Both men and women. I am not sure ware the whole only men suffer in silence thing came from. I wish the divide would stop and realize we both hurt we both suffer . Suffering is not gendered. I have no one to talk to without judgment and when I thought I did it was used against me. I hide my feelings my emotions and go out everyday looking like I am ok though I am far from ok. there r a holes in both genders and there is suffering in silence in both as well I got raised to hold in my emotions and how weak It is to show them . I also.got taught how people you trust hurt you. Edit auto correct
@@-_oOtianaOo_- listen miss. We do not say only men suffer in silence. Sure women also do however the percentage gap among the genders are of mountainous size. Men suffer more and it ends with them taking their own life regardless of age. However I am aware that women also suffer but I think you get my point
@MilitaristTurkcu I understand what you are saying. Though I have to respectfully disagree on the sense I have seen alot of people denie that women do. Maybe not you but I have seen many many comments say how only men understand the suffering. From me who has tried to end myself multiple times starting as a child, it strike a cord. I am not one sided if I would have saw the opposite I would say the same exact thing if some woman was saying only women suffer in silence. I am not all one way or another. I am not a generalizer. P.s. thank you for the miss so many call me mam and I feel old lol I'm 38 I know I am 😆 🤣
@@-_oOtianaOo_- Hol up YOU ARE 38? YOU LOOK 25! Plus no need to thank me for addressing you as miss. I was raised right and taught to be respectful towards women and men alike. Mostly women because I am a man. I respect your opinion since we are not in a parliament and you, a grown conscious woman, can have your own opinion. Ps:I truly feel bad that I now know that you harmed yourself when you shouldn't have even be in a situation so dire the only escape you see is death itself. I hope you are free from those thoughts and live your life to the fullest.
I can't see my previous comment.. but something legit swiped my screen to the side after writing it.. not completely but it moved to the side like it tried..
The last one was relatable id always tell myself "their better of without me", "im useless", "im the problem", "im the burden", but id always remember that no matter what somebody loves you, nedds you, and cares for you.
Just remember God created us all in his image....And let me tell you he didn't create any one of us to be Useless. You're amazing and don't let anyone tell you otherwise ❤
I'm 30 year old Korean man, suffering from anxiety disorder and taking pills every day. I have been dealing with traumas from parents' violent fights and physical abuse, bullying from school(as I had to move between Korea and US, being unable to relate to both cultures), and physical and mental abuse(beating, death threat even after service) from the Korean Army. Recently, I got dumped, my parents got sick, faced layoff. I'm trying to get better, make myself better, meet people, try to enjoy and be thankful about my life. I tried to cry my anger and sadness out of the system. But I just can't cry. It's like I'm programmed to the core to not show sadness. I'm holding on to my dear life to keep it sane and not to go to my darkest thoughts. To women, our traumas and dark thoughts are just trash that they don’t want to touch. But at least among men, I hope we can talk it out and open up.
