Craziest People That OBJECTED At Weddings - REACTION 

My mother told my sister she was planning to object at my wedding. She gave me a heads up and we removed the objection option from the ceremony. Best decision for us and we have been married 21 years! Edited to add: thanks so much for all the comments, my husband and I read them together. We also watch Charlotte together ❤️ To answer some questions: My husband and I were high-school sweethearts and were young when we met, he was 15 and I was 14. We fell head over heals in love from the start and were together for 4 years when we married. We have been together for 26 years and every day is bliss. As far as my mother goes, I absolutely knew she would follow through with her threat, she never liked my husband. She was divorcing my dad and had blown her life up with an affair and when I found the love of my life, she objected to my happiness... when my amazing sister told me what she was up to, we had the option removed for her to make it about her. It was a lovely small ceremony of about 20 people, we were just kids after all. I've been no contact with her for a few years now, it's so peaceful.

I read one where the brides dad died before she got married but he was also an organ donor. So she had the man who received her dad’s heart to walk her down the isle.

I remember one time a cousin was at a roommate’s wedding. When asked “any objections”, someone did object. It was the roommate’s niece, who was like, 1 year old. She toddled up to the groom, hugged his legs, turned to the bride, hugged her legs, toddled back to her chair, and sat down. Awkward silence… then laughter. Til this day, the joke goes that the niece objected, then gave her blessing. Still Fuckin’ funny to me, lol.

The last wedding I officiated, I asked, "Is there anyone here who objects to this marriage? If so, sit down and shut up. We're doing this."

I wish the bride with the objecting mother-in-law had said: "I love him for all of his flaws, including his worst flaw which is you, Judy."

My MIL couldn't even wait until the "objection" part. As I was standing at the back of the church, ready to walk down the aisle, she walked up to her son and LOUDLY asked him "Are you SURE you want to do this? It's not too late to change your mind". After 21 yrs of marriage, her and I STILL don't speak.

You NEVER announce your own shit at someone else's wedding. The spotlight should stay on the married couple. No proposals, engagements, pregnancy announcements and coming out speeches.

The last story legitimately made me cry, Charlotte. And, I'm not the type of person to cry without strong emotions behind the tears, so that's saying a lot!

I was pregnant at my wedding. Just before my husband walked up to the altar, my dad pulled him aside, saying, "you know you don't have to marry her. You can walk away and we'll raise the baby ourselves." "Paul, go sit down." I love my hubby :)

The first one where the officiant said "legal reasons why they can't marry" and them being married already is a very valid objection

Charlotte: "Alright, we're gonna end this on a lighter note." Proceeds to end this on one of the saddest and heavily emotional stories she's ever had on her channel.

Low-key high-key absolutely love the "fight" between the groom and his friend. Highly entertaining and definitely a memorable wedding 🤣🤣

The bride's sister in the last video is an angel . She made everyone (including Charlotte ) cry tears of joy . Also , even though we may have watched some of the videos before , we are here for Charlotte's take on it .

the bride saying ''everyone has flaws and that's why I love him'' was super sweet though.

"Everyone has flaws" "You can't tell me you don't have flaws" Judy, that's what she JUST SAID, she has flaws, your son has flaws, but most of all JUDY HAS FLAWS!

I love the idea of hiring someone to "object" to the wedding, only for a duel to break out between the two. But I'm also a huge nerd and want my wedding to just be super fun and goofy for everyone

My first husband's ex was going to object to our wedding by saying two of my kids weren't his. I think he knew they weren't his already as he met me when they were 2 and 4.

For the story where the cousin interrupted the wedding to come out of the closet, there was actually a clarification/update. The cousin was already out of the closet to his friends and family, who were also wedding guests. Unsurprisingly, most of the people at the wedding already knew and the few that didn’t also had no idea who the cousin was and didn’t care. So yeah, totally stealing the spotlight for no real reason.

