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Dad is expressing concern over the amount of money being taken from their paycheck for child support, despite feeling like they have already provided financially for their children and feeling like they are being unfairly treated and are frustrated with the situation. They mention working overtime to make ends meet and question how much the other parent is spending on their kids. Dad also mentions that the other parent has a living partner and lives in a mansion, while they do not have any additional support.
This is the first amended original petition in a suit that involves the parent-child relationship, seeking modification and motion to confirm support arrears. The petition includes travel provisions, passport provisions, out-of-state travel provisions, and a modified standard possession order. Child support was set at $700 a month starting from February 1, 2018, which Mr. Sims paid to Miss Duvall. Health insurance was provided by Miss Dubell through her job for $120 per month.
Dad is questioned about his pay stub showing a total income of $165,607.48 for the year. He clarifies that this amount includes reimbursable expenses like per diem, bonuses, and other expenses that were returned to him. He mentions that his net income was actually $66,000 and expresses concerns that these reimbursable expenses should not be considered as part of his income for child support calculations. The witness also discusses his financial struggles paying for lodging while working on the road and argues that the total amount on his pay stub does not accurately reflect his actual income. The state proposes joint managing conservatorship with standard visitation, setting a medical support amount of $223, and determining whether bonuses and per diem should be included in child support calculations. The witness, Dad expresses his concerns about how his total income is calculated and emphasizes the significant impact it has on his financial situation.
In summary, the court proceedings involved determining child support payments for two children, ordering back payments for child support and medical support, and setting an entry date for finalizing the orders. The judge explained the process of child support adjustments when one child reaches adulthood and allowed for the dispute in the draft of orders if needed.
Child support is money paid by one parent to the other parent for the purpose of providing financial support to a child or children. Most frequently, child support is paid by the non-custodial parent to the custodial parent, but this is not always the case. Depending on where you live and the agreement you reach, the child support you pay or receive and what expenses it should cover will vary.
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@s_1408
@s_1408 4 месяца назад
Dear Dads, GET A LAWYER!! The state is NOT your friend. I haven't seen a dad get a fair shake yet
@warthogA10
@warthogA10 3 месяца назад
Mom's just get everything automatically, no need for lawyers.. unless the Dad contests and is having his rights squashed... Then Dad has to have legal representation from the start. It's crazy.
@PaulSullivan828
@PaulSullivan828 3 месяца назад
@@warthogA10wrong… kids get support based on a formula
@curlybeautyblogger
@curlybeautyblogger 3 месяца назад
​@@PaulSullivan828Not always. Just finished a case where dad received a support order and judge went through all of mom's personal expenses down to her monthly cell phone bill and THEN set support. What a joke. I've never EVER seen anything like that for dads. Smh. Dads could literally be pulling lint from their pockets and still be hit with a large order and arrears. It's madness.
@chrisdecaro5815
@chrisdecaro5815 2 месяца назад
Yeah they want their cut.
@chrisdecaro5815
@chrisdecaro5815 2 месяца назад
@@warthogA10They do Moms the same. They’re fucking criminals.
@sandraledesma9083
@sandraledesma9083 4 месяца назад
He needs to hire a lawyer. It can be a little expensive but will save in the end. She claimed the children when he supported them, a lawyer can request that money.
@rezsurfer2808
@rezsurfer2808 4 месяца назад
He could also if he knew what he was doing. I had few court dates before i learned what i needed to ask and request with proper understanding on why.
@darleneww3670
@darleneww3670 4 месяца назад
He shouldn't need to be it Mom’s is free. Fundamental flaw
@walterdearrudafortesjuni-wp5oh
@walterdearrudafortesjuni-wp5oh 2 месяца назад
This was strange, he pays for the time she lived there, divides this too and also the bonus and extras placed on the pension, because this amount is not calculated at the end of the year or because the employer already calculates this every month. It got confusing, in the country where I live the judge gives a percentage, emoregar already deducts reimbursement and tax, then he takes the pension and sends it to the mother's account, then if there is a bonus, extra, additional vacation it is also already calculated, no There is confusion with the value.
@WoodysOpinion101
@WoodysOpinion101 Месяц назад
You can request the money that is owed and you don't need a lawyer for everything😂
@jillgott6567
@jillgott6567 4 месяца назад
Makes no sense to pay child support when living together. He needs a lawyer. At least the judge is questioning the pay credit for when they lived together. There should be no back child support for that time or, she would be double dipping.
@MandyMorae
@MandyMorae 4 месяца назад
Exactly! Just another greedy woman milking a man for all he’s worth. 36:40
@bear9419
@bear9419 4 месяца назад
I completely agree. I don’t understand how women like this end up with the good men that are willing to take care of their kids.
@RebeccaLohse-d1m
@RebeccaLohse-d1m 3 месяца назад
This is why men don't trust women anymore
@jessicawild2154
@jessicawild2154 2 месяца назад
When I was living with my son's father; he was forced to pay child support because I received food stamps and we weren't married. Id get a check, cash it, then give it right back to him for bills and stuff. It was RIDICULOUS
@chrisofnyc3936
@chrisofnyc3936 Месяц назад
So much I want to say about this situation. But I’ll say this. There has to be a moment in life as a man with zero battle with another man, that you are just completely defeated, and I believe this is that moment. Not everyone experiences that form of defeat. I hope he thinks about life because he’s got a long future ahead of him. If he’s wanting to be a dad then cool make the right moves and do that, and that starts with making time. You can’t be a dad while never showing up. So, giving up the higher paying gig for time with the kids will be more valuable if your goal is to be a dad. However if your intentions aren’t to be a dad, then you gonna have to just pay up or quit your current life and disappear. Maybe find a way to make ends meet with the bare minimum. People are surviving (some even thriving) with far much less. Lifestyle change etc. To be on the road the majority of time to make all that money, to just have it go to another person, while not knowing exactly what it’s being spent on is crazy. Providing from a distance isn’t going to provide the full dad experience and neither the kids or father will get the full benefits. Being present should be the ultimate goal. Don’t persecute me, I’m meant to be misunderstood) 😂
@gino007able
@gino007able 4 месяца назад
he needs to leave that job and get a normal job, then file for 50/50 custody.
