@@user-sb8hz1np5q yeah my first language is Spanish and only reading her subtitles, I was trying to understand everything, but now I can understand everything then, I would like to watch without subtitles cus sometimes it's hard Understand her and another native American speaker
1. set small daily goals 2. make friends that would be an example to you. 3. stop attaching yourself to everyone and everything. stop being desperate 4. don’t fear if you outgrow something or someone 5. confidence is silent. “you have to be humble, but aware of your worth.” 6. have and RESPECT your boundaries. 7. do not laugh at jokes at your own expense 8. whenever somebody makes a joke or anything towards you, ask them to explain it 9. at the end of the day, the selfish win. so fuck everything, you need to place yourself first. 10. know yourself. ask yourself questions in order to comprehend more of you. so that you’ll always have a reason for what u do, and can shut tf up arrogant people who ask. 11. treat yourself as you would treat someone you love 12. start right now. start with what you have
Remember that the Lord Jesus Christ died on a cross for you because He loves you so much. He then rose up from the dead three days later. The Ten Commandments are called the moral law, (most of us are lying, thieving, blasphemous and adulterer at heart) you and I broke the law Jesus paid the fine that’s what happened on that cross. By believing that Jesus died on the cross and rose up from the dead 3 days later and not just confessing your sin, but also repenting of all sin you have done and putting all your trust in Him in prayer, He will grant you everlasting life as a free gift.
But the problem is that everybody knows when person is imitating confidence, all mature people can feel it. Also the feeling of fake confident is worse than feeling insecure when you are that person
@@user-py2ro7gv7u I think what we’d need to do is be okay with people knowing you’re faking it. Eventually you’ll get there for real, you’re just practicing. You know why you’re doing it, you know it will take you somewhere. They can judge you if they want to, at the end of the day the people who are worth something will be with you. That sort of thing?
@@Blulisianthus thats correct. people that ive been talking about in my surroundings usually trying to fake it by bulling someone, but if they re nice theres no problem with it
I started crying when liz said do not laugh at jokes at your own expense. This is what I do to myself, I don't take myself seriously and just to make other people laugh just to please them, I actually laugh at jokes on myself and I consider myself dumb infront of them and that's the reason why no one values my words and no one takes me seriously and Liz I wanna thank you... You are helping out so many girls with your powerful words and thankyou again! May God Bless You💗
idc if ppl criticise her or how she acts and spreads messages, she motivates me. she’s cool and inspiring and everything i need. she’s a better therapist than anyone LOL
liz ... u saved my life, truly😭! did you know? because of watching your videos, my voice gradually changed to be secure, i used to have small and timid voice and i thought i couldnt change it(i have cptsd), but look at me now??? MY VOICE TOTALLY CHANGED. and not only that, i became more comfortable in adjusting posture to be straight posture, and not slouching anymore(i used to feel slouching was more comfy). and now i can vary my responses so that i can adjust my style of talking. AND IM NO LONGER TO BE EXTREMELY LIMERENT(?) LIKE I WAS BEFORE. im able to do my activities and complete it daily only FOR ME, and never think to do anything to please others. thank you so much, liz🥰
lil update guys now im able to communicate calmly with elders? like i used to isolate myself from them and now i feel confident talking with them! my social skill is increasing
I manifest that every person who read this, will get confident friends, they are REALLY hard to find, and watching this video was like a hug of positive vibes, thank you Liz
After being in an extremely toxic friend group where everyone was just feeding off of each other’s insecurities, I finally found someone who was fully confident in themselves and is able to spread that confidence and positivity onto others and I couldn’t be happier
If u think they're really hard to find, they will be really hard to find. Confident friends are easy to find and confident friends come to me effortlessly. Periodt.
