Dating Coach Reacts to BEING UGLY: MY EXPERIENCE 

I sometimes thought i was kinda attractive, especially in college, but it didn't matter. It actually kinda backfired. If you’re open to what it's like for guys, whose problem is more than losing weight or being confident etc. n open to what really attracts women, with sources numbered 1st and shown later, read carefully: Most people find certain things in the opposite sex attractive, with LITTLE subjectivity, n rate symmetrical members of the opposite sex as more attractive AND in better health than their less symmetrical counterparts…Men with higher degrees of symmetry enjoy more sexual partners… women are choosey. (1) Women are becoming Obese at faster rates than men with more obese women around than men (2), but women rate 80-85% of men as below average looking while men rate 50% of women as attractive. (3). In the last one hundred years of research, beauty seems to be the one thing that most reliably produces the Halo Effect. It’s the most powerful 1st impression (it affects how your personality is seen/treated). (4) Studies around the world, online or not, for generations, reveal women (say) they favor personality traits like confidence/honesty more than looks but their actions show that you usually only see women with a guy less attractive then they prefer because women value money/status in a mate more than men do, but are more picky/rigid (5) and “racist” for short/long term dating compared to men. (6) Girls will get the best they can get in the following areas, usually more/less in this order of importance/objectivity: handsome, tall, fit, wealthy, high status….then her preferred race (usually white)…THEN fashion/personality can SOMEWHAT, KIND OF matter TOO. With sexist/biased affirmative action, family courts, welfare, etc. women now need men less n so are more picky on looks, resulting in more single moms, incels etc. In 2008, roughly 10% of men under age 20 reported no sex (but women had more sex). In the following decade, the % of sexless men under 30 nearly tripled but the % of sexless women barely changed even though most women downplay their sex count and men usually overstate it. (7) For every woman who’s seeking a relationship, there’s nearly 2 guys who are too. (8) Most people aren’t able/willing to rate others very accurately, and most women are overconfident in their advice on how men attract women. They can’t leap into a man’s body to understand, but even if given a pic of a man they claim isn’t unattractive, they still can't use it to attract women. (9) In addition to learning all the above from decades of experience/observing others, everywhere from K-12-University life to online apps, naturally or via experiments that me/friends did, using my instinct or people’s advice, you can verify all the above yourself by having some Arab lookin guy with a bad face/body/job approach some young “Western” girls in “REAL” life (or online) & upload the girl’s reactions, the % of girls who gave their number/flirted, if they were at least regular lookin gals who seemed sincerely attracted to him or 1 old/obese mom acting in desperation for attention or a steady provider to help babysit. P.S Please see the "WAW" (What Attracts Women) series on channel FaceandLMS for now and/or click the sub/bell icons on my channel or channel Playitalready for possible future uploads with interesting details/facts on this n other stuff. I may see your comment IF you post it on my channel or Playitalready SOURCES: (1) Biologist R. Thornhill studying faces for over 15 years, (2) CDC obesity stats, (3) OKC/Tinder ratings by gender, (4) Study by psychologists K. Dion, E. Berscheid, E. Walster, (5) Professor M. Fugère’s study, (6) Standford study, (7) Data reported by Washington Post (8) PEW research (9) “Tinder Experiment: 18 Yr Old Woman Tries Being A Man!” (Video on channel Alexander Grace)

and now your flipping beautiful!!

@@airplayrule Absolutely! Not all experiences are going to be the same for everyone. Any type of counseling and therapy is usually personalized and tailored to each individual. I feel like he just kind of gave a general idea to his concept. I just gave my personal experience as I found that I related to some of what he had to say but I completely agree that some people might not. I’m sure if he would not give this exact same information to every client. Everyone’s experiences are unique and different to them.

*You are your own worst critique.* That's why I've had bloody fists after playing video games.

You're a female your experience even as being ugly is nowhere close to ugly men, studies have proven this, an ugly female still can pull guys easier than some men above their look standards can pull girls you're experience as an ugly female adds NOTHING

For real

Definitely can relate to this.

I also want to say....the boy needs professional, or spiritual, or just plain good hearted help. I wonder if he is the type to take it? Or is he the type to stew?

Because u are not

@@kaddhaficel2674 god knows what you look like.

Same lol. He has a girlfriend now too

Melissa Apoka Batting average doesn’t matter if you get the game winning home run. Good for him.

Yeha, I was amazed when he said it. Made me feel thus the more bad for him despite his effort somewhat.