@RammSnipe
@RammSnipe 4 месяца назад
He can't because it would be voluntary. The court sees the voluntary leave as him choosing to and knows that he wasn't forced out of his job. So he would leave his job for a lesser paying job and then still be ordered to pay the same amount.
@michaelbray4391
@michaelbray4391 4 месяца назад
@@RammSnipe But when a woman does the same thing nothing happens to them.
@gino007able
@gino007able 4 месяца назад
@@RammSnipe I have two arguments, he is on the road almost year around and he is getting overtime. he does not have "standard" visitation, and he should go for 50/50 down the road, no pun intended this job modification is in the child's best interest. Judge, what is more important, having to be able to spend time with the dad or it all about the money? if a doctor issues a doctors note stating he is unable to do this kind of work due to health reasons it's not voluntary. it's involuntary change of employment.
@PaulSullivan828
@PaulSullivan828 3 месяца назад
@@michaelbray4391nope you are wrong … I’ve seen unemployed moms still ordered to pay. Like so many men you just want to be a victim
@aacc8466
@aacc8466 3 месяца назад
lol this guys a lawyer
@JoshuaPasqualone
@JoshuaPasqualone 4 месяца назад
The AAG Attorney is terrible, she doesn't understand how to do the financial calculations.
@alexandram1301
@alexandram1301 4 месяца назад
Seems to be a theme
@dbizzle85
@dbizzle85 4 месяца назад
All her memory and brainpower is used to remember fast food menus
@bojacque6474
@bojacque6474 4 месяца назад
@@dbizzle85lmao 😂
@MikeS-7
@MikeS-7 4 месяца назад
They all follow the same script. It is all about showing maximum gross income.
@warthogA10
@warthogA10 3 месяца назад
Well tbh she doesn't even know how to pronounce "ask" correctly so... 🤷
@loyalty3653
@loyalty3653 4 месяца назад
Just like a Father/ Man, drain yourself for your family just to end up with nothing with a broken heart and a failed system trying to drain you even more
@candee2746
@candee2746 3 месяца назад
Facts! It infuriates me.
@TheProPainter
@TheProPainter 2 месяца назад
It’s a living nightmare that unfortunately I’ll have to endure for my entire adult life 😔
@Berster13
@Berster13 2 месяца назад
Facts
@xfercoachkris
@xfercoachkris 4 месяца назад
Guys!! If she put you on child support for 1 child DO NOT HAVE ANOTHER CHILD WITH HER!!! Idc if she comes back and make it “seem” like things are ok… having kids is a hustle for these ladies
@tluvwilson9370
@tluvwilson9370 4 месяца назад
You sound krazy as heck✅️
@warthogA10
@warthogA10 3 месяца назад
​@@tluvwilson9370so making a factual statement makes one sound "crazy as heck"?🤔
@charlesmerchant4762
@charlesmerchant4762 3 месяца назад
​@@warthogA10 They are devils. Without male seed, they roam the earth seeking someone to devour. With male seed, they can enlist the help of Satan (Family Courts) to extract funding from men.
@KnowDaVibes
@KnowDaVibes 3 месяца назад
He stated that he put himself on child support for the first one when they split up… so technically he did that to himself.
@charlesmerchant4762
@charlesmerchant4762 3 месяца назад
Prostitutes Of The State.... Either by divorce or by fornication, these CS Hustlers are a liaison that galvanizes an entire Family Court Industry.....even to the point where they grant child support to ADULTS under "special circumstances"
@lisaklassen7824
@lisaklassen7824 4 месяца назад
It is ABSOLUTELY a free ride for this chick! The way she answered “no” when they asked if she had a number in mind…she obviously is going for the max. I might be wrong, but mom is giving me “taking advantage” vibes, and I actually do believe dad’s story. 🤷‍♀️
@donnamoore821
@donnamoore821 Месяц назад
She sits there with that smug look it's disgusting !!
@donnamoore821
@donnamoore821 Месяц назад
Get a better job lady and stop robbing his income
@k.stacey7389
@k.stacey7389 4 месяца назад
I don’t know what the judge is talking about. I’ve always had reimbursable expenses on my paycheck, AP doesn’t want to cut a separate check for every little thing. And it is absolutely NOT income.
@klee88029
@klee88029 4 месяца назад
it is taxable income if you don't itemize your taxes showing that you spent an equal or greater amount in your per diem expenses.
@earthyeve7859
@earthyeve7859 2 месяца назад
My husband and i both get reimbirsed expenses. You cant use them for mortgages and they are not supposed to be paid or listed with the income. We both get separate checks for those.
@bukibukurije1
@bukibukurije1 4 месяца назад
He makes good momey so he needs to use some of it to hire an attorney. I HATE WHEN DAD'S WHO R TAKING CARE OF THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES AND R TREATING UNFAIRLY
@christinaraney2110
@christinaraney2110 4 месяца назад
I totally agree 💯
@rezsurfer2808
@rezsurfer2808 4 месяца назад
He makes 66k a year. not the 6 figures. WHy he got screwed he didn't explain it properly, and the AAG did calculations wrong. BUT Yes a lawyerwould have done that and explained it properly in court jargin
@banterj
@banterj 4 месяца назад
But why should it matter?…a father is a father,rich or poor …why are you at a higher disadvantage when you are successful?it is like you become a target and they are so aggressive towards them.