We, the people who live in cities, need confidence......and we can have confidence.......it's just that.....we lived too much in the city......and we are not strong enough......yet.......for this planet. But we can be strong enough
you know i never had a friend or somone to tell how i feel or what to do. With you know i can walk confident knowing no one will lower my bounderies. Thank you so much liz❤
Remember that the Lord Jesus Christ died on a cross for you because He loves you so much. He then rose up from the dead three days later. The Ten Commandments are called the moral law, (most of us are lying, thieving, blasphemous and adulterer at heart) you and I broke the law Jesus paid the fine that’s what happened on that cross. By believing that Jesus died on the cross and rose up from the dead 3 days later and not just confessing your sin, but also repenting of all sin you have done and putting all your trust in Him in prayer, He will grant you everlasting life as a free gift.
The fact that she just fessed up to her issues and OWNS her solutions makes me realize I have run out of excuses for not becoming who I want to be. Thanks Liz!
@@odvezlet1793 I would be curious to know I can say I've seen people like her and ajust assumed her life and family are probably perfect. It's a wakeup call for me
1. set small daily goals and accomplish them 2. make friends that u can be like 3. take care of your physical appearance 4. stop attaching yourself to everyone and everything 5. realise that it’s okay to outgrow people and situations 6. confidence is silent 7. realise that most people are really just interested in their own life 8. learn about body language 9. start conversations with random people 10. start having boundaries and be firm about them 11. do not laugh at jokes at your own expense 12. in order to be valuable to others we need to value ourselves first 13. spend time with yourself, journal, get to know yourself 14. start acting like you are already confident 15. praise yourself everytime you look into the mirror 16. treat yourself as you would treat someone you love 17. be so proud of yourself!! 18. start now with what you have
You have definitely changed my mentality and I thank you very much Liz, you have opened my eyes to things that I did not want to see "red flags" and I have watched your videos and now I have become more confident in myself 💗
Liz is the first “self-help” influencer that has ever actually moved me. I genuinely believe what she is saying. She is so straight to the point and sharp that I listen to whatever she says. Thank you Liz xxx
This is real honest therapy. Better then Better Help. Love this not just sitting in a chair and my therapist is so damn quiet. Words in action are my inpiration. Thanks.
I am so glad this showed up on my feed. Like literally your words are so powerful!!! It's been a year since you posted this but I hope you're doing a better job at dealing with your trauma :)) YOU LIT ME UP INSIDE LIKE THE 4TH OF JULYYY
This woman deserves a big "Thank You" from me. 5 yrs ago, I farted in front of my friends and they'll bring it up every single time they see me to embarrass me but a few days ago, after watching her video, I was like, why is it even embarrassing? I'm not the only person in this earth who farts, so today morning, these people brought it again and I had to reply, "you guys hold your toxicants in your body?" and I've never ever in my life felt this level of confidence.
that's so embarrassing on *their* behalf. image holding something so irreverent over a supposed "friend". ditch them or establish boundaries, even if you end up losing them in the process. better them than yourself.
~Set daily goals; learn to trust yourself ~Make friends you want to be like; helps you get confident like a mentor ~Take care of your physical appearance; value the way you present yourself, if you don’t like something fix it! ~Stop being to desperate;always be realistic with the way people are(learn it’s okay that peoplethings leave new and better will come ~It’s okay to outgrow people; learn that things can change and that’s normal value your happiness ~Confidence is not loud; it’s about what your aura projects not your words ~Don’t be embarrassed; who are you embarrassed of? Your not the main character of their life ~Body language; shoulders back, chest out good, posture, use hand gestures (helps with trust), open body language! ~Go up to people and talk to them ~Do not except disrespect; set boundaries, don’t let people use you, it’s okay to say no you don’t need a reason ~Show that you value your time so people respect you and are their best version with you ~Do not laugh at your expensive; don’t let anyone disrespect you, don’t take a joke it’s going to turn into what they mean ~Ask people to explain the joke; don’t ever let people disrespect you. ~Be selfish; put yourself first, what is bet for you? ~Know who you are; if you know yourself no one else can tell you who you are( know what you don’t like how you want to be treated start spending time with you self journal) ~Act like your confident; no one will know ~Give yourself compliments; don’t expect them from others ~Start with what you have; your improving a blank canvas create your best self
U motivated my daughter to stay true to her self. She listens to u and we talk about u and everything u have to say! She is so inspired of your thoughts and everything u experienced. U understand that me as a mother should teach her that, but sometimes u just need other people to say what u thinking or the kids wouldn’t listen…. But after this, and your open dialogue made me talk to my daughter and she talked to me and really opened up❤
I'm so glad I found you a couple hours ago! There are so many people dealing with post traumatic stress disorder... unfortunately...so am I. And to see that you are so strong empowers and motivates me so much Thank you for your work❤
For myself 12:32 don’t be embarrassed 15:45 talk to people 16:30 don’t please 17:50 know your worth 18:38 bullying 21:28 put yourself first 23:37 pretend ;) 24:20 compliment yourself
One thing I notice about traumatized children (which I am one) is that they all want to be the most loving parent for their kids, and it's so warming and heartbreaking at the same time.
