I find dating in Sweden so frustrating. Because everything moves so slowly you never really know where you have that person. Are we just friends, friends with benefits, a couple, lovers? There is aloooot of going back and forth and alot of being in that middle ground of not being together but not dating others which in my opinion is very uncomfortable. I feel people in the US are alot more clear which makes everything alot easier!
So us guys don´t really find any purpose with western women anymore. They´re not really feminine anymore so they don´t really bring anything to the table. They basically act like 10 year old boys before puberty. not very attractive. Very incompatible.
Hi, great video again. I would not say bragging makes us uncounterable, it might make us a bit annoyed since we most often don't care about what you've achieved on a personal level. We are more interested in how you are as a person and what you are contributing with to the society, even though the later is not something we usually talk that much about. It's more about how you are in general, show who you are don't think we trust only in what you say ;) (well that is my perception of it anyway)
I'm Swedish and don't know much about American culture, but from what I've heard it's a lot more common to date several people at once in America. In Sweden most people only date one person at a time, so you have to make it very clear in the beginning if you're dating/planning on dating several people at once! Most people will be fine with you dating several people at once as long as you haven't done anything physical yet, but if you don't mention it, they will assume that they're the only person you're dating. So be mindful of that since it can lead to jealousy or people thinking you're playing them or not being serious if you don't tell them about it early on.
Because there´s just so much more great options in the USA. There are actually alot of really hot babes in USA as opposed to the overpolitical and mentally retarded girls in sweden, no dude would even wanna poke even with a stick.
I really appreciate this answer. Very good analysis too! My father and my brothers and sisters live in Finland but I am very interested in Sweden in general.
@@stacyglez6099 to get to know them before picking one... its a pretty vast cultural difference but actually pretty sensible, why should you really just throw yourself at one person you know nothing about and discard 2 others who you never got to know,... maybe one of them were a way better match, youll never know now. These oldschool kind of dates, as far as I know (and maybe its not like that anymore o.O) didnt really contain much intimacy but were essentially just hanging out, going to the movies etc to see if you matched, a "partnership interview" if you will, and as long as thats all thats happening why would it be wrong to watch movies with 2 different people? Its just very wierd if youve never grown up with that culture... In sweden a "Date" is not a "partnerships interview" we tend to skip that and the "date" becomes way more intimate as its commonly accepted that you only accept a date if you already know youre interested in the other person, sex on the first date is not an overwhelming majority or anything but its not rare by any metric and making out is almost guaranteed so if you're *Dating* several people at once in Sweden, youre a bit of an asshole.
@@__-bc4bs yeaaa cuz the american women are not pc or overpoliticized... where the hell do you think swedish women got these ideas dumbass? You realize its called "Feminism" in sweden as well, thats not a swedish word. Or maybe you were talking about the braindead bimbos on the californa beaches? The ones who when asked "In *1776* when the founding fathers signed the declaration of independance... what *year* did the sign it" and these people answer "Uuummmm 1946?" Or the ones who believe TV stands.for "Teleportation vortex"... maybe the lovely "babe" who never heard of world war 2? Are these what youd call the superior choises? Theyd forget their fucking ass in the shitter if it wasnt attached to them, no amount of plastic tits will ever make low IQ or nihilism attractive. Keep your "Babes" dude, atleast my kids wont die before graduating daycare from drinking glue in the sandbox while stuffing his nose with marbles 👍 good luck with that .
Fellow American on exchange in Uppsala. I do like how girls are not afraid to approach first. Also everyone paying for themselves ensures that they want you for who you are, not just for what you can provide for them. Pretty interesting, at least my experience at University is that youre more likely to hook up before going on "dates". Alas, maybe I'll end up living in Sweden, just a more chill life. Jag älskar Sverige!
