Dear co-wife: Am sorry i ruined your marriage. I brought a curse on myself, please bless my kids 

​My Dear viewer, I know this story is very emotive. I know we would be tempted to call Victoria names and even rub it on her face that Karma is a b*****but please let's be respectful in our comments. Let's remember that we follow a God of second chance. Let's remember that some of the greatest saints like St Paul, St Mary Magdalene, St Augustine, were once great sinners. Let us bless Victoria with the same words of Jesus 'Go and do not sin again.' Let us pray and hope that the woman whose this message is intended for will soften her heart. That the Holy Spirit may give her the resolve and the power to forgive her and bless Victoria's kids. And for those of us who may be in such destructive relationships, may we; in this period of lent, call to mind our sins and change our ways. AMEN This my plea to you my faithful follower. Yours Monica

, I'm man with his young family 👪 and I thank God but I vividly remember how my own mother suffered n the hands of ths core wives, I remember one day, side chick approached my mum and told her that she's surprised to know she's not dead since my dad told her mum died few year's ago, battle never ends there and I remember another side chick made my mother life miserable to an extent of running 🏃‍♀️ 😢 to every pastor's to seek for help which she couldn't get. , instead they drained her financially, my mum had a lot of bitterness and it affected me so much being her last born, close friend and confidant. Sadly my mum could not cope so well with grief and she died peacefully and my entire life wrecked 💔 😔 I have never recovered but it's well with my soul. After the burial dad would bring different ladies at our matrimonial home 🏡 and it crashed my spirit, even during the burial any person could tell he was not there mentally only busy body when me, my brother and sister's overwhelmed by the grief which shook 💔 the entire village..to cut the story short my dad life has never be the same again after few year's and I hate him so much..I always confess to my wife even though I'm man things can happen, I will never let her go through what my lovely mum went through and may the lord help me I pray...may she continue resting peacefully n God hands and may dad pay the heavy price.

A broken spirit and a contrite heart, the Lord will not despise. The Lord has already forgiven her. This is the heart that David had, a repentant heart. May the Lord bless you Veronica.

Monica I have gone through hell with my.girls bcoz of one woman who broke my home it hurts so much.bcoz watoto hawakufika kwenye walikua wafike kimasomo vitu mingi ziliharibika may they stop breaking marriages aki watoto wanaumia but machozi tumelia.Mungu atatulipishia

May God make all sidechicks leave married men we are suffering taking care the kids alone.

"if you've never sinned stone this lady" Let's not judge. I believe the Lord has forgiven her,she has repented and requested for forgiven.

First wives pesa zote zinapelekewa slayqueens,but there is God in heaven ,what goes round comes round

I am not judging Victoria and I really sympathize with her predicament but why do I keep getting the feeling that Victoria will have a hard time convincing many of us that she didn't leave the man because he got unwell and the money taps shut? I am positive that if the man's money kept flowing, Victoria's conscience that she was in an 'adulterous relationship' and all that crap about caring for the first wife and her children would not have bothered her... it never did until the man got sick. Guys, don't be cheated. Let's stick to our wives. This will be your fate with that Gacungwa.

The man was wrong not the woman, he could have respected his marriage and be the mature person blaming women is not fair

The way my son has broke his marrige due to these so called gals aaaa no way.But i stand with my dota inlaw.

To be honest, i don't blame this lady. She went in as a second wife, and there is nothing wrong with that. If the blame was to come, then am blaming the MAN

My beautiful neighbor ..happy to see you ..there's nothing nice like a sincere confessing heart God hears🙏

A story that is very close to home... without mentioning names and relationships am gonna briefly tell a story here ....so this one woman that got married as a second wife put the first wife through so much hell till she left, this second wife now settled there completely and got kids ...first child a bit disabled second child celebral palsy third child shida za akili so she thought ati ni karma or maybe she is paying for the hell she put the first wife but truly the first wife left na akawaachia Mungu and went on to raise her children....alikua mtu anajua Mungu na kumpenda so aliwaachia Mungu na kueka watoto wake na maisha ya watoto wake kwa mikono ya Mungu.....first forward to second wife's third child she started regretting and apologizing to the first wife...the husband left her akisema halei differently abled children till now huyo mama analia yet the first wife other than ile machungu ya what she went through before leaving hananga shida na wao...this is a message for anyone that wants to put another woman through such pain, any gachugwa intending to come destroy a family and such please think twice

I hope Betty wamaitha will listen to this coz Ruth wa mum has seen it all..