With the title I thought it was a funny video and that's why I clicked on it but when I got to know it was literally about confidence, I did not go for the back button cause I started to enjoy what you were saying. I'm already confident but some things like 'setting boundaries' and the stuff when people think you can do everything for them and put them first really hitted me hard. When you soo seriously said 'to put yourself first', 'to say NO to people when you feel it', it really putted a smile on my face. God must have thought I need to see this and that's why he must have made me click on it. One new and interesting thing I learnt from you is to praise yourself in front if the mirror. I liked that a lot, it's new to me. Whenever I think of it, a smile spreads to my lips😊 Now I'm going to try for myself and love myself and maybe it'll boost my confidence to a higher level than before. I know the comment doesn't matter to you, being good or bad, but I just wanted to write it (for myself). Thank You!
I copied this and this is just to remember! ~Set daily goals; learn to trust yourself ~Make friends you want to be like; helps you get confident like a mentor ~Take care of your physical appearance; value the way you present yourself, if you don’t like something fix it! ~Stop being to desperate;always be realistic with the way people are(learn it’s okay that peoplethings leave new and better will come ~It’s okay to outgrow people; learn that things can change and that’s normal value your happiness ~Confidence is not loud; it’s about what your aura projects not your words ~Don’t be embarrassed; who are you embarrassed of? Your not the main character of their life ~Body language; shoulders back, chest out good, posture, use hand gestures (helps with trust), open body language! ~Go up to people and talk to them ~Do not except disrespect; set boundaries, don’t let people use you, it’s okay to say no you don’t need a reason ~Show that you value your time so people respect you and are their best version with you ~Do not laugh at your expensive; don’t let anyone disrespect you, don’t take a joke it’s going to turn into what they mean ~Ask people to explain the joke; don’t ever let people disrespect you. ~Be selfish; put yourself first, what is bet for you? ~Know who you are; if you know yourself no one else can tell you who you are( know what you don’t like how you want to be treated start spending time with you self journal) ~Act like your confident; no one will know ~Give yourself compliments; don’t expect them from others ~Start with what you have; your improving a blank canvas create your best self
Liz your videos poped up at the right time I needed the most. You have a beautiful mind, you remind me so much of myself and my mother. Thank you for your videos ! God bless you !
why is making confident friends soooo hard!??! I'm tired of always being the most positive, confident & energetic person, I need someone to share this energy with to multiply it but everyone is soooo insecure 😩 Watching this video felt like I was finally having the conversation with a friend that ive always wanted. Someone smart , uplifting & aware! Thank you for being here & sharing your energy with us, it goes a long way 💗
I will tell you something actually you attract just people who are same to you and you will not be able to see how are you acting in the real way you act until you see yourself talking and all of that so i advice u to recored videos even you are the only one who gonna see and then you will know the breaking points in your mentality and then when you fix it and become best version of your self every amazing one will seriously want to be around you exactly like how all of us want to be around that amazing girl in the video
6 minutes in and she has spoken STRAIGHT facts. I’m 26 now and I knew this naturally at 16-18. If you tell yourself “for a month I will hit the gym straight no matter what” and you actually hold yourself accountable even when times are tough, you can’t help but feel proud of yourself. Unfortunately, from ages 22-25 I started behaving like a complete bitch because I wasn’t trusting myself due to me not following up with my promises. If we as human beings hit the gym, eat clean, and focus on making money consistently no matter what, we will all be extremely confident.
