@@DebilShurlik charlies comments are a good example what the rest of youtube comments looks like. But here the bots are really easily to identify because of there stupidity.
Yeah, it's sad to see how many of them think of lesbians as "experimenting" or doing it for for "attention" If someone tells me they are Lesbian, then they are Lesbian.
Yeah, because Avery is a good dating coach. He actually recognises that women have their own struggles with dating. Charlie is being a bit of a dick in this video.
@@undercovertakodachi4301 that is the obvious step to take. Hell that is the ONLY healthy step to take in this situation. Sadly most guys who buy into this shit usually are taught to "never take NO for an answer" so they'll keep persisting, or just straight up ignore the telltale signs of not being interested, because for all their ultra-knowledge on body language and eye contact, the gurus propably forgot to tell them the obvious fucking sign like that.
I wrote my girlfriend a poem the very first time I ever talked to her. She thought it was sweet and unconditional, but I thought it was cheesy and cringe. Now that I’ve seen this guy, I gotta say, I feel a lot better. Edit: My girlfriend read this recently and I have confirmed I have autism real bad
4:43 "People just love to throw money at someone they percieve to be an expert on a problem that they're doing the bare minimum to solve in the first place, like not getting dates" This is actually a pretty fuckin great quote ngl
For real. id say take whatever money you were going to throw at these fraud "experts" and get a gym membership, get some sleep, and put some effort into basic hygiene and youll get way further
@@ky_jellybean kek dubayoo, I'm perfectly sane, I need not therapy to impress those woman things. I only need crunchy muskulls and the sex will gravitate towards me. Especially with the overly fragile ego and rage will the female things coming to me. I would prioritize therapy and all the progress that could happen from that, rather than go for physical needs (I think it's just my preference). Physical & mental health are attractive after all. If you want to cheat you can learn the mental shortcuts that brains take to determine if one is "healthy looking".
It happened one time at my job where a random customer was trying to ask me out for dinner, and when I told him no, he assumed that I was a lesbian and asked if I had a girlfriend. I'm not, but that just confirmed to me why I shouldn't go out with him. The dude seemed so self-absorbed that he assumed that me specifically turning him down must've meant I was gay lol. He wasn't bad looking either, I just genuinely wasn't interested. Not everyone is constantly looking for a relationship or whatever and is fine with being single at the moment.
Not many people could believe in this... Especially not giant ego males who need an object to fill their needs... Sorry to spread my pessimism, I'm just very sexist towards males lol.
@@hunterlg13 It's true, there's so many bad guys out there and I've ran into my fair share of them, but I hope that one day we can all move away from sexism. Hate is still not the answer, it only makes more hate. I'm just pointing out something that I can relate to what Charlie was showing in the video. Hopefully it helps others see the way they shouldn't act.
I actually met my gf through Facebook dating, and she’s the most amazing thing to ever happen to me. I plan on proposing later this year when our finances are in better order
You know damn well this guy is absolutely infuriating to be friends with. He’s the type to try & school a married man on why his marriage is suffering, even though he’s single.
My dating advice is to not take dating advice, because if you treat love and relationships as a set of steps that you have to follow instead of doing things naturally, I find that things don’t work well.
No wait you don’t understand if I don’t have literally every breathe and every step I make illustrated in vivid detail for every woman in existence I will never find love it’s impossible (/s)
They mostly just dumb down women to a generic stereotype and try to score as fast as possible. From what I've seen it seems mostly about getting quick sex, not about how to find someone you're compatible with
@@ddduuunnngggObviously this isn’t about finding compatible partners. Most men don’t want a relationship-they want easy sex. Men are hardwired for that; it’s women that usually want to settle down. Men don’t have to deal with pregnancy, so they lose nothing by “pumping and dumping”, whereas women often get stuck with the result. It’s only natural for women to want the guy to stick around once that happens, and it’s only natural for men to prefer spreading their seed rather than stay in one spot.
@Emma what a sad, sad way to look at people. Not to mention outdated and stereotypical. There are lots of women who want non committed, casual sex and there’s plenty of men who want to settle down in a monogamous committed relationship with one person. Men are not “hardwired” for casual sex, nor can you say they all want to “spread their seed”. While yes the woman often ends up being “stuck” with the “result” of having sex that doesn’t mean she “wants” the man to stick around for any other reason than taking up his share of the responsibility. It takes two to create that result, both should be held accountable.
