How true that’s when someone needs a good strong tight hug as it says a thousand things with out saying a word. We all need a hug now and then. I know exactly in ever sense of the word in being not wanted and yes such pain cuts deep with in. I am 67 yrs old and never cried so hard non stop in my life begging for this hell and pain to stop. I still till this day get emotional at times and cry some. Oh how it hurts so deep.
@@Baron-gg6xq um… no. We are not blaming men for “our demons”. If anything, we blame ourselves. And it doesn’t go well. But men are only blamed for what they do.
What exactly i told to someone I barely knew back in 2017. I don't know he was man grabbed my heart like no one so quick only to smash it, to turn in to ice cold to it, to throw it out on cold and dark and close the doors behind his back to it. So horrible and so bad experience I had even been through! I cried like never before. I walked away just because he confirmed to me he wants me to leave him alone. Can't forget his judgmental and hateful words. I forgave him and moved on after years of pain and suffer. Nothing scares me like that man and even man like him. I saw him back in 2017 from distance. I stated in my car so cautiously and waited till he leave. I knew he had been spying on me. Since then I even stopped been around that area. He had no idea I will run away if I even see him. So scary! He showed me real devil. Devil comes in bright angle till he gain your trust and get your heart. Then he'll show his true color. I thank that man because he changed me for greater. Now I'm not just good woman but also wise woman know what exactly I want in man and look carefully to red flags
Most of them watching this would have been hurt so much that u could relate your self to this. For all those people hope you all get through this very soon and hope y'all have a great and happy future ahead.✌🏼❤
When people say being forced to unlove someone is like having your very being torn to shreds is so excruciatingly real and the worst thing a guy can feel.
@@JuliusAu-ff4ipTrue that! Sometimes, we grow apart for odd reasons like our partner is working and we're still struggling to make it in life! He/She isn't able to understand our side much 'coz of the different phases we are currently in. Other people in their lives and that surreptitious closeness with them make you doubt your existence in their life even more! Setbacks have made me such that I've distanced myself from a lot of people in order to heal myself! And that has often become a point of altercation b/w us!
You left, for the love of him and for his happiness, but he will remain in your heart forever because that what true love is all about. The heart will never depart nor detached ❤
I’m literally crying at 4am cause this reminds me of one of my childhood friends from kindergarten turning into my toxic friend and now she’s my bully😕
All relationships will cause you pain. You just have to figure out which ones are worth fighting for. My husband had brought me pain. Not on purpose but this year we been together for 16 yrs. We both choose eachother.
Well, I said the same exact thing to my ex just a month ago. Been with her for 5 years and she just suddenly changed, has another guy to sleep with, doesnt care anymore and it all happened out of nowhere, suddenly. I don't understand the reason and she can't explain it either. Loved her and cared about her, probably it's the last time I'm gonna be that way about/with anyone. She only proved that nobody is worth to be trusted or cared about 100%, you only have yourself for yourself.
It’s the social media effect, they look at guys 24/7 and blame man for looking at girls 24/7, believe me woman are the easiest people to be manipulated and social media is doing all the manipulation.
I'm sorry you went through that, please heal and mend your heart. Let love find you. Trust in God and know God will always have your best interest at heart.
It feels that way. I have two children and have been in the relationship for 20 years. I hope I will find the love I deserve someday, and I wish the same for you. 💑❤️
The worst part is no matter how distant or cold she is towards you. You still love her and will try your goddamn hardest to do anything for her even when you don’t know what you’ve done wrong
Falling in Love is a Great Feeling. But when you realize that the Other is not catching you.... that Love will soon turn into a Hole named Sadness. And the Deeper you fall the More heavier it is to climb up. Cause it is Exhausting. It hurts. It makes you think that why not just see how far you can fall.... Until you hit rock bottom. And that is the cildest place there is. No fire bright enough to warm you No Duty Necessary enough to Move you. No one important enough to Care about. I hope you all will never experience this. I hope you lot will always get caught by your loved one or yourself so that you can try again without ever getting close to that PIT❤❤
They're always do that when you become use to them and you love them more than required they will just leave you outta nowhere shattering you into pieces mutual and true relationships are totally dead nowadays but as a lover all we can do is let them be wherever they are happy and make peace with yourself thinking the one you love the one you care about is happy even if they ain't with us 😊🖤
I’m going through post partum now and my husband is literally such a strong man and I couldn’t be more grateful for his patience and his love that grows everyday for me … even when I may not be showing the same love back I love him so much ❤
Damn. I felt that. I care more about her feelings than saying what I want to tell her to get her back. Why? Because I care about her feelings more than mine. Broken. In pieces.
