10 Harshest Truths About Women That Men Learn Too Late! 

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Don’t die for a woman ; she’ll show up to your funeral with a new mate .

For a man, it's love. For a woman, it's business.

Nice guys don't finish last--they don't finish at all. So nice to hear from a true woman calling out the BS of those women who are abusive.

My biggest mistake in my marriage (other than the obvious - marriage itself) was not addressing her disrespect from the get-go. The first disrespect occurred within only a couple of short weeks of the wedding and it threw me. I was completely dumbfounded by it. I was dumbfounded because in all my 30 plus years of life, no one had been so openly disrespectful to me as she began to display. And as i came to understand far too late, a wife's disrespect needs to be dealt with immediately. A man who lets it slide or chalks it up to her having a "bad day" is not doing himself any favors. Each act and word of disrespect will build upon the last until her husband is a miserable, self loathing piece of crap. I speak from experience. It can eventually get so bad that the wife might even begin to display distain for her husband right in front of his own family, pushing him away when he goes to hug her or turning her head if he goes in for a kiss. She might even reach the level at which his physical pain means absolutely nothing to her. Heck, she might even laugh out loud in front of her children if she sees him get hit on the head by a hard object (yes, i speak from experience). His happiness, self worth and basic needs will become absolutely unimportant to her. He will be so low on her list of priorities that his feelings, even in basic human interactions, are of no concern to her whatsoever. She will treat him worse than she would even a casual friend or stranger. This is no exaggeration. I will give you an example of the depths to which her total disrespect stooped. My wife had to have open heart surgery. This operation occurred in the spring time and i took care of her throughout her recovery. I provided for her, cleaned for her, kept things moving and never once complained about the difficulties involved. And I went without sex for months and months (which is no big deal since she never wanted sex with me anyway). For Christmas that December I bought her a rather expensive gold necklace. I had it specially wrapped and waited to surprise her. Christmas morning arrived and I watched her open it. She lifted the lid, looked at it for all of 2 seconds, closed it and tossed it aside as if it were a piece of trash. Not only did she not say even a polite "thank you", she didn't even look at me! But she did come to me later that morning to confront me over my choice in a gift.... Her: "I have a question. Why did you buy me a necklace?" Me: "I thought it was beautiful and would look great on you." (notice that even her overt rudeness did not elicit a correction from me, but an open compliment. I've been a fool.) Her: "I had surgery, you know that, right? I have a scar, you can see that, right? I have not been wearing necklaces, so why would you do that?" And then she turned and walked away. I went to our bedroom, closed the door and sat there for about 15 minutes till I could compose myself and go on with the holiday. So young man, take it from a man who has been miserable for 25 years. If you choose to marry, do not put up with even one act of disrespect. If you do I guarantee you there will be a second, then a third in rapid succession until it becomes common place and pretty much daily.

#4 about women not being able to empathize with men is accurate and particularly brutal. Women largely don’t see men as human beings who have our own needs, but rather as vessels whose purpose is to meet a woman’s needs.

Relationships shouldn't be this complicated

My wife educated me on number 4 and how most women lack empathy for men. It was a big lesson for me.

Men: treat a bih like a bih and a Queen like a Queen. Be happy!🤜🏾🤛🏾

The best thing a man can have is peace in his life 👍

11: Don't get in a relationship with these crazy wemen!!!

Great to hear a woman being honest about women's behaviours and why they do it. This is real honesty compared to the BS I was fed growing up about what women want and how to treat them or how I should just be "a good guy" etc etc. Totally understand the reasoning she gives for why women test men but it is the most trying thing to ever deal with and nothing puts me off more than when a woman does this. In my mind it creates unnecessary stress and arguments that can turn a good relationship bad just because she wants to constantly test you. Men get tired of that sh*t.

