Couple Fight Because Of In-Laws | How to Resolve Relationship Problems | Nijo Jonson - StoryTeller 

Yeah and few are such a puppets to their parents, they don't want to grow up just follow parents' guidelines blindly , parents use it as advantage to satisfy their ego not even do they think for once that it's their own kid suffering too

Totally agreed

So true.... I'm suffering through that... Let's see how life will turn up

Very true

Totally agree

Yeah it's so true. Actually both must always pay attention at what both their parents need.

Super bro correct

Very correct

@@avionserrao7943 and a second l log

Husband gives 200% insults to wife's parents but expects 201% respect from wife and wife's parents towards him and his family

So damn true

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Absolutely agreed

Disagree. You might have not become parent in law

I think what you said is right, but its not right if you do not contribute under the same roof. If you want to live like a guest in the house then it would not work. I have seen womens literally break the families because they cannot understand that they need to pay for their own zumba classes(or some activites). Parents of the boy have the same right as the wife, so husbands need to be respected. If you are living away in a seperate house means you are taking care of you own. Do as much zumba classes or for boys do binge parties as much as you feel doing. Not in a family home.

Shut up you lady kabhi apni maa papa ki izzat ki hoti toh aaj ye ni kehti aap sham on you lady!!

My problem is still he compares with his mother .

@@ninu7092 same here, i have been compared with my MIL and SIL many times which hurts a lot.

@@samyakjain7010 Maa baap ki izzat krne ka ye matlab nhi hota h ki vo ko bhagwan... Unme bhi kamiyan hai...

Black are your parents treating your Bhabhi well, as well as you as a nanad. You will get answer

@@shivad2841 are you the same type

@@abhiam18 was expecting this answer, your mother is good, but your mother in law is bad wow want to ask your bhabhi about her opinion. I am not any feminist ,but you showed your true colours,I can imagine how dangerous Nanad you are .

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@@abhiam18 ghar todney waali nanad spotted

Also they try to resolve and make it worse.

unnecessary involvement make it terrible...

Very true

True

Absolutely right. But sometimes we can't do anything. And most of the time the man is the victim.

Exactly the same story of mine it is my in-laws also controlling my life n my husband also, he always share everything with his family instead of talking to me even the littlest things he share with them everyday ,i am now just stuck in so called fights that we have in between us even i have a little baby and manage everything by myself his parents tell him not to help me but he don't want to understand what they are saying to keep a distance from his own child, it just too much disgusting how can as a parent say like this.

Same is mine story

same here

Ye same story apki mother in-law k saath bhi hui h you aren’t any new.Ask her how her mother in-law treated her than you’ll come to know what real problems are

@@abhishektakhar7 my grand-mother-in-law is really a nice lady even she buy trending clothes shoes bags etc for her daughter-in-law and still she cares for them and in her own life my mother-in-law live a very beautiful and luxurious life almost every person whom i met tell me about her life when she became daughter-in-law

So true..

Sometimes parents are needed to guide children who basically understand what children needs and what problems they are going through... but some parents are there who make the problems 10 times bigger and those should be avoided...

It's not only parents even husband, after all he behaves like mama's boy.

@@Mahakaalkideewani111 : hoping you not making your own son mama’s boy. It is easy to point on other. If you realize you doing the same. Sorry if I hurt you. In case you are not married then check your brother then.

@rajeev chaudhary - Are you out of your mind, you are talking about parents who have raised you from little.. They will always think of your good only.. Yes in some cases its not true, but not 100% .

But he should not ignore, as he also has the duty towards his wife parents, why everything from woman is expected.

Try find a good job ..be it teaching.....this way you won't have to live with her 24 hours .... empower yourself everything falls in place ..

@@garimayadav483 then who will do household works? So double duty....

Which in laws give u poroperty..so make home husband rather general husband..

Get rid of inlaws.. move to another country ... Or another state... Or kick them out of your life. Period... If you want to save your marriage. I wish I did!!!!