@Steven Huang Soooooo in other news. It´s really cool that USA and Russia are teaming up to build a new spacestation on the moon. and using the moon as a slingshot to get the first man on Mars. #Deepspacegateway Last time we were doing moonlandings it spawned so much new tech. Satellite communications, cordless tech, LED lights, solar power, water purification, digital cameras, computers, cellphones. Wonder what new stuff this new era will spawn. Real science instead of swedish socialist horseshit that leads nowhere. USA is the best. 🇺🇸🇷🇺👌✨
I live in Sweden 8 years. This country is not family oriented country so if you wanna be single for ever its a perfekt place for you to stay. I think is always good to go out for fika first later hook up. You never know who you are dealing with. Cheating here are not big thing so be carefull. If you will feel like to get family or someone serious better choose USA just saying. View about Sweden from student's perspective is different than from regulars. This country has big rape rate and getting worse. Prices of living goes up and it is not going along with salaries ao you get paid same but playing more for living. I love many things about Sweden and I appreciate a lot of stuff but my trust level with people got worst and I have been lucky to find my partner who was a newcomer in Sweden so his values about relationship were really good. Othervise being here leads you to short term relationships because people are not thinking serious aboutrelationship so many end up alone happy or sad lol but ... hmm how many depressed people you have got? Plenty lol
@Elias Håkansson I agree. First question I usually used to get. Is it your own apartment or renting? I am like it is mine does it make any difference for you bitch hahah
@@annagaluszka26 Yes, very true. American girls are just soooooo much more sweet and familyoriented than girls here in sweden. Most guys I know just work here until they can afford to move to another country and start a real family, where the monarchy/government isn´t trying to destroy the hetrosexual relationship like here in sweden.
Hi Stefan! Do you maybe have already a video about the nightlife of Sweden? Which place you definitely need to go as a (exchange) student and how are the Swedes when they are going out/drunk? If you are out of ideas, this is maybe a good one 😄
I was in Sweden during the summer, I found that most Swedish guys don’t approach girls, and didn’t even chit chat, which didn’t make any sense to me, because I found that most of them were immensely good looking men. I went out with two Swedish girls during my two week stay, and it was interesting to see that girls wanted to pay for their share of everything, it just happened naturally, and it was quite ironic that for a guy from Arabia, I freaked out, and was like on MUST CHECK MY SURROUnDINGS for anyone gazing upon this scene, and must not allow them to report this back to my tribe lol. But it was quite refreshing, there was no pressure on me being the man to pay for everything, and to think of everything. Actually, because it was my first ever visit to Sweden, it was the ladies who made all the plans and recommendations to show off Stockholm, and the islands around the arichpelago to me. Lastly, it wasn’t that bad, the whole gender equality thing going on, I saw a lot of perks. Merry Christmas everyone from Dubai.
Look man, we swedish guys don´t want a girl when living in sweden anymore. Our feminazi society has made it impossible to have some sort of meaningful relationship with swedish chicks. You got the whole system rigged against you here. If you don´t get falsely accused of rape #falsktillvitelse You´re probably gonna get some swedish chick fluffing you up in the start, then you get engaged and fooled into marriage. Then after a couple of years she divorce you steal your kids and your money and again, false rape accusations #falsktillvitelse It´s simply not worth bothering anymore. So most swedish guys are staying away from relationships and are just working to get out of sweden and move to another country to start a family.
I am trying my very best to understand your plight. As I did see some of these elements you pointed out right in front of me, and have read a lot more throughout the years, or at least since 2016. If I may? Would you say that the same situation exists in Norway, Denmark, and Finland too? Or does it very from one country to one another? The reason I ask is that; to my humble knowledge, many Swedes work in Norway for instance, which is quite obvious and goes without saying, as the NOK is stronger, and salaries are higher, though I would imagine that life is more expensive in Oslo than Stockholm, no? One last point, and I do hope you would forgive my bombardment of questions. Why doesn’t this toxic masculinity extend to men from outside of Sweden? Especially a gentleman such as myself, who happens to be from a world and a civilization with the lowest gender equality imaginable, especially when set against a scandenivian man? It just never made any sense to me, and the blaming of everything on straight white males. I don’t know, I just hope I made some sense. I look forward to hearing from you.
