You can tell it really hurts the granddaughter!! She acts like it don’t hurt but u can tell it do hurt her !!! I want to tell you keep strong and you know she really loves you ❤️🥰🥰😘🥰😘❤️ you are doing a excellent job caring for your grandmother!!!!!!
I don't think it bothers her because she knows she really doesn't mean it iys just the dementia. You learn to take everything they say like a grain of salt.
@@cocochanel1029 exactly her grandmother is dementia and that's how they behave, and the grandmother is doing a very good job 👏 thanks b to glory for all the great things he has done.
Yes but she understand it's a condition that can't be controlled, that she, you or I may suffer with someday. It sad😥 but true. She cute, a lil funny and very sad how our minds can be robbed 😥🙏🏽💖
Lmao when she said “I don’t see nobody” I fell out. She got good sense lol she think you the crazy one 😂😂 at times she’s well aware of what’s being said . That’s awesome
Itty-bitty self, she's so cute and funny! Girl she be letting you have it. They tend to treat the people that they're closest to like crap when they're suffering from dementia. Hang in there praying for you both.💞
I had to learn that the hard way when I was care-giver for my grandmother. She said some of the nastiest, hurtful things to me. Once I understood what was happening I just equated all that meanness to her way of expressing love.😂😂❤️
My sister had dementia Lord rest her soul her daughter took good care of her and she would cuss her daughter out like they say the ones that take care of them is the one they mistreat dementia seems like some kind of demonic dease all of a sudden they would outburst with this foul language...
@@barbarasmith93 it is demonic spirit anytime I leave a comment saying let the preacher come pray for her Tasha deletes it my grandma told me dementia is a demonic spirit
😂😂Grandma says she don't see nobody else, she's not talking. This granddaughter is a gift from God. She loves her grandmother, that's what matters. God bless you both.❤❤.
Your grandpa is so sweet.❤ I am so sorry that you didn't get the love, care and attention that you truly deserve from your grandma. No matter what she said or did you have to know that you are an angel for caring for your grandparents. Take care of yourself! Sending you lots of love and prayers!💕🙏❤
I pray that GOD sends his Angel's to protect your spirit and health. It's ALOT to try and care for both of your elderly grandparent's. Consider home health care when you need some ME time. 🙏❤😇
@@dweakley1 yes Granddaughter Tasha definitely needs a break.Look into hospice,or respite.Try to get funding through agencies that will help pay for HH nursing,or care.I realize u might not want strangers in your home,and that Adult Day Care programs can be very costly.Maybe family,or friends can come sit with Mrs.Helen so u can have a rest,and regroup.Idk how you withstand the struggle on a daily basis 365 days a week 24/7.May the Lord bless,provide,and continue to sustain u.Tasha u are as rare as black pearls.🙏🏽and prayers from Flint,Mi.
Everyday is a episode with dementia ,my grandmother stops everyone and says she hasn't ate in weeks with a pack of cookies in her hands.I cherish every moment....
Grandma: “Who you talking to?” Tasha: “Them”. Grandma: “I don't see nobody”. Grandma is right. Ain’t nobody on that screen. You can’t trick her 😂😂. l love this channel!
Girl you are a Gem ,I love how you interact with her ,I know she must have been so sassy before never a kind word to you...God bless you grandaughter as you had cared for them in such a compassionate way..
I didn’t grow up with grandparents so it’s a blessing to anyone who did My mom had dementia before she passed in 2019 and she was the same way, just gotta keep letting them know you love them This woman is so beautiful, reminds me of my mother!!!
OMG.. you did a phenomenal job just OMG I'm in tears you are so beautiful for being there for her. I was a nurse's aide for over 20-years.. And you DID THAT.. much blessings to you!!
She was a hand full.She still knows a lot for a person with dementia. She can communicate very well you .She doesn't love you she means she loves you .She got me here cracking up.
She got alot of sense.. She knows damn well is no person in that room.. So that's why she not waving or saying hi.. sooo adorable.. I miss her.. So i keep watching all the replays.. God bless you Tasha.. u took care of her well.. ❤❤❤❤❤
That old woman is a handful! She was a handful before she got old. Bless you, child, for protecting her from all danger and the harm that she can bring upon herself. ❤
She reminds me so much of my grandmother, who lived until a couple of months before 100 years old. She was feisty too, and told all of us off daily. She was so funny. I miss her so much. Enjoy your time with her.