@banterj
@banterj 4 месяца назад
@@rezsurfer2808mind you $66,000 of HIS SWEAT AND TEARS…if you are watching this from Mars,you would swear that these women own the money and he is just existing in their world…he should not have to explain his income
@micheleewing1960
@micheleewing1960 4 месяца назад
Men need to stop being so cheap if they don’t get a lawyer and can afford one
@caseyj779
@caseyj779 4 месяца назад
These child support laws need to be redone. They absolutely are willing to put the non custodial parent in a financial bind. They also tend to cheat dad a lot of the time using the law.
@ChadChadoChad
@ChadChadoChad 3 месяца назад
The state gets payed to collect the money so that’s why and to keep the mom off the system if possible 😢
@billtohigh
@billtohigh 2 месяца назад
What he said.
@Dtcc-us6xd
@Dtcc-us6xd 4 месяца назад
How does Arrendondo have a job? It doesnt even look like she went over the case before presenting it to the judge. Her and the judge are going over the case file in real time.
@YosemiteDan2615
@YosemiteDan2615 4 месяца назад
Diversity hire. Fat lives matter.
@theresafeeney2756
@theresafeeney2756 Месяц назад
She doesn’t present herself very well. “The state would axe….” It’s “ask”
@janicecollins8142
@janicecollins8142 21 день назад
Because they are state employees. they don’t pick and choose. Everyone who file without a lawyer gets the state lawyer who is assigned after mediation. She may have 200 cases working at any giving time with cooperative or uncooperative parents.
@JordanEmede_376
@JordanEmede_376 4 месяца назад
I barely make 100k gross and I would have had a lawyer 1 minute after this began.
@ssvoogel
@ssvoogel 3 месяца назад
This guy only made 60k gross so it's probably a lot harder for him to afford a lawyer.
@jc-ne5en
@jc-ne5en 29 дней назад
I made 32k and still got a lawyer and won 50/50 custody and no child support
@dennislydon13
@dennislydon13 4 месяца назад
This makes me sick
@warthogA10
@warthogA10 3 месяца назад
​@@LyricalTamponhow is he trying to avoid taking care of their child?🤔
@warthogA10
@warthogA10 3 месяца назад
@@LyricalTampon where is it shown he's attempting to avoid paying child support?🤔 He's simply attempting to avoid being ransacked by the state.. What is mom paying toward the care of their children? Anything? Or is her new live in ATM doing it all?🤔 Is she using any of the children's child support money for her own personal use for things she wants?? That money is for the children, not for her own personal use in any way. Every parent receiving child support in the name of their children should be audited each year to show how the money is being spent, down to the penny..
@warthogA10
@warthogA10 3 месяца назад
@@LyricalTampon idk.. why did my ex wife pay only $89 per week for two children (not each) as the non custodial parent, even when she made a lot of money working for a nation wide daycare facility.. Then get assistance from the court appointed GAL to lie saying she had them half the time when she only took them 1 night or 1 -2 overnights per month and constantly bailed out of her other visitations to get c/s dropped even though I had actual proof it was a lie, And during the time she did pay c/s for 16 years kept me in court continually, intentionally making it impossible for me to obtain or keep a job, so she was allowed to claim the children and got $6k back each year due to child tax credits so for those 16 years she actually profited about $24+k ... ?🤔 Show me anywhere/any time a non custodial dad ever profited from paying c/s Also the fact she tested positive many times for substance use, and also 2 times the court got involved for harming our children yet never put into any program or lost any visitation time etc??🤔 And so much more.. Mother's get away with everything, father's get no breaks and even get pummeled in family courts, even if they have custody.
@curlybeautyblogger
@curlybeautyblogger 3 месяца назад
​@@warthogA10I had the literal 5 seconds it took to read your comment and you are spot on. 🎯🎯🎯 Agree! Maybe the slow readers have a tough time with soooo many words. 🙄
@warthogA10
@warthogA10 3 месяца назад
@@curlybeautyblogger well, people like that commentor typically resort to insults when someone challenges their view with more than one sentence, and they typically fall for the good old "poor innocent victims" themes so popular with society. Their insult to me at the end proves their ignorance because my ex wife initially left when I caught her in many serious lies.. While I was working every day she had been using drugs behind my back, and cheating with more than one guy, and dropping our children off with people so she could go off with those guys.. When I confronted her on it all she took out children and went to the PD on a Sunday and told a horrible lie to get an emergency RO against me from a judge over the phone and took our children over state lines to one of those guy's house (who shed only known for 2 weeks) and left them alone with him on several occasions. Long story short, the RO was dropped 3 weeks later by a judge who said it should never have been issued, then I initiated divorce and I was awarded sole custody of our children about 4 months later (our children were 1yo and 6yo) and retained that custody until our youngest turned 18 (who still lives with me today). Neither of our children talk with their mother much, and our oldest dealt with physical events with her, which she was in court twice over (which were only 2 they knew of but weren't the only events) and she never faced any consequences. It's amazing how people will just throw things around or have a specific option based on what is fed to general society, and never think for themselves and are incapable of realizing anything different than what they hear or are told. During all those years, my ex intentionally interfered with my ability to keep it obtain employment, and with the aid of a court GAL who hates men she was allowed to claim our children on her taxes through lying about having our children half the time (but I wasn't allowed to show my proof to the contrary) So while my ex paid $89 per wk in c/s she also got $3k back in taxes for each =$6k per year, So over those 16 years she actually profited about $24k and never spent a dime in our children. I was fortunate enough to have good parents who opened their home to us. I did work on their home and did all the maintenance and cleaning, and raised our children in my own other than living in my parents home, and I worked side jobs as often as possible but the money which came through services was spent on our children and I still have every single receipt to this day to show where that money went. Never once did I spend any money which was basically coming though services from her c/s payments to the state, on myself as most single moms do. and I know because I've known quite a few single moms in my 55 years, and known of many other situations and will say confidently that probably 1 out of 5 single moms put their children first, ahead of themselves.
