CUT HER OFF If She Does These Things During The Dating Stage! (VET HER OUT) 

Sweetheart, this is one of the best videos that you've posted. Thank you you've said a lot of very important points.

Unfortunately , you've described the behavior of more than 80 % of women nowadays.

Stay away from broken women, that is great advice. That has been my problem in the past

Very true when it comes to "women needing you emotionally". When someone wants to dump their shit on you continually - its extremely bad sign. It means she will drain you, and act as a victim all the time, because she cant handle anything. Don't waste time on emotionally immature women, it's not worth it.

If you have been all nice ,communicative and not toxic at all and she does this definitely cut her off

Most of this is common sense. The things that now save me a ton of time, which was not common sense for me in the past but is now, is having a consistent personality and putting you down. One of main things I say in all my dating profiles is you MUST have a consistent personality, say what you mean, mean what you say, and always follow through on your commitments.

Great video. A lot of things to be aware of during the talking stage. Some of these things occur in the relationship stage as well.

The financial and emotional dependency is my ex, exactly like you said she was toxic, and her energy bought me down. It took some time to break that "curse" it's difficult because we have a child together and I know she tries to use that because of my dedication to my children

This is one of your best video's. The video really spoke to me and what I've been thinking about & have been through. This came right on time. Thank you

This is a great video Apollonia! Thanks for sharing, I spotted a few of these traits in women I was texting with recently and it's a relief to know that they are gone.

This is great advice for any sex but I'm glad to hear someone giving it to me in a compassionate, kinda objective way lol. I think it's so important and refreshing to find men that respect their own boundaries, not every woman wants what you want, don't pretend because you keep us and yourselves from finding the right partner. It's ok to walk away. There's no lack. On the way to becoming your best self or as your best self, you'll find you're a magnet for the right women. We have options and you do too. Choose what's best for you. We will too.

This helped me out remarkably this morning with a woman I've been talking to. I don't want to waste any of our time and this has confirmed what I needed to do. Thanks Apollonia

Hello Apollonia. You're like the sister I've always needed to talk sense into me when it comes to women.

Really interesting perspectives on situations that many people will recognise to some extent! Great work Apollonia!

thank you dear lady for giving such clear instructions; too many men are being tricked and abused by women into toxic relationships; the vetting process is absolutely essential to ensure men do not get stuck with false rape charges or divorce court proceedings;

You couldn't have said it better. These are great points.

Excellent points,you can going into to detail on each of these points and make 10 videos,it would help greatly...you are amazing

Your videos have helped me so very much! Thank you!

Thank you so much for all you do!

These points are incredibly on-target. Tough medicine to take, but needed.

Apollonia!! Your back!! Where have you been all my life? Thought about you a few times, but couldn't find you until now.

Gr8 job 👍🙏💐 Thank You 😊

Apollonia in this video shatters the myth of saving the best for last. Why do I say that? Because she comes out swinging with INCONSISTENCY being the FIRST thing she discusses here! It ultimately is not only the most important, but also the easiest to spot, or at least to look for. A woman who makes no effort is a woman worth no effort. Thanks Apollonia, for all you do.

Sorry I had to cut it off at number seven, was starting to get flashbacks of her. Still can't believe one person fits all your bad traits, can't believe I tolerated it for so long just because she was so fine and felt so good😢

Great advice ❤keep posting

Great , Great information ❤.

ONE OF YOUR BEST, MOST EDUCATIONAL VIDEOS!!!!!;

on point! Thanks Apollonia

Very good video and tips every man should know to avoid a "bullet" to the heart and wallet and his sanity! Thank You! Peace!

Thank you I’m traveling to Texas on my first date coming from Minnesota so definitely I’m utilizing these tips. Thank you

Thank you. Good advice.

I thank God for you for enlightening this relevant truth about these kind of women that I most surely want to avoid.

Thanks coach I definitely need some great advice I’m going back out there

Always watching you Apollonia greetings from Zambia

I say this in my head all the time and I’m glad you say it cause it validates what I’ve been thinking

Beautiful video with powerful words thank you young lady🥰❤😇😊😏🙏

I ❤ Apollonia Ponti's channel. 🙏🙏

I usually don't leave comments but this was very helpful

Sometimes we get stuck in these situations, where we start looking to other people for our self esteem. And sometimes we find ourselves looking in broken mirrors to get a reflection of ourselves.