That’s a full on way to start the day I know she’s unwell but her meanness to you makes me cry and your an angel she could b in a nursing home 🏡 but you are there 24/7. Beautiful beautiful lady you are ❤
Helen, Loves you !! No one knows what this is like dealing with one with dementia until you have to walk in these shoes... you have to be a strong and caring person to deal with a love one.
Say it again ❤❤❤❤❤❤They may have not been our grandmother’s but baby they are our grandmothers I truly miss momma Helen momma Holla and momma Nancy you beautiful souls will truly be missed
I miss my granny 😢 🕊️ She passed 3 years ago & it still hurts!!!!!!!!! She had the beginning stages dementia. Most of the time she chill, laid back talking about the old days ☺️ Other days the verbal abuse, hurtful words. Telling me to call Tia but I’m standing beside her 😢 We took everything in & just tried to lighten the atmosphere. Rough!!!
Girl what makes her adorable? Lol the abuse she spews at her and it’s not just now she’s sick u can tell that hurts her she’s always treated her ugly. But look at who’s helping her the ones who she abused
Big daddy is a sweetheart! And Helen is in her own way. I find it fascinating watching these dialogues between you and her. Love that you are taking care of your Grandma and shrug off all of these things she says. Very sweet!
She is the sweetest mean lil fireball...i wanted to reach through the screen and just give her lil fiesty self a big ole hug....Tasha you are a very patient caring sweet person for caring for your grandmother. God bless you.
U are so blessed to have her in ur life and take care of her instead of putting her in a assisted living home or nursing home facility GOD will bless you 🙏🏾💕💕💕💐
I'm a carer and a support worker....I love this video and how raw it can get caring for someone, I look after people who says all sorts and it's all about knowing that they don't really mean it and not knowing what they are saying!! You keep doing what your doing someone told me the people who care for others no matter what there needs are....are angels ✨️
I love u Tasha' ur a beautiful soul. Ur love & patients for grandma is amazing. May the Most High🙏🏾 continue to keep ur family. I love when she say' I don't want nothing u got!! Lmao' cracks me up everytime.
Lolol😂❤, not laughing at the part where she says that she doesn't love her granddaughter, but the part when she said hellll no😂..too funny. At that age people speak their minds tho😏
Aww this warms my heart. How you and your brother take care of your grandparents!! Big daddy is adorable ☺️ May The Heavenly Father bless you and your brother for taking care of the elderly! 🙏🏽❤️
Tasha has a lot of patience and her grandfather as well. This is exactly how her house stays balance. Blessing to her family. Her grannie is cute but definitely a fire cracker 🥰
It's good to see how much patience you have with your Grandmother, God will Bless you so much. She don't know what she is saying or how much it may hurt, but I am so glad that God has given you the Love for her. I pray that God will continue to keep you there, you are such a Blessing for her and her husband, God Bless you, just give it all to God.May God continue to keep you in His Care.
Awwww you are AMAZING people may not understand just how it takes a VERY GOOD loving PERSON & PATIENCE ESPECIALLY to do what you do for your beautiful grandparents especially your grandmother with her dementia I work in the medical field trust me I know all to well. Lord knows I had so much respect for you & what you do hang in there you’re definitely doing an AMAZING job & I LOVE watching your videos and CONGRATULATIONS on your beautiful grandson❤️
Oh my goodness, the more I watched you and your grandmother I get tickled pink my name is Barbara I’m 72 years old, and she reminds me so much of my mom just cute when people have Alzheimer’s they are just not themselves a lot, but we just treasure each moment that they that we have with them you enjoy your days with her and tell her I said hi
Reminds me a little of my great grandmother. She eventually came around liking me when I stopped pestering her. I still had to give her baths, insulin shots, breakfast made, clean her up and all regardless how she treated me. It was a family thing had to be done. PERIOD.
I’m glad you made these videos to keep the memories of your grandmother. She’s a fire cracker. Makes you want to cry and laugh at the same time. She’s so adorable. My condolences to you and your family. You are an amazing granddaughter to have made the time to care for her. I know we didn’t see the sweet side of her, but you did I’m sure. I’m just glad that even her feisty side was cute and not brutal. ❤
You know what I like about your grandma she speaks her mind and she will let you know how she feels she don't mind biting her tongue either she's absolutely adorable and she keeps me rolling with laughter 😂💕😂