@kayja2949
@kayja2949 4 месяца назад
I feel for you, Dad.
@banterj
@banterj 4 месяца назад
Men are learning,very slowly but they are learning
@thereasoner9454
@thereasoner9454 Месяц назад
I don't care what a lawyer costs, it's cheaper than losing to an uninformed judge and other State employee
@keithjoseph7433
@keithjoseph7433 4 месяца назад
He needs a lawyer asap. They don't understand his paycheck. I wonder why don't talk about how much she makes. They always focus on the father pay. He just got screwed.
@theresafeeney2756
@theresafeeney2756 Месяц назад
And Tanya should know that for the job she holds!
@ericaphiladelphia9149
@ericaphiladelphia9149 4 месяца назад
He needs to get a lawyer
@cshop1862
@cshop1862 4 месяца назад
Dude, you need to submit your W-2s and that would settle this entire issue.
@joelopez5018
@joelopez5018 3 месяца назад
W2’s don’t always help. These child support lawyers usually go with year to date.
@TheProPainter
@TheProPainter 2 месяца назад
Facts!!! Texas wants them paystubs 😂😂
@ah5589
@ah5589 Месяц назад
Why would that settle this? Can you explain please. Generally seeking clarification
@ROSSCO7777777
@ROSSCO7777777 Месяц назад
@@ah5589 would be income only and not some convoluted thing of showing expenses and per diem etc
@Hadden733
@Hadden733 29 дней назад
The W2 actually would have total what he was paid the year prior with the total break down what was taking out of his check, what people see is the gross pay and quick to think the judge is going to go off that gross when that’s not true. They going to break it down to his net pay along with certain credits he receive based off those calculations. He really got a fair deal.
@stonesatglasshouses3477
@stonesatglasshouses3477 3 месяца назад
I was trying to give this judge another shot. But, I can’t watch any of her cases. I understand why these fathers get so frustrated. This is insanity.
@curlybeautyblogger
@curlybeautyblogger 3 месяца назад
Yes! Judge is here to punish every man before her. Idk who hurt her but these guys are paying the price.
@ylw0117
@ylw0117 4 месяца назад
She was def living in a McMansion
@famulimus3122
@famulimus3122 16 дней назад
If the AG uses "axe" instead of "ask". You needa petition to get a competent AG
@IvoryS2012
@IvoryS2012 3 месяца назад
I agree with him. If she lives with her boyfriend than she doesn't have too many expenses.
@Nanirva
@Nanirva 2 месяца назад
He is killing himself working and hardly spending any time with his children. He should hire a lawyer, stop working overtime and spend those hours with his children. Mothers should split the total cost of the children. It shouldn’t be just the father paying for all the expenses.
@freeisalwaysme
@freeisalwaysme Месяц назад
Shes he full time parent and pays medical expenses.
@jeffreyjones8531
@jeffreyjones8531 4 месяца назад
Guys that kitty cat is not worth it.
@Judi_tousy
@Judi_tousy 4 месяца назад
Sure wasn't! She did take everything while she claimed she didn't want to. None of them females listened to him at! Woman is getting a whole free check and paying nothing. She was even supposed to pay for healthcare for the kids but it looks like they put it all on him, sush!!! SMH 😮
@ROSSCO7777777
@ROSSCO7777777 Месяц назад
i bet it was pretty fire haha he went back after they had split once and said ah lets have another kid lol
@jackpalczynski7884
@jackpalczynski7884 4 месяца назад
At a minimum, he should have only submitted his federal tax returns.
@pointyball2916
@pointyball2916 4 месяца назад
Bruh that AAg tried to get $3k outta dad, holy shit. That’s fuking insane
@JamR0ck
@JamR0ck 3 месяца назад
Upholding girl code
@candee2746
@candee2746 3 месяца назад
Mom’s continuous eye closing and expressions are really annoying. She seems like she’d be hard to deal with. I really feel for dad in this entire situation. He was done wrong.
@nomer5819
@nomer5819 2 месяца назад
Only time there should be child support is if one parent doesn’t want to spend time with their children
@barnhousedesignspa9251
@barnhousedesignspa9251 4 месяца назад
That ADA doesn't really seem to know what she's doing. She needs to find her confidence for these hearings.
@ssvoogel
@ssvoogel 3 месяца назад
It baffles me how people don't understand that reimbursements and per diem isn't income.
@d_ward4871
@d_ward4871 4 месяца назад
Child support should go onto a special debit card and then all expenses can be tracked and accounted. Boom done. No room for bs. Kid gets all the support
@robintodd2448
@robintodd2448 4 месяца назад
It is on a debit card and the charges are tracked exactly like a credit card
@candee2746
@candee2746 3 месяца назад
It does, when paid through the state. Some people opt for direct deposit through the actual child support card/funds company, but either way, it’s all tracked through that company. I know in my state, the card company is called Way2Go. Once it’s direct deposited into a bank account though, not much way to track it without a subpoena for the bank records.
@PaulSullivan828
@PaulSullivan828 3 месяца назад
And child support includes extra rent for a bigger home etc of course
@angelaa472
@angelaa472 3 месяца назад
Really? What should it go to?
@waltereason2304
@waltereason2304 3 месяца назад
​@@angelaa472 It should go to essentials. Clothing, food shelter. All the things this mom is saying are not essential. She's mentioning a lot of extras that she claims to be paying for without proof that they exist. College fund extra, activities are extra. He wants an accounting of the essentials and a breakdown of total contributions from both sides to those
@cc3822
@cc3822 8 дней назад
$1,952 a month, and he really grosses $62k and can't use it as a deduction. After taxes, medical, child support, and 401k, he might even make $1,900 a month. This is evil.
