DATING UGLY MEN 

Indeed x

Completely relate!!

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Man I feel like I’m in the same shoes but I don’t find most men attractive 😢😢

What happened in the break up?

Girl exactly

Ask yourself the question: "would you sleep with him?"

it's just that we have to keep being sweet & nice cuz it gives us some hope out here.😂

Not all attractive dudes are rude though that is just a label

No that's not true for me. I've dated some ugly guys and they are just as demanding as the hot ones. Bring with you CAN blow their egos up and they act the same way. Ugly guys cheat. Being ugly doesn't mean anything in terms of kindness or as an insurance policy.

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If someone is ugly depending on certain features I can't do it and then you have to worry about how your daughter will look. Being an ugly woman is the hardest because men don't look past looks for personality.

@@thewordsmith5440women don’t either. I’m very ugly. 50. And have always been single. Women look at me either disgust they never bother to learn anything about me. They look at me and that ends anything

You are scripted in the masculine but that said it goes without saying that romantic chemistry must be present and he must have redeeming qualities that make up for his physical deficits x

Thank you for responding! I guess chemistry is the real issue. I’ve been compatible with certain men but don’t feel the connection to them. Nonetheless, I appreciate all your videos and what you do.

Most guys dont get what they want from girls. Most guys dont get any girls. On the contrary it's been proven dating is a thousand times easier for girls. At least you've got more options. Most guys have none.

This is exactly why I see men in open relationships on apps and 100% of the time the woman is much more attractive than the man. She probably tired of having sex with someone she's not physically attracted to anymore.

What Physical features do you ladies find sexy in men?

Because us good looking dudes have options and take little to none of the Female BS

Not always...sometimes those ugly guys cheat too🤸

Damn right we treat women good 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Simp

Not true, when they get a baddie, they start thinking they're the baddie, or worse, start to become controlling and abusive because they know they don't have what it takes to keep you. I know this from personal experience.

You have to have relations and kiss this person so yes you have to be attracted to them.

Yes indeed!

@@blackswanrelationshipacademy does it not go both ways for men and women when you said theres not that many commerical attractive people

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I totally agree

tada should be turned in to kachin

Very true

True, the more they have money the more you will be attracted to them.

This is exactly how I’ve always felt and thank you for putting it this way cus I never knew how to explain lol. Like there are some unattractive men that I am really attracted to because I just am lol !? I feel like attraction is key not really "beauty"

This.

Indeed x

Yeah but the girl wont have sex with you. A girl can be attracted to an ugly dudes persona but shell just admire him, end of story. They'll be no bedroom fun lol.

@@d35trvct08 you're speaking nothing but facts in this comment section bro.

This is true x

This is exactly why I don't date them. If I can love them how they want to be loved but want them to love me and stay that's not fair to them. I've left men for that reason.

100%

We only get one life, go for the best personality and beauty, you deserve the best. We get in life what we think we deserve. If you have a man who you can also be proud of, you will respect him more and vice versa.

Me too lol

Yes, just because their unattractive doesn’t make them the naturally better option. The point is to choose with your ears xx

I like your honesty. To be fair, in my experience as an unattractive guy, even when we do nice things, or the things girls wished attractive men did, they still hold us to a higher standard to try "offsetting" our ugliness. For example, if a man is attractive, a woman doesn't require him to make lots of money or give her any of it. But if hes ugly, he has to have a better job and give her money most of the time. This applies to our manners as well. If a hot guy cheats he is forgiven. But if an ugly man tells a small lie hes cut off. So as much as I understand your point of view and you make valid points, you're overlooking the fact that women hold uglier guys to a higher moral and financial standard. Which in turn, can create some of that unpleasantness in our personalities you mentioned. So in conclusion, it's not a very fair comparison to state that good looking dudes weren't very nice, and the same was the case with ugly men, when most women hold us to a much greater standard. They still do this even if we've lowered ours. What I mean by that is many women who are 4s and 5s to hot guys, are 8s and 9s to us. Despite this, those women will give less credit to us for doing greater/same things to/for them than better looking guys. We'll be kind to them, want to take them to dinner, help them with Bill's and food, all of which I've done, and they end up ditching me and giving themselves to guys who dont want to do the same. I used to work two full time jobs and women always blew me off. Meanwhile, they'll be having kids with deadbeats, then bitching on their social media about how their baby daddies dont help them. On top of that, dating is hundreds of times more brutal for us than women. You may have to "settle", well we get nothing. Settling for bread and water during famine will keep you alive. Having nothing will ensure the most excruciating, slow death. So please. Remember you dont have it as bad as us...