Yes i agree... Daughters should become independent and strong... I only word I have heard is live the house... Which is leading my thoughts to getting divorced

In pakistani dramas a husband is scared of his wife even if she ruins him but in indian serials a man cannot tolerate even slightest rebbbelitions comming from his fellow wife and kicks her out of the house while not thinking twice about their children.

Yes

True

Even son believes in parent than wife. But he doesn't understand the reality and not ready to speak to his parent. Its takes ages to come over.

Really very true

Why parents involve in unnecessary things... ?

True

Very much true!!!better to leave upto them without intervention.its better to keep in touch like this as their presence is not necessary when married all the ups and downs to be discussed by themselves.if problems cannot be resolved then can go for parents or in-laws .

So true

Agreed

true

Some rotten families do it. They are manipulative and will control their son in law as well as daughter in law.

I had seen those parents also, who train their daughters for a marriage material and bluntly say that she had to adjust according to your in laws so that they can proudly say our daughter is our pride! Lol!

Your right ....

It's true

Some of the Wives Don't want to live with Husbands parents......And wife wants her husband and her live with wife parents.....And what kind of logic is this.....

So many on the way...But stay strong

Pls stay strong although I do not know how u r managing all these years!

I am going thru mental trauma and depression, under medication. U need not find devils seperately, u find them in humans.

@@sushihero8722 I don't know what is your age, kids,job or house wife? Seriously if you separate all your trauma will end

@@ms-ll5sy issue is with in laws, else all are gud. They are spoiling the entire environment. See if I run away I am not sure of future. I don't believe in seperation may be need to learn to handle stress and handle in-laws and forget the "respect elders" and just give them back nicely. That courage I need to build. Everywhere problems exists may be we should know to make in-laws shut their dirty mouths, indirectly their dirty minds.

R u married yet?

If you are married and you still have this opinion, then you my friend have a great spouse. If you aren’t married yet, then it’s gonna change once you get married. I really hope its the first one

@@sravyadasari9757 u can always leave if your husband isn't nice

Totally agreed. Our indian culture teaches.. beti paraya dhan hoti hai and after mrg, only husband family is the one family.. how someone can ask to replace parents in one go? Terrible it is.. very few women get success to restore their identity

@@meghanarora4136 yeah right!

To all the wives who said their husbands to threw his parents out. Threw your parents out of their house also . And men better living with wives like this should threw her out and live happily with his parents. Parents are more important than wife. No man will dump his parents just for a girl. Boys better be single.

Abe kuch bhi bolti hain??? Ghar se ma bap ko nikal dena chahiye tu chudail eahi bol rahi hain..... Tera divorce pakka hain..... Don't blame parents.

@@bharosewalechacha7194 when did I say to throw your parents. I said you have no rights to throw your wife also in the same way.

@@JaiSanatandharm200 then don’t marry anyone. For girls aslo parents are equally important. Okay?? I hope your daughter won’t get a husband like you who wants to throw his wife out!!

@@bharosewalechacha7194 you are telling you want to throw the your innocent wife out?? Fucking male dominated society!! You will understand the pain of innocent girls if the same thing happens to your daughter!!!!!!!!!!!

Bcs no1 teaches them to respect wives or husband but every1 taught them to respect parents

Most of husbands are like that

That's why I believe women should be indipendent , bucz till man have this feeling that u r dependent on them they will take u for granted and u will be treated like crap..

But it’s ok for the wife’s father to ridicule the husband’s financial position and compare their family to someone else’s - shouldn’t she stand up to them either... marriage as the video suggests is between two souls. But kindly know one thing. Parents eight the bride’s or the groom’s only want to look out for their children

You want ox to follow your order not husband!

I don't know why these mother in laws let their son marry... Why they have so much prblm with their son's wife...

You can tell ur husband and teach her lesson in polite manner I did the same

@@nadiratabassumpapri4639 😂 exactly..

Indian in laws suck..... They just have to interfere in their sons life.... Always...

True

Exactly,,,,,when me Nd my husband go to village then my husband want i live his means our home first and afterdat he didn't want i go to my mumma home he want i stay with his family but he never think how i felt when i can't go my home that is only 9 km from his home and that time i feel v bad.

