Or looking at everything there's still to preserve, and conserve, nurture and replenish is also a better way. Staying focused on losses just does not help, even practically, there's something about human condition itself that requires that any individual heal and keep it moving with the times... It's impossible to be in the present and stuck in time past SIMULTANEOUSLY. Such is my experience anyway...
The more exquisite your baked goods, the more anguished your soul~ Pastor. I didn't pay attention to such fine details when I watched Desperate Housewives circa 2012.