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Will (Matt Damon) wants to know what's in his file, while Sean (Robin Williams) assures him that the abuse he suffered wasn't his fault.
In this scene: Will (Matt Damon), Sean (Robin Williams)
About Good Will Hunting:
The most brilliant mind at America’s top university isn’t a student, he’s the kid who cleans the floors. Will Hunting is a headstrong, working-class genius who is failing the lessons of life. After one too many run-ins with the law, Will’s last chance is a psychology professor, who might be the only man who can reach him. Finally forced to deal with his past, Will discovers that the only one holding him back is himself.
Starring, in alphabetical order: Ben Affleck, Casey Affleck, Matt Damon, Minnie Driver, Cole Hauser, Stellan Skarsgård, Robin Williams
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Комментарии : 8 тыс.   
@Spitsworth
@Spitsworth 7 месяцев назад
I cannot believe this movie was written by two dudes in their 20s. The dialogue is simply incredible and so wise.
@midsizesedan7620
@midsizesedan7620 2 месяца назад
Talent doesn't care about age.
@natradvicfire3102
@natradvicfire3102 2 месяца назад
​@@midsizesedan7620 yeah but wisdom typically does. Makes it all the more impressive
@Kara-Explanations
@Kara-Explanations 2 месяца назад
They probably have had experiences where they idealize this as a concept or they learnt it directly..Or are psychology enthusiasts..
@mmclaughlin056
@mmclaughlin056 2 месяца назад
Welcome to Boston in the 90s
@kevinzhang6623
@kevinzhang6623 2 месяца назад
Because they were educated at prestigious universities, not typical uneducated scum that write scripts. Age doesn't matter, what you MAKE of your years matters.
@waxbe9747
@waxbe9747 Год назад
“It’s not your fault” “Don’t fuck with me, not you” The dialog is just perfectly worded and hits home every time.
@Hamoodddddd
@Hamoodddddd Год назад
"not you" always hits hard
@808sdean
@808sdean 11 месяцев назад
Dialogue*
@jamesheath7601
@jamesheath7601 11 месяцев назад
@@808sdean ikr stupid American spelling
@samuelperdegaton4143
@samuelperdegaton4143 11 месяцев назад
Counselor help us ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@TonyLovell
@TonyLovell 10 месяцев назад
@@samuelperdegaton4143 *Couuunselllouuuuur.
@mesrobvartavarian2914
@mesrobvartavarian2914 3 месяца назад
The son without a father finds a father without a son. This film was perfect
@BipolarBowler
@BipolarBowler 15 дней назад
Well that's some good writing
@codeman9145
@codeman9145 День назад
This is amazing man
@dkoodziej2063
@dkoodziej2063 6 месяцев назад
I'm not even American, I'm Polish. My dad was forced to fight in the Soviet Army, he was a good man that was broken. He tried his best, but his life was so terrible that he became an alcoholic. When I was learning English, by some miracle, this was the first movie I saw. I went to my dad and told him exactly this: "It's not your fault". He broke down, and so did I. I owe a lot to this movie, like many people probably do. I will always love Robin for what he gave me, a poor kid from Poland.
@jesuscm1398
@jesuscm1398 Месяц назад
That's a beautiful story down there
@TonyRIKKI
@TonyRIKKI Месяц назад
Robin helped the help in this movie, what's more amazing is he ended up helping some polish guy and his dad, God bless you Robin.
@TheRealTours1
@TheRealTours1 Месяц назад
Wow..amazing story
@peternicholsonu6090
@peternicholsonu6090 Месяц назад
So many take on guilt. If we are fortunate to not be so hurt...we should reach out and listen to them. In Australia we greet "how are ya going?". Then we don't wait for an answer. Next time just ask "how are you doing?" Although you can predict what they'll say, don't give up. Invite them to open a little.. you could save a life! Or stop someone beating on their partner. Let them get it off their chest. They will absolutely love respect you for it.
@ACT0080
@ACT0080 Месяц назад
That's powerful! Thanks for sharing. I hope you and your father are doing well.
@thecrooklynite2129
@thecrooklynite2129 4 года назад
This movie shall not be touched or remade for eternity
@minddrift7152
@minddrift7152 4 года назад
Some idiot will try.
@CaptainCocaine
@CaptainCocaine 4 года назад
They should make a girl version with Leslie Jones and Ariana Grande!
@weasley2o13
@weasley2o13 4 года назад
Not possible. But now that you bring it up, imagine this scene in a play in front of a live audience, it could be a life changing experience.
@tacobellpublicspaandrespir9942
@tacobellpublicspaandrespir9942 4 года назад
@@CaptainCocaine ... No.
@marcbelo7301
@marcbelo7301 4 года назад
Disney will try, they remake everything
@Perelinix2
@Perelinix2 3 года назад
For those of you who keep coming back to this clip, it’s not your fault.
@rafaeld.villanueva1826
@rafaeld.villanueva1826 3 года назад
lol
@mohamedahmane1116
@mohamedahmane1116 3 года назад
😫😫
@Perelinix2
@Perelinix2 3 года назад
@@ToxicMrSmith it’s not your fault
@Perelinix2
@Perelinix2 3 года назад
@@DeadmanDave it’s not your fault
@Perelinix2
@Perelinix2 3 года назад
@@DeadmanDave no, it’s not your fault
@chessenthusiast
@chessenthusiast Год назад
Those were the tears of a lifetime, the sobs of a little boy desperate for the love of a father. Will found Sean. Beautiful.
@snisbet721
@snisbet721 2 месяца назад
Funny Thing Is My Name Happens To Be Sean Too
@mariamusilli2771
@mariamusilli2771 10 месяцев назад
This scene makes me cry every single time. It goes beyond the context of his abuse. I remember hearing this for the first time when I was 19 and had just lost my mom to a brutal fight with cancer, and it hit me in just the way it needed to. We blame ourselves for a lot of things, and I think a lot of us are waiting for someone to come around and let us know that it’s not our fault.
@aarons6935
@aarons6935 5 месяцев назад
Don't attention seek.
@DIRTY530BMXRACING
@DIRTY530BMXRACING 5 месяцев назад
@@aarons6935?
@ShanBojack
@ShanBojack 5 месяцев назад
​@@aarons6935? ur comment makes no sense
@DomPeriod
@DomPeriod 4 месяца назад
@@aarons6935 Your autism is showing.
@godwantsplastic
@godwantsplastic 3 месяца назад
@@ShanBojackop has never been abused and is belittling victims of abuse by pretending like losing a loved one is on par with psychological and physical abuse. If you’ve never been abused you can’t understand and you shouldn’t pretend like you do for clout. It’s cool that they want to share but a little self deprecation would go a long way.
@kevinleugan6037
@kevinleugan6037 3 года назад
He cries like someone who has wanted to cry about a lot of things but was just saving up for one big cry.
@michaelcain721
@michaelcain721 3 года назад
That was me with my girlfriend. I never show emotion in front of anyone, never cried, cause other people in the past just didn’t give a shit, so I turned into a rock. Eventually she got me to open up and I just broke down like this. Felt like a massive weight had been lifted off me. The thing with us guys is we think crying shows weakness but believe me it does your body a shitload of good if you let it all out once in a while.
@joedelsteenindergard2817
@joedelsteenindergard2817 3 года назад
Michael Cain Good to hear that bro, it is such a nice feeling to have someone that you can open up to
@GordonGarvey
@GordonGarvey 3 года назад
@@michaelcain721 you don't even know you want to cry about these things good therapists really have to see through your cold exterior and find the place that needs to be yanked out of you. For me it was very unexpected when I had to bring up how my mother reverted back to a childlike state a couple of times in her psychotic breakdown when I was a child. We just unconsciously hide the significance of these events from ourselves but they never go away and control your life insidiously.
@emiach
@emiach 3 года назад
This is exactly what it sounded like when I cried to my mom like 15 years ago, haven’t really cried since, never really cried before that. It all just came out that one time. Felt good.
@ryeguy2256
@ryeguy2256 3 года назад
A lot of guys save up their tears for one big blow, trust me I do the same thing will does when I get really upset, and Matt Damon captures this perfectly
@naomispark
@naomispark 2 года назад
I swear if Robin Williams looked at me like that I would break down crying like a child too. He has the most humane, genuine, kind eyes I've seen.
@kitm141
@kitm141 2 года назад
Same. He had a good heart, clear eyes and we are worse off without him.