@@khalidalali186 I would say it is most frequent in sweden and it was the swedish government that invented these libtard ideologies out of thin air with zero consideration to reality and science. Danmark, Finland and Norway stick more to our 1000 year old christian ethics instead of the liberal mess from drottningholm and rosenbad so they have these issues to a far lower extent even if they can occur with some. For swedes working in norway pays better and swedes often consider Norway more expensive to live in than stockholm, but most people from other countries can´t tell the difference and say they are both expensive. This is due to our extremely high tax. The bogus gender equlity propaganda doesn´t extend to other countries as long as you don´t invite our politicians to come and ruin your culture too. It only extend inside sweden due to harassment and persecution done by our monarchs and government ontothe swedish people, which is why more and more men here in sweden are distancing themselves to any form of relationship with a woman in sweden and are just working here til they can afford to move to a normal country and create a family in a good environment.
I wouldn’t know how to reply to that to be honest. I’m currently watching the news about the Danish folk song about a blonde girl, and how one foreign teacher at the Copenhagen Business School was offended somehow by that song, and how no one entertained her, except for the wimpy university dean I believe, and how members of parliament sang the song in defiance, and how the Justice minister tweeted how ridiculous this is! For a women, whose not even a Dane to be offended by a song. The Danes seem not to give any damn whatsoever about PC culture. Good on them. Whereas in Sweden I would assume you would get into trouble for speaking your mind, and wondering off the precepts or dictums of mainstream thoughts being enforced against you by the government through different outlets, including education or indoctrination from a young age. You’re taxes are indeed very high. When people kept asking me about whether or not Sweden is as wealthy as the United Arab Emirates, and they asked my younger brother the same thing about Norway. We both answered that yeah, they are wealthy countries, with populations of 10 and 5 million respectively. Yes GDP per capita is very high, similar to us. But the funny part was that, we would keep telling everyone how they had to fund this social welfare system through a very progressive tax system, with very high income tax rates, so their after tax incomes were lower, as we don’t have any form of income tax as of yet, and only VAT was introduced the beginning of this year. I also noticed that many people took advantage of this generous welfare system in Sweden, and my brother commented how the Universal Basic Income failed in Norway, as people chilled rather than did anything good with so much time in their hands. Moreover, my brother and I both agreed, that life in Oslo or Stockholm was way more expensive than life in Dubai or Abu Dhabi, though our cities happen to be some of the most expensive to live in as well. If I also dare say sir! And please correct me if I am wrong, but I found that there is a huge gap in distribution of wealth among the native Swedes, considering the people who live in the nice areas of Stockholm, and who have modern glassy cabins around the archipelago, in contrast to those living in Less well off neighborhoods, with a very large migrant population among them too. Oh and btw! I never understood why in police reports or news they never say that such and such a man committed such and such a crime, especially if he was a Muslim?! Are they worried that the liberals and feminists would accuse them of racism and islamophobia? If so, that’s extremely stupid and counter productive. And would people face problems in their careers let’s say, if they were to post something that is deemed politically incorrect on social media for instance?
