DATING AS A FIRST BORN DAUGHTER | The Slumflower Hour podcast

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Are you a first born daughter who has been plagued by the perpetual sense of responsibility...even over the men you date?
Has your first born daughter status evolved into a saviour complex?
Do you feel like you need to be useful in order to be loved?
Dear first born daughters, this one is for us! In this episode, join Chidera as she muses and reflects on her life and upbringing as a first born daughter - and how this has actually empowered her to be stern, bold and fearless in her self-advocacy when dating men.
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@ChiddyAnn Месяц назад

There are also men on social media talking about how marrying a first born daughter is the best thing a man can do 😂 Ladies be careful some are just looking for a second mum to mummy them and take on most of the responsibilities...you deserve to be loved, relaxed and taken care of.

@heldaapiyo2264 Месяц назад

It's the no man formed against us shall prosper and I'm here for it

@PixiePollen-z2w Месяц назад

First born daughter here! This hit deep! In order to be valuable you need to be a caretaker - raised with that belief system! Very important episode.

@ana11188_ Месяц назад

this video needs 1 million views. it's necessary info.

@tinachristine4573 Месяц назад

As a first born daughter I've worked HARD to be able to just wake up whenever I want when I haven't booked in any work.

@faithsrealtalk2292 Месяц назад

I relate as FBD too

@ChiddyAnn Месяц назад

1:59 First born daughter here in a Nigerian household living in Nigeria with 3 youngee siblings 😂 I hated my childhood because of this...was already more mature than my age mates at a young age.

@Acquiredtaste33 22 дня назад

I'm LAUGHING so bad because just the other day, I was telling myself how my control issues and snappiness would make me the perfect Dom 🤣🤣🤣 I knew it was true!!! 🤣

@JJOny195 Месяц назад

As a first born and only daughter in an Igbo household....just yes!

@dnaaa99 5 дней назад

wow! its the alignment that i was brought to your platform at this very time while im committing back to myself and gaining my power back! Im 5 years apart from my brothers too! First born everything! THIS IS DEEP

@Taevictoria222 Месяц назад

you CHEWED this pod!

@chocolatesugar4434 Месяц назад

I’m just starting to think the only way to date is as a dominatrix

@hernameisch3rry Месяц назад

Ma’am. I NEEDED this.

@ZerviceNation 21 день назад

Baby girl. Baby. Gel! You are a gem. You are a fucking gem!!!!! At my big ass age, you are still teaching me. Babes. Chai. I dey hail oh!!!🙌🏿

@LS-ry5ey Месяц назад

VIP priority 1st born daughter access!!!

@xeniaberejnoi3379 Месяц назад

😂dying w/ some of the mean older Sister stories with the siblings. Resonate with this entire pod. 🥰🥰

@aliciaa.8059 3 дня назад

You basically made this episode about me for me, thank you 😭😅😘

@lisanelima9788 Месяц назад

Lots of Love from kenya🇰🇪

@faithsrealtalk2292 Месяц назад

49:47 The Holy Spirit comment 👏🏼 😂😂 got me. I know a Woman of God who has been through exactly what you described with her Husband. Dear Lord......my goodness

@GrungeGalactica Месяц назад

Thank you!

@mekaylaap Месяц назад

Are you full?!?!? You ate every single meal ever omfg

@dairybeary Месяц назад

5:25 me!

@Maria-gd4vf 27 дней назад

Us, first born daughters need to chill! I can never help a man build tho, never. I am 29 and not married, people say my standards are too high, do you guys think there might be a link with being the first born and hardship finding a good relationship?