflex on their first date. That absolutely is an insult. It's directly saying he's A) unoriginal, B) not worth her time, and C) not genuine.

@@ZeroNumerous Tell me you're sexist without telling me you're sexist. I'm male bruvsky

@@djplayskeys Better to find out now than later.

A girl going with a guy back to his place after a date does not automatically mean sex. Thoughts like that are the root of the erroneous idea that men only care about sex, but considering your handle I'm not surprised you think this outlanding, outdated idea.

@@devonm042690 The girl can change her mind at any time, but it's an indicator that sex will take place. If you rule out having sex with a girl, then don't take her back to your place, simple. But, be honest with yourself and her and keep the communication good. It has nothing to do with the idea that men only want sex, I don't know how you've come to that conclusion from what I've said.

My husband has always said this. He says filters are literally lying. He also doesn’t like makeup, cause he sees that as lying too. He has always preferred me with no makeup. I love it. I don’t have to slather crap on my face that just isn’t healthy and is a waste of money.

Never used filters. Agree women who use filters need to build an illusion of themselves and this is not a trust worthy person. Women need to learn to live in their truth. Love men who find real women attractive.

PUTTING YOU BEST FOOT FOREWARD IS STANDARD FEMINE LYING? #2 PUT HER FOOT IN HER MOUTH, AND MAYBE HAVE "SAVED" THEIR TOGETHER TIMES IF: SHE COULD SELF ADMIT TO HIM HER INSECURITIES OF SELF DOUBTS? NA!

Here is a funny story. I am an older man, but everyone says I look much younger than I am. My woman says she is robbing the cradle when I dye my beard. Before I met her, I decided to put some foundation on just to see how much of a difference it would make. I was astonished. Just foundation made me look like I was in my early 30's. So, being a bit devious, I took a face pic and posted it on my dating profile. I got a ton of matches, and immediately, women were either saying I was using an old picture or I was lying about my age. I just laughed. I even met a couple of the women and they just couldn't believe how young I looked. So I fessed up and told them I was wearing foundation. They actually got mad but I just laughed and asked them how does it feel to be deceived?

@@user-mw5ph2us9v Yeah women do that every single day. I don't like foundation but thankfully at 58 years old my skin doesn't need it. But most women do wear foundation and think nothing of it. How can it be different for you?

@@AngelaVEdwards I wish someone could have been there on the two dates I went on with foundation on. There reaction was like I had taken away their birthday or something. They were really mad. I am still laughing about it.

You should have seen the rest of the video. Video #2 woman is a deceiver. I'm not sure why Emily cut it short, but as it, it seems innocuous. The woman is a fraud and makes excuses.

Welcome to America. We're shallow and ignorant and getting worse every year.

Her looks weren't the issue, though, so much as the fact that she lied.

Her looks aren't the problem. Her social media use is the problem, really. But his issue was with how she's lying on social media for brownie points. That shows she's lacking confidence in herself, and isn't a problem he can fix.

THE FOUND BEAUTY IS BONE DEEP! UGLY IS MANDATED SKIN DEEP IMITATIONS OF THE BEAUTY-SALES FOR PROFIT MYTHS, OF INDUSTRIES.

Never make a pretty woman your wife

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Being an amateur photographer, I just filter out the filters/photoshop in my head, as well as the makeup. Then I can imagine what she looks like. If you study photos and take good looks at people, you'll figure it out. It's a learnable skill.

​@@svr5423not for us who dont know what filters are capable of. Some are so good that it literally changes you to another person. To figure out the real would need to substitute for multiple ppl. Ill pass off the bat. 😅 Just the need to use filters on every photo is enough

I agree, we all have something we are insecure about. It’s does that insecurity rule our lives or not, that’s important. I think it would take a few dates to figure out if it’s so deep you should run or not. The opposite issue of conceit is just as destructive if not more so.

Great story. And your point about being complimented all the time is true. There are so many guys out there who really do have lines that they use on all the girls that it must be almost impossible to tell if he means it. If a woman has any insecurity about her appearance it would be even harder to accept. And in these days of "if you're not perfect you're ugly", are there more than a handful of women on the planet without insecurities?