Classic Charlotte. “We’re going to end this on a lighter note.” *Kicks us all in the feels

The maid of honour waited until the actual wedding to confess that the groom had been cheating with her for MONTHS - but then said she didn't want to hurt the bride?? She'd had months to tell the bride privately but chose to make a public announcement. That last one was simply beautiful

I read something about two lawyers getting married, and the "speak now or hold your peace" they had their other lawyer friends yell out "OBJECTION!". it was pretty funny

Staying together for the children is the wrong thing to do. From my experience, there is nothing worse than watching your parents destroy each other. I feel like the kids notice it no matter how hard you try.

Bride: everyone has flaws that's why I love him. Husband's mom; yeah like you don't have flaws. She... she just said...

Best reaction I ever watched to an objection (and weirdly, been to ~3~ weddings where that happened) was the bride's ex showed up, drunk, and actually bull rushed the groom yelling he was getting her back and would kill the groom publicly to prove it. Without a word, 2 of the groomsmen stepped in front of both the bride and groom, grabbed him, picked him up by his pants and collar and simply ~carried~ him out screaming. They might have 'accidentally' knocked him headfirst into half the pews on the way down the aisle (ALL of the groomsmen were military and the two who grabbed him were MP's and HUGE bruisers. We're talking 6'5 and 6'6 and built like tanks.) Best part of the whole thing was when they stopped at the parent's aisles and politely asked both ~mom's~ if they had any suggestions. Both mothers stood up, smoothed their dresses, smiled thru clenched teeth, looked at each other, told everyone 'just a moment, we'll be right back' and walked out with the screaming idiot and his carriers. 'Technically' I'm not sure what happened, but I do know they both came back in less than 5, there had been a fair bit of yelling from the backroom, some rather impressive thunking sounds and I took the groom's mom quietly to a walk-in urgent care AFTER the ceremony because her hand had started to swell and was discovered to have cracked 2 bones in her hand. Ceremony went on, granted with a bit of nervous twitchery on everyone's part. Bride ended up sending both mom's massive flower arrangements from the honeymoon, the groom sent the mom's rather spiffy pairs of boxing gloves and both mom's got coupons for classes at the local boxing ring from the groomsmen...

Charlotte, thanks again for making the last couple years more bearable, and providing laughs throughout the insanity. Long live the queen of potatoes!!

I had a coworker who's son had a heart transplant when he was 17. They were able to get in contact with the donors family and eventually they got meet the donors' mom, dad and sister. It's been well over 15 years since the transplant and they still go visit the donors family every year. The donors family had also given the recipient some of the donors ashes, so whenever the recipients family goes on vacation, they take along the donors ashes and sprinkle some during their trips. The donor and recipient were actually very similar in regards to hobbies, sports, cars, etc and were only 5 years apart in age (recipient 17 & donor 22). Eventually something so special & amazing happened between the 2 families when the recipient and the donors sister started dating, they are now married with 2 children. 💜❤️ There's a RU-vid video about their story ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-evzw1QzzGg8.html

I respect that second bride so frickin much! Solid tone, no yelling. "You're not gonna ruin my wedding." We all have that choice to let others get to us, or just go out there and live our best lives

There is something SO wrong with Judy of she’s mad that his wife said he had flaws. Are you under the impression your son is flawless, Judy? Cuz he already sucks for not standing up to you.

We do not share the opinion on what constitutes as “light-hearted” but that last story had me in tears too. So beautiful.

I was ready to be mad at the obviously fake wedding fight, but then again it certainly be the most entertaining wedding I'd ever been to

Okay, I had to look up some stuff about marriage in medieval times for a book I'm writing. Groomsmen were actually men who were there to protect the bride from her own family, and the best man was literally the best swordsman. The bridal party was there to confuse malicious spirits, and the objections were there for the standard reasonings of " they're not virgins, they're cheating, one of them isn't Catholic," all the stuff medieval people worried about. Soo... Yeah!