She is a very wise lady. Knowing you are wrong and admitting it, n asking for forgiveness is wisdom from above GOD will bless you my sister

This is the best show ever monica kagoni many marriages will heal God bless you and extend your territories

Ngai amaruturure oothe aria mathukitie micii yene nginya uria waiyire wakwa tondu nindamukanitie ngimwira muthuri ucio ena mutumia na ndaiguire may God deal with her and others good job monica kagoni im praying for families because hii mipango ya kando needs to go God made Eve for Adam only mariage is for one man one wife

Baby gal, don't be too hard on yourself, children do get sick, even those that belong to the goat wives get admitted over and over ....pray for your children,God is a loving and compassionate,full of mercy and a million more chances.... complete healing to your babies,Amen

First wife is always blessed as the founder of home

Realizing mistakes makes us human

Watu wa kusoma comments tuko wapi?

Aki first wife mungu awape nguvu,mtu akikamuuuua akimaliza anarudishia first wife 😭

Please call a spade a spade,alikosea because even after knowing Yuko na family,she continued staying.,.woi muka mukoro ethagwo gwa thokana.... it's indeed painful... when you break a home,you start battles with God!!!! and that's a fact!

Kosa sio kosa, kosa ni kurudia kosa.....by the way she is beautiful

Kiumbani ni kiumbani, I had a relationship with an married man but alikua njangiri, I caught him with other younger girls than me. Don't beat yourself so much, mistakes are there to be made. Gods Grace is unlimited.

I can’t judge her… Men why are you approaching other women knowing very well you are married??? May God punish you first 😳

She's so brave to come out coz some women will start dropping comments n they r sidechiqs n have the audacity to point fingers. As the Bible says, confess ua sins and you will be forgiven.....

I'm not judging,but I will say this,when you're consciously sinning,accept punishment yako kama umefurahi😐.God forgives but Jehova renders justice properly 🤷

I salute her for this, I wish my mother confessed like this woman after ruining a home making the first wife to be driven out of her home.They said she was insane but i am sure she was suffering from depression. Being her firstborn I've really paid for their sins but I thank God He recently delivered me after repenting on their behalf when I realised it could be the reason i was leading a miserable life.I was a bright student but I never advanced my education to my desired level and ended up doing odd jobs for survival.I thank the neighbours and certain aunties who dared to tell me the truth after observing my predicaments, God bless them. Our God is Faithful,I am in a better position now and i swore never to wreck anyone's home either by marriage or being a side chick. I am in my tenth year since i divorced and I am happily single. Can someone advise me whether there is something else i am supposed to do kindly.

These are what we call genuine mistakes....She never knew anakosea mtu.The good thing about her story is that she is apologetic..I hope the 1st wife will forgive her.

Me and my children we have gone through hell since 2007 he has never help even a penny but I blame my ex husband because I don’t know what he told her, but those who do it knowingly may God punish them because I can’t be able to explain the pain I have gone through and still going through May God vindicate us, I know you are God of vengeance

Nasty as my comment may sound, men should learn from this particular video, the sidechicks will "eat"all you have, spoil your relationship with your wife and kids and when you have wasted all your productive years and energy on them or fall sick; they'll leave you at their own pleasure like a joke! I'm not judging Victoria but I don't rule her as innocent as well. The man is also wicked🚮

God has no problem forgiving, but we live with the consequences of our actions. This man never accepted you as his wife; he introduced you to his family as Victoria, not as his wife.

This woman deserves forgiveness from God and the cowife.She is one in a million.Victoria may God intervine and wipe your tears

Stop blaming yourself and putting negative words into your mouth over your children. This man came looking for you its not you who seduced him. He is the one who should be apologizing to the goat wife and not you, why he came to you knowing he had a wife its because he was looking for peace of mind and he got it from you. Some women pushes their men too hard and this ends up to a man looking for another woman . Children getting sick is very normal and stop feeding your mind with negative things this will eat you up and won't end up well. Have peace and move on

Those men who cheats on their wife may God punish them too, and to the side chicks don't be so happy when another woman is crying herself to sleep those tears are not in vain, I have gone through it I know what it means to survive it,

Monicah tuletee first wife pls.

Men (someone's husband is a no go zone) Ati this is my wife and this is so so (her name without any title hehe)

she is a beautiful girl in heart. There is not sin that is unforgivable. God will never reject the prodigal son

Well done Victoria for coming out clean and owning your mistakes. You've opened many our hearts and eyes. It's time to do the right thing before kids suffers. No one is perfect in the eyes of the Lord and he has surely forgiven you. Lots of love girl

A free woman she is..Whoever does not forgive her its on you….(including co-wife)Far as God is concerned she is free like a bird

Some many second and subsequentwives don't have the same issues. It it just a believe thing?