You're so on point coachee. ❤️ ❤️ 🇳🇬

I love your videos! 👍 I have learned so much. I follow you on tic tok also💙

Happy Thursday, AP! Wishing you a wonderful day ❤

Wonderful video, tx

Great video

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Hey Queen Apollonia

The part about night in shining armour your one choosing them hit a cord there apollonia made me realise i wasted lot time excusing bad behaviour causedl wanted to be loved, but that past thank u for helping to save me x

Neatly explained for all confused men on women behaviour

It's like your giving a story of my current relationship 😢

This was perfect Timing it’s like this girl has issues in her life family Drama an I wanted to save her I can’t save her from it I felt kinda helpless or powerless but she was giving the Damn Mixed Signals But like she said if someone wants you too they will make time for you an they Won’t tell you one thing an do the opposite 🤔😔

To the streets she shall return

Beautiful ❤

I most certainly could not agree with you more Appolonia....It's difficult enough for men to have to face the "arena " every day and have to resort to "call and answer " from someone who has absolutely no definition of the topics related with the subject as well as having understanding to self esteem..

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her..

Iam always waiting for your vedios..and ..your vedios are amazing

I stumbled upon this. As a woman who dates women, it was really interesting.

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All this is true lol. Choose your person wisely.

I can laugh at myself, I can laugh at subject matter, as long as I go back to reflect on it. Or I could take it truly honestly, and cry 😒

Once I had things I wanted to do for me , start my band up again , work out , I went to see her and drove an hour there to spend the weekend with her it ended up being almost zero us time and it wasn't the first time this happened , then she started trying to belittle me and be disrespectful , cold and because I was tired of being the initiator in affection I pulled back and ended up asking myself as I was laying in bed with her on the other side ,why am I even here ?? So I was supposed to go with her in the morning to here doc appointment but told her I was going home and I knew It was going to be the last kiss and hug with zero passion I was going to give ....I'm 100% sure she was sensing a bad vibe from me for wasting my time ... so she called me the next day and for the 3rd time wanted to take a break from the relationship and just be friends...she actually beat me to the punch but I was going to say its not going to work and lets go our separate ways so I respond simply "Okay" but no thanks on the friends and that I wasn't interested , told her there's to many options for a real and solid relationship and for her to take care , I know it sounds mean but she in my mind deserved some crap for being rude and acting disrespectful for the last couple weeks we were together , not heart broken but embarrassing to have spent a month or more of weekends driving 2 hours round trip to find out she was this way and now me for choosing her , I need to continue to have an increase in self worth and attract ' look for someone who as you say AP brings somthing to the table and shows up !! YOU AP are why I had the sense to walk away...TYVM!!❤💯

I really wish I saw this sooner. But, I’m really here because a lot of these things happened. You live and you learn. Take notes gentlemen. It might save you some time, and a little bit of your sanity.

Well done!

Don't make people show you who they are more than 2 times. It's a pattern. It should be two equals. Self entitled probably self centered. Pronoun density- I, me, mine instead of we or ours. Written by a psychologist ,yes dansel in distress, victim mentality is a red flag. Vulnerable narcissist is a chronic victim. A person who can make their own decisions in reality using critical thinking. Any chronic fantasy based behavior or wants should be avoided. Yes being dismissed, dismiss her or it will occur for life. Like dismissive avoidant attachment style who refuses to work on their issues. Boundaries Addictions go hand and hand w severe personality disorders. Wish I heard this on the 1980s.

Wow, Apollonia. A lot describes one I know. Except she is on the end of power being in a managerial position, but I really see heavy manipulative subtle stuff. Without going into detail, this inspires me to disappear even more, since by error on my part of not guarding my heart and falling. Great vid, for me at this stage of things.

Udagreatest. Thank you

Financially independent women tend to become masculine in today's society. So, you need to keep your eyes open for that type of behavior.

