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Dating Someone With Bipolar | 4 Tips You Need To Know! 

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#1 Gain knowledge with bipolar disorder.
#2 Separate the person from the disease
#3 Be an advocate for this disorder
#4 Take care of yourself.
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@rnorigeta2677
@rnorigeta2677 5 лет назад
so many good advices always! you know.. I never really liked to listen to all of these relationship advices from the media for there is so many people out there that are very immature and ignorant and don't know how to separate one thing from another. Causing them only two tell someone to do something they didn't do themselves in a relationship. but I must say I really enjoy hearing from you Apollonia! thank you for always giving good advises. especially one as big as this one. for many marriages and couples suffer from this particular issue. Real talk. Love your channel! 👍
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 лет назад
Thank you, Ricardo. I appreciate this from the bottom of my heart! Means a lot.
@rnorigeta2677
@rnorigeta2677 5 лет назад
@@ApolloniaPonti you're welcome! Truth is your videos are very interesting and honest. You put good content always, and you do give lots of good advices. So really. thank "You" má! Very hard to find and beautiful, honest yet very smart woman these days! 😁😉👍
@alanjaf9879
@alanjaf9879 3 года назад
you are a beautiful spirit, in next life i want to marry you !
@kaitiloob5396
@kaitiloob5396 5 лет назад
“Separate that person from their disease” - this really resonated with me. This disease does NOT define me. This was spoken so well!
@aperfecttool462
@aperfecttool462 5 лет назад
That's why I say someone HAS bi-polar instead of IS bi-polar.
@Killerex69
@Killerex69 3 года назад
Idk. I like the sentiment, but I personally feel that since it is a life long mood altering disorder, it is a part of me, and thusly defines an aspect of who i am and how i interact with the world.
@mista589
@mista589 3 года назад
@@Killerex69 💯 percent. The results will always be displayed in the moods, regardless how you paint the phrase "bipolar". The Manic episodes will be magical first dates, and the depression will be self evident. In the end, the Bipolar tendencies will present differently as the stresses and situations change over the course of any relationship.
@nbamoyboyy4325
@nbamoyboyy4325 Год назад
Do not do it guys. These bi polar thots will switch up on you in a heart beat. Don't fall for it. They need disapline and God. It's for dweebs who have no brain. Don't even pump and dump. Just run. Ask if her mom is bi polar. Just run. I'm Mexican and my dad never let me be bi polar. That was for losers. If you have bi polar. Pray to God and humble yourself.
@atherbest
@atherbest 3 года назад
The bigger issue is they don't tell you they have it. At least that was my case. The emotional toll it took on me trying to understand him it drained me literally.
@carmistanderroxy
@carmistanderroxy 3 года назад
I struggles with this alot with my partner!
@carmistanderroxy
@carmistanderroxy 3 года назад
I told my partner and that i am bipolar and he couldnt accept it
@simplegreensco3223
@simplegreensco3223 2 года назад
@@carmistanderroxy I feel like that’s the feer
@adan5405
@adan5405 2 года назад
My gf has Bipolar ,it’s so hard to deal with her . I feel like I can’t handle it
@desdior1207
@desdior1207 2 года назад
I just got told from another female that my ex had bipolar disorder. I just cut all ties after 2 years of stress and misunderstandings
@mikea.4477
@mikea.4477 5 лет назад
I’ve dated a girl with bipolar and I wish I had seen this video prior to better understand her disorder. Great video Apollonia! I’m glad someone like you is present in the dating coach world to tackle many topics like this that are not addressed by other coaches. You’re truly a blessing!
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 лет назад
I appreciate this comment so much! Thank you. :) -Apollonia
@Amandax-tx6yb
@Amandax-tx6yb 5 лет назад
We are not easy to love but we love hard. We did not ask for this but it is what it is. Ask the person before you get involved because not everyone can handle swimming in deep water. 💙
@anniebrassell5343
@anniebrassell5343 3 года назад
Well said Amanda!...
@nbamoyboyy4325
@nbamoyboyy4325 Год назад
Do not do it guys. These bi polar thots will switch up on you in a heart beat. Don't fall for it. They need disapline and God. It's for dweebs who have no brain. Don't even pump and dump. Just run. Ask if her mom is bi polar. Just run. I'm Mexican and my dad never let me be bi polar. That was for losers. If you have bi polar. Pray to God and humble yourself.
@titoperez90
@titoperez90 Год назад
But if you date someone with bipolar and they don’t take their treatment seriously, you’re not swimming in deep water, you’re diving in a pool with no water at all.
@markteeple96
@markteeple96 Год назад
Ya No. Enough is enough. It's one thing being bipolor, but when she acts out then lies she ever did, even though I have proof, then it's too much. Own up to mistakes or a hypermania or forget it. I tried. She had a knack of flipping things around to try and make me feel like the crazy one. Very good at it. I think she took my kindness and understanding as weakness, when she did they ie.. by lying. I walked. The problem is when you truly fall in love, I think we try and put off the inevitable heartbreak ahead. Gets you in deeper. Everyone has their battles in life but if she cannot own up at least to behaviors that would ruin most relationships, Then there is nothing left. And she started using drugs again suddenly. I felt like I was just hit by an 18 wheeler. I had to walk,if I did not, I would lose any self worth I had. Love her. The sun rose and set with her, but she couldn't catch up. Any advice on where I now can get therapy would be appreciated. I'm feeling a tad lost at the moment. Hurt. Thanks all
@poemsjones4184
@poemsjones4184 3 месяца назад
Guess what people without mental health love hard too , I will never date another bipolar woman again unhealthy AF
@Paigenicholle22
@Paigenicholle22 2 года назад
I’m currently in a relationship with someone that has bipolar 2 it’s not easy all the time but I believe she’s deserving of love regardless of what she goes through she has a heart of gold it hurts me to see her suffer but I definitely don’t want to give up on her because I do believe she can get a better hold of it.
@LifeSizeBox
@LifeSizeBox Год назад
9mo later… how’s it going? Any updates?
@dalehargreaves2141
@dalehargreaves2141 Год назад
I have just broken up with my bipolar girlfriend of 4 years. She went into the mental health clinic and came out with someone new 2 weeks later. Its better to not get involves with someone with this disease.
@enlightenedwarrior7119
@enlightenedwarrior7119 3 года назад
My wife has bipolar we've been together for 20 yrs and it's literally driving me insane. Over the years her episodes have gotten out of control. After 20 yrs I love her dearly and would never abandon her. My advice is if your dating someone who has bipolar LEAVE THAT PERSON IMMEDIATELY NOW!!! DONT LET LIVE DEVELOP AND GET HURT LATER. trust me as soon as you find out a person you are dating has it leave
@rideswithtasha2358
@rideswithtasha2358 3 года назад
Message received, it’s been three months and I’m going crazy. Count me out
@jmsolano0516
@jmsolano0516 Год назад
@@rideswithtasha2358 i mean we’re not all like that. I was in therapy for 4 years, started journaling and meditating and have come really into my own. Many people don’t even realize i have the disorder and my friends even say I’m a night and day difference from four years ago. The person just has to want to change but they can.