His opening line, "There's something about you that really caught my attention" is the exact same verbage I was taught during a summer job I spent trying to sell god damn windows to home owners going door to door. I imagine the success rate is exactly the same, too.
IF A GIRL SAYS “MAYBE” when you’re in her face while she was minding her business in public cause you popped out from behind her….SHE IS NERVOUS AND ANXIOUS and just said that to not hurt your feelings or to get away from you safely. JFC how he didn’t pick up on her body language and nervous inflection immediately when he has a “psychology” degree is insane.
Or she just might mean "maybe" lol. Like a "do you feel like watching this movie that has 6/10 stars?" maybe. Unless you're speaking with experience, in which case you're shitting on a guy who does the same thing as you. I know Im in trollsville rn but jeez can you at least try not being so cringe with your terrible logic?
@@simonhakon3447 i was taught no means no, as well as yes means yes. There is no 'grey area' to consent. If you don't get clear, explicit consent, park your brakes
@@20dabarr58 then go report his dating guru to police then, quick quick. What are you waiting for 🤡🤡🤡? Go buy a ticket plane to LA, he lives there. Go there and report him. See how that goes for you. I am sure police will arrest him and I am sure you won't embarrass yourself 🤡🤡🤡
An obvious note: If she's saying stuff like "yeah, maybe, haha" she isn't into you, she's just trying to make the conversation end so you stop creeping on her and she can enjoy her night without fear of you getting aggressive. Ask me how I know.
I actually appreciate when guys are quick and to the point. At the store this guy came up to me and straight up said " you're super pretty and I figured I'd just give it a shot and ask you out on a date." I have a partner so I said sorry I'm in a relationship. And he responded normally with something like oh sorry! And I was like np and it ended. Less than a minute of time and no awkwardness. It was extremely plesent and I was flattered. That's how it's done. You just need confidence and not get weird when it doesn't go your way.
Here's some dating advice: be clean lmao. I knew someone who had bad oral hygiene. Our group at the time had to push him into brushing his teeth. He also had to be convinced to have a basic skincare routine to have healthier skin. Acne isn't bad but intentionally picking your skin won't help.
I had a friend who would hang around outside the ladies toilet in a bar and ask them when they came out “Have you had a nice poo?”, strangely enough this never worked out well for him and he never quite understood that hanging around outside a ladies toilet is just creepy af. He’s still single.
i think a lot of guys have warped their priorities so badly that they psyop themselves into a fake choice - either be a lonely loser piece of shit or a cool successful awesome guy who has a gf to the point they view getting a girlfriend as the one thing that will make their life worthwhile
General Payton: Alright listen up. Lieutenant Salvo we heard you were single, in need of bed warming. Nights been mighty cold for that alpha body of yours. {Other soldiers laugh} Salvo: Yes sir. General: Well Lieitenant Salvo, Today's the day you get what you deserve. At 2000 the mission begins. Simple, tactical and deadly. The first lady who isn't dressed like a nun is your target. Nuns are the bad eggs in the omelet. We don't need such distractions. Next you follow her for a while, pick up the speed if she isn't near you and when you are close you give her the payload. The key is C-O-M-P-L-I-M-E-N-T-S. The boys back at Washington have run the numbers. Said it's the closest way to getting your cold bed warm. Don't disappoint me Salvo. Salvo: Yes sir. General: Alright move out.
@@bruhman5829 I agree with this sentiment, but would like to further add that this seems to be a result of the effect of an extremely interconnected - yet very socially distant (and I mean even before COVID) 21st Century society. Think about it, we live in a world where the internet has granted us the ability to remain connected with various social circles literally twenty four hours a day, a type of communication network that has never before been seen through human history. Yet at the same time, loneliness coalescing with depression (for both men and women, because as much as people like to think it's only men that go through this, it's not, even if it may be to a lesser extent) has never been more of a problem throughout our history. To pretend that there is no connection between these two things is to be willfully blind. What I feel we need to be doing is looking for a way to bridge the gap somehow. I won't deny that this issue is primarily a Millennials and Zoomers issue, but it remains an issue our generations need to deal with all the same. Interconnectability has come great lengths, but meaningful human interaction has more or less fallen by the wayside.