@jenniferfox6304
@jenniferfox6304 4 месяца назад
Why is mom’s income not taken in account?
@MrSolar.
@MrSolar. 4 месяца назад
In some cases it can be.
@inmyopinion_talk
@inmyopinion_talk 4 месяца назад
Yes please someone explain that to me.
@leighlaine5691
@leighlaine5691 3 месяца назад
@@inmyopinion_talkTexas. That’s your explanation. 😂 My understanding is Texas defaults to 20% of the non-custodial gross income for 1 child. (25% for two, etc) Keeping it simple. Other states do a proportional split. All depends on where you live.
@StayingReal46
@StayingReal46 4 месяца назад
I get bad vibes from mom
@capecodero
@capecodero 4 месяца назад
he is getting fooked in the a$$, i said it he should have gotten a lawyer
@LlamaLlamaMamaJamaac
@LlamaLlamaMamaJamaac 4 месяца назад
With no loob! And definitely should get a lawyer
@TheNator1985
@TheNator1985 4 месяца назад
They don’t care
@inmyopinion_talk
@inmyopinion_talk 4 месяца назад
Why did he decide to have a second child with this woman?
@charlesmerchant4762
@charlesmerchant4762 3 месяца назад
Men are in love. Women are in business. I did this same shit and I've been paying CS for the past 30 years. Never again.
@Yonisaj12
@Yonisaj12 3 месяца назад
Men are easy to manipulate by a smiling🐱
@harmonyfox
@harmonyfox 3 месяца назад
@@charlesmerchant4762maybe you should just date other men if you think that way about women. It’s ridiculous & incorrect but sounds like you don’t even like us.
@charlesmerchant4762
@charlesmerchant4762 3 месяца назад
@harmonyfox Dating men is NEVER an option for me. I simply believe that Dating is engaging in Prostitution. I don't believe in paying for women that are used up like a public Doorknob. Do you really think that Understanding to motivations of women equals Hatred for them (because they are in Business)? The evidence is all around us.
@funnymoney3148
@funnymoney3148 3 месяца назад
​​@@harmonyfoxDont be disingenuous. You know good and well what hes saying is true. Which is why you didnt directly respond to what he said. Instead you chose to tell him to be gay if he doesnt like it. Wtf is wrong with women and their logic? 🚮🗑
@fultonjones4162
@fultonjones4162 Месяц назад
Her and her new partner trying to live off of you man.More out of your pocket and less out of hers
@stonesatglasshouses3477
@stonesatglasshouses3477 3 месяца назад
He for sure needs a lawyer.
@danpas7260
@danpas7260 14 дней назад
If you want to keep the children full custody after you filed for divorece, than you should be fully responsible for any financial support for these kids. At the same time the other spouse who was served with divorce should only be responsible for whatever they want to provide to their kids for financial support. This is just wrong and evil
@aprilcoursey4533
@aprilcoursey4533 2 месяца назад
Omg! That dad has to pay $1800 a month?!
@carlsanders7824
@carlsanders7824 4 месяца назад
Amazing that it is always the man they focus on with regards to finance. They also could care less what kind of home they are living in when with the Dad. The courts remain very much biased against men to this day.
@corrycorry6734
@corrycorry6734 3 месяца назад
Attorneys are not accountants.
@chrisbrackett9779
@chrisbrackett9779 4 месяца назад
14:16 bonuses yes should be counted, I worked per diem in the past and it should not be included, just because it’s more expensive to eat away from home. You’re already paying for your home and when you need to leave your home it’s very costly.
@mandawood9756
@mandawood9756 4 месяца назад
Bonuses should not be counted. They are never guaranteed and sometimes they are needed just to make ends meet. If the parent is already paying a fortune for child support and works 40 hours a week then that should be enough for the other parent. Child support should be factored as the expenses for the child then divided by two. Too many parents living off child support. They get mad for whatever reason and then want more money and cut off visitation. Grandparents or other family members will actually have the child or the child will be in every sport and after school program possible. The kid will have iPads and cell phones that require payment. That’s not necessary.
@gorgeousfreeman1318
@gorgeousfreeman1318 4 месяца назад
So if they take my money, should it count every time until then? I don't always get a bonus, I don't always get overtime
@rachaeldavis5438
@rachaeldavis5438 4 месяца назад
The dad provided a letter from job he’s no longer bonus eligible
@Aarticqn
@Aarticqn 4 месяца назад
​@@mandawood9756So now it's 50/50 when the relationship ends? It wasn't 50/50 when they were together. He claims to have paid everything so why should he want to not pay now he isn't getting sex from his Ex!
@raiderone562
@raiderone562 Месяц назад
With his complicated numbers he should have gotten an attorney. Any dad fighting custody or child support you need an attorney 🤷🏻‍♂️
@d3hk4y81
@d3hk4y81 2 месяца назад
That AAG is misrepresentation off this man's pay.
@nelfar213000
@nelfar213000 3 месяца назад
This is why you hire a lawyer. All the state cares about is ordering the maximum amount of support they can, get their share of matching funds from the federal government. Title IV-D pays states for collecting 80% or better of their child support rolls.
@maryshannon4444
@maryshannon4444 3 месяца назад
It's all about money. Dad is getting fleeced.
@nell3714
@nell3714 4 месяца назад
Why would his per diem be included in his income? You must be able to distinguish those two on a pay slip. He surely does not pay taxes on his per diem. I can always clearly tell the difference on my pay stub.
@heyitsMD
@heyitsMD 4 месяца назад
It wasn’t included in his income. They said that multiple times.
@nell3714
@nell3714 4 месяца назад
@@heyitsMD absolutely! My comment was referring to his insistence that it was included.
