I once heard a quote that said "People are meant to be loved and things are meant to be used. The reason why the world is in chaos, is because things are being loved and people are being used". 😐
FUCT ye thats kinda tru I've been very lucky bc there have been few but some ppl who reached out to me bc im always so sad but to be fair i don't usually speak about it
Miss Sarah I'm saying that if you are depressed you don't go around telling anyone your problems (like in this video) , it's really hard to make us talk
Alfrida Snow again, dont generalize. If someone asks me how I'm doing, and my depression is bad, I'm 100% going to tell them. Just because it's the case for you doesn't mean it's the case for everyone.
Your problems may not be as bad as other people's problems, but they are just as real and are legitimate things you struggle with. Stay strong and remember your health and happiness should be your top priority
If I saw someone alone like that I would really want to talk to them but I wouldn't be able to, social anxiety honestly rules my life and I have severe depression because of it.
If you want to overcome/reduce the hold your social anxiety has on you, these people would likely be the best people to "practice on". They won't judge you - they're way too busy judging themselves and/or feeling down/lonely etc. And it will make "the exercise" so much more meaningful, not just to you.
sameee.... when i tried to talk to my family they always says that it's just on your head and that piss me off everytime that's why i developed anxiety and more🤧🥲
Depression is like a rollercoaster. One day you feel normal, then you go sad, and then you go upset, and frustrated. Sometimes you feel a little bit happy, you know you're happy, but you don't estimate that feeling. And then you go sad again, normal again, tired again, happy, energetic, sad, sleepy, energetic, sad, upset, over and over and over.
no bipolar is one extreme or another, one day you are contemplating suicide the next you buy 20 snake bite kits because you convinced yourself that theres a snake invasion coming
This is how I've been feeling, but I don't know if I have it. I don't know if I have just plain low self esteem, and that is what causes my supposed anxiety or depression. Or if my low self esteem has turned into more than expected. I've never been diagnosed though. I can't tell any more. It's too much of a headache to over think it.
just fyi, depressed ppl dont really just sit down on the floor and cry in the middle of a public setting... most people with it dont show any sign of depression.
I never said it to anyone when I was younger but I stopped with things around me, stopped focusing on school and stopped with training and eating healthy and didn't go out but when it was school. I faked sick so often and always had small panic attacks and everything fell down and i just wanted it all to end, I don't know how to describe it. Easier said, I would like to kill myself back then but now isn't it like super bad. I hated high school so much..
+Have A Good Day im so sorry 💗 im in high school right now and it feels like you just described my last few months. Thankfully my teacher and parents were very understanding and that helped me out of it fast. Im so glad you're feeling atleast a little bit better now 💕 good luck friend
+linasuperdina thanks alot, good luck with high school💕 And glad you got help, it is so hard to go through yourself. No one recognized it on me and they said I always was happy at school but then I stopped meating up and so on and there was already rumors about me and everything there so everything became a hell.. Hope this doesn't happen to you, you are nice and a good person💓 please never let them pull you down, I used hide in places on school to eat because I had no one to be with. Stay strong and be yourself, never sink down to my level. I didn't know what was going on with me back then, and never commit suicide. Remember that someone love you and that someone will listen without calling you attention seeker ( Why I was afraid of telling it ) and that you are worth something💕 you are doing something great one day
Who needs guys when you have Cats Yeah.. it's so true.. like only the people who were depressed only cary a little, but they say that they have felt the same and that just give them the negative affects DONT EVER SAY SOMETHING LIKE THAT!
Gerald "girls can't be depressed they're just looking for attention hurr durr" fuck off you fucking incel. the fact that you think you can dictate who does/doesn't have depression based on whether you like their personality or not says a lot about your understanding of mental health.
Gerald Sure, your level of maturity really shows by cussing on every sentence and calling someone an autist. You're annoyed by the fact that some people fake depression to get attention but you're not annoyed by the fact that you try to insult people with a diagnosis. You're literally trying to make autism equal stupid. Someone trying to turn depression into a synonym for stupid would probably just hit you too close to home though... I used to think like you. I was depressed (andI still have depression). "Boohoo, everyone else around me is just faking depression, they're all attention whores, boohoo I'm the one with a real problem". Yes, it's true that some people do fake depression to get attention. But why is your initial thought "95% of them aren't actually depressed so I'm just gonna be very skeptic about this"? If you see a girl crying on the street or coming up to you telling you that she's been pretty depressed lately and wants to talk, is this your initial thought? How do you know she's not actually depressed? I don't know if anyone has ever told you this, but you seem to try to "shift" your negative feelings to other people by suddenly lashing out to people on the comments... This comment was in no way provocative or wrong yet you felt the need to tell all about how people fake depression and 95% of them aren't actually depressed and people fetishize depression nowadays and how people have no clue what depression is. Hell, the hypothetical girl that is crying on the street because of depression and gets hit on by guys could be me. And the saddest part is that it could happen, easily. And no, I wouldn't be faking it.
Oh my gosh when the man stopped to talk to him and gave him advice I started bawling. I remember struggling with my depression for so long before I got to where I am today. It was such a terrifying place to be in and I can't imagine feeling how I did back then, everything felt so meaningless and I felt so defeated. If you're going through depression my best advice I can give to you is to reach out and ask for help, I promise someone cares❤️ and I care too, I feel for all you guys and anyone suffering through it right now I love you and please don't give up!