@putrableeker151
@putrableeker151 2 года назад
@Korniljus Popaj sadly the concept of the kingdom of heaven can’t claim him due to the way he went, but he sure did deserve better.
@putrableeker151
@putrableeker151 2 года назад
@Korniljus Popaj it’s tough to say man, but yes. The way they found him heavily suggests that he committed suicide. Suicide is a big nono in religion that pretty much blocks entry to heaven for anyone.
@putrableeker151
@putrableeker151 2 года назад
@Korniljus Popaj heaven is purely a religious concept. I follow up on this by saying that this rule also counts for every major abrahamic religion out there. I have yet to find a religion that rewards good people, who come upon such crossroads and make the choice to end themselves.
@putrableeker151
@putrableeker151 2 года назад
@Korniljus Popaj I’d love for that to be the case, but we can only go with the scriptures if we follow what we see as god. Good people get punished for meeting shitty circumstances in their life. It is what it is and it’s fucked up, but what can you do about it? Just invent a new religion with a new god? It don’t really work like that chief…
@billybadass7718
@billybadass7718 Год назад
I remember Mrs. Howard, my 4th grade teacher told me, “it’s not your fault”, many years ago. I cried uncontrollably like a baby. Things were not great at home. I’ve never told anyone this before. Thank you Mrs Howard All these years later I still don’t believe it though. Years of anxiety and depression, I still can’t escape it.
@Julia-cm9ir
@Julia-cm9ir Год назад
Thank you for showing people they're not alone. And you are not alone too. It's not your fault. It's not your fault, I promise. Please, try to belive me. It has never been your fault.
@captainstubbing1
@captainstubbing1 3 месяца назад
Never will
@annmariefrank8803
@annmariefrank8803 3 месяца назад
it's not ur fault for u......... just as it was not my fault for me❤
@dreamsicleblues
@dreamsicleblues 3 месяца назад
I go back to that clip to hear again what I never heard. That validation is so important, and Matt Damon played it perfectly. Thanks to Mrs. Howard you weren't alone. She got you. That's really good.
@RobinPM86
@RobinPM86 Месяц назад
Maybe you don't have to escape it. Maybe, as I'm trying to learn, you can use your experience to help other people.
@BigBWolf90
@BigBWolf90 8 месяцев назад
And the follow dialog is so much needed after this scene. "This doesn't violate the doctor patient relationship does it?" "Only if you grab my ass."
@MrFarkasOfficial
@MrFarkasOfficial 5 лет назад
he cries so realistically it´s impossible not to empathize
@eddygci8
@eddygci8 4 года назад
Harom Farkas it’s cuz someone was squeezing his nuts
@daywalker3068
@daywalker3068 4 года назад
@@eddygci8 Who hurt you?
@eddygci8
@eddygci8 4 года назад
Daywalker the person squeezing my nutz
@daywalker3068
@daywalker3068 4 года назад
@@eddygci8 the ole ball and chain?
@eddygci8
@eddygci8 4 года назад
Daywalker yeah ur mom
@GhostDrummer
@GhostDrummer 3 года назад
“Hey Will...look at me son.” Will most likely never had a man call him ‘son’ like that before. The passion and love in Sean’s voice broke him.
@HipHopfan_
@HipHopfan_ 3 года назад
Its acting you dumbass
@daniellepeterson1666
@daniellepeterson1666 3 года назад
@@HipHopfan_ ok?
@cthulhu8650
@cthulhu8650 3 года назад
@@HipHopfan_ who hurt you?
@ACIDICcitric
@ACIDICcitric 3 года назад
@@HipHopfan_ it’s not your fault
@donttouchmytoesbitch2437
@donttouchmytoesbitch2437 3 года назад
@@HipHopfan_ People can choose to believe it Escapism helps
@redhotchilifan98
@redhotchilifan98 Год назад
One of the most tear inducing scenes I've ever seen Robin was a national treasure
@SmallFaerie
@SmallFaerie 11 месяцев назад
I'd say he was an international treasure even.
@RUSTA5
@RUSTA5 2 месяца назад
​@@SmallFaerieOMG yes, we love him in Russia. 😢
@andreacarroll3851
@andreacarroll3851 6 месяцев назад
I am a victim of emotional abuse. I was led to believe for so long that it was my fault. This scene always comes to mind to reassure me.
@schweenieboy
@schweenieboy 6 месяцев назад
It's Not Your Fault
@Psychedelic430
@Psychedelic430 3 месяца назад
How did this happen though? How can someone make you believe its your fault? In my mind this is no sense im sorry i dont understand. Is it because lack of self esteem?
@CiderHead
@CiderHead 3 месяца назад
Hope you find peace❤
@ZiziCPH
@ZiziCPH 3 месяца назад
@@Psychedelic430it's easy to believe and get convinced of someone who you look up to as a hero, especially when you are young and don't know better
@Psychedelic430
@Psychedelic430 3 месяца назад
@@ZiziCPH i guess it depends on the person. I never took anybody words that serious , i just didnt care at all. High levels of EQ play a huge role on this matter too.
@MikeSmith-mp7lf
@MikeSmith-mp7lf 2 года назад
Dear Mr. Williams. It's not your fault either. Sincerely, every depressed person you have made laugh. Thank you for pulling so many away from the ledge so many times.
@moonlitme
@moonlitme 2 года назад
Your comment should have 8 billion likes.
@MikeSmith-mp7lf
@MikeSmith-mp7lf 2 года назад
@@moonlitme thank you. I just wish Mr. Williams had reached out first. He is one of the few who don't show signs prior to suicide that I know of. And if he did reach out for help I hope whoever ignored the cry for help carries it on their conscience forever. Looking back I know that I did to at least 6 friends or family prior to cutting my wrist. I was young and thought it was a guaranteed thing. It wasn't. Very close. But for some reason it just wasn't my time. The hardest thing about surviving is explaining why I have a bad scar across my wrist to my kids. And the looks from strangers as they know what it symbolizes. Still depressed. But I have 2 daughters who wouldnt be here if I had succeeded.
@tiffb1300
@tiffb1300 2 года назад
@mikesmith anyone who has seen the other side of an attempt feels that pain that cant be described with any words. I too remember the final straws and desperate attempts to multiple people that went unheard or unrecognized. For me it was a slice of being glad death didn't take me and another shot to "get it right" but also a deep soul crushing knowing that in my darkest moments I will never belong to anyone who cares enough to stop me and a dash of satisfaction knowing I was right about everything. My pain is 100 percent valid, the world is a truly a fucked up place, and that there really are people in this world that have no one and I mean NO ONE. Hoping life changes my mind but 4 decades of life experience has proven otherwise.
@MikeSmith-mp7lf
@MikeSmith-mp7lf 2 года назад
@@tiffb1300 I fully understand what it feels like to be completely alone. The one thing that I can say is I know neither you or I are. We both know what it's like to go over how in our heads and wishing anyone would just tell us we matter. I may never know you, but I know you better than most and I still care about you. If anything having mental health issues means you're not alone ever. We're out here and sometimes all we have is we're not alone with our struggles.
@malbert4742
@malbert4742 2 года назад
He may have suffered from depression in his lifetime, but that’s not why he committed suicide. He had Lewy body dementia, a swift neurodegenerative disease I don’t think anyone would want to live through until the end. I’m sorry you’re suffering with depression though, hope you’re doing well.
@michikomanalang6733
@michikomanalang6733 2 года назад
He cried like a child who’d been kept from crying for a long, long time.
@AndrewSchlegel
@AndrewSchlegel 2 года назад
You learn to cry silently so no one notices
@nordinreecendo512
@nordinreecendo512 2 года назад
He cried like a man who had always felt forbidden from crying.
@hasinashraf4423
@hasinashraf4423 2 года назад
@@nordinreecendo512 yes
@awsedrftgawsedrftg1954
@awsedrftgawsedrftg1954 2 года назад
Sweet relief
@RevJamesCostello
@RevJamesCostello 2 года назад
Big boys don’t cry.
@josemercado1674
@josemercado1674 Год назад
My dad was really hard on me. He beat the living crap out of me at the drop of a dime when I was growing up. Pretty bad too. Broken arm, ribs and a cracked head to say the least. I always thought it was because I was being bad, fighting at school or doing rambunctious things. I've forgiven him and we have a great relationship nowadays. Watching this clip helped me realize I was just a fucking kid. It wasn't my fault. But I forgive him. And weirdly in some ways I thank him. I have 5 children (mostly all grown up, I'm 47) and I've never raised my hand to any of them. Sometime bad things can be used for good things. He taught me what not to do.