Hello sir, I'm 17 year old African American girl but I just want to tell you that it will get better. I know I don't know you but YOUR LIFE HAS SO MUCH WORTH. YOU ARE A STRONG MAN and YOUR FEELINGS ARE NOT TRASH. I can't stand people who think like that. Your parents will get better, you'll find good friends and find a better partner and get married (if that's want you want). Mental illnesses and suicide really hurts my heart, eventually you will be able to cry it all out and you will feel better. I'm sorry you went through all of that. I know I don't know you but I LOVE YOU AND GOD LOVES YOU TOO. Try reaching out to Him read a Bible,and pray, trust me it helps. YOU HAVE SO MUCH WORTH, YOU'LL GET THROUGH THIS I PROMISE!!!😊
thank you for opening up. hope is the answer a lot of times, hope for a better day. know that not all women think this as well, your emotions are valid and real, because they are your experience. if someone doesn't recognize or validate that, they're not worth your time, but the right people will. hope you are doing better. sending love from brazil ❤
I know I am just a 14 year old kid but I get it, this will be almost the max thing you will ever face in your life and everything else that will happen later on will be like a meh and won't effect you as much and I have been through some stuff but I know that will be almost the max I will face in my life, I know a kid who almost died from a plain crash and it was bad but I can't get into detail because of privacy reasons but everything will turn out fine
keep talking to people, even if it's just on here. It has helped me to process things. A lot of people have a similar story. Maybe try to find some group therapy to start that's free
The clip with Tom hanks and the prisoner saying “I’m sorry for what I am” is incredibly sad. It’s based on a true story and I can’t remember too many of the details but in essence, the man is convicted and sentenced to death for murdering a girl even though there’s not a substantial amount of evidence. The thing is he is mentally handicapped and is innocent. The guards, while doing their jobs, get to learn about who he is and how he’s a kind, gentle soul who was wrongfully accused. The scene you witness here is his execution, where despite the guards knowing he’s innocent, are unable to do anything to help him except keep the hood off his head (he’s afraid of the dark). He was later proved innocent but I’m not too sure what happened after. It’s been too many years and I can’t remember much about this case any more. This movie is absolutely brilliant but is incredibly heartbreaking.
As a person who once had suicidal thoughts thinking I was just a pain to everyone and wasn't loved by anyone this felt like I saw people like my old self but now I've dragged myself out of it and now I'm doing what I love most.
If I’m being honest, Jordan Peterson saved my life and he’s done more to my life than anyone ever has. He’s a really good guy and I wish I could tell him
The man is a raging narcissist, pseudo intellectual and racist who shrouds his bigotry in long words most people don’t understand. He’s also a fraud, giving all this self help advice and then getting himself hooked on benzos and being surprised at the effects as a qualified psychologist 🤣🤣 I’m glad he helped you, and I hope you’re doing good now. But that freak is a wretched rat who has made many lives much worse and has sold himself to the highest bidder… which just so happens to be far right “conservatives”.
@@theDmiller22005 No one should feel guilt when committing suicide. They fought for as long as they could and felt this was the best way to end it whether it is or not.
@@UrRandomKiwi yeah I get what your saying but didn’t the quote meant suicide takes away the pain from the commiter of the suicide while the Victims love ones have to cope with it and that’s a pain
“Sometimes life is like this dark tunnel, you can’t always see the light at the end of the tunnel, but if you just keep moving, you will come to a better place.” - Uncle Iroh, Avatar
God will show up. I know i've experienced it. Alone, in my bathroom, with a gun in my mouth. An image of my new born son popped in my head, and the question was asked, "Do you want him to grow up having to say, my father killed himself.". I humbled my heart and cried out to God to help. It has been a journey, but I can say this, If you truly humble your heart, and seek Him earnestly, then you will find Him. Today I have peace beyond understanding, even when my world is falling down around me, and my now 25 yr old son can say, I grew up with an amazing dad!
I got goosebumps reading this, it's just a comment, people will say, but this is a message that made me think Always remember that you mad the most correct choice you could've ever made
Thank you all for the love!! It is the messy part of my testimony. I share it to bring Glory to God and to let people know hope is found in Him! May He bless you all and keep you!! ❤️
People act like men are not allowed to talk about their feelings. YOU ARE! I am a part of an amazing support group of guys in my Bible study group. We meet every Friday and tall about God, our struggles, and pray for eachother. These guys are also some of the best men I have ever met in my life. You got to stop with this self sorrow crap. Take control of your life!
