Remember to live in such a way that when you leave this earthly place, people don't rejoice on your grave. Let your works and deeds on this earth speak for you, long after you're gone. Tomorrow is not always promised to get it right.
This is where your because wrong white supremacist rejoiced on the day when a lot of us civil right leaders died so that really doesn't always apply and also black people never celebrated other people's death this was taught to us so the message you should be putting out there is let people be allowed to speak their truth but however show respect as if your mother taught you as your father taught you some damn self-respect and some manners that's what you should be addressing is almost condoning it you almost encouraging it when you say live your life the way I want you to live it and you will not get talked about when you die but the fact is because they mother and father didn't raise them right is the real truth cuz they have no damn respect and that's the problem the soft feminine describe needs to be checked and the people who subscribe to that minute ality need to fall back and stop trying to be in front of the camera speaking with a voice because you only making is weaker before the world you're not strengthening us you actually are tearing down the house A House Divided will never stand that is a constitutional right to have freedom of speech so but however there's also a thing called respect and moral and these things are taught in the home by the so-called people who gave you life if you're fortunate to have the biological ones so the narrative should always be educating teach to have respect for all people right there for it if you disagree with something doesn't give you the right to talk about the mother they sisters they child imagine if you had a child child and just because you have a disagreement with somebody and your child was born with some medical problems like say retardation slurred speech now people making memes a stuff about your child when your if your child passed away suddenly because they didn't like what you said on the internet that makes it okay because you had a different opinion didn't like how harshu talk so it's okay cuz you talk to Rolf people Internet bully and attack your child make fun of it the death of your child in the words of Kevin Samuels please make it make sense
He spoke facts I think people weren't able to handle the POV of heterosexual black men. Even on this network and other media outlets. The view point of masculine straight black men are not heard. Hes definitely shifted the culture more than the soft spoken people who call women Gods to get laid.
Ever heard the phrase "harsh truth?" A lot of people have selective hearing and anything other than the harsh, blunt truth will go in one ear and out the other. The reason modern-day women are as delusional as they are is because society has never come out and told them the honest truth about themselves. They have been coddled and sheltered from reality by the modern-day world that we live in.
Black women supporting him - too many of us are used to being berated and call it love. By preachers/pastors, parents and even personal trainers. "Keeping it real" is not the same as disrespect, which is what the departed did regularly.
He talked to men the same exact way, took the constructive honest criticism ditched the excuses and accepted that changes needed to be made. So why is it only one half of the community crying foul here?
Here the facts a 40+ year old with multiple kids has a better chance of getting killed by a terrorist them getting married. Look it up. You blackwomen live in total delusion the reason he was harsh because it was the only thing that worked.
@lindsay## Context is everything, he told that to women who were waiting for a so call HIGH-VALUE MAN but they themselves brought nothing to the table that would attract as much.
That's where I discovered him. I loved watching men review fragrances. Then he switched lifestyle content, then dating. I unfollowed him some time ago. Saw one of his infamous videos. I did not like his content and tone he took against BW. May he RIP.
@@vonnie1999 didn't it feel very different? The whole tone and mood. I like well dressed men and thought "oh good a man is teaching men how to dress better".
@@bunchielove6893 stop with the BS ! Rule #1 I tell my daughters don't u trust any women around your man or with ur business, there are a lot of back stabbing jezebels out they're and many on this page 🎤💥Boom💥🎤
That sugar bag on the right is an example That Black Men are going to be just like him by the year 2050. If we don’t listen to no one like Kevin Samuels. He’s not tearing down black women. He’s just telling them where they’re going wrong at. And so what he’s saying it in a harsh way. But at the same time he’s waking you black women up.
He never said he hated any women ! Stop lying ! Everytime u turn around someone is telling lies," just cause the man u wanted didn't want u," doesn't mean u should hate him forever 🥵
yea most black women feel disrespected and hated by him. Whether black men think so or not. And I would like to think that it’s up to black women to decide whether or not they’re being disrespected or not, not black men. Also any self respecting woman would not agree to be spoken to the way he spoke to/about women. The delivery is just as important as the message.
@@Sweettooth25 Keep telling lies. Kevin was respectful to the women who were respectful to him. And Kevin told of white and Hispanic women too. The reason black women are in all the viral videos is because they are the ones who are rude most of the time.
You know we can flip that right? For some reason Claudia felt the need to bring up the race of the woman. Why would any black man waste his time dating a woman who is so bitter and vindictive that she would celebrate the death of a man that she never knew personally. Any black man with a brain knows he will get that same energy if a relationship goes south with one of these black women. But of course you sit here and spew lies. Nobody is asking you to "feel sad." Being expected to feel sad and being expected not to disrespect a dead guy are two different things. The only reason you are trying to conflate the two is because you have no argument. Women dancing on the grave of a person they don't even know because he said some things they don't like is fucking pathetic. And then the same women wonder why men can't be bothered with them.