@@brontebell7748 Not all of them are like this. Just like there are men who do actually generalize women, this statement is also a generalization of the very same sort.
Literally: all it takes to get a date (or just have good relationships with others in general) is to be secure with yourself. Have a solid, healthy self-concept. Healthy boundaries. Take genuine interest in others. That's it y'all.
@@jeremiahcarraway6419maybe if men were like women they would get dates. men are the most disgusting things on the planet yet think they deserve something so bad. if a woman is ugly like how i am i just try to love myself. dress how i want, do makeup. so many guys say they don’t love themselves and think they are ugly YET DO NOTHING BUT COMPLAIN. and y’all hate women anyway why go after us just for sex. y’all be fake and even kill us for saying no and want to be mad at women for shit men caused
"Yeah, but being myself is hard and doesn't give me instant gratification, therefore I need to obtain answers from these 'authorities' on the subject". I think one "cheat" that people don't realize is to turn one's personality into their own schtick. That way, it feels like a comedic routine instead of putting forth vulnerabilities of one's own (stinky risk)
@@jeremiahcarraway6419 look around u, so many ugly guys are in long term relationships with beautiful and successful women, it really isnt about looks most of the time
That's true, unless they're an actual guru in the original sense of the word, but in most cases online, it's mostly just these crappy dating gurus and "make $20,000,000,000 a second by doing nothing" losers. They're so annoying.
"Smart. Trustworthy. Attractive" and 100% legitimate convo screenshots from the guy who just admitted to paying for a bot boost on all of his dating app profiles and having photoshopped pictures. With pick up lines like his, I'm hoping his book comes with a free fedora with proof of purchase if they attend his meet ups.
You can't blame the guy for that though. The apps themselves literally won't give you any result unless you pay and have a perfectly curated profile (as a man). I still blame him for choosing to use those apps, the more people use them, the shittiest the dating scene becomes.
No it doesn't. That's most stupid piece of advice I've ever heard. What helps with (true) confidence is approaching women and getting rejected, ONLY, not some bullshit outside factors (cologne, alcohol, drugs, parties). Your directness and bluntness helps with overall interactions, nothing else. Sorry to break it down for you. Please don't give any more advices.
@@T8USD I’m sorry your personal experience with fragrances has been negative. But for most people it is an integral part of who they choose to be/how they present themselves. For those who can efficiently use fragrances to better their interactions it’s a great tool. I’m speaking from my own personal experience but I appreciate your opinion on the subject.
@@ryancurry5376 I am using fragrance myself. Of course it's an integral part of how they chose to present themselves. But it has nothing to do with confidence increase of any sort (referring to your original comment) I am comparing it to alcohol or literally any outside factor which MAY build up fake confidence. If you received any additional confidence while wearing cologne, sorry to break it down for you but those are not valid confidence points. Same as if you would be approaching under the influence. It's an outside factor and therefore any confidence you think you might have while having fragrance/under the influence is completely invalid and should not be used as a reference point. A man earns confidence points by approaching women and being direct and blunt about it and by getting rejected numerous times. You can wear fragrance, but that shouldn't be a critical component for your confidence. Not even as an add-on to an already existing confidence you may have while approaching women. That's my two cents about it.
I’ll tell you the same thing I tell my little brothers and younger men at work- Everyone is talking about “how to get women” what ever happened to having a crush on a specific woman? It’s like some young men are just trying to appeal to everyone. If you don’t have a woman that you’re actually interested in, why are you trying to date anyway? Shouldn’t you be focusing on something else? Like what good does it do you as a man to just go out blind and then not even know the qualities that you want in a woman? Once you’re living as your true self and continuously working on yourself you’ll naturally start to find the women that are right for you.
I'm on the spectrum and even I have always noticed how **profoundly uncomfortable** the women are in these kinds of videos. They're acting kind and smiling because they're unsure if they're about to be assaulted and are doing their best to de-escalate the situation by seeming both kind and busy. Unless these men are more autistic than me, they know exactly the situation they're putting these women in. Just go to parties, meet people, treat women like you would your male friends. It's not hard! Even I can do it!