@deliciaford4343
@deliciaford4343 4 месяца назад
They should equally provide for their KIDS!❤
@michelsummers6108
@michelsummers6108 4 месяца назад
Bleeding him dry! He provided them a home, vehicle, health insurance, paying for school. This is rediculous! What ius her present boyfriend paying since she is living with him now😠 This man is going to pass away with her nonsense😠😠
@stacyshoemaker9177
@stacyshoemaker9177 Месяц назад
Why would a boyfriend pay for kids that are not his?
@merlinrakow3607
@merlinrakow3607 Месяц назад
If he has to pay. I think she should have to show where she spends the money on the children. That's not to much to ask
@chrisofnyc3936
@chrisofnyc3936 Месяц назад
You make an excellent point. Look at how much they are asking for and dealing with to extract every ounce possible out of him. It’s insane. Receipts are so much easier, especially if you are paying for things with a bank or credit card or some form of electronic payment. Extremely simple. But the system is set up to favor the parent that has custody. They don’t want to pursue any reduction in what they leech off. They don’t want to give the father any breathing room. 😂
@juliexx1980
@juliexx1980 Месяц назад
As a woman and a mum I also agree…me and my ex husband had 5 children and I only took £135 a month from him as I didn’t think it was fair for him to struggle ..he then had plenty of money to take them out and treat them ..he also paid for things they needed ..it’s not fair for the other parent to pay that much but then be expected to also help with stuff ..they need to live too
@_EricaKeyz
@_EricaKeyz 4 месяца назад
If a child support order still has a balance at the time of the custodial parent asking to stop it, they won’t and can’t close it until the balance is paid. The only thing that stop is enforcement.
@marywesling8059
@marywesling8059 3 месяца назад
Dad, pay for your kids. No extras for them except what you need to do. Mom, needs to pay her share too.
@BLACKSTARR2006
@BLACKSTARR2006 2 месяца назад
Judge is very dismissive of father, glad father spoke up for himself and new his numbers
@JordanEmede_376
@JordanEmede_376 4 месяца назад
Im having trouble understanding how his total with reimbursement is 165k but he only nets 60k? So how can he even afford 100k of extra expenses 😂 what lol
@k.stacey7389
@k.stacey7389 4 месяца назад
He’s talking about net after taxes & insurance, etc. Which he shouldn’t be. He should be talking about gross minus expense reimbursement and perdiems.
@Aarticqn
@Aarticqn 4 месяца назад
He is full of it. Just another weasel trying to not pay adequate child support. His reimbursements came up to under 10k for the year to date. But he is claiming around 65K as his annual income. Bonuses are considered to be taxable income by the Gov't but he wants the Child Support Court to ignore it. Then he says he is going to cut back his hours in the next year while complaining about maintaining the home. He needs to sell the house and downsize to a townhome or condo.
@KarlGreen-h6i
@KarlGreen-h6i 4 месяца назад
He was confusing his net with his gross. His gross should be pay without per dime and expenses and anything he bought for work. And this should have been 165 minus forty thousand in expenses and per diet. So somewhere around 120 thousand and for it to only drop by three hundred when one of two kids is gone is wrong it should go from 1600 to 800 a month
@passinmerrikan
@passinmerrikan 3 месяца назад
​@@Aarticqnhe does not give weasel, he let her move back in, she admitted that he helped with clothes and shoes in addition to the support, she clearly did not need to bring him to court in order for him to provide for his kids, I would fight to get it lowered as well if I know I am supporting my children, you do not want to get stuck with an amount that is potentially unsustainable...
@sarap5646
@sarap5646 2 месяца назад
In this case, I would have advised him to get an attorney represent him and get a lot of this nickel and dimming him. This is truly unfortunate.
@capecodero
@capecodero 4 месяца назад
the state is their to represent the mother and that is it. he should have hired a lawyer.
@173rdA
@173rdA 4 месяца назад
And they only do that because they know that the state gets a cut of the child support
@tvp1571
@tvp1571 4 месяца назад
Actually, the state is not there to represent the mother. But this is how it ends up being since the system is designed to rape men and reward women for being promiscuous. There are a few good AGs and judges that are actually fare and treat them equally . The AG in this case should have listened to what dad said about the perdiun, it's like saying a business owner that has 10milion in receiving but negative profits And saying he made 10m.
@neilcampbell2222
@neilcampbell2222 4 месяца назад
And accountant.
@zacharrywilliams7746
@zacharrywilliams7746 4 месяца назад
@@neilcampbell2222seriously. His math doesn’t make any sense
@milmex317th
@milmex317th 4 месяца назад
Why should she get a lawyer and he have to hire a lawyer? Because it's the state of Texas who is going to benefit with the block grants from the federal government for their bonuses. It's a corrupt system
@TheThriftMomma
@TheThriftMomma 4 месяца назад
This dad needs to get a lawyer ASAP! Smh the state gets money by child support thats why the push so hard for & screw these dads over left & right.
@jameskirkland1978
@jameskirkland1978 3 месяца назад
the only inquiries concerning the father are about his income...men, be careful!!...you cannot expect any fair treatment in family court...meanwhile, there's almost no mention of the mother's income or expenditures.
@ajadkins1555
@ajadkins1555 12 дней назад
This is so sad. So sad. I can't believe this. That is crazy!
@darleneww3670
@darleneww3670 4 месяца назад
Court doesn't care what mom does with the child support - Once a specific type of woman becomes a mother, she and the child become dependants of bio dad for 18 years….😅😅😅😅
@ddclights
@ddclights 2 месяца назад
I never understood why gross is taken into account. That's not accurate sure i made that but after taxes county health etc that's not what you can spend. Its stupid
@jakiic23
@jakiic23 4 месяца назад
His numbers don't make much sense here and it might just be the emotion in his pleadings confusng things. Also if you are working 20 to 30 hours of overtime and only making 66k, you need a new job.