That is not a lie, it’s my opinion (you’re entitled to yours) that he was disrespectful. Women (of any race) should not be spoken to & about the way he did. And an overwhelming majority (as you can see from social media) feel disrespected by him. I still hope he is resting in peace, and my condolences to his family.
It’s crazy because women sought abuse from him. I saw 2 of his videos and thought, “this man is cray cray” and I never watched another one of his videos. This world is becoming cold, heartless, and disgusting..
We as women often act like we cannot walk away from hurtful things without resolve from the other party. I had this conversation with a friend the other day. Women on that "I need closure." Well, block him, erase the number, go into a hoe season, etc. Boom, it's closed. You don't have to listen to hurtful messages to feel justified.
@@DrLadyBugM girl, I think you’re my sister from another Mister because those are my thoughts exactly.. Women are hard headed. It’s almost like they like being beat down..
Shut up you don't know what you are talking about, these women sought reaness , frankness, and honesty. They got tired of being lied to, pampered and bullshitted by society , they want to be told what they knew all along but the world is afraid to tell them that they fucked up and are the sole responsible person for it and that this society, feminist society will fuck them up even more following white women agenda. Kevin showed how white women were winning over our women because they thought differently. It tis that soft bullshit you want to hear , too bad there will be nobody like Kevin. Kevin told women the truth stop settling for being baby mamas and being super overweight, get real with yourself and put in the work, physically, emotionally and financially and things will work out for you or continue on the path you are on and you will die alone.
Prior to Kevin Samuels, I would berate and privately humiliate my husband. I did not appreciate my marriage. I began listening to Kevin Samuels and my perspective of my husband and Black men in general changed dramatically. I realized that I was mistreating my husband and not seeing his value because I did not see my own value. Abuse from men or abuse from women at the end of the day is still abuse. Kevin Samuels' show gradually exposed my emasculating and abusive tendencies towards Black men. When a snake sheds its skin, it doesn't rub up against soft objects. It finds something that is tough and hard to help it shed his skin. I had to shed my former skin to be the Black wife that I am today. I'm a better woman, a better wife, and more importantly and appreciative wife of the man that I chose to marry. It wasn't only Kevin Samuels, but it began with watching videos by Kevin Samuels. Thank you for being the catalyst to my personal change and helping me to remain a married woman. My husband and I are still together, our marriage is flourishing and I feel better. Thank you kind Sir. May you rest in peace Mr. Samuels 🙏
Honey, If it took Kevin Samuels to show you that you are a bad person then you have a lot more to grow on. I’m pretty sure you was aware of the abuse before kevin samuels was even thought off and still thought it was okay. Bad people always get their karma no matter how it comes
@@ronnie6696 I think you are mostly right except the Karma part. Whose in charge of Karma? If he was a beloved person all around- would his exit be good karma?
@@lr1698 the bad karma is in the manner, the circumstances and untimeliness of his death. He died on top of a stranger he had just brought home a few hours before, and she was nearing the “leftover” age timeline.
Exactly there's so many people that hated him because he spew hate and the only reason why there were million people following him because some people like drama
The streets are saying he was with a call girl. That would explain a lot of his hatred for black women. Men who seek out professional women usually lack the confidence or capacity for intimacy. As for his death, I think people feel nothing because he didn’t seem to feel anything for others. His death just reminds me to treat people the way I want to be treated. So nobody will be glad I’m dead.
lmfao yall say whatever to make yallselves feel better fyi he spoke to men nd women black women just called him for advice** (15 mins of fame) not like dude was just out here giving unwanted malicious opinions, he was answering questions md hes dead so w.e people thought bout him its too late to tell him now lmao
Kevin Samuels told black women that they would die " old, unhealthy, and alone!" He also said that women over 35 who aren't married are " leftovers," and men know something is wrong with those women.I find it ironic that he died in the presence of a stranger he picked up the night before, and he was obviously unhealthy and lonely. The time to be mindful about what you say to people is when they are alive,and his words hurt a lot of people! THE DEAD CAN'T HEAR! My condolences to his family.
You don’t have to be dating, engaged or married to understand life and relationships well enough to give advice And we know very well that his points were valid so you don’t have a point
Yes, there is a difference between advice and abuse. An educated psychiatrist would never tell you the truth in an abusive manner. They help you heal in a productive yet truthful way. This is why they have the degree and KS did not 🤦🏾♀️
Straight 💯! WE sistas have some work to, along with the brothas, but DAAANNNG! WE can take the truth, but don't disrespect us and humiliate us, no, no no!!
Thank you ! And now not because he passed people offended by his way of speaking should be sad about it that’s just flat hypocrisy so let ppl talk regardless of his breathing state
This man denigrated, exploited, degraded, disrespected Black women in the cruelest way giving fuel to white supremacy...he wasn't a good man, he was a very bitter self hating man who projected alot of his bitterness and resentment towards black women...he said the worse shit about black women....why should they feel any sympathy for a man who used his platform to disrespect and dehumanize black women in the most demeaning ways. They have every right to vent there pain and hurt. The sad and most hurtful part is the hate and degrading of black women came from a black man...like I said he gave fuel to white supremacy by downing his own women.