I think with these kind of people it's due to being isolated and lacking social experience. They struggle talking to anyone and making friends let alone partners. I knew a guy who was raised by a sexist mom, went to an all boys school and never socialised until he got to uni. And he started spewing everything Andrew Tate said. And then he wondered why no one likes him, especially girls.
Even when I was a socially stunted teenager (got a lot better now as an adult) I always understood these kinds of things. These guys are so pathetic honestly..
I appreciate this. I tend to make up excuses for weird dudes like this “maybe he has a disability or lacks social skills” nope usually it’s entitlement and lack of empathy.
Online dating is like going to the middle of the ocean with a spear and a rope, throwing the spear into the water and hope to catch something. It makes no sense. People need to be less online and more in social circles if they want to truly have a chance. Online personalities are also vastly different than IRL ones. I'm often told I'm cold online despite being the opposite IRL.
What always kills me is that some guys are willing to pay for this bs thinking they'll learn anything, instead of listening to women's experiences and perspectives for free
@@hunterlg13 I don't think you understood what I meant in my comment. Let me rephrase it: It's stupid that many men pay for bs "dating advice" from scammers because they want to learn about women, when simply talking to women would teach them all they want to know and much more, and they wouldn't have to pay anything.
I love how Charlie exposes the worst and best stuff. Like, seriously. I think, instead of dating apps, how about just throwing your coffee on somebody and say sorry. Story of my life, dude.
I got dumped by a cheater last month and I don’t regret that relationship because that sack of bastard showed me your channel and I’m so glad to be here
I tapped into the pick-up scene many years ago and it helped me meet my current wife. It more or less helped me with my awkward social skills more than approaching women.
People who give dating advices while not having a stable one themselves are just cringe. 💀 Edit: Didn't mean to start a war in the comments. What I meant was that if you can't FOLLOW your own dating advice on for example "how keep a man" then why you giving other people advice on it. I also understand that a lot people who are single have great dating advice.
Then they also start off their sentences with "most guys don't realize blah blah..." making people think they're getting ahead of the league or something.
Based. They and their approach are very disliked by actual girls. Like. I don't know what kind of mental gymnastics bois need to use to think that this kind of behaviour will be accepted and treated as normal. They are cringe and predatory af. They are not treating any woman as an individual. Maybe even if an initial connection will click, it'd be a dead end anyway.
I met one of these during a zoom class, as my student. They were practising how to talk in the past tense with the topic of their teenage years (spanish class). The guy was in a breakout room with me and at least four other women and he goes "I'd tell my younger self that women like bad guys, he could have had so many of them if he had been more aggressive". There was an awkward silence and the others, poor saints, kinda laughed it off and tried to convince him that while some girls do like the bad boy trope, it will all depend on the girl, and you can't be always playing the part. They even mentioned their types (I think in hopes of keeping this as a funny convo) but he just... Wouldn't listen. He even said something like "you say that but evidence proves that what women really want is different". With four women there literally telling him what they wanted. It's extremely confusing.
Here's the real advice, which overlaps quite a bit with making friends in general. Vibes are everything because they transcend words. In other words, as the old adage says: the best way to not get along with others is by being ill at ease with yourself. So you really need to learn to properly love yourself (because how can you properly love anyone else if you dont even know how to love yourself?). Even if it means creating ways to love yourself: like habitually doing hobbies that you love, pursuing childhood dreams, doing things to make mirrors more kind to you; basically, doing things that keep your spirit alive. Then, when you're finally comfortable in your own skin, everyone will know it. Without words. Be candid. Be kind. Maintain good hygiene and wear clothes that fit you, and aren't shabby. And the key to being a great conversationalist is being a great listener. That is all for now.