Yeah I think I give up it seems like it's the same every time I'd rather be single

Beautiful

I feel like these women don't care about your standards and boundaries. As soon as you uphold them they're out. Some of them are just immature and do double standards

My neighbor was like this. Amazing hugs beautiful smiles.....BUT when she knocked on my door which was frequently even late at night you know she conviently ran out of something. This lasted 3 weeks untill I gave her a list of everything 'borrowed'. Asked when she was going to return the stuff. I was her supermarket and she has not spoke to me since

As soon as I have to start thinking "why am I doing all the work" or if she takes a week to reach out there will be zero response or further action out of me. Next please.

Thank you, the 10 secrets you're allowed to keep video was nowhere to be found/there was another video in it's place ( in the end )

I’ve been guilty of making excuses for a woman . Not not next.

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I do what I do. And this burns you stalkers up.

Is there a video you've made on where to meet high value women?

"so one of the things I would strongly suggest for you to do is basically tell her how much you do like when a woman does initiate, she reaches you to you, she plans things from time-to-time maybe you'll pay for the dates, obviously, if that's your go-to..." Wait, what?! My bros, don't be paying for the dates (especially as a go-to) for women just because they planned the date for you, for a change, especially if you had to ask for them to do so! You can maybe pay for the FIRST date, if you're a traditional type, or maybe OCCASIONALLY as a treat or surprise. As soon as you present it as 'please plan the dates, I'll pay for it if you do!' you're in major simp territory! Men 'who come from a place of abundance' don't go down to that level. C'mon, Apollonia! That advise was so contrary to what you normally give!

Do you have a book i can read

Equal partnership right? I agree

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I’ve been dating this woman for over 2 months things have been really good and we always have a great time. She texts /initiates contact first 70% of the time but does not plan dates because she’s not in a position to pay for dates so she would rather I lead. Do I need to address this? I don’t mind paying even if she asks although she would feel bad asking and having me pay for her ideas. By the way you are amazing!!

Where can I find a quality woman .? I have no addictions /behavior problems .. its hard to find a good woman that is kind and shares my values . 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

I totally agree with finding an independent woman financially. Especially with recession looming or already here.

Where can we find these women?!...I hate dating these days.I feel like we are being used as men!!!

Wonderful.

I need to walk……..ugh……….again

Stop right there . I'm a sigma male and I'm secure with my self and my life . I'm not concerned with being an Alfa or concerned about any of their traits . Thank you . Have a nice day .

honestly AP, what is the skin care secret lol

6:49 NO. Do NOT repeat do NOT choose a woman who is independent (ie - money). Women who are independent lose their humility and therefore their respect for men. Think feminism. Women who are dependent financially on men treat men infinitely better. There are plenty of women who are not independent financially that are high quality women who are HUMBLE. Be smart choose them instead.

I bet if a man felt this way, That he had to watch a video like this and show this to his girlfriend that the girl would get pissed off

It seem's that everytime i meet up with my girl, it has to be planned. I't makes it seem she's seeing someone on the side / ex or coworker. I can't control what she doe's. Just don't want to know about it.

Dump them fast !!!!!!

Rule number one. Men never pay for a first date. Women got the right to vote. With equal rights comes equal responsibility. Split the cost from day one. Get it. It's absolutely disgusting, to exspect anything.

You just described toxic women I ve dated

What if it's a long distance relationship

I am usually very skeptical about women content producers who provide relationship advice for men. This video however was very good with solid advice. Thank you and keep up the good work.

Hi

I think it’s just better for a man to focus on himself. The woman that’s for him will be there. It’s pointless to give women this much energy. They will run you crazy trying to impress, figure out , be a real man , be emotional, act like a man. How about I’ll just be me meaning always seek to get better , and do what I like , keep my vision and plans open so if there is a women added I can accommodate. What the dating coaches don’t tell you is the more you level up, the more games they play . So it gets harder and it’s because the women have issues so they will toy with you to hide their insecurities. NEVER focus on women always on yourself and success what ever it looks like in your life. Women chase successful men with money .

For she has many lovers thou shall wear a rubber