I tell my woman that she's gorgeous all the time but she is 61 and gorgeous. She wasn't used to being told that but she was always gracious and said thank you and told me that I was beautiful too. I don't know why men passed her over because of her age but I'm glad they did. She also loves to take care of her family, speaks 3 languages, has a Master's in German Lit, raised a beautiful daughter on her own, and teaches yoga, but that's all just icing on the cake. It's her I love.

In 1995 we had to go to classes at work where we learned that complimenting a woman at work was considered xeual harassment. There was a list of things we could and could not say. You could be fired or worse for saying anything on the list. This is the world we live in today. If a man today wants to find a woman with traditional values, accepting a compliment is a good place to start. It is not 1970 anymore.😔

She simply didn't look as good as he wanted her to look. She dodged a bullet, cause that guy was extremely rude and wil leave any woman that ages, goes through menopauze, gets health issues etc. cause he didn't give a shit about her personality or her feelings. And she took it extremely well. She looks fine. Seems easy going, not resentful, no drama and with a positive outlook on life. Good for her that guy showed his true colors within 5 seconds. If she would have looked way better than her pictures he wouldn't have felt mislead one bit.

@@estherdoggen4105She’ll be okay and has probably ghosted and rejected plenty of men for stupid and shallow reasons.

Did she tell him that she was annoyed and why? If not, how's a guy supposed to see that parade?

@neilt6480 apparently you'll still find out, because she'll tell the world...

Well her true self came out when he told her to get out. She could have apologized but instead escalated her verbal attacks. He called it right from the start.

Not his first time.

@@pawelhyzopski6456he’ll be alone for aehile

@@il_cavallo_nero5649 peace ✌️

@@il_cavallo_nero5649 Not likely.

This behaviour is as old as dating itself. Maybe these days it's often seen as strange, but 30+ years ago it was almost a rule. The woman was expected to resist the man's advances and indignantly decline all his attempts to initiate sex (for the 1st time, at least). The man was expected to coerce and pressure her, sometimes even to use a little force in order to overcome her ritualistic resistance. Most of the time, it was merely a game on the woman's part (if not, it was often hard to determine). If a woman refused to play this game altogether, she was deemed easy and untrustworthy.

She’s a psychopath honestly, she’s the type of woman who will F up your life

@@pasheg4345 Right.Like you said, it was culturally expected. But nowadays it can easily mean jail time for the man.

@@pasheg4345 It is not 1980 anymore.

I was wondering if there was any comments on this side. I might have answer same way as she did to comment I have heard so many times true or not. But hey if he is not samelevel sarcasm as I, better sooner than later.

I can see you're a woman. So I'll explain it to you in a way you can understand. I've met plenty of women. I'd have to just dumped her on the spot as well. I banter with my friends, but when I'm interested in a woman I want honesty. If I give my actual opinion, and it's disregarded, then I know that's a sign going forward that she's going to be impossible to be honest with. May as well move on and replace her, because there's plenty of other women who I can be honest with. Why waste my time and money on dishonesty? Either way, good luck with being a woman. I wish you the best.

My comeback would have been "I mostly only say it to my mom, it sounds weird saying it to someone besides her"

Sounds interesting no kids ?

If you're "wife" falsely sends you jail and you don't divorce her immediately, you deserve what you get. Plan on spending decades in jail, bc she hates you.

@@OhAncientOne I left her, then she threw me in jail.....

@@zaynevanday142 1 kid....he's 9

@@plandsurvival7144 thank goodness, I feel much better for you 🥳 If she's still after you, you might consider moving far away. On the other hand, the police must have caught on, and get who the problem is, so any future encounters should be easy.

Agreed. I think it’s still a good learning opportunity to pretend it’s real and discuss the situation.

Moral of the story is your an adult don't play childish jokes or gtf off of social media ❤

He probably is a narcissist She escaped the pricks vileness

TOO MUCHED PACKAGED SCREENS TIMES. HAVE YOU EVER WATCHED A SCREEN AND MANDATED YOURSELF TO BE COMPLICIT WITH YOUR PAID-FOR TICKETS/COMMERCIALS DELUSIONS.

LIAR-LIAR YOUR "HUMPERS ON FYRE". THAT "GREW" AND IT SHOULD HAVE BEEN YOUR PINNOCCIO NOSE!