You are very welcome sweat heart! Please never forget that life maybe hard but you are strong enough to get through it! You are beautiful and amazing! Never ever forget that
God idk what my problem is. I have such a hard time talking to people and opening up. I always close myself off. Idk why. It just makes things worst. But when I do open up I never really feel like anyone is listening.
No offense, but the acting was terrible. I've never heard of a single person with depression who opens up just like that and vents all their problems out. They're usually to more quiet and isolated people.
well, I actually met someone that just told me all their problems without me even asking, I agree that most depressed people don't but certain people do, for different reasons (sorry for my english >.
Jackycatlover108 that's not true. I know a lot of people with depression including myself who are so alone they'll literally talk to anybody that will listen.
That depends on the person. Suffered depression for over 17 years, I have no issues talking about it. People care in the moment but it's fleeting, forgotten easily. Asking for help is useless, so it's easier to just "do things" to distract ones mind from all the crap than keep trying to make it better. Nothing helps, anyway. Tried a lot of things. I try make others happy, and protect others - especially over the net cause apparently here it's "OK to be an ass, lol", so I protect those these people act like asses towards... it's what keeps me going. That and that I do not want to make my family and friends sad, even if I live in hell daily. Anyway, drifted off the point.... Different people = Different behaviour. Being depressed does not mean you hide it, and being open about it doesn't mean the person is fine or on the way of getting better. I think about killing myself daily, but I don't - cause I rather live through hell than pass it on to someone who might care...
Violence is never the answer. Your bully and his actions tell more about his state of mind. This bully is a very disturbed and hurt individual. Stand up for yourself, but NEVER resort to violence. There's so many violence in this world already. I hope this bully stops as NO ONE deserves to be bullied.
John sarota you have in return become the bully and the cycle has begun. I hope that this bully has left you alone and I hope you don’t take the role of becoming a bully to someone else.
Whats sad is that depressed people hide it in public no one sees their pain no one cares or knows. I know this because i've been there and prob still am. This is why now on I pay close attention to people's expressions because I don't want them to feel as alone as I did.
Yup when I tell people about how I feel they tell me to "get over it" or "stop being like this" or "you're being pathetic" or they don't give a crap... I really have no friends cause they all ditch me for a happier person, which I DONT blame them for. My only friend is music.
kimpug I-/ Find a hobby or something that you really love to do, and then find someone who loves doing the same thing as much as you. They will more than likely stay.
kimpug I-/ Ye it feels weird I get depressed when i think about my family bc they did bad stuff to my mom and dad and me and my brother and many nights i try to go to sleep but i can't bc i cant stop thinking about the past but ik i have friends and i do well in school and my parents care for me so far this year and last year i got called in to the office where i met the student counciler and idk if she was trying to make me feel better or if she was telling me the truth but she said my teachers were rly impressed by my knowledge and that she heard that my parents divorced and wanted to help me. we spent about 45 minutes talking to each other and it made me feel rly good. slowly i try to be more happy my brother used to have suicidal thoughts and i was scared to death when he said stuff like "if u don't let me do this ill kms" and later i started becoming suicidal myself and once even put a knife to my wrist but i thought about how sad all my friends and family would be bc i knew if i killed myself my brother would prob kill himself then my dad would kill himself and there would be a horrific chain of death/sadness. but slowly i start to feel better today my friend took me to a festival and we had a lot of fun and i started thinking how good it was to be on this planet. mural of the story is that there's always SOMEONE who cares about u whether it be a family member classmate school staff friend or even pets these r all ppl(and animals) who want to help u ik my comment was long but i hope that whomever reads it feels better about life especially if they r going thru depression like me rn *sry for bad grammar and spelling*
i'm sorry that everyone's like that when you tell them. my parents didn't believe me when i told them and it sucks but i have friends who i can talk to who understand me. i'm here if you want to talk about anything. it doesn't have to be something serious, i'd hapily have a conversation about phil lester's houseplants, tbh stay alive fren |-/
smol gay ty and i hope u feel better too and u have a happy if i told my dad about feeling depressed a lot he would prob understand bc he went thru hard times when he was younger and my mom would prob want to help me but just wouldn't know how to and its hard to explain exactly y this happens bc for it to make sense takes a long story
I remember I was seriously depressed one day and on my way to a meeting on the bus I just wasn't having it and was ready to just disappear it was like my depression was strangling me, but a guy came on the bus, he was bringing a homeless man with him bringing him to a hotel, the man noticed me and immediately asked what I was upset about, I didn't say much cause at first I was uneasy about it but then he went on about how he had daughters of his own, and how he hates to see people so young go through so much, he reminded me I have time to improve and get better, it was like he saw right through me. that was a year ago and my depression is way less than it was back then and I'm glad I didn't give up that day..if any of you notice anything going on with someone even if they're not depressed and just had a bad day say something, don't be nervous because it can really make a difference for them you never know until you try Edit: Jesus Christ it’s been 2 years since I’ve posted this I actually completely forgot about it. Some might think this wasn’t depression I was experiencing and it was just a bad day, but I can see now I actually didn’t tell the whole truth, the truth is that day I had already attempted to choke myself to death and after an hour of just slowly suffocating I gave up. My depression didn’t go away after this day but it pushed me to go get help. I think I lied a bit back then to give people more hope but I’m here now to be bluntly honest. Your words may never fix anyone’s problems, the most they can do is guide them towards the right path and honestly I still think about this man to this day.
even high functioning depression isn't just "sad a day" you still have good & bad days but even your good days aren't happy. That's what people don't seem to understand. Depression doesn't happen randomly and go. What you're explaining is just pure sadness. If someone is sad about something they can cry about it all day but within a week they'll be fine. lol imagine feeling that way for years and years without any solution.