Yep I’m not way too ugly for love

But it hits different when you date someone but they just repeatedly tell you how ugly you are and how you are lucky to be even dating them. Its not much painful if you just dated once, but repeatedly? Mad Painful

And genes play a big part

If you are willing to give it time, it's possible. Life is not easy unfortunately.

Exactly!

Looks matter to most people. Dude is being really dishonest with that man or with himself. If you are not honest you cannot help someone in that situation. Advise him to see a specialist like an orthodontist and that the road will not be easy, but it is possible.

Things that are worth having are never easy. It is for some people but those people want something that’s not easy to have. We’re all different. Stop focusing on how the thing you want others have

Oh god I hope he doesn't treat her like shit. I mean, he seems to really be into incel culture and theories. Poor girl.

@BurningSpirit definitely!!

@@dianana7371 yeah I hope it doesn't become toxic for either of them

Claro con ese pitty party

@@dianana7371 With all due respect: if you think all "incels" are potentially toxic and dangerous people, you're part of the problem. I know that loneliness and rejection could make someone think and react in certain negative ways, but to go and say "poor girl" like that seems like an offense to a guy who just wants someone to count on and grow with. So many non-incels can be just as toxic and narcissistic too (if not worse since they have more "tools" and opportunities at their disposal than lonely people) so incel and narcissism aren't linked to each other.

Most realistic and mature take I’ve seen so far

Exactly, your value unfortunately is based on other peoples perception of you. It sucks, it’s like if 98 out of 100 people find you repulsive, then it’s going to affect you mentally, your self esteem will take a hit. People will treat you so badly based on how you look, even on a subconscious level. Its like if a good looking man were to have a conversation, everyone is glued to him, but if an ugly man tries to have a conversation, there wouldn’t be one at all because everyone rushes to get out of there. So now, you feel unheard and unwanted.

Telling an ugly guy to be confident is like telling a homeless person to be confident like Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos

They can't accept the truth and like to do mental gymnastics to say why looks don't matter. Always interesting to watch.

@@multicrogamer So you think looks matter?

One Girl:"Im ugly" *her friends*: u re attractive One Guy:"Im ugly" *his friends* we already knew xd

@@aquacyanide From my research and thinking looks are 90% of attraction.

@@multicrogamer hm

LOL

very very true. I aspire to be a good person. not an attractive person. being grateful for what I have and trying to accept myself is the best thing I can do.

mass effect 3 was awesome, I wish they release a remake

@@OpenWorldGamer- haha! Well the ending was absolutely disappointing. But overall, great games yes.

@Bee Bop exactly, I don't depend on that at all. I was speaking about part of my past. And how i would like someone in my life now that I'm about to finish college :) but how I'm loosing that hope of finding it.

Funny thing is, i notice and hate things about myself, i completely ignore and don't care about in other people. It's dumb as fuck how i can't let go of things, i don't even devalue in others.

For a moment I thought you were talking about Anthony.

SideSwipe 904 I was thinking the same thing! Ortho is underrated, and it changes face a little bit too. And working out (even a little bit) + a bit of self care definitely goes a long way to how people are perceived by others

honestly the boldness he had to make this video made him attractive to me in some way, i wouldn’t date him because i still don’t know him but idk i just thought it was cute in some way sorry if it’s confusing

I think self love is needed more than anything. Feeling worthy, even when you’re alone however you look. I would only recommend exercise and gym training to get endorphins going and getting away slowly from his depression.

@@GrnG-zt2qs Nah the rest is also helpful for his depression. Anyy action you take to better yourself helps with that.

yeah went quick

Facts

It felt like 25 minutes to me, oh wait I’m on 2x speed

omg thank you for reminding me shit... i already had to go to bed 😭😭 will be a difficult day tomorrow. Edit: I am going to continue to watch this video tomorrow

Oh my golly. I did not notice that until I read your comment lol

Actually tho

You know what the funny thing is? If you were a rich white person claiming that a poor black person just has to do this or that to become as rich and privileged as a white person, the rich white person would be laughed at for being so ignorant. And yet we let good looking men and women try to tell ugly people that they know what it’s like and that they have the answer to fixing how society treats you as an ugly person

@@frankiel3767 they have nothing to lose and could get whatever they want but still acting as if it took a long way to be on their positions. they might not recognize it and they might do. The thing is attractiveness would works %80-%90 for them.

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I agree

Plenty of Middle School students call other students ugly without much thought. As they age and become an adult, they will be less likely to blurt it out (social conditioning) but may still react in a distasteful way as a defense mechanism. Actions speak louder than words!