You right and he was doing the first which is giving a different perspectives and tbh the women that are offended usually have most to all the qualities he speak on that men don’t want
I just heard of Kevin Samuels a few months ago. I listened to his channel a few times. There is some truth in what he said but I did approve of the way he delivered his message. I felt he had possibly a traumatic childhood and if he had ever been married, he had a bad marriage. I felt he had hatred toward black women. I felt he would never associate himself with a black woman. Fast forward today, he slept with a one night stand. A nurse. Based on his standards, a nurse should have been beneath his rich standards. A double standard to me. No, men and women are not the same but his platform did not reflex his last night of life. I didn't hate him, I felt sorry him because he was hiding from a traumatic life. Rest in peace Kevin Samuels.
his platform was to help ppl get married, he himself did not want marriage, saying that him being with a nurse should of been below his standards is false because men do not seek women based on her money, men are not hypergamous
I don't agree with him it's one thing to say you don't care about a person's death if you don't know who that person .This was a human being with a difference of opinion some good some not so good sometimes the truth is an ugly thing and it comes out the way it comes out you may not like it but you don't hate you get in the conversation. and give your point of view which many many black women don't have a problem doing trust me. And funky just said Khloe Kardashian had cottage cheese between her legs where's the difference. Between him and Kevin Samuels.
Funky is a raggedy, tired, wanna be girl. Of Course, you'll agree with him. Kevin Samuels held BW accountable. That's the real reason, why BW didn't like him.
What people is missing they complain about Kevin but they acting just like him so that means they will get the same treatment he got. Black community need help mentally bad ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ and when funky don't leave with that he will get the same not caring energy back. Don't they realize we all have a death date or people kidding me? If they didn't like Kevin Samuel show or anybody show you simply don't watch you don't be glad someone died that's a lower mentality then what he was.....
@@carolewise I bet that makes you feel better... You can't compare the two. This narcissist made a career and 1,000 of hours of content belittling women who didn't fit a certain standard while pandering to less than average men. So people not caring or making jokes about his passing in a tweet or a comment on social media pales in comparison to the hatred he spewed.
@@Panamaschild stop he spoke to women and men , he was just as rude Nd harsh to dudes lmao you and most women just are sensitive to the truth especially when it’s giving unapologetically, he had no problem telling women their faults Nd women hated tht lmao Nd he didn’t make random malicious opinions ...they literally went and asked him questions like are you fake mad or are you just a sped??
@Mari1997 M The apartment wasn't under his name because he allegedly had terrible credit and owed back child support yet preached down on people just like him. Unmarried with children and a deadbeat and sleeping around....allegedly. Even still, I don't celebrate his death. I looked at him as pure entertainment, and he catered to an audience that resented women who won't date them, so they praised his berating as "truth." At least they had a hero.
I feel sorry for his mom. As a black woman with 3 sons I could not imagine any of them being like this man. I watched him only a few times and that was enough for me. He crushed those women with his words and it was hard to watch.
@@MindfulJA3 funky clearly didn’t watch KS videos just the viral moments that made it to social. I have heard funky say the exact same things Kevin said especially about how black women are rarely prepared to date wealthy men.
Hell naw he gave y’all a reality check y’all sensitive asses jus too emotional to use logic. You’ve been told your a queen and you deserve the world when that’s straight bullshit. Women have unrealistic standards and kev was shining a light on it. Nothing he said was a lie.
I watched 1 episode of Mr. Samuels and I was done. He appeared to me to be insecure and a relationship failure(2x divorced). Yes, he made a lot of money but he had to sell the black woman out(and he came from 1) to do it. That is typical slave mentality and behavior. He could not gain traction with his initial venture of correcting the black man, so he decided to regurgitate the stereotypes and tropes that American society have labeled the black woman. I am a black woman who was blessed to be raised by a strong father and mother who were happily married for 57 years until the passing of my mother 2 years ago. My father uplifted my mother and treated her with dignity and respect as she did him. That is the true essence of the black man, woman, marriage and family unit. Funky was spot on, your delivery is everything. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Beloved, you should have taken a page out of Iyanla's book. Prayers for him and his fam.
All I could think of was that scene from The Color Purple; “How’d he die?” “On top of me.” I was like whoah 😳. That’s crazy. The universe is real. Be very careful of the energy that you put out.
A lot of black woman have insecure issues and are desperately looking for any type of comfort and acceptance. This is why he was supported so much. Many of us have either daddy issues or been in bad relationships and they thought Kevin Samuel’s was the answer. It seems as though the women that called into his show tried so hard be the exception of what and how he felt about black women. Like they wanted to prove to him that they were the exception. When he was not even worthy of that stays. We better be proving ourselves to God and not to any human. Strive for that. 🙏🏽
Orrrrr they have been failing in their love life by listening to people who tell them what they want to hear and not what they need to know and Kevin provided that for not only women but men as well. When ever you all have this convo you all always conveniently leave out he talked to men the same way. He helped people get their shit together and get rid of delusions period.
