Destroying Male Spaces