@@khalidalali186 Yes, Denmark has a tradition of standing up against overly conforming behavior i.e "jantelagen" a concept that was invented by a danish author in the 1930s, describing a stupid PC behavior that had it´s roots in socialism. The book is called "A Fugitive Covers His Tracks" by the author Aksel Sandmose. Aksel was born in Denmark and moved to Norway in the 1930s. This is one of his most celebrated books that really pinpoints the problematic mindset and mental abuse that was imposed onto the swedish people by the swedish monarchy and government. You can buy it from this link: www.amazon.com/Fugitive-Covers-His-Tracks-ebook/dp/B07F8Z62RV/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1540465290&sr=8-1&keywords=A+Fugitive+Covers+His+Tracks&dpID=51Oc0LMZLML&preST=_SX342_QL70_&dpSrc=srch This phenomenon peaked in the 1970s in stockholm sweden in the classic "Normalmstorg hostage incident" were the people that were taken hostage ended up sympathizing with the criminal at the cost of their own expence, even lives, instead of with the police that was trying to save them. This phenomenon was later noticed in psychiatry and labeled as #stockholmsyndrome There are many illogical and overly conforming behaviors that spring out of our socialist past. A Norwegian man made a documentary series about it where he deals with most of these hypocritical behaviors. The documentary series is called "Hjernevask" (Brainwash) and it´s made by the Norwegian sociologist and celebrity Harald Eia. The documentary series is in Norwegian with english subtitles and deals with all of the issues Scandinavian countries, but mostly sweden has, that are sprung out of our socialism/communism past. Denial of science and fact, and hiding and twisting the truth to the Swedish people. Here´s a link to the documentary series: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-E577jhf25t4.html Yes there is an increasing gap between socioeconomic level in sweden. From the modern glassy cabins around the archipelago, down to the "nogozones" outside the cities. This is another problem that has it´s roots in socialist politicians of creating the "million programmet" in the 1970s and has escalated into the very problematic situations we see today. The media SVT that also has its roots in socialism, and also Tv4 to some extent. Have these PC agendas that are extremely stupid and counterproductive. Many people have faced issues in their careers when they expressed something on social media that is deemed politically incorrect. A grassroots movement by the swedish people is currently growing stronger that oppose all of this problematic and hypocritical stuff held up by our socialist/liberal fascist government and monarchy.
One thing you didn't talk about is the fact that since sweden is a pretty small country (population wise) you will ALWAYS have some type of connection to most people you date. Even here in stockholm whenever me and my friends meet someone new, that person ALWAYS ends up knowing someone you know. Whether that is a friend of yours that you have mutual or maybe your cousins friends friend. Like you will always have one person in mutual which I think sucks tbh
would not say that is true, maybe if you like an emo and only dates emos ore live in östermalm and only date östermalm ppl ore something like that but if you go out and meet new ppl in difrent parts of stockholm its not a big chance they know your friends.
Well, there's 10 million living in Sweden, generally concentrated in much denser areas than the US. If you live in a e.g. 500k population city in Sweden it wouldn't be much different from living in a 500k population city in the US, you'd be surrounded by the same amount of people within your range of interaction. So I think you're exaggerating this a little bit. Your situation wouldn't be much different if you lived in a comparable US city. But, of course, if you live in New York or LA it would be much different. It all 100% depends on the population density where you live, and the total population density in Sweden is actually just slightly lower than the US. I think you just know a lot of people, lol.
I try to be friendly as much as possible, though it’s understandable why some women are hostile towards men coming onto them. Because very often guys will not take no for any answer and they keep hitting and hitting on us even though we’ve said no several times. So it’s understandable why women would be a bit reserved. Also a lot of the time guys will take friendliness as to mean we’re into them when we’re just being friendly and thus won’t take no for any answer
Sweden has a small population. The awkward thing is to date(meet) with two swedes in the same weekend and it turns out that these two guys are friends. 😂
Vi är ett märkligt folk. Kul att höra hur andra uppfattar oss. Just detta med jantelagen att ingen ska tro att den är bättre är något vi borde ändra på. Det är ju ärligt talat rätt stört.
Totally agreed with you. I'm Vietnamese girl and some couples day ago, I had a crush on a Swedish boy. I feel just one-side discussion. Only me asked him and he didn't ask me any info. I also supposed that he didn't like me. But when I talked with other people, I always caught his eyes paying attention to me. I think they are very passive to express their feelings. I am waiting for his sign for approaching me but not. I'm Asian girl & am not familiar with flirting or approaching men first. I know this info abt Swedish men too late.