@@Harold10ful Nope. It's what she said. Women know women just like men know men. Only a woman with low self esteem and self-worth went on his show unless they purposely wanted to challenge him. Sadly there are many women out there with low self esteem and guys like Samuels just contribute to it. These same women usually attract abusers because they do not know their value which is not about how how beautiful they are or how much money they have and that goes for all human beings. Once you know your true value and worth, nothing and no one can stand in your way.
You all broke it down well. He would say “what size are you?” “how tall are you?” to set up his berates. It was genius what he created by basically doing the same thing rappers do in a classy way. This was a perfect storm to draw in all those men who despise women and make his fame and fortune.
Why yall keep talking about rappers for?? TF?? Just cause a person raps doesn't mean they are a f boy. Cmon now. There's sooo much different types of rappers for yall to just try to group them all as "Rappers". SMH!
@@kimleemoon Most?? You know there's a bunch of rappers out there right? But maybe you're right. Idk. I don't listen to the ones that do...well sometimes...but I listen to the ones that do respect them. But thats just me.
So true 👏👏👏... But at what point are we going to hold the black women that were going on his show accountable for the bs they played in it. Because black women were giving him a platform. They was taking it as a lightweight competition to boost their egos thinking that he's going to praise them for being better than the next Black woman. Call it for what it was.
@@krystaldouglas1305 I agree. I said why do black women keep calling and they also had a choice to hang up the phone. I'm not understanding because you have to feed someone for them to eat.... meaning if black women hated him so why they kept calling making him money. Like you said some would come on there for their ego and got checked. I have to blame the people because just like Gucci (product) "hate black people" you still had/have a generous amount of black people running back to them. Some black folks always quick to say why they hate someone yet give people money, streams, attention, & etc. I could careless about anyone hating him because from what Al said majority of the haters gave him that very boost he got in his career. "Hate him or love him his numbers still running up because of some of those very black women who just "cant stand him".
@@krystaldouglas1305 Bravo for this post! Low-key....those women wanted those men, who were on Kevin's show to go ... "Look at that good, understanding BW... Kevin hook it up with me and her. Make it happen.
Funky needs to take his own words. He’s often brutally honest and people tune into him. Funky is correct Just because he’s dead doesn’t mean to give him flowers he didn’t deserve.
He NEVER made women call to get his opinion & advice. To act as if he walking around soliciting unwanted opinions to women in public, is ludicrous. I was no fan but I gave him no energy either.
I mean serious mental issues. People glad he died don't they realize they also have a death date their children have a death date their mother have a death date. ETC. If you didn't like his show who told them to watch people are stupid AZZZZZZZZ Fk‼️‼️‼️
A guy once responded to me by saying KS said that men like him were high value, and that he was young and has plenty women. I told him if he was really about his grind he wouldn't have time to Listen to KS and wouldn't be out there trying to lay up with everything
A woman saying a hard working man is not good enough for her is vile. Eighty percent of women say a middle class man is not good enough. Vile. Kevin was simply pointing out the vile nature of American women.
Being hateful and hiding behind "I'm just telling the truth" IS very brutal. (Thank you Funky). Please be more protective of your peace. Do not take advice from people who have not been vetted by you. Being the equivalent of a broken clock (right only 2x a day/wrong 22x a day ) in not a good enough track record.
It seems like a lot of black woman are celebrating his death. But y'all never keep that up for racist black woman y'all are the worst and y'all wonder why black man want to date outside the race.
This funky guy takes the same approach to topics that Kevin did but for some odd reason it makes sense with him but not Kevin? And Funky is gay Kevin never spoke on lgbt anything what experience does funky have with relationship dynamics between black men and women?? You all will listen to anyone that will make you feel good despite how questionable their credibility is smh
This man was toxic AF. If ppl want to express their disdain for him before or after his life. I truly don't CARE! YOU get, what you give. Miss me this sheit. I'm with Funky.
Yeah and I'm sure Tiffany has the mind set of what Kevin was talking about and I'm sure Tiffany's not married happily with children just by the concept that you didn't like anything he said explains a lot about you so a lot of women that talk negative about him really upset that he has exposed them and how they are as people so course you going to be upset and mad at the person who spilled the dirt about you out there for everybody to see of course you're going to be mad but the person you really should be mad with is yourself and your parents who taught you that that kind of behavior towards other people is acceptable and you will be successful by being ignorant ratchet aggressive and non-feminine
I would be more open to listening to his points if he actually practiced what he preached. He was 56 still hooking up with chicks he met that night. And she wasn’t even black.
There is always a price to pay. You got famous, you made millions but you’re gone too soon to even enjoy it…why? You’ve got to pay the price for the life you choose to live!
As a dating coach I bumped into his channel while doing research on misogyny. There was lots of negativity on the episode I tuned in for. Trying to make people feel badly about who they are can never be spun to appear positive. So condescending and antagonistic!