@Pierre-B
@Pierre-B Год назад
@@jmsolano0516 that's a very encouraging message. Do you have any ressources you'd like to share? Books, videos, podcasts? Thank you
@dell1032
@dell1032 Год назад
From what you're saying it seems like your wife hasn't taken full responsibility of her disease (i.e. full medication compliance, therapy, diet / exercise, etc.) I have many, many friends - like 15, and I don't burn people. I take my meds and when I went through my last hypomanic episode in 2011 I promised myself I'd never indulge in hypomania even though manic episodes spike dopamine and makes mania to enticing and addictive. I take offense to your ALL CAPS statement that you should leave a bipolar person immediately. You don't know me and you don't know my situation, and you don't know how many friends I have who value me and wants me in their lives. Not all people with manic-depression are terrible, unhinged, and a train wreck waiting to occur. Your sweeping generalization is distasteful and not well thought out.
@wizardofahhhs759
@wizardofahhhs759 Год назад
My wife wasn't diagnosed until she was almost 40 years old. We had been married 20 years before she started seeing another man, she was a good woman until she went bipolar.
@crissyw2320
@crissyw2320 2 года назад
If someone is aggressive with you, LEAVE. No questions asked. This video does not mention this. Mental illness is not an excuse for abuse.
@davescott8859
@davescott8859 5 лет назад
Never date someone that doesn’t take their bi-polar condition seriously or is in denial, but the biggest issue is never date someone that drinks alcohol with this condition, it could destroy your life. Dating someone with bi-polar is possible, but not if you’re not strong emotionally and be willing to have your secrets you shared with them thrown in your face and maybe announced in public to shame you, you must be strong and be willing to face the demons they deal with, and the biggest thing and I have experience dating bi-polar women, they love excitement and that might require other men to fulfill that time you’re not there, just be careful. I grew up in a wicked household filled with drama and I thought that was love, you know fighting and drama, but it’s not normal and you deserve a good life filled with love not stress, just be careful. Dating someone with a Bi-polar condition also might have them threatening to kill themselves when you can’t take it anymore or you know they are cheating, don’t let that stand in your way to getting out and feeling safe, end it and move on, don’t look back.
@abolisher
@abolisher Год назад
It’s easier said than done and if you truly care about her you would never say that stuff about her.
@nbamoyboyy4325
@nbamoyboyy4325 Год назад
@@abolisher bruh. Then hos are demons. They need to plant trees in 110 degree weather for 3 years. That would fix it Mexican style lol
@ryanl775
@ryanl775 Год назад
@@abolisheryeah no. Us men are always supposed to put our lives on the line with no reward for our loyalty. Complete insanity. I recently started dealing with a girl at work & found out not longer after, she got bpd. She’d go one day excited to see me, hugging me & eyes lit up. To the next day she walks past me like she don’t know me. Then I told her I can’t deal with the mood swings, it’s like I’m a complete stranger… she blows it off like she was busy or whatever. But she’ll have pointless convos with other guys around the place. What this guy stated in the comment is completely true, if you want to be cheated on, I’d say go for it bud
@AutomaticDuck300
@AutomaticDuck300 Год назад
You’re right. I’m bipolar and I drink alcohol. Sometimes it’s fine but sometimes I have a complete breakdown. I know I should quit but it’s difficult. Especially since I live in a city with huge problems with drinking and alcoholism. Everybody drinks here, it’s crazy.
@CRose9205
@CRose9205 11 месяцев назад
Sounds like this is what normal girls are like nowadays, lol. I'm a bipolar guy and recovering alcoholic, I've never done this to any girl I've dated
@vernonroche7067
@vernonroche7067 3 года назад
No hate but I just ended my relationship with her...it got to much and toxic I tried to work with her and try other ways of communicating I've tried being open and supportive. But as soon as hold her accountable with the "emotional abuse" and her being on her mania god complex putting me down and basically just being mean to even cheat. I had to say no I could never accept that it. So I told her I wish you well but it's over. Little did I know I was going to be called out all over social media the N word and paragraphs on my post saying hurtful things and even more vulgar statement's. It's sad because its hard really hard for the "Normal person" to separate the disorder form the person sometimes. And she was on medication 🥺 There are so much support for people with bipolar but never any for their loved ones or partners there's books but it's always "how to deal with your loved one with bipolar" never hey your the cartaker or "Normal partner" how are you do you need support? End of the day bipolar disorder is very serious it's definitely not easy but I don't think I personally can open myself up to go through that again with someone else.
@Elm523
@Elm523 2 месяца назад
I had a similar experience after I broke up with her she blew up my phone and said the nastiest things she could think of. It really hurts because even if we're not in a relationship anymore I care about her but she doesn't seem to feel the same way I guess.
@Mr9to5702
@Mr9to5702 5 лет назад
I married someone with bipolar. Its a roller coaster for sure...
@chriseverroad9478
@chriseverroad9478 5 лет назад
Mrheavyexhaust I too did but that rollercoaster when u take the time to understand is worth every second
@allanking508
@allanking508 4 года назад
Mrheavyexhaust ya I tried I’m chaotic but too much for even me.
