I love the fact that, even though you didn’t personally want to become a mother, you were taking on the responsibility as a mother, and taking care of your niece, until everything is sorted out, that speaks volumes about your character, as well as show how pure your heart is
I really admire you. You didn't want kids but without hesitation you took in your niece. I think this is going to work out great because it seems that you already have a bond.
Ayana that's real noble of you taking your niece in. And you got this parenting thing down to me. I love how you consider your other half feelings. Your niece seems cool to me. & she's 17 I'm pretty sure she can cook something every now and again.
I GET IT FAMILY STICKS TOGETHER IN TOUGH & ROUGH TIMES. I LOVE THE FACT THAT YOU STEPPED UP & OPENED Y'ALLS DOOR TO A TEENAGER THAT'S A GIRL SO A HOUSEHOLD OF FEMALES BLESS YOU & AMMY HEART. I PRAY THAT SHE DO RIGHT . I KNOW THAT SHE JUST GOT THERE BUT THIS IS THE 1ST VIDEO OF YOUR I STUMBLED ACROSS HAVEN'T BEEN ON HERE IN SOME WKS NOW. KEEPING Y'ALL IN PRAYER SENDING BLESSINGS FOR A SMOOTH TRANSITION
I did this with my niece when she got put out as well because were only 4 years apart and she will definitely always remain you helped her ❤️.. in the words of kris Jenner youre doing amazing sweetie 🥰
It was great for your mom to give you money to help out with groceries for your niece! I’m proud of you for jumping in and being auntie mommy. I don’t mean to be intrusive but I was wondering why your parents didn’t choose to take your niece in? Either way! Wishing you all the best ❤
@@ayanafiteI wanted to be a flight attendant at a stage in my life, I was like no,it was only because of movies I've watched and it looked fun to me lol.
Lil sis I've always admired you from way back when you first came on the show. God will bless 🙏🏽 you and Amy for having beautiful hearts for helping your niece. Your doing a great job🙌🏾.
I'm gonna dm you on instagram!! I work in Atlanta at a hair salon doing receptionist work. It's super easy and it's a luxury salon, I'm 19 but started working there when I was 17
I commend you for taking on the responsibility of another human because it can change or alter your life. You stepped up in the biggest way & for that you will continue to be blessed. I ber your niece will forever be grateful.
I love how your mom have your back my mom dont play about my kids i never have to ask her for anything she pop up at my house with diapers shes always out shopping for my kids clothes without me asking i hated all the time when i was a teenager and i talked back cause one thing my momma going to do is have my back i appreciate her sooo much
The bond and vibes seem cool so keep it up, the change of scenery and environment will do her some good. A fast food job might be a good first job or a cashier of some sort. She might be like my mom which prefers rice to pasta or like me that prefers a red sauce over a white sauce. Keep up the good job and remember not to take anything personally but keep the lines of communication open if things displease you both. Like you could ask why she didn't eat the noodles so at least you know.
Your niece looks like she’s living her best life already. If she likes RU-vid she could probably start her own RU-vid and vlog and do story times to make money in the meantime. I’m sure she’ll probably blow up quick especially with your guidance and also if you’re in some of the videos.
Ayana, 💕 I think you're really a great aunt for taking your niece in. Parenting is a day by day, step by step process. I think you'll do great. I'm glad you got her a phone and I'm glad your mom is helping out. You will know how to handle each obstacle whether good or bad when it happens. I am not a mom, but I love my nieces and nephews and I would never turn them away unless I had no other choice. I'm also glad Amy loves you enough that she is okay with giving this unexpected change in your lives a chance.😊
i’m never here for the hair tbh but you always look great! i have even clicked on a link or two and considered buying but i love the story times and vlogs! ❤❤❤
Hey,love, I know yall are going to do well, and u did right about the phone cause they way staff going now she has to have one. So I can't wait for the video of a new journey 😍 love ya ❤
You do not really need legs if you have a very steady surface. Also good luck and I see you doing well you just keep loving her and making the rules as you go.