Handsomest hmmm i like it

That’s amazing. I wish you two an eternity of happiness

That's sweet ❤ I wish you two all well

Hope the relationship is still going strong queen

U arint with him anymore

Yeah, i also think hes really attractive

Lmao seriously 🤣😂🤣😂 I was thinking the same exact thing.

haha saame 🤣🤣

Ikr this guy clearly doesn't understand he's the peak of male attractiveness

I get Antony's point... Put a uncut hair, a not really fashion'esque pair of glasses and an awkward posture and they will get quite similar... But Antony haves six hundred thousand times more confidence, and believe me... Confidence gets physical.

It takes time and thsts what matters

But you can tak responsibility for what you CAN change! And that's what this commentary above is about.

Yeah, it's not an overnight change. It's a hard work and time.

@@monikas.442 and what can he change unless he has a bunch of money to fix his looks

@@monikas.442 This shit is soooo old, my god! It's so tired, of course there's things we can all change but those things don't matter as much as the things we can't change, if they were we wouldn't be focusing on the things we can't change, if my personality or status or whatever mattered I wouldn't give a shit about my face and up until I started liking girls I genuinely didn't.

For real

Exactly I understand

I'm at the point where I don't care if theyre fake, I just want someone to hang around with ... I'm tryin to get out of this

No bro you dont understand, you need confidence and my coaching to get a gf

@@ernestoguevara4261 If only you showed a better attitude on your tinder profile when you swiped like on >6000 girls and got not a single match! HAHA YOUR PERSONALITY STINKS LOOOOOL

Personality matters but looks are really important. People need to stop lying. I gotta be honest I saw my crush and liked her before I got to know her and then her personality added onto her. Gotta have that physical attraction.

bro just hit the gym bro, like take care of your hygiene bro, and get a nice haircut, easy bro, you'll get all the pussy in your area, trust me bro

If you want a second date you need personality

No. There is SO MUCH more to work on yourself. Social skills, lifestyle, etc. I know you might be hurting right now about yourself, but trust me-the world isn’t so simple as to say looks are everything. They really aren’t.

I would consider Anthony attractive. Not average. Maybe not a 10/10. But probably an 8/10. He has a balanced face. Normal sized nose. Normal/Visible jawline. Not overweight. Teeth look good. No weirdness on the rest of his face or body.

Thank you!!

He isn't here to understand he is here to make sure he protects his income. Can't really sell you the "dating course" if he tells his main costumer base that they have no chance, or very low chances. Just another person using others misery for his benefit.

3 years passed i hope you escaped this incel mindset that is lying to you. looks do not matter

Weirdly enough, he's in a relationship now and just said that this video was a drunk rant.

@@AnthonyRecenello sad though, because I think he's voicing a lot of people's feelings

@@legzfalloffgirl5148 How is it sad that he found success?

I don't understand comments like these. Anthony is telling this guy that looks are not the end all be all and you and other people's responses are just to tell him that it's not true? I mean what do you want him to do? Let this guy stew in bitterness for the rest of his life because you think he has no hope? Tell him he's ugly so you can have ammunition for your argument? People like you are honestly no better than the people who bullied him.

@@AnthonyRecenelloyeah because he’s had luck and Million of people Heard a side of him that no one would have known because ugly People don’t get a chance to show their character

Were you called ugly only once in your life? I’ve been called ugly multiple times even recently lol. But i never really had a problem getting attention from guys

@@Diana-wk9qv hey ugly

not everyone can afford braces or had a good houehold to get good care (I was raised in a very reserved poor household where braces werent around and I grew up without; got lucky my teeth and jaw are not that bad health wise or look wise personally despite the lack of care I had and was it my parents fault? they did NOT WANT me to or them to be filthy, we simply didnt have the money and we started fighting to pay the bills cos we were forced out the house if we didnt buy it and we lived in a small village and had no car nor people who were willing to drive us cos they all were too selfish to help and were fighting and yelling at each other, especially my family in general), perhaps he has a form of autism (that yes, can cause poor care for health. my nephew had it bad when he was younger and it was proven cos he had a severe form of his autism that led him to ignore grooming). make up is never just the solution, but a good skin care that doesnt have to expensive is. the confidence and such I agree on. we have to try and work on ourselves, despite all. We still learn and change overtime, and we sometimes dont even realize it, but everyone should shut up about his teeth cos he has a very bad receeding lower jaw and that cant be just fixed with braces at that age I think. I had a friend who had a bad receeding upper jaw and she had braces but her upper jaw was so bad, she had to correct it with surgery with lots of risks.