@amydellorusso8944
@amydellorusso8944 4 года назад
My boyfriend is bipolar type one and changing anti psychotics...roller coasters wish to be as wild
@edwardquigley6671
@edwardquigley6671 4 года назад
Its never boreing i love my wife
@danbruno5945
@danbruno5945 3 года назад
Lol everything is your fault even of your late home because another person has had a crash on your route
@cdadon6572
@cdadon6572 2 года назад
I dealt with this female who suffers from bipolar PTSD and ADHD, she didn't let me know until 1 year into the relationship that she had these sicknesses. I tried to work with her and understand her but I was getting the worse end, I lost myself that first year trying to understand her. I didn't know how to deal with her, I wish she would have told me in the beginning so I can do my research but that was by far the worst relationship I was ever in, we both turned verbally abusive towards eachother and started cheating on eachother. She was outspoken in public smiling, laughing wouldn't even know she was going thru it then behind close doors the crying, the sadness like why bipolar people treat the people who love them the worst?? Smh I had to let go because too much damage was being done and all it was going to do was get worse, now only memories I have are the bad ones
@brainiacbold169
@brainiacbold169 2 года назад
Everybody wants to be compassionate but nobody cares about the other partner getting dragged.. not everybody who has this knows and definitely not the ones who are intimate with them… relationships are hard as is
@nbamoyboyy4325
@nbamoyboyy4325 Год назад
Facts. They don't care about us dealing with these hos
@Probyutribn
@Probyutribn Год назад
@@nbamoyboyy4325 exactly we are the real victims but no one seems to see our pain
@Jack_The_Ripper_Here
@Jack_The_Ripper_Here 4 года назад
I'm not sure but I believe my girlfriend is bipolar I looked up what bipolar means, what are the symptoms and how they manifest and it just seems to describe her well. It's hard, there's like 2 people inside her, it's like dating 2 people, one is sweet, amazing, loving, caring and the other one is distant, mean, she easily gets irritated, doesn't answer the phone, messages, even changes her face, her look, she's like a completely other person. She says mean stuff and at the beginning made me wonder if when she's nice, she is just faking it and the real she is when she's mean and distant. She sometimes has an uncontrolled urge for sex and affection and one day later she's distant and doesn't want to see me for no apparent reason. I noticed she changes the mood when she's away from me, when she comes in contact with other people, even family and it can take days, weeks of work to bring her sweet mood back. It's hard. And it's very easy, very easy to get angry when you see what she does and when you're mad at her is like feeling that it isn't fair because it's literally like dating 2 people and you're mad at one of them because of what the other one did. She can be so sweet and amazing and then I'm finding out that while I was gone she's messaged someone mean things about me for no reason, it really makes you feel like she's in fact a horrible person and she's just faking it and stabs you behind your back. It's very hard to trust her with anything, she cannot commit to any promises, if I did something a year ago she's keeping it in her mind and forgetting all the good times we had, and every moment of amazing feelings you've got right now does not guarantee you're going to see her tomorrow. I noticed this is triggered by any words or anything slightly mean that she sees, for her it's a huge problem even a joke can trigger it. It's like a test for myself to keep me very aware and careful at all times, choose my words very carefully. I cannot have a conversation about mostly anything with her, personal opinions or anything about us, being with her is just enjoying today, this very moment. She runs away from any sort of issue, she wants paradise and every single little problem drives her away. She can pack her bags and go at anytime and gives you the stupidest reason. She can be away from you for a month and she can call you every single day for a month and suddenly stops, out of nowhere stops, doesn't call anymore, doesn't answer her phone, messages like she just died. It's hurtful when you feel the most powerful love and attraction, connection and you know she feels as well and the out of nowhere she's a different person who simply doesn't care for you anymore doesn't want you anymore and can say mean things to you if she does reply. I had to put up with 2 weeks of mean words like I was an annoying kid that upset her and she was treating me in a way nobody ever did for no reason, and her words can hurt and when you're the same person who sticks with the love and affection and you don't change and she, out of the blue becomes a different person you just feel powerless, trying in your head to understand what's happening, did she cheat on me what is she hiding why is she doing this. When she stopped calling it answering my calls she said it was because she saw it as a chore. Absolute nonsense, she called needing me and you can hear in her voice that she calls even at 3am and if you don't answer she keeps calling until you do and then stops, saying that she was seeing it as a chore. It makes no sense. Very hard when you love that person
@xelence420
@xelence420 3 года назад
Oof. Big oof right there. I get you. God speed
@Springfield530
@Springfield530 3 года назад
Yeah run
@vernonroche7067
@vernonroche7067 3 года назад
I'm sorry brother. Hope everything is ok and gets better with growth. It's not easy at all. I respect your dedication
@Brandonfunky
@Brandonfunky 3 года назад
my gf is like that too, it oftentimes gets to the point where I thought if she's really in love with me or not,she can be head over the heel to me one-day then be distance the next day.when I told her I'm not in the mood then she would accuse me and saying bunch of hurtful things. i wasn't aware of this at the very beginning of our relationship so I even thought I was the one who gets crazy and went to the doctor.now I'm fully aware of this so when she trys to pick up a fight I'd just not engage that like I used to.
@TanLe-bc5uw
@TanLe-bc5uw 2 года назад
This is what is happening to me at the same time I think she’s playing game not sure
@ellainamason
@ellainamason 2 года назад
My ex had bipolar and it did create a huge wedge for us. It’s so hard, just watching her fighting with her mind is absolutely heartbreaking
@nbamoyboyy4325
@nbamoyboyy4325 Год назад
I can fix anyone bi polar if I had 2 years
@MikeyMike556
@MikeyMike556 Год назад
@@nbamoyboyy4325how?
@vonitacarr7420
@vonitacarr7420 3 года назад
My husband left me because I am Bipolar and he couldn't handle my mood swings anymore. Scares me to death to tell a potential new partner that I suffer from Bipolar disorder.
@ChazAndreWhite
@ChazAndreWhite 2 месяца назад
Tell them. And most importantly never lie to yourself.
@pariskanioros9262
@pariskanioros9262 2 месяца назад
I was married to my husband for eight years before I found out about his Bipolar. There were so many questionable things that he did at that time I had no idea about bipolar; but boy did I find out! My daughter, at eight years old, was diagnosed with a brain tumor while my other two younger sons were diagnosed with learning disabilities and one with autism. I had no family and I was a housewife. My husband re-invented an entirely different life. He got himself a new gf that didn’t speak the same language, he brought a purple love machine car and sold our old one, brought a leather jacket and disappeared for well over a year and more while I dealt with doctors, feeding tubes teacher schools, and IEP meetings alone. Now I’m old and still penniless. I can’t move on my own because of the economy. I have to live with the excessive talking, spending, and on top of it all he has psychosis and so effective disorder or whatever it is and occasional mania. It’s definitely YOUR responsibility to tell any significant one about your illness before things get serious!
@589iliketurtles
@589iliketurtles 9 месяцев назад
Dating someone with bipolar is like dating someone that’s on fire. The harder you hold onto them, the more you get burned
@pdlrkpdlrk9971
@pdlrkpdlrk9971 6 месяцев назад
Damn 😩
@nv4752
@nv4752 6 месяцев назад
That’s true and it’s all about me me me me me and can’t have empathy because the brain doesn’t work that way and when the relationship advance and the honey moon is over emm be ready because dopamine is over so that means greener is better and will look for better greener and you will be like left behind without explination. Bcs they need that rush of dopamine and the honey moon phase is over ! So emm will dump you in the dark is like a roller coaster ! And if that person comes back ( probably not ) will dump you again and it’s always your fault never they’re fault since there is a lack of empathy bcs of they’re brain chemistry 🧪
@nv4752
@nv4752 6 месяцев назад
You end dreaming driving yourself insane over this roller coaster and deeply hurt 😢 because they will change you after 1 month for no reason because greener is better and they are looking forndopani and excitement without care over others feelings because if they’re lack of empathy and me me me actitudes !
@iamsam222
@iamsam222 6 месяцев назад
Video said not to say harmful things. As someone with BP, this breaks my heart to read.
@user-ji3id5hy8t
@user-ji3id5hy8t 5 месяцев назад
Yeah she left me the day after she kissed me when we were cuddling and I’m so confused by it because she goes from happy and super loving to angry and sad and this time she broke up with me over text and then blocked me🥹
@raustadt
@raustadt 4 года назад
My daughter has been dating a 40 year old Bipolar man for 3 moths. She has lost herself trying to make the relationship work. She thinks she can ‘fix’ him, and keeps spending all her time with him, thinking she can. She neglects her 7 year old daughter to the extent we have had to intervene, but she doesn’t want to listen to us. Watching our granddaughter being drug through this is breaking our hearts.
@NakedSnake-dz3cs
@NakedSnake-dz3cs 4 года назад
I’m 29 and I am with a 43 year old bipolar woman for 8 months. She has made my life like a hell and she always complains about everything. She is at times lovebombing me and other times hating me and telling me I am everywhere wrong while other times she told me I am the man of her whole life that never felt this before with someone in the past. Please help.... This is really painful.... I can’t eat and I can’t sleep....