Olivia needs to be protected at all costs

This woman is clearly educated and well spoken, and she's really making light of some horrible traits in toxic women. As a black man who is wiser now than I once was, I can say, unequivocally, I will find a woman who does not harbor these toxic traits, or I will die single, old, wealthy and happy, having avoided this kind of abuse entirely. ❤

Men in the modern age are now waking up to the fact that the relationships, dating and marriage scene is a rigged game where the man stands to lose every single time if he doesn't watch his P's and Q's. No amount of getting laid is worth putting up with all the drama and dysfunction. Being single and unattached has given me a peace of mind I wouldn't trade away for the world!

I'm a 59 year old male I just turned 59 today. Everything you're saying totally resonates with me. I'm a very sensitive man I have a wonderful daughter that I've raised with my ex-wife and I've maintained a good relationship with her because of the unconditional love I have for my daughter. I'm finding that women that are single in their 50s that have never had children, have difficulty pair-bonding and I'm starting to feel that they're not good long-term partners. What year did scribing of what these women want, it's all Eagle based and it's got no value to me whatsoever these women can just go jump in the lake I really couldn't give to you know what's about them. They're a waste of time totally low-value

You are what you are. If no one party appreciates the other, it's not a good situation.

This video makes me feel like I'm listening to TERMS AND CONDITIONS FOR WOMEN.

I love how she always goes straight to the point.

Olivia you are so direct, so respectful of both genders, you waste no time giving valuable facts we need to make it through, healthy, and happy, Your a Champ!!!

This is the most LOGICAL I ever heard a woman speak on "Advice videos." Positively speaking, you have hit all your points logically without submerging it in emotion or a lack of accountability that women are being socially programmed to operate in the modern world. Well done and intrigued for more quality vidoes like this.

"Attention is a woman's biggest currency" 🎯

I'm in my mid 40s and I've always been given the nice-guy label. Luckily for me, I married a woman that appreciates me for the man I am. I don't think I finished last.

Wow. I’m shook! Im a 29 year old guy and I never knew all of these realities until now. I always wonder why I haven’t been able to attract a female all of these years. I didn’t know girls were that complex and scrupulous. It makes sense because I’m not a confident person and have low self-esteem. I’ve had many girls ghost me because I was “too nice.” I never understood this because I’m naturally a nice person and I don’t want to upset anyone. How could women not appreciate that? I wondered. But now it makes sense. I don’t know where to go from here but thanks for making this video for it has shed light on many things I didn’t know before.

I sincerely appreciate your videos! I am a newly licensed marriage and family therapist and you are definitely educating me on a great deal that was not talked about in school or even in life. Again, thank you!

What Olivia says about asserting dominance is true. If a man appears weak a woman will run game on him

too much effort to be cheated at the end. men be single

I feel like I'm listening to some secrets I'm not supposed to be hearing. I keep checking if someone is around me watching me listening to this lol. You are dropping some serious gems on us!

Sister you are one in a 'zillion' - your articulation and the convincing truth is I'm sure to many exploited men out there! Thank you for standing up for us! You talk with authority, yet advisory and in a constructive tone, keep up the good work!

11. Don’t bother with 99% of women

Focus on yourself fellas it’s about to get real out here

No sane man would tolerate this insanity.

This is why a peaceful woman is cherished. The women she described sound like an unnecessary task and a headache waiting to happen

I used to think I was missing out on a lot being a relationship-less virgin at my age, but then I watched a few videos about modern women and realized the only thing I actually missed out on was losing money, mental health, and probably getting an STI. It's not worth it, men. Just work for yourself, enjoy your hobbies, and take care of your friends. Relationships are a joke.

Now that I'm in my 30's this all crystal clear to me. In my 20's I acted arrogant around women cuz I noticed it got their attention and kept them in tow. In my 30's i realized, it not really the arrogance. Its the qualities's the arrogance suggests you posses. Dominance, assertiveness, confidence etc. I now have healthier, more reasonable ways of signalling these qualities. 😄

Thank you sister for teaching us what women are truly about, a lot of us learnt it either with pain or trauma. Thanks for saving thousands of lives.....

Spot on! Confidence bordering on arrogance . Security in every angle. All humans , even men want a challenge.