And if lots of people agreed with him, lots of men, as you suggested, they are just part of the RU-vid population of misogynists and men who hate women. He was giving a voice to that hatred and I don’t think that will be missed in the world.
@@kiyonaleesmith2606 You seem confused. So try to follow along. They said something, I asked for clarification. You replied "yes what" therefore explaining nothing. Do you need help?
I agree with everything y'all said. Although I didn't care for Kevin Samuels' commentary, I feel bad that he died and I feel for his family! As Ice Cube said about his former manager Jerry Heller, I'm not going to shed any tears, but I'm not going to pop champagne bottles either! Prayers and condolences to his family!
@@redbullgavemewings1553 so two wrongs make a right? Cause they very people celebrating it will be the same ones calling themselves christians and child’s of god. 😒
Listen, my "Ex-boyfriend" rallied behind Kevin Samuels and told me I should listen to this guy. I did but after listening to Kevin Samuels a few times, I checked the hell out and I can honestly see why my Ex is my Ex for him to believe this guys foolish antics in how to deal with a black women and my Ex was on board with everything that crazy lunatic man said. I no longer speak to my ex and refused to subscribe to Kevin Samuels channel. God led me to Bishop RC Blakes who reads straight from the Bible. So there was some good and bad that came out of it. We're all searching for answers, God is still on the Thrown, HE never left and HE still saves....
Are we that emotionally unstable and broken as women that the opinion of a man that we don’t know or don’t want can causes so much trauma that we would call his death karma?? He wasn’t walking the streets with a camera crew, stopping random women on the streets and giving Them his opinion. Those idiots called him.
Exactly well said that's what I've been saying women called into his show assumingly knowing how he is already they or what to expect he didn't chase them down
Say it one more time for those in the back funky. . . Transitioning does not absolve someone from accountability nor does it mean those wronged, on earth, must remain shackled to the things that impacted them. Humans are afforded the space to unapologetically speak their truth and release ANY sentiments they feel toward the person. A massive part of healing centers around precisely that! Sadly sometimes the safest space to say your truth is after someone has died. . Clinging onto the belief of “not speaking ill of those who have transitioned” is directly linked to passing down generational trauma. Allow people to release it without judgement. It is healing
Say that! My cousin spoke at his dads funeral and all but called him out his name. Everyone was offended but 1. He was forced to speak and he said 2. He said his peace.
@@DrLadyBugM I’m so sorry about the loss in your family. That said, as a people we are so conservative that we cling onto ideals that leave us shackled to the things that don’t serve us, nor those after us, any good. A massive part of healing requires carving out a space to speak your truth just as much as it is to live it. Creating “hall passes” for persons exclusively because they’ve moved on is akin to telling those living to “suck it up” . How does that promote healing? How does that make any of us feel we have value? I’m happy your cousin reclaimed his power.
@Dnest10 , The amount of BW, celebrating Kevin Samuels death. Proves his point. Most of y'all are worthless, bottom feeders, that takes accountability, for absolutely nothing. The same joy, you're having with his death. Someone's gonna have with yours. Remember that.
and no the safest space to say ya truth isnt when someone dies lmao tf lady its in fact the most disrespectful time to say ya peace, in fact its attention seeking...i dont know hoe you got all them likes must be all incompetent women
The saddest part is the way his mother and kids found out. Everyone so quick to be the first to drop a story, they never think about how it could affect the family. It’s just sad all the way around from his death to all the hate from black men and women on social media there is such a divide. It’s just crazy.
I'm confused as to why it's sad if the mother and kids found out through social media versus through the cops or health authorities? The delivery will be the same, the comments will be the same. When you are a popular figure sometimes that happens. This is coming from someone that found out my grandfather passed on the news due to him being a high profile person and having to call home to verify. IMO, it's no different than finding out a relative passed in the newspaper's obituary. Death sucks.
@@dariusd2003 I just think the family should know first and agree to release the information to the public. I also understand your point of view because public figures really have no privacy.
Grading women and ranking them was the best thing ever to happen in the last 10 years women always grade and rank men they talked about it and all the movies and in person about the man they all have an interest to us the hypocrite statement you said already so why you lost the discussion you tried to interject men of visual creatures women know this is widely where everything that tries to hug every damn curve in every possible area without clothing on to get men attention if you didn't want men's attention you would dress like you see the nuns in the Bible says for women to dress like that not like cardi B Megan stallion city girls this is the new modern black woman that wants to be wild nasty looking fat and obese hates the gym because the forces of black woman to say hey you need to do something about your body your out-of-shape get your ass in the gym and that's just one better for somebody but oh I'm in my feelings I can't I want to be sloppy and I want to be able to do nothing until be appreciated the same way Beyonce gets appreciate it the same way Sierra the Rihanna gets appreciated my role model is people like lizzo and what can I be ugly or average woman and get the most handsome that's in shape men in the richest man it's not fair every every man should just take me as I am ugly fat and obese what the nasty attitude independent ghetto in Ratchet at the mouth it's not he's a bad man she doesn't love black women because he doesn't take us the way we are Jesus won't even take you the way you are it says in the Bible if you don't do what supposed to be done you're not invited into the Kingdom of Heaven why the hell should we didn't keep you around do anything that is of a female
2:21 EXACTLY Funky. Thats EXACTLY What he was doing. And sadly, All the low self esteem women would keep going to him begging and hoping and praying to get validated by him...only to come out feeling much worse. It was really crazy. And the men...the lowkey hating men would love it and think that's entertainment. IJS. SMH!
