Yeah either that or shes the creepy one that just thought of a really weird excuse to ask people if they eat kitty cat or whatever the hell she said lol.
I know I read wayyyy too much into that. Kids NEED so much attention from their parents. A kid being told repeatedly throughout their childhood that their big ass is blocking the tv, so much so that it became their nickname, tells me that he might've been not receiving that attention and would often wedge himself in as an annoyance if needed. And holding onto that nickname into adulthood, even on a dating show, it seems like there's some emotional significance there. I wish more parents saw past the annoying shit their kids do and see the soul that wants to be acknowledged. I wish him all the best.
I just went back and rewatched Cody's first Button episode and I just have to say that the voice change is forever their worst mistake. I'd forgotten just HOW different they are, but the original button was just straight up robot and now the valley accent vocal fry on whoever voices it irritates me tenfold
I usually don’t really care about the what actually happens afterwards when people win the button. But I actually genuinely think these two could be a good match. There’s only so much you can gather from a few minutes of interaction, first meeting someone in front of a camera & crew. But I honestly wish them the best. Together & individually.
@@1tortillapls yo chill. I made the distinction of mentioning I was driving to contrast the initial commenters reaction of watching it. (Throwing something at the TV vs only being able to react verbally) I put it on to *listen* for entertainment, like a podcast. I don't really look at it unless it's at a stoplight, and honestly not even then.
I like how the second guy wasn’t even awkward about the oatmeal question. He went in with “Here’s an ACTUAL tip about guys who eat 🐱” without even hesitating
someone telling a bipolar person that their 'adhd mania' won't match with bipolar mania is wild. I've never even heard of hyperactivity in ADHD being called mania... they are not the same and personally sounds like an offensive excuse not to like someone with bipolar
Yeah as someone with type 2 bipolar this was really gross to me…her reaction was obviously not wanting to be around someone with it but then somehow co-opting the mania of it to excuse why she wasn’t into him?
Waiting for the cut apology video where they go over the sexual harassment charges laid against the button. I can feel it in my blood, any day now, any day
When he said, "I'll one up you," I don't know what I was expecting, but I sure as hell was not expecting that. But on a serious note, it seems like he went to therapy (or is in therapy), so he's able to process that (or at the very least, come to terms with the situation). Poor man :( He's hot af though lol
@@igotkiwi People whom have been betrayed, often separate themselves from those they were once close to with their language, he says "biological dad" so that he doesn't have to say "dad" anymore, because that probably hurts too much.
it's not just a dating show, it's a game show. you have to survive the button revealing your deepest secrets and embarassing you while continuing to impress your date
I feel like this is one of the only episodes where i can see them actually staying together. they both seem so mature and clearly can bond over the shit they have been through.
Aw, I feel bad for Moose, just when he opened up about having BPD… don’t worry dude, we all got something, if they can’t see that, they are missing out!
I understand it could look really bad to reject someone over something like a disorder but I also don’t blame the people that don’t want to deal with someone with a disorder like bipolar disorder or even borderline personality disorder, it can be really challenging at times (depending on the person as well) and some know that if they can’t handle it they just know to not interact with people that have those disorders or similar because it won’t be good to be around people they aren’t prepared to deal with. (I have borderline personality disorder myself btw just in case you think I don’t know what im talking about)
I think these two might be my favorite match so far. They're both so genuine with eachother and they both seemed like just really great people. I wish them all the best ❤
Mania isn’t a part of ADHD though. Either girlie has something else or meant hyperactivity. There is a big difference in hyperactivity and actual mania.
yea i was hoping someone else would say this. bc like we can sometimes have hypomanic episodes or comorbid disorders alongside our adhd that come with mania, but bipolar manic episodes are not the same as adhd hyperactive-impulsivity. all i can guess is maybe she was using "manic" as a descriptor and was trying to explain that they would not mesh due to her hyperactive impulsivity potentially not being a good influence if he were to have a manic episode. either way im glad i wasnt the only one confused by her use of clinical language
Pretty sure she meant the dictionary definition of mania...... which is overactivity which is a part of ADHD. The causes can be different but the results are similar
I like that the button is starting to send in people that match the person’s type a bit better after they’ve rejected a few people. It’s a better flow of things, a better chance for the person to actually possibly find someone they’re interested in, and saves the annoyance someone just rejecting everyone constantly because of the fact that the button is sending in people that don’t really match their preferences.