10 quotes that should hopefully help some of you " When you feel like giving up, just remember why you held on for so long." - Haley Williams Suicide is not an answer, it's destruction." - Al Green When you don't have the strength to take another step, ask those you love to pull you." - Unknown If you're going through hell, keep going." - Winston Churchill This life. This night. Your story. Your hope. It matters. All of it matters." Jamie Tworkowski "It isn't weak to ask for help. It's like using a flashlight when you are lost in the dark." - Unknown Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start and make a brand new ending.” - Carl Bard Grit your teeth and let it hurt. Don’t deny it, don’t be overwhelmed by it. It will not last forever.” - Harold Kushner When it is darkest, we can see the stars.” - Ralph Waldo Emerson There are far, far better things ahead than anything we leave behind.” - CS Lewis Copy and paste to possibly make days better
That is really woman’s thought? In general most of males are just must be loyal to woman and thread them as a queen and die? 😢😢😢 I don’t blame you but society that teaches young girls that men’s are gross and sexual harasser it is kinda expected I guess. 🥀🥀🥀💔💔💔
Every single time I’ve opened up to a girl she permanently changes.. it’s like a genetic response or something from them. It’s like disgust on their face and rolling their eyes as if to say “oh yeah poor baby.. I’m sure you hurt so bad as a man”. That 100% has to stop. Absolutely almost everytime I’ve opened up to a guy he’s like “yeah bro I feel more than you know.” But we don’t sob and weep but I feel sooo much better after. You don’t HAVE to sob and weep as a guy no matter if anyone tells you that’s the only way to open up. No. You say words any way you like and that’s it. And no I’m not saying guys act perfectly in response to women’s emotions either but damn if I haven’t been the most hurt by women who I’ve opened up to. It’s ridiculous I even have to caveat that.
I know how it is, im homeless myself but i have a job, its hard to work things out but as long as you have faith in jesus you should have no worries and do you and be strong and kind
Remember, you are not alone, and your journey can inspire others to seek help, find support, and discover their own path to healing and fulfillment. Your story is a powerful reminder that it is possible to overcome challenges and find joy and purpose in life.
I remember sitting in my truck with my gun in my hand,crying uncontrollably ready to be done. The only reason i didn't, is because i didn't want my kids to find me like that. I felt i had no one. .
it’s always amazing for me and truly very touching to see people opening up on the RU-vid comment section and that others a incredibly kind to them. all of you are amazing, don’t forget your worth
Unfortunately for me…that last one seems like it’s very true as of late. The more I realize how bad I was to my friends the more I realized that it would have been better if I never met them so they wouldn’t have to hurt because of me.
DAILY REMINDER: 1.Your skin is not paper, so don’t cut it. 2. Your neck is not a coat, so don’t hang it. 3.Your body is not a book, so don’t judge it. 4.Your heart is not a door, so don’t close it. 5. Your life is not a movie, so don’t end it. Remember to always love yourself because you’re a shining star
Best thing you can do is be understanding that other people around you are this same way. Even something as simple as spending time with them might change their lives. Even yours.
Many people need to see this but many won’t and the people who do pls pass it on You are loved and you matter no matter if they show it or not they care about you deep down inside just like sibling they won’t show it but love them so much I hope everyone gets help and overcomes their thoughts and live a happy rest of their life “It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect” Psalm 18:32
Some people don't realize that when these guys are suffering from an endless trail of depression and it is pulling them down like a downward chain going into the ground. This is something you have to take action. These people don't deserve to die in a horrific way to hurt others around them. Take action and always remember, Life is like a gem to this planet. Don't destroy that gem, once created, it can't be destroyed.
Music is the only thing I turn to when I’m down and my 5 cats ! I never look for comfort in other people because they truly have no idea how your feeling and it’s hard for anyone to understand how to help someone when their down.
You know I always say keep your head up,high,and off the ground because if its always down,low,and on the ground your never going to see the high moments in your life and your only going to see the low moments in your life and thats not what we want to see we want to see the high moments in our life but out heads are always down,low,and on the ground. Keep your head up high and believe in yourself and believe in everything you do. Youve got this. And your doing so amazing. You are the most beautiful, handsome person out there and dont let anyone else tell you different. YOU got this. YOU make your life what it is and what you want it to be. I love you whoever is reading this and remember keep you head up high and keep it off the ground.
