Get a brother, uncle, grandfather to walk you down the aisle. Forget dad and sister. Or you could walk down the aisle with the groom as I did. Problem solved.
Even if you changed your wedding date, chances are, your sister would then change the date of her housewarming party to the new date if your wedding. She just wouldn't be able to handle you getting a little attention!
You should ask your uncle to move away with you. It seems as he truly cares about you. I think it was ridiculous of your father to ask you to change your wedding date when you made all the plans and then your sister decided to have her housewarming party on the same day. Her party's date could have been changed easily. Hope you have a long happy life.
I have 3 siblings. We never fought. Parents llive happily together, never divorced. Everyone has since married and we are all doing well. Guess I'm a member of a really weird family - according to all I read here.
Yeah F the sister and F the father. The father dug a nice hole for himself, losing op and golden sister. Good you have your uncle walking down the aisle. I was literally yelling have your uncle walk you down the aisle. I was also yelling that the father got the golden sister to walk down the aisle. But may not have that chance. Live a happier, successful life, create your own family and etc. You don't need them and they don't want you.
It would have been great for OP to tell dad that she really would change the wedding date IF... he paid for everything -- then collect the money and have the wedding on the originally planned date! OP's uncle would be so willing to walk OP down the aisle.
I'm so sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing with your family. It’s heartbreaking when loved ones don’t recognize our worth. You deserve a joyful wedding day surrounded by those who support you. Take care of yourself and know that you are deserving of happiness and love.
Great story. I agree with op. I wouldn't talk to either one of those toxic family members either. Family doesn't equal friends. They are so stupid they probably don't realize why op is so mad.
The idea of rainbow babies is based on the hidden reality of how common miscarriages are but it’s too devastating to discuss. I couldn’t imagine being this needy to a love never known like from her sister FFS
Don't change the date, tell everyone the truth that your sister made her house warming party on the same day so they both blew you off for her. Let the chips fall where they may.
Why do people like op stand up for themselves!!! Stick up to others. It doesn’t make you a bad person it shows that you are strong and won’t let others bully you no matter who they are
Even if she would have moved the date the father and the sister would have found a way to ruin it. Her sister knew when the wedding date was and had her party anyway.
My brother refuses to have my back. This includes when I was dealing with cancer back in 05 - 06. He actually was planning my funeral. He actually ordered my man to buy me a dress to be buried in. There were other instances too. But to make it short, I had to cut him out of my life for being toxic. He was the golden child due to his gender and the fact that our brother had passed on a year and one week before Jerkface's birth. Me, being a 'mere' female and born on the spectrum wasn't good enough for my parents and him.
What? Her father had pretty much the same issu like OP with her sister.. Except his brother may not be spoiled and yet he can'T she the almost same thing with his daughters?
OP was an idiot for telling them about the wedding and expecting them to care about her. Women stop letting people treat you like a doormat family or not.
Get a brother, uncle, grandfather to walk you down the aisle. Forget dad and sister. Or you could walk down the aisle with the groom as I did. Problem solved.
