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Seeing you struggle like this and in tears like this just makes me want to hold you and tell that everything will be alright. You are an amazing person and have been such a pillar for people to look at. Stay strong Grace cause you have the world behind you just look at your followers for strength ;)
The love of self carries us far, but the love of another takes them farther. I will be on your side every step is the way because many of times things become hard to deal with and you have a beautiful sense of not only who you are, but an inspiration to others dealing with the same thing. Hugs and kisses and stay beautiful Grace
Having watched many of your videos, I thought it was possible that you didn't experience dysphoria. You were the only genderfluid person I follow on RU-vid who hadn't talked about it. Dysphoria and the associated depression, anxiety, etc. is not easy to discuss. I wish you the best in dealing with these difficulties.
I have followed you for awhile now but missed a few so going back and watching and seeing this one all I can say is you never have to say sorry for your Emotions and this video is powerful and real and you are amazing. I wont babble on but just thank you .
You'll get better :-(, keep toughing it out and being awesome and never give up! You are loved and supported and strong enough to get through all the BS. Feel better 3>!
Thank you for being strong enough to make this video. It can be hard when a lot of our trans/gender fluid role models show only the positive times. Knowing that we all have bad days is important because it adds weight to the "it gets better" idea. I sometimes wish we all had a physical community we could run away to and live as our true selves. Hope you feel better soon Grace. Xo
Grace, none of us expect you to have all the answers. What we want most of all is for you to be happy being who you are. Your happiness feeds our happiness. You have a world of friends who love you very much. I am sending my love from America.Others around the world who you have touched with your gentle spirit are sending theirs as well. When you feel the warmth of the sun on your face or a cool breeze tosses your hair.....that's us.New Zealand is beautiful, and so are you!........JT
I know how you feel. I hate it when I have dysphoric days because my previous struggles with anxiety and self harm come back...but I guess we just have to take it on the chin
You are such a inspiration to me and so many other people, so let me be an inspiration to you and tell you that "You need the bad times in life to appreciate the good times!"
Grace it sucks I go through dysphoria virtually every day I know how hard it is at times I just want to give up but I don’t I just carry on love your channel love you as a person carry on doing what you doing love you grace
Just found your channel and saw a few videos, and in all honesty you and your fiancé are both wonderful people. I can see it in how you both present yourselves on here and the sincerity in your words. Stay strong and continue being who you are. You have a beautiful heart and have a lovely partner and kitty by your side! As a straight cis female I can't imagine how you struggle, but in any case keep your head high and know there are people here that appreciate you and the message you're sending❤️
I struggle with dysphoria all the time, and it's been really hard this week. I've spent most of my time inside and alone because I don't want to deal with the world, and ive struggled a lot with the idea of having androgynous presentation because I want to look feminine but I look like a child when I shave and have no makeup and that feels...shameful? Like my male presentation doesn't count if I shave? But I don't have to struggle with that when I'm by myself just being me and don't have to worry about my presentation....idk. This video just hit home and I'm thinking about you love. Someday we'll live in a better, more open world, and it'll be better. Someday. But for now we can cry and let it out and tomorrow will be easier
My disphoria reached a new high a few weeks ago. My job doesn't really "allow" me to present as my gender (warehouse in a furniture store). And my parents are very religious so they don't approve. But it does definitely get better, I feel like my biggest challenge atm is weight. (bigger male born person so it's lovely). Hope things get better and thanks for being honest :) I appreciate it, sometimes we trick ourselves into thinking were the only ones suffering but we aren't :)
*huggles* It'll get better one day If it helps I find different types of music helps me deal with mine (who knew boob envy for a legitimate thing?). If I'm feeling depressed I stick on Foo Fighters, if I'm angry I'll play my most aggressive metal bands, and if I'm really really upset MCR (yes, yes, emo girl listening to emo band) helps me cry it out. I know you might not like rock/punk/metal, but if you pick out what moods your favourite bands make you feel listening to the corresponding music is a good way to vent.
The important thing is to differentiate between the abstract and the individual. We can talk about philosophical issues such as are there Male and Female Brains? Should people be 18 before receiving HRT. etc? But the individual person deserves to be treated with love, kindness, compassion and respect.
Dysphoria really sucks. I'm mostly male but biologically female so I get dysphoria most of the time. It can be really frustrating. Even my boyfriend doesn't know how often I'm male.
sounds like you have a lot to think about, hope someone is not trying to influence you into something you're not. feelings in this mood can be so confusing and it might be wise to seek some help.. I pray you will be ok..
I hate this video. But only because it's what I do I laugh cause I know I need to cry I'm a positive person to hide my depression I want a cat to make me feel better Sadly I see the strongest people I know cry and I think: if they can't keep it together how can I?
I'm genderfluid and I usually feel masculine but I can't be masculine because "I'm a girl" so I'm usually sad and I developed agoraphobia because of it. It's hard to just leave my room to be with family.
Grace, l know this is not your world view, but l hope it encourages you. In Psalms 34:18 it says, The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart;...God is always there to offer comfort,love and encouragment in your times of heartache, just reach out to Him. And in Psalms 56:8 it says Thou tellest my wanderings: put Thou my tears into Thy bottle: are they not in Thy book? Our grief and sorrows are inportant to God, so important that as He comforts us,He will actually collect the tears we shed in bottles for an everlasting remembrance and memorial of the sufferings of those He loves. He will oneday redeem those tears with an everlasting Joy in His Presence. So just know Grace that every precious tear that falls from your beautiful eyes will never be in vain, but they are precious to my Lord and are being tenderly and lovingly collected. How do l know this? I believe His Word, and l have asked my Lord to personally collect your tears, because your tears are just as precious to me as they are to my Lord Jesus. Bless you Graeden\ Grace.
Thinking of ya :( Hope it passes soon. If it's any consolation, I aspire to present fem as prettily and as well as you do (not sure how realistic a goal that is but yaknow :P )
