When you talked about family and friends around 37:13 it reminded me of ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-40ACPGByY1I.html Many at times, at least in the more recent times, families don't always have the best interest. There are numerous levels of toxicity that come forward. I would say, this is the time when you rely on your friends and the mentors around you to be the 'spiritual' individual with the right morals and virtues. If I stuck with the morals and virtues of my own family, I wouldn't be the man I am today, and the man I am today is better and learning to be better each day! I love your lectures!