Deep Conversation Starters That Get Her to Open Up Part 1 

This is literally small talk that she’s suggesting. If she’s into you it won’t matter if you use small talk .

I know guys that have done these and they're all in the friend zone.

Sounds like a job interview

"...Sell me this pen..."

Me : if you could travel …. Her : sorry , I have a boyfriend. 💀💀

if she's into you, she'll talk about anything with you

dude this sounds like a corporate retreat ice breaker 🤣

Four of them are actually pretty cliche. The only one I would use is: "If you could only accomplish one thing in life, what would it be?

I would never answer such stupid questions. Actually i have refused to enter in such a discussion.

Question 1: How much did you pay for your lip enhancement surgery. Question 2: do you regret it?

The only conversation starter anyone needs: "My seed, your eggs. If yes, let's stop wasting time. If no, let's stop wasting time. " Done.

man I would run the other way if somebody start asking me those questions

Nice tips to enhance conversation. However these questions should be done in a context....not in an interview mode.

I always start with, “How many kids do you want?”. Works everytime.

If you are a man taking dating advice from a woman is the same as placing the fox as head of security over the chicken coop, good luck with that...

You don’t need all this crap! Just approach and talk and it’s done. Can’t get it why these content creators keep trying to complicate the situation, and selling the audience the pickup lines courses, etc. just be natural and talk to one who you like, it’s that simple.

The process is so simple, she likes, she gives you a sign, approach and close her. You like her, approach her and ask her, she accepts move forward, she rejects, proceed to the next you find attractive.

I use a version of #4 with good results. "tell me the most exciting/scary/weird/surreal, thing that you witnessed or were a part of". I have a few whoppers in my back pocket to get it rolling. This generates enthusiasm and adrenaline, the conversation almost always takes on a life of it's own.

Of course nobody likes small talk but that is required in order to get basic information from the person. Who the hell is going to walk up to a person they’ve never met and say “what’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?” Like WTF?? I wish I could time travel back to 2012 when it wasn’t a turn off to ask a girl her fucking name.

I find these questions quite formal like a job interview.

These are literally textbook interview questions what are you talking about

She lost me with the lip botox

Everyone knows that the elite conversation starter is "How often do you think about the Roman Empire?"

Don’t ever take advice from a woman on dating

If I need an extra thought to make anyone open up to me, that tells me I don't need to do it at all.

"Hi Lisa, Im glad you could make it here" "Hi, yea its nice to meet you to! It was close though because of traffic" *Hugs* "So, do you believe it is possible that the discrete physical matter that make up our brains could ever create a unified a consciousness as we experience it; that "inner light" as they say?" Or do you believe this discussion of fundamental mind is one that belongs itself to the realm of the immaterial; the soul?" And the date continues on from there. Good luck!

Don’t forget the greatest question of all time…if you could be an animal, which animal would you choose? And why? For an added bonus, list some examples like an ant because of their teamwork and cooperation…ya know kind of like an INTERVIEW

Me asking her this same thing again and again😭

Bro made this list with chatgpt forsure💀

my answer as an introvert to these questions is its non of your business

If she's into scooby doo and ninja turtles she's marriage material.

😂😂 the whole thing sounded like an interview to me

For all guys watching, take advuce from a man not a woman. You ask the fisherman how to get fish, never the fish itself.

She pulled this off of a reader's digest 🤣

I tried this at Starbucks. You know what the girl said? “I just want my coffee.”

Ok but how do I get her to shut up?

These school questions 🤣🤣

these first day of school ahh questions💀💀

a fun one is, "let's you and i form our own country. you're the queen. i'm the king. we need to make a bunch of laws, pick out a flag, a national mascot, write a national anthem, etc. what's the first law you would want to be passed?"

"You are going to be stranded on an island, and you can only bring 3- " "men. 3 men. i bring 3 well hung men." "and what time shall i schedule the flight?"

Thank you, I’m really nervous tho

Where is part 2? Waiting for top 2 questions.

You can't be just meeting someone for the first time and start asking "deep questions" you have to start with small talks, be free, have no expectations, make her laugh, develop rapport...then, later you can start asking deep questions!