We apparently almost had a big announcement at our wedding. One SIL was sulky all day and left the reception early without saying goodbye to us. MIL then told us SIL was pregnant and we should thank her for keeping it quiet so we could have the focus on us. From what another SIL said awhile ago, preggo SIL had been thinking our wedding shower or wedding would be the best time to share, but she was told not to by her parents. She was approx. 2 months along at the time and never did any kind of announcement about the pregnancy later, so I guess it wasn't worth announcing if it didn't steal the spotlight from someone else??

Never had any crazy wedding stories. For my wedding we chose to have an Alice in Wonderland theme. My husband had a cane, top hat, and of course tails for his tux. My wedding dress was strapless so my Grandma crocheted beautiful straps for it. And I also had an evening dress (the total cost of both dresses including alterations was less than $450). All of the bridal party got individual one cup tea pot/cup, that I painted to make it look like they had cracks and chips (similar to the Mad Hatter's tea parties). We also had imagines from both Disney versions along all the walls. And for party favours my Mum and I made a couple of different homemade jams that we decorated in a couple of layers of mesh and cute little stickers. My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years now. Then a couple of years ago my sister got married and they had a Ninja Turtle theme. Each set for the bridal party was a different Ninja Turtle colour. And they had the Ninja Turtle weapons made for a photo shoot. They also did pizza for their dinner.

Fun fact: In Italy (and other Catholic countries) banns or “publications” of marriage were posted on the town hall’s doors three times leading up to the wedding to inform the public and allow for objections. The marriage records mention if any lawful impediment was found (like degree of blood separation, which would require a bishop’s dispensation) or if there was an objection. I once found an objection written up to an 1860s-ish wedding where the mother of the groom went on about how the bride wasn’t good enough for her son because she was poor and on and on. Super pride and prejudice. It was about five pages handwritten objection. So dig into your Italian ancestry and see if you’ve got any objections. 😁

A friend's wedding was a Shakespearean affair. Appropriate because they, and many of us attending, were actors. That moment of the wedding, "...or forever hold your peace." was broken by the bride who began a debate, in Iambic pentameter, as to why she should consent to the marriage. The groom's argument prevailed and the ceremony was rejoined.

That story about the sons ❤️ My partner donated organs and just being told who they had gone to and that they had been successful was great to hear, that out of a tragedy other people had received a chance to live more fully was comforting.

My sister's sister in law chose to take her pregnancy test at my sister's wedding and announce that she was pregnant. Sister in law said she was disappointed at people's reaction and expected people to be more excited. And it might have been kinda petty of me and my sister to be happy when later on she had her gender reveal and it was a boy. She wanted a girl so bad since she already had a boy and the disappointed look on her face was everything when she found out she was having a boy.

I'm sitting here bawling like a 62 year old infant at that last story....Even the Judge presiding over the ceremony couldn't keep his heart from pouring out! This has to be probably the single most grandest gesture of love for your family that I've ever seen! That sister is true blue! ❤️🥰!!!; Thanks,Charlotte,..I REALLY needed a joyous bit of heart today!God bless you and that entire wonderful family!

My mother-in-law’s name is Judy 😂 We purposely left out the objection part in our wedding because we thought she might actually object. She was actively trying to set him up with other girls while we were engaged!

A couple of my friends had a pirate wedding. The invitation said everyone was invited to a duel to the death between the bride and groom with cake to be served after. They then negotiated terms as their vows and served pie because the cake was a lie

Oh damn! That last clip was such a sweet tearjerker! How special was it for those parents to be able to listen to their son's heart beating on their wedding day. They are wonderful and selfless for making the decision to donate his organs so others could have a better life. Cudos to the young man who got the heart, and the sister for putting it together. So sweet.

