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Coping With the Loss of a Fur Baby: Pet Grieving Support Group - The Local Show 

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Anyone who has experienced the death of a pet knows how heartbreaking that can be. But for some, the loss of a dog or a cat can be so emotionally wrenching it actually affects their physical and mental health.
The tale of a middle-aged woman so devastated by her dog's death that she had to be put on a life support system is just one extreme example. But pet owners who even months after a loss still have trouble eating and sleeping are common and in Kansas City mental health professionals say they are increasingly treating patients for chronic depression brought on by the death of a pet. At the Struan Center in south Kansas City psychologist Dr. Raphael Smith runs a regular pet grief group therapy session. KCPT and producer Justin Bond got a rare opportunity to take its cameras inside to witness a recent meeting.

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@tjfSIM
@tjfSIM 7 лет назад
I don't know why so many people find pet grief so surprising or strange - losing an animal companion is just as painful, sometimes more so, than the loss of a fellow human. We have a unique and strong bond with our pets, they are friends that are always there for us, always pleased to see us. For many they are a focus and sense of purpose, so when they're suddenly not there anymore, it is really hard.
@Jojo-bk2pq
@Jojo-bk2pq 6 лет назад
Exactly. My family and I had to put our dog to our sleep 3 days ago and I have been so sad and depressed. I don't think I've cried this hard and many times in such a short amount of time in my life. It really hurts.
@shannon2748
@shannon2748 6 лет назад
For real. I lost my sweet cat January 3rd and today is the 8th month of her passing....I still miss her so much:((((((
@barbarac481
@barbarac481 5 лет назад
I can relate to the comments I just had to let my cat go and I'm really sad she's not here anymore. I believe since God created them and before man I also belive He loves and cares for each one as He loves us so much and many don't know that I believe they go to heaven and that brings comfort. My whisper was a gift from God and I thought we would always be together.
@Karmen2010
@Karmen2010 5 лет назад
I'm still morning my 10 year old black lab, Lou who we had to put down a year and a half ago
@mariahrichardson1745
@mariahrichardson1745 5 лет назад
Those who don't have a pet can't relate. It is terrible because our cats and dogs, or any pet, are more than pets, they are our companions and family. I am crying right now while watching this because I just woke up after having a dream about my Madison. I am 23 and I had her since I was 11. She was my best friend and my sunshine, and in February of this year, we had to put her to sleep. I miss her so much and I would give anything to hold and kiss her again.
@shivanimandal4341
@shivanimandal4341 4 года назад
I lost my 3 years old bunny two days ago and i just can't stop missing him! RIP my baby 💔🐇
@smileyraw
@smileyraw 9 лет назад
I lost my baby who was 18 3 weeks ago and the heart break I and my husband are feeling is unbearable. It just hurts so much.
@FUGYOO
@FUGYOO 8 лет назад
+MOONSTAR 313 Hey my friend. EIGHTEEN !?! REALLY??? I envy yawl. That is so awesome! I bet you have discs of pics and reels of video. 18 years is a blessing but it doesn't make it any easier. Yawls baby lived 18 for you for sure. REJOICE! Bless you.
@smileyraw
@smileyraw 8 лет назад
FUGYOO Thanks hun :)
@FUGYOO
@FUGYOO 8 лет назад
MOONSTAR 313 Thank you MoonStar. My 15 year old Staffordshire crossed over December 25, 2015 @ 5;35 am while I was giving her stocking full of chewies. Hit me like a freight train but I was cognizant of the fact it might be soon. She's in a new body in a better place having a blast waiting for me. Have a blessed and prosperous new year MoonStar
@smileyraw
@smileyraw 8 лет назад
FUGYOO Awww. It's been 9 months now and whilst I miss him so much, I can now smile when I think of him, so it does get better xxx All the best to you and I am so sorry for your loss *hugs*
@lasagnegurl167
@lasagnegurl167 8 лет назад
+MOONSTAR 313 So true. It has been nearly 5 months since we lost our gorgeous Georgie, the hurt has subsided. We talk about her everyday. She brought great love & joy to our lives.
@Steve211Ucdhihifvshi
@Steve211Ucdhihifvshi 2 года назад
My friend, buddy and family member Charlie a beautiful cream ginger long hair rescue kitten that grew with me day by day thru divorce, loss, depression, anxiety pain and heartache had to be put to sleep on wednesday last week. It was a horrible experience with him trying to cling to life for me fighting to the very end to stay by my side. I will never forget him and the uniqueness and special friend that I had. Ive been fine till my partner had to return to her work away and even the cold night feels worse alone without him. HEe would greet me follow me teach me, be patient with me and listen for hours to me. I was never alone with Charlie, I wish there was some way I could reach out to everyone that knew him and interacted with him. He was a life changer on so many levels, unfortunetly my skills with youtube made him unable to be able to reach out and touch as many lives as famous cats, but man he was a special little guy.
@giggstrafford1
@giggstrafford1 8 лет назад
just buried my border collie in the woods he loved to run around in,3 days ago I woke up and he was outside the bedroom gasping for breath,i managed to get him outside for a walk,he did his ones and twos ,but with great effort,then he just stood there for a few minutes,finally got him to the vets,they kept him in for about 7 hours ,on my way to pick him up ,I got a phone call ,that his condition had deteriorated so much ,he was put to sleep,this as been the hardest 3 days I've ever had,tonight i went on his walk ,just to ......,I'm not sure,for a walk ,the routine ,I have done this for the last 11 years ,god I miss him so much,f or me the best solution is to get another rescue dog ,like CHIPS,humans at the end of the day are selfish,but also most of us have a lot of love to give and vice versa !!
@videosofinterest9227
@videosofinterest9227 5 лет назад
Are you better? I ask because I just loss my dog
@megibg890
@megibg890 5 лет назад
Yes, I strongly believe that would be a great decision in reference to adopting another rescue. It would only benefit YOU AND THE ANGEL YOU SAVE. Rest in Peace Sweet Puppy!! 🐶
@jpthedelawarebeeman6239
@jpthedelawarebeeman6239 3 года назад
I came here as I lost my buddy after 12+ years and I'm having a hard time dealing with it more than when I lost a parent last year is it wrong to feel this way ???? I think that's what's making it harder but I'm not sure why I feel that way. I also feel guilty & helpless for euthanizing him even though the Vet said it was probably the best thing to do for my dog. I am glad I was with him and holding him when he left us :(
@pimpompoom93726
@pimpompoom93726 3 года назад
I've lost both my parents and of course I was saddened by it. But as human beings they had understanding, some degree of control and participation in their final days. A dog has no understanding, little degree of control or participation. They rely on us for everything and they trust and love us implicitly. I lost my dog this last week and I've cried several times since then. I sobbed like a child holding him at the Vet in his final minutes. The hurt is palpable, I feel a tremendous sense of loss and loneliness.
@jpthedelawarebeeman6239
@jpthedelawarebeeman6239 3 года назад
@@pimpompoom93726 I am sorry for your loss Phil - I would love to tell you the pain will stop but it doesn't. All I can say is try and move forward and never forget the time spent with your 4 legged friend. In my case getting a new dog isn't what I want at the moment but maybe it will be right for you to start looking.
@Gaming2Fun2Play
@Gaming2Fun2Play 6 лет назад
we lost our dog Pepsi today at 10:30 this morning we miss her so very very much. she was 15 years old and died from kidney failure. she was a bichon poodle 🐩.