Most of the things you describe makes you confident are external, which are good, but I hope that confidence comes from within and truly a reflection of your love for yourself.
@@aestheticallypleasingaesth8941 no it makes you confident internally because you trust yourself to follow through and you create an identity you agree with
Liz's confidence is based 100% on her looks and for being 26 years old when she is 23 years old is not a healthy situation here. Let's see a liz that has confidence without fillers, botox, lip injections, skin routine and just a plain Betty. Liz worth is $0.5 million selling you lies and fairy tales! Confidence is manners to yourself, not pleasing others! when you turn 35 years old let's have a discussion about this individual and be honest. Liz is a fraud.
Same. It's my third time watching this because right now, I feel like I'm going back to my old self who's insecure about everything, have too much social anxiety and thinks too much about other people's opinion.
I just want to remember these lines. "You have to be humble. Right? but aware of your worth." "everybody is so busy and engraved in their own lives. Nobody really cares about you. You're not that important. SO, what is embarrassment at the end of the day?"
I just got up and styled my hair, did some light makeup, Straightened my back, and now I'm planning to finish all of my homework and other things that I've been putting back for a while, just after watching this video and the "create a new version of yourself" video , the amount of motivation and inspiration liz gives me.. It's unbelievable. Thank you liz, truly 💕
Hello! I’m glad I stumbled upon your video. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Your opinions and self-confidence is admirable and how you speak with conviction is amazing. Your beliefs and experience and how you view things seems like a perspective completely unalike with the myself I grew up as, however, on this path for self-love I am developing the esteem I may have lost a long time ago. Your viewpoints, although seemingly unfamiliar to those of mine, mirror how I feel as well. You have simultaneously opened my perspective to not only change my limiting beliefs but agree with your opinions entirely. You have reminded me to commend the respect for myself I deserve. Thank you. I am grateful for that.
When you said at the beginning that you want to be the cycle breaker... wow you have my utmost respect. As a child of someone with PTSD it is everything. Love you.
Liz, I just wanna say one thing I find your videos the most comforting out of other youtubers and that's because you seem like you actually say everything from the heart and you don't sugar coat things, you seem like an older sister to me and I am grateful for that. Thank you so much
i didn't realize how much this vid changed me until i watched it again after months. 1. i started setting daily goals and i was so determined to accomplish them. now it's been 2 months of me exercising bcz of that and it's my first time being this consistent 2. i did not "ditch my friends" bcz they weren't even friends to me, they weren't the ones for me and they were exactly like you said, instead i made new (real) friends and met people with a goal and purpose in life. it really affected me positively! 3. i started intensely taking care of my skin (suitable products & healthy diet) , body (exercising & moving more) and hair (treatment) alongside with my mental health and 6 months ago me wouldn't have believed it. 4. im also working on confidence and healing together, i do the positive slef talk and it never failed me, i got closer with god, closer to my soul, i meditated, i prayed, i searched for ways and signs and i GOT them, im way more chill than i was like about a month ago, and i still crave for the best 5. "humble, but aware of your worth" OMG little did i understand what this actually meant first time i heard it from u liz! but it's ok bcz i get it now. i used to be jealous of so many people, thought that no one liked me so i kept trying to please them and pretended that im someone who isn't me and the result? fake friends and a lost self, im grateful i started to get connected with my real self before it went too far. 6. i started setting clear boundaries and i showed them to people, the respect they built for me ever since was 👌 7. i started trying to know the real me through every way i can reach, i ceased watching shows just for fun and started reading books and watching things that can get me closer to myself, and i can say that i built an unbreakable respect and bond with me. and im so happy with it. 9. the self praising might look dumb air cringe for some people but i think it's a cute way to accept/love how you look (tmi: is sometimes blush when i compliment myself) and it makes me smile more through the day so why not?🤨completely harmless & kinda helpful! phew, that was the longest comment i wrote in my life, but i just wanted to show u how i take your words to heart and it really got me somewhere i wished i'd be in. if you're going to read this or not, im always grateful for you & you'll always be in my "things im grateful for" list
I loved everything she does, the way she talks, the way she moves her hands and her personality and her special presence. I can watch her all day and never get tired
@@lilsoso8103 confidence? She has beauty surgery's -> that is the opposite of confidence. If you are confident you dont need surgery so change your appearance :)
@@FiNN-- She, a self-confident person, accepts and loves her body, but she knows that she is not perfect, and she can have plastic surgery if she wants because she knows that this will not define her value as a person, she will continue to love herself no matter what.💗
@@FiNN-- Omg, I could have a million surgeries and still talk about confidence, after all that's how she said, "If you're not satisfied with something, change it."