Myrk Fælinn no I agree with you. Even though I got braces I still have an over bite because that’s just how my teeth naturally set in my mouth. But I’m still very very thankful I was able to get braces. My dad paid for my braces and he doesn’t make a lot of money at all. He works a minimum wage job but I’m very lucky that he was still able to do that for me. I think It’s one of the greatest gifts I could’ve received. It’s great you were born with decent teeth! Haha that means you don’t have to wear a retainer at night for the rest of your life lol! And I agree makeup is not at all as important as skin care. I mean the better the skin the better your makeup will look as well. I feel bad the guy has received mistreatment for his appearance. I hope he finds real love someday

Diana Muniz no I definitely had a period where I was made fun of for my teeth because they were just bad. It was a big overbite and one of my front teeth crossed over the other. I was also really skinny and scrawny too so people would be mean about that. The one that stood out to me the most was the kid in 5th grade. I kinda liked him too so it was really hurtful. But I’m honestly glad those things happened cause idk who I’d be if I didn’t go through those things 🤷🏼‍♀️ also I’m sorry people have said that to you, I’m sure your very beautiful :)

That's the ignorance of most decent looking people, it's useless to expect them to understand this. Just wait until someone replies to this and claims that i just have a "negative mindset" and a "victim mentality".

@@axis1198 I just hope plastic surgery advances so that more people with real flaws can benefit from it. It's sad, but needed today unfortunately. I am in the middle of surgeries myself, and i hope to god i get enough help so that my life's quality improves.

This comment needs a 1,3k likes at least

Mambi WhoKnows thanks man, just hope more people can realize how destructive self-pity can be if used wrongly, it’s okay to feel sad sometimes but if everything in your life revolves around it, then you’re gonna be limited and fulfillness will be out of reach

​@Re nato To be fair, to be constantly surrounded by people having what you don't have, while also being treated less because you don't have it, is a difficult thing. Not at all saying self pitying is the answer (it's really not. Letting your emotions come and go - emphasis on that they're temporary, is healthy). I've only watched that video and his update video but he also said some stuff like he only got serious friends when he was 13, and they treated him that way too. And they kind of weren't even friends with him because of him, but due to someone else (his mom in this case). Soo... Just saying, it doesn't sound like he's had that good of a support system, so it's no wonder if he's not exceptionally skilled at handling something that can hurt so much in your day to day life.

@Re nato Ah nonono I think I didn't get my point across the way I hoped then. I believe his attitude comes from the challenges he's faced *because* of his appearance, along with the absence of support that people ultimately need to persevere healthily through tough life circumstances. As it is now, his attitude is what's causing his problems, but I think that can be traced further back TO his appearance. Idk, those are my thoughts at least. I don't know how much you can relate to what he's going through, but I guess I can a fair bit, and it's not so simple as "you're not pretty", so much as a consistent bullying and being put down and excluded (which is actually scientifically, psychologically, proven to be one of the worst human emotions and the ones that we humans biologically are made to be very sensitive to. It also has a bunch of other mental problems that can develop from that feeling of exclusion. It's because we're social pack animals and all that, so we're supposed to want to work towards being included in the group.). You can't expect someone to walk just because you can, when their legs literally won't work and yours do. In the same way mentally you can't always expect someone to have made the best decisions, when those require resources (internal) that they literally don't have.

@Re nato Hi! Sorry for my answer coming a bit late (had lots of tests to study for). English isn't my first language so I'm not 100% sure if those are rhetorical questions or not. I do think (or at least hope!) he is in one stage of healing from his past experiences though! Sadly there aren't always people who have warm feelings for someone, at least not in their vicinity. It takes going out and meeting new friends and new people to find them, but that's absolutely worth it when one does! Hope you're doing well, thanks for an interesting discussion!

This!

PERIODT.

Yep, you gotta love yourself before someone loves you. Building yourself will bring ppl you want in your life

I did that too. Same thing here. Insecure people never change no matter how much you give or do. It just doesn’t matter.

But I'm a narcissist and I love myself more than anyone else. Still, girls don't love me.

I agree.

Did you wear a beanie the whole time?!?

Nah. This picture was taken years after.

DurAAceLL she’s not Tim Pool

I wonder, how tall was he?

I'm 5'2 it doesn't matter how tall he is lol. It's not hard to be taller

He’s actually in a happy relationship now. It wasn’t long after he released the video.

