Dealing with a Woman's Ghosts 

I once dated a woman with whom I shared some of my passions. One day when I was sharing, she resisted, saying, “You know you can’t make me a mini-you!” What I didn’t realize was that she was already a mini-version of some guy.

Men put out. Women receive what the men put out. Women always submit to something.

You're dealing with the ghost of "Chad ", "Tyrone", "Miguel" and the captain of the basketball team.

It's funny how women walk around screaming they don't like being disrespected, but subconsciously they live for being called out their name or beat the hell up. That's why they go and carry those masculine traits and put that kind of negativity on other people. Ever notice that?

During my simp days back in high school, and up to maybe my first semester of college, I used to try to save women like this... I was president of the Captains, lol... I figured all they needed was love, attention and somebody who truly listens to them... man, I was wrong... I got tired of being used and abused, so I gave it up... it's very taxing and consuming being a simp, especially when you're a dedicated one.

Bro Rom - I am dating this women in her late 30s and I have to say she has taken me on a roller coaster with her emotional state - after a while, I started to study her and remove my emotions from the relationship - it was very shocking to see the different men inside of her that she dated, verbally she admitted to have a few sex partners, but over time I could see the ghosts reveal themselves - especially the older men she dated - one day she would look like a young women than other days she would dress and look like a older woman - really freaked me out - I thought I was crazy until you revealed some hidden code - thanks a million....

this is part of why it's hard for good black men to find black women who aren't damaged beyond repair despite the amount of women outnumbering them in population. good video.

Thats why I value you more than any of these dudes that speak on relationships. Because you dont go too hard on these women & as I always say, look at things objectively for progression & growth. Said this in prior video to, a lot of brothers putting their resentment out as gospel & not giving the unadulterated fair picture, because the lens they're viewing it from is clutter with their own misery.

This Is Deep But This Is Why I’m Very Picky On Who I Put My Energy In Because I’m Aware Of These Things Because I Know A Man Puts Out His Spirit Energy An A Woman Takes In The Mans Spirit Energy Just By Being Aware Of Human Nature & Biology And It’s Deep Because I Have Seen Woman Start Acting Like The Man She’s With & Another Key Saying That People Miss Is When People Say ( Yall Are Starting To Look Alike). There’s A Deeper Reason Behind That Saying.

Excellent Video as always! That's why I mentioned before when it comes to meeting women, get to know them and find out what they're really about. Ask them questions about their past relationships without getting too personal because you'll know exactly what you're dealing with. Most women you meet is going to have some kind of history or baggage with men whether good or bad once they're a certain age, you just can't be afraid to ask worrying about her feelings, if she's going to get upset for what you're asking her and I've been guilty of that myself. The reason why is because men get so caught up into her body and features, so they forget about wanting to ask her those questions, they be like hell with that, I'll find that out later and when you do find out afterwards, shit can get real ugly. I've experienced it myself. Find out in the beginning or otherwise, you'll get caught up in her baggage, it can be easier said than done at times especially if you're stuck on her physicality, vice versa for a women, that's how a lot of things get overlooked and certain questions don't get asked for that reason. Sum it all up, it's definitely best to ask certain questions in the beginning, forget her feelings, you can't always worry about that as a man because women don't have a problem asking men certain questions so we as men should feel the same way about them.

Can't give up all the game ...LMAO. Field Master Rom spittin' game

It simply doesn't pay to deal with any woman who has EVER been with a "Mr. Goodbar" prototype. There is NO SUCH THING as a female who was a relationship "victim". They don't have demons, they ARE the demons. Just as treacherous, most often worse, than their alleged aggressors. Outstanding video!!!

How much Holy Water, garlic juice, and silver nitrate does it take to exorcise the Ghosts of Penis Past?

A crazy female that obsessed over and stalked me revealed to me that her father was deceased. Looking back im sure she had multiple ghosts. She was hell to deal with, I could not believe the persistence.

This is why certain men only deal with virgins. The thing is, though, in America, virgins who are of legal age of consent, are extremely hard to find, lol.

Ahh, the spiritual dynamics of the sexual relay-tionship. Not a lesson for those full of stubbornness and pride. Excellent piece Professor Willis.

When I hear a woman mention that she was in a abusive relationship and/or has kids by multiple men, I'm out! She could be a 92 octane or higher, damaged is damaged!

It is currently 2021, and this video is still very underrated. More people especially black women need understand the “ghosts” concept that manifests after sex. It may help shift our current dating circumstance. Brilliant video Rom.

Some Christians calls it a "lust spirit."

