My husband is a fashion artist and MANNNNN I feel me and the kids are second to his “vision” and “legacy building”. It’s very lonely and disheartening but I don’t want to give up 😭
I think dating an artist can appeal to women with responsible jobs, because the artist has something that other men do not: he can lift her out of the humdrum of her everyday life, he can evoke emotions that she might not otherwise feel, he can create moments of indefinable magic in her otherwise structured and pressured life.
Yes, very true! Artists might not have a very stable secure income. Dating an artist in European countries might work out better, where there are better unemployment benefits. For example in China, if someone wishes to support his/her partner, one needs to work 9am to 9pm, 6 days a week (commonly known as 996). Then there isn’t enough time to get inspired and enjoy life. Finding the person and the time to enter a relationship is truly a luxury.
I did this once and the girl ended being a sociopath...like she had tried to murder family members. She had a very upstanding job and most people wouldn't guess in a million years that this girl kept a collection of dying cockroaches under drinking glasses in her kitchen and drank heavily. Watch out creatives! sociopaths are on the loose and they will devour your soul if you let them!
I’m an artist who has spent most of my life not being an artist. I have focused on education disparities and environmental issues. Now I’m trying to return to art. I have land in Arizona to build an earth ship and be independent and sustainable enough to make whatever I want. I have a 40’ shipping container full of shop tools. I’ve been amassing tools with my spare money while other spend it on alcohol. I’m ready to find a partner and grow with. It would be nice if that person was an artist who could challenge me and not just say: “that’s cool” when I draw or create something.
Hi 👋 You should totally start a RU-vid channel or something, to show this eccentric lifestyle, journey and challenges you will encounter. It must be very cool!
@@VeryPrivateGallery It is Good ! Our life is amazing and more challenging :)) About recommendation! I do not know exactly what can I say, but as you said, economic problem can effect to everybody's life. I think LOVE is more important than who she/he is!
My dream was to always work with another artist. I do not agree that artists should seclude to themselves yet thats all I see. And for this my dream is dead. At one point in my life I sought to be real but as time moved on they only had a mask on and when they lost the "Im in control of everything" and showed me exactly what I am talking about here I feel I have no place in this world because what I am looking for does not exist.
When I started working on this project, I wanted to find or recruit someone who have received both art education and business education. I couldn’t find anyone remotely close to what I am looking for - so I went to study in a business school. I become the person I needed, so I don’t need to find another person to help me. I understand your frustrations! I think you could potentially look for someone more technical, with less artistic ambitions. Then you could develop the artistic side to “fill the gap” in your business or project. I know some local artists who work with carpenters, set designers, or other technical people to build their business together. It’s hard to work with someone who is too similar to you. Yin and Yang ☯️ are the opposite but they work well together.
@@VeryPrivateGallery Where you say the words Yin and Yang, I am looking for someone for I am Kin and I am looking for my Ko. Same thing. She dosn't have to be like me, that's boring. Just someone who understands what I am doing.
@@VeryPrivateGallery And not to sound like a sob story but the person I was with? We could draw. And the most happiest moments of my life was drawing together when she wasn't lazy. I was more ambitious on the art side of things. I get it I wont find a copy of me.