Entirely the opposite. This isn't "if you're homeless, just buy a house" it's "if life gives you lemons, make lemonade"

He isn't ugly and you are not either. You need to lose some weight though and that will do wonders for your looks. Beauty standards are not the same for all people.

He is not Ugly.

​@@MrA-ir3me Yes he is ugly, and beauty standards are similar for a lot of people, stop with this sugarcoating bullshit, you and a lot of people in this comment section are being so fucking disingenuous and you're not helping anyone by lying to them and telling them something that they've already heard dozens of times from other people spouting fake bs like you. If you're not gonna say anything insightful, don't say shit.

So true

Gosh I hope you’re right! 🤞

LOL! Yeah if you go around asking out every woman you talk to, you kind of get a bad reputation with women.

No, he just texted 500 people. It's a lot easier to ask people out online, but it's also much easier to get rejected.

it’s kind of weird when people are pushy are quick about it though

Only the hair. In terms of facial structure the Swedish dude resembles Driver a lot more

@@bubbamike4743 I mean Anthony has the profile

@@bubbamike4743 swedish dude doesn't resemble Adam Driver at all.

Ikr? Idl what it is about people that think they have a big nose, for no reason at all.

@@apollo5261 someone must have pointed it out. same with me. i used to have a friend who would nitpick things i never have noticed before. i was already insecure about my arms, so id always wear a jacket, never tank tops. and i hated my belly, so i covered them with my arms. but shed say how my face looks like doofensmirts, how my knees had too much fat, and how id chew to loud, how i had way to broad shoulders...so i started noticing these thigns too

Katrin idk sounds like she might be jealous of you

@@CardinalTetra idk. i meet her, i was pretty young, ingenuous and wanted a friend. she was very toxic, like movie toxic. shes emotionally blackmail me, threaten me, pressure me to do things she wanted to. she once pressured me to go to school even tho i told her i cant, i had too much pain. she didnt care and i gave in. then shed rant and change her mood completely, tell me her mom is not my taxi driver (her mom would take us to school). last time i talked to her, she would threaten me to reply to her texts. id ignore her, but she would msg me on all of my socials, telling me shed post pictures of me on instagram if i didnt reply. i ignored. and blocked her. then her mom would message me, telling me to unblock her, that she doesnt know what made me become so cold (like wtf). i told her no, her daughter is too imature and at 18 its pathetic to do bullying. she said we both need to grow up and i was like wtf. didnt reply anymore. but the cruel part is, that somehow she found out my sister died and she didnt care, she wanted her will, but that was when i realized how cruel she really is. like i already knew, but it was a stockholm relationship i guess. shed bully me every now and then, but id always went crawling back to her lol

@@katrin6388 thats awful, im sorry to hear that

So what? Comes with the fucking package that is the human condition.

damn, stay strong champ

@Mr Zazovia Thank you for your wise words. Here a comment not from me but from the original video (being ugly : my experience). The, "Just fix yourself up and workout" comments are so one dimensional and kind of stupid, those people clearly missed the point. There's a lot more of factors that go into being ugly that people can't help. How are we supposed to change since we are born like that?

First of all, orthodontics fix your teeth, not much your jaw or the bones of your face, so no. If he cuts his hair he'll get worse, the hair is helping. Maybe a different glass would help, but that would be minimal. And most important of all, you're a woman, you can't relate. It's way different. Not even considering that you just said the problem with him is that he's different from what you think he should be.

Watch Animes ASAP mewing can work if he wants to changes his jaw.

@@goggle2233 Yeah, I've read somewhere he's doing it, he's better now but it only goes so far.

You look great today 👍🏻

I don't know how you look

I dont know how you look, but you are beautiful so go kick some ass and be your lovely self!😛

Forcing a compliment wouldn’t make you feel good.

That’s Nigerian parents for you...

Soo true !! Attractive people dont understand and never will, they get soo less rejections and more options!! how you can compare this i dont understand!

I agree to this. But I also agree that it’s still a shallow way of thinking. When I went through puberty I was the UGLIEST... very very unattractive ( I may look well on my profile but I’ve came a long way, deffo better than before lol) So I understand what feeling ugly and getting rejected is. But also I had a terrible personality.... idk something tells me it was my personal that was much more harmful than my face and caused people to hate me 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ There’s a lot to you that meets the eye than your looks, it’s a true thing. Almost all my guy friends/ex’s were ugly. But when I liked them as them, I instantly saw them very attractive. Even the most attractive in some cases. Not saying your opinion or anyone on this doesn’t matter, this is just my take on.