Did you say 30? I know plenty of women who are 21 with about 30 bodies lol. A couple of them are recently married. I guess their spouses doesn't know about all of those past sex partners..............yet lol

we are not her therapist

TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have told a couple of women this. I said to them "stop listening to those voices in your head, I'm not THEM!!!!!!" They told me the men they dealt with prior to me and they be holding to them ghost with a Kung-Fu Grip. Either you stay and fight those ten dudes in her head or you just run for your life because that's her comfort zone. They will never admit to their preference of navigating through the raging rapids of a river instead of sailing on a peaceful sea.

This is very much true. If you pay attention you can see that last man's imprint on her, driver body language and mannerisms to her choice of words and little actions she takes... thenbwirhbyoure with one long enough you'll be able to see yours actually rub off on her!👏🏾💯

Rom this was great. I've dealt with this a lot. The woman I was serious about in graduate school was recently divorced and it was hell. I didn't know enough to break it off. I was about 28 and it was my first serious adult relationship. Her "Ghost" actually rolled up on us one day at her apartment complex. Interestingly my mother didn't tell me to get to GET OUT!!!!!!! Neither did my Pops. I just hung in there and tried to wait it out. I was fortunate to be able to finish my doctorate but it could've easily gone the other way. Your boys are lucky to have a father like you Rom.

DEEEEPPP... Never thought of it like that... But that's why I'm still single cause most women I've met have a bad history on the types of men they've dealt with 💯💯💯

Good one, just be Aware of what you are dealing with. Live Powerful, Live Aware.

This topic is provocative; l feel the need to comment but at the same time I feel I must ponder on a couple of important issues raised and underlined. All I am saying is "Perhaps..." Thank you, Thank you!! May the God of wisdom continue to be present with you and linger longer with you.

Hey Rom! This is my third time commenting on this video. I'm NOT stalking, lol! Your videos are so rich with wisdom that I often revisit them. Just like one would reread a classic book or rewatch a well-done movie.... I recently rewatched "A Different World ", a show from my youth. Dwayne and Whitley were the main characters. Through out the early years the writers kept the sexual tension going between them. "Will they or won't they?" . They got together, they broke up etc.. . Eventually Whitley met Byron Douglas...her perfect man: rich, erudite, handsome and a successful and rising politician. ... In the season 5(?) finale, Whitley and Byron got to the altar, all of their friends and family were there.....but Whitley left him at the altar for Dwayne. At the time, everyone, including me were happy for her and Dwayne...we treated the one hour finale as a cullmination of a great love story, ... But watching it after seeing this video, I realize how Fucked up" her action was! Dwayne WAS HER GHOST! ! Dwayne was "dick" that she could never forget! She even said that " knowing him had changed her for the better" (she took in his energy!) And what about Byron, he didn't deserve the humiliation they visited upon him! Imagine how HE felt! I could imagine a scenario where he goes MGTOW and "never trusts a bitch"!.... Dwayne and Whitley were "fucked up " people! Thanks a lot, you ruined a great show! Lol!

We men can have sex multiple times and still choose the right woman. Before you want something serious as a man you need have multiple conversations with here. Professor Rom is right about the ex part you as new men need to demand of her that she rid of everything about her ex.

Your videos are opening up my thinking on women! Thought I knew a lot, realize I still have a lot more to learn about them! Thanks Rom!

I’m new to ur channel and I just turned 19 and man thanks for putting in all this work to come out with these videos . My dad teaches me about a lot of bullshit to look out for in the world especially with black girls and how a lot got baggage from left over essence from other guys being in them but I’ve never heard it explained like this before . To get to the point I’m a young dude who hasn’t had any sort of experiences with a girl on any sort of relationship lvl before so I thought it would be smart to trying to learn about all the pit falls and paths to death that so many brother fall victim to for lack info so I want to get into ur hardcore lessons and stuff so I can have an arsenal of knowledge at my disposal anytime I need to use it .

SOUL TI€S v/s STRONG HOLDS. THIS IS SO TRU£. W€ WERE TAUGHT THIS IN CHURCH, THE SPIRIT WORLD IS R€AL👍👍👍👍

Makes perfect sense to me. I've experienced women with sketchy sex pasts time and time again. I've seen some that go to extreme lengths to hide that past too. EXTREME!

Brother Wills with another classic! Keep'em coming bro. REAL LIFE!

I AGREE, AND ENJOYED THIS VIDEO ROM!! I AM A FIRM BELIEVER OF THE IMPRINT.. AND DETOX.

truer words have never been spoken sir! subscribed!

Soul ties demons and spirits go both ways

Need to learn more about this. Thank you.

Wow...its crazy that I come across this topic. Ive illuded to the "ghost" of men woman carry within them. Ive faught against it so much but recently realized its not my battle. This video held so much confirmation for me.