@Bar_Bar27
@Bar_Bar27 5 лет назад
Always read about losing pet as a painful thing to experience and really didn't expected it to be that much painful. I lost me pet dog today, max, he was only 2 years old. Hes a small breed, only 4 or 5 kilos. I'm so devastated right not. He died 10 hours ago, my little sister watched him ran over by a car and I heard her screaming from my room. I immediately knew something bad is happened and that he probably didn't make it. Hes been with me for almost 2 years and little less at home with my two sisters. We took his body and buried it at the park which he loved playing at. He was full of life and very energetic. He slept with me in my bed almost every night. I have anxieties and depression and he was with there in my dark days, always there to show me unconditional love. I didn't even know how much I loved him, I knew I did, but now that hes gone, I just realized I loved him unconditionally like he loved me. My room feels empty now without him and every thought of him bring tears to my eyes. Just the fact I will never sleep with him again breaks my heart. He never slept on the floor, he couldn't, because he got used to the warm bed under the blanket with me. Sometimes when I tried to teach him to sleep in his on bed at the floor he did that, only to find out in the morning that hes sleeping next to me like always. I loved him. I love you max, hope your death was painless and quick. I will get my first tattoo of you in my body so I you will always stay close to my heart.
@Nessamoniiqueee
@Nessamoniiqueee 2 года назад
My angel baby Sadie was killed by a car a week ago, I missed her so much. She was more than a dog. She was my sister/best friend. Only 6 months old. Rest in piece my baby 💕
@sapphire19885
@sapphire19885 2 года назад
I'm so sorry.... that is truly awful. I know that Sadie loved being your sister. You will see her again one day, I know it! ❤
@Nessamoniiqueee
@Nessamoniiqueee 2 года назад
@@sapphire19885 thank you so much I sure do hope so it’s hard every day she died the day she turned 6 months
@sapphire19885
@sapphire19885 2 года назад
@@Nessamoniiqueee That truly hurts my heart to hear, I can't imagine how painful it was to lose her especially so young. When the sadness seems overwhelming try to remember the feeling of the love you shared with your Sadie baby. Her spirit loves on and I know she wants you to feel happy when you think of her. I know that's easier said than done though. I will pray for you Vanessa.
@JanetJames-dw6xo
@JanetJames-dw6xo 5 месяцев назад
I list my.little buddy in February and i never knew it would hurt so bad. I hadhim for 13years and loved him so much.. I have two other dogs and they missed him too, the house felt empty and quiet. I have his ashes anda photo of him on my wall unit so at least he is back home where he belongs Cannot get rid of his things, even though i know he won't be coming back, I'm not ready yet and still get choked up. It all takes time, i know he's not suffering but i miss him do much. Love you JJ
@Kakkoii_ne
@Kakkoii_ne Месяц назад
Not much talk about this, but what about my other dog? She is also sad, now that the other dog is gone. She is more alone when I leave the house. When I sit with her, she is low energy. Low excitement and constantly follows me and by my side. I think she is dealing with the loss just as much as me. I have not seen many videos addressing this.
@kimberlywright4988
@kimberlywright4988 6 лет назад
I just wanted her to know that I'd always be there for here.
@cosmicgoddess5085
@cosmicgoddess5085 5 лет назад
I like what the lady said about how our pets see us in our most intimate moments, in the bathroom, naked, whatever. It’s true, they know us so deeply yet never judge us.
@MissSarahLizz
@MissSarahLizz 4 года назад
I lost my cat last night. Didn't know it was going to hurt this much. I get a few minutes of reprieve between sobbing and falling to my knees. Sending my love to any of you that have loved and lost an animal. I've never met a more beautiful, intelligent, playful cat in my life. She was my moment of peace in each day. This pain is pretty spectacular.
@voodoo3668
@voodoo3668 2 года назад
I lost my 3years old tom who left me because of too much roundworm infested and even though he was the dumbest among all the cats I had still he was the most handsome and unique cat I ever had in my 3 years of journey with him since he was a tiny kitten because all of his siblings died within a month because of the same worm infection but he was the only one who survived thats why he was a special part in my life
@birdlynn417
@birdlynn417 2 года назад
@@voodoo3668 Worm infection? Why wasn't that noticed in their stools? They have lots of dewormer for that.
@oscarcat1231
@oscarcat1231 Год назад
I’m terribly sorry for your loss. I lost my dog best friend in January. Part of me is missing. Love from England 💞
@chaoticrainstorm
@chaoticrainstorm Год назад
sorry for the loss of your cat ❤
@graceprais9814
@graceprais9814 Год назад
I know this pain
@RawlCampbell
@RawlCampbell 8 лет назад
It's hard when we lose our fur babies. They're family.
@thatgirlwithherheadinthecl8777
@thatgirlwithherheadinthecl8777 4 года назад
They mean rather more to me :)
@speedmanxx
@speedmanxx 4 года назад
your insane.
@kurtjappy
@kurtjappy 4 года назад
@@speedmanxx you're* a prick
@always_b_closing
@always_b_closing 4 года назад
Yes they are. My baby girl passed away 3 days ago.
@shns3ma
@shns3ma 4 года назад
I agree. It is very difficult.
@gaisb9418
@gaisb9418 6 лет назад
a pet is like family and it's like losing a child
@tryhardgamer3198
@tryhardgamer3198 4 года назад
And that’s where ur wrong tell a mother that a pet dying is similar to a child dying
@yungquadrillion2289
@yungquadrillion2289 4 года назад
Exactly!
@Snoo29293
@Snoo29293 4 года назад
@@tryhardgamer3198 I never had a child before so I can't truly know but in my opinion there are many pet owners out there who treat their pets just like if they were their kids and the pain can be really similar to the one when a mother loses her kid.
@lanis57
@lanis57 4 года назад
@@Snoo29293 no its not ..what is wrong with you guys!?
@windijihansalsabila1731
@windijihansalsabila1731 4 года назад
@@lanis57 Nothing is wrong with us okay! So what if we treat our pets just like our child, of course when they're gone the pain would be similar with if we lose our human child. Coz at the end of the day, pets are our children too
@lisatryme3518
@lisatryme3518 8 лет назад
I had to put my baby down today and I feel so sick. My chest and stomach hurts so bad. I'm angry and devastated at the same time. I keep thinking he is going to come home any minute and that's when it hits me, he's truly gone. I watched him take his last breath and that's the only thing giving me some comfort. Knowing we stayed together until the bitter end. He didn't expire in the woods like a stray cat. My baby passed with his family around him. He was the most playful sweetest cat ever. I truly hate it ended this way. I will never replace him. No other cat will ever be like him. You will always be missed Teddy!!!
@megibg890
@megibg890 5 лет назад
Oh my gosh I feel the same way about My Babyboy Sammie!!! He was the sweetest, kindest and most loving little kitten I’ve EVER known. EVER!! Truly One Of A Kind Angel!!!❤️💔♥️
@aadyanayan2604
@aadyanayan2604 4 года назад
@@megibg890 I feel so relateable . My kitty was so kind and comforting one day she vanished and never returned. I can't forget her , reading your comments I realise I am not alone.😔
@bitchstfudoilooklikeicare1380
@bitchstfudoilooklikeicare1380 4 года назад
@@aadyanayan2604 my cat died last month.. I keep on thinking about him.. I miss him so bad...
