Dating God's Way + Answering Your Questions | The Brittany The Host Podcast 

I was that 30 something who did not wait and now I'm divorced. God sent me lots of signs and warnings. I ignored them all. I have learned so much since then and have decided to remain single and focus on myself and God

Btw speaking as an RN with 10 years experience, the reason why the medical system is truly so backwards on preventative health and wellness tests is because the industry is entirely run by the insurance companies. And insurance companies will fight the providers who order these tests saying there has to be a super specific problem or diagnosis in order to justify coverage. That’s why if you’re overall “healthy” on the outside, clinics will give you a hard time ordering extra tests even if they are effective and could be a potentially missing link. For example, so many anemic women I see get their hemoglobin drawn and most of the time it’s normal - there’s at least 5 other kinds of things that could be low (NOT just your hemoglobin) that could be making you anemic and super fatigued. It’s truly a business and it’s very sad that it dictates how things are run. So many things could be caught so much earlier.

So during the pandemic, I watched a video about you encouraging us single ladies to go do things on our own. And I bought a ticket for my first solo concert ☺️ since then I’ve attended several concerts on my own!! Thanks for the encouragement! Building a single life I love.

Please go in deep about mourning the childhood that we didn’t have, would love to hear it!

Girl obedience is keyyyyy

Okay using your husband’s song for the intro!! 😂❤👏🏾

I am 34 years old I have never been married at all. Not even came close to even being proposed to. I go out and sit at places by myself. I don't have any men approaching me at all. No matter how good I look or casual at times. I feel like God has forgotten about me. In college love didn't find me at all. And with me living in Austin,TX. there isn't a lot of black men who want to date black women. I usually see the black men with white women or hispanic women and barely with anybody who looks like me. I haven't been on a date in years. I am working towards switching careers from teaching to the Healthcare field. I just can't continue to be in a career where I am not making the money that I want. Plus I am grieving the loss of my grandmother. I feel like I am not pretty enough either I have always gotten rejected or don't have a lot of men pursuing me or even courting me. It's like what's wrong with me what am i doing wrong. I am getting therapy for it. Because I feel like I am not good enough. I know there are women out here who are doing way better than me. Plus I don't have any kids. I am not quite sure if i want any. And the men that do approach me I am not physically attracted to. I haven't met anyone that really has a awesome relationship with God and also has morals and standards like me. Yeah I haven't met someone who wants to get married. But the men want to have sex out here and not put a ring on it. Ever since I have been waiting until Marriage coming across a man like that is slim to none for me. @Mrs Brittany Gold Congrats.

The timing of this video... Recently I met someone special. And I really want to date him Gods way. Thank you for this video. Now let me watch it... while enjoying a cup of tea.

Your face on RU-vid is SO RE-FRESHING !! Excited for you love.

I’m still in the beginning of this video and it’s so eye opening & REAL! I’m dropping this so I don’t forget: please do a video on grieving the childhood you never had and becoming your own best friend❤️ I would love that

Great vlog Brittany? I want a story time about how you met your husband. You have came a long way. I see nothing but growth and maturity in you. Long time subscriber. #Fam

Would love to hear a podcast episode of being your own best friend 🙂

You are going to be a great mom Brittany, wishing you all the to you and the family.

"Put respect above your feelings"!!!!! Sadly, so many don't believe they're even worthy of respect and that's why they let people use them like a doormat. And you definitely have to be kind to yourself as you heal; I DEFINITELY had to just sit at the feet of the Lord and learn how to treat myself. The kindness God showed me even as I was coming out of the worst season of my life... Unmatched

Very informative video. The part where you mentioned the counterfeit is soo true because I was approached by one at CHURCH. Tried to deceiveee me ! I didn't get emotionally invested and it didn't go anywhere beyond him speaking to me at church. Perhaps my work schedule protected me because I was busy. I told myself with that challenge if it's something he will go through the tests of time. He didn't and he shared some information with me as to why he was acting the way he acted and PRAISE GOD for his protection and me taking my time.