@@d35trvct08 - This is classic “nice guy” talk. Just because you were nice does not guarantee a relationship or sex. That is bare minimum in a relationship.

Yes, close your eyes and open your ears and if what you hear is right your eyes will change their mind xx

This is a great question, because I don’t care for commercial beauty. I just want to be naturally attracted to the guy. Is that so hard?? It easy to be irritated with a guy that I’m not attracted to, especially when they just weird stuff lol. I feel like guys get what they want from women but it’s like we are almost settling when it comes to what we want in looks/physique.

@@luvlove92 If the attractive men you want aint commit to you or only use you for a booty call. You aint attractive to them . I noticed unattractive women want attractive men . But them attractive men dont find them attractive. So I think we got unattractive ppl want attractive ppl. Its crazy unattractive women curved unattractive men. But drool over attractive men who dont find them attractive. Its crazy out here. Men & women are lost.

The solution is, you can't. Just continue to be honest with yourself and more importantly others. Never lead a guy on or tell him something's wrong with his personality when it's really his appearance. That's the only solution here.

I wouldn't follow this Jae. You should physically want them first. Personality keeps you there. You like what you like even if it's to your detriment. If you want the men you want to want you for than a situationship, self-improve. Physically and emotionally. Be more feminine. Submissive.

I’m speechless 😶

You do need both. Most women though will have to settle if they want a good loyal man. Not saying good looking guys can’t treat a woman well, but it’s not that common.

Exactly let's keep it real here! Like why do we have to pretend to lower our standards just for love. If I am not into a guy I'd rather be single. I'm not dating someone I can't look at. I have my own money and I don't need the insecurity or pressure to love him a certain way and blah blah blah. No.

Yes! The title is really for optimisation as ugly is really subjective. The point being a man one wouldn’t find as attractive as their normal choices

Caring about looks is perfectly reasonable. If all I care about is someone who treats me good, than I’m just looking for a friend. It’s not shallow to want a partner that’s attractive to you. It’s only shallow to want someone that is the hottest person in the room and disregard important character traits.

For me it's both. It's my life and I'm stuck with them. To each their own and I'll do wat works for me. But I'm not dating someone I'm not attracted to just to seem like a good person or to be on a high horse. And no I'm not saying that's what you're doing but I'm not going to either.

​@@joeydoherty368 exactly. Let's be real here. Some women are into looks too and that ok. I like handsome men with good hearts. I've dated ugly guys and some of them got on my nerves and acted ebtlred. Especially if they were once handsome but let themselves go. Ugly doesn't mean anything.

@ARD7177 Right. Handsome men are obviously gonna have higher standards and more likely to be slack in other areas, so as long as that's understood, you shouldn't have an issue.

If keeping up social beauty standards wasn't hard enough for women that they now want men to suffer the same No thanks Stay healthy Don't put makeup on your face that's deception

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Thats ur pp u dont find many attractive there always to someone else i find personality way more important anyway just my opp

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣all is subjective based on the culture you exist in

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Yeah it’s really nothing new. Women are independent now, so they want more than just a traditionally masculine man.

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No call a spade a spade. Ok means he's decent looking. That's not what ugly is.

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Any updates on this? I’m curious.

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Oh dear! Low value women can be rude and disrespectful. I would pursue women with class if I were you.

You advocate lying?

June 5th check my Instagram for more details x

Because the people they are living with here on earth have standards of beauty and they aren’t going anywhere so extend grace and be aware you are in the earth realm with humans

@@blackswanrelationshipacademy it’s no excuse for them to call people ugly though. It’s frustrating that’s all I’m trying to say. God Bless

I’m tired of this world too, I wish I could just leave it already. :/

Sin

Attraction is key indeed. Stick to your convictions but also date out of your type of guy to give love a chance

It is also unrealistic to eliminate physicality! Can you live without a body????????????

@@cathrinekatsigianni8823 she’s talking about non shallow women

There is a woman out there who finds you attractive 🙏. Look for that one

What an awful thing to say about yourself 🥲

@@blackswanrelationshipacademyit’s true. I can accept it. Women have told me I’m ugly sinve I was 5. People in public tell me I’m ugly by the disgusted looks I get. Kids tell me I’m ugly the way they stare

@@blackswanrelationshipacademyI’m 50 and have never had a girlfriend

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Wish to be happy forever.

Hahah handsomeness is in the eye of the beholder

Science based meditation feed you happiness... it is good.

You are right status is important to women and men but the reason they don’t do the right thing is not an issue of status but of masculine energy in women. We are scripted by the modern world to choose with our eyes and build sexual attraction from there.

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