@sibzism
@sibzism Год назад
@@NakedSnake-dz3cs I hope you're okay now 🙏🏾❤️
@Rastasoul1
@Rastasoul1 11 месяцев назад
This 💔
@christophluger793
@christophluger793 Год назад
A woman I will (hopefully) be with once said "People only see me as a disease!". I see her as the wonderful being she is, recognizing that it comes with her, but she herself is my top priority.
@bernadettedelacruz237
@bernadettedelacruz237 2 года назад
Just broke off my relationship with my bf who has bipolar 1. It was like a roller coaster of what attitude am I going to get today. I did everything to make him happy and he always gave in to his suppressive emotions. The meds never help and he was always negative with work. He lost his jobs all the time because he didn't like the culture. But that was in his own head. Everything could be going right but he always managed to disrupt anything good. He asked if we could be friends and I agreed but he just cursed me out and told me to stay the Fxxx out of his life. I lost my self and confidence in this relationship, so I encourage people to be careful or get out of it.
@AutomaticDuck300
@AutomaticDuck300 Год назад
Honestly, I have bipolar and I seriously think that mentally ill people should date other mentally ill people. We understand each other. Normal people don’t understand us, they will never be able to understand us, and they can’t and shouldn’t have to deal with our faulty and broken brain wiring. Or we should just stay single forever. It’s not fair to put normal people through this and what this disorder makes you do.
@celestbresant586
@celestbresant586 11 месяцев назад
@@AutomaticDuck300no you need to work on yourself and get a healthy partner my friend lean on Jesus he can heal you!
@MarcyTk1
@MarcyTk1 10 месяцев назад
@@celestbresant586bad advice. once u dealt with a trauma, ur brain gets rewired and youll realize youll never become normal again. thats okay tho
@alexphillips4644
@alexphillips4644 4 года назад
For 2 weeks now I'm seeing this young lady whom I've met from online dating and she revealed to me that she is bipolar. We like each other and we make each other happy. And I'm trying to learn more about her and her condition.
@7rev383
@7rev383 3 года назад
How’s that going
@anthonykelly413
@anthonykelly413 3 года назад
How it going? My gf has BP1 and boy it does go crazy
@mista589
@mista589 2 года назад
@@anthonykelly413 when that manic rage anger hits, and verbal assaults take centre stage, only to regretfully ask for forgiveness as the high comes down, and they can see all the mess they created. I'm Bipolar 2 it's a tough card to be dealt.
@nbamoyboyy4325
@nbamoyboyy4325 Год назад
Run bro don't do it
@nbamoyboyy4325
@nbamoyboyy4325 Год назад
@@mista589 how does that even happen?
@JerricksonHosteen
@JerricksonHosteen 4 года назад
I gave up on my relationship. Emotionally draining but I am glad I left. I'm happier now
@gasparsmusic
@gasparsmusic 3 года назад
The fact that I’m even hear shows I care. But holy crap man.. I’m not even official with this girl. We’re dating but it’s not official and it hasn’t even been that long. We are a thing, but after reading all these comments. I’ve already experienced most of this stuff and sadly.. I don’t think I can do this. One day she is up and the next day she is completely blank and essentially MIA. Completely changed in energy. Sucks because I really like this girl. We’ll see what happens I guess
@ryanl775
@ryanl775 Год назад
So are things with you?
@rafikiian8272
@rafikiian8272 Год назад
I was thinking of dating my friend’s friend who is bipolar 2, it’s been 1 month since I started doing research about it I thank my friend for giving me a background check about her before involving myself coz she’s really into me and I feel the same too but I don’t want her to tell me about her diagnosis before I deeply understand this disorder
@musicgenie7
@musicgenie7 3 года назад
Thank you for saying compassion and loving is welcome. As someone who has Bipolar and know many people with Bipolar, we are the most caring, genuine, authentic. Loving, empathetic people anyone will ever meet. We deserve the same.
@youlame5330
@youlame5330 5 лет назад
Apollonia, please do one on Borderline Personality Disorder. Those were the hardest 3 years of my life. My psychologist was surprised that I stuck around for so long. I could never get her to love herself. I never broke up with her because I always hope she would come around. I wish her the best.
@ijalloh9
@ijalloh9 5 лет назад
you and me both, only I lasted 2.5 yrs.
@youlame5330
@youlame5330 5 лет назад
@@ijalloh9 I'd date a bi polar woman over a Border line. At least the bi polar is willing to seek help.
@PrettiRissa
@PrettiRissa 4 года назад
I have been dating a bipolar person for the last 3 years on and off. And I realized I can’t do it. If he isn’t trying to be better himself i can’t do it for him. It’s going to drive me insane it it’s starting to mess with my mental 😢
@nicolelollipops8268
@nicolelollipops8268 4 года назад
Pretti Rissa same here . I have no idea what to do or how to even cope without looking like an evil person to him
@cielomartinez6993
@cielomartinez6993 4 года назад
Same happening to me. I like so many things about him, but I dont like the violent part and mood swings
@ValentineWan
@ValentineWan 4 года назад
hi may i know what kind of behaviour do they normally do ? what can i expect from people who have this disorder. I have been talking with a guy who suffers from bipolar but i really dont know what to expect.
@LoveLifeAllWays
@LoveLifeAllWays 4 года назад
@@ValentineWan they will have ups and downs often. They will want to be alone and not open up about how they feel. They may also open up and do not judge them for it. You do not know if you can handle it until moments as such happen. It's hard to deal with the small petty moments that should not be hard to deal with. Mines left me a few days ago because I was quiet and sad after he spoke loudly to me. He still has not reached out. You have to have a strong mind frame to handle there emotional state when it occurs. Keep communicating and suggest therapy.
@paddyb9196
@paddyb9196 4 года назад
Pretti that is exactly what it will do. It would make you insane while not doing anything to the bipolar because they only do what they do. You have got to get out and find a like-minded partner. They need to find their like-minded partner also so that maybe they can be passionate about each other. SAVE YOUR SOUL, LEAVE THEM ALONE.
@ChrisCarson_
@ChrisCarson_ 2 года назад
Everyone deserves love. Just because it gets tough and you may not understand fully as they do when they’re the ones dealing with it doesn’t mean they don’t have a good heart. It’s not their fault. All you can do love them if you really love them.
@dr_corrupt1014
@dr_corrupt1014 3 года назад
Tip 1 don’t date bipolar people Tip 2 run away when you see bipolar people Tip 3 don’t even think of dating bipolar people
@lukeharris3652
@lukeharris3652 3 года назад
Tip 1 don’t be an ass Tip 2 don’t be an ass Tip 3 don’t be an ass
@shaypatrick7497
@shaypatrick7497 Год назад
You can be full of kindness and love, but you cannot sleep next to a mad dog. -- Ashin Wirathu
@laurenceballou4947
@laurenceballou4947 5 лет назад
Hey thanks so much. I have bipolar disorder. We are normal people when we find the right medication!
@paddyb9196
@paddyb9196 4 года назад
You are not normal, because the medication cannot fix you. You have to learn how to deal with your disorder.
@safijewels8722
@safijewels8722 3 года назад
@@paddyb9196 what if someone with bipolar disease does not take medication?