+Kyle Duffy You can do it man just get through it im a horrible person but I couldn't help but compliment you because you cant be sad all the time or it will make it worse
Lost don't say that.You can always find at least one person.And if not a person,an animal.We can all find someone,it just takes time.I was just lucky that my boyfriend actually liked me back. "Stay happy not crappy,life's bitch don't quit." - Johnnie Guilbert
I cant imagine how hard it most be I'm so gratefull I dont have depression and I hope everyone with depression gets over it and has a great life like they derserve
Last summer, I had really bad depression. It was the lowest point ever in my life to the point where I cried every day. It was so so horrible. Sometimes I go back to my darkness but I have the light to bring me out(sometimes) and and school. I have no friends and it's hard. But if your reading this have a good day and if you need to talk, comment and I'll help you💕
Bri Bruno hey there, I know how painful life is and sometimes crying helps but I hope that no matter what you find a place where you feel safe to be you because there is only one of you and you are amazing
khadija chan thank you so much.. you honestly made my day!!❤️❤️ have a good life, I'm positive we won't meet again. But thank you fellow internet friend!!💞
I'm very much depressed right now.. But when I tell someone they don't really understand me.. Some just laugh at me, some blame me, some don't really care.. Some only say " Don't be depressed.." I don't want to be depressed.. I'm trying to come back into normal life.. But I can't.. Every night I just cry and sleep late.. Then I can't wakeup early in the morning.. So I miss classes.. People don't care why I'm doing this.. They don't care if I'm ok or not.. They only think I'm doing this because I'm lazy and I want to sleep.. I'm not happy with my life.. My life is turning into a mess.. Sometimes I think about suicide.. But I don't have that much courage.. And I promised someone that I would never ever harm myself.. I don't even know why I'm writing this comment.. Sometimes I feel so blank that I want to cut myself..
You're not alone. This message is a year old, but I hope your state of mind has changed. Please know you're more than enough and you've very much loved! You can overcome ANYTHING! Sending you blessings!
Hey,im in a pretty similar situation too.. I have hurted myself and I can tell you I regreted it almost instantly. Now im doing better, but please please please dont give up. I still in this dark place and two days ago started therapy. I also had medication and it helped a lot. So I dont feel as desperate as before, but it is still hard. I wont tell you that it is going to be easy, because I am experiencing myself and some days I feel like dying. But we have to support each other, cause we understand what the other is going through. I dont know you but I love u just because u understand me and I now you are fighting everyday against your own mind. And thats the worst battle I can imagine. I love you, please seek help and do not harm yourself ♡ YOU DESERVE LOVE
Wasika Wahab Rafa I know this probably won't help since it doesn't help me but you aren't alone. I tried to kill myself twice and people still don't really care. I've missed school for like 2 months and I still haven't gone back yet. Everybody says it'll get better eventually and I don't know if it's true but it's a tiny bit easier knowing that other people understand it. So, stay strong as much as you can, it sucks but hopefully it'll change and be okay one day.
Aha no one helps me. I usually just ask for help cuz I'm that shy girl that doesn't do anything and I'm always like "I'll change I'll change" but here I am..
Jackeline Morales I'm just 15 , but I observe, and listen, a lot, I can only say, it takes more time to know someone, if he/she is good enough to be with, he'll, in my school a teacher goes help some students after a brake up, but he cringes after he funds out they'vd only been together two weeks, but naturally, you got to take time more time and observe to find that person you need, now I don't know you'll listen to me ,or curse me out because of my age,😂 frankly I won't mind
I'm so glad that this video is helping people in the comment section :) I just really hope you all know that you are not alone! I have been there! I know people say it all the time but, everything does get better. Share this to show there are people out there that are willing to help others in need either by being approached or by their own will
If someone was crying, or looked sad, I would sit next to them and draw shapes on their backs to comfort them, because that would help me 😉 but it pissed me off that barely anyone would help you 😤
I once had a friend ask me what depression felt like. honestly, I didn't know how to describe it without using the most commonly used words alone, tiring, and dark. I went home and thought about it all night and then it hit me, depression makes you feel sick, hurt, worthless, and you just feel like you're dying on the inside. so the next day I told my friend that depression feels like you're drowning, but you can see everyone around you breathing. it's a serious topic, and a lot of people brush it off or try to ignore it but overall, what you did was really amazing.
