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Men have no problem putting effort or money into women that are worth it. Sadly these days most women aren't aren't worth it because of what society has made them become.
If we were fighting a war within ourselves, it wouldn't make a lot of sense to stay single? Does it? As it wouldn't give us peace. So how can she completely miss it? The signs are so clear. Maybe she is just in the denial phase. "It can't be the women. It has to be a problem with the men. " 😂
Homerun, Emily. Sorry, the hairdresser in me is coming out. Fake eyebrows, fake lips, fake eyelashes, and likely fake, well, anywho, and to make it our fault, especially considering the truth that you speak! And I'd love to see her boyfriend/husband. She doesn't have one, clearly a rhetorical statement
That girls attitude is why i dumped my girlfriend,,of 2yrs her girls had that sick attitude,,i said buck this im out she was shocked and wants me back not happaning
Only war I ever had within myself was trying to keep myself calm when dealing with bullshit from a partner who's supposed to love me instead of twisting everything I say into being somehow shitty. Being single? Most peace I've ever felt in my life
Hahahahaha what a buffoon 😂 we start with peace within ourselves Abe try to find a woman that won’t cause it to EVAPORATE. You have it backwards sweetheart
Sounds like a person who has never approached before. With a cold approach you DONT KNOW whether they want approaching thats why its called cold. Its a gamble. Also maybe if she thinks shes that hot and can get anyone guy she likes, why not try it yourself? Oh wait, theres an excuse coming....
Apart from the nonsense about the war within ourselves which is the typical reaction to put the blame on men, there is another thing she said that is wrong. Men are not avoiding women entirely. They avoid wifing them and taking them seriously because they have nothing to gain and everything to lose. But of course we can hire a cleaning lady every now and then or have some fun with an escort or a one night stand...
I wish I was surprised at yet another woman trying to invent a reason other than themselves to explain our reaction to how absolutely weapons grade awful they are.
I've loved three women, first was a cheater, second was a gold digger, and third was a certified nutcase manipulative abusive monster... I have two wonderful healthy children, I'm a single dad. No woman in the world will ever have my trust, money, or love ever again. Not one woman on earth is worth the risk of loosing it all again... never again. I don't care about some ignorant internet cunn-ee, who thinks I am hurt or in some emotional crisis. That's incorrect. I am crystal clear about the fact that there is not enough time left for me on this earth to think on the problems that some used up, old, crooked leftovers of a lady is going to convince me I should save her from her own problems. I dont even want any female friends, more trouble than they are worth as well... unless she's a cool tomboy type chick with actual skills. Female mechanics AR almost always rational folks. I'm ok with them shooting the shit over a beer or something, maybe a farmer chick or something. Other than that, nope. Useless breed of (yippee) dog in my eyes.
These men are saying "you're not worth the trouble". And women who are complaining about it are precisely the women that these men are avoiding. It's not "the entire gender", it's you. And if they would meet a sweet woman most of them would reconsider, but they're done with the chase.
Emily's boyfriend or husband is so lucky to have found a woman who understands all of this. I know how great (and indeed peaceful) this feels because I have found one too. Correction: she found me.
What I’ve noticed, both on social media and in real life, is that men don’t seem to go around painting their entire gender as perfect angels unlike many women who apparently believe they can do no wrong. The second a woman doesn’t fall in line with that narrative and dares to call out their behavior, the childishness begins. Suddenly, it’s all "pick-me," "internalized misogyny," and of course I must be a man because clearly, a woman would never challenge their hypocrisy or inability to reciprocate, right? It’s almost funny how quick the defensiveness comes out when they're faced with anything that doesn’t flatter their carefully curated self-image.
THATS RIGHT WHEN HE OPENS UP, AND TELLS YOU THAT HE'S BEEN SLEEPING WITH YOUR SISTER DON'T USE IT AGAINST HIM TO WIN ARGUMENT, OR HE WILL NEVER SLEEP WITH HER AGAIN
I'm not seeing a reason why I would approach her. I would give her face a low 5. We can't see her body, and her energy seems off. We can assume her personality, but we don't know for sure. I've dated women that were 3,4,5,6. The 3 and 4's had great energy and personalities, they were just too far apart, but I would date one of those again in a heartbeat over this lady.
No. Accountablity is like water and oil. I am sick of dating a snowman. Constantly having to reassure someone they're good enough on while being on trial if I'm flavor of the month or worth keeping. I need someone at my side not someone I need to be so many roles with. Be a partner not a liablity. Walk our life together. Why should men be the lynch pin on why current relatonships don't happen when we see what happens if they push too much? Are we not adults? Can you not offer more than sex? On both sides we should communicate what we need. Love is work. If you want slack I promise you millions more can fill your seat. Be something. Be mine. How fucking difficult is that on either side?
I still didn't manage to find peace as a single man. However, I can definitely recognize what a liability my girlfriends always were and that I don't really want to entertain this anymore. It drains too much energy from me. I am currently trying to finish a PhD thesis while working full-time as teamleader of an engineering team. Sometimes I wish that somebody would have my back and take care of basic chores, because getting home from work and then having to work on your PhD thesis really doesn't make you want to do any additional chores. What should say? There is actually a woman who has my back every once in a while, but it's not a romantic partner. It's my mum. I live with my parents for a few weeks per quarter - and then it's like a hotel for me. Of course, I still have to take care of my own apartment during the other weeks, but during really high-stress weeks, I can use my parent's guest room as a retreat to dig into my work.