@Jay C I agree with you! The sad thing is there will be another Kevin Samuel and these women/men that followed him will be right there in the cut. I just wish people would focus on their inner healing instead of looking outside of themselves for someone else to save, love or validate them.
I’m not tap dancing and I’m not grieving. Just because I’m indifferent about his dęäth doesn’t make me a horrible person. BW are our own worst enemies. This is why nothing will change in our community. You can tell the truth without being disrespectful and hateful towards the very people who give you your paycheck. The fact that BW won’t close their check books and stop supporting BM who could care less about them and often times hate them is problematic and self destructive. Apparently BW hate themselves as much as we think BM do. 🤦🏽♀️
Some black females are used to abuse. They have probably been abused some form or another all their lives. Me, I heard a portion of his work, don’t like the negativity, abuse so I moved in.
Funky. You agreed with his message but then say your issue was with his delivery. How could he have delivered his message? Honestly... In my experience, telling women anything they don't want to hear, no matter how nice, has the bitter society yelling "YOU HATE BLACK WOMEN!" It's becoming a generation of women that lack awareness, discipline, and can't take criticism.
Than ur a fool just like him,but knowing Kevin Samuels may he have all the lord's blessings and our prayers 🙏him and his family 🙏 u and funky along with that snake Claudia can go straight to 🔥 and don't expect any water from me 🤣
I’ve never been one to deem someone a ‘saint’ just cause they’ve passed….if you were wrong in life…you’re wrong in de@th too…nothing’s changed…you’re just gone.
Well said Dineva. How people are reacting to his death tells more about him, his time on earth, how he treated people & how he made people feel than it does about the people’s reactions. There’s a whole market for single, lonely black women & people make money, prey on them & their emotions all the time
@@ralphangel561 I just don't get the celebrating that he died that's the most disgusting thing when the same women will call in on his show and pay him. The female brain thank God I don't fit the batch. these are a bunch of I'm going to call Thot brain females. They didn't like Kevin but he pimped them on a RU-vid channel $3 million but they didn't like it stupidity ‼️
Funky dude seems to have just as bad of a delivery Nd seems more condescending than Kevin samuels but he’s gay so I don’t even take him serious with a topic like this
"Honesty without compassion is brutality!" This is a word. Q is right much of (not everything) what he was was right, yet there is a way to speak to everyone, so they receive the message. The message doesn't hit the same if people are too offended to listen. No one deserves to be disrespected or embarrassed just for kicks and giggles.
@@TheSunkissedmein2000 if you tell me to take out the trash and I spread it across your front yard, was I actually helpful? Just because he was honest doesn't mean he did an efficient job. Now I think many women got on there trying to take him down as if they were better than the last one, yet most failed to look in the honesty mirror and didn't like that his whole game was to point out their flaws. No one is perfect. We all live to be better, but there was a missed opportunity to open the conversation where no one walked away hurt.
@@DrLadyBugM it seemed like he was toning down recently , kind of like what Charlamagne did. Remember how harsh he was ? Then when he realized he had the peoples ears he completely switched his images. Maybe he was hiding the medicine in the candy but everyone was affected in their own way by his words so no ones feelings can be held against them but he doesn’t deserve to have his grave spit on..(not that you are)
You say he abused women but didn't these women call in to his show WILLINGLY...what women hate about this man is he dragged women on their faults the same way they do to men.
I am sure some Black Women "followed" KS because it allows us/them to hear his ideology and strategically move around his followers at all times. He may have tried to "help", but it came off abusive and traumatic. 75% BW followed for several different reasons. I agree with Funky 10000%- every word. The irony is the KS "killed the spirits" of some many BWs that blindly wanted his guidance (educated, BBW, independent, had their own money), but it was the same type of woman that he took home on 5/5 for pleasure; the same type of woman that saw him take his last breathe and attempted to save his life- ironic to say the least.
He killed their delusional. Being 5'2 and 200 pounds isn't beautiful. Having 4 baby daddies doesn't make you strong. And having 2 degrees doesn't mean you made it. Black folks are in a terrible position in society.
I listened to him twice, and I almost gave up on marriage after 30. I had to quickly call up a friend to help me detox my mind🤮 I immediately stopped listening to him, he sucks the breathe out of hope and possibility, smh. People are unique in several ways, we are more than our body shape, height and weight, or even colour. He couldn't see that. He was blind as hell.