Very correct.. i also having my inlaws interference in our life. Even they always compair our kids with my sister inlaw's. It really making my kids annoying and me too but my hubby is taking this as normal . Infact my hubby made me to quit my job coz my inlaws dnt wanna me to wrk. They are not staying wid us but all the small n big thgs in between me n my hubby n kids , they knws. Everyday we had atleast 1hr telephonic conveesation tht too on the name of taking care of parents . Its really bad.. i dnt like this. I even can't meet my own mom more than 2 -3 ngts in a year coz we setteled out of country n only once a year will go to India n inlaws wants me n my kids with them only. So, i only allowed to visit for 2-3 days to my mom's place. During our visit my sister inlaw stays wid us and each month she atleast visit for 4-5 days to her parents coz she is in the same city n i cnt go to my mom's place once in a year for a week.. this is so worst.

@@ashxyz1261 so unfair and hypocrisy!! People like these forget that their daughter-in-law is someone's daughter too. 😓😓

@@ashxyz1261 u have to earn your freedom

Maybe if your spouse is abusive you divorce. If he or she is physically then the law and family. Your parents are there but you are an adult and do not need them to think for you.

Ohh I can truly understand your situation and I am really sorry for that. My father Was like that and ... Anyways You take care and you know what you have to do god bless ! Feel free to reach out

Mine has deserted me and my premature son ..it's been three and a half years ..nobody came to see us... No financial help .nothing...they were not even bothered untill I filed for maintenance...and as I asked for maintenance so now they want divorce...where should women go then.. inlaws don't listen and help .if we seek legal help then we are not allowed to enter the house...

@@nooriroohi4027 ALLAH Apke zindagi me aasaniya paida kare meri bhn

@@Bushrajannatvlogs 🙏🙏 thank you for the blessings 🙏🙏.... Peaceful life is what I yearn for my son and me

@@nooriroohi4027 😘😘I wish you a very happy life ahead with no problems and sadness. Keep smiling and have a wonderful life

I appreciate that u r supporting u r brother Nd sis in law, most of d people just support their mother regardless of wat they do

This thing no one told me before marriage. I think they should atleast warn about it in school instead of sex education and condoms. Everything is just sex sex nothing about relationship issues.

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Same situation with me. What's the solution

Very well said

Yeah, I feel the same

There should be a bill passed for this. Vidaai should be banned and a couple should live separately and both should be equally financially independent

@@PoojaVaidya1111 I am glad someone said that 🙌🏻

Kya?

​@@PoojaVaidya1111 then who will raise the kids? Mother and father should stay together and raise their kids...it's very important for children

Totally true, and things just get out of hand when in laws manipulate their son and daughter in law and son is blind in his parents love and don’t believe his own life partner.

Yep. Parents are not suppose to interact with their children's married life. But advice is all OK to take but how true and whether it is to be done or not is all what you and your other half must look about it. Parents will advice you about family planning but it's the couple that must sit together talk, think and execute it.

Exactly

RS this is exactly my life right now! Sadly I don’t think my partner will ever notice see or believe me if I tell him. Anyway I am now just focusing on my self and he. Whatever in-laws do it must be somehow on their conscious.

Someone has put some sensible comment...🥺

Just ignore them all will go wrong for ur child who will b deprived of his dad at the end no harm done for inlaws trust me karma will follow them those who are demons for daughter in laws dont get angels for their daughters either.this is my life experience trust me have patience and wait things will get better.u r a good mother even if u leave ur job inlawa wont start appeiciating u just keep on doing things ur way

Dont get depressed ..dont give any reaction they feed on our reactions

@@maryamnazir512 maybe sister in law is good why u want bad husband for her to teach parents lesson Karma should get back those inlaws directly ...not by playing with their daughters lives In the end looks like daughters should suffer. Anywayz got ur point 👍

Deep down in their hearts your in-laws may be jealous of you. So don’t allow them to separate you and your husband in as much as he’s on your side.

@@auntienike7355 true

True

True

@@Replenishyourheart finally u agreeing to my view or trying to support nosy inlaws?