To be honest it never be easy for the first wife because I was in the some things I was first wife and it will hard for me but don't see anything wrong with this lady because she respect other woman and it's fine to have 2 wife anyway

Metagwo nyaciamburi ni kwambura.... if you have never been betrayed by your partner, you cannot understand the pain. The pain/heartache is unbearable. Trust me

I don't know why Victoria is apologising she was married as second wife ...feel free mamaa kids being sick it's normal mahe dawa nimekuhona

Power of prayer.may she be forgiven and become a lesson to other destroyers

Wise lady and that the Start of healing,God is God of mercies and they start after knowing your mistake.

The tears I cried in 2019 and the tears my son cried in 2020 are about to be answered...God of vengeance hurry for us please 🙏🙏

Athuri makamaguo mbeca ciathira agatiguo acoke kwa mutumia wake Atari kindu kana ee muruaru

The only reason why she is remorseful is because things didn't work out and the guy changed. The guy stopped pretending and showed her who he really was. If things worked out smoothly we would not have known about her.

Gods curses are automatic i even tell my children i don’t have to curse them they should know what the word of God says about them and their parents its not the other wife who has brought all this its Gods curses

Thumbsup Mrs Kagoni for a job well done, yu're such a darling may our almighty God bless you. Victoria,kutenda kosa si kosa but kosa nikurudia, yu've known and repented your sins and hakuna dhambi ambayo our God hawezi samehe and we hope that your co-wife will also forgive you. We are all sinners it's just that we sin differently,so i can't judge you. All the best Victoria,it is well ❤️❤️❤️

She deserves forgiveness,how I wish my stepmother see this,she been hell on earth putting a barrier between us and our dad

The first wife must be very prayerful.She is a wise woman hakuna mahali alitusiana or fought a physical fight .He fought on her knees and she has won

I don't see why she is apologizing men are allowed to marry 2 wives. And there must have been a reason why he left the other women for her

I think her problem is psychological, he is your husband married, How can you say that God spoke to you and said that you are leaving in sin???? ITS NOT KARMA IT’S “PSYCHOLOGICAL”

What if the man had his valid reasons why he needed another woman....if he wasn't happy the first wife doesn't he deserve to such for his happiness.maybe divorce was not the best option for him because of the kids ..just my opinion

This is an eye opener for me... Needed to hear this

So emotional,I should urge the first wife to forgive this woman and others should learn from her

Seven means completeness, you av been with someone husband seven years knowing the other lady was there,you will be forgiven but u will drink the cup alone

This is what is called repentance. May the Lord God help her and the innocent children

Wonderful realizing and repenting may GOD hear your prayers

She's very eloquent n understands the meaning of real confession, repentance and forgiveness 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Kagoni ni wamaka!! Even me and I believe the real wife has cried earnestly to God through prayer.Dont joke with prayers.Prayers move mountains and go far.Let it be a lesson to all ladies who are in the same trap.She is bold and very strong to speak out.May the real wife accept her apology.We have all sinned and have fallen short of God's glory.For the sake of not missing heaven because of bitterness and unforgiveness its better to forgive.Shalom.

Avery rear apology..may God intervene...please make afollow up after this..

This lady is bold enough and genuine. You are already forgiven and the man too is to blame because he had all the time to make her a second wife officially .

What a woman who humbles herself this much. Thank you Monica for asking questions and in a tone that is very compassionate... God bless you always make me come back for wonderful content.

Waa i don't know even what to..the humbleness of this lady is in another level..even she didn't let it go far, only 7yrs and here she is asking for forgiveness..what a precious lady..u open my eyes in another way and thank you Victoria

Monica your parting shot words are so beautiful and encouraging. Thanks for such educative interview

One of the best show emotional and am looking forward to first wife respond

another woman did the same to me and even went to a point ya kuniambia...."usifikirie huku utarudi tafuta mbaba akuoe"those words burnt my heart so much ..i cried to God na for sure he answered me Ngai gutiri thoome atoooe ..This woman deserves forgiveness...lakini mimi huyu wangu i will never forgive her ever ..and she will continue to suffer forever

Its good to apologize and being forgiven but it's so unfortunate to the goat wives coz men always abandon the first wife and the kid's only on his Prime age, so, after a very long time, after getting a sidechic, exhaust everything with her and her kid's as he grows old, when, he now start falling sick bcoz of his old age, now he thinks this is the best time to go back to his matrimonial home for the first wife to take care of him and his disease when he cannot now take care of anything, coz now the sidechic can't handle him any longer, so side chic's are for him when he is health but when he is unwell and broke, he is for first wife. Men! This is so disgusting.