I'm sorry but you're wrong here as that is only your subjective view of what an "ideal" male would look. Frankly for every woman it's quite different that's why if you change how you look or whether you keep your hygiene good or not, whether you wear some fancy-schmancy clothes, that doesn't change the outcome of whether a girl will reject you or be receptive. It's a numbers game. If there's 100 women in the room and 7 would exchange numbers with me with the way I dress, look and present myself right now. That number doesn't go drastically up or down if there is a change to my appearance. You only filter yourself for women which have different standards. Also, you're most comfortable when you're in your comfort zone. That's not a way to go on and approach. Approaching women really gets you out of your comfort zone and no just by being comfortable, inside your world without saying anything will get you nowhere. And if by some chance a man manages to find a girl that way, that's pure luck. I would say there's a 0.0001% of that ever happening.
@EscapeT8 Matrix my main point, was that desperation and insecurity and self-negligence are the most unattractive things on the planet. And no, you don't necessarily need to straight cold approach. If you're at a place where people want to meet, women will make themselves available to you if they're actually interested (sorry to say, but women are quite superior socially, and will have already scanned the room and have taken a list, before you realize it, if they're on the prowl). In other words, if they're bold, they'll meet your eye. But stares aren't everything. They might simply move somewhere close by so that you won't have to work too hard to meet them. And if you are talking to them, their eyes will tell you everything you want to know. And, on the surface level, it's not about what you say, but how you say it. And unfortunately, art is simply not a science. And that's all I will say for now.
While I agree on your main point. Desperation, neediness, insecurity is a complete turn off for a woman. If woman is in a place where she expects an approach ("place where people want to meet"), the approach itself is not impressive to her. Because she is anticipating it already. I've approached thousands of women, the less a woman was expecting an approach (0% or close to 0%) the more she was impressed with the approach. Which is not the goal but I'm just making a point. I want to argue a point that cold and bold approach is most definitely a way to go. Reason being not because a woman you approach will necessarily like boldness or directness, that's not relevant and in man's eyes it simply does not matter what you, her, your friend I approach thinks about it. It's because it builds my confidence and nothing else matters. Getting a girl's number, taking her on a date and spending time dating her is just an extra. Like I said, the way you present yourself directly filters out who you'll pair with. The reason why directness, cold and blunt approach are a necessity for a man's approach is because it builds undeniable confidence over constant and constant approaching. I agree it has nothing to do what you initially say as long as you say it confidently and with intention.
If you have alot of experience dating, that also means you have no experience in a committed relationship. The goal is to spend as little time as possible in the "dating" zone.
well depends on semantics. Some would disagree with your definition of dating. Being in a relationship can be considered ongoing dating. As for meeting people, it's not necessarily a bad thing. Especially if you are looking for something specific and not just any old somebody.
Okay so maybe there are some people out there that would be flattered by a stranger telling them they're the most beautiful person they've ever seen (or something similar), but personally, that's coming on WAY too strong.
Not to mention it is most likely a lie... your average person is never going to be the most beautiful person you've ever seen. It takes getting to know someone and finding things about their personality that you find attractive to put them at the top of the scale.
8:38 If a girl says "Oh, uhm... maybe" like that is fair to think they are not interested, but want to avoid conflict just in case and/or couldn't think of an excuse.
Softening the blow yeah. Can't tell if the dude will take it badly. It sucks because there's a lot of shy women who will genuinely be interested but give off uninterested signals
This comment section is like a collection of terrible takes on cold approaches by people who've never done or witnessed a cold approach in their life. When women aren't interested, they'll say "Sorry, I have a boyfriend", "Sorry, I have to go somewhere" or "Sorry, I'm not interested". 99% of the time it's the first one, because it's incredibly safe and easy. If you're doing a very direct cold approach where you state your intent as early as possible, what you're hoping for is some version of "maybe" which is an invitation to keep engaging - attractive women aren't going to jump your bone within 10 seconds of meeting. If your intent is to say that you're not interested, and to end the interaction, it makes absolutely no sense to give an ambiguous answer which leaves the conversation wide open without even an off-ramp. Your brain is so scrambled from lapping up Charlie's demonstrably erroneous narrative on this guy that you think is how a conversation goes: Him: "Can I take you out for coffee?" Her: "Maybe" Him: "Ok, bye"
Don't be yourself, be how the guru tells you to be! That way when the mask eventually slips because its hard to pretend to be something your not for any extended period it will be even more awkward and hilarious 🤣 😂
But what if being yourself means being too shy to talk to girls? Like you need to go against your natural instincts. Be yourself is an advice for date.