@anniebrassell5343
@anniebrassell5343 3 года назад
As a person with Bipolar 1, I wish I could make a statement like that. I know it helps me be CLOSER to normal than without but I am COMPLETELY AWARE that it is NOT and has NEVER BEEN a true statement for me. I've been on A LOT of different medications over DECADES of my life! I have to constantly work on bettering myself "EVERYDAY" along WITH taking the medications. Closest to normal is the "goal" to strive for everyday and everyday it is HARD WORK AND TIRESOME JOURNEY... Not to be mean but it was VERY TRIGGERING as a person still struggling for you to make such a general statement! SPEAK FOR YOURSELF when you make comments with such gravity!!! Maybe for YOU specifically but not my story AT ALL... Such a comment in my opinion truly helps no one!
@rjpayan662
@rjpayan662 4 года назад
Can anyone answer this question for me. When you are in a relationship with some with bipolar disorder, do they ever just drift away and you dont hear from them as much?
@safijewels8722
@safijewels8722 3 года назад
Yes. Reappear like they never disappeared. No explanation. No apologies. Just pick up where they left off. It’s tough...
@mista589
@mista589 3 года назад
@@safijewels8722 Sadly it's what we do. Do have the awareness that within that time we are usually experiencing depression and suicidal thoughts, hanging on for dear life. It's a tough go.
@Yourmom-rw8bs
@Yourmom-rw8bs 2 года назад
@@mista589 God yeah. My partner has Bipolar disorder. I love them more than anybody and anything. They used to be so open, now they shut off completely… I will never give up on them though. I am gathering information. Do you have any tips as to what I can do to help them?
@theamandashow4561
@theamandashow4561 4 года назад
Excellent video thank you so much! I’m dating a wonderful man by learning about what he’s going through is helping me understand and love him with patience!
@vegangsta5338
@vegangsta5338 4 года назад
Just to let you know bipolar isn't a disease. Its a condition. A disease is something like influenza. Just thought I'd give you the heads up. Love your videos
@camerongodina1057
@camerongodina1057 4 года назад
I dated a girl that had it. We are not together anymore. I was hurt emotionally I didnt know how to handle it she had like 2 personality. 😪
@safijewels8722
@safijewels8722 3 года назад
Omg I’m experiencing that right now!!!! Been dating for a year and the emotional roller coaster is endless 😞. Try to actively communicate and get shut out all the time. This is becoming too much to handle....
@vernonroche7067
@vernonroche7067 3 года назад
I end my relationship with mine the cherry on top was when she cheated I said fuck the illness I hold anyone accountable for cheating
@fireblade8905
@fireblade8905 2 года назад
@@vernonroche7067 amen. I escaped a bipolar woman. I had enough. We talk but I would never be with her again. Too toxic and draining
@supernova11711
@supernova11711 2 года назад
Jekyll and Hyde. Yep!
@abolisher
@abolisher Год назад
@@fireblade8905 stop saying toxic if she was healthy and being toxic then you could say she is toxic..
@Phan7o
@Phan7o 4 года назад
thank you so much my girlfriend just got diagnosed with bipolar disorder and im researching everything this was very helpful :)
@rafikiian8272
@rafikiian8272 Год назад
I was thinking of dating my friend’s friend who is bipolar 2, it’s been 1 month since I started doing research about it I thank my friend for giving me a background check about her before involving myself coz she’s really into me and I feel the same too but I don’t want her to tell me about her diagnosis before I deeply understand this disorder
@ToddTheTriumphant
@ToddTheTriumphant 4 года назад
Someone I really care about is going through bi-polar depression and all I want to do is support her. I often let her know that I'm here for her and that she can ask me for anything. I often wonder if I'm doing too much by doing this or sending her gentle reminders that I care. This video is helping me understand her when she goes silent, because I often thought it was something I was doing wrong. Hopefully she understands that I care.
@TiffanyRusell
@TiffanyRusell 3 года назад
This is what people with this need.... care, support, more understanding less judgement! You’re doing amazing!
@user-iz7hz3fo1z
@user-iz7hz3fo1z 3 года назад
❤❤❤💓💓💓💓
@ryanl775
@ryanl775 Год назад
If they are receptive, that’s cool. But understand you can’t do much for a person that acts like they don’t know you day to day
@Sanatra1025
@Sanatra1025 5 лет назад
I've dated a couple of bipolar women, it's draining I would stay clear from that...
@70sbaby37
@70sbaby37 Год назад
My girlfriend is bipolar and it's difficult to deal with. I don't want to leave her but I need help!
@rafikiian8272
@rafikiian8272 Год назад
I was thinking of dating my friend’s friend who is bipolar 2, it’s been 1 month since I started doing research about it I thank my friend for giving me a background check about her before involving myself coz she’s really into me and I feel the same too but I don’t want her to tell me about her diagnosis before I deeply understand this disorder
@HaydenFox1
@HaydenFox1 Год назад
Any videos on what to do when a bipolar person randomly breaks up with you?
@rafikiian8272
@rafikiian8272 Год назад
They’ll come back that’s just a detachment season for them which will last for like 2 weeks
@phurion.
@phurion. 8 месяцев назад
What if it lasts over a month?​@@rafikiian8272
@kathrynewhite6914
@kathrynewhite6914 3 года назад
I’m with someone with bipolar and it’s hard but when things are good they are really good and I know his potential and all he has to offer sometimes it’s just hard to realize how worth it it is. This video was really helpful thank you
@rafikiian8272
@rafikiian8272 Год назад
I was thinking of dating my friend’s friend who is bipolar 2, it’s been 1 month since I started doing research about it I thank my friend for giving me a background check about her before involving myself coz she’s really into me and I feel the same too but I don’t want her to tell me about her diagnosis before I deeply understand this disorder
@sheldonmcgregor1216
@sheldonmcgregor1216 5 лет назад
100% true! My son's mom is bipolar... And it was rough we where together 6 years and she had a massive episode that killed the relationship. It's tough on both parties...
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 лет назад
Hi Sheldon, Thank you for your comment! You are absolutely correct, it is difficult for both parties. Best, Apollonia
@djbeezy
@djbeezy 3 года назад
I am/was (I don't know if we are still together) in a relationship with someone who is bi-polar. When we started dating she told me about her diagnosis but I didn't know anything about the disease. We are in a bad place right now. We have been for a few weeks now. When we started dating everything was so amazing. She has had nothing but terrible relationships her entire life until she met me. She told me that she is afraid to express her feelings because of past trauma with past boyfriends. I did my best to express to her she can always come to me with no judgement. But when we hit this rough spot (out of nowhere) I began to see the symptoms she warned me about. I may have totally ruined this relationship out of ignorance. I have met people who claimed to be bi-polar but it was always a self diagnosis as an excuse for their bad decisions. This woman is actually professionally diagnosed as bi-polar. We are in a really bad spot right now. I don't know how to handle it. All I know is that I love this woman and will sacrifice everything to make this relationship work but I don't know how. Ma'am if you see this post please reach out to me. I want to tell you the entire story and get your advice. I want to make this work but I don't know how right now other than being consistent with her. Message her every few days and not getting upset when she doesn't message back. But it's so hard! I really need help here ma'am.