I’m not taking the moral high ground. I feel the way about him in death that I felt about him in life. Not happy or sad. Indifferent. His passing is average at best.
Its unfortunate and sad that it happened. It’s also heartbreaking how his mother was notified. However, I don’t feel no ways whatsoever about the fact that he passed.
Black women need to get it together and stop listening to men like KS. He was beyond disrespectful and I’m shocked to know that his fan base was majority black women.
I'm with Al. I didn't know that most of his followers were women. I'm shocked by that. I would like to know the age range and demographic of these women. Are we sure they were black women because other people lurk on these platforms to get understanding of how black people think.
I believe most of his followers were black women, the fact that there were black women voluntarily calling his show to berated by him said enough for me. Also, Let's not forget that although patriarchy and misogyny are male created concepts, women play a huge part perpetuating it. Kevin was polarizing to the point that he was attracting all groups of women.
@@neisci Those women were calling to his show because they were seeing their mother and aunties single with no man and multiple kids. Those women did not want to make the same mistakes they did so they sought advice from a man that actually got several couples engaged and married. Several women appeared on his show smiling with engagement rings and thanked him for his advice.
Seeing so many guys providing their experiences with Kevin and/or while watching him say things like “Kevin got me to wear a suit..” or “Kevin taught me how to be a man..” after the news of his passing came out, I have a boat load of sympathy for them because it’s unfathomable that some young guys truly have no man in their life or no respect for the men in their lives that listening to a man like Kevin propelled them to look inward. Kevin along with many others are examples of how us as black people are looking for a singular leader to represent us as whole. This outlook is counterproductive because we need to understand that collective responsibility carry more weight than any singular leader.
@missekevu33 And THAT from a broader perspective speaks facts into this whole situation. Now if those same men learned all that from him. Will they treat women like the messages he spewed? Such a contradiction in terms, but hopefully they will fair better than he did. Great observation though.
Black women hate men like him because he was telling the truth about yall and how dare he do that. Black men r fed up with Black women, this lady was a perfect example "how dare men say they are checking us".
@@joddyleaks8272 I hope you are okay on your end. It’s nothing wrong with criticism and accountability but the lines are crossed when people get disrespectful in how the feel about what others do with their lives.
@@joddyleaks8272 I think you are just simply slighted in what's being said here. Black women never said the messages he delivered were invalid, but the DELIVERY of the message was the problem in itself. A psychiatrist job is to develop the general knowledge of the human brain, analysis on human behaviors, and finding CONSTRUCTIVE ways to help the human through whatever difficulties they're facing through licensed assistance. KS was biased against BW ONLY and, verbally and mentally abusive to strangers; who the heck does his own women that way??? For what reason? I never understand why he didn't touch on BM shooting each other, innocent babies, and viciously murdering their own women TOO. If his goal was to ultimately draw light and encouragement to producing black families then we need to start constructive criticism on all sides. He was a weirdo, but RIP because he was a life on this Earth.
Why don’t men blame the men that left them instead of their mothers. She stayed, clothed you and fed you and so much animosity is built up. If you were looking for a man to teach you how to be a man then learn to be a better man and stay in your child’s life. You don’t need another man to teach you that. No one taught kevin samuels. His father wasn’t in the picture either. You are being directed by someone who didn’t have a dad either. I don’t understand it
Was it strange or was it a typical night for him? Aside from him dying. We don’t know what that man did in his own time after he logged off his computer.
Exactly! It possibly could have been a set up! Hopefully they will check him for needle indentation! An injection required, by a particular drug; to bring on a "heart attack!" 🤔
His delivery was nasty, demeaning, disrespectful, manipulative and even somewhat abusive. People are really trying to masquerade his whole delivery as truth, help, insight when really all it was, was people enjoying watching someone tear another human being down and he enticed a huge audience that loved it. People are insecure and deep down they love to watch others be torn down and thats all that it was. The majority of the time, the women weren't even saying anything offensive to warrant Kevins reactions and I couldn't even watch his videos anymore because I don't take joy in watching another human being being verbally abused, nor do I find it "helpful, progressive". I've had to be painfully honest with people but I didn't deliver like that and still got my message across.
First of All. I followed him for a long time. I supported him. He didn’t hate black women. His work was focused on building black families, dating advice and financial literacy.
@@aquarius-woman5364 I’m black. By the way. Watching Kevin Samuels was optional. And when black women are being rude and disrespectful over his passing. I am going to speak against it. The comments are offensive and there is the reason why a lot of us support him. He told us the T R U T H. He had a platform where we were welcome to speak and share a different perspective. He talks to black women. He did not talk at us. But talk with us. I can see he was challenging us. 71 percent of black women are single mothers and 1 out 4 of us get married and our average income is not competitive. That’s an issue in our culture. He brought the conversation to the table. He wanted black women to do better because we are better. He warned us that we need to start focusing on building black families. I watched him every night. He taught a lot of women and gave good advice to many. I celebrate his good work. It’s unfortunate that we only focus on some of his controversial conversations and sound bites. When we should focus on his overall M E S S A G E.