I think that the sadness of a man can overcome his life that’s why it’s important to talk it out and I also think that a man crying is more hart felt then anything that I’ve seen
I actually have a quote from finding Nemo that helps me a lot “just keep swimming” just never backing down or giving up and continuing no matter what’s around you is important because you’ll get somewhere one day where you are happy and if not at least you tried
Listen people, life is a thing that shouldn't be wasted, cherish it, take care of it and enjoy it. Life is fast, life is short, life is also minimum. Make the most of it. Enjoy life before it's too late. Be with the people you love. Find love. Don't be afraid to express your feelings to one another. Life is a gift and it shouldn't be thrown away.
When I was at Arizona with my family, on vacation I was having fun. I was with a friend and family when we went to a museum about World War 2 And World War 1, and the Cold War. It was interesting exploring until one part where me and my friend heard there was a veteran. We saw him and were amazed. 101 years old American veteran. He was selling books of his story of war. I got one signed by him to me and I was deeply hit happily. This man watched his friends die in a bomber and was tortured by nazis. It was insane. I was just amazed. Respect for him.
One fundmental truth we as a species need, no we have to understand is that we all must learn to love one another, or we must all die. There is no other option, weve exhausted them all, even the excuses. We, we cant do this anymore as humans, we are the only species on this planet that kills each other..
The Bojack one really got me crying. Because, I want to feel good about myself too, but I don’t think I can. I want to see myself as someone who is beautiful and carefree like everyone tells me. But I can’t…
I can feel everyones pain in that video cause i myself have mental tramua and wanted to die several times. So everyone press F to pay respect for everyone with mental issues who gets through
“The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out” (Proverbs 20:5). All people are made in the image of God. Each of us are born with a purpose and calling that we can discover or completely miss. The influence of the Holy Spirit in the lives of believers gives us insight to His purposes for us. We find peace and courage when we sense the confirmation of the Spirit that we are in the right place at the right time of our designated calling.
you know it’s real if silly goofy Kai Cenat is crying man, depression isn’t any joke, don’t treat it like one. even if they don’t need it, give someone a hug every so often. those kinds of gestures can go a long way.
Man...i am feeling this way right now like my head hurts,i feel so tired,i only watch animes and movies to escape reality like I'm done I can't do it anymore but i can't kill myself because i don't want to break my parents heart and that's why it hurts💔...
People tell you every day that you're gonna be ok and your gonna get through it. My mind is telling me: Well, what if I can't? If I die, nobody will care..
Rage. Rage against the dying of the light. Do not give in. Do not go gentle. It is unbearable, but you may yet find strength you thought impossible. Please, brothers.
54 of our brothers, fathers, uncles, cousins and best friends WILL take their own life today. And again tomorrow and other 364 days. BUT somebody has to stay behind, we cant ALL go. Our mommas and sisters and aunts NEED atleast one of us to stay behind to be a gd man for them. To wipe the tears and fix the vehicles and mow the lawns and teach the sons and nephews by example. I'm not fooling myself, the reality is I probably will lose the same war thise other guys lost. But when I lose my family will lose the last man. Somebody some day might read this and gd do I hope it changes your mind! One of us needs to stay behind brother. I hope it's you that chooses one more day.maybe title get better or maybe it wont. But somebody needs to stay behind and I hope its you!. I really hope its you
If you are under 20 years old, you have only experienced less than 25% of your life. That means there is still about 75% of your life left to live. There are so, so, *so* , many opportunities that you will find in the future. Giving up now means giving up on chasing dreams and finding new friends and creating a family. There is so much that will happen that neither of us could ever even guess would happen. Part of a good life is bad days. I promise you, it does get better ♡ keep pushing so you can see the good in life :)
"Try to be selfish, try not to give a fuxk about how the world n the society looking at you" "giving up sometimes is Okay, none gonna thank you for pushing yourself too much" These word sometimes was work better than "don't worry be happy" "don't cry, don't be sad" etc like that....