I know this video is old, but it came across my feed as something to watch. We didn’t have any objections at our wedding, but my husband surprised me with having Jack Sparrow show up at our reception! Ok, so it was a friend of ours that used to dress up as him as a side gig (and he always looked and sounded spot on) 😂 My husband knew how much of a fan I am of the movies, so he had him come to let me know “Alas love, it was never going to work out. But at least we’ll always have the rum! Now where’s the rum?”, and take pictures with us and our guests. Best wedding present ever! Thank you Charlotte for these fun videos ❤ Always makes my day

Went to a wedding a few months ago... when the officiant asked that question their four month old baby decided it was the perfect time to cry 😂

Charlotte: let's end on a lighter note. Also Charlotte: picks the most emotional, sob 😭 worthy 😭 story of all time. Thanks for my now empty box or tissues, Charlotte 🤧

Surprised we didn't see a clip of the "epic wedding ceremony battle" video from like 10 years ago. The Groom and groomsmen were literally wearing armour over parts of their suits... At the 'objection' phrase everyone from a knight to superheroes and ninjas show up for short battle scenes. It was really well done and a touch of entertainment for the family.

6:54 LMAO DID THE MAN JUST SHOUT "FOR THE HONOUR OF GRAYSKULL?" MY FUCKING HERO

I totally would approve of a full comedic pre-show at my wedding.

That last story. I absolutely lost it ❤️ how incredibly beautiful!! I can't imagine going through something like that as a parent. The fact that the sister was able to essentially bring that little family back together one more time gives me a little more faith in humanity!

Dude, I was at a wedding where the bride herself objected several times. It was the most miserable wedding I have ever seen - and I'm a wedding photographer. On this particular day, I was also a friend/best woman and bride's driver and she asked me to act as a sort of a Rottweiler, because she was an orphan and the groom's family was overwhelming her on every step. No, it was not an arranged marriage, she was an independent, educated adult with a good job. Right out of the gate the groom's mother prepared a feast just because the bridge asked for no feasts and we had to sit in the car in the rain - her and I - while people ate and got drunk. Then there was a civil ceremony, where she got upset the man was named first and we had to run out and sit in the car in the rain until she calmed down. Then there was the religious ceremony where the priest kept talking about children and she ran out and we had to sit in the car in the rain until she calmed down. The dinner bit was okay, laughing and dancing, but something happened on the way back to the house, because she called me just as I was leaving town, that she's locked herself into the bathroom, talking to the priest on the phone and wants the marriage annulled. I drove back and the groom was really just completely despondent at this point, you could see he missed his mother, but he wasn't necessarily a bad guy. They had a nice house and for a few years, I think, a nice marriage, couple of kids, dogs, they bred kestrels - they were both vets. I cut ties, though she did call me a few years later to let me know she's divorced because he abused her and as the best woman, I should know. I had to admit I honestly don't give a flying fuck anymore.

While getting my “Dobre a day” I did not expect to laugh and cry. That was beautiful thank you.

Hahah, the story at 12:09 was epic. The fact that they stayed to watch from the church windows xD

"They're both married" could also mean the couple eloped and legally got married before the wedding with the planning, guests, family drama, etc. People can be a little butthurt about stressed out couples doing that but some people don't always understand that marriage isn't just a party, it is supposed to be about the couple getting married.

They've stopped doing this in Canada because if somebody does object the wedding has to stop and there is a formal process of investigation.

I'm Jewish, and I raised my daughter Jewish. She married a really sweet guy who is Christian. She got married in a church, with all of the groom's Christian family. When it came time for objections, EVERYONE stared at me, even though I've been nothing but supportive. Awkward!

I work for an organization that does all the organ donations in my state. We LIVE for stories like that last one. Reminds us of how important and beautiful our work and dedication is.

I also remember a wedding I went to where when the pastor asked for objections, one fellow stood up and said “this is bullshit” and pulled out a gun. On the other side a fellow pulled out a gun and declared “you need to shut up”. Everyone got excited but calmer heads prevailed and the wedding went on. Reception went well. Next day at the gift opening, multiple fights went on and the police were called with multiple arrests. This wasn’t in Black Oak Arkansas or Dog Walk Kentucky….This was Altadena California. But that was only a dumpster fire…lol

I’ve listened to this video three times and still tear up at the end with the couple getting to meet the man who got their sons heart on their wedding day. Gosh even the officiant teared up and I don’t blame him!