@armymoaengene6080
@armymoaengene6080 3 года назад
I feel the same way about my baby lucky. She passed away today. It hurts me so much and my heart breaks
@kayish21
@kayish21 2 года назад
My sashimi put the sleep last Sunday. I’m very heartbroken. I felt something missing when I woken up it’s empty. I’m missed him so much I wanted to hug
@olliesfave6967
@olliesfave6967 8 лет назад
Rest in peace my little Trudy. 2 days without you and i miss you like crazy. My sunshine and my shadow. Thank you for a wonderful 15 yrs and 6 months. Ill never forget you x
@DavidTMSN
@DavidTMSN 8 лет назад
My sly died Friday, I feel your pain. I miss her so much. She was 20 years old. I don't know what to do anymore. She's all I had...
@bingsby9085
@bingsby9085 7 лет назад
ThatsWhatSheSaid I feel for you immensely, just lost my baby of almost 17 years. I can't even sleep because she would always be there, her purrs lulling me to sleep. I hope everyone's coping. Its so hard without them.
@lynnekirk5189
@lynnekirk5189 5 лет назад
I lost my dear Samson on Monday , he was my soulmate for 15years. I am absolutely numb with grief X he was a beautiful cat X
@lizzylarson1398
@lizzylarson1398 5 лет назад
How will I stop crying. My Chihuahua of ten yrs. I had to euthanize her in my arms and it killed me. I'm slowly dying and it's been a full day and night now and I need her so bad. Mac I need u baby girl. I miss u so bad
@mylovesongs2429
@mylovesongs2429 4 года назад
I am so very sorry for your loss. :( If you believe in Jesus, that He died for your sins, and that He rose to Heaven, then you WILL be reunited with her someday!!! ❤ Just believe!!
@theresistance3818
@theresistance3818 5 лет назад
Yup, that's me...trying to eat, waking up and going to bed are amongst some of the MOST excruciatingly painful tasks. When someone you love is sick, you try to prepare yourself for eventually losing them. What you cannot prepare yourself for is what your everyday life will be and feel like, once they're no longer around. This pain hurts worse than anyone or thing that I have ever lost...and all of them combined, together. 😭🐩💔
@MJYouAreNotAlone1
@MJYouAreNotAlone1 3 года назад
This is exactly right! And when you come home from somewhere and they are not there I am so gutted it hurts so bad. My heart actually hurts I am absolutely devastated. But please know that our pets are in heaven they are watching for us and waiting for us. In the name of Jesus Christ I pray that everybody who reads this is a born again Christian, a follower of Jesus Christ. I cannot wait to get to heaven and see Jesus Christ and to be reunited with my precious dog Harley. I promised him that I would be there to wait for me. Oh what a glorious day it will be, my last breath here will be my first breath in HEAVEN. Thank you Jesus!
@postcard9889
@postcard9889 3 года назад
true...i'm feeling this right now. Can't put it into words until I saw your comment, thanks.
@TIDbitRETRO
@TIDbitRETRO 2 года назад
Losing a pet is similar to losing a child, in that it’s a loved one that you have unconditional love for. You don’t argue or fight with them, you worry about them and their well-being, you raise them and teach them things, and they have an innocence about them. It’s all very childlike. This is why losing them is SO devastating.
@reginamorania7976
@reginamorania7976 8 лет назад
I lost my lovely cat today,me and my kids are devastated as we watched her take her last breath. Been with her for 9yrs. I don't know how we'll cope without her.
@terrimichaels2554
@terrimichaels2554 6 лет назад
So sorry for your loss of a beautiful 🐱
@WhatsMarlyUpTo
@WhatsMarlyUpTo Год назад
I have only had one cat that died in front of me that was not euthanized. I still feel traumatized if think long enough about that night. So sorry you and your children had to witness that moment. ❤‍🩹
@oscarcat1231
@oscarcat1231 Год назад
Hi there, so sorry for your loss. Your cat will always be with you and part of your family 💞💐
@LaceFX
@LaceFX 3 года назад
A year later i’m still grieving the loss of my dachshund. Why? BECAUSE SHE IS MY DAUGHTER and my life is empty. Meaningless. She was my everything. They are FAMILY.
@chelsearunyan
@chelsearunyan 2 года назад
I lost my Crocker spaniel last year. It broke my heart to put him down💔 I spent the whole day crying my eyes out. I will never forget the day when I brought him. Once you buy or take a pet in they become part the family.
@sugansugan56
@sugansugan56 10 месяцев назад
I am here because of loosing my dachshund too
@NA-vt6mz
@NA-vt6mz 8 месяцев назад
😢😢 how r u now .
@LazyPlumbob
@LazyPlumbob 7 месяцев назад
@@sugansugan56 I'm here because of my little dachshund as well. I lost him on February 14th. The past few weeks have been the worst time of my life. I hope everyone has found peace after their loss, however, I don't know how that could be possible. Sending so much love!
@TianaThompson90s
@TianaThompson90s 6 месяцев назад
​@LazyPlumbob I'm so sorry 😢, I'm sending you healing love and light
@KaylaNoelle1
@KaylaNoelle1 9 лет назад
My baby cat died today I still see his tail under the table or the form of his sleeping body at the end of my bed even though he's not here. He was only 4 but got a blocked bladder unexpectedly it absolutely tears me apart. I will always think of him as my baby and his breed a Bombay will always be my favourite. I got such a short time with him but it was the closest I've ever been with any animal ever. I'm glad I have recordings of his purring because I'm not used to sleeping without being purred to sleep.
@Love2loveu00
@Love2loveu00 6 лет назад
KaylaNoelle1 We lost our bombay cat Monday. She had cancer and was 14 years old. We were going to put her down but she died peacefully with all of us together at home. Bombay cats are so smart and so friendly. Everybody loved her. I'm sorry for your loss. God bless you and our fur babies may rest in peace. 🙏🏽💔😢
@falcontriplets831
@falcontriplets831 6 лет назад
I am so sorry, I know your pain so very well, I lost my kitten Ruby after a horrible accident when I was 18. I sill love with it to this day but I’ve some what healed
@eileenoniyeilonlydavey3950
@eileenoniyeilonlydavey3950 5 лет назад
Sorry for your loss take care
@9995-q1u
@9995-q1u 5 лет назад
I'm sorry for your loss. We lost our orange and white boy at age 17 yesterday to lymphoma. There is a hole in my heart and hoping I see him again.
@brad5271
@brad5271 5 лет назад
@@9995-q1u My poodle died of Lymphoma a few days ago. How do you go on without her being here? :(
@benjig859
@benjig859 4 года назад
My dog of 9 years died today and I’m devastated. I don’t know how I’m going to recover from this...
@tracyseal5848
@tracyseal5848 Год назад
Lost my dog nov 2022 I’m still grieving for him, I totally understand how you feel
@mimiiofosu642
@mimiiofosu642 10 месяцев назад
How are you doing now, Benji?
@josephquinn2881
@josephquinn2881 7 месяцев назад
How are you feeling all these years later ?
@dove7271
@dove7271 3 месяца назад
One day at a time. One week at a time. One month at a time. Will eventually be able to remember without tears Its hard. Pray, Pray, more Prayer. God will see you through. Hugs, Blessings
@annieoakslee
@annieoakslee 3 года назад
I just remind myself that they could have been in an awful home instead of mine and what a good life they had with me....
@patriciagibbs4191
@patriciagibbs4191 Год назад
That is a lovely day of looking back and remembering the wonderful life you had with your animals and how blessed you were ❤
@sohooded
@sohooded 2 года назад
I am 81and alone. I had to have my cat euthanized today. He was my family for 10 years and we were inseparable. I'm feeling shock, guilt, intense sadness and pain, and cant deal with not seeing him again. I am grateful for videos like this.