@supernova11711
@supernova11711 2 года назад
How’s it going? You didn’t do anything wrong. Leaving “out of the blue” for no apparent reason when things are going great is…kind of what they do.
@houstonbrown3450
@houstonbrown3450 4 года назад
I dated a woman with bi polar, disorder,Men please be careful,and try not to get heart broken like I did,it's hard to tell if she really loved me at times,they have difficulty making decisions ,and trust issues,
@lukeharris3652
@lukeharris3652 3 года назад
Everyone deals with it differently, and “they” might not have trust issues.
@alexanderrodriguez3915
@alexanderrodriguez3915 5 лет назад
I have met women that have bipolar symptoms but It seems that they don"t give you a chance when they are approach with good intentions and they keep to follow negative things and that is something that I don"t understand at all.....good night,,every one.
@Nimbus849
@Nimbus849 3 года назад
These tips are not enough. Bipolar disorder is a lot more complicated then this.
@rubricscube_
@rubricscube_ 2 года назад
Agreed. This is very surface level and bare bones. Not useful when your attitude is already in the right place. Need actual guidance.
@tattoogypsy1970
@tattoogypsy1970 4 года назад
Thank u, I'm in love with a woman who struggles with this. Thank you very much.
@user-iz7hz3fo1z
@user-iz7hz3fo1z 3 года назад
💓💓💓
@emilkadd
@emilkadd 3 года назад
I suggest you run. Long term you’ll suffer
@nikhi2881
@nikhi2881 3 года назад
@@emilkadd no.
@danielsantana540
@danielsantana540 5 лет назад
Ex pro wrestler Kris Kanyon suffered from.bi polar disorder and on 9 14 2003 he actually had swallowed several of his pills in the bottle in a failed suicide attempt and on 4 2 2010 he eventually took his own life 4 2 2010 he was 40 years old. Apollonia i really appreciate u sheding some light on this topic
@jeramiaharagon9683
@jeramiaharagon9683 4 года назад
Thank you for this. I am talking to someone I really care about and I want to understand her. She has opened up to me and explained that she has BD, but I also want to better understand it.
@gevsuy2788
@gevsuy2788 4 года назад
She always gives mixed signals
@kristopherryanwatson
@kristopherryanwatson 4 года назад
Kudos for supporting and nurturing the need for a healthy community in the comments. Positivity only, guys.
@bajalokokabron
@bajalokokabron Год назад
Thank you some people are just nasty and it’s shows.
@danielsantana540
@danielsantana540 5 лет назад
Apollonia your knowledge on this matter of bi polar disease really makes me believe u are more than just a dating coach
@JCnordic2983
@JCnordic2983 Год назад
I agree it, nobody's fault for this disorder period especially when you really love somebody you're getting to know in a courtship and into a relationship. It's especially difficult to paint for what the person who has the disorder or Symptoms. I tried 2 years to be supportive and loving But I had to end the relationship for my mental health.
@DRGUANE
@DRGUANE 5 лет назад
So glad your touching this topic. Though I’m still not clear on how to deal with it, I guess I need to do more research on this condition. But my sincere gratitude for bringing this up.
@danbruno5945
@danbruno5945 3 года назад
I struggled to deal with my ex wife(bipolar) 1.Once she threw me out the house for being half a hour late home after there was an accident on the road(not my fault) 2.She will involve you in her financial impulsive rollacoaster and have a massive go at you of you try and be reasonable and decline on spending for benefit of the household 3.Her massive highs like "Omg let's all go to Disney land next month the kids will love it" ummmmmmm ££££££😂 4.Your point of view is ALWAYS wrong compared to hers and there is only her way of doing something. 5.I could never reason with her if she was upset with me over something that's her fault like 1 time she asked for a lift from supermarket because she missed her bus but I explained I couldn't because I was at work and she divorced me😂😂 6.She could come across as rude one time I gave her a lift from her moms house as a favour because she missed the bus back when we were dating and she didn't even say hello to me she just goes "You made it then"
@olashes
@olashes 9 месяцев назад
🤣🤣🤣 it’s so funny cause it’s so true. Sounds exactly like me. 😋 I’ll even do you one better. Once I had a rage episode over a haircut that actually looked really nice. It just came out different than i expected and I couldn’t handle it. Lol such a basket case sometimes 🥹
@italian76boi
@italian76boi 10 месяцев назад
My gf is BP1. She left for her moms 2 months ago to work on her mental. We haven’t spoke. I’m giving her space to deal with herself. She left her dog and some clothes here. She had a very rough year. I would like to know if she’s coming back due to my anxiousness but I’m pretty sure she is… she always does, no matter what we’ve been thru, she’s always come back. And we’ve been thru HELL and back. I love this girl. I show her that I care and support her by caring for her dog. Her mom knows. I check in with her mom weekly. Her mom asks. My gf is in therapy and on medication.
@heavenking2065
@heavenking2065 4 года назад
Thank you so much my boyfriend had manic depression and I want to be there to help and support him as much as possible.
@bren5426
@bren5426 2 года назад
My ex girlfriend had bipolar and bpd, i still dont feel the same from the relationship, unfortunately at the end of it i was assaulted on 2 separate ocassions pretty bad over me just asking to see her phone, she didnt tell me she had bipolar and bpd til halfway through, i couldnt give up on her when she told me so i tried my best to make it work, the roller coaster i went through with her almost ruined me, i was worrying 24-7 about her cause she would just randomly ghost me for days. Messed my head up pretty good, i didnt know what to say or even think. Just always asked myself why. Shes now in jail from the assaults.
@harlemnightdavis7577
@harlemnightdavis7577 4 года назад
This this hit home for me I actually suffer from major bipolar depression and I know I put my wife through it so this is very helpful
@mommykhongtv5357
@mommykhongtv5357 2 года назад
im dating too to a bipolar person, he is moody and always feels depressed but im encouraging him to share to me whats really he feels so i can help him, if u love this kind of person he needs your cares, understanding and you must be always listen to Him, you must be patience all the time and everything will be fine. thanks Apollonia Ponti for more advices....please concider me now as one of ur listener and hope for ur reply for more advices how to cares this kind of person..
@TaylorMarie2577
@TaylorMarie2577 6 месяцев назад
“A disease doesn’t affect your soul” I needed to hear this. All these comments are so discouraging as some with bipolar 1
@ts214121
@ts214121 3 года назад
I am a man with bipolar disorder (diagnosed in 2004) and extremely high functioning autism. I can go many months at a time without bipolar symptoms if I keep my stress low and work with my doctor. However, unfortunately this is not a stress free world. If all the love in the world, therapy, counseling, nutrition, exercise, and spirituality could cure bipolar disorder it would have happened by now, to both me and my older relative who has had it since the 1960s. Currently dating is too difficult for me having bipolar disorder.