When my husband and I were talking to the pastor about our ceremony, we asked him not to say anything about objections because we feared my husband's brother would say object as a joke.

0:20 im dying at how quickly the photographer turned 😭

My sister was in a hotel with her future parents in law the day of the wedding. When suddenly her future mother in law bursted out screaming for everybody to hear: “You will not steal my son, not you, you will never get my boy”. My sister was shocked and in tears. Her future husband was shocked and speechless and didn’t know what to do. While her future father in law took her into his arms and apologized for his wife’s behavior. The ceremony took place nevertheless and all was good. It turned her mother in law hadn’t taken her diabetes medication and somehow started to be funny and somehow delusional when that happened. She apologized to my sister and told her how embarrassing this was for her and that she really didn’t feel what she said. Today my sister (35 years later) is still married, has four children and two grandchildren. When her mother in law passed she inherited all the jewelry of her mother in law. Then stating in her last will, that how much she loved my sister as if she was her own daughter and that my sister was the best ever happening to her son.

Think the grooms biggest flaw was him not doing anything when his mother became Karen er i mean when Judy spoke up... can see whose going to be the boss in their relationship 😂

That last one kicked me in the feels. Knowing the loss of your child can possibly help someone else is bitter sweet. What a lovely gift for this couple to have & share on their wedding day.

5:50 That was 100% planned and I am loving it for them

When my biological grandfather was getting remarried, none of his family knew that he was still married to my grandma until she found out about the wedding plans. She told his dad and he waited until the "speak now" portion and ruined the whole day for them lmao

I'm a grown-ass man, and that last video made me tear up something fierce. Organ Donors are the freaking best people. Nothing but love to that family and Travis.

I just learned that that in the UK, the "does anyone object" part is required by law! I think a lot of US weddings are starting to omit this part.

Just found your channel. I am off work recovering from a surgery and literally can do nothing but watch YT. I am old enough to be your mother and just can't help but think what a bright and sweet girl you are and your mother must be proud of you. Thanks again for great entertainment!

i've officiated dozens of weddings and not one couple even wanted the objection question to be included in their ceremony. from what i've read it's rarely done anymore.

I remember when the story about Colton’s heart was on my local news. Still hits me in all the feels!

Why you gotta do us like that Charlotte? Had us all laughing our asses off, and then BAM! Ninja kick right to the feels. Thanks a lot!

I was actually at a wedding where the Groom's ex stood up and claimed they were not divorced..... Needless to say , it put a damper on the wedding - but Father of the bride saved the day by saying (as everyone was looking to leave the church) " I've got all the food and booze ready over at the reception hall" - & the party rolled on anyway.....

That last wedding was amazing! Bless them all. I’m not crying YoU are.

I was so excited earlier today to inform my mum that I've booked my wedding for June this year, it will be our ten year anniversary and I can't wait... My mother totally changed the subject of conversation as if refusing to acknowledge it will magically make it disappear. I'm not sure if I should waist paper sending her an invite. If she blows up on the day like a dormant volcano I'll send you the video, it should be good for a laugh once I've stopped crying!! 😂🤣😭😭❤️

I would like my officiant to say, "If anyone objects to this union, you may leave now." I don't want anybody at OUR wedding that doesn't support US!

Charlotte's reaction at the ending was absolutely everything 🥺 she had me crying

When my ex wife married her long time partner and was asked at the ceremony if there was any reason why she should not marry, her first answer was "How long have you got". I hasten to add, she was friends with the minister and she did say it very quietly, before saying yes. She could never resist having a joke.

That heart recipient coming to the Wedding, made it the best Wedding ever.

at 5:28 THE GROOM IS MY OLD WRESTLING COACH THERE IS NOOOO FUCKING WAY!! I JUST PEED OF LAUGHTER !!😭😭😭😭😭😭

"Why is that even there" It was like the first video. It was intended for people to make a LEGAL objection to the wedding i.e. one/ both parties were married, too oddly related.