I don't know why, but I want to meet the sad person somewhere around, sit with them and just talk with them, so they will feel better. I'm also having problems but when I help I feel like I'm kind of helping myself to understand why I feel so bad. I treat myself but a lot of people don't want me to do. sometimes I feel like I'm doing something wrong and I don't try, what causes that I don't enjoy my life in all the possible ways. I always feel like people are judging me, I'm scared of being lonely and when I am, I hate myself for that, but - I have gone through 7 years of bullying in elementary school and I'm okay. I don't hurt myself. I don't think about suicide and when I do, I imagine people reacting to me dying. I'm scared of new but I want to try. if people are pushing me to do something I can't concentrate. My parents usually don't understand me and I'm afraid of talking to them because I don't want to be judged. now I'm in 8th grade (1st grade of middle school) and I don't want to continue being so afraid but people make me so. please help me
I started feeling depressed at the age of 5. I didn't know there was a word for it so I just said I'm sad. I've been bullied since I was 2 and no one really likes me. I have a few friends. one of them stands up for me all the time. she's small and very skinny and has a really bad stutter but man she is the bravest girl I've ever met. she walks up to the bullies and straight up tells them to shut the fuck up and leave me alone. she inspires me. I'm constantly depressed but I know if I need to talk she'd be there. I remember she would always sit with me and some friends I had at the time at lunch. they kept trying to move her stuff to a different table and I'd move it back next to my seat. I brushed that off as just them wanting someone else to sit with us as a lot of people usually do at my school. one day a girl said she was gonna tell her she can't sit with us. it was some Mean Girls movie bullshit situation. I stood up and said that she's going to sit with us. it was originally my table that I had sat at alone for a while and Chikita (my friend with the stutter) was the first person to sit next to me. I yelled at the girl and said if she wants to be a bitch to my friend then she can be the one to leave but Chikita is staying. because of her bad stutter no one wants to take the time to listen to her. I always face her when she's talking and listen to every word she says. I understand what having a speech impediment is like. I couldn't say my R's or my S's for a long time. with a lisp and my lacking ability to say simple words like are, word, worm, warm, homework, and pretty much anything with an r in it no one could understand me and eventually gave up on listening. so I know how it feels to be ignored for something you just can't help. what I went through has made me quiet and introverted. yet Chikita who's probably heard worse than i have keeps her head up and stands up for what she believes is right. and damn I wish I could be like her.
Chase Ace that's awesome dude. You're a great person. I'm Alyssa, I'm 15! And you sir should be my friend. Making friends is always a fun thing ☺️right? Haha just dm me on RU-vid anytime
Graye teenagers that lived on my street would push me off my tricycle and call me names. I was probably close to being three but I was definitely the age of two.
We all have those days ... but that advice that guy gave to think more about positive things he was really correct about it I liked how intuitive some people could be... but I'd be much better if we don't give so much empathy to some one ... cause its kind of embarrassing for most people...
i have no friends and i've been bullied since the day i was born and everyone thinks that i'm a psychopath just because i'm having anxiety and i'm too afraid to talk to people, in my case having anxiety and depression feels like you have cancer and you want to talk to someone about it but you can't because you are too afraid,this is what i am going through
Kryptik Mind People thought the same thing about me because I was a loner. Those people don't know what it's like to be you and they don't care to understand you better due to their own blackened hearts. There are good people who will try to help you but you have to be willing to let them in. I know it's hard, but doing this on your own will be very difficult. I wasted all my chances at help when I was younger and naive. I thought I didn't need anyone's help and everything would work itself out but it never did because I shunned help whenever it came knocking.
Stop listening to melanie martinez. I had depression when I listened to her music. Tag your it, dollhouse, crybaby. The whole album. But after I became a Christian and stopped listening to worldly music. Everything changed and now i have many good friends and life is so much better. Thanks to Christ for leading me to the right path.
+Man Eating Hamburger oh yes you have point there, but Some one with a logical mind wouldn't keep their troubles bottled up. They would go to someone with a bright spirit to lift up their mood. And yes thats when God comes in. God is everything and he helps you seek the truth. The scriptures says so. Draw near God and he will Draw near you. Just watch God's will, shine your path. Just test it. I was an atheist 5 months. God showed me the way now and it feels awesome. Jesus took our pain and suffering on the Cross and rose from the dead. And I thank him for that. He made life so enjoyable now. Thanks for reading this and have a wonderful day! God bless 😄
Well one day I get a girl on a school trip. We became friends for a while but after 6 moths we stoped talking. 6 moths later we started talking again. and because she was a great friend in those 6 moths i kept telling her how nice she was. After a week she had a crush on me. I did had a crush on her too. So we start getting a relationship. About 2 weeks intro our relationship she told me she had a depression for 4 years, that's she cut herself once and wanted to kill herself a day before we started talking again. but because I said how nicely she was, and that I acualy cared about her, she didn't. she is out of the depression now and she keeps telling me it is because of me. It took her 4 years to acualy plan on suicide. she lived 4 years long in a depression. But she still believed that there was a chance for her to get out of it. and she did. I'm so proud of her. For everyone out there that is in a depression. Don't give up! I don't know what started that depression. maybe people told you that you are useless/ugly/not smart enought. but You're. I bet you're beautiful. I bet tht you're usefull. I bet that you're smart. I bet that you can make it out of that depression. Don't give up. Things always ends good. So if you aren't good now, this won't be the end. Sorry for my english. it is really bad. but hopefuly you guys get the message.
Once I was sitting on the sidewalk and I just put my head down and cried. Some guy who was driving stopped in the middle of the road and told me it was all going to be okay. He gave me courage.