@lilymiller3522
@lilymiller3522 2 года назад
Thank you for all the comments , reading them helped me . My adult kids and my partner do not understand why I’m still so heartbroken from losing my girl, Cupcake. She was always My EVERYTHING!!!!! She’s was a very loyal, loving , 13 yo beagle. It’s been a year since she went to Heaven ,,, I’ve be lost pets before but I have never had such a hard time as I’m having losing my soul dog 🐶… I long for the day to be reunited with her ,,, this is why we I must believe in heaven!!!
@oscarcat1231
@oscarcat1231 Год назад
I’m so sorry for your loss. Please become a Christian and get saved as Jesus is the only way to salvation and heaven. He created everything and knows your pain. Ask Him for a sign.
@Sophesi
@Sophesi 4 года назад
Pets are the faithful, loyal, and loving best friend you will ever have . They make our lives better in so many ways, and when they pass away to heaven, the pain is the same as losing a family member
@jesusiseverything2me
@jesusiseverything2me 8 лет назад
Heck, I'm still grieving over the loss of my beloved dog that I had from my mid teens to early 20's. It's been over 20 years of grief for me! I usually just try to suppress it. My young adult daughter got a dog from the pound about a year ago. He recently suddenly started showing signs of terrible illness and was diagnosed with an advanced stage of lung cancer. Previous owners probably smoked. He deteriorated quickly in one weeks time and we had to put him down. I was very close to this dog (I lived with him for two months, and after that, took him on outings often). I was in the room this time. The whole family was. So now I'm dealing with that grief, the past grief, and trying to help my daughter though it too. WHY does it have to be so difficult !
@SwedishMeattball
@SwedishMeattball 5 лет назад
If dogs got lung cancer from people smoking it wouldnt be rare for dog lung cancer smoke does rise afterall
@mylovesongs2429
@mylovesongs2429 4 года назад
I never got over the death of my dogs over the years, but the dog i lost 8 days ago, i will never get over her passing. She was so beautiful, not aggressive, and it's just so difficult. Every day, i cry so much! I need some counseling. Definitely! As long as you believe that Jesus died for your sins, and you have lived a pretty decent life, you will be reunited with your dogs someday, eternally, when your time on earth is up. Just believe!
@candacedawn357
@candacedawn357 4 года назад
I hope you are in a better spot today.
@candacedawn357
@candacedawn357 4 года назад
@@mylovesongs2429 Amen! 🙏
@ph7715
@ph7715 3 года назад
Shannon MacLean I think you are destined to meet that dog and be there for it and it's last days I know it sounds silly but life is like that .I'm not a believer too much in the afterlife but I do believe in destiny. Sorry for your loss. I just recently lost my little puppy except he wasn't a puppy he was 13 but he'll always be a puppy to me.
@princhipessa1969
@princhipessa1969 Год назад
Really wish I could find a group like this. It’s been exactly 2 weeks since my beautiful boy died of heart failure & ppl just don’t get the level of grief. I can’t even talk to those ppl.
@sillym3xican
@sillym3xican Год назад
I wish I could find a group to 😔
@hereisayana8207
@hereisayana8207 7 месяцев назад
​@sillym3xican there should be groups online please look them up .... 😢so sorry
@420dlo65
@420dlo65 6 месяцев назад
I totally understand my heart is broken 💔
@mikegyoung
@mikegyoung 10 лет назад
I believe All Pets go to Heaven God made pets for humans pets are always there!!!!
@nellyputri73
@nellyputri73 10 лет назад
amen.
@FUGYOO
@FUGYOO 8 лет назад
+mike y WERD!!!
@terrimichaels2554
@terrimichaels2554 6 лет назад
Brent atwater can help comfort you in your time of loss
@macey2486
@macey2486 5 лет назад
Preach
@AKlepp15
@AKlepp15 4 года назад
mike y god didn’t make animals for human’s sake
@dominiqueechevarriaechevar77
@dominiqueechevarriaechevar77 5 лет назад
IAM OVERJOYED TO SEE SO MANY PEOPLE WHO DEEPLY LOVE AND UNDERSTAND OUR FURRY FRIENDS IAM SORRY FOR YOU ALL, PLEASE FIND LOVE AND PEACE❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@valeriesmith9626
@valeriesmith9626 Год назад
This group is brilliant, I wish we had one where I live, talking to other's who feel the same helps a lot ,God bless you all.
@graceprais9814
@graceprais9814 Год назад
LuWee passed over on May 27, 2023. I will see him again at the gate! I am blessed to have had him in my life. The grief is beyond words.
@yoli691
@yoli691 4 года назад
I miss my doggie so much. I didn’t know I could love a dog so much it was the most precious experience in my life.
@chelsearunyan
@chelsearunyan 2 года назад
I miss my too putting him down just broke my heart. The worst part everyone keeps saying I made the right choice his kidneys were failing him. But no one has never ask how much I'm hurting on the inside.
@amillercma
@amillercma 4 года назад
My furbaby got out of the house and was run over and died yesterday and I want to die right now. My heart is shattered in a kazillion pieces 💔 😪
@ph7715
@ph7715 3 года назад
Amanda Miller I'm so sorry. I recently lost my little chihuahua. My initial reaction was similar to yours so I feel for you
@glenfenderman
@glenfenderman 9 лет назад
My heart goes out to you people. In the past 5 months I lost two beautiful calico cats from aggressive cancer. My cat Sally in July and My cat Minnie two days ago. I know that sick empty feeling and how it takes a long time to adjust. I have lost people in my life, but I have suffered more from the loss of my fur babies.
@katec9893
@katec9893 2 года назад
It's 7 years later but thank you for sharing. I've just lost my beautiful furbaby cat this week to cancer too, so sadly I can relate to what you wrote. I am absolutely devastated and finding it hard to look after myself. Knowing how much she loves me makes me keep going, when I was sad she would always sit next to me on the bed and her presence was so soothing. She wouldn't want me to be in distress and suffering now. How are you doing now?
@JuliaHap
@JuliaHap 7 лет назад
My best friend and side kick of 10+ years died today. I don't remember a time in my life that she wasn't around, I got her when I was very young and I'm 16 now. I knew in my heart she had cancer but I thought at the least I'd have another month with her. Today I came home from school to find her passed away in my room, where she spent most of her time. I'm so heartbroken so lonely already. I always loved being home because I never felt alone with her. RIP Zoey the most beautiful dog in the entire world, no other could compare.
@imold5363
@imold5363 3 года назад
I lost my cat today. She's twelve years old. Olive the cat RIP. I made the painful decision to put her down so that she would not suffer. She saved me from committing suicide, I almost hang myself and she meow so loud and demand me to not do it. She spent time with me so that I would not do something stupid
@et5347
@et5347 3 года назад
She sounds like an angel. I hope you are doing well.
@LadyLeomon
@LadyLeomon 2 года назад
I just found out my much-loved cat Kai has inoperable tumours and will need to be put to sleep this evening, I can’t even fathom waking up tomorrow and him not being here to greet me 😢😢😢
@GlamorousTitanic21
@GlamorousTitanic21 4 года назад
My dog was put down today. She had congestive heart failure and could barely breath anymore. Rest now Bella. You’ll always hold a place in my heart.😭
@princessjasmeen
@princessjasmeen 4 года назад
My gerbil died in an accident I wasn't home for. And I'm so mad at myself because if I was home, I could've saved him. I could've avoided this outcome if I just stayed home. My gerbil escaped his cage and my cat killed him, I found him when I returned from Walmart on the kitchen floor. I thought it was a rat but I saw the white on his chin and it was him. Rest in peace Scooter. I am so hurt
@LizzyMessilove10
@LizzyMessilove10 7 лет назад
My fur baby passed away two days ago. I had him for 15 years. He was a warrior. He wasn't supposed to make it until 15 since he had heart problems. But he fought hard and helped me through my darkest moments. I miss my baby Coco.