But people base their attractiveness on the opinions of others, right? Which depends on your environment. Someone may seem attractive to you, but have loads of self esteem issues due to them not being seen as attractive by the people around them. Invalidating someone’s experiences unless you personally find them unattractive isn’t the best way to go about things.

@@marinaSassygUrl88 nope, judging from your profile picture, you’re overweight and your face isn’t chiseled. If you looked like you were carved out of marble you would’ve been able to minimize your rejections, and your “bad” personality wouldn’t have mattered that much. It’s okay though in sixty years to maybe tomorrow you’ll probably die, and see if there’s anything deep out there or if it’s just as shallow as you claim evolutionary disposition towards good genes is.

He never said he had it as rough as him

Yes, but make sure you are also taking action, or you are gonna regret all the wasted time. I talk from experience.

@@roqueserey646 A very vague and generic statement from your part tho.

@@sonyg0640 obviously, i don't know anything about his situation or what his goals are. But i know that he has to apply all that he is learning and take it seriously or all that knowledge will be of no use.

Im 10 years old guess im luckier than u since im younger.

@@layunic And you wont be 10 years old forever. It doesnt mean you will take action or able to apply knowledge.

by bad teeth do you mean crooked or you have cavities?

@@metasequoia3097 Crooked and close together or missing teeth, has been what I've heard described as bad teeth.

@@jclyntoledo Crooked isn't necessarily "bad", as long as they are not growing in a way in which they impact (press against) other teeth. But obviously from an asthetic point of view it might be bad.

I've been told me face is ugly by numerous women. The main difference between men and women is that men are more likely to gravitate to a good body and women are more likely to gravitate to a good face.

his mother was....no comment...

Why ? That was wholesome. 😙

Yeah. I cried too. Except my mother would never- 😭

Teenage girls arent fully grown like teenage boys. perception is different. sure, giving off a weird vibe can ruin attraction, but with teenagers, attraction is usually short and very intense and as far as I was a teen and went to two different schools, met so many teens, its always peer pressure, gossip, expectations, romanticizing ideas that arent there. Sure, this guy didnt formulate it right, he is def influenced by peer pressure, but he's def not a bad guy. He'll develop as he ages, as much as teens do too overtime. Usually at least, in the best circumstances.

How do you sense things from text? Makes no sense. Only if you are truly overt it can be sensed.

How the heck are they sensing this bro?

@@uglydude4691 I'm guessing by the way he talks to words used you can get a sense when someone really wants to talk to you they will talk just to talk to you and not answer with three word texts and you will get a feel of how they want to talk

@@multicrogamer No, you can tell. I've had this happen to me many times. Guy acting fake-in-love with me. And sometimes they slip.

Exactly. So many attractive women on here claiming they were called ugly. When? When they were super young

@@NickOloteo they don't understand men. Simple.

@@NickOloteo yep there's on comment above of a girl who was called ugly one time in 5th or 6th grade comparing her experience to this guy experience and then saying "you just need to be confident". C'mon, you can't be more oblivious than this.

Not sure I agree. I worked with a young lady who had some serious physical flaws yet she was the one girl in office everyone clamored to be around. Her personalty was striking. Her husband may have also been considered “less physically attractive”, but they loved each other so much no one noticed their looks.

@FujitoraTheGreat you sound butthurt

Yesenia J Ulloa Adam is so atractive but not handsome, still he is my crush

kelly vega I know me too haha. His hands are attractive tho haha

I dont see it.... I thought that about Anthony a little bit though. Lol

@@puppycatwiththefuzzypants5537 Yeah, I think it's one of those things that it's hard to objectively determine. Philip trevor brought up the asymmetry. Haiku Rutledge brought up the long face. Which are features that Adam Driver has. So I see what Anthony was talking about, but I wouldn't call them twins or dopple gangers or anything like that lol. I also kinda see your point about Anthony looking like Adam. Haha. It might just be the brown eyes, light skin, and dark brunette hair tho

Def possible.

When I was 10, cut my hair on my own once and thought I like it, but my mom came in and said “you look like a boy” to where I cried in my room for hours. We lived in a townhouse so the walls were paper thin, she could hear me. And she didn’t bat an eye. I’m 22 now and I still think I look like a fucking boy lol and I’m tearing up typing this.

K C S so damaging :( I’m sure that’s not the only instance either. Therapy could help

Thank you guys for the kind words. I know this may seem like nothing to some people but this really scarred me, I know I’m an adult now and I have the tools to overcome this, because I would do ANYTHING for my mother, and I understand that she wasn’t stable herself when she would hurt me like this. Hurt people Hurt people! I forgive her, but I’m still working on overcoming this.