@cb7694
@cb7694 2 месяца назад
Must take real maturity and love to forgive him. I have nothing but love for you and hope you know you are special and loved
@KevinGroner-cq3vu
@KevinGroner-cq3vu 19 дней назад
The best teaches are the worst ones!!!!!!!
@canadianmeatpie8245
@canadianmeatpie8245 Год назад
What makes this scene great is how Matt Damon actually weeps like a child. His trauma was from his childhood and he was never held close by a parent who loved him for who he was when he was a child. Very good acting by both, this movie is a great 90s classic.
@aggada3115
@aggada3115 Год назад
The Kids been waiting his entire life for someone to tell him it wasn't his fault.
@unicornadrian1358
@unicornadrian1358 Год назад
Nah he’s heard it a million times. He’s been waiting his whole life to hear someone say it and actually mean it. Usually it’s a throwaway line that allows them to dismiss your trauma without engaging.
@koroborok2719
@koroborok2719 Год назад
Me too
@BigBri550
@BigBri550 Год назад
That's why he cried like a little child: I think they had him do that deliberately. They wanted him to produce a cry like it had been stifled, sealed, and welled up inside him by trauma since childhood. Very moving, and a very difficult emotion for Matt Damon to have tapped into.
@arigoldberger1755
@arigoldberger1755 Год назад
My thoughts exactly. He just needed permission from someone who cares about him.
@saneman7177
@saneman7177 10 месяцев назад
He was triggered into emotional catharsis because they’d spent months developing trust
@Izanagioomikami
@Izanagioomikami 2 года назад
Imagine being 24 and writing this masterpiece. Matt Damon will always be my favorite actor.
@sidp5381
@sidp5381 2 года назад
He’s Jason Bourne
@miloseviczarko45
@miloseviczarko45 2 года назад
Yes, Matt was 24 and Ben was 22 when they wrote it, but filmed it finally when Matt was 27 and Ben was 25.
@someperson9999
@someperson9999 Год назад
Maaatt Daaayyyymmoonnn
@thetwitterlectual9528
@thetwitterlectual9528 Год назад
I would also say a huge well done to Gus Van Sant for interpreting it in such an emotive way. Great directing there.
@brken_blndie
@brken_blndie Год назад
He was able to write this masterpiece at 24 , you know why? Because my boy's wicked smaht
@lynsey4224
@lynsey4224 5 месяцев назад
I always like the expression on Sean's face during the hug. He looks half sad and half happy that Will is finally letting it all out because he knows he needed to. Great movie.
@valentinodipaolo2011
@valentinodipaolo2011 6 месяцев назад
I just cried watching this. I recently had to move back into my dads house due to me losing my job in circumstances that I couldn't control and I remember now why I wanted to move out of this place so badly the constant verbal abuse and him being drunk every night I tried to do a nice thing because I had the day free and clean the whole house and as soon as he came home I was called lazy and a failure. I repeat those types of sayings my dad say to me to myself every night while I try to sleep and I often stay up for hours resenting myself. I just wanted some sort of adult figure in my life to come help me out and support me. My mother wouldn't come to my birthday but would come to my sisters ones and often spent more time to them growing up. This part of the movie just depicts what I want in life so badly, just some sort of love from somebody some sort of support I give up.
@auhsojpay777
@auhsojpay777 6 месяцев назад
Hey bro, you ain't alone in this ❤
@donniecatalano
@donniecatalano 6 месяцев назад
You are definitely not alone, and I can tell you I know now you feel because of personal, direct experience in this department.
@jampubharadwaj9374
@jampubharadwaj9374 2 месяца назад
When you smile, it's fake. When you cry, it's true. Sometimes, crying wholeheartedly is good for one's mental wellbeing. It offers a resolution, a new start if you say. If you resent yourself for whatever your past is, I have been through counseling and had the fortune of meeting a good one. It helped me where I had not stepped into it for years of having some stubborn pride, that I can overcome on my own, but couldn't. Add to that factor, that the ones who would become villains in my story were also my heroes. So, I was reluctant to speak. Today, I can talk about this as an objective truth and understood my role in it was part of a chain that I had to break. I am brave by choice today, for every single decision I make. Every single time, I beat a sucidial thought, is because I want to live. Know that even a thought of a suicide comes from the inherent instinct of wanting to cherish your own life and something in your life is preventing from cherishing that. You can break your chains as well. I am not saying counselling is the option, but it's one. Having genuine and accountable people around you can also slowly change. People who really care to listen every "dragging" (no offense, as I tend to be dragging myself) detail you might tell. Just know that some fights are meant to be fought as a species rather than an individual. So, taking help from others is not a weakness. There are many ways. I found this route. And, to find yours, and the resources you need, I wish you the best.
@johnnybowers6679
@johnnybowers6679 Месяц назад
I’m so sorry, man, it’s not your fault, your father and your mother, they are never your parents, I’m sorry for everything that happened, if I was in your shoes, I would definitely write them out of my life, and I would never see or talk to them again, f*** them and if you were my son, I would love you dearly than the one who calls himself a father, I’ll keep you in my thoughts, never forget that, okay?, love you my friend.
@LiminalLion
@LiminalLion 14 дней назад
Cut em loose. Move on. Life is better the moment you don't let them hurt you anymore. Find the people who will help support you. You can do it. I haven't spoken to my father in 15 years and I've never felt better. I will likely never speak to him again, and that's the consequence of his abuse, not anything I did.
@ahsoei9641
@ahsoei9641 7 лет назад
Such a powerful scene......A moment of silence for Robin Williams, one of the greatest actors ever lived.
@pun9291
@pun9291 7 лет назад
Ahs Oei Moment of peace in the eye of Robin Williams
@myballshurt5139
@myballshurt5139 6 лет назад
Ahs Oei "nvm I just cried"
@mikeanderson5948
@mikeanderson5948 6 лет назад
Ahs Oei god rest his soul 😢😢😢😢😔😔😔😔
@vivavaldez87
@vivavaldez87 6 лет назад
His name is Will Hunting... the clue is in the title. What on Earth are you talking about?!
@adamchewy2284
@adamchewy2284 5 лет назад
Ahs Oei, "such a powerful scene." do u work for the E channel or something ? STFU.
@hothotheat3000
@hothotheat3000 3 года назад
The saddest bit is when he says “don’t fuck with me, NOT YOU”. He likes him so much and the thought of this man laughing at him was too much to bear.
@asperwolf6003
@asperwolf6003 2 года назад
Can’t believe I didn’t hear him say it until you mentioned it.
@danjin2886
@danjin2886 2 года назад
Thats crazy, I always thought he said "I'm not you" instead of "not you"
@lucygibson7120
@lucygibson7120 2 года назад
@@danjin2886 that’s equally heartbreaking tho bc he always felt like he had to hide his past, especially from skylar
@corelltemple2939
@corelltemple2939 2 года назад
I wouldn’t even say it was Sean’s potentially laughing at him- this was more so Will getting close to Sean and seeing Sean as a father figure, and Will didn’t want to get close to Sean because everyone he gets close to or opens up to- inevitably lets him down. Will deals with people from a distance to protect his heart and emotions. Getting close to Sean and pouring out that emotion was an obvious risk because Will would get attached to Sean, and Sean could just abandon Will like everyone else or his father did. Hence “Not YOU”. He literally felt Sean getting closer to him.
@nickbelane83
@nickbelane83 2 года назад
in my opinion that "not you" is the key line of the whole movie
@solodolo9176
@solodolo9176 7 месяцев назад
Bro both these guys put on a masterclass here, it’s so raw it doesn’t feel like acting. When Robin says “look at me son.” I got chills. & Matt’s face how he tries to brush it off as if it’s not a big deal. Wow. Incredible.
@andrewdavis8137
@andrewdavis8137 4 месяца назад
That hug. That vulnerability. Subdued and contained. For all those years. Released. And in a moment. A comfort. An ending. A closure. Of sorts. A step towards positivity. Towards moving beyond.
@wallymarcel1
@wallymarcel1 6 лет назад
Good luck finding a therapist this good.
@cheothegeo2742
@cheothegeo2742 5 лет назад
wallymarcel1 ‘cause 99% of them are fucking hacks.