@jennifersmall4027
@jennifersmall4027 3 года назад
Children are meant to grow up and leave their parents. And sometimes kids can grow up and be real brats. But pets become increasingly devoted over the years, and more selfless in their love, sacrifice and generosity to their humans. So yes, animals don't have the same value as humans. But they should.
@terrymayew4440
@terrymayew4440 2 года назад
I've been talking about how my old orange tomcat is so loving, that cousin Larry and aunt Joyce both adopted cats.
@carolinazampar6586
@carolinazampar6586 10 лет назад
Its very hard I just lost my younger cat, I cant sleep or eat, all I do is crying, I really wish here in Brazil they would have a terapy like that so I could go to, my heart hurts so much
@dominiqueechevarriaechevar77
@dominiqueechevarriaechevar77 5 лет назад
IAM SO SORRY,PLEASE ASK GOD TO HELP YOU ONLY HE CAN RELIEVE YOUR SORROW FIND SOME ACTIVITY THAT WILL HELP YOU FEEL BETTER, NEVER FORGET YOUR FUR BABY ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@jdolaktv
@jdolaktv 10 лет назад
I just lost my beloved cat, Pumpkin, who was like a daughter to me on Thursday (9/11 of all days). The emotional toll is still fresh and heavy for me and my family. I miss her so much it hurts. She was so loving and we loved her. It's so odd not having her lay on my lap. I know she's happy and in a better place now. Still, her passing left a huge void in our hearts. RIP Pumpkin. Daddy will always love you.
@cliotise
@cliotise 10 лет назад
I lost my Cat Rebel who was a little over 18 years old yesterday and I have hardly stopped crying. He was a little special pet in my life that I will never forget. I had been his nurse, caretaker and comforter and even though deep down I knew he was going to die I still had hope to the end. I did everything I possibly could to save his precious little life but that was not meant to be. He will always be a special part of me. He died in his home surrounded by everything familiar. The day before I had prayed in the name of Jesus that if he was not going to get better, God should take him. Rebel died yesterday morning. I know I will meet up with Him someday in Heaven but it still does not help at this point with my great loss. He totally trusted me as he was born in my apartment and I was like a second mother. But in this case I could not save him. I did everything to make him as comfortable as possible.
@nellyputri73
@nellyputri73 10 лет назад
Elaine C I am sorry about your loss :( you have done your best. you have given him a good life, love and care. It is just his time to go to heaven. We will meet them again at rainbow bridge. hugs ~
@meowksbarkstv9575
@meowksbarkstv9575 2 года назад
@@cliotise i wish I could be brave as you, how you cope up with trauma, pain and anxiety. My cat died last sunday, Jan. 31, 2022. He was only 3 years old and 3 months, I wish we live more but it happend he got sick and die young. I love him so much. I keep blaming myself, bringing him to the vet that he never had. Because he never get sick since birth, just a simple cough and sneezing. I missed him so much, everyday bonding with him, he’s sweetness and cuteness. I wish you could visit their channel under this name, if you wanna meet them. Plan to make a video of thanking him soon. Hugs to all who’s suffering and in pain lost of pets...
@kristinlee9485
@kristinlee9485 4 года назад
Today I lost the love of my life, my orange tabby soulmate Wendall. He had bile duct cancer that took his life at age 13. I'm not sure how to go on, it's excruciating. Losing a precious animal companion just rips your heart out like nothing else
@Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_
@Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_ 7 лет назад
I've had my baby for 10 years and she died on the way to the vet today. I love you, you sweet little thing. And I miss you already my baby. RIP ROXY!
@kanelahkastro2302
@kanelahkastro2302 4 года назад
I can relate. I found my baby unresponsive two weeks ago - she was crashing and I rushed to vet - she was literally dying in my arms - she was put down. I’m so devastated and distraught. Every day is a struggle - sometimes I feel this is not happening; it’s all a nightmare 😢😢😢
@bloodlordofvaasgoth4071
@bloodlordofvaasgoth4071 4 года назад
hi just wondering how you guys are doing
@candacedawn357
@candacedawn357 4 года назад
@@kanelahkastro2302 I'm sorry to hear that. My sympathies are with you. My 16 y/o yorkie was euthanized yesterday because I was afraid she would collapse & be unresponsive again. I have peace over my decision but it doesn't make it easy.
@PinkHannahU23
@PinkHannahU23 4 года назад
I just lost my cat, Taylor. When she came into our lives I wasn’t much of a cat lover, but she made me into one. It hurts so bad losing her. I know it sounds crazy but I feel like I lost a (human) best friend.
@truthwisdom1824
@truthwisdom1824 Год назад
Exactly the same situation here. I lost my cat and on the second day found her body moulded by stray dogs….her body covered by mud. Its been five days now and I am struggling so much coping with her physical absence. The feeling of guilt, regret and thought of how she was killed is tearing me apart. She was only a year and four months old. 💔😭
@WhatsMarlyUpTo
@WhatsMarlyUpTo Год назад
@@truthwisdom1824 Maybe EMDR could help you lessen those horrible memories. I ache for you. I can't imagine that pain but I know how to lessen it with therapy.
@pennydubose9867
@pennydubose9867 Год назад
My sweet kitty was attacked and killed by a dog two days ago. I saw it happening and screamed at the dog and rushed it, and it slung my cat so violently against a pillar on my front porch I think I heard bones snap. The dog did run off, but the damage was done, and my sweet little girl died after about five minutes. I am beyond devastated. She was the most loving, unique little soul, bubbling with personality, stolen from her and from me by that dog. People, please do not let your dogs roam free. They may be sweet to you, but you have no way of knowing what they may do when you are not present. That dog’s owners would probably be shocked to know what it did.
@SisterMinnie
@SisterMinnie 4 года назад
I lost my cat to cancer and my dad to cancer also and words can’t explain how painful it feels. 😭
@elvisfan1971
@elvisfan1971 2 года назад
I had to put my cat to sleep this past mondaynite. I know she was suffering but i still didn't want to let her go. I'm really sad right now especially living by myself.
@LaceFX
@LaceFX 4 года назад
I called my boss to let her know i wasn’t coming in because i had to put my dog to sleep, and when i came back later that week (after her funeral/burial) she asked how are you feeling? In the elevator like a normal convo. No hug nothing. People are so stupid and cold. Felt like yelling “ i don’t know my f*cking daughter just died, what do you think?”
@hennypeck3516
@hennypeck3516 4 года назад
my parrot just died. idk how to cope with it and i’m heartbroken.
@Umph84
@Umph84 6 лет назад
I had to make the choice to put down my cat Eddie after 13 years, two days ago. I’m 33 years old and this is definitely the saddest point in my life so far. I cried like a little kid. It happened so fast. In a matter of two weeks he went from a happy elderly cat to being syringe fed, taking multiple medications just to get him by. The day before he got put down he looked at me a certain way that made me realize it was time. He was ready to go to the rainbow bridge. It’s getting easier but I’ll never forget him and the impact he had on our lives. A pets love is unconditional. Cherish it.