I feel like some videos like this on pranksters channels just make these "so-called" depression videos to just try and uplift their ego... make them seem like a better person.
When you help other people, you feel like a better person. But you doesn't stand there and think "hey, when i help this crying boy I am a better person". You just see this boy crying and without thinking that much, you ask to help. Maybe some people do that to feel better, but i think most of the people do that because they know how hard it is to be alone.
Sorry if I got some people confused or mislead what I was saying, say for example FouseyTUBE. He makes a "social experiment" which is probably staged and then a week later makes a prank video groping girls butts.
About to 2 years ago, I started to lose my hearing (tinnitus) right when I was about to start high school. I've had multiple surgeries... I didn't go to public school for my freshmen year because of my hearing and because my school doesn't have a program for people of hard of hearing. A teacher is with me in every class helping me and typing everything in a wireless keyboard what the teacher says. No one wants to be my friend or anything. I have no friends. People call me stupid :( I relate to this to much. The 2 guy motivated me a little. That's great advice. I hope someday I find a friend who will accept me
Stay strong. No matter what, if you reach out, and even if you don't, you will find a friend. In the future as long as you don't hide yourself away you will meet someone who will stand beside you through it all. Who cares about you and doesn't pay any mind to things you may think are bad about yourself. Hell, you might even marry them if you're lucky. Just remember that you are as strong as you make yourself, and there is a stranger out there who will end up being your greatest friend in your time of need.
yudih cx You are never alone. I don't even know you and I assure you that you are a beautiful person and a great friend. Please if you ever feel alone reply. I can be there.
yudih cx, I'm really sorry you're going through this man. Just keep the faith and know things will get better soon, as for the people that aren't hanging out with you and just being total jerks, be glad! They aren't worth your while and you shouldn't beat yourself up over what they say about you. You're gonna find people that will look past all that stuff and stick around when things get hard. Things are gonna get better!😊💙
I'm going through depression and a whole bunch of anxieties. I want to get at least a bit better before I can devote my time to youtube. I have a lot of ideas that I want to make into videos but I can't go through with it until I am more brave. After being torn down by people and situations, you need a lot of bravery to put yourself out there. If I want to survive the youtube comment section, I better get brave.
Mangotropolis I know what you are talking about... trust me it's gonna be fine. and when it'll end you be much stronger and undefeatable,,,keep going 🚣
The people were trying really hard saying things like”just look for the positive things” and “just don’t be negative” but trust me, when you have depression you usually cant.
This is to everyone going through a rough time: you can do it! life may be fucking horrible at the moment but it gets better, believe me. maybe next weeek, maybe in two months, maybe in five years; but please keep fighting!
For some people...but not for me I don't know how much longer I can take it I have no one to talk about it I don't even wanna talk about it with my mom or dad or family in general....fucking sucks
I got diagnosed with depression at age 8 and im still going through it sadly ive attempted many times and have self harmed, but im working on it my parents are a huge help
As a person who used to suffer from depression, i want to say something to you. I know you are not ok and you think that you've already lost your hope, but all of these will end. Trust me. You may think that the cause of your depression is stupid but I think this is completely wrong. Everybody is different and a problem may not effect a person but it may cause depression or trauma in another person. Also you can think that you're not strong, think about your recent days. How many problems that you've solved lately? It can be even a tiny thing. Believe me, you are more valuable and stronger than you think. All of your life can be a mess right now, but time will fix everything. Don't give up.
My girlfriend left me, my so called "friends" abandon me, my family rejected me. I went to school with cuts in my arm, covering them with my sweater. I hid behind some seats in the gymnasium and cried there. People saw me cry, I hugged my backpack as If I was hugging someone. I haven't done anything wrong, I am fit, I am intelligent, and so nerdy. My life is worthless, no one cares about me, no one came to the rescue. I stayed there crying wishing that I would be better off dead. I couldn't talk about it, because no approach me. I am tired of being alone, I tried to attempt suicide, took a whole bottle of pills, I didn't die, but just woke up in my room. And there my day went. So now, I am a loner with no one
Pavle Drakulic How pathetic, where could I find an entrance to the rooftop of a building? Nevertheless, if it was that easy, I wouldn't have commented back, just letting ya know
It's really a matter of how you take it, if all you do is bitch about how hard it is to have a mental disorder, it's not going to help. I go to therapy and take medication for my bipolar but I've been seeing a significant amount of improvement so thats good