@@janicejobity Okay you're one of them black male worshippers... Its women like you who allow daughters to be abused and not believe them. I hope for Gods sake that you don't have daughters and if you do, I pray for them. You are the type who enjoy black women getting abused and excuse it with you're black male worshipping. God bless women like you!
He had some good points but he was a misogynists' and really disrespected Black women way too much in the claim of making them better without any credentials. He did it for views and shifted most of the responsibility from Black men. Thanks Funky for being so authentic!
Telling black women to lower their standards is not Telling the truth. Telling women who were over a certain age that they lost their value is not Telling the truth. I'm glad the clown is gone.
Women applauded when he criticized men. But talking about those women having three children with different fathers and wanting a high-value man who makes six figures to give them clairvoyance in the world we live in is suddenly shaming black women.
@@lauriel.4667 LOL! I’m referring to the ppl who didn’t like him bc of his harsh delivery, silly. They’re are ppl actually saying shit like , “that’s what he get”. Just wicked!
With Funky on this. Not celebrating his death but he gets no sympathy from me either. His delivery was beyond brutal to black women. Contrary to popular belief, you cant talk to people just any kind of way. And this l “high value man” reportedly never paid child support.
Who cares what u think u don't even stand up for anything just like that fraud funky u should go to the park with him when he goes to perform his tricks 🤣
@@afrolore7462 Nope, just wanted to see the saps who pine over his death! I couldn't care what women he spoke to because I didn't follow him. You clowns got off on his platform, him making money of fakery fuckery. I knew of his platform from other channels on what not to look for when it comes to the fools who followed him.
I'm not feeling black women rejoicing his death or basically saying "oh well that's what he gets" y'all sound bitter asf and it's not cute. I don't think he hates black women. I think at times he has very sexist patriarchal views, but as far as him "solely attacking black women" y'all stay reaching with that narrative. If you are familiar with his earlier content, you see him dragging black men as well. He kept the same energy so I'm not feeling black people dismissing a black man's death. 😒
So true 👏👏👏... But at what point are we going to hold the black women that were going on his show accountable for the bs they played in it. Because black women were giving him a platform. They was taking it as a lightweight competition to boost their egos thinking that he's going to praise them for being better than the next Black woman. Call it for what it was.
Al asked a good question why were the majority of his listeners black women? People want to give him credit for keeping it real but look at the message he was sending to his majority black female audience. From the clips I saw he was telling them that because they are undesirable they should take what ever man they can get. Black women already do that. Look at who we choose to mate with. Black women already believe that they are undesirable. We are the number on consumers of beauty products. He did nothing to uplift his people.
Funky dineva you said it all… Just because you die, don’t change how you were when you were alive and don’t expect black women to ALWAYS take the moral high grounds when black men constantly attack them “Honest without compassion is brutality”
Funky I agree with you 💯% the good book says You reap what you sow. What you put out that's what you get back. It's not what you say, it's how you say it & unfortunately there's alot of men like him that still exist.
THANK YOU FUNKY!!!! 🙏🏾💗🙏🏾💗🙏🏾 As Kevin Samuel stayed, “I’m just a left-over”, so I feel No Ways. Just Saying. 🤷🏾♀️🤨 You should be careful in putting down a group of people, especially women, especially older women! 🤨
It is the truth he is just hard With his wording but if in your younger years you played yourself being a side chick and not knowing your value. It is your fault now you are older and yes it gets harder to date and find a man that will want you. You should marry young and stop being side chick and allowing yourself to be passed around because you want to be men while you are dating men. It does not work . You too needed a dose of reality or a father in your life to raise you right, you would have never been a hoe.
@@magortukamara1837 don’t bring the ancestors into it. If we gone use that logic ..then why are there still white racists like Zimmerman still walking around and why did that white lady that lied on emmit till live til she was like 100. Y’all really tryna make it seem like he died bc he was disrespecting black women.. thats stupid as fuck bc it’s racists out there have done actual things to harm black the community and some live long healthy til they 100 plus. The ancestors ain’t come for them bc that ain’t how the universe work. So this weird ass celebrating of this death mans death is uncalled for..y’all pathetic quite honestly
Was slick buT meanT absolutely nothg! Especially weN u see how brutal Women are to each in The reaL life ( off social media) on a daily.. sugar on shiT is stiLL shiT. Js 🤷🏽♂️
@@simmiewilliams5970 so you wouldn't listen to a doctor or a therapist or any trained professional. People who are trained understand trigger words. It's dangerous to practice something you don't fully understand.
This man said he don’t care that someone elses child has died what a wicked soul. Kevin was outspoken you may have not liked him but he prospered in ways some would never.
He was not abusive. He was not misogynistic. Im in my 50’s with 3 dogs living alone. I wish i knew then what i now know today, thanks to Kevin Samuels. AND who cares what the nurses nationality was and what not. I bet the over a million of subscribers don’t care either. Ya’ll lost me today. 👎🏼