@Jvive3o5
@Jvive3o5 3 года назад
I lost my Baby boy Kobe a yorkie two days ago, and I have no idea how I can keep going. I burst out crying randomly , I’m so lost and hurt . Had him 11 years. My heart feels empty right now.
@WhatsMarlyUpTo
@WhatsMarlyUpTo Год назад
🫂 hoping your pain has lessened a bit by now.
@AC-gp7kf
@AC-gp7kf Год назад
❤️
@teecee9113
@teecee9113 8 месяцев назад
I lost my beautiful baby almost 11 months ago. Vet thought she needed a bad tooth removed but it turned out to be a mouth tumour. No cure, no medication, the vet gave her a couple of days maybe a week. Letting her go broke my heart. She was my baby. I had her from 2 weeks old. Bottle fed her, etc. She was just over 12 years old. I think about her everyday. Cry most days. The pain is unbearable. I miss her so much. .
@notkatkat
@notkatkat 4 года назад
I lost my pet rabbit, he is in a better place right now. I loved him with all my heart 😞
@joyceevans632
@joyceevans632 3 года назад
I lost my cat Mr. Wiggles 4 weeks ago. He was just 4 years old. I found him in my backyard. His leg was injured and the. Mom would not feed him. I brought him in and bottle fed him. He grew to be a handsome little guy. We adored each other. My 11 yo cat Harriet did not readily accept him, but over time they became friends. She got sick and passed away. He stayed close to her until she died. Afterwards, He became very clingy and I grew to love him beyond belief. What a sweet baby. He developed renal failure and stopped eating. He lost 50% of his body weight and didn’t eat a bite for 8 days. It’s true non animal lovers can say cruel things. “ it’s just a cat, get another one “ , “I don’t like cats”. The Vet was very compassionate and has called me a couple times and sent me a beautiful sympathy card.
@mintyfreshness
@mintyfreshness 4 года назад
My dogs haven’t even passed away, but I still feel like I’ll go crazy once I loose them.
@ph7715
@ph7715 3 года назад
Pixie make memorable moments everyday with them don't have one wasted day then when you look back you'll realize what a good parent you were.
@chelsearunyan
@chelsearunyan 2 года назад
Spend as much as possible take lot of pictures. I kept telling myself "you'll lose him of these days." When that day came I just shut cry eyes the day. No one never ready thanks to stupid I didn't get to say goodbye to him.
@charliegreen7446
@charliegreen7446 6 лет назад
This has been very helpful. I recently lost my best friend and companion, Spike the pug. I miss him dearly. I know he is in heaven and at peace. I love you Spikey. I know I'll see you again my friend. Love daddy.
@Jason987262
@Jason987262 6 лет назад
I lost my pet Doberman 17 years ago. I had her from nearly a newborn puppy. Even today I still feel the loss.
@lyndasinger2033
@lyndasinger2033 4 года назад
Jason987262 I had a Doberman she was a lovely gentle dog when she died I was heartbroken now my dachshund has died so I’ve lost two in 3 years I know how you feel
@ankitalikson6611
@ankitalikson6611 3 года назад
It's been two days i lost my pet.. I can't get over this. I'm devastated
@et5347
@et5347 3 года назад
I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you are doing a little bit better today.
@shadowspond3488
@shadowspond3488 3 года назад
Im so sorry. I lost my boy last night. It hurts so badly
@browneyedgirl1542
@browneyedgirl1542 6 месяцев назад
@@shadowspond3488I lost my boy yesterday and I think my grief might kill me
@Madeline-sn9fv
@Madeline-sn9fv Месяц назад
Lost my Geuseppi boy last Friday 😢 he was my everything!
@shelbyshiflette7254
@shelbyshiflette7254 4 года назад
Today we had to say goodbye to our furrrever princess. We rescued her when I was 5 and 21 years later, it was her time to cross the bridge. She was our only childhood pet that lasted as long as she did, and she was there through everything. She watched my sisters and I grow up, and she was there at our best and our worse. She was more than a pet, she was our sister and a daughter to our family. She was our princess❤️ rest in heaven bellyboo🐱
@truckermil1717
@truckermil1717 5 лет назад
Lost my buddy yesterday didn't realize how hard this was going to be been together 11yrs strong through good and bad times and just feel empty without her just writing this has me tearing up
@talentedpigeon3296
@talentedpigeon3296 3 года назад
I'm thinking of you friend. We're all in this heartbreak together
@nicolebazinet5655
@nicolebazinet5655 Год назад
I lost my red golden Desmond. He was the love of my life and even after 6 months the grief is still huge. I’ve never been loved this way , and our connection was so deep that I’ll never feel the same joy again.😢❤❤
@ph7715
@ph7715 3 года назад
I've been able to temporarily put aside my grief and grieve for these people just for watching this. Listening to others losses seems to be therapeutic
@jimbarbee4520
@jimbarbee4520 3 года назад
I lost my cat to kidney failure after twelve years together. It was particularly hard because of the COVID restrictions, and the vets in our area would not allow us to be with her inside the building. There seems to be no closure because of the separation, but the staff there made her feel loved and as comfortable as possible. This is the first time in my life that I couldn't be there, and it's the thing that's really making me feel guilty and confused. The pandemic has hurt us all in so many ways, and this is one of them.
@chelsearunyan
@chelsearunyan 2 года назад
I lost my dog to kidney failure too after 12 years together also. I was never told he had diabetes nor was never tested. He was just suppose to go for a check up. They call saying his kidneys were failing. Thanks to stupid Covid I didn't get to say goodbye to him I blame myself for his death. I miss him so much😢
@tomsanders6507
@tomsanders6507 3 года назад
I wish we had a group to talk about this
@pimpompoom93726
@pimpompoom93726 3 года назад
Just lost my best bud, I'd love to have a group like this to discuss how I'm feeling. But with COVID I doubt they're meeting, even if you find one in your area.
@RaffaellaIT
@RaffaellaIT 2 года назад
Losing a pet is so painful. Last year, I lost my 3 senior rescue dogs. I will not remember 2020 for covid19, lockdown, remote working, but for that endless and deep pain! RIP, Argo, Gigi, Zoe
@chaoticrainstorm
@chaoticrainstorm Год назад
sorry for your losses 💔
@MrJpa2426
@MrJpa2426 3 года назад
I’m getting ready to go through this and it’s heartbreaking. I definitely am looking for help bc idk what to do without my baby
@deskgamesix
@deskgamesix 2 года назад
My little dog Zeusy got me through two heart procedures and the pandemic. She was constantly by my side and was a great companion during those lonely times at home. On the night before I was to return to work she passed away. I'm so thankful I had her for the past seven years. RIP, Zeusy-Girl. 09-23-2021.
@caitlinmayi
@caitlinmayi 4 года назад
I'm 30 and am just now truly understanding the devastation of loosing a pet. Such a hard thing.
@vergineal-tawil3165
@vergineal-tawil3165 Год назад
The hardest moment for me was when I saw my dog’s body go limp after he got euthanized in my arms. I knew in that moment that I can’t reverse my decision, he was gone and my heart broke into pieces!! I don’t know if I can ever get over the experience of the day my dog passed away. I miss him so much and there is nothing I can do to bring him back, 😢.