I second a lot of what Charlie says. Be normal around people, crack safe jokes that you actually find funny, and share your passion for your favorite things in life and plenty of people (male, female, or any other gender) will enjoy being around you. That's how you get dates. By being chill and fun to be around.
Personally, i would say to be socially appropriate for the occasion and not be a creep, that will get you laid faster than the BS these pick up artists are peddling.
Can confirm, this is how I fell in love with my husband. He just acted like a normal person, and treated me as another human being worthy of respect. He never made any romantic moves towards me until it was clear we were both ready to move in that direction. Being geniune and just treating other people as your equal is WAY more effective than whatever BS pickup artists try to sell to desperate men.
I like how his advice is basically pretending to be a completely different human and don't be yourself. Just like any other dating guru. This will definitely never backlash on you...
Theres a thought process i find helpful when meeting someone new or attempting to get a date. That thought is "this person is not a tiger." They cant eat or hurt you, the worse that can happen is that they say no. Thats harmless, once you remove the stress of the situation and don't put them on a pedestal talking relaxing and flirting becomes about as easy as breathing. Apart from that remember your manners don't be a dick keep an open mind and make sure you can have a laugh with them and you'll be fine. Talk to them like a human not a mission you trying to complete. Once i had this down lady friends would often point out how easy i was to talk to/flirt or banter and laugh with and i didn't even notice i was doing it. Its not rocket science. Also read the room, walking up to total strangers trying to sound like romeo while they're obviously trying to do their job or get on with their day isn't gonna help anyone.
I love how he is constantly reminding us about the semental he is, and how he could steal physically and metaphorically, any women’s heart. That totally doesn’t scream “insecure”.
@@msmeggacha7701 there is something far worse than being a bot on RU-vid and that's replying with a bot comment and not even being counted as a reply. That's honestly hilarious.
Since my company seems to have attracted a lot of "businesses" with this sales tactic, I can tell you most of them are just one or two people taking out a loan, hiring someone to "write" a book on their behalf (where most of the book will actually have a mishmash of psychology, philosophy and the "authors" life story sprinkled around in a loosely connected fashion) and set up a website where they peddle that stuff. It's the same for pickup artists, sex gurus, self-help gurus, "specialized" psychology experts, etc. Most of them just try it out for a couple of years and try to bank on the charisma, but usually have no idea on how to run a business, so they just waste the money and end up with returning to daily jobs while paying out that bank loan, and keeping the lights on at a minimal level on what then becomes a very stagnant side hustle.
Unfortunately this pathetic dating guru crap is nowehere near as lucrative as onlyfans. Anyway, male losers are a perpetual cash cow for ethots. Sleezy pick up artists try to get in on the act but can't hope to compete
Facebook dating is actually pretty decent. Maybe not in the USA, because it's practically an "old people" app now. But in certain places in the world like in Southeast Asia for example, it's pretty effective because the general population still uses it. Plus it's completely free (except for the data you send Zucc the Lizard Man)
I'm a woman, and for some reason the idea of ever actually persuing a guy who initiated contact via approaching me on the street sounds... terrifying? The way I've always known solid relationships to form is usually via mutual friends, or hanging out with a group of people and randomly meeting a friend of a friend, or meeting them in school/college, at a dance class, or other hobby-related place? Because in this circumstances YOU KNOW you have something in common and can get an idea of what the other person is like. When you just approach them on the street you only somewhat-know their appearance, and if that's enough for you to initiate a date then you're probably not looking for something serious right?? Or am I just weird
You're just weird. Before the smart phone era, people met all the damn time in random places like the grocery store, a park, or off the street. Only nowadays do we consider it "creepy" because we've normalized dating apps while making cold approaches taboo when it used to be the other way around.
Nah I agree with you, idgaf how people used to meet, if I'm out and about minding my business or with my friends I don't want some stranger coming up to me. And I wouldn't want to be with the sort of guy who thinks it's acceptable to go around bothering girls in public either.