This is good bro. Respect!

top of the a.m. rom! morning motivation💯

I got with my girl wen she was 30. I realize now that she had 15 years of fuckin before we met. In hindsight, It caused her sexual dysfunction and has effects our relationship to this very day. Sadly, I gave her a decade and now I want out because I cannot get past her sexual past. Call it Immature but i have punished myself far too long because I didn't know any better.

Another reason to avoid marriage! Thanks for the info, Rom.

Sorry, to clarify my father's mother died as a little boy. So he wasn't shown love and kinda unloving but driven & highly successful. This is what shows up at my door (life) everytime.

This really touches on spiritual warfare

Soul ties. DEEP.

Rom keep going deeper.

This is deep, thanks for the video.

I believe that although she may have an imprint that came from being with beta male simps. When she then meets and is imprinted by the one Alpha. That will really mess with her head. She will be the Alpha widow and will look for what she found in the Alpha in others where it won't be found. Sadly, the poor guy who follows the Alpha is going to be in a world of hurt!

See Uncle Rom I know how true these things are that you talking. Bout in this video ..man it can be stressful!! this is kinda why i slowed down hollerin at most these women an I'm tryna somewhat be patient ..till a more decent one comes along !!.

In Christianity it's called spiritual husbands, which most women battling against, God made women periods to cleanse their blood and reniew them၊ every cycle of a month.

But yet women are in constant denial of their issues......😒 hmm

Yeah, I'm very empathatic. We sometimes put other people's needs ahead of own.

Hey brother really enjoy your channel and content. And I'm very familiar with what you a talking about.

I salute you General Rom!

Everything makes so much sense..wow. and it's like I already knew all of this, just beig reminded.

classic video...Rom, if the "game" is perception based is that what reflects back to us based on our learned/ instinctual behaviors..or is this matrix out here more objective in nature with numbers and labels attached to what get reflected? or both? im sure I have some of my answers in my question but im in my 20s still & as you being an older gentlemen (OG) I value your opinion if this is too much id like to contact you on another platform of yours thanks brotha

Damn this sounding like a Rom Wills deep thought video.

Rom check this out I hollered at you b4. I had kinda figured this out on my own. As a young lady I sumised that I attracted motherless men. Either their moms died, or they're grandma raised them or their moms was on drugs. Crazy thing because my Dad's died as a boy. It's so crazy. Basically, I attract Daddy subconsciously as well as all his unattractive qualities.

this is going to good ... pause for popcorn

man ROM I wish I could hit you up and meet with you on some REAL MAN ish. you got game that hits Everytime. my situation is so cold right now just trying to find away out. social media.. you tube what ever is not what I want to hear. need to hear that real ism from the man himself so I would never talk to much on here. but just need some real game from a solid OG

Thank you

Righteous Two Thumbs up!

fuk yea..just 2 seconds of looking you can tell what type of person your dealing with

Man those alpha women in tight black leather jackets and red lipstick smelling of cigarettes. I like them but I know they re bad for me! 😅 when talking to them I can actually FEEL the men she hangs with give her drama. Rom you're the truth!

When you dealing with his ghost and his kid lol

Damn that was rich, puts a lot in perspective for me.

yeah they have a different sense of what is "checking her". Means also different game.

Very deep Rom. How can I join your private group?

Rom Wills, I'm currently dating a good woman who's only 26 years old, I'm 32. We've talked about out sexual past and she has stated that she's only been with about 6 guys sexually. For the most part I believe her but iss there anyway that I can tell if she is telling the truth???

Deep stuff

Rom how do you manage to read people so well? Is it thru books, advice or just personal experience?Alot of us brothers wanna know this so we can train ourselves to be more conscious in or decisions and dealings with not just women but PEOPLE in general. Any advice?

This is too deep.

Truth!

Damn...so true

Does the 1st guy a woman had sex with will his imprint on her be the strongest out of the other 2 guys that come after him? Knowing she was emotionally attached to this guy

Damn this vid was deep

great video makes you re think alot of shit a womans body is insane

Rom, so are you suggesting that it's best to be with a virgin ?

What's up Rom yes my brother a lot times when I'm talking to someone that's not on that level of the game it's hard for them to comprehend because that big butt and smile external features looks good internal severely damaged beautiful young lady's you have to have very serious conversation with them because their trying to get saved from the unfortunate experiences anyway It's sad we can't save them all because we are out numbered but the ones you come in contact with try to pick the less damaged one and that's very slim Pickens.

I'd like to hear your perspective on polygamy.

Put you book on audible. You have too much knowledge not to.

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