You made me laugh at the first one and cry at the end. Don't do that to me, Charlotte 😅

When Charlotte teared up at the couple that got to listen to their sons heart... SHE AND I STARTED FANNING OUR TEARS AT THE SAME TIME HAHAHAHA! That was MOVING! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH~ So nice to have a few wholesome bits in with the DRAAAAMAAA

When I got married the Priestess asked me if I wanted a segment where guests could object, or if I wanted my father to “give me away.” Everyone deserves to work with someone who doesn’t force outdated traditions on you.

I'm tearing up along with Charlotte, like aww that's so sweet and thoughtful, as someone who is a heart patient myself I am eternally grateful and this story just melts me, congrats on the wedding and rest in peace Colton :)

I think the objection thing was more important back in the day, in case someone knew if one member of the couple was secretly married or were unknowingly half-siblings or something. It's harder to hide that stuff now, with paper trails existing for pretty much everything.

For anyone wondering, it's normally up to the Pastor and their "style" of ceremony they hold when it comes to "does anyone object?". My husband and I didn't have that part in our wedding. We decided to get married in Vegas and instead of spending $20k on a huge wedding, we spent a small percentage of that on our whole trip that was a blast. We even had a handful of friends with us and paid for them too. No Bride-zilla here. Maybe a drunk one but it's Vegas!

When I was getting married years ago, my son was having fun taking pictures of everything. My ex showed up uninvited, cried the whole time, made my son cry, tried to stop the wedding saying we were still married. I had never married him. It was all in his head.

The last video is the best objection I’ve ever seen/heard. What an amazing sister the bride has to arrange this meeting. So beautiful. That will be a moment they will cherish and remember forever.

One lady said that she kept her daughter a virgin and was bragging about it. I told my GF later that IF she was a virgin, she kept HERSELF a virgin. My GF laughed, saying "Yeah". Lady was WEIRD.

I'm a 63 year old metal head, but I teared up on that last one..no shame, proves we are human after all. Great job.

We had the objection option removed as well, as I know some parts of my family would think it’s funny to do so. Happy with my decision

Oh my. That last clip has me in tears. I cannot begin to fathom (nor do I want to) the loss of one of my children.

That last video was sooooo heart-felt. I'm a mom and I couldn't imagine losing one of my children. Of course I cried.For that moment in time they were still able to experience a living part of their son in one of the most priceless ways ever💓.Omg that was so thoughtful of the sister and just one of the most touching moments I've ever seen💕.

I like the groom awkwardly laughing at his mom objecting to his flaws. He’s probably had an entire life of this…

That last one was a moving and wholesome story. Kudos for the bride’s sister that made this happen.

I think this custom used to make sense at a time when it was more difficult to investigate any impediments (e.g. already married, incestuous relationships) but now you have to get a marriage license and the government office would have records to immediately alert them of these issues, so it's not really necessary anymore.

That last video got me. My son was born with 2 different heart conditions that caused him to have 9 open heart surgeries and had to have a heart transplant. On August 13,2021 my son got his new heart. I never knew the emotions that came with having a child with someone else’s heart.

My best wedding story (which is pretty tame after what I've read in the comments) was when the parents of the bride hijacked their daughter's wedding reception to celebrate their own wedding anniversary. The MOTB actually said, "Now that that's all over, let's have a real celebration."

That last one had me balling 😭 and it had the judge in tears, too. That was such a sweet moment, but as a mom, it hit hard. Bless that man for coming and sharing their sons heart beat one last time.

omg, that last one was such a good end to the video, on a bittersweet note.... I was bawling 😭 I can't imagine losing a child, but their kindness of donating when they didn't have to, saved that man's life..and for that man to show up at their wedding as a 'thank you' and allow them to hear their son's heart beating and living on was SO beautiful and so kind of him and the sister to do.

If I were the bride I would've walked away from that wedding SO FAST. There's no winning in a situation like that- unless he grows a pair, that relationship is DOOMED!👏😂