I have depression, anxiety, and a few other things. I don't necessarily have friends. I mean I have a few people I guess that could be considered friends and I guess one of my friends could be considered more than a friend.. Then there are just people to be with sometimes. Sometimes actual verbal people are hard to talk to and it's easier to talk to people who don't exactly know you in person format. Only online people truly know me though. Everyone else knows happy fun time Emily but in reality I cry myself to sleep and have come so close to cutting so many times. I have lived nearly my entire life this way. I was extremely bullied when I was in public school. I couldn't even talk to a teacher because they were bullying too. Now I barely ever talk and I just listen to music. I find it hard to use my voice sometimes for a few reasons. Like my lisps and French Canadian blood make me hard to understand. Another thing is, people hardly listen. Yea so life sucks and since I'm a PewDiePie lover ( do not subscribe to him I beg u at 5O million he said he'd fvcking delete his channel I need his videos ) * Brofists away *
EmilyRose hey. I know how that feels. It's like, when you have online friends you feel more comfortable just being who you truley are. You can cry to them, laugh with them, and have fun together. I guess the feeling of them not being actually there is less overwhelming. They're on a screen, like a youtuber in a way haha. I'm always so bouncy and hyper and loud and smiley and it does annoy people but that's just part of me. But then at the end of the day I always get depressed. It sucks haha. But hey. If you ever wanna dm me on RU-vid we can try to work something out and be friends if you'd like :)
Neville Longbottom *OH MY LORD ARE U TALKING ABOUT MEEE?????!!!!! I'M HAVING THR SAME SHIT AND IM LIVING WITH IT EVERYDAY , I CRIED WHEN I READ UR COMMENT ,, IT REALLY HURTS AND MAKES ME THINK ABOUT MYSELF.. I'VE NO FRIENDS ,,NO ANYONE OR THINGY TO TALK TO ..* Thank u actually for talking in my place cuz my English isn't that good enough to tell what I wanna say , you did it for me u know :) thank u so much and i hope for u the bessst! Love from Marocco ! *Hugggggggggsssss*
i had a panic attack in public a few weeks ago. i was sitting alone at burger king, and i was shaking a lot and hyperventilating really loud so that everyone in the room must have heard me. i felt like i was going to pass out so i was leaning forward and it was really obvious that i was having a panic attack, but nobody even looked at me. like, i knew that everyone in there had noticed how shitty i was doing but they all pretended like they hadn't seen me. luckily, my friends came after a few minutes and took care of me
This video made me cry. I have every one of those symptoms. No one is there for me. I'm home alone 24/7 and I hardly communicate with family members. I wish someone would come and stop by even to just say hi
+Lindii Bindiii I undestand you,and i feel how it is,i want ask you some questions,if ou have in facebook o instagam send link ,i really want some questions about this topic,thanks fo attention
+Lindii Bindiii Hi. we understand ur pain but please dont exlclude urself from the world. Be courageous, besides life is a game and we all play on it. Difficulties is a part of the journey :)
+Giorgos Gkaraklides thank you so much! I kept thinking and thinking. It finally gone to get some help. I know this isn't much but it's been a week with out self harm and I feel proud. I'm getting my life together and I'm feeling happier.
I am really happy for what you say. Learn that seeking for help is not a bad idea. I know how you feel I have been through this a lot of times but what I learned is that life is wavy and I will laugh as many times as I suffer. I see it as a game. But anyway. Am really happy for you and hope to see more positive comments of you in videos!! Keep being strong girl xx
A few months ago, I saw a 15 years old girl alone crying in the street. I didn't know her, but I felt the necessity to go there and talk to here. See if she was okey, if she needed help. I am very happy that I did that. I made her smile and laugh! :D Also I listened to her problem.
Her boyfriend was a few years older than her, and they loved each other a lot. The parents of that girl were okey with her boyfriend, but his parents not. They were like: "She's a year older than your sister! Are you crazy?", and they forbidden him to see her (sorry for my bad english, I'm spanish so...). That's why she was crying alone in the street. She was very sad... :(
+Laiaa A few years older than his sister? Sorry, but that just sounds messed up to me.. What do they expect, him to date a girl younger than his sister than closer to his age? That is just absurd, they were just probably making a ridiculous excuse because they generally do not like her. That or they're judgemental or maybe both.
sometimes I wish I could just talk to some person and tell them how I feel, but then sometimes I don't want to because then I'd feel like I'm spreading negativity. also, I don't have the best time opening up to people & I hate feeling vulnerable so that's that lol
I know exactly how you feel. I'm sure a lot of other people feel the same way also. I think we have to see that it's better to be real instead of pretending to be "positive" all the time. Negative emotions are a part of life, and to heal we need to express ourselves.
It's a nice video. I remember 2 years ago, i visited my boyfriend and well.. in the end we broke up. On the way back home i tried not to cry. In the Train to Berlin a nice young man started talking to me, he was talking 'bout god, his failure and other things but he didn't lose his Smile, he hugged me 'cause I was crying and omg... This one person i don't really knew was so nice to me, in this moment he was my saviour I guess. I'm so thankful but I can't remember his full name :< I hope everyone here can find a person who is saving him or her in a bad situation. Depression is hard... Search for help please! You are a good person, a lovely human :) Stay strong my friend :) ♥
I can't put my depression into words but I'm so scared to talk to people especially my parents. I want a therapist but I don't want to have my parents spend their insurance on myself
Therapy doesn't do shit. i explained my problems and she did nothing about it. Really what you need, is a good friend who has had the same problems as you. That way they relate and understand.