Video tips: Make a video where u try Swedish fast food! Ofc we have some of the same ones as u do, but like either comparing it to America or just try what is out there :)
I rushed relationships so much in the past. I regret it so much. I’m 25 and my walls are up because of it along as my “mom” left me. Everyone leaves without a word. I can care less about marriage.. I feel bad saying that.. I wanna move to Sweden so bad 💛💙
Samma här 36 år singel kvinna men börjar bli lite trött på singel livet samtidigt så är jag lite för van vid det tror att jag kommer ha svårt att komma in i ett förhållande då jag är allt för självständig. Jag menar vet inte om jag har lust nog att höra av mig och gå med på att träffas så ofta som man måste för att inte tappa intresset liksom, känns som för mycket jobb.
I always get depressed after watching these Sweden videos because then I realize living in America is a dystopian hellhole. Even living in Hawaii the nicest American state, it is still a dystopia compared to Sweden. There is no such thing as life work balance, there is no Fika, people are arrogant and greedy. There are homeless people everywhere but nobody cares. There is crime and drug abuse.
@@Mazter1veteran Well there is no such thing as a utopia but believe me Sweden is a lot better than America. There are people sleeping in tents on the side of the road here like it is a 3rd would country. The poor die from random diseases because they have no healthcare. Life expectancy is falling because the country has adopted an ultra-capitalist world view and it is getting worse. www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db328.htm Trump is taking away food stamps from the poor to pay for tax cuts to the rich. www.whitehouse.gov/articles/new-snap-rules-encourage-productivity-instead-poverty/ America needs to adopt social democracy and redistribute some of the insane wealth of the rich. America is the kind of country where people starve in the streets while a single person can make $5 billion dollars in a single day gambling on the stock market. America is literally a hell world dystopia.
You sound like a communist. We don't want people like you here. Many people here in Sweden dislike immigrants, social democracy and people who just abuse the wealth fare. @@Novusod
@@Mazter1veteran I am not interested in immigrating to Sweden. I want to bring Swedish style social democracy to America. I want to make America like Sweden. America is the only industrial country without universal healthcare, maternity leave, or mandated paid vacation days. Students have to take on 20 year loans just to go to college unless born into a wealthy family. The American economy sucks and needs to be reformed.
@@Novusod I completely agree with you! I used to live in the states and it has always had a special place in my heart. I even always said I would move back there when I "grow up" (whenever that is haha). Unfortunatly, the way things are run in the States now I cant see myself living there, at least not until something changes.
Dating is not really a thing here either. At least not like US it seems. It's more like habging out lol. I've noticed that people from the US are still calling it dating when they've been with something for like a year or even more whivh is verh weird yo me haha. Same with saying you're single when yoj're unmarried.
The reason why dating isn´t a thing in sweden anymore is because the hetrosexual relationship has been destroyed by liberalfascist propaganda. swedes don´t make any babies anymore.
_ _ they have not. Good god you sound like a terf. You do realize there’s a correlation between higher income, higher education and better pay and having less children right? That’s definitely not cos of a leftist agenda. Citations needed
On the marriage age thing, it is not universally older. I was 29 and my wife was 20 when we got married (but that is abnormal, I'm around 40 now, and my wife is 30 and none of our close friends are married yet).
And not everyone date in purpose to get married. Not when we are younger anyways. Some people don't even want to get married. Maybe just live together or just hang out as boy or girlfriend.
@@donaldduck4042 oh, and what political view do I have? Are to tell me? Have you actually bothered to check the comment section? The dude is totally unhinged and using incel language.
Nah, Finland is a bit better than here. Plus Finland is a free republic run by the people like normal countries, instead of a liberalfascist monarchy that harasses the swedish people with ideologic brainwash.