@bigdonut001
@bigdonut001 5 лет назад
Id pay extra
@myopinion3229
@myopinion3229 5 лет назад
I agree
@tysonmaceachern9673
@tysonmaceachern9673 5 лет назад
the good ones are out there. trust me its the reason why im still alive to this day
@bramvanleeuwen6898
@bramvanleeuwen6898 5 лет назад
@@laxale I understand what you're saying. Find a therapist that has what you are looking for. If you are looking to stop suffering, look for a therapist/coach/counselor that is genuinely happy, because a person can only give away what they have inside. Your current therapist probably pushes you to think about your pain more, but that's not where the solution is. I'd be glad to talk a bit more about this with you if you'd like to. I hope the best for you
@siiiiiuu7
@siiiiiuu7 Год назад
This scene is so important because a lot of people scoff when someone says that their abuse isn't their fault, like "yeah, I know it's not my fault", but then they realize that they've subconsciously been placing the blame on themselves. Sometimes, we have toxic thoughts that we don't even realize are occupying our minds.
@theunicornbay4286
@theunicornbay4286 Год назад
It's not your fault, it's mine
@jasperhalsey8574
@jasperhalsey8574 Год назад
this
@hauntedbylight
@hauntedbylight Год назад
Exactly. On surface level it’s “yea I know my abusers were shit” but then it sets in that “I was just a kid, I didn’t do anything”. Such a powerful scene
@BigBri550
@BigBri550 Год назад
@@hauntedbylight To my mind, it is even more fundamental. Will's inner child had learned to seal up any true feelings. Deeply hurt feelings are probably the most painful, lasting part about surviving abuse. You learn to stop feeling as much as possible just to survive the psychological turmoil and confusion. In this scene, Will finally let those hurt feelings out, and that is why his sobs were that of a little child. So powerfully moving.
@richiedeans4542
@richiedeans4542 11 месяцев назад
Well said man.
@alpacachino3647
@alpacachino3647 5 месяцев назад
What really sells this for me is the fact that both Williams and Damon manage to convey the akwardsness or clumsiness that is often there when you take a risk and dare to breach relationel borders we all put up to get closer to another human. Look at Williams when he first decides to tell that "all of that shit" in his journal is not his fault. He's not over confident and super smooth. He's nervous. He knows that he is takikg a chance here, and it's all conveyed with a sublime sublety in his voice and eyes. Meanwhile, Damon is doing an excellent job playing the boy who's still very much using defensive mechanisms to ward off attempts at talking about him. I'm a psychologist and a trained therapist, and this is the most accurate portrayal of situations like this I have ever seen.
@joaoluizfonseca6914
@joaoluizfonseca6914 Год назад
There's a reason Matt was nominated for an Oscar for this role. And there's a reason why he's considered to have one of the most amazing and realistic cries in Hollywood. The way he's so authentic, and just good...
@darrelwilson
@darrelwilson 3 года назад
I forgot they were acting
@lolosaith8512
@lolosaith8512 3 года назад
They weren't
@neilgibson41
@neilgibson41 3 года назад
Darrel Wilson everything about this film is genius. Full. Stop.
@metal87power
@metal87power 3 года назад
Honestly, I felt Diamond's cry was still acting. He was trying, but still acting.
@pugzi101
@pugzi101 3 года назад
@@metal87power Bro he was crying with all his heart out. This was actually the best part of this scene. Very hard to pull for any actors.
@HipHopfan_
@HipHopfan_ 3 года назад
Bullshit
@LifeGaveMeSourLemons
@LifeGaveMeSourLemons 4 года назад
Everytime he says "it's not your fault," it feels like he is breaking the walls that Will put up. Hence, why Will has a different reaction everytime he repeats it.
@fmr3944
@fmr3944 4 года назад
nice observation
@LifeGaveMeSourLemons
@LifeGaveMeSourLemons 4 года назад
@@fmr3944 Thanks.
@horsejumperoflove
@horsejumperoflove 4 года назад
Thought this too
@johnnyflorence219
@johnnyflorence219 4 года назад
Everytime his face, great acting.
@DrMic2112
@DrMic2112 3 года назад
Exactly
@Shane-un8pe
@Shane-un8pe 2 месяца назад
The way Will stares at the folder as he recalls all the traumas. Sean realizes he finally has a moment to take down Will's guard, so he puts the folder down, squares up with Will, and plants his feet. He's ready for whatever emotions he's about to force Will to confront.
@corbett1970
@corbett1970 6 месяцев назад
I love this scene. Robin, you absolutely deserved the academy award for this. Matt, you are no slouch either.
@huesosdeperro3081
@huesosdeperro3081 2 года назад
When Robin Williams said "it's not your fault." I've really felt it, after being abused as teenager this scene speaks volumes to me. Miss you Robin. You were a great human being.
@jonathanmolina1428
@jonathanmolina1428 2 года назад
You only knew him as an actor.
@hel2727
@hel2727 2 года назад
@@jonathanmolina1428 and you must know someone personally to feel sad about them not being alive anymore? if that's a rule, where's it written?
@animeasmey2
@animeasmey2 2 года назад
me too, i also experience childhood trauma and i cannot begin to explain how this movie made me cry during this scene for the first time... in that moment this movie was top 3
@jedsteelwell2354
@jedsteelwell2354 2 года назад
Me and my mom both got abused by a piece of shit when I was a kid! We ended up leaving and that guy went on to kill a woman! He's rotting in jail now! It's not your fault indeed.
@andrewnaugle
@andrewnaugle Год назад
I’m pretty sure that’s why most of us are here. I’m not glad it happened, but glad we’re not alone.
@thevelointhevale1132
@thevelointhevale1132 4 года назад
And there are the millions of kids who never had this moment and had to go it alone ...
@seal9454
@seal9454 4 года назад
Which leads to suicide. Life can be really devastating for some people. We could all use a bit of support.
@thevelointhevale1132
@thevelointhevale1132 4 года назад
@@seal9454 Not always, many people self manage and over time are able to realign and distance themselves from the damage.
@TheJedimaster6788
@TheJedimaster6788 3 года назад
im pretty sure that's why i dont want a relationship or anything. but w/e
@dragoninthewest1
@dragoninthewest1 3 года назад
@@seal9454 can lead to suicide. It also leads to substance abuse to muffle the nightmares.
@suesmith3744
@suesmith3744 3 года назад
Oh yes , God Bless every one of ‘em ..
@ShadowedAgony
@ShadowedAgony Год назад
I always cry when he says “Don’t fuck with me Sean, not you.” He is about to be the most vulnerable and honest he’s ever been in his life and he is so afraid of being betrayed.
@leex648
@leex648 7 месяцев назад
First we blame others, Then we blame ourself, Then we learn to blame no-one at all
@michaelz1757
@michaelz1757 7 месяцев назад
From your lips to god’s ears ❤️
@naomispark
@naomispark 2 года назад
They both deserved awards for their acting in this scene. Nothing overdone, no pretense, no exaggeration, just genuine, vulnerable, raw, human emotions.
@thomasconnearney4849
@thomasconnearney4849 2 года назад
Ben affleck and Matt damon wrote this scene themselves and they were just kids robin williams was given one line to say and everything else was improvised by him and that line was “I got to send this to the courts”
@lonelystoner8594
@lonelystoner8594 2 года назад
U
@lonelystoner8594
@lonelystoner8594 2 года назад
Y
@radithan
@radithan 2 года назад
@Naomi Walker Jumanji, Mr Williams love dialogue. Search it , watch it and thank me later
@turtletank4784
@turtletank4784 Год назад
@@thomasconnearney4849 That's not true most of this scene was in the script
@blackout2189
@blackout2189 Год назад
The brilliance of this writing. Sean not hanging "it's not your fault" on a single beat. To know abuse, know the damage it does, and know that abuse victims have subconsciously put a wall up to that phrase when used in passing. Use it as a pick to chisel the wall away and get to Will. Damon and Affleck knowing this topic enough to know how real this has to be. It's music, how they formed this scene.
@zenpuppy2627
@zenpuppy2627 Год назад
Don't forget Robin Willaims giving the most realistic compassionate portrayal of a Therapist
@michaelyoon9355
@michaelyoon9355 Год назад
I thought Robin Williams was so perfect as the therapist.