Those two deserve all the love esp after choosing not to be bitter after all that? Hopefully they can find trust in each other if they’re trusting each other enough to go on a second date but I enjoyed that one
That one hurt me to listen to because I just can't imagine something like that . As a person who's been lied and cheated before . Hearing that is like the ultimate nightmare and soul breaking thing
Cody: "What even is that?!?!" Kelsey: "It looks like chocolate, did you have chocolate?" Cody: "I did have chocolate." *Now this is a couple that eats oatmeal together*
This one was such a rollercoaster 😂 Hit every emotion, I thought I was shocked when the woman said her ex cheated with both of his best friends' wives, but when the guy said his wife slept with his friends AND HIS DAD?? I audibly gasped. My husband and I are hooked on watching these together!!
I’ve never rooted for a couple on this show more than the two at the end of this. Two people overcoming expectations, shallow misconceptions, societal trash, and trauma in order to establish a greater connection.
Cody's way of expressing what his hypothetical reaction to finding out his wife has had intercourse with his biological father, by just saying he would be "grumpy" got me 💀
The fact that that dude can laugh off getting cheated on by his best friends and dad like wtf he’s so calm like what did he do😭 he def won that one, lmao same Cody I had to pause to laugh
I like seeing older people on the button because i hope i can date some people like this when I'm older. Meghan seemed really nice and she beautiful. And Mike seems like a dope guy. Hope the divorcees find the love they deserve.
I relate to Bri cause I also wouldn’t want to date someone with the same mental issues as me. It’s hard enough dealing with your own mood swings and mental breakdowns, let alone someone else’s.
They where a cute couple and he seems like a genuinely nice guy but when he said he ran away from a woman he was in a relationship with because of his past relationship with his ex-wife (although entirely understandable seeing what she did to him) is a gigantic red flag to me, I don't think he is ready to date again understandable but I hope he can put his past behind him in order to find love coz he genuinely seems like a great guy and not bad looking either
based on cody's commentary alone, this was the funniest episode of the button ever. i was literally in tears earlier bc I'm hormonal as my period started and i opened youtube, clicked on this and absolutely could not stop laughing, thank you cody haha.
18:47 "Yeah you have some Schmutz on your lip"? Is this really a usual saying for you guys? Schmutz is literally German for dirt/mud/trash. Sounded really funny, heard it the first time.
The 40 year old woman does not look 40, she looks so much younger. Actually all of these people look really attractive, although that's not to say 40+ can't be attractive and look their age. This is the episode for me, a 33 year old who's already been stupidly married and divorced by 25 lmfao 😂 All of these people were polite and nice I would date like half of them lol
Wow I have never rooted so hard for a button couple, I was going to be heartbroken if one of them pressed it! I hope these two stick together. Good for them.
10:00 Just to be clear, mania or even just hypomania is not a symptom of ADHD. Mania is a symptom that is caused by affective, or mood, disorders, namely type 1 bipolar disorder, previously known as manic-depressive disorder. ADHD is a behavior disorder, basically meaning your behavior is not typical and causes you problems. Examples of behavioral symptoms in ADHD include hyperactivity, fidgeting, impulsivity, irritability, risk taking behaviors, lack of restraint. There can be cognitive symptoms also, like difficulty focusing, forgetfulness, and a short attention span. It's possible to have comorbid psychiatric disorders, such as having bipolar disorder and ADHD, an anxiety disorder and schizophrenia, major depressive disorder and generalized anxiety disorder, or any other combination. While it's certainly possible that she or anyone else can suffer from at least both bipolar disorder and ADHD - which is not common - it's more likely that she claimed to experience mania because she wanted to gain sympathy for rejecting him by trying to relate to him, while also probably being ignorant to what mania is and how ADHD presents itself, the latter of which makes me question if she has been diagnosed with ADHD or just adopted the label. Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
perfection. not even because just the content itself is funny (which absolutely is, hold on) but because the editing is impeccable and added everything the vid could have possibly needed