Good video, can you do a video about self driving autos in Sweden? It’s a big push here in America, LA, Washington big cities. Merry Christmas and happy new year
4:05 I can understand and respect the non-cocky thing. But does that translate over to competitive activities too or are do Swedes allow cockiness in sports, games, etc?
Regarding the disdain for cockiness, I'd attribute that to the Law of Jante. It's basically an unwritten rule that you should never try to present yourself as being better than anyone else, hence the somewhat humble nature of many Scandinavians.
In Sweden they like to take it gradually. Never offer to pay for the meal if you are dating a Swedish feminist unless you want to your head bitten off.
As an American of Swedish descent, I can see the benefit of moving slower in a relationship, the Swedes have that right. As far as marriage, I believe it is an institution that God established, not man. So I got married to the woman that is now my wife. It is a commitment that you make to that other person. There is great security in it, both emotionally and physically. The thing that makes me question the Swedes on is the late marriages and having kids so late. I want my older years to be having fun with my wife again. I do not want to be middle aged with babies or elderly with 15 year old kids. Americans try to get it over when you are young and you have the nerves and energy to deal with children.
Call me traditional but I do think the guy should do the asking to go out on date and should pay for it, but I am American, got married at 21, had three babies by 26 and then even had a fourth in my thirties. My husband did all the asking and all the paying and 29 years later we are still together and happy.
All of your videos made me realise that USA doesn't actually have everything Sweden has. When you talked about swish and BankID earlier this year I was sort of dumbfounded because I've always thought USA had something better even.
I am born and raised in the bible belt in the US and have recently been wanting to learn more about other cultures..i do not speak swedish and have not had the chance to visit sweden but would love to...i have decided a have a swedish soul!!lol...i feel like i am very swedish🙃and a bit sad that my culture has never fit me
I think it's much harder for me to find friends and to date maybe because I I'm Syrian ( it is like a stereotype and maybe Swedes are kind of right) I have been in Sweden, Norrköping for around 3 months yet I don't have any One friend. Maybe I need some help from you to tell me how to make friends here
Hey there! Try to find people that have same (or close to same) interests (i recommend Discord or Steam groups/servers), try to get to know people at you job/school (if you dont have one try to get one), and if that doesnt work, get tinder or something :) hope this helps!
@@nnn10014 its a place you go to and meet some people who are learning Swedish, you basically have fika and chat with them. I have been there once or twice and it was cool. Honestly I would recommend it to anyone
Hej Stefan! Jag vill bara säga att jag tycker att du är så himla duktig, och att jag skulle vilja ha längre videor! Ca 15-20 min? De tar slut så fort med bara 6-7 min 😅 Keep up the good work and I hope you have a great holiday! 😃
@North America I don't have or have use for What's app so that's a bit tricky, if you are TRULY interested, then get an Instagram account, or tell me your name if you have Facebook (which I don't use that much either, but at least I have it).
Even on daitingsites people are afraid of write what they realy realy want and that is a meet a partner , u dont want to sound that u are desperat , so to find partner is only a complement in their life if u read a 'kontaktannons' not no.1 in what they seek. All of the wimen's kontaktannons a read here says the same, it's so common to read that wimen are alredy happy and like their job , like to do many things as possible, being in the nature, like to have fun and laugh etc. but sometimes it feel that it can be extra to have a partner and the man must should be a non existing superman on every level. (Excuse my bad English)
Youre pretty much on point, ofc many things are from individual to individual but over all ita seem pretty fair. About the whole cocky thing, its in general ok or even effective to be a little bit cocky, just dont be cocky about the wrong stuff, talking loudly and boasting about how much money you make 99% of people will consider you a narcissist and a will probably be interpreted as you not having any good peraonal traits to lean on or lack the confidence to do so, both of which would put you in a ratger bad light. I guess cocky isnt really a good word but rather cheeky I guess, having the balls to speak your mind even if its controversial and standing for you opinion no matter if someone disagrees. Dark cheeky humour is a fantastic tool when dating in sweden but it has to be applied right. A little bit past the line for whats actually socially acceptable to say, and said with a mischievous smirk and a playful look in the eye and youre golden, takes some experience to figure out where and when this is suitable cuz its not always obvious 😁
Question for Stefan. Or anyone reading my post. So you want to move and live in Sweden. Ok you buy travel inc Incase your sick. Now what about working there. You need to apply for a working visa or visitor visa. How do you go about this.