Hey Girly, Your doing a great job as a Mom/Aunty and its nice that you have a support system as well. There is no doubt that this is a big adjustment for you and Amy (LOL i heard your mom say 'you ain't changing up my life) BUT truly you made the right choices about the phone and things of that nature. I also agree about the job, yes she needs a job for responsibility, getting own things and stuff like that but not for things she should have as a child. Everybody didn't grow up the same so when it came to giving suggestions about the job and phone ect... people can only respond to what they had to do at that age or in that situation if it happened to them; to each their own opinion But i am glad that everything is going well thus far and will continue to go well and your sister and your niece can talk and get things back to normal soon. xoxo
Shoutout to you & Amy 1st & for most 🙌🏾🫶🏾 for knowing what family is about & for!! 2nd your mom for mothering making sure y’all are ok with food necessities because teenagers can eat plus it’s just the thought & consideration 🫶🏾 3rd your Neice personality seem huge I think she should get a channel, & you can coach her on how her channel could grow & be successful like your minus the “gang signs”😂 teenage behavior lmao gurl you had me laughing at that part!! & she is lit her top 5 lit🔥🔥🔥 she on to Future too yes ma’am you sho asked all the right questions like do you knw bout “Dirty Sprite” & Pluto!!! Everything is gonna work out fine & I know she highly look up to you & appreciate you & Amy for allowing her to come. At the end of it all family is all we got & need I would rather go to hell & back with family instead of random strangers you dnt knw & just met over time. continue being great loves 🫶🏾💕💕💕💕 y’all got this 4sho!!!
For jobs, check out: local credit unions (teller positions), internships with the city (the jobs are paid), customer service for loan or car companies and childcare/daycare centers. I hope this is helpful.
You're almost at 100K👐🏽👐🏽👐🏽👐🏽👐🏽. Hopefully you make it this summer 💝. I enjoyed this vlog through and through. You're very down to earth and relatable 😊. Hello to your niece 👋🤗. She seems very sweet and happy to be in a different environment. I like that you're giving her a fresh start. Very necessary. I also like that you're considerate of Amy and not disrupting too much the house routine. That's very thoughtful. She will appreciate it even if your niece is not bothering her. -See, I told you you'd be GREAT at it. Your mom isn't having her life going upside down 😂😂😂😂. Your niece is well Love and before you know it you guys will love her company ❣️. Great vlog 💕💕💕
So we obviously gotta put y’all on sum more musiccccc😂😂😂😂 I’m from Memphis and I’m 18 … BigXthaPlug, real Boston richey, big homie g, YTB fatt listen to them … but I loveeee lil babyyy😂
Dunkin donut hire at 17 Macdonals any fast food restaraunt hire 17 yr old baby sitting if u have a ymca around they also hire daycare in summer they hire also walmart target they will hire her as a cashier 😊my daugther did all those jobs
All I can do Is commend you and this journey . But I would suggest sitting down and have a conversation about atl and how it really is and be be honest and hear her pov of things and really listen to her i think as parents we don’t listen much lol . 17 is an age we think we grown baby want to be outsideeeee lol especially from NC to ATL
My sister started working at Publix at 18 as a pt bagger and now she’s a full time pharmacy tech at 24. Publix is a great choice for young ppl to start and move up quick.
Your mom is funny. Why you cut off the good part when she was going in. 😂😂😂 She said she grown and done raised her kids y’all not about to disrupt her life.
I honestly don't think her being your maid is the main Point concerning the chores situation . RESPECTFULLY this is my opinion . She's not going to stay a teen forever . However, One day she's going to be considered an adult . It's all about teaching her responsibilities so when she experiences the real world she will be somewhat ready . For example you mentioned you only cook 2 times a month . After y'all eat I think she should clean the Kitchen . As you mentioned you are having her take the dog out , that's a start ! Having her Just sit around the house watching tv all the time while she's waiting to get a Job isn't teaching her anything & Disrespecting your Mother is a NO NO (Not Saying You're Trying to teach her anything) this is Just my Opinion & how I feel about the situation Overall .
Take her to the airport and let her work at company called prospect I work Their here in Jacksonville Florida you pushed wheelchairs get tips and also get paid every two weeks and also she get a better job with the airline once she turn 18 if she wants to but a job with prospect will be perfect
I'm going to tell you right now. It will never in life be easy to take a phone away from a teenager. I work with kids and that's the number one thing that they will not go for and will fight, argue etc.
I wanna be the first one to say I wonder if this’ll change your mind about wanting kids😂 either way very stand up aunt!! Y’all seem to have a nice bond, you got this.