@Elm523
@Elm523 2 месяца назад
I dated a person with childhood bipolar it was a rollercoaster with ups and downs but ultimately I wasn't the right fit for her. It's been less than two weeks since and recently she blew up my phone. She thinks I'm a piece of shit. (It was about this one conversation we had months ago. I just went along with what she thought because I didn't want to fight anymore and I didn't really care about said topic we were fighting about). It hurts being called terrible things by someone I genuinely care about and tried to be vulnerable with. It hurts it really hurts. When she's mad she loses all empathy for said person and I'm finding out she was telling the truth. I feel miserable and I'm scared she's going to harass me or my family.
@NakedSnake-dz3cs
@NakedSnake-dz3cs 4 года назад
I’m 29 and I am with a 43 year old bipolar woman for 8 months. She has made my life like a hell and she always complains about everything. She is at times lovebombing me and other times hating me and telling me I am everywhere wrong while other times she told me I am the man of her whole life that never felt this before with someone in the past. Please help.... This is really painful.... I can’t eat and I can’t sleep....
@dennisthemenace8825
@dennisthemenace8825 4 года назад
Is her mood swings bro, is not easy you really need thick skin, pull through, and they reality is that when she says hurtful things, she really don't mean it is pretty much her emotions taking control in that point, tho sometimes is scary because they might go to far. Remember you're mental health matters more
@ValentineWan
@ValentineWan 4 года назад
if you cant take it anymore and you are hurting yourself, just leave.
@Brandonfunky
@Brandonfunky 3 года назад
the hardest part is they will most likely saying really hurtful things to you when thing go sideway.
@johnvanhorn770
@johnvanhorn770 2 года назад
I was married this summer. The next day she was violent towards me and left and came back and had shaved her head. I loved her so much. All her family warned me in ways in ways. I stayed for 3 months but the outburst became more frequent and she refused to admit there is a problem and get help. I could not allow myself to be treated that way anymore. Disorder or not it was abusive. I’m totally devastated and miss her so much. I don’t know what to do.
@nbamoyboyy4325
@nbamoyboyy4325 Год назад
Do not do it guys. These bi polar thots will switch up on you in a heart beat. Don't fall for it. They need disapline and God. It's for dweebs who have no brain. Don't even pump and dump. Just run. Ask if her mom is bi polar. Just run. I'm Mexican and my dad never let me be bi polar. That was for losers. If you have bi polar. Pray to God and humble yourself.
@Elliott_James.mp4
@Elliott_James.mp4 3 года назад
what's a good way to like, let them know that they've shifted? i see it in his eyes and is face can't emote regularly and he gets really curt and dry. can i just say "hey, your disorder is speaking right now?" without making him feel like....i dunno, weird? i refuse to ignore it. it's like he gets taken hostage.
@stephencamp7948
@stephencamp7948 5 лет назад
Apollonia. Thanks so much. It has been very heart breaking at first. Being a recovering alcoholic, I will not give up with her. Just like my family and friend thst did not give up on me. Love is not always easy.
@KAriedoll
@KAriedoll 2 месяца назад
I’m getting to know someone who disclosed they have Bipolar 2 so I’m here. Also, I have a boss who is showing signs of Bipolar. I’m learning to navigate and get through it.
@ONCICOLA
@ONCICOLA Месяц назад
Thx for this vid! I’m going through these things rn. There is a girl with bipolar who’s confessed she likes me and wants to be with me. She confessed rather early on so we’re just trying to get to know each other first. My big concern is empathy. Specifically on her end. I understand it’s hard for bipolar folks to show empathy, so I’m trying to figure out what to do when I’m at a low point in my life.
@JustGoBrandon
@JustGoBrandon 2 года назад
I've been dating my gf for 4 years now. She lives in another country so the majority of my interactions are through texting and calls. This past week I went to visit her and I noticed quickly her mood shifted. I didn't know how to react, so I shut down. The next morning she came to apologize and then reluctantly admitted that she's Bipolar. This is something I knew little about and couldn't see well through our long distance. However, now I'm reflecting back on our times together, and I believe I can see situations from a new perspective. It makes me want to understand this more, but I won't lie; it worries me a lot too. I know she wants to take it head on and hopefully she'll allow me to join her.
@nbamoyboyy4325
@nbamoyboyy4325 Год назад
Nah bro run. Why are you idiots messing with these bi polar chicks. If I knew she was bi polar is run.
@LW7333LW
@LW7333LW 2 года назад
They were in denial, and I was out!
@jimbronie7024
@jimbronie7024 3 года назад
I dated a woman for 3 years and I married her she has beautiful soul the marriage only lasted a year I was fight for her on all fronts her family just enable her friends used her and she always got involved with the wrong people when she was in a bad place. I never stopped loving her and to be honest I still do . I still here for her even people tell me she made her bed. Easy and hard part of helping her with bipolar is that I'm empathic so I can sense and feel when she going to that place and being that we are divorced i just can't call her and check in on her trust I have tried I feel it just causes more issues for her but I tell to call me if she needs help.
@PCS230
@PCS230 5 лет назад
Mental health is very relevant to dating and relationships. I’m glad to see that it’s being discussed. I think it’s very important to raise awareness. Would you be willing to make a video about dating and ADHD?
@samisatlacc7736
@samisatlacc7736 5 лет назад
I second a video on dating someone with Ad/hd, especially with never-medicated (aka "organic free-range") Adhd. Thanks.
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 лет назад
@@samisatlacc7736 I 100% agree. I've coached a lot of clients with this. ADHD is something that can be managed but I think a video about this is a great idea.
@superdupeninja8149
@superdupeninja8149 9 месяцев назад
@@ApolloniaPontidid you ever make that video
@titanniki412
@titanniki412 2 года назад
It's NOT EASY!! I've asked her questions & watched videos for 5 months. IT'S scary!! 4 dozen roses in 2 months, cards, I even write her Love letters on Purple (her favorite color) paper! Response Thanks! I do everything for her. Really, only time she pays attention/contacts with me is when she thinks or I tell her we need time to think about what we really want. Then I'm the Best Thing That Happened to Her. I think it's time I move on.
@pedroavilez2003
@pedroavilez2003 3 года назад
I like a girl at work but i think now she is bipolar and i am heart broken
@rickmartin8626
@rickmartin8626 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for this wisdom. I love a beautiful woman with bipolar disorder. I am learning how to understand this and love her so much that I am developing the understanding to make this work. Your video helped so much.
@universalgalaxy6109
@universalgalaxy6109 5 лет назад
Sad sad sad ! It's like dating climate change
@checkdacontract
@checkdacontract 5 лет назад
Great Video/GreatTopic: I dated a woman who suffered from an extreme level of Bipolar Disorder. In my attempt to leave after a disagreement one evening, she pulled a knife out on me- blocking the doorway. I tried to de-escalate the situation by remaining calm. After a couple of hours, shocked to find a weapon in her hand, she broke down in tears- apologizing to me. I was able to leave without anyone getting hurt. It’s safe to say this was a rare case, as most Bipolar Disorder suffers are not violent. But I felt a need to share my experience in case someone goes through this. If it’s possible to do, it always serves the interest of everybody in the room for you to remain calm whenever a situation escalates. I found the National Alliance on Mental Illness to be a great resource for those wanting to learn more about this condition and the support available.
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 5 лет назад
Hello, Thank your for sharing your story and providing insight to other viewers. Apollonia
@kkhalil597
@kkhalil597 3 года назад
If you like to live in misery be with or marry a bipolar person.