@@LeeEverett1 facts, I don’t understand why people think cold approach in itself is so wrong. The idea of it nerve racking? I can understand that but it being immoral is just a coping mechanism for guys who are too afraid to go and actually talk to girls
@@Lickmytoe Then take yourself out of the dating pool. If you're shaming guys by saying that we're "bothering" you by simply saying hello then you've got issues and need therapy for your lack of social skills and how you view the opposite sex. What are men supposed to do? Women don't approach and most men don't stand a chance on dating apps or even at bars/clubs due to stiff competition in these places, so how is a normal guy supposed to ever date? Because every friend or boyfriend you've ever had was a stranger at one point.
@@thewitchfindergeneral4015 Women are the only ones who think cold approaching is wrong. Majority of men don't stand a chance on dating apps or in the clubs, so they're either left with dating a coworker which is almost always a bad idea, or cold approach which men are now being shamed to do. I agree it's cope if a guy makes excuses, but to be fair alot of guys are so nervous with approaching due to hostile women trying to embarass or shame them for talking to her.
@@misscandle you say that as if men are the picky gender when the reality is that 80% of women choose the top 20% of men, and that hypergamy (dating up) is only a woman thing.
@@BULD0SIS Men are picky too. One little cheat that people do is "Wat's ur type?" which is... being picky. I won't list all the other problems with coming up with "types" to be attracted to, but meh.
But what about the guy who ‘is himself’ and still gets no play? What does that guy do? That’s where these scripts and advices come in. I’m not defending these gurus but people here seem to shame the type of people who buy their courses for trying to improve their lot with women. On the one hand you say be yourself to people but then when that isn’t good enough you shame them for trying to get to the point where being themselves is good enough.Where’s the feel good view on dating now?
Just like Charlie trying to give advice when he himself has a butt ugly girlfriend 💀💀 lol yea guys listen up to your neckbeard idol if you want a gf like him
I’ll say this much dude, I have been using FB dating recently annnnd it’s easily the best one for dating. Unlimited swipes means you can really weed out the bots & really find your person without settling Been dating this beautiful gamer/nerd of a woman for 2 months now. She’s absolutely lovely and our dates have been very fun. Don’t shit all over us introverts, yeah?
I remember a few years (probably one or two) after instagram came out, all the kids at school were saying facebook was dead. There's still people on there (the few times I've checked it) and I imagine that the lower saturation of tiktok instagram brains would make it easier to find a paletteable human being to see.
Seriously. I met my guy through a video game. I wasn't trying, but it happened anyway. We were friends for 6 years before I moved 1200 miles to be with him, best decision ever. Introvert dating methods FTW.
I went down the red pill rabbit hole several years ago and what they do is exploit insecure men. Their target demographic is unhappy, single men. But consuming the content just makes you feel even worse, so it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy that you NEED their content in the first place. These guys want you to need them, they don’t want you to improve your life. Obviously self improvement is great but not to the point where it becomes narcissistic.
@MSMEG IX techno been dead for 4 months and you're still botting accounts to spew out your bs and I can't stop laughing because you're wasting your life
I think that the idea that you dont have to publicly show youre asking for help on social media is an inclination towards services like this guy bc its just one guy or a small team to help you out and its a little more low key is a major point for people that are struggling with dating and relationships
The worst part is that interaction around 8:25 was like…actually relatively normal? Usually the "gurus" are the bane of my existence but he walked up, complimented, made a brief small talk, and then dismissed himself without overstaying the welcome, she kept self-agency to continue if she wanted to without him being overbearing? Am I absolutely insane for thinking that wasn't awful?
I reckon the course isn't just 7 dollars. It's probably a two payment process where you get some stuff and then they charge you more, like a lot of gurus tend to do to get interest in their courses only to charge loads for them in the end anyway
Picking up girls is easy. Just give them some space and say: Pardon mine own interjection m’lady and I pray these words fall not harshly upon thine ears but I simply must declare your appearance hath captivated my eyes. Tis as though we has’t been connected by the red thread of fate.
These are all the things that will land you the woman of your dreams: Magic Cards, Trilbys/Fedoras, Neckbeards, Bent glasses, Dragon posters, Alienware, Funko Pops, Renaissance fair, Virginity, No deodorant, Goodwill suit jacket.