The part that left me amazed is when she talked about her date and how she refused to get in the car if she wasn't opened the door ♥️ had to pause for a few seconds to reflect on that, literally amazing
Wow, this vid is so powerful, i'm 19 still dealing with "social anxiety", lack of self confidence etc etc.. and it helps so much, like a few years ago i was the most insecure guy and i've been making improvements little by little and i'm doing so much stuff that i couldn't before, just by daring to do little things that are awkward to you and progressively increasing the difficulty you'll be way more confident, and god i still have a long way to go.
GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE BABY! whenever its wearing two different pairs of shoes in public, talking to random strangers or listening to music in your headphones loudly. DO IT. Its gonna get more comfortable EVERY TIME. its called exposure therapy. The best for combating social anxiety ❤️
same! I'm 19 too and younger me would kinda be disappointed that I'm still dealing with the same issues but I have to remind myself that life doesn't end at 19..it sort of feels like it just started :)
@@kiito4044 same here!! I was literally reading my younger self’s notes, and it was saying how omg in a week I turn 16 and I’ve done nothing with my life. Being 19 reading that now I’m like 😂😂 girl, you don’t even know the half of it.
i literally cried 14 mins into the video, I wish i had a figure like you growing up to tell me i am worth it, to make me believe i am worth it. Thank you for helping others out there!
Dear Liz, I started watching all your videos from the beginning and I am keeping notes, I am trying to become the best version of me and you are really helping me. I wish I had more people in my life like you! Thank you for all your effort in creating this content❤️😊
your videos make me wanna get up, get outside and do something with my life. and that's a big compliment coming from someone who deals with anxiety + depression 😂
These sessions are like personal therapy for me. I feel as if you're directly talking to me. Thank you so much Liz! May Allah bless you lots and lots for the good that you do.