@@kcs4652 That really sucks, you didn't deserve that.

He made new videos

@@tygarspace1754 yeah, I've seen a few. I'm talking about how I've changed since I last watched the original video

@@diegocloroxx sorry I didn't read your comment right. Well I think you should know the answer best ;)

Oops I forget to say Thank you!

It's okay man. I'm 23 years old and I've never had a partner. Just take your time and work on your self love and purpose in life. Love and friendship will come your way when it's the right time for you

in my country (brazil) people about your age are not allowed to date by their parents. So keep calm

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U r right that it shud not b like this. But it is, and the best thing to do, Ik it’s hard, as Anthony says is not compare rselves to others, especially movie stars. And U R BEAUTIFUL btw

@Tacøs ツツ Agreed it exists, but as Anthony says, do we really want to associate rselves with those ppl?

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Well it came up in everyone’s recommended, thats why it has so many views

Honestly it only means one thing *I'm not attracted to you*

C'mon, you know that's bullshit, we all know what it means.

Nasser eguider yeah but “I’m not attracted to you” doesn’t have to mean “you’re ugly” or “you’re unattractive”.

@@iris916 I didn't say it did, there are other reasons of course, but yet again 90 % of first interactions are based on looks, even if you're available and there no other reasons, you would not date someone who doesn't meet your standards in terms of physical qualities, would you date someone shorter than you or the same height as you ?

It means what it means : you're not physcially or mentally her type

Tan Real, soy una persona introvertida y estoy a gusto se hacer amigos pero no me la paso riendo y socializando todo el tiempo.

Absolutely! On further reflection, though, it's more our sense of purpose, what we give to the world, than our cocktail party skills that lights a spark in others.

Agreed on the first part, he's not an incel though and never has been, he said that he didn't understand them once in a stream I think and seems fairly respectful towards women otherwise. Scarily enough, there are much worse guys out there.

No, he tried dating girls above him and on his level too but that never panned out either and he was dating "down" so that he wouldnt have to be as worried about his looks and he could be more worried about being a good dude, but that didnt work. You just really don't understand the struggle of unattractive men.

@Mayo Dog Couldn't have put it better bro, I'm an average looking guy, maybe teetering a little on the below side because of my current weight, but it's really easy for dudes that look above average to say shit like this.

Perhaps he grew up in a toxic environment? would explain a lot and it took the best of him, but he said in the beginning that he would try to ignore it, but he ept getting mean comments every other day and of course, we as humans cant just ignore bullying forever that is continuously eating at your confidence over and over again, right? He is not an incel, as far as I know from his videos, he's incredibly kind and I dont think he goes to scream at women for ignoring him. He's just very insecure, thats it.

exactly!

Not true at all. I am all for personality and if someone is racist, boring and sexist in a convo or other dealbreakers then that means they're not my type

@@jagelskardey Yes sure. You are all personality, uhum. How many times did I hear this nonsense from women ??? You look at the personality after you decided you found him attractive. If you didn't find him attractive, you don't care for personality. If I am not right, then please contact this guy with the glasses and find out about his personality. Maybe you are a match in heaven.

@@DiegoGonzalez-go2qy You know what? I can already see alot of his personality from his videos and humor is a huge factor for me and we don't have the same humor at all. Also he already has a lovely girlfriend. There are alot of guys who's not normatively considered attractive that I do find very attractive because of their personality. Check out Squirmy and Grubs here on youtube. The guy in a wheelchair with a disability is super attractive to me because he is so funny and charming and has great values. Many times I've dated guys that are super funny and charming while some other girls are like "you know you could get a hotter guy, right?" when they see a pic of him. I might not care very much about looks but do have super high standards when it comes to personality.

@Jack Schmitt yeah that might be true with some women and it's true with some men aswell. Listen, humor is personally my number one when it comes to attraction and honestly he doesn't seem very funny at all from the 5 vids I've seen of him. Why do you wanna force me to want to date him? Him and his girlfriend seems perfect for each other anyway

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That would be a really interesting video

Maybe add his name cuz no one knows who you're talking about (other than people who know him lmao)

This mysogynic unknown relationship seems intresting

Matthew Hussey?

i hope u think so

Can you react to brawadis and Jackie there’s a lot of drama going on between them

It's called Badoo, and it's a dating site... More like POF than Tinder. I've actually met a few ppl there that I've been online friends with for several years now.