Guys no matter how much u love her never let a woman get comfortable disrespecting u if u show her u tolerate blatant disrespect u lose attraction she will think she can do whatever she want

It's refreshing to hear this type of brutal honesty.

Never in my life have I ever heard a woman speak so truthfully. I wish this was recorder 15 years ago.

Hats off Olivia. This is coming from a women who deserves respect. Compulsory listening material!

Funny thing is that I’ve always said this stuff was the truth about women and I was told by women that I had no idea what I was talking about. I have no problem staying single the rest of my life. I’m a homeowner, my bills are paid, I love my work, my kids are adults and I’ll be retiring in 7 years. I’m living a peaceful and do not want headaches

"they start equating their value to their sexual desirability"...sadly, its the outward expression of most shallow-minded women. You're so spot on alexa👌🏾

By far the best channel of its kind on YT. Incredibly well paced and laid out. A+

Absolutely amazing! Great details and even better points!

The man who is superficial and pleases for the sake of pleasing women is called a SIMP.

Not is she a woman of beauty but wisdom, salute to u Olivia 💯

I really appreciate the details and the quick editing

Thanks for keeping it real ! 💯

There is a contradiction between not desiring a man who is emotionally available and wanting a man who is emotionally secure.

Respect. You're one of the few women I've seen bring up that it's difficult for women to empathize with a man. Society paints women as such great natural masters of emotion, but when their man has a moment of real weakness they freak out, say/do something they can never take back, and fail to be a loving and supportive force in their relationship when it's needed most

So true. And concise. Thank you!

Olivia, that was so insightful. Lots there to think about. Thank you.

People hate the truth! The truth will set you free.

It's amazing that not single female made a comment on this video. Great Job as always Olivia.

This video is very informative! I appreciate you Olivia 💯

This is a GREAT post. You covered all bases, social & psychological-- eveb biology!

I have lived around the world, and currently live in Costa Rica and Panama.🏖 I have dated and mated women from all around the world. It is refreshing to hear a woman be blunt and honest, I applaud you! Irrespective what country, or what culture. Men want sex and companionship, women want financial security and personal safety.

10 Harsh Truths About Women That Men Learn Late. 1. You will be used for what you lead with. 2. A woman will run over you if you let her. 3. Nice guys usually do finish last. 4. Most women lack empathy for men. 5. Most women like emotionally unavailable men. 6. A woman will constantly test you. 7. Women want security. 8. Being physically desired is everything to women. 9. Attention is the main driving factor for most women. 10. She usually won’t be able to match your sex drive.

Thank you on the insight , needed this

Damn… if I would’ve known this…. I wouldn’t have gotten married. Facts

Solution to all of this: ZERO TOLERANCE

This lady nailed it!! Sadly for me it is 25 years too late for me. Be warned if you don't want lose your children, house and savings. For you younger guys don't be the nice guy!!

To sum this up... most men and women are not worthy of being with long term... if she easy then she's not worthy.. if he's easy then he's not worth it either... if both live in the moment and not for the long term.. they not worthy so. To pull off a miracle, you have to be one also

WOW! Your right on! Ben

Thank you Olivia!

Lets be honest here. Given the nature of women and the way society is today, a healthy relationship is impossible with all but the most self aware women. Thanks for your honestly. Maybe we'll be able to get to a better place, one day.

Modern Feminism has REALLY messed women up.

EXCELLENT BREAKDOWN

You are spot on, I just have to subscribe to listen more from this intellect woman and she goes straight to the point.

So, to sum up... "She only cares about what she wants. You're never going to get what you want from her, because she has little interest in giving it. In light of the two previous statements, DATING AND MARRIAGE IS A WASTE OF A MAN'S TIME!" Got it! Thanks!

Thank you sister, you don't play favorite and keep it real and you have taught me what I did not know

This is Excellent material. Thank you.

I’m 47 and a lifelong incel (never had a girlfriend and never had a date in my whole life), and listening to this it somehow makes me grateful for being spared from all the shit that come with women. Maybe i haven’t lost anything special all these years.

