@@kittyythecat if we aren't together for the day I will literally get 15 phone calls from him just to say hi or with some sort of gossip 🤣 we've been together 15 years so he knows what's up 😆
As someone who is SO OBLIVIOUS to my surroundings i see myself in this video 😅 (except i love tea i just never notice it. Godblesh my friends who give me the rundown for events i was present for lol)
i’m the same. i’m very attentive to things sometimes but also very not attentive to things sometimes (especially other humans) but i like to hear the tea i missed. ESPECIALLY if it’s random strangers lol
I AGREE. To me, I see tea as studying by not just loving the gossip but by being able to understand emotions by others. This is just me- if they can't understand the drama then they don't know how to read the room
Honestly, I fully relate to this. I'm not into tea and I forget it very easily, but I'm perfectly okay with that 😅 My brain just deemed such gossip as ✨unimportant✨
I am simultaneously both of them, sometimes I will be so into my food or my own little world or those I'm with that I notice nothing and other times I'm like "👀 the tea is scalding up in here!"
Yeah that would be me. I hate confrontation n drama. I would have showed the pictures to ever and told him he can leave so the rest of us can enjoy without his presence. "You don't have t leave b/x this is a public place but you have t get a different table, leave" no arguing. It's a privilege if I talk when I stop it's done.
While i don't like cheaters, if I got the table you can find a new one 💀 I'm sittin pretty and you not wanting to be in my presence doesnt affect me in, like you said, a public space.
It's one thing to observe something. But when you "spill the tea" thats just a different way to say you gossip and dont mind your business. I've been avoiding these type of people all my life.
Ooh that's me. I never notice ANYTHING. And I also don't care when people try to catch me up to speed on other people's lives, so I sometimes zone out 😅
1. You need to just say, "dating someone who isn't into drama." Quite a few people, including me, thought it was about dating someone who wasn't into coffee. 2. Why do I need to be into drama, particularly other people's drama? I'll watch a movie if I want to watch drama.
I remember once, I was with my ex having dinner at a restaurant, and one guy approched other guy, and yelling he literally asked him if they went to jail toghether 😂😂 he spilled the whole tea!! The other guy was with his family and they ended up leaving, after the dude told basically the whole place, they called him a woman's name in jail 😂😂
This is me… hubby and I go to the casino and he can tell you who won what, how much, what time they hit, and point them out three days later. Meanwhile I’m sitting right beside him and saw NOTHING😂
Me lol. My sister knows all, and I’m oblivious. We were getting coffee and doing some work last week, and she was like “those girls over there were like sobbing at the table for 10 minutes” and I just had not even noticed at all.
both me and my dad are little gossips, once we were eating together and we saw the end of a date happen where a guy left this girl with the check and she waited for like 20 minutes for him to come back before leaving. it was sad
Before I clicked, I read the caption as “dating someone who isn’t into coffee,” and I thought one was gonna be all hyper while the other was just hella out of it; this was way better 🤣 I’m kinda both of them tbh; I personally don’t like drama: if it ain’t about me, I don’t need to know. BUT I’ll be damned if I don’t like a lil bit of juicy gossip as a treat every now and again.
Sometimes I wish I was that oblivious because my life would be so much more mellow. Imagine being able to just enjoy the food and block out everything else. Dream come true 😂
No bc yes! My man will see the whole ass drama unfolding and gaslight me into thinking he saw nothing w his lil toxic ass 😂😂😂 love him for tryin to teach me to mind myob but also, its a love hate thing.
Dude was consumed by the world of food and that would've been me 100% vs my best friend that catches everything and needs to keep me updated on things😂😂😂
Oh I'm into tea but I also am the least observant person on the entire planet. One time a corner store I was in was getting robbed at knife point and I didn't notice.
