Papaya it’s definitely both. imagine having to come out to your religious irish family. the possibility of being rejected by your own family is terrifying
@@leagueconfederatecrow2916 Because they're men may be lesser man but still men. And I'm not going to say anything about the Bible. Men and women were made to be with each other it's not that complicated.
The look in her eyes when he starts crying is just so genuine and pure. Even though he hurt her, she legitimately doesn't want him to suffer and that's beautiful.
It's a beautiful scene because someone can hurt or disappoint you and still be someone you care about and want to be there for. Really, that's the film in a nutshell, isn't it? There are other examples from later in the story, but I guess it would get into spoiler territory.
I actually waited for her to comfort him by touching his head and it didn't failed me. That's the best way to comfort someone for me. Also, his acting was priceless and genuine.
Her step backwards might not have been intentional. The sidewalk slopes slightly downwards behind her, and his rush to her arms might have pushed her slightly off balance. Nice recovery, regardless.
No, because the way she always defends her mom is so heart warming in a way. She’s so kind even though her mom gave her such a rough time. Very beautiful.
So real too! I had such anger toward my mother who is so much like this one in the movie. But any time the adults around me talked negative of my mom, even as a way of showing support to me, it pissed me off 😂
My heart hurt when I watched this. My ex boyfriend also lead me on because he was gay but I continued to love and support him and now we’re closer than ever and good friends
This scene hurts. I think about all the young men and women who had to go through this, and are still going through this. It’s hard, so be kind to one another. ❤️
This is what the 2000's where. Coming out and being gay was still a crime till Lawrence v. Texas. Today, you can be fired in 24 states for being LGBTQ. Hope by 2025, things change.
I love this scene so much. Look at it: She is obviously hurt about finding out that her boyfriend is gay. She totally could've had revenge for him being a closeted gay teen in high school. but wait, what? any other mainstream comedy would have maybe gone that path just for a laugh or the feeling of empowerment. That is what's so great about this movie: as soon as she confronts him about her hurt, he opens up and practically gives his faith in her hands and asks the question: What would you do in this situation? And that movie has a lot of those really intimate moments.
Man, Jakob, I wish I had more people like you in my life to talk about this film and other films with. I'm so in the minority at work, because I watch a lot of films that my friends and peers have never even seen.
The actors in this movie did such an amazing job the emotion in this scene crashed over me like a tidal wave. Every time she says “don’t worry I won’t tell” I’m reminded of how the line delivery is so perfect and the music works so well. And the way the actress who played lady bird does body language is phenomenal, she hugs him so protectively that it squeezes my heart. God we’ve progressed in society so far in just 20 years that sometimes you forget how hard it must have been.
as someone who has experienced a similiar situation as the character danny u gotta give props to the actor. i could just feel the pain and frustration that danny felt. the idea that ppl know ur secret and it’s scary. i cried watching this scene and it’s just touching. seeing danny press his body into lady birds as she steps back is such a small movement but it really just shows how emotional it is.
Bro that moment in adolescence when you realize you’re not the main character of the world, that other people are leading other lives with other issues totally separate from yours
I like the way she talks about her mom here. I remeber one time I told my friend how my mom upsetted me over something and she lookend kinda shoked and asked me if my mom is my real mom if she treats me like that. And even I was quite mad at her that time I started to defend my her.
I was soo angry at him when I found out he was gay and was dating lady bird, but when he started to break down and cry it shook me🤧 I felt sorry for him because he have been going through this his entire life, being closeted and not having anyone to relate to or talk to like how he went to lady bird and she still ended up comforting even though she was upset and hurt, I think he felt relieved that she still comforted him and was trying to understand him, I think she put herself in his shoe. She put herself in the what if shoes🤧 and I'm really glad she supported him😔🤧💔
From the very beginning we knew that Danny was a good human being. The first time that he and Lady Bird spoke in the grocery store it was obvious that we would like him. And we all did. The brief kissing in the restroom stall was so short and yet it delivered the impact of shock that Lady Bird experiences. My only question is: why wasn't that stall locked from the inside?
I just realised he's the same character in boy erased and that they're connected. They NEED. To make the characters from lady Bird get their each story. I'm serious this could be a great movie Series.
This scene always makes me tear up. I don’t identify in lgbtq, but I remember as a teenager strongly defending gay friends at church groups and feeling for them being raised in religious homes. I got so angry at people using God to discourage gay people and gay love!
jimins forehead that’s just the message of the movie. no matter what hard things you go through with a person or hard things they put you through, you’ll always truly care about them. in love or not, she still cares about him and will lookout for him, despite what he did to her.
He was a teenager in an Irish Catholic family..... probably trying to remain in denial so he wouldn't have to come out in a very homophobic environment. I'd cut him some slack.
because she developed empathy and could understand that the tough situation and pain he was going through being a closeted gay guy in a strict Catholic family was bigger than the fleeting feelings of betrayal she had towards him. its the point of this coming-of-age story, how Lady bird grows as a person throughout it.
@@joewhitehead3 Most gays I know are bi for appearances. If they had to choose a side, we know which side it would be. I don't regard it as being deceitful to women, they're smart enough to tell the difference.
Ugh he was so selfish. If he really did like her and wasn't just using her as a beard then he should have made that clear. Instead he was talking about his own problems.