@shakekr1750
@shakekr1750 5 лет назад
Not gonna happen again! That chick drove me crazy 🤦🏾‍♂️
@stangetz534
@stangetz534 8 месяцев назад
i fell in love with a her pretty quick. I knew she was the one that i wanted to marry. I learned a couple months later she has bipolar disorder. There is no way I can walk away from her. Thank you.
@oOLinxyOo
@oOLinxyOo 3 года назад
It's been 3 months I'm talking to a girl who has bipolar, but it's been a year that she's seeing a psychiatrist and is under medication and expressed that she's in a better place more then ever! During the 3 months of talking to her I have't felt any episode of bipolar, but it kinds of worries me! I'm still getting to know her, but I part of me is uncertain about all this!
@supernova11711
@supernova11711 2 года назад
How did it go?
@savagelove2292
@savagelove2292 Год назад
A year later, what became of that relationship
@maserolemoholwa4508
@maserolemoholwa4508 Год назад
If you able to see this please give us feedback as I'm a month in with someone who takes medication as well and she looks fine however her stories of the past are a bit scary
@LBT8568
@LBT8568 Год назад
@@maserolemoholwa4508 run
@johnthomasespinoza9970
@johnthomasespinoza9970 3 года назад
I just started dating a beautiful women I love. However, there are times she very direct, obnoxious, hurtful then out of the blue she is so loving and in me and believes she is so lucky she found me. As I listen to her in those off days, she talks nonsense, fearful of a relationship, judges me, etc. out of the blue again so loving. She goes a few days on the downside and then up again. Her facial expressions change as if she is in another world. I care for her and want to be supportive and have no clue what to do. My male friends say run and not look back. But that’s not me. Not sure what to do or help. John
@crystalo3402
@crystalo3402 3 года назад
This is exactly what I’m going through with my girlfriend word for word! It’s like you don’t wanna leave them when they need you, but you have to prioritize yourself and evaluate whether your needs are being met. It’s hard man
@azucenabustos1078
@azucenabustos1078 3 года назад
Omg 😳 sameee
@ryanl775
@ryanl775 Год назад
Going through the same thing. It’s weird tho. I work with her & she acts like she doesn’t know me. A complete stranger. She claimed that it was so people don’t see how she cares about me. Total BS. But she’d talk to some of the guys in the kitchen (it’s a nursing home, so there’s way more women than men) I’m not jealous from it, but it was something I couldn’t help to notice. You ignore me, but talk with strange guys. Ok 😅
@vrinnmetagen
@vrinnmetagen 2 месяца назад
...I love my wife. But I can't handle her disorder anymore. It hurts so much. I don't want to hurt her but I'm so tired and I just want to be happy
@Parish1990
@Parish1990 5 лет назад
Definitely another one right on time lol I love your timing it's like you know what I'm going through thanks your videos help me and I'm sure they help alot of people
@vanessabayardo9788
@vanessabayardo9788 4 года назад
This guy I dated before was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. We are starting to date again but the bad part is my mom already knows he is bipolar. And she doesn't like that.
@jayjay-tg6qm
@jayjay-tg6qm 5 лет назад
At last a video about this and dating and loving someone with this sickness
@bajalokokabron
@bajalokokabron Год назад
Thank you so much for this video, it was very helpful. So I think I found the love of my love and was happy she told early once we started talking that she does have bipolar disorder but she has the kindest and gentle soul.
@binuskucing8901
@binuskucing8901 4 года назад
I'm so sad after left her without really understanding and taking this seriously.
@manwithaplan4808
@manwithaplan4808 3 месяца назад
It seems a lot of women with bipolar illness need ir expect a partner who is always on point, perfect in every way, and is a mind reader. Basically a man with super human intuition, and more than typically submissive to her needs and or outbursts. Thoughts please?
@gevsuy2788
@gevsuy2788 4 года назад
I like someone with bipolar disorder
@Socal71
@Socal71 4 месяца назад
My god I need HELP !!!!! I’m trying I’m really trying !! I love her unconditionally 😢
@paddyb9196
@paddyb9196 4 года назад
Apollonia this is for you, it really is important to highlight that these disorders often accompany other disorders making them very difficult to control, you need to educate about that because you can lead people to think if I understand the bipolar part everything will be ok, not realizing there is another disorder attached that will show itself out, then what?. This is not easy, we cannot fix mental disorder we can medicate to subdue, until another episode.
@zetaone2669
@zetaone2669 8 месяцев назад
Although good advice, here is another piece of advice to live by: life is short and challenging enough so why put yourself through unneeded stress and discomfort; choose the superior path and live a long healthy clean life. Memento Mori.
@gabrielavaldez757
@gabrielavaldez757 3 года назад
My fiancé is going to be diagnosed with BD but I feel so overwhelmed, he blamed on me all the time even if I speak very nice he even says I have to go and be check too.... I also go to therapy but I feel there’s going to be an overwhelming time that I don’t know if I can be able to deal with it as much as I love him
@anniebrassell5343
@anniebrassell5343 3 года назад
As a person with Bipolar 1 and with my partner for over 15 years, I'd suggest talking to to people for yourself as well. Though we love hard (and I in particular very loyal by nature as well because to me they go hand in hand) it can be difficult. For one, he has to be 100% in accepting his disorder and wanting to better understand it to help himself be the best self he can be with this disorder. Second, research and talk to people that are both Bipolar and spouces of people with bipolar. This will help you make a decision on Marriage as you have to think about yourself and keeping your mental well being as sound as possible not only now but your future as well...
@diegomora761
@diegomora761 3 года назад
This was really helpful, I’m ima relationship with someone who has this and I find it hard to understand what they go through but I want to understand and be someone they can go to for support
@Azav312
@Azav312 3 года назад
Leave now. She will consume you and destroy you.
@OmarRodriguez-dn7mg
@OmarRodriguez-dn7mg 5 лет назад
Thank you for your insight. Not trying to be negative but my ex- wife has bipolar disorder and i spent almost 10 years not only trying to fix my marriage but her disorder has put me in jail. I've asked her to get help but would say i need it cause i don't understand.
@Supertzar999
@Supertzar999 3 года назад
I used to think my ex-girlfreind from 2 years ago had something like this. We just started seeing each other again. This time around, I don't see a lot of the extreme emotions that were part of her behavior then. Not so sure now that it was bipolar. At the time, she was right out of a marriage where her husband divorced her.
@__mmunam.2368
@__mmunam.2368 2 года назад
My love has it she needs help and im searching every where to help her out and i know its hard to deal with bi polar but believe me when u understand she needs help you will try to get out of every situation when u feel down with ur partner!
@rafikiian8272
@rafikiian8272 Год назад
I was thinking of dating my friend’s friend who is bipolar 2, it’s been 1 month since I started doing research about it I thank my friend for giving me a background check about her before involving myself coz she’s really into me and I feel the same too but I don’t want her to tell me about her diagnosis before I deeply understand this disorder
@rjh6111
@rjh6111 Год назад
Thank you! I know this is 4yrs old lol but I met an amazing woman with bipolar and your advice is extremely helpful
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