@kata3492
@kata3492 Год назад
"It's not your fault" when I told the first person ever in my entire life, nearly 40 years of not saying anything to anyone about it, was exactly what broke that wall down for me, just as you stated. That person set me free by saying it in a way that I somehow finally "heard" it. That person saved my soul. My life. They opened up a door for me and helped me walk through it. I was finally seen. I was finally heard. I could finally begin to break free. I agree. This was artfully written, and Robin Williams (Sean) played that character in the most brilliant, truthful way.
@Spitsworth
@Spitsworth 7 месяцев назад
It's amazing that they wrote this in their 20s. They were very wise beyond their years.
@christhefiend
@christhefiend 7 месяцев назад
@@SpitsworthThere are a lot of people who do amazing things in their 20s. You know Attack On Titan. The writer, Hajime Isayama, was only 23 when it started serialization.
@TimCollect
@TimCollect 8 месяцев назад
2 incredible actors. Just perfection in this scene.
@autumnbrees5573
@autumnbrees5573 2 месяца назад
That little cry before he lets it out is so realistic. Very well done acting
@caleblim6890
@caleblim6890 3 года назад
Hard to believe Damon and Affleck wrote this scene. Really mature and hard-hitting dialogue.
@shawncicalese4094
@shawncicalese4094 2 года назад
Kevin Smith DIRECTED
@der_black_barongaming8158
@der_black_barongaming8158 2 года назад
@@shawncicalese4094 they wrote it.
@BlotRorschach
@BlotRorschach 2 года назад
@@shawncicalese4094 Gus van Sant directed, genius.
@Ratchet2431
@Ratchet2431 2 года назад
I was going to tell you that William Goldman helped with the writing but I just found out he denied it in his book.
@Luminaring
@Luminaring 2 года назад
The premise was someone else's...
@LordSos91
@LordSos91 4 года назад
so many men need a man like this in their life
@bmillerdrums
@bmillerdrums 4 года назад
LordSos91 Amen to that
@verzeda
@verzeda 4 года назад
and so many men dont and will commit suicide because of the lack of one.
@caponekingpinking9917
@caponekingpinking9917 4 года назад
Yes
@testpattern23
@testpattern23 4 года назад
you mean ones that kill themselves? Robin was many things...great comedian...great actor...great help to our soldiers over in the field. What he wasn't good at was showing his own pain and asking for help. He was great at a lot of things, living wasn't one of them and I get it...but he could have used his disease as a speaking platform to raise awareness instead of hanging himself in a closet.
@tayayub8453
@tayayub8453 4 года назад
LordSos91 I'm a woman, but yh, I agree and god, hope if need be, that they find them.
@tylerbutterfras3421
@tylerbutterfras3421 7 месяцев назад
Will finally had someone who genuinely cared about him and his feelings. Someone who didn’t just give up on him but reassured over and over again even when Will was harsh. This overall premise of this movie is beautiful. You can be all sorts of things, smart, funny, athletic, beautiful etc. but if you’re not a understanding and empathetic person, what good does everything else bring?
@audreyprovo8143
@audreyprovo8143 7 месяцев назад
A teacher of mine introduced me to this movie and it immediately took a place in my heart. Anyone who isn’t sure if they’d like this movie should watch it regardless. It’s heartbreaking and healing at the same time
@asresbenayalew3092
@asresbenayalew3092 4 года назад
I wish Robin Williams had a therapist as good as himself in this movie in real life.
@mikemcgrath6150
@mikemcgrath6150 4 года назад
He didn't kill himself bc he was mentally weak. He had an incurable brain disease which would leave him in a terrible vegetative state. Know what ur saying before u speak of someone.
@asresbenayalew3092
@asresbenayalew3092 4 года назад
@@mikemcgrath6150 Thanks for the correction. But didn't he also have a serious depression?
@mikemcgrath6150
@mikemcgrath6150 4 года назад
@@asresbenayalew3092 maybe as much as anyone, I dont know, but he ended his life bc of this disease and what was facing him bc of it.
@niabourdain7921
@niabourdain7921 4 года назад
Yeah correct because everyone needs their own therapist. The close people that can motivate and be with him. Sometimes we cant really understand ourselves ,only Allah understand us completely. That's why if we have any troubles or any great things in our life, come back to HIM. People keep ignoring this part of me time with your Creator. As a slave to your God, Monolog and talk to HIM. Allah knows u very well. and then , as a human.. you have to talk to another human to express your feelings and to feel accepted by other human. It is what we call as self love. ❤
@ZipperDeDoDaa
@ZipperDeDoDaa 4 года назад
@Fizza T He still had severe depression, it was the reason he turned to comedy - he wanted to make other people happy so they didn't have to experience what he was experiencing. I don't know if he had depression towards the end of his life but he surely deserved a good therapist if it could have helped him out of it despite how it all ended.
@dahlia3796
@dahlia3796 3 года назад
"You don't know about real loss, 'cause it only occurs when you've loved something more than you've loved yourself" -Robin Williams
@AbrahamLincoln4
@AbrahamLincoln4 3 года назад
r.i.p Robin Williams
@Jaydogg222
@Jaydogg222 3 года назад
Well actually more like -Matt Damon & Ben Affleck but close enough I guess...
@PrimalElf
@PrimalElf Год назад
One of the greatest movies of all time Thank you Robin Williams Rest in peace Thank you Matt Damon and Ben Affleck Rise and Shine
@dudoklasovity2093
@dudoklasovity2093 8 месяцев назад
I like how after he released his emotions, he is just riding train home looking all peaceful because he has come to terms with his awful past experiences as a boy. I guess that’s why people sleep so well after crying, it’s the content peace that settles in after releasing emotional burden. Really beautiful scene👍
@batmanvsjoker7725
@batmanvsjoker7725 Год назад
I like how Will goes from more and more defensive at each “It’s not your fault” to fully embracing Sean at the last one. Why? Because right there his defensive shield just broke. I also like how real the crying sounds. If anyone ever has doubts about Matt Damon as an actor, just show them this clip right here to shut them up.
@jimthompson8947
@jimthompson8947 Год назад
Thanks but I'd already seen Deadpool 2 and eagle-eyed him..or should I say 'eagle-eared' him. Yes, Matt Bourne Will is a helluva actor and human.
@leeann8411
@leeann8411 Год назад
the sobs were insanely well done, heart wrenching jfc
@dhsjakhdsajk
@dhsjakhdsajk Год назад
even as it progresses how his facial expressions change ever so slightly but enough to pick up on, hes a brilliant actor
@johnpratt8502
@johnpratt8502 Год назад
something tells me that wasnt acting and he dealt with something similar in his own life so there was no need to fabricate anything
@IAmTheRealUsopperGoddamnit
@IAmTheRealUsopperGoddamnit 11 месяцев назад
I just watched this movie, and I got to say that scene felt extremely real.
@ericmichelsen3931
@ericmichelsen3931 2 года назад
The zoom on Sean’s Eyes, as he knows he finally got to him. He’s finally made a significant impact on this kid. What a hauntingly beautiful mixture of happiness and sadness
@davidscher1620
@davidscher1620 2 года назад
Very well put.. 👍👍
@albertoguzman8341
@albertoguzman8341 2 года назад
Thats right. When they hug and we see Sean's joyfull eyes its because he felt so proud and fulfilled with his belief that love and understanding conquers anything and anyone, regardless of how tough and hard anyone thinks they are. He was so happy he helped will and that he proved love is allways the awnser.
@drakothysnaco
@drakothysnaco Год назад
1k 🤙🏼
@browningwayne5619
@browningwayne5619 Год назад
If that doesn't brind a tear , your not human
@adam.maqavoy
@adam.maqavoy Год назад
@@browningwayne5619 Biased Opinion..
@MrJlc93
@MrJlc93 10 месяцев назад
When your world is crumbling, all you need is someone to lean on. 👍
@Sacrosanction
@Sacrosanction 9 месяцев назад
Honestly, one of the most powerful moments in cinematic history. I cry every time.
@AtypicalAdventurer
@AtypicalAdventurer Год назад
Even after being told "It's not your fault" again and again, Will still says "I'm so sorry" while breaking down crying. Absolutely heartwrenching, and reminiscent of real sufferers of abuse.
@thepower6785
@thepower6785 4 месяца назад
Nice wrench pun
@maloperverso8118
@maloperverso8118 3 месяца назад
What was Will Sorry about!?