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Thanks for this. Wish it had more upvotes. I don't think most Americans will understand this because there isn't as much empahsis put on physical appearance in America compared to other countries. I kept wondering where he was from.

I didnt know this. This is crazy..

that age of sweden is long gone (with the tall blonde people being the standard) now it is filled with muslim immigration virtually everywhere and it keeps growing while the natives decline, it is a lot more diverse

yep. This people in the comments saying "personality is the most important thing" are the type of people that just can't be honest with themselves or the world.

Personality is only a part of what makes attractiveness.

@@hannsbananas you would a pretty face is a healthy face and it's in our blood to know that Edit :you got destroyed and called him a pea brain looool And sed he is close minded soo mad 😂😂🤣🤣

"Healthy genetics "

@@hannsbananas you got destroyed and you can't accept it. emotions got to you and you scream ignorance. try to learn and become more knowledgable in what you preach.

thanks so much kamiel :-)

no. most people - if they keep their body fit - are attractive. you gotta stop it with "if you're ugly then you lost the lottery" and "everyones shallow" youre going to fall into the dark side red pill bullshit. you are speaking like someone with little experience in dating. most people who complain about this stuff have not spent a lot of time meeting people. so yes, this video is me saying he's wrong. and guess what? he admits it too. he now has a girlfriend and is happy and admitted he was just drunk af the night he made this video. its okay to get upset sometimes, but to wrap your whole identity around the red pill philosophy is setting yourself up for a jaded life.

@@AnthonyRecenello I don't disagree that keeping one's body fit can do wonders for their appearance,( that's why I said ''improve on what you can'') nor that wrapping one's identity around this sort of philosophy is dangerous- it is. I agreed with you when you mentioned that you can control certain things about your general appearence, like a better angle for photos. This is true. My point was this: there is no denying that beauty has a lot of power in this world. There are studies proving how attractiveness can lead you to simply being treated better( as if you are a better human being than others) and having a lot of opportunities in the world available to you. Unattractiveness does the opposite: it can negatively impact your life in certain areas, like your social and dating experiences( not to mention self-esteem). To me, you came off as dismissive of both this fact and his life experiences in order to validate your argument and prove he is wrong. Like that was the most important thing to do in this situation : to say that he is wrong , and that's it. And you did the same in your reply. I'm glad to hear he is in a better place in life. I came across his video-and yours- and found the things he said to be painful as hell, so I'm happy to hear he is doing better. Peace

@@daniellima5791 I agree. But also disagree. Again, you’re giving red pill talking points. Being attractive can also make you seem less approachable and people can hold resentment towards attractive people.. treating them rudely.

Yes. I feel sympathy towards this guy but also some of the things he is saying are kinda gross😬

Mayo Dog yeah, but short doesn’t mean ugly. And ok, I am not picking on him saying fat (altho... but I get it, we are both from Europe, “fat” is not a slur here). So a couple of things: - wtf does it mean “a country where people are more ugly”???? Like what the hell? What country is this? What kind of nazi nonsense is he saying? - girls can pick up lack of admiration/lack of interest. And I agree with the rest of what you’ve said on that topic, but here is the thing - the reason fuckboys and future abusers are so hard to resist is exactly this - they usually are charming in the beginning. And it takes years of growing up to be able to see right through that bullshit. But lack of interest is easily detectable. Like he is not trying or smth, or a condescending tone...

And I am not saying that’s the case, I am just being hypothetical. He got a girlfriend in the end, and she seems to be positive for both of them

Mayo Dog ok, let’s hold the horses for a second. English not being his native language is a lame excuse (for me at least) . It’s not my native language either. And in all 4 languages I sort of know ‘ugly’ means pretty much the same thing. It became a negative word way before our generation was born. That word you didn’t like me using adds my frustration and anger at the fact that there are people who still think that one whole nation of people can be prettier/more beautiful that another whole nation of people. Like what nation does he think is less beautiful (as a whole multi-min people group) than his nation? But that doesn’t mean I don’t sympathise him. I get it. It’s hard. He is lonely, he is drunk and he struggled. At the same time I think that it might be that he allowed himself to get lost in that negative state of mind and it doesn’t take him anywhere. And his looks are not his biggest problem

Mayo Dog also, where I come from “short” means “short”. No correlation with being attractive or not. It actually is preferable for women to be short, and it’s ok for a guy to be short also. Plenty of guys in the US would be short, it could be an insecurity, it could be just a description. Ugly would never be “just a description”. Would you really say “yeah, I love her, she is ugly but she has a good heart”??? Really???

great idea!!