This should be a required watch for ALL men. You absolutely NAILED it in this video!!! Smart, aware and honest…what a breath of fresh air.

God bless you for being honest Sister.

Thank you for this info.

As a man nearing 40 with experience with many women, this seems dead on fact. thanks for articulating it so clearly

One of the best videos i’ve ever seen. Interesting to hear a woman say everything that i’ve gradually realized now at 40 yrs old.

Your words are so true. I had the feeling that you speak about all my experiences

Thank you Olivia, very good content.

This is one of the most articulate, insightful, and hopeful, for men who frequently are clueless about what motivates women. As someone who is on the wrong side of the 70, and I have dated many many women, I would’ve liked to known all of this mini years ago. Well done.

Priceless... So, So many "OMG She's RIGHT", moments!! Even if we've learned every one of these nuggets, we forget, and have to be reminded. And this is all in One concise video... Thank you!! ( Should be REQUIRED viewing for all males, 15 and up )

I have learnt more from this video (in nine minutes) than I have in my entire life about women. And I am over 40

Thank you for your perspective

Finally a woman who states it as it is! I love the sex drive opinion. Comical watching these women on different platforms acting like they're so interested in sex. This is all about attention. Most of these women will say or do anything to get that attention they so badly seek, especially in later years, once their looks and figures are in decline. Its really pathetic.

It's by far the most comprehensive assessment I have come across and coming from a woman I truly think there's hope to see a generation of young girls who can't think beyond their social media profiles 😂❤

Thank you love! Great work.

This woman has the game down, best advice for men that I have listened to.

I never thought I will hear that from a woman. You did a great job explaining it in a very simple way.

This channel is very necessary and informative, thanks for being a real woman Mrs. Alexa. (Personally) I’ve been told that I was a good guy or too nice my entire life, so this one hit home. However, mine has taught me that happiness only comes when you’re true to yourself (coming from a man that’s been told a plethora of advice/behavior changes to make, to receive female adoration). As far as being looked at as a “doormat” or option for a woman, who may have passed me over during my earlier years… Guy’s like myself know these things already, but in the end is more of the reason why you should first know your value and what’s important (to you)! Remember that people can also change and grow. Most are in different lanes throughout this world and the best teacher about life is life!!!

My late mother told me “If it hurts, let it out. Holding on to things that cause you pain isn’t good for you .”

I can tell that you are doing this from a place of love....thank you.This will help us become better men!

Olivia... I just gotta say thank you. You really said straight facts without any fronting. Just straight to the point. Blessings.

Sorry I do not agree with some things. My advice to other men: Look for femine traits such as nurturance, sensitivity, sweetness, supportiveness, gentleness, warmth, passivity, cooperativeness, expressiveness, modesty, humility, empathy, affection, tenderness, and being emotional, kind, helpful, devoted. Not a woman looking for ego-boost, desire for unavailablity (thrill for the chase), difficult to obtain (scarcity), attracted to prohibited activities (intrigue). These are bad traits, these people live in this realm only. They are attached in this material world. If you live and just be yourself then that is fine. If you are nice , honest and gentle to woman then that is your way. If a woman doesn't have the ability to see how you are then look for another. In life you should enjoy, not learn "harsh truths" from woman. They are just humans like us, nothing special. If a person loves you and you love her then you have found the right person . The key to have a woman is Love . I get tired of woman telling to men what we have to do. Just improve in yourself, visit your family, take care of yourself (eat well, train, learn new things) and work good to keep your self safe. If you find a woman attractive , talk to her and learn who she is. You will realize when you talk more girls , to more variety there is. People have a different lives, so try to find a matching partner that both lives can connect and live together. If you are unsure, just try to talk more girls without anything expectations. They are not special. If you put her feelings first, you come last. Keep it real.

Thanks for putting us on game Ms LADY

Wow, amazingly enlightening. Thanks

I dont know how to be anything but nice. I wont change that either. Even if im forever single.

Thank you for this!! Much appreciated and greatly needed 💯

This was a great video 🙌🏽