This is the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. Having a miscarriage after 7 yrs of infertility is devastating. I will seek therapy as I'm still mourning my loss.
I understand what you are going through. I was 8 weeks this would have been week 9. I lost my baby the same day I lost my mom seven years ago. Devastating blow... I miss my baby too.... Don't give up hope, keep believing... Hope is the only thing I have...
I'm shocked actually of how much miscarriages are not talked about. I cannot speak for everyone/everybody but talking about it is helping me. Talking to my boyfriend about it because we shared that devastating and traumatic experience together. We saw our miscarriage happen and that is the part that will always hurt. We started the "what if" conversation and to be honest that does not help much it just made us sadder than what we already were. We talk about future babies because we are going to try again. HOPE & BELIEVE have been our words since we walked out of the hospital feeling lost and confused by what just happened. Tuesday you go in to your OB/GYN appt. and she tells you Congratulations your pregnant and by Friday your baby is gone. That is how quick it happened. We cried so hard but the first thing I said to my boyfriend is we have to talk about it. I don't know who needed this but HOPE & BELIEVE.... Mark 11:24
I think as women we have to talk more about miscarriage and create more awareness tbh. I recently had one and it is heart wrenching and I felt totally lost. I still feel lost sometimes but I keep hope alive. I decided to start sharing my story to encourage and help someone out there. We need to be more open about this topic because people are dying in silence.
I think as women we have to talk more about miscarriage and create more awareness tbh. I recently had one at 16 weeks + 5 days and it is heart wrenching and I felt totally lost. I still feel lost sometimes but I keep hope alive. I decided to start sharing my story to encourage and help someone out there. We need to be more open about this topic because people are dying in silence. I am sorry about your loss and sending you love and light.
Hey love . I’m hoping you see this. This just happened to me a couple of days ago. I see you made this post just yesterdays so I’m assuming it’s pretty recent considering most comments are a lot older. Well I’m saying all that to say. If you need someone to talk to , as I do. You are more than welcome to reach out to me. I’m just offering it because it’s something I’m looking for as well.
@@JordanMBS222 Hi, I am guessing your reply was to Justina but I am just going to comment as I recently had one too. I am having to type this again, for some reason RU-vid deleted the first reply I sent (I am guessing it is because I added my email ID to the reply). I am so sorry you had to go through this. It must be hard for you and heartbreaking. I still find myself touching my stomach to feel the bump I had. I see you have a youtube channel and I have subscribed to your channel. Feel free to check mine out if you want. I talked about my miscarriage story and currently doing a series on it. I just want to reach out to other women so they know that they are not alone. You can send me an email if you want to talk more privately. My email address will be in my channel "about". I am not adding it here so that youtube doesn't delete this comment again.
I just lost my baby last night 😞 my water broke at 15 weeks pregnant. There was no chance of survival because he was so young. When I was admitted to the hospital my baby still had a faint heartbeat. I made the choice to be induced so that my baby would at least come out whole. This is by far the hardest challenge I have ever been faced with in life. Its going to be even harder to leave this hospital knowing I won't have my baby. The pain is awful. I pray for anyone who has to deal with this situation 🙏🏾
Amber, my heart goes out to you. And I pray for your strength. I lost my baby at 15 weeks as well... 2 weeks ago tomorrow. Whomever said its gets bearable and easier each day LIED!! Videos like this has helped me so far
i was 23 weeks and i had to make the decision to end it. he would not have lived as his brain and other things didnt develop. i know what you mean. home without your baby is devastating. all i think now is keep hope for the future and hold your loved ones as much as you can
I think as women we have to talk more about miscarriage and create more awareness tbh. I recently had one at 16 weeks + 5 days and it is heart wrenching and I felt totally lost. I still feel lost sometimes but I keep hope alive. I decided to start sharing my story to encourage and help someone out there. We need to be more open about this topic because people are dying in silence. I am sorry about your loss and sending you love and light.
I think as women we have to talk more about miscarriage and create more awareness tbh. I recently had one and it is heart wrenching and I felt totally lost. I still feel lost sometimes but I keep hope alive. I decided to start sharing my story to encourage and help someone out there. We need to be more open about this topic because people are dying in silence. I am sorry about your loss and sending you love and light.
I got a embryo transfer and it split into two and I just lost them two weeks ago and I had to carry them around dead for a week before I could have a d&c scheduled because they were busy. My life is broken, wish one would have survived. My 3rd child gone..
I have been through this and the hardest thing was on the day of delivery I wasn't sure if I should rejoice for my living baby or cry for my devised twin. I look at my 15 year old daughter and I feel blessed and grateful for her (my miracle child) but I cannot help looking at her and thinking of what it would be like to have two 15 year olds... It isn't an easy thing.
My partner has just had a miscarriage and now she’s acting like a totally different person, she wants to break up after 9 years and a daughter together, we have lived together for 8 years but now she doesn’t want anything to do with me even though I’ve always been there for her through everything, I don’t know what to do, we’ve always spoke about our differences and never argued or been violent, can someone please help me to salvage this and show her I’m hurting too but this will destroy us completely if we don’t get help, I’m begging for the answer
I recently had one at 16 weeks + 5 days and it is heart wrenching and I felt totally lost. I still feel lost sometimes but I keep hope alive. I decided to start sharing my story to encourage and help someone out there. We need to be more open about this topic because people are dying in silence. Your partner is dealing with all kinds of emotion and all you can do is be patient with her. You have to also remember she carried the baby and the pain she feels is overwhelming. You are also in pain and you can get through this together as you share the same pain. Let her understand that its difficult for her and ask her how you can support her. Also, she can speak with a therapist. I spoke with one myself and she was so helpful. I am hoping everything worked out fine for the both of you. Sorry about your loss and sending you love and light.