Someone asked me those questions the other day, though I didn’t tell her, but there’s nothing deep about those questions.

Doesn’t matter. You need the physical attributes that she likes to get a response back. It’s the way the world works now

open my wallet...works everytime

I see some negative comments. Offcourse you won't just ask these out of the blue to a stranger you just met. It depends on the context and your relationship with the person, and should be in the middle of a conversation.

Nope, thumbs down.

if someone asked me such a doctored question I would close up so quickly because I know it didnt come naturally to them

These are deep conversation starters? Omg then I have been only having deep conversations! And i thought I was lacking something, so I came looking here on YT 😅

My crush would just reply with "idk, wbu"

Great information.

Also avoid: convos that need facts, convos that require an opinion, or need a judgement call. Debating a woman on any subject is the biggest anti aphrodisiac to them. Stick to hypothetical scenarios like in the Choose Your Own Adventure Books. Its to discern her likes and dislikes u can use later without being all "so whats your favorite color?"

Me littely a lol person 😂

Don't ask her questions that sound like it's a job interview

Sounds like she will be standing on a beauty pageant contest if I approach like that.

If you can travel anywhere in time what period will you choose and why?

Don't ask a woman what her most adventerous thing she's ever done. You won't like the answer.

Forget it. Leave her behind.

She'll probably just say "Idk"

If she's into you or she's have vibes then small talks won't even come up that's the simple answer cause no matter what if she's not interested you'll only sweat it.

bro my friend she will say “idk” for all of them

Asked a baddie one of these questions she replied " idk "

The second last question the best

She would probably say I need to go to the toilet by the second 😏

These questions sound just like i’m on a interview.

If you travel anywhere in time to anywhere in the world what time period would you pick and where would you go ?

As deep as a puddle

NOOOOO... 🤣 Do not ask these questions

I don’t want to get block by her😭

By the end of the conversation she's gonna think "am I getting interviewed for a Mr beast video" or something along the lines of "oh dam that guy loves to live in his own delusional world"

Enjoy the one word answers because there's 50 other dudes in her inbox

One time I went to a sandwich shop and sat down to eat. I noticed next to me was a very attractive girl and somehow we started talking to each other like we had known each other all our lives. We really enjoyed our conversation, laughing and joking, and it was amazing until we eventually learned that we were both happily married. The conversation died down after that but we still traded phone numbers. I tossed it for obvious reasons and she probably did too. Very enjoyable but strange experience. It’s especially strange because I almost never start conversations with pretty women.

That painting on the wall is very interesting

Why to beat around the bush? I like her direct approach

I swear i would get bored even anyone asked me these stupid questions

Flow. Make SURE she’s engaging because if not walk away. No need to force anything.

The best way to get a woman to open up is to be an actual man. Although, being an actual man is really hard and anything these days that is really hard is really rare.

Don't ask to the fish, ask to the fisherman

Attention and validation is the currency to women

Instead of asking questions like an interview, ask her these questions like a podcast

To be honest with you I feel like these questions are good questions for an icebreaker game in a group environment. But the one question about accomplishments seems like a good question for a woman to open up to you.

These are hilarious. Who in the world now asks questions like these

They were all interview questions

open what up?🤣

Just ask about the weather 😌

These sound like interview questions lol

So deep!

No matter what, you’ll lose your house. No matter how hard you try, you can never please a woman No matter what you say or do, she’s got another few she is riding. Getting dating advice from a woman is like getting fishing advice from a fish. Stop trying to please a woman, it’s time women please men. They need to prove their worth to us.

It’s so lame 😒

I’ll get her to open up alright

Instructions unclear now I'm in prison for asking a 9yt about her personal life

Deep conversation starter: how is your relationship with your father?

I knew when she said that first question that it's dun out .

If the girl is right, every question is an open ended one

These are such silly questions. Ask her about her day, problems, offer solutions and ask if she’s ok. Done.

These sound like interview questions to me...

Also don't forget to ask her what her favourite anime is!

Excellent

Thanks