I mean im sorry that you had a really rough go at therapy, but I think that its slightly unfair for you to say that Therapy won't work because therapy really is a vauable resource for really anyone to have. Yes I agree that friend are also super important and it makes life and talking about your issues so so so much easier when you have some one in your life that can relate to you. But the thing is with therapy it that this person you talk to is unbiased, they are there because they want to help you, they want you to get better, and (mostly) everything you say to them will remain confidential, unless it is something that, by law, they need to alert someone about. Again I am truly sorry that your experience with therapy was so bad that this is how you view it, but I also truly believe that therapy can make such a difference and is just such a good outlet for really anyone and I highly encourage you to look for a different therapist if the last one was so awful, find someone that is suited to you that you feel comfortable talking to, because trust me, I speak from experience, in the long run it will help you so so much :)
This is gonna sound weird, and everyone is going to tell you that you should talk to someone about it, but I find that solitude helped me. Sometimes I'd go a number of hours just in calm, relaxing silence with no one talking to me, or bothering me.
No matter who you are, if you are sitting on the floor crying, you better know I'm going to fucking help. I can't see people. Feeling that way. I can't have people commiting suicide because no one was there to help
+OmgItsErick I think I have depression but my family think I'm joking so I sit up stairs and be quiet they never see me and sometimes they say they don't won't me what do I do
+Dead-living if ya need help or just someone to talk to my number is 817-615-7306. I used to think exactly like that and still question sometimes if it gets better. But as I say "Even the little miracles are miracles. You just get more of them"
Ender Rebel u may not want to put ur number on here if thats ur real number as there r some creeps prob scrolling thru the comments and u may get a lot of calls
You don't have to wait for anyone. Be that person for yourself. I know it's hard to be strong. I know it first hand since most of my life was filled with battles but sometimes you only have yourself so you have to learn how to depend on yourself and pull yourself up by your bootstraps.
+Jana Sarraf It'll come eventually. I have two people I can talk to about my problems, but it isn't always about me. I tried to help a friend but he unfortunately passed away before I could try to talk him out of it, I hope that doesn't happen to you too. If you need anyone, I'll listen. PM me if you want.
I was adopted with my older brother. He was the only thing I had. He got into a car accident. I was so alone and scared. He helped me through my middle school year, from being bullied. I was sooo alone... I felt like everything was over for me. My highschool years were terrible. I was abused by my adoption parents, saying that my brothers death was because of me... One day, I found someone to talk to. He was there for me, always helpful, I felt like I wasn't alone. Finally, I found someone, and he is now my husband...the world is a great place, it's just curtain people who make it bad I really appreciate the ones who read this whole thing!
Just believe in better times. Your attitude can change things. I know it is easier to say than to do it, but always try to see the positive aspects of something. I will pray for you. All the best!
im so sad listening to this because if i sit alone i dont get any appreciation i sit outside on my own sit on the bus crying in class just cant hold back my tears because no one shows any emotions to me anymore i am now a person with rage and hate i iscolate myself from the world because people laughed at me when i was alone i am not in the situation where i cant stand being near people i dont want to make freinds because people use me backstab me and bully me my angers getting so bad without the help needed i feel like hitting random people i see them as all the same how can someone without love show love to others its just not possible . i dont know if anyone feels like this but i feel as if i am against the world and a laughing stock i think some students recently created a group chat the teacher who bullied me sat down the back during the lesson the whols time asking whats this group i was the only one not aloud in the online group they had there cameras towards me secretly filiming at times they called the group dickheads and they said there phone was messing up and the camera broke others who use to be my freinds never say hi ignore me some laugh at me like i was the dirt on the ground . even my parents i hear them coming out with smart comments my brothers say i can do nothing my sisters get my products and jewlerry and break them and empty the contains of makeup bottles .my neighbours throw things at my windows laugh and smirk at me singing there kids are not aloud near us out of rage i throw things out the window candles beautiful picture frames and then my heart breaks at how enraged i am at the world i break down and cry myself to sleep . ive also had ex boyfreinds who were horrible telling me i cant do anything my recent ex shouted roared at me controlled me said i should be like other people i went through such depression at that time . i have been cyber bullied my facebook closed down on three or four times . my you tube channel hacked and comments removed and people commenting on how i looked not just on you tube but on real life one example an ex said you need mpre makeup other freinds and exs have said lesbian ugly weird strange screw loose depressed loner hateful whore and many more . can you imagine someone loving after all of this no i cant i may not be able to love but i do try to succeed by being self taught in piano singing on you tube ive auditioned for britains got talent but my email was hacked went to college once i gave up because i was cyber bullied but im back at college and now trying harder to ignore the bullies my ex said i couldent do it but im going to prove him wrong even my mum and brother and dad and others said the same i proved them all wrong my life has been full of many adventures ups and downs but life has been good to me not people god has granted me the immense gift of enjoying the simple things in life its just bad people get in my way . my ex who i am pregnant to said the kids not his hes telling everyone this i am going to step it up a bit because i dont want my baby to be treated the same i use to be suicidal before but now all that is gone i know people would be happy if i was gone but i know in life ive got a reason to live . i started in high school in 2009 i think and started having anxiety there and doctor later diagnosed me with it due to all the scars i wont be able to call someome a freind i wont be able to trust anyone because my life was hell but also an adventure to be continued for my own self to grow in confidence to start standing up for myself becuase this is where i live on this planet and i will grow old here fuffiling my dreams in life i have a bucket list and wish to fufill everthing i have done at the moment im studying sociopaths theres alot of them out there so be careful there the ones who ruin your life
I am glad you have hope and a reason to live! Because you deserve to get everything you wish for. You are so so strong. You are an incredibly strong powerful person who has taken far more than their share of crap, and yet is still going. Keep going. Because the world needs people as strong as you. Don't let others bring you down. Because those that hurt as just as alone and afraid as they have made you. And so they lash out. Keep your heart open, because there is some one who is too scared or lonely to reach out, who will understand you the way others hadn't. And I know and understand that rage, but you can't let it consume you. Instead feed the strength in the rage into another outlet. I use mine to work out. Some use it to write. Just keep going. And find something everyday that makes you smile. I hope my words helped
Nushkii same i haven't been diagnosed but i feel that way and the last 2 years they pulled me out of lunch to see the student counciler my parents don't have a lot of money so i don't go to the doctors often its been awhile since i last went I've been suicidal b4 but i hope u feel better
It's really incredible how people actually stop to talk to you! Every time when I am sad, I'm going for a walk so I don't hurt myself. Sometimes I go sit in the parc and cry but sometimes I just walk through the village. A lot of people walk past me, look at me, but they never do anything. It makes me feel more lonely but I'm very lucky to have incredible friends!