Life’s like a grid. Start at the bottom, make your way up, sometimes there are interferences which cause you to go back down, but mistakes and accidents get you to the bottom unfairly. 💔
"Cause I care about your feelings more than mine" those are true lines.... I am tired of my sick relationship I loved him alot but now I can't do it, I am tired now after seeing this video I can't able to control myself.... I will end my relationship but I will still love him..🥺💔
This is so fucking relatable. Most relatable thing I could ever find of myself. This is literally myself their feelings and happiness, and smiles matter more to me than mine…🦋
Their is nothing more hurtful than feeling alone while your in a relationship. That is the most hurtful feeling. But for a man to say this to a woman that he loves and cares about. This is true honesty at its best.
i have been heartbroken many times, if some girl tries to break my heart, i feel nothing because i don't have any tears left cry and love to give to relationships anymore
Something change in you Toward me Your distant Cold And I don't know what I've done I'll leave you alone from know on if you want Is that what you want You know why I'll leave you alone Cause I care about your feelings more then mine
Honestly, I always felt bad for Tate ;( Yes, he was a sociopath but no one ever gave him a hug...How can you see that beautiful face crying and just do nothing?!
When u care and love somebody so much its hard to get rid of cuz when that person doesn't love u back, there's nth u can do. When people say you can't love other people unless u love urself first, tbh it's true, but not fully true either. There are loads of people out there that find it a lot easier to love other people more then themselves. Loving somebody who doesn't love u back is like a brick to the chest.❤
I recently did this and it hurts to the core of my being. I am willing to be the villain in his story. I know in my heart that I gave him the best of my heart and yet he told me I never cared. That was like a dagger 🗡️ through my heart ❤️. He chose to play games and I didn’t want to play games anymore I wanted him. Not anything materialistic, just his company but he was too blind by his own self to see it. His past trauma was never healed. Not my job to fix . So I had to walk away and I may have not done that gracefully but enough is enough at some point for my own self mental health. I only pray for him that he is safe and finds peace.
this situation rlly terrifies me now. I can't believe I went through this 4x with the same person that I only loved. It happened all the time bc i rlly want to try, help and understand him and give him time, but every time I do, he slips away and would tell me that he doesn't know what's wrong with him, he just doesn't feel thing all of a sudden and will just be cold and distant. But he's okay with his friends, i can see that he's genuinely happy w them and would take refuge from being so down from me. It's making me wonder all over again what went wrong and what did i do to him to be just cold all of a sudden. and I can't believe that seeing a single line "You're distant, cold. I don't know what I've done" would bring me back to that vulnerable state of mine, every freaking time.