@RustyShakleford01
@RustyShakleford01 3 месяца назад
@@maloperverso8118 Everything.
@godwantsplastic
@godwantsplastic 3 месяца назад
@@maloperverso8118abusers usually gaslight their victims. From experience, the physical stuff is easier to deal with than the emotional abuse. Most people see the pics of his bruises and they think that’s the worst part of it, it’s not, it’s not even close.
@CaptainGuntu
@CaptainGuntu 2 месяца назад
@@maloperverso8118 He still blames himself for the abuse. That's what many survivors do for a number of reasons.
@RiversPlaylist
@RiversPlaylist 6 лет назад
This is probably my favorite scene of all time. The way Matt Damon physically says no when he says "I know" is just amazing. Everytime he says "I know" he winces and looks away, becuase hes lying. Perfect acting. I tear up every time he puts his hands in face and let's out that first cry, you can hear all the pain finally escaping from the bottle of his mind.
@thenemophilist308
@thenemophilist308 5 лет назад
zerocool Precisely
@N12Gautam
@N12Gautam 5 лет назад
River Rasmussen its just a movie its not real
@luckystarpiano
@luckystarpiano 5 лет назад
Wow “Pain escaping from the bottle” what a powerful way of putting it
@AdityaPatil-xp6zm
@AdityaPatil-xp6zm 4 года назад
Matt Damon was also bullied and abused in his school days that,s why it looks that he acted here naturally
@angrysealion2259
@angrysealion2259 4 года назад
@@N12Gautam the movie is portraying something that is very real and happens every day
@MeganS1995
@MeganS1995 Год назад
This is often the kind of treatment we yearn for when we feel grief for all we have lost in our past... Warm, gentle, compassionate words and human connection.
@4nik8
@4nik8 8 месяцев назад
Humanity would be saved if we all could hug Robin Williams when our lives got rough
@music4lifesux
@music4lifesux 2 года назад
It's brilliant how the flashback of the drunk dad walking up the stairs could be Will's dad or Sean's dad. In fact in could be anyone's drunken father, the proverbial wife beater, that wounded monster, coming up that dark and dusty staircase.
@tittfestx3
@tittfestx3 2 года назад
Great catch.
@damson9470
@damson9470 2 года назад
exactly. it's put together so nicely. the viewer could think it's will's dad cus of the camera panning in on his head during the beginning. but the viewer could also think it's sean's dad cus of the fact that he started the talk about his drunk dad. fucking amazing work by the director. it creates a flair of mystery which makes YOU think about the scene, and not let it just happen.
@johnmcdaid8164
@johnmcdaid8164 2 года назад
@@zachhayes9512 The ex-wife that molested your children, the agonizing pain of fighting the uphill battle against a system the remains preferable to women even in spite of their abuse against your own flesh and blood, the realization of your own mother being so dysfunctional while figuring out the abuses you suffered as a child came from those that were supposed to be your protectors... I hear you loud and clear, and I hope in response you understand there is no gender when it comes to abuse.
@aidenjohn4937
@aidenjohn4937 2 года назад
my dad used to be an alcoholic, he’s been sober for 5 years now. I’m just so lucky that he wasn’t abusive when he drank.
@moonlitme
@moonlitme 2 года назад
with my dad, it was him walking down the hall...me hiding under the bed.
@SkilesHasFun
@SkilesHasFun 3 года назад
The realest line uttered in this this whole movie: "Fuck them, okay?"
@MrFreakazoid24
@MrFreakazoid24 3 года назад
Wise words from a man fighting his own demons
@melissahollis9033
@melissahollis9033 2 года назад
That line hits me unexpectedly every time. That had to be improv.
@tomeskdale2642
@tomeskdale2642 2 года назад
I love that line
@heywardhollis1160
@heywardhollis1160 2 года назад
@@melissahollis9033 I had completely forgotten about it until rewatching this clip. Robin knew emotions better than any actor I've seen.
@melissahollis9033
@melissahollis9033 2 года назад
@@heywardhollis1160 hey nice name!
@BipolarBowler
@BipolarBowler 12 дней назад
It's so subtle "Look at me, son" when you always know you needed a loving father
@Zbb69
@Zbb69 11 месяцев назад
This movie made me realize just how much guilt i had put onto myself. When i watched this movie i was in a complete meltdown. I truly never knew just how much i had been through. Its like this part of the movie dug up so many subconscious memories.
@Kapacs
@Kapacs 4 года назад
If Joker had Robin as his therapist Gotham wouldn't need Batman.
@Samstar369
@Samstar369 4 года назад
I got a tad confused when you said Robin, Batman’s sidekick one, not Williams
@fredererpower
@fredererpower 4 года назад
Nah, even without Joker, Gotham will still need him because of Catwoman, Bane, Two-Face, etc
@latchie8893
@latchie8893 4 года назад
Gotham always needs batman
@devmiles
@devmiles 4 года назад
Epic comment!
@juliaonoszko4662
@juliaonoszko4662 4 года назад
oh my god I THOUGHT THE SAME btw Robin and Joaquin are the best actors in the fuckin' world and nothing can ever change my mind.
@michaelmoncur7678
@michaelmoncur7678 3 года назад
Hearing him cry is the most real Hollywood acting I’ve ever seen. Bar none.
@N3c777
@N3c777 3 года назад
The only one that beats this cry is Midsommars.
@PlasmidJunkie
@PlasmidJunkie 3 года назад
You should watch First Blood
@justandardprocedure
@justandardprocedure 2 года назад
@@PlasmidJunkie agreed. Stallone gets a bum rap. He was amazing in first blood.
@rakuencallisto
@rakuencallisto 2 года назад
@@PlasmidJunkie that fucking scene DESTROYS ME. the guy who is Rambo's superior was in WW2 and had his own issues with dealing with the war afterwards. You can see it in his eyes the pain both of them feel. It's palpable.
@PlasmidJunkie
@PlasmidJunkie 2 года назад
@@rakuencallisto Yeah, it's especially heart wrenching for someone who has ptsd. Incredible scene tho
@overlex
@overlex Месяц назад
Literally the best part of the movie. Seeing walls being shattered this way
@simplegaming1326
@simplegaming1326 8 месяцев назад
This scene finally made me go see a therapist. Thank you.
@jeremydaly8293
@jeremydaly8293 4 года назад
The way he cries man. "Oh god, oh God I'm so sorry" is so goddamn realistic
@CronoXpono
@CronoXpono 4 года назад
I honest to hell think Damon literally let himself go all in on that, the way he apologizes from the deepest parts of himself. That ain’t “just acting”. Goddamn what a scene. RIP Robin, we miss you.
@rafaellima83
@rafaellima83 4 года назад
Rewatching that scene after a recent breakdown and suicide attempt, I am scared how fucking realistic it sounded indeed.
@juventusventuno9213
@juventusventuno9213 4 года назад
reminded me of the scene in Talented Mr Ripley where he kills his gay lover on the ship.
@user-xs3og8us3d
@user-xs3og8us3d 4 года назад
Das ist... da... nein!!!
@rocsto
@rocsto 4 года назад
Tony Almonte great comment
@thaddiusglunt2424
@thaddiusglunt2424 2 года назад
The saddest part about this scene is knowing that this sort of shit actually happens to kids all over the world: kids being starved, intentionally burned with boiling water, locked in unlit closets for hours on end, hit with closed fists, molested, and sometimes even mutilated... there is no limit for human cruelty, even against those who deserve it the least.
@MNAHN-T.GOF-NN
@MNAHN-T.GOF-NN 2 года назад
Not to mention the many, many forms of psychological abuse and neglect that leave no obvious wounds or scars but are still just as detrimental to your well-being.
@thaddiusglunt2424
@thaddiusglunt2424 2 года назад
@@MNAHN-T.GOF-NN Indeed.
@SightForMemories
@SightForMemories 2 года назад
Remember to allow yourselves to get angry, oftentimes people who are dealing with tyrannical fathers tend to shy away from anger and "negative" emotions. Because they feel when they are young, that they want to not be like "that".
@ayodari_style
@ayodari_style 2 года назад
Nobody more cruel than those that abuse children, the elderly, and animals.
@greggerred5949
@greggerred5949 Год назад
And yet for as far human cruelty can get, there’s no limit for human kindness. In my opinion there could be more human kindness the cruelty if we all could help and give people a chance.