@angelasheets1500
@angelasheets1500 4 месяца назад
The more they make the more the government takes. My husband makes about 7,000 a month but only brings home a lil over 4,000 a month.
@pointyball2916
@pointyball2916 4 месяца назад
@@angelasheets1500yup, taxes are a bitch when you make more money. I get taxed almost $900
@Just_Murray
@Just_Murray 4 месяца назад
Exactly! He was trying to mansplain his way into a lower income bracket. Can't count a $30k bonus because blah blah blah 🙄 He is absolutely trying to make it seem as if he makes half what he actually makes.
@eddieknight9234
@eddieknight9234 Месяц назад
This guy is completely unprepared .....he is a fool for not getting a lawyer...guys like this kinda deserve what they get for making that choice
@buckcolvin
@buckcolvin 4 месяца назад
Damn does the Judge got a problem with him. Look at the clear switch in disposition while speaking to him then her. He was fcked from the begining. For somebody who doesnt work to say i dont know how he can afford a house..then ask for more is crazy..she dont pay anything at the new dudes house.
@curlybeautyblogger
@curlybeautyblogger 3 месяца назад
It's standard for this judge. Always on the woman's side. It's disgusting!
@juliexx1980
@juliexx1980 Месяц назад
As a mum I agree this is disgusting..how is he able to live and I bet he also is expected to help with stuff…me an my ex had 5 kids and I only took 135 a month from him as I didn’t want him to struggle ..he appreciated that so much and was able to do things with them and treat them..we never had an order we did it between ourselves ..I had a new partner whereas he was single and had he had to pay all of that he wouldn’t be able to survive ..
@Texas500
@Texas500 4 месяца назад
She was never worth your seed. U should a known the first time. When she didn't let you claim your own kids on taxes, when she didn't even work, lol. U couldn't see the greed then? I bet you see it now
@jolenedehart4315
@jolenedehart4315 3 месяца назад
They sure want to drain every dollar.
@warthogA10
@warthogA10 3 месяца назад
Every parent receiving child support should be audited yearly to show where the child support money is going.. because none if it is theirs, it is for the children, the custodial parent is in receivership and has fiduciary obligations/responsibilities. They cannot be using any of that money for their personal use/needs/wants.
@oldtexan4557
@oldtexan4557 4 месяца назад
"When you TIMES that...." should say, When you "MULTIPLY" that
@ygbodybuilder3023
@ygbodybuilder3023 3 месяца назад
Grammer police
@dopefpv389
@dopefpv389 3 месяца назад
Never understand why the AG represents the mom the dad is stuck no help .everyone trying get as much outta him as possible hoping he gets confused and just get him to agree some bull .and hes stuck paying .iv bin watching alot of these and they are definitely biased against the dad .
@freeisalwaysme
@freeisalwaysme Месяц назад
Ag represent the parent whose the children are with. doesn't matter man or woman
@lindahottenstein5703
@lindahottenstein5703 4 месяца назад
$62000.00 is correct as to fathers gross!!
@wa2459
@wa2459 4 месяца назад
Dad doesn't understand it goes on Gross and not Net. Includes overtime and bonus
@JayReevesCLT
@JayReevesCLT 4 месяца назад
reimbursements arent 'income' or bonus, its personal money he spent
@ChadChadoChad
@ChadChadoChad 3 месяца назад
I don’t believe you know what you’re talking about listen to case and learn 😢
@ygbodybuilder3023
@ygbodybuilder3023 3 месяца назад
Did I hear correctly that the child support order is calculated after all taxes are taken out? So does that mean the more taxes you pay the less you pay in child support
@warthogA10
@warthogA10 3 месяца назад
Kinda funny how it's based off gross income 🤔 Should be based off net income after taxes and withholdings..
@tiffanysowards7787
@tiffanysowards7787 4 месяца назад
Per diem isn't even taxable, so it should not be included as income. However, overtime and bonuses should be. Granted, they aren't a given, it's calculated on what you did make and not what you're going to make. I'm confused as to how they're referencing child support from 2018 when they were together until 2022. Can anyone cleqr that up for me?
@oliverwhite30
@oliverwhite30 3 месяца назад
These video are the best lessons for men seeking marriage. Get bled dry. Pay ONLY the ordered amount. Everything else is a gift.
@dancewithml
@dancewithml 4 месяца назад
Poor guy. He doesn't understand that they are purposely looking at the gross because it justifies them screwing him over if they don't consider the taxes, ss, isurance payment, etc. They basically are jumping on the pay line next to uncle sam to make sure they get thier cut and he gets the leftovers rather than reversing the equation.
@Angelo80907
@Angelo80907 19 дней назад
“Im not here to take him for everything his got!” That’s exactly what she’s there for. These two are meant for each other they should just get back together 😂
@uniquelybeautifuljourney7261
@uniquelybeautifuljourney7261 3 месяца назад
Fathers fight for custody of your kids fight fight fight lawyer up this is insanity
@richardcooney7789
@richardcooney7789 4 месяца назад
Pay an accountant to go over this with all the invoices and deductions .
@christhompson3096
@christhompson3096 3 месяца назад
This dude is a trucker. Many trucker benefits are decent but everyone else takes truckers to town for anything they can get and it traps us in an industry that we might not wanna be in.
@srosegold
@srosegold 4 месяца назад
The AAG is annoying, mixing up numbers and talking slow
@inmyopinion_talk
@inmyopinion_talk 4 месяца назад
Horribly annoying.