Same here. Lost my best friend & partner of 15 years. Some say I was young but after several relationships, I found love. I wasn’t looking & it found me. At 20.. I settled down & built a family home with someone. 35 now & it all came crashing down on me out of the blue. The lies.. disrespect.. attitude.. distance.. cold.. I cared & tried so hard to talk/therapy but we both had issues/family crisis & that’s when it became only myself trying for something that didn’t exist anymore. Pain is unbearable & trying to figure out how to make myself move on & where. I moved hours away from family to make this work & built a life but now it’s all gone except my job. I refuse to allow that to disappear & will move on my terms. 💔 😭
I’m in a friend trio, we fought a few days ago and made up but it stills seems like they aren’t happy with me. They’ve both been a lot more short tempered with me, and it’s like their not avoiding me but their choosing not to start conversation with me either. And they haven’t been replying to my messages either. And I’m a people pleaser so I’ll just go with the flow to not disrupt the peace. But my fatal flaw is loyalty so it hurts, a lot, and I hate myself cause I’d still be loyal to them even after if we potentially end our friendship…
I pray you walk away. It’s so hard and I’m speaking from experience, but it does more harm to you to hold on and it’s not going to make them care any more than they do now. I’ve been working on this for years and I’m finally free. Please understand it’s going to get darker and darker for you when you walk away because you have to heal the parts that are broken and it hurts because you don’t understand why they feel the way they feel and why they won’t love or accept you the way you do them, but you will get through it and there is a purpose for that relationship. I learned that the love that I gave to others was not the love love I gave to myself. I didn’t love myself at all I hated me because of what I went through and because they didn’t love me wouldn’t love me and I always knew I just felt that I needed love from somebody and that destroyed me because it wasn’t love it was hate and the more I held on the worst it became and then when I walked away I held on to the memories and then I would think about the pain and even though I knew it hurt I still wanted their love. It’s crazy how we know someone or something is not good for us but we hold on to it anyway and allow it to drag us down but it’s rooted in your trauma. Something happened that made you feel you weren’t good enough to receive love but you know what love is because you give it. I hope this helps and I’m not trying to lecture you and I know you don’t know me, but I love you. I love your heart because I have the same one. We are rare and our love is rare. Walk away grow through the process and keep your eyes on GOD. He’ll guide you through it and if you feel like you can’t hear him STILL keep your eyes on him. MAY GOD BLESS YOU
definitely. exact words exact emotions exact feelings.. i feel that the same way.. after i tell her about my past, my plan, my interest, she get cold towards me i feel that kind of emotions and thats sucks!
I started crying so hard when I got 2 the end bcz I realised that I’m an idiot for trusting him, I’m an idiot for always being there for him when he needed me, I’m an idiot for believing that everything would be fine, I’m an idiot for caring abt him and overall I’m such a big fool for thinking that he rlly loved me..😭😢 I jst hope nobody ever gets hurt or feels the same way I did
@@kiana.76o he cheated cuz you hurt his feeling right? And whatever, my advice is, plz don't play with someone's feelings, especially who loves you so much
@@shubhendulaha247 First of all ion need ur advice foo, n 2nd dont assume i played w his feels💀, Yu dont know the real reason why i was being distance and yu dont need to know why bc it AINT ur mf business, plus i dated that foo a yr or 2 ago so he doesnt matter to me anymore, im in a perfect relationship rn
@@nurshazwani8984 I don’t know who you are, where you’re from, your background, or anything. I can’t physically hug you, and for that I’m sorry. I hope you feel better, and whatever you are going through, I promise there are better days ahead. You are loved, valued, seen, heard, and never alone. Don’t forget who you are, find your purpose. ❤❤❤🫂 Sending my love, care, thoughts, and prayers, AR
When this happens it is because the girl has emptied herself out trying to care and love to the point she even had to face the deepest parts of herself and she is too tired to face it and can't find the words to express it due to prior rejections of her emotions, mainly rejections from herself... it takes time and love but if a man stays for her and tries to fill her with love and care, she'll come back to you 10x stronger for having faced it and recovered. It's about understanding and acceptance, I'm proud of those who face this but still are here today. Thank you for being a survivor. You'll soon thrive once your wings are healed
I said almost the same exact words, didn’t make me feel better at all when she just started to not love me anymore suddenly. And it definitely hurt when she randomly just broke up with me, and it hurt me the most when she told me she was never nice and how I realized how bad of a person she actually was
I have my girlfriend on discord and she always talked to me everyday nonstop until one day she said, “tmw I’ll be on, promise, bye” she never came back. I kept waiting for her and it’s been a couple months. Ik she cheating and I still love her. Idk what to do 😭💔
Something is changed in you torwards me You are distant cold and i dont know what i have done but I will leave you alone from now on if that's what you want. Is that what you want? You know why I will leave you alone? Cause I care about your feelings more than mine.
@@Dani_step no sorry,I was agreeing with the previous answer,American Horror Story 👍 It is a really good series although a little different 😊sorry for the confusion.