@LiquidTheory
@LiquidTheory Год назад
The beautiful balance of the worst, and the best, that humanity has to offer. Delivered through an incredible performance.
@wen-chunni6467
@wen-chunni6467 7 месяцев назад
Everytime I watch this, tears flow from my eyes. I have been very fortunate to have a loving father and a loving mother. However, a lot of people in my homeland don't share the same experiences. It's never their faults...
@Rekken200
@Rekken200 3 года назад
This moment must be truly special for Matt now, all these years later...
@andrewpearce7936
@andrewpearce7936 3 года назад
Bruh, come on you can’t be that thick that you didn’t know what they meant.
@mgiantsxlvi5209
@mgiantsxlvi5209 3 года назад
@@andrewpearce7936 what? Did something happen to Matt?
@Maudluvv
@Maudluvv 3 года назад
@@mgiantsxlvi5209 ... the passing of Robin Williams maybe
@adamskobe5350
@adamskobe5350 3 года назад
@@williamjaeger9865 maybe at least remembering it
@thegreathutt
@thegreathutt 3 года назад
@@watchcitydog i‘m not sure if i‘m right but wasn‘t matt damon one of the first guys that tried to seperate himself from that monster weinstein?
@Lahgic
@Lahgic Год назад
This clip applies to much more than just parental abuse. Being bullied, rejected, led on, forgotten, ghosted, excluded. It’s not your fault. This world is broken and full of broken people who sometimes take it out on you. Even if you in no way deserve it. Keep your head high and push forward. You are worthy and not forgotten.
@stonecold5373
@stonecold5373 11 месяцев назад
This world is not broken. It may seem like that. Give some hope.
@kingmajin
@kingmajin 10 месяцев назад
i can't believe that about myself. it's always my fault because i must be doing something i don't know i'm doing because WHY do i keep getting kicked when i'm down by life and everyone? why do people i trust end up pointing guns at me and robbing me? it must be my fault. only way it makes sense to me
@mattg4836
@mattg4836 8 месяцев назад
That's because those people don't realize it's not their fault.
@salmonandsoup
@salmonandsoup 8 месяцев назад
@@kingmajin The only person you're in control of is you. THEY decide to hurt you and you grew up into a system that rewards dishonesty and cruelty-you are not at fault there. The only thing you can do is take care of yourself and try your best to move through life with grace.
@2jcward
@2jcward 8 месяцев назад
This comment needs to be pinned!!! Abuse can come from a lot of people within a lifetime and it hurts just the same. 😕
@michaeldelgado9567
@michaeldelgado9567 7 месяцев назад
I went through the same thing with my father and this scene makes me cry every time I watch it. I literally had to take my clothes off while the police took photos of my bruises and strangulation marks in front of a blue screen at the police station.
@AerophiIe
@AerophiIe 5 месяцев назад
Praying for you, man. I hope you’re doing well ❤️
@cyprest1114
@cyprest1114 Месяц назад
After years of my mom blaming me for divorcing my dad, gaslighting me, and now living with PTSD and depression as an adult, I watch this and cry one out. It was never my fault.
@kevinp665
@kevinp665 3 года назад
“Dont fuck with me, not you” after he pushes him is the saddest part of the moment. He was worried about losing his friend if Robin Willians character didn’t mean what he was saying
@gfreshski
@gfreshski 2 года назад
I also think it let us into a window to how much that character was fucked with, for a long time, by a lot of people. Maybe in particular those he was closest to or trusted. This likely happened more than we know to the character through the movie we watched. He couldn't bear the thought of this person, who has achieved a level of trust that just about no one has, possibly deceiving, or fucking with him. This scene does a lot in a little bit of time. Well done Matt and Ben. Can't stand Ben's "acting" usually but he has talent as a director, and they both did a hell of a job on this script especially when you consider they wrote it in their early 20's.
@houriaburrows1390
@houriaburrows1390 3 года назад
For each “ it’s not your fault” statement made, a barrier of numbness falls down, until the last one penetrates right through the core of the hidden pain, then explodes in tears. Pain is to be recognized, felt and processed in order to heal and move on.
@mrshadrack8554
@mrshadrack8554 3 года назад
Hey guys we got a new Socrates here But don’t worry It’s not your fault
@edmmitch
@edmmitch 2 года назад
That sounds very sophisticated yet very condescending too
@houriaburrows1390
@houriaburrows1390 2 года назад
@@mrshadrack8554 has it occurred to you that I may have experienced a similar pain?
@houriaburrows1390
@houriaburrows1390 2 года назад
@@edmmitch neither was intended.
@DeathnoteBB
@DeathnoteBB 2 года назад
@@edmmitch Not really
@SCFick318
@SCFick318 Год назад
I never got abused by my parents, but I got bullied in school, and this scene still hits for me. Not trying to equate, just throwing that out there for anyone else that might feel similarly; psycho abuse can be powerful too, it's not petty. Way too many people never got to know me before I realized all of the ice on my shoulders
@xystumpy220
@xystumpy220 Год назад
"cause fuck him, that’s why." One of my favourite movie lines ever.
@thebeginning2595
@thebeginning2595 3 года назад
This scene is my therapy. If you ended up crying from watching this there's your answer.
@averen15
@averen15 3 года назад
Frrrr
@aminaj.7032
@aminaj.7032 2 года назад
Same here
@xxCelticFC
@xxCelticFC 3 года назад
I think what really broke Will down after being repeated “it’s not your fault” so many times was when Sean the psychiatrist understood him fully and hugged him and for the first time ever Will felt like a kid with a father and felt the pure love he had missed his whole life. The love he’s been wanting since as a child.
@dawnferrer5385
@dawnferrer5385 3 года назад
dude. you made me cry harder. why would you day that?
@dawnferrer5385
@dawnferrer5385 3 года назад
dude. you made me cry harder. why would you day that?
@xxCelticFC
@xxCelticFC 3 года назад
@@dawnferrer5385 I’m sorryyyy
@TrollHunterxXx
@TrollHunterxXx 2 года назад
Word
@declangill5138
@declangill5138 2 года назад
@@dawnferrer5385 it's not tour fault
@alexandersilva381
@alexandersilva381 Год назад
I just want my dad to say his proud of me before he passes
@loststar2375
@loststar2375 Месяц назад
This is one of the most relatables scenes I've seen. I'm a "toxic marriage child", I always give all my effort on my studies and stuff so I can have both of my parents being proud of me TOGETHER, I want to have a job soon desperately (I'm 17 yo) so they don't have to worry too much about money (especially because dad doesn't have a job and mom doesn't get paid enough), sometimes I prefer to avoid some comments or personal struggles for myself so they don't have to talk about it and maybe start discussing. There may be much others guilt attitudes in myself, but those are the ones I can notice for now... The reason I see this scene so relatable it's because although I am logically aware that their marriage problems and my childhood trauma are not my fault, in my inner child and in my heart I really feel like IT IS my fault and I can't help but feel this way. Some people may don't comprehend this issue, I know, it is very hard to explain and understand, but I'm sure that a lot of others can relate, and I'm sure that those people know what I'm talking about. (Sorry if my English is bad, Spanish is my first language and I don't like using the traductor).
@MrSniperscope
@MrSniperscope 7 лет назад
funny how the smallest of words make the biggest impact
@Bee-0108
@Bee-0108 6 лет назад
Peace&Love yeah, I remember I consoled a friend after her sister passed away, I forgot it because it's secomd nature for me do that but she still remembers after 3 or 4 years
@MSDJHERO
@MSDJHERO 5 лет назад
All words are small if you compare them to the sky
@MSDJHERO
@MSDJHERO 5 лет назад
What's important is to create meaning. (See my comment above)
@julianmx13
@julianmx13 5 лет назад
I agree, the part when he says “Fuck them, okay?”
@tylerchapman3013
@tylerchapman3013 5 лет назад
There were many steps involved that led up to this scene even being possible. Once Will knew Sean had been abused like him he fully let his guard down. Sean then told him what he needed to hear so that he doesn't waste his potential like he did. Excellent movie i loved this scene
@Metin__01__
@Metin__01__ 8 лет назад
what a scene, great script and acting, deserved oscar
@TheBarber5550
@TheBarber5550 7 лет назад
Metin Karademir I think this movie got an Oscar for Best screenplay.
@RascalFascal
@RascalFascal 7 лет назад
it`s not their fault.