@julieholden9574
@julieholden9574 2 месяца назад
I feel you so much my little timmie just turned 9 the week before he died, he also died in my arms that imagine is torcher every single day ,it's 6 wks since my baby left me an I feel I cant go on no more 💔
@akachophi8965
@akachophi8965 10 дней назад
Hii have you overcomed from the pain?and how?cos I feel like dying now
@julieholden9574
@julieholden9574 10 дней назад
@akachophi8965 hi I'm still grieving my timmie I still cry everyday an av this horrible pain in my chest, I thought getting another fur baby wud help it's at least give me a sense of purpose back although I'll never truly get over losing my timmie ,I hope you start to feel better soon
@akachophi8965
@akachophi8965 10 дней назад
@@julieholden9574 so did you get another fur baby?
@julieholden9574
@julieholden9574 10 дней назад
@akachophi8965 yes it has helped me so much I will never ever forget my timmie but having willow now as given me a sense of purpose
@jasonotelo4932
@jasonotelo4932 8 лет назад
this is true it sucks so bad lost my bully with no warning and the guilt and everything else is beyond wrecking me its only been a week
@scott2824
@scott2824 5 лет назад
Dose it get any easier to deal with? I'm im struggling like you were I'm lost without my boy
@Shelbsalexis
@Shelbsalexis 4 года назад
north sea low tide Has it gotten easier for you? I just had to put my Pitbull Jasper to sleep. Something in his spine basically snapped and he went almost completely paralyzed in his back end and legs. He was 15 years old. I could of kept him alive and on meds but there was a slim to no chance he would ever recover or walk again. My husband and I made the tough decision to put him to sleep. I haven’t stopped crying since. My whole body and head aches. I don’t know what to do with myself. He was perfectly healthy if that just didn’t happen! That’s what haunts me. He was still wagging his tail and putting his ears up when we were at the vets. But what life would it be if he couldn’t walk and was in constant pain 😔
@ohmoenay
@ohmoenay 3 года назад
My dog Baby passed away this morning September 7 2021. She passed of pancreatitis and old age. She was my best friends. My only friend at times. She was MY baby. My reason. My everything. She gave me the gift of Unconditional love, forgiveness and support. I love her and always will. She carved me into a new person.
@kaiaros
@kaiaros 6 лет назад
This is long... so you don't have to bother reading it, I just want to share it with someone.. I just want someone to talk to... Just over a week ago, we found this small wild kitten at our house with nowhere to go. We brought it in, keeping it in a cage at first, careful not to overwhelm it... We eventually let it out of the cage 2 days later, but kept it in our main room, closing the doors. We booked in a vet appointment for the Thursday coming, since that was the earliest they could do it. It was Monday at the time. We fed it well, but it was still so skinny... Every time you pet it, you could feel the spine and ribs. We kept feeding it, not too much, but enough, and it was so happy... It loved being picked up and it'd rest it's head under your chin, and cuddle close to you. It was finally happy, and had a family again, as we assumed it was dumped by somebody. Then, on the Thursday morning of the vet appointment, my parents woke up (I'm only 12, if you're wondering), and there it was, in it's cage in our living room, dead. I was still asleep at the time, and it was fine when my brother got up at 1AM, but it went to the bathroom in the cage, and it was dead. It was the day of the appointment, we were going to get it checked for problems and fixed, find out it's gender, and find a name all that day... but we never could. We don't even have it's name, or gender, and we'll never know. It's buried outside our house now... It's only been 3 days since it died, and I can't stop crying. I didn't even know it for long, but it instantly became part of the family.. and I miss it.. It hurts... And I don't know how to make myself feel better... If we had've booked the vet sooner, it would still be with us... But we didn't... R.I.P Ginger Kitten 16/03/18 - 22/03/18 I miss you, you little fluffball of happiness
@oOh0ShiOo
@oOh0ShiOo 4 года назад
The love of my life passed away the 29th of April 2020. He was a smart, bossy ♥, lovely little maltese. He knew when I was feeling sad, he knew when I needed emotional support and we understood each other just looking at each others faces. I miss him so much and I feel guilty. Even if he was sick taking the decision of making him sleep demolished me. In that moment I hugged him, rubbed my face on his head, told him that I loved him and that he was my baby. I just wanted to protect him. I would have given my life to save him. I'll always love him and I'd like to tell him that I'm sorry. I'm sorry for not being able to save you. I tried... We tried all the possible ways. You will always be in my heart, mind and soul. I miss you so much.
@lesterburnham182
@lesterburnham182 Год назад
Beautiful, very moving words.
@kaolew4023
@kaolew4023 4 года назад
I lost my Aspen today... my heart is broken.. He was the light of my life.
@jaygold4467
@jaygold4467 9 лет назад
This just happened to me with my dog of 14 years. Now the house is still and silent and I am alone with his memories. Very hard. I am in the process of getting another dog immediately. Having a companion for 14 years while being alone hard to leave. The best I could say is that he knew I loved him and that I couldn't stand to see him in pain and distress anymore. I am glad that I got a chance to say goodbye to him. Incredible dog. Now for my new one(s). You all have my sympathies. I know what you are going through but consider getting another pet and giving it the same love. They will love you back.
@wyatt1153
@wyatt1153 9 лет назад
+tallladyjay I have held off on getting another puppy. I am not getting another one until I make sure that I have a couple of thousand for emergency medical treatment. These animals are a lot more sensitive to whats going on then we think. Mine new he was going. He was faithful right up to the last minute for me. Give yourself some time to get over this. It takes time. All they want is our love and a want to feel needed. They are better than a lot of humans in that regard. I will be getting another one eventually but the time has to be right. You have my deep sympathies. I know exactly what you are feeling.
@estarsarioglu3258
@estarsarioglu3258 3 года назад
3 weeks ago I had to eurharize my poochie Domino , he was 16.5 years young, and we were glued together..... I think him more than I. I have his urn sitting amongst my plants, but I am scared not being able to control my emotions due to his loss. I've been crying more and more and just cant get over my loss Every thing reminds me of my pooch, I k ow It will get easier eventually, but right now I I feel so empty and miserable, nothing I try to do brings me joy. If there was a way I would not hesitate to join my beloved boy......
@mariendorf1981
@mariendorf1981 3 года назад
@@estarsarioglu3258 I hope you are okay xx
@suzettekirby2455
@suzettekirby2455 2 года назад
I just lost my baby a few days ago and I have been crying for days! I have been ill myself from grief. And yes, my house is empty and silent and my mom and I are alone with her memories.
@normarodriguez5535
@normarodriguez5535 2 года назад
@@suzettekirby2455 I'm so sorry for your loss..I'm going thru that now...how are u managing ?..I don't feel like doing anything😪
@isodrewskii
@isodrewskii 7 лет назад
my ginnie pig deid 2 days ago R.I.P Tom Snowball
@icymilk8134
@icymilk8134 5 лет назад
Sharky mine died a while ago and my rabbit will die soon
@dpavlovsky
@dpavlovsky 4 года назад
RIP Rosey. :( I'll always love you.