Thank you so much for your videos! I just found your channel a month ago, at a time that I really needed to hear these things. I’m looking forward to hearing about your healing process, thanks again Liz
1° Set small daily goals and accomplisht them 2° Make friends you want to be like/get mentor 3° Take care of your physical appearance 4° Time means nothing if the situation is not brining you happiness anymore 5° Learn about body language 6° Start conversation with random people 7° Do not laugh at jokes at your own expense 8° In order to be valuable to others we need to value ourselves first 9° Spend time with yourself, journal, get know yourself 10° Start acting like you are already confident 11° Praise yourself everytime you look into the mirror
@Naes Galaxy i agree. I disagree with the way she presents to be confident. There is a fine line of being arrogant and confident and in some cases such as the one with the guy not opening the door is wrong. As well as when she doesn't do anything that doesn't benefit you. If you dont sacrifice for others without getting benefited some times then fck it
I've been dealing with so much bad energy and low confidence recently to the point that I can not go to my classes at University without a mask. I constantly had to hide myself. I'm in class right now without any mask or even makeup! Idk how she did it but she made me so much more confident. I know it might not be ground breaking but it's a big move for me. Thank you so much! Your channel is the best thing that has happened to me in a very long time ❤️❤️
🤯WOW! Liz,This is your best talk yet. You have really opened my eyes to how much I need to reaffirm my boundaries. For the past 33 years of my life I have been playing the role of the "nice girl" and it has NEVER benefitted me. Time to be selfish.😎 Thank you young lady 💕
Lizzz I seriously just wanted to thank you for making me realize such a simple but important thing. Self respect. Like Ive been through some things these past few years in which allowed me to love myself more, gain confidence, think in a more positive way and raise my vibration. I've seen the changes in my life and I'm grateful for it. But this year, I realized that that was not the end of the journey, it'll never be. I felt that deep inside here was still a part of me that lacked confidence and eventually it led me to this downfall. But Then I found you. You're giving me the power to step back up in confidence, I'm still working everyday but I know that ill achieve it. In this video, you said that we should never let anyone joke about us from the start and you're right. I have a friend that when we first met started joking about me, and actually it was funny, I laughed too. But eventually I started realizing that its too much, it became like a daily routine to the point that it was a little irritating. Like how much did I not respect myself to let that friend say these jokes and make it become like a every second thing just because I didnt want to ruin the friendship. Like yes I shouldn't care about other peoples comments but you made me realize that I should step up for myself, even if its something that's not a big deal. if it goes over my boundaries then I should respect myself. Thank yiouuuu Lizzz, you truly helped my a lot with confidence. I wish the best for you!!
When I don't know you, I look at the mirror and think that I am so ugly even when my friends post a picture of them I comment there" slayyy/ u r so prettier than me" but when I know you I became so confident I start to care about myself, love myself and everyone start to call me selfish, when anyone call me "u r so ugly" I replied "Not like u, I love myself that is enough ". Thank you Liz you are a QUEEN ❤❤❤❤❤🥀
Im only 10 minutes in and I already admire this, I genuinely love your advice and mindset. It gives me the motivation to become a better person, thank you so much in behalf of everyone. You’re doing a wonderful thing Liz. I hope you heal from everything and you become more and more happy :)
This video wake me up to reality, i grew up being a doormat, so i was used being a doormat even in my jobs, this video helped me gather the courage to stand up and stop putting myself in situations that are uncomfortable to me just to please others
I never Imagine myself watching all this 28Minute because I'm kind of person who like to read more than listening to someone. Happy that I watched all this and listen to every single word you said. thank you Liz you are the best many opinion have changed 👏🏻 im a new follower from Saudi Arabia. thanks a lot 💓
this woman saves me every single time im at low point. whenever i make a decision, her videos pop up in my feed, and affirm them, even though they are scary. you are a hero liz.
I really really needed this video. Thank God it appeared on my homepage. It also made me tear up because no one has ever spoken such positive words to me. I wish I had someone to hype me up, and guess what? I'm going to be that someone for myself! I promise this to myself. Thank you, Liz. You've really helped us a lot
8:21 I can relate to this so much. I used to be desperate for a parter, for a lover, for someone to take care of me. I know this is a normal human desire but this shouldn't be the center of anyone's life. Now I'm learning how to love myself first before I can spread this love to another human being and that's amazing. I'm happy to be coming out of this phase. This video is gold and I'm so glad I've found your channel!! New subscriber earned for sure.
Love that you mentioned meditating, journaling, and reading. These are universal things that over time are guaranteed to help you out but most people don’t do them.
i love how eager you are to be the cycle breaker and give your future children the love and nurturing you probably didn’t get. you are such an inspiration, literally love your channel.
She is SO real. I thank you so much for this video Liz. I’m currently a very insecure person who has no confidence and lacks boundaries and you’re really helping me sort my sh*t out. You’re so wise. Thank you for your contribution to the world 💐