@s.g.7572
@s.g.7572 7 лет назад
Also, Robin Williams got an Oscar. And thank fuck for that.
@smokeylonesome4328
@smokeylonesome4328 6 лет назад
+Gio Lingad- Lost Highway or Boogie Nights deserves best picture that year. But why do I care? Why am I typing this? Why to I get out of bed in the morning?
@donnya.oryankingdonny230
@donnya.oryankingdonny230 6 лет назад
Titanic beat Good Will Hunting to the punch.
@TheSlippytongue
@TheSlippytongue Месяц назад
Will is actually a very good example of an avoidant personality type. He puts on a front of cockiness and positivity, lives in fear, represses his emotions, runs from love. And it all stems from unresolved childhood trauma. The line "I'm sorry" while he's breaking down in tears exemplifies how avoidants feel guilty when showing vulnerability.
@somassaracim
@somassaracim 10 месяцев назад
"Im so sorry" horrible that abuse victims know that line
@JH-yj7kk
@JH-yj7kk 2 года назад
I can relate to Will here as someone who is in the habit of intellectualizing my emotional pain instead of processing it. They talked about this scene on Cinema Therapy and the host said "You can understand everything there is to know about healing, and still not heal". That hit me like a ton of bricks. The things and people and situations from my youth that scarred me, I know they weren't my fault. Rationally, I know I didn't deserve to be neglected, mistreated, and hurt like I was. But the emotional wound that says "it happened because you deserved it" remains. It's an incredibly difficult disconnect to move past. This scene illustrates that human experience so beautifully and honestly.
@SirBojo4
@SirBojo4 Год назад
I never heard of it that way.
@serenaleahy-higgins3
@serenaleahy-higgins3 Год назад
ive always tried to rationalize my shit. yknow? this is whats happening this is how i can fix it. heres how i feel better. i always got frustrated why my emotions didnt follow logic. id cry randomly for no apparent reason. have no clue why then id cry more because im angry for crying. theres a reason why logic and emotion are seperate. a really annoying reason but either way. i cant purge all emotions that dont follow logic. i find myself in will shoes so many times repeatedly. "its not your fault" "i know." the unsaid part being "i know. ive heard that. im (not) fine" "its not your fault" "you said that i know why are you pushing" "its not your fault" "stop. dont fuck with me cause if i show you emotion your gonna hurt me. i cant lose you cause you hurt me. dont fuck with me" ive been there. i find myself there so often...
@naku4
@naku4 Год назад
You opened my eyes a bit wider. Thank you sir.
@dylanmehmedovic5527
@dylanmehmedovic5527 Год назад
This is one of the best breakdowns of the scene that I've come across, completely accurate imo and perfectly articulated. I'm very sorry that you can relate to Will in regards to intellectualizing. The fact that you have the cognitive ability to intellectualize and the mindfulness to be aware that you struggle with this means that you are FAR ahead of most though. Keep pushing through your struggles brother, you can and WILL break through!
@z6ppa325
@z6ppa325 Год назад
Thank you for this comment. I’m in high school. Things have gotten a lot better over the past half year or so, and I’ve tried to rationalize everything as much as I could. Something still felt like it was missing or off. I’m still not happy despite knowing I can be and that it’s over, at least for now. This comment really helped me understand that I still have healing to do and that I’m still affected by everything from the past.
@3081e
@3081e 4 года назад
The reason he's crying is twofold. He never meditated on the words "It's not your fault", and when he pushed the one person who stood by him, that person didn't go anywhere, but instead, he leaned in
@joshl90
@joshl90 4 года назад
I didn’t even realize that part about Will pushing Sean and Sean leaning in. Damn. Thank you for showing me that.
@mikerivers695
@mikerivers695 3 года назад
you mean in his growing up years there's no one able and responsible adult who will guide and understand him in becoming a man
@Man0fSteell
@Man0fSteell Год назад
my heart goes out to all who've gone through some shit during their childhood and now trying to get things back on track.. You got this Kings and Queens!
@lelemsays
@lelemsays 2 месяца назад
I was watching this movie on my cellphone while doing the dishes and by the second time he said "it's not your fault" it got my full attention and I started crying, this was so strong 💔 RIP Robin Williams
@ebob4177
@ebob4177 2 года назад
My father was a gentle person, and my mother has never been abusive, so it's not easy for me to relate to the trauma of domestic abuse, but man, did I cry like a river. And I savour every drop. Every drop. Emotions can be so beautiful.
@thurstarca4995
@thurstarca4995 Год назад
I envy you
@frappalina
@frappalina Год назад
I'm so happy for you
@peterpoli2839
@peterpoli2839 Год назад
Everyone has their trauma
@danielray6689
@danielray6689 Год назад
Ur probly an introvert u feel every1 elses pain yes can be very nice to be there for every1else but shit when
@rosehelen1757
@rosehelen1757 Год назад
My thrauma it wanst phisical but emotional
@colleenboniface2525
@colleenboniface2525 Год назад
The best acting scene I have EVER seen! Outstanding performances from Robin Williams and Matt Damon!!!
@donaldbrown2206
@donaldbrown2206 Год назад
Totally agree
@KingGhidorah5464
@KingGhidorah5464 Год назад
600th like, deserves 600 more.
@meanyomama
@meanyomama Год назад
made me tear up just watched it for the first time today
@Chief_Bill
@Chief_Bill Год назад
@@meanyomama samee
@ShinzoUchihaX
@ShinzoUchihaX Год назад
Lmao you seen like this and only this? Wow if this is the best youve seen lol
@wickedshadesproductions5254
@wickedshadesproductions5254 2 месяца назад
As someone who’s had years of therapy, crying in your first few weeks mostly means progress.
@katherinesproat1081
@katherinesproat1081 10 месяцев назад
I told my boss a story today about something bad that happened to me as a kid. Like physical/psychological abuse kinda stuff. And I got a little upset from remembering and telling the story. And he told me twice, it wasn't your fault. It's been about 13 years now and I don't think anyone has told me that until now. Reminded me of this scene and I haven't even seen this movie. Just happened to listen to this scene on an episode of cinema therapy here on RU-vid. I cried with this kid. Broke down and understood with him. It's not my fault.
@alexsosna7180
@alexsosna7180 5 лет назад
men don’t feel like they’re allowed to show their emotions so when they (we) cry we cry hard. We got feelings too
@theiran
@theiran 4 года назад
When I cry, everyone in the house can hear me. Loud, gut wrenching sobs. But oh how you feel better after...
@kilogreens3449
@kilogreens3449 4 года назад
I do my best not to cry, boi is it ruff not trying to cry
@ivag.5398
@ivag.5398 4 года назад
I wish guys would feel free too cry because it"s important to let it out, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it
@weasley2o13
@weasley2o13 4 года назад
Will you marry me Alex?
@tylerdaniels9000
@tylerdaniels9000 4 года назад
Men don't cry at least not in front of other people, cause then we'll get called a pussy or something. Me personally, I never cry since I was a kid, even when my best friend died in an accident, I just kept thinking that crying over it would change nothing, so I've always been keeping my feelings to myself, I guess just like most other men.. it's just how we are
@Haedox
@Haedox 3 года назад
this is really something that resonates with me man, i miss robin :(
@cospitch8963
@cospitch8963 3 года назад
We all miss Robin. Fan of your content btw :)
@jelegance7415
@jelegance7415 3 года назад
It gets me too. I use to pray to be adopted. But my files got thicker, We're stronger to get away.
@Daddywood2230
@Daddywood2230 3 года назад
me too. We lost him to soon.
@oliverwagunaere1697
@oliverwagunaere1697 3 года назад
@@jelegance7415 did you get adopted friend?
@aliasiskey4434
@aliasiskey4434 2 года назад
It's not your fault🤗
@sianspherica
@sianspherica 7 месяцев назад
Robin Williams performance wasn't just the best supporting acting performance of that year, it's really one of the best overall of the entire 90's. It's just staggering how well he nailed this part in every possible way. Whether is was Gus Van Sant or the cinematographer who chose to show that close up of Robin's face when Will is crying. It's just an INCREDIBLE image of the feeling that he FINALLY got through to Will.
@holden811
@holden811 4 месяца назад
I wish someone could’ve been there to say this exact thing to Mr. Williams before he left us. I don’t know what went on in his life but I know in my gut he needed to have a moment like this and it never came. RIP Robin Williams. I hope he knows how much he helped us and how much we loved him😔
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