dated a swedish gal for about 7 months, doesnt work for many reasons but 1 is that she needs attention from other men but keeps coming back, she cant have both, cant have me too. So i blocked her, good luck shit not for me
It's really crazy here in Sweden 😂😂😂 if you're from other country I think its hard to date here because most Swedish they prefer to be with Swedish person too...plus young people here are so wild and choosy 😂
Mherre jhoi not really. If you’re from some other country it makes you more interesting which in turns opens new doors. I’m only speaking for my self. I’m not sure about others
@@oliviamoore3426 I agree. If you are an interesting person then I will be interested in you. Where you come from doesn't matter. Swedish, American, African Asian or Marsian 👽✌.
Everybody is human. Real relationship come from heart. I dont interest where are you from. I prefer to say “ I am from the world “ For me, there are two different types of people in the world. You are bad person or good person !
My Swedish friends told me a couple of things which maybe you all can support or negate. I heard Swedes don’t play by the silly American dating rules (no sex on the first date, wait 30 days to have sex or sex only after the 6th date, or no sex until both parties express exclusivity). If this is true I think the Swedish way is more liberating tbh. The dating culture in America is just one stupid chess game. And why do I always have to pay for the meal (dinners, coffees, movies, desserts, gas for roadtrips). I admire Swedish women bc it is expensive to date in America. God forbid I don’t pay for a woman’s 4th drink and her best friends drinks, I am labeled a cheapskate. I also heard the condom culture in Sweden is non existent, which is worrisome bc STDs are on the rise in most developed nations. So I’m wondering why Swedes aren’t feeling condoms? Help me understand bc I’ve only been to Sweden 3 times (just Stockholm and Malmo).
Yes you can have sex on the first date here and it's not wierd. Two, people who have sex or date here often have a very relaxed conversation and can get in on the conversation about std's before sex and/or we know each other from before. Or maybe our friends know them and so we become more relaxed about the situation. But condoms are being used very frequently.
I'm a 22 year old woman who have grown up in Sweden. I've been in a relationship since I was 17 so I haven't had a lot of different sex partners, but from what I understand condoms are not used as much as they should. From what my friends have said and from what I know from before my relationship, most men prefer having sex without a condom regardless if it's a new partner or not. Though, they will not refuse sex if the girl wants them to use a condom (but the girl often has to bring her own for it to happen since most men don't wear them). So if you want to have safe sex in Sweden most people will agree to use a condom, but make sure you have one yourself since a lot of people don't have them at hand.
People are saying swedish guys are very slow but I’ve met one and in a week he was calling me his girlfriend. Should I be worried? Hahahaha we’re together so...
@@juufreires o my God, so this was some serious thing, I am sorry :( I am asking because my girl friend who I think I love is meeting some Swede guy, and I am worried that I have already lost her and that is why I try to help my self by watching those videos. What are your thoughts about Swedes, I know your case is some kind of extreme, but did you see some characteristic things about them?
Topic how We Swedes are more conservative than americans ie not politically but socially things like to date several people without telling them you are multidating is cheating , what is considered ok to talk about or not , open or not , nakedness/ revealing clothes ,
jonathan mascayano lol sant jag bor i Hälsingland men det är lika här även om jag lätt kan få tag i män att ha sex om jag ville det( det går jag dock inte med på i första taget) med så är de flesta inte efter nåt djupare. Även om jag ganska ofta får erbjudanden om mera så har jag blivit mer och mer skeptisk inför sådant.