I've had depression for about 4 years, and I still have it till this day, but most of us don't cry out in public like that, to us it shows weakness and makes our bullies stronger, so if we're crying it is most likely in a secluded place away from people, but if by chance you do see someone who has depression and they're crying, make sure to help them and keep them safe, they deserve it.
no one will save you, only yourself. This is one of my favourite quotes: "All suffering in this world is born from a lack of individual ability." By struggling you are only pulling at the strings of your heart as if someone is reaching into your body and tearing you apart. Accept your depression and be free. Who cares if your personality has fallen apart? Build a better person out of yourself who knows the pain of this world. Be a better person and better things will happen to you. Nothing happens by chance, only two circumstances colliding with one another and you create one of those circumstances, don't you?
Some people can't save themselves. They need someone to help them and make them strong so then they can be alive for themselves. I get that you're trying to be inspirational and make people stronger, but some people really can't do what you're trying to make them do.
Ølivia A. What I'm trying to say is that *no one* will save you. Only you alone can escape the darkness. Everyday you have to constantly rethink what is "right and wrong" otherwise you'll end up alone regretting your entire life. You are the one who decides your future; no one else.
MrDarkysoccer Thanks man! I just want people to not feel alone or be stuck in sadness. The video has been getting a lot of attention recently so idk where this will go! :)
The reason why I don't take depression as seriously anymore is because a lot of teens treat it like a fashion trend. They want to have it and want the attention. I would hate it if someone came and sat next to me and started complaining and acting depressed because it seems like you would want the attention and want people to feel sorry for you. It annoys me.
Okinomi you're kinda right you know. I also knew some people who did the same thing. They used it as attention. When I was depressed myself, I didn't told anyone about it. I was scared and when I was bullied at school, no one ever helped me, not even the teachers, so i thought why would I tell anyone, no one gives a shit. I think most of the people who get bullied, doesn't just tell someone about it and putting on a fake smile so no one will notice that they got depression.
Okinomi I'm 16. I am actually legitimatly diagnosed with major depressive disorder, have been hospitalized for coming out on previous suicide attempts, and am now regularly seeing a therapist as well as taking 50mg of Zoloft each day. Depression is fucking horrible. And I agree. It's not a god damn trend. It's not something you want to have. You don't want to abandon all your ambitions and dreams in place of sleeping the entire day or doing absolutely nothing productive because everything is boring and exhausting. But I think that mental health is an important thing to be educated on. Lots of teens who may actually be depressed are in doubt that they may have depression because they will only think badly of themselves for trying to "gain attention." Maybe they are trying to get attention. And you know, good on them for actually trying to seek help, albeit not the best way. Maybe some of those who are seeking attention maybe actually have depression. If they are questioning it they should always seek help and see a professional to see if there really is a problem.
***** What I mean is, I don't like the people who fake it and want it. Who take any chance to mention they "have" depression when they really don't. And good for the people who want to get help. Talk to a doctor instead of your friends.
Okinomi ye tru its annoying bc being depressed or having anxiesty makes u feel rly bad i dont have it as far as ik but im always sad about life and i always degrade myself i actually have been suicidal b4 and still am but i try to think about the good things in life i remember some 4th graders (im in 5th grade as of the date of this comment) talking about bleach and i got rly mad bc they didn't realize how it actually feels to be suicidal but i was too scared to say something attention is nvr worth it if it means to be depressed having anxiety and suicidal
Okinomi Yup I just posted a similar comment to this. I wish these people would realize that they're actually making it harder for people that experience depression.
Isaiah Clay Me too honey. I know people say this all the time but it does get better. I've had depression since I was 6 years old. I felt so alone and I thought I was never going to be happy again. But just a few months ago I went to a therapy thing and I'm so much happier than I thought I'd ever be. You just need to be patient, look at the bright side, and know deep in your heart... You're Worth It
This vid made me cry 😭 we all go thru our ups & downs in life. It's nice to know that there are people out there willing to listen & help. That's how all humans should be with one another.
People care. But you must let them know. Share your thoughts with your family, friends or close ones. Or if they don't understand you then you should definitely get medical help. NEVER think that no one cares. Because people do. Because we have been through the same thing. We don't want people to give up hope.... Life is beautiful so keep fighting, you'll be happy someday :)