@trapperkreeper6105
@trapperkreeper6105 6 лет назад
My girlfriend and I lost one of our little pup boys 3 days ago suddenly and violently. He escaped the fence and ran in the road and was hit. He was only a year and a half and we didn't have enough time with him and the guilt is excruciating. Our other pup is the same age and they were always together. Best friends. He is grieving hard from the loss as we are. I believe we all feel like our hearts have been ripped out. RIP Dougie Whippet
@amah.vanniarachchy4334
@amah.vanniarachchy4334 2 года назад
I just lost my little sunshine, J girl on the 21 June night. She was 10 years old. Cannot believe she is no more. She was always with me..she was my joy, my strength, and my child. losing her is heartbreaking. she died in my arms when she suffered a sudden heart-attack. it is still a shock. my eyes keep looking for her in every corner of the house and the garden...my ears are waiting to hear her voice, her footsteps... we used to spend our days, our nights, our mornings together...she was always by my side. her sudden death, made my entire world collapse. i was a very active person, but all of a sudden, I have become nothing. since Thursday night, I haven't done anything..i didn't eat properly. i cry always...think of her. i have no strength and mind's focus to do anything. i canceled all my meetings, classes, and work...it seems as if my world has come to an end.... i cannot imagine moving on without her...the past ten years was my best years of life, with such a wonderful friend all by my side. this program and reading the comments below, made me realise that I am not alone in this.... thank u so much
@JB-zo7ln
@JB-zo7ln Год назад
I wish I could join this group. Everything they're saying and feeling and describing is exactly what I am going through right now. It hurts so much having just lost my adorable cat. She was my companion, my best friend, my child, and meant everything to me. She got me through all the hard days and tough times and gave me so much love and comfort. I held her in my arms while she took her last breaths only a few days ago and it broke my heart to pieces. I miss her so much and I'm back to feeling so alone and depressed. She took away a lot of my stress, depression, sadness, and thoughts of being alone. Now she's gone and I'm left grieving sad and hurting. I work longer hours, I work weekends, I don't go right home after work, all because it's hard to be there without her and our companionship and daily routines. I can't get rid of any of her things. I leave them right where they were. If I even look at her brush I will start to tear up and we'll up in my eyes. It really hurts and I'm thankful for our time together and the love we both gave to each other. I am glad that I found this video of this group of people to help cope with what I'm going through. Not everybody will understand unless you have lost a pet you loved. Pet grief from loss is so real. I didn't know exactly how much it would effect me, but I sure found out when she suddenly passed away unexpectedly. I hope she felt my love and comfort being held by me like she always was while she took those last breaths. I love her so much. I miss her so much 😭🥺
@taemason4134
@taemason4134 3 года назад
I had to put my sweet eva down 9/22/2020. I was there till the very end I never knew how lonely I was going to be without my dog. She grew with me through my 20s. I had her for 12 years I always knew the time would come for us to part. I just didn't think it would hurt this bad honestly. I still cry 😢 I'm crying as I type this. I wish you all comfort and the best. She is and will always be my bestest friend.
@createone100
@createone100 4 года назад
Thanks. Yesterday I said goodbye to my sweetest, sweetest Saint Bernard, Holly. She was 130 pounds of pure love. Having a very hard time. 🐶🌈🐾🐾💔✨🌈
@ph7715
@ph7715 3 года назад
I know how you felt I just lost mine I know you never get over it but I hope you have a little peace now that it's been a little time having passed.
@lesleycoc7130
@lesleycoc7130 9 лет назад
My baby Shiloh half chihuahua half mini pin pass just a few hours ago. This is nice to know other people loved and miss their pets like I do. He was sick for two years I'm so glad his fight is over.
@Sakuems
@Sakuems 7 лет назад
it sucks cause there's not such group in my country at all. i searched and pet loss is pretty much something people hide. It really sucks to have to search for people who experienced this online, i wish i could talk more about my cat and how destroying to my mental health his death was. It really is a pain to not have a pet loss group here :(
@sinkodemayo1
@sinkodemayo1 9 лет назад
CHIP 2009-2015 As I sniffle and tear, my heart is broken. Grief is my reward for such a close and special relationship. Family tells me he was just a feral cat and I should not dwell on the loss, and I agree. But with my feelings now, comfort of any kind is fleeting. My hours of thought constantly interrupted by his conspicuous absence. He came to us born of a stray mother who chose our backyard as her birthing venue. We acquainted ourselves to the litter for domestication reasons and in time found homes for all but him. Joining our then family of house pets (cats), his was a slow road to fully trust us. He was allowed to stay with his mother in the area as we fed and took a simple interest in there health. Over time we became closer, and closer. By the time he was 2 or so I decided to get even closer. He reciprocated, and our bond of friendship and his trust in me grew. It took time and some effort but, having had many great cats as pets, I was aware of the closeness we shared as special. He learned to ask for a belly massage (Chin to nethers, every inch), sometimes insisting. Any time he was upset, lonely, or just bored, I was there for him (I'm retired). A six year old tomcat who looks you in the eye and purrs and hyper-breathes while casually closing them. Well you are his person, his pet, and he loves and trusts you. There were many (special) things that made him a little different, you know quirks. Too many to list here. He passed three days ago after suffering the dreaded urinary blockage. I could not afford the cost of the procedures required to save his life, and this has muddied my post death feelings with guilt. (What price would I pay to have him alive and well beside me? What is the price, to have the pain removed from my heart. Cash in my hand does not even begin to take his place! ) But that chance has faded, forever, and I must learn to live with loss. Oh, how I feel the loss! My tears come and go, but he does not return. Hopefully, time will help stop the tears caused by saying his name aloud, CHIPPER ! . . . . no answers but from my memory.
@shannonm75
@shannonm75 8 лет назад
I recently lost my little dog Cinnamon last week. December 8th. I'm heartbroken.
@paulreader7353
@paulreader7353 4 года назад
It’s just heartbreaking dogs come into your life when there gone it rips your heart out, dogs worry more about you than themselves.
@kongminyang
@kongminyang 4 года назад
Took my chihuahua to the vet just two days ago they say they were going to do surgery until she’s strong and she past away yesterday, I really miss her so much, 11 years with her is a blessin, fly high Autumn!
@AKlepp15
@AKlepp15 4 года назад
“Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.” BISH IM NOT GONNA SMILE BC MY PET RAT’S DEATH ‘happened’!!
@jessharrie3992
@jessharrie3992 8 лет назад
my rabbit Harrie died at 5 weeks and I was not only sad because of her death also because her companion peanut died days after of depression and stress of Harrie dieing. I miss them so much ×o×o×o
@margaretcreedon2224
@margaretcreedon2224 3 года назад
This is the baby that never grows up and moves out. She was my baby, and I miss her so so much.
@margaretcreedon2224
@margaretcreedon2224 3 года назад
Thank you Ginger for a wonderful 18 years 3 1/2 months of unconditional love.
@always_b_closing
@always_b_closing 4 года назад
I lost my baby Ouro 3 days ago. I have lost cats in the past whom I loved, but I have never been as affected as with my Ouro. They all hurt. But in the past I had other types of support. Now in my life I just had Ouro. Now she's gone and everything feels so empty and incomplete. I know that nothing will help me. I failed her, she tried to tell me that she didn't feel good, and I should have taken the time to understand. I will never procrastinate again with anything or anyone that I care about. I dont want to live without my girl
@kilmentvoroshilov2827
@kilmentvoroshilov2827 3 года назад
It’s the hardest when you have to put them down despite knows it’s the best choice but not one you want to live with
@heyitsrosie
@heyitsrosie 2 года назад
I just lost my baby angel two days ago. The pain is unbearable.
@7lonewolf
@7lonewolf 9 лет назад
Try having your pet die the day before your birthday. Finding your pet under the porch expecting him to be fine but then you realize he's not moving.
@Alexandraalexxaaa
@Alexandraalexxaaa 4 года назад
7lonewolf i m so sorry...my dog just died today..i feel horrible
@stogiechomper
@stogiechomper 2 года назад
I am in deep grief over the death of my dog Bogie. It helps to know I am not alone, that my feelings are not unique.
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