I just love the ending, kagoni umemalizia vizuri saana,kudos

Talk to Pastor Kepha ..kuna Soul ties here..are your husband's parents alive?maybe they said something after you named your children after them! The pain and prayers of the first wife has reached God...please 1st wife forgive her. God forgives us who are you not to do the same!!

Wow that heart is genuine and the request for forgiveness is deeply true.. my classmate Vicky God has heard your request. you're forgiven🙏

As a child underwent through much because of similar issues. But i thank God for He has remembered us in great way. His glory is upon us. Mam underwent through much pain and till today they still wonna humiliate her. But our love and support to her can't give them the chances.

Victoria I'd like to advise you that, unless you go to your co-wife and tell her to forgive you through what you took her through, you're nit going to heal and find peace. A good lesson you've learn. So do as I told you my dear gal.

Muthuri wene ndoigire ndikamweda handu ndi ona angikorwo ari bilionea reke thina undie bwana yangu alinifanya tu hivi victoria amefanyia mama mweza lakini najua kilio Changu siku moja tu nitalipishiwa

Since you've asked for forgiveness, God will forgive you

Na kama inawezekana yule madam akona mzee wangu anaweza mwachilia kama vile huyu amefanya!! madam God bless you very much and your childrens will never lack anything 🙏🙏🙏

Wow this is one lady in a million

Victoria has no mistake, however I recommend her for coming to her sences. The man is totally to blame.

I just love this woman..atleast shès open her burweins and eyes na akajua alikosea kuharibu boma ya mwanamke mwingine...forgiven she is since ame accept her mistake and trust me u God will bless her & her kids...this gives me hope that the woman whom also ruined my marriage of 13yrs will soon apologise also though siwezi rudiana na huyo mtu but if she comes for apology am gonna forgive her

For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God..... Every Saint is a sinner who fell down and got up.... What Victoria did may be wrong but finding the courage to stand up and own her mistakes matters.... Our God is Mighty to save.... May you find peace and forgiveness.

When a woman steals another woman's husband and returns him to her when he falls sick and the money taps dry up, you'd have to be pretty stupid to believe her story about charity on TV.

I know the first wife(real wife) a beautiful woman of God, a loving mother and grandmother. She's my friend in Church. So prayerful and dedicated. I never knew what she's been through until recently. Oh my GOD. I CAN ATTEST TO HER GOD. INDEED GOD FIGHTS FOR HIS OWN. there's so much I can write here but lemmy just pause for now.

Waaaaaaah this story made me flow in tears because it's reminds me of my elder sister marriage which was so good until other woman came across , my siz went through hell the woman abused my sister so much but when God is on your side always you remain a Víctor today my siz doing well n her kids too ....but it took her a lot.

Aki wanaume!!!! Ati alifanya introduction ___ huyu ni mke wangu na my daughter, and this is Victoria 🤔 who is Victoria to him? Much as we blame her, the man was also wrong

Any chance to hear from the other lady?

Why do people look at the 2nd woman, why would a man decide to leave and start all over again. These goat wives take their marriages for granted and act the victim but in the first place they played a huge role of breaking their own marriage. Women please learn to respect and love your husbands to avoid this issues. For men if you decide to take another wife make it open and formal. Hizi machozi zitaisha

This is a lesson to all women and men doing the same "What goes around comes around"

I hope you stop Bountiful Safaris from advertising on your channel. After what is reoortedl about her affair with Simon Kabu just like this woman on your show.

A lesson to men too, those contemplating to get a side lady. The stress the two women go through, the stress kids from both sides go through.

Deliverance and confession are 2 different things

If we say we have no sin we deserve our self and the truth is not in us bt if we confess our sins in repentance God is there to forgive us. That's a good begging to our sis Victoria. I went through that as the 1st wife... someone came and took what belonged to me...I had bitterness,I would curse them day and nite.I hated them.Things became complected they gave birth to an abnormal child, sorry to say... They looked for me in tears..God gave me a good heart to forgive them and let it go...i had to heal too.. dispite being hurt.. No one is indispensable in the eyes of the lord.

This lady is genuine. May God forgive her!

Ndacokera njira nguthiaga gutuika second wife

Nimesome kitu kubwa sana.....ngai akugirie maithori Victoria

People suffers inner peace for breaking other peoples marriage and for this reason and through the bottom line of this story karma is real !! Marriage was ordained by God and whatsoever the case bibilically it is only death should do apart two loverbirds .. the world is a circle for a reason ...now see things are rollercoasting

Very true victoria ngari ya thirikari ndiri hindi igatuika yaku.