True

That's how all started

Very true unfortunately if it is always one sided discussion and compromise it’s difficult and painful

Yes, what you say is true, but, the in laws especially if they stay with you, interfer, make remarks, say insensitive things which get you angry. Not easy to handle nosy in laws, however much one is mature. Best way is to live separately from in laws, that is the dream I am dreaming for a looooong time.

@aaii kkll what are u talking about..this content is not to leave parents but to stand by ur partner when he / she is right..

@sareed bindu are u out of ur mind. ? See the whole content and then reply. My stand is only stand by truth inspite of anything.. if it's ur spouse or parents.. every human being need partner support if in-laws interfering. Keep away them from husband wife problems or else it may lead to further ruining.. this it.. wts wrong u feel in that content..And if u feel so don't watch it

@sareed bindu i always keep my parents away from my arguments with husband and same expect from him. That's it.. after all its mutual agreement

@sareed bindu good.. keep it up.. all the best for ur spouse

U r right not only for wife they won't even stand even when their parents talk about their children.

What your husband did ?

But this is india and here boy parents can interfare after marriage also but if u talk abt girl family so as per our society ,girl family Can't interfare after marriage because aab unhone beti ko vida kar diya so they can't ye aab unke ghar ka mamla hai ,sad but true

@@niveditaanand9149 not really. It depends on you and your parents. You are giving those people power to hurt to you when you can stand up to them. And i f your husband ain't siding with you then i am sure he doesn't love and respect you. And where there isn't love, there can be no relationship.

@@meghanarora4136 hold on madam I m not talking abut me n my family n not about my husband i m talking abut our society that in most of family me aisa hota hai so plz don't comment abt my husband n family got it

@@meghanarora4136 n one more thing how much my husband love me n respect me dat o don't need to prove u so think before u speak

@@niveditaanand9149 i was talking generally. It wasn't directed at you

Solution looks simple on screen. In real life Indian parent especially moms simply cant stay out of their sons life. Mom feels the daughter in law is snatching away her little boy from her. Jealousy.

Omg

Subarna Dasgupta I’m so sorry. I hope things get better for you. Do what’s best of you. Only you know your situation best. Good luck.

Then how will a loser get laid. This realisation often comes after eating the fruit. Before having it everything in mind screaming “get laid”. Nature wants you to have children badly and nothing you can do to protest.

One suggestion for you - Don't get married. People like you are the main cause of problem. If you don't know to balence between wife and your parents and make them happy never get married. It'll save a girl's life from manipulation.

@heena hasan I'm blessed with a baby girl she is 4months now ... I'm staying with my parents

Im a husband, but i feel bad for you. Why people want more more. Set boundaries from start and be clear. Dont burst out afterwards. Im in opposite situation where wife wants me to work more and do cleaning cooking. Im not used to it as well as her. If she is spoilt im also very spoilt but trying things to work out. I was very positive ans naive that things will sort out by themselves. They willl not. You set everything clear from start.

​@@meghanamrajesh My problem here is mom in law.. She is a born actor .. And always trigger me with her emotions.. In front of everyone she acts like caring.. She is very jealous of me. Her main motive is to manipulate her son and get benefits.. In the beginning I was also silent . Father in law is just puppet of his wife.. But now I'm ignoring all her taunts.. sometimes raise voice against whenever needed.... she insists her wish her priority her likes... she wants everyone to treat her like princess .. Now I'm setting boundaries.. I'm irritated with her acting drama.. manipulate skills.. putting me down.. my only problem is her .

Every girl go through dear

Husband is very controlling. They should both be allowed to do things without the other feeling like their husband or wife is their pare. Also, mom and dad don't need to know these things to manipulate the wife. These are two grown adults not 10 yr olds.

That's not true.. My in laws still interfere a lot in each n every thing

Tumhara husband zoru ka gulam ban gya.. kaise kiya yeh sab?

Sick personality spotted .....she thinks she won ....she don't know her husband's looses everything. ....do this women ..stop talking to her parents too ....

Yes I agree. Now a days both husband and wife are working ....parents take care of everything even thier child ....nobody understands the parents point of view ..sabko keval apni khusiyon k padi hoti h .