@glitterfluff2193
@glitterfluff2193 4 месяца назад
Some people don’t understand per-diem. It is *not real money in your hand. * That money is for lodging, travel and food when working out of your normal area. That. Is. Not. Real. Money. It is money he was forced to spend to survive away from his home. He is either provided a flat rate daily for his hotel, vehicle and food and he has to stay below that amount or they do actual and he has to turn in actual receipts or money *he* spent. They will pay you that money back. He needs a damn lawyer when the AAG office doesn’t even understand what per-diem truly is. Get. A. Lawyer. Why the hell does she think he owes her anything when he supported her ass and the kids fully even when she claimed the kids. He should only owe going forward. Wouldn’t be surprised if she shows up having another kid soon with the new mc-mansion-man.
@letsplaypeytonparker1822
@letsplaypeytonparker1822 4 месяца назад
When I got per diem I got a flat amount per day. $325 per day for hotel, gas, and food. However if I got a good deal on hotel and ate in the hotel and not at restaurants I banked the rest. I didnt have to turn in receipts. I was keeping an extra $800 to $900 a week. Not sure if his company requires him to turn in receipts or not but that sure does confuse child support. Because on one had it shouldn't be counted for reimbursement but on the other if the person is making an extra $3000 or $4000 a month that would make a big difference
@Yonisaj12
@Yonisaj12 3 месяца назад
These capital letters make the text illegible.
@chuckdiseal6008
@chuckdiseal6008 4 месяца назад
30,000$ bonus wtf are you complaining about 700 a month 😂😂😂
@gorgeousfreeman1318
@gorgeousfreeman1318 4 месяца назад
if it's not going to my kids, she shouldn't have it
@freeisalwaysme
@freeisalwaysme Месяц назад
​@@gorgeousfreeman1318whatever he doesn't even have to pay medical. That 700 is a win.
@gorgeousfreeman1318
@gorgeousfreeman1318 Месяц назад
@freeisalwaysme That's still 700 for something that's not going to what it's supposed to be. In any other circumstance, that's fraud. You don't always get a bonus, 700 dollars a month is half the average monthly rent.
@catrinabrooks968
@catrinabrooks968 23 дня назад
Feel really bad for this man! Incompetence of the court not understanding what reimbursement means. I hope he sends his W2 so a correction could be made. Hate seeing what happens to good men. Isn't there an attorney that can do pro Bono? Help this guy out.
@Gary-s2p
@Gary-s2p Месяц назад
Yep she don't want to bleed you dry! She'll leave just enough to live in a tent or your car!!
@45-308
@45-308 3 месяца назад
Nobody seems to know his income. They need a w-2 or equivalent tax record. Why would the proceed without the pertinent information. The AG seems clueless as to what some of the terms indicate. Or is choosing to ignore things that would help the father. Also i wouldn't count on the company to be taxing / deducting things correctly. He needs outside help. Someone looking iut for his interests. The judge seems to make an effort but then made a decision without a clear understanding of his income.
@freeisalwaysme
@freeisalwaysme Месяц назад
That's what he submitted. If there is confusion. It's for him to correct
@45-308
@45-308 Месяц назад
@@freeisalwaysme I looks as though he brought the income statements and explained them to the person representing the the state. The state doesn't seem to understand things like per diem and reimbursable expenses. Or is choosing to ignore them. Someone who's professional responsibility is to assess income should understand such documents and terms. Ultimately he needs representation as clearly the state is not interested in an accurate accounting of his income.
@buttercup7289
@buttercup7289 4 месяца назад
Mom is greedy. Dad is not responsible for 100% of the financial part in raising the kids. I dont care how much money the new spouse makes, both parents should have to work legit jobs if they want child support. I wish 50/50 was mandatory from the start with no support. Unless one parent is not suitable for that, which would have to be proven. Then support to be ordered.
@jayburris6252
@jayburris6252 2 месяца назад
The income of the father should not matter whatsoever. A fair number should be found for how much it will cost in a certain area to raise a child. Each parent is responsible for half of that. It’s crazy and sexist that a father is somehow more responsible than the mother for the monetary support of children.
@freeisalwaysme
@freeisalwaysme Месяц назад
That's what they do. In his case the kids live with her 80% of the time. It's on him to pay more.
@jayburris6252
@jayburris6252 Месяц назад
@@freeisalwaysme Why? The mother should work harder and earn more. Its very sexist to think that a man should pay more because he is a man.
@R.C.Eidson
@R.C.Eidson 2 месяца назад
He just gave that big speech and they don't give a shit. None of those are women care about his livelihood
@ednamarlowe1527
@ednamarlowe1527 2 дня назад
Didn't take mom long to find another man to drain.
@marywesling8059
@marywesling8059 3 месяца назад
I believe that health and insurance should be split in halve. Men are getting a shaft by paying for anything. Women should work also too.
@dawnharper632
@dawnharper632 2 месяца назад
She want to be paid for having children. She should of told him that befor they had children together. Child support is good but it shouldn't be they to break a father or mother.
@theperfectgathering
@theperfectgathering 2 месяца назад
Did you notice that the mother only mentions a college fund for the younger son who is still in daycare? Yeah, that sounds like a mommy dipping into it whenever she wants fund to me. I absolutely think that mother's deserve support, but they should also have to submit expenses and actual spending records to the courts.
@Omar-m9k7p
@Omar-m9k7p Месяц назад
An accounting record should be kept for the children.
@michellepollard3591
@michellepollard3591 4 месяца назад
Get yourself a good lawyer young man, your need to cover yourself and your childrens back.
@jrrizz0563
@jrrizz0563 3 месяца назад
It's hilarious how judges never take dads feelings into the mix when calculating numbers but will listen to women vent all day long and make rulings based on that. Don't get married my dudes, or atleast get a prenup (make sure to get a notary).
@gsheac
@gsheac 2 месяца назад
I would be asking for paternity tests
@DetroitDon25
@DetroitDon25 4 месяца назад
I didn't like how this MAN was treated at all. That chicken head AAR came out the door belittle dude. You saw the PAIN N HIS EYE how they begin bouncing on him for being a man and paying bills. The court system is F'UP!!!
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