Your previous video was on my recommended page. I am 28 and have been single for 4+ years. I’ve let this time be for me and God to grow in relationship. As of now, I’m working on getting healing on my ideas of love, marriage, and union. This video definitely gave me wisdom and knowledge. I look forward to your future content. This was such a blessing.

Congrats sis , I’m so ready to hear it all . This is the year I refused open my mouth I’m letting God fight my battles

I’m not even part of the OG #fam … your video on how God changed your life in less than a year just happened to pop up and I clicked on it and that was that! I’m a follower! God did something SUPER similar in my life - I went from a broken engagement to meeting my now husband and having a baby within a year. I resonate so much with your story even though we are different in background and denomination. I feel a sisterhood for sure. I would * love * a video on how to be my own best friend - what that looks like when you’re single and what that looks like as a wife. My big problem is losing who I am now that I am married and with children. ❤ much love

The timing of this. Thank you and congratulations! ❤️

Absolutely loved this video! Definitely would enjoy a deeper dive into the topics of mourning the childhood never had and becoming your own best friend 🤍

Great chat Mrs. Gold! Congratulations again. I would love to hear the story time of how husband met. Questions I have: 1) How long were you two courting/friends before getting engaged? 1a. Did you get backlash for the length of time? (Some people don’t understand God’s timing can be QUICK). 2) Did you two do premarital counseling? 2a. Why would/wouldn’t you recommend it? (Some may argue that it’s not necessary if God approves of the marriage). Thank you ❤

❤❤❤ GREAT MESSAGE!!! AND CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Congrats on everything. God is so faithful ✝️🩷🙌🏿

I just turned 25, but I’ve been watching you for a few years. Everything that you touched on in this pod makes so much sense, taking this with me

39:50 omg me too! I used to think there was something wrong with me 😢. I desire it - marriage, family - but i'm aware of the change and effort it entails so I feel like i'm not ready but I still feel like, "I SHOULD be ready"

New subbie alert 😊… all the way from south Africa 🇿🇦, I can’t tell you how much you have inspired me in my walk with Christ … Thank you so much for this content & overall just being you ❤

WOW this video was so good and on time! I've been working on my spiritual journey and growing closer to God. I was also at the point that I needed some direction so thank you!

Yes man I am here because morning motivation. Funny thing is I randomly thought about you . I am so excited to see this new glow and journey. And if you have the time and few morning meditations. I am currently in transition and will start a new job soon. So I am exited I can go back to my routine. Listening to you on my way home from work. It was always so life giving. 😊🌸💕

Im 36 left a 4 year relationship a year ago because he didnt want to get married. All my younger siblings are married and settled. I am trusting Gods plan for my life. He is the God of the impossible ❤ Thanks for your testimony

Yesss, please share more about yoir healing journey and geief associated with it. Thank u for sharing! ❤🎉

YES!!! All about timing! A lot of people I thought wouldn’t have kids or be married have families and are great parents. Myself on the other hand…I’m starting to learn myself more so I can see why God has 180 my thoughts on marriage and kids. I’m not opposed to the idea, but I see it in a WHOLE new light than I did before 😅

Hey I’ve never seen you on RU-vid. I was exercising when your video popped up on my newsfeed the Lord told me to stop what I was doing and watch it that it will help me. Wow God is good! Your video helped me tremendously and I hope to apply it in my life. I have done the prayer God if this man is for me take him away. Well he definitely has taken many counterfeit men away. God bless sister

Can you talk about how God blessed you with your wedding please?

I am 28, I don’t have children but I am engaged and getting married next year but I definitely plan to go to the OBGYN to make sure I am all good whenever my future husband and I are ready. 💕

Love it ☺️ not you almost saying Daniel 🤣🤣

Amazing video, Brittany! I know that I need to heal from the difficult and traumatic childhood I had. Please do a video on healing from childhood trauma. I'm 34 years old, still single, and learning to be content with being single. I still need to strengthen my relationship with God. Right now, God has me cutting off my toxic family so that I can move on and live my life with only Him before He brings my tribe into my life. God is also going to have me go back to therapy to heal too.

Omg girl thank you so much for this!!!! This truly blessed me and refreshed me !!!!! God just knew I needed to hear this and it set me free !!! God bless and congratulations!!!

Thank you for answering my questions. You gave great suggestions. Please, share the story time on how you met your husband on RU-vid.

Congratulations to you sis! You deserve it and so much more! 😊💕🙏🏽

I would love if you could post a video on "mourning the childhood you didn't have."

Congratulations on your marriage, and may you be blessed with a healthy beautiful baby.

This video was soo insightful! Thank you so much for keeping it real and giving us real advice❤

Loved this video, Brittany! Glad I came across your channel. New subbie ❤

This video came to me at exactly the moment I needed to hear it. God really did work through you in this video. Thank you. I've been wrestling with a decision now it's time for me to do the works. Thank you again for this video.

Yess! Can we have the story time of how you and your husband met. You also mention that you guys went from friendship to engagement. No courting phase whatsoever. What was that like? Also. I turned 21 in January. God revealed some things to me about my husband and when we will meet. Am i too young to get married and how should i be preparing for him/it? I didn't grow up desiring marriage and never really thought about it before God spoke to me about it.

Wauw great vid! Went on a similar path as you. Educated, well traveld, goodlooking, etc etc. Working on my fem energy. But there s also my beliefsystem! Ready to work on it!

Awww i followed you for a while congrats

when did y'all meet each others family? when courting or after engagement?

Can you please do the video about being your own best friend? This video is too good! Thank you for your vulnerability.

Excited to watch this. 😅

great video. I knew this video popped up on my timeline for a reason. do you know if there is a christian version of the spicy woman you talked about? you mentioned having mentees, is that a service that is currently available ?

Thank you for this video, it’s 45:29 so on time.

I wasn't looking for a relationship. Sworn off dating and waiting on God for my spouse. My ex pursued me. He was consistent, generous and kind. He told me the Lord brought us together. I was the one. He had unhealed trauma and after a small misunderstanding just left me! He had a rejection spirit. Insecurities.He couldn't talk it out or pray with me. Just abandoned me. This was over a year ago. I moved far from him but i realize i still love him. Any thoughts?

New subbie 💕💕💕 your a friend in my head.. Wendy Williams voice 😂

Brittany God bless you ! Your video is a confirmation from God and came kick in as a vitamin shot sent by the Holy Spirit ! Indeed, today the enemy sent a random thought "what if this guy you're talking to meet your standards but he is not Celibate like you ?". Then, I open RU-vid this evening and see your videos about your journey, you got a new subscriber now ! You're RIGHT staying in the presence of GOD's word is imperative to stay FOCUS, because the enemy enjoys sending counterfeit men and lifestyles.♥

I see males outside but I don’t see men so I’m just like whatever. If God wants to change it he will. I’m over it. Plus you work on yourself until no end. If it’s not meant to be it won’t happen.

I am 46 never been married and no relationship

Sis was gonna get married before 35. Counterfeits come before your blessing. A word. Explain getting married after a few months.

Yes storytime

Can you do a story time of how u met your husband please

You, Beautiful Brown Baby Doll (Dr Nina) and LITERALLY a handful of other women, have been so encouraring and empowering to me, and I feel less alone/less weird, for not being married +childless at 30 ❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥💖❤🧡💛💚💙💜💯💯💯 Lets go ladies!!! Leveling up for your self is THE BEST investment. (Kevin Samuels is a BIG FAT LIAR pertaining to women's worth. karma is real. that's all I have to say about his death) -BIG FAN from London, UK

It’s ok to never marry. It’s not for everyone.

Brittany I just found your RU-vid. I've enjoyed the video. I wanted to know what you meant by not all of us are called by God to marry? I ask this because because I'm 27 single and I don't have many friends and the friends I do have are in relationship and two of them are getting married. I guess I'm very worried about being alone or that God doesn't have anyone for me. Like maybe I'm too flawed to have anyone. I guess my question is how do you become comfortable with the possibility that you may be single forever? That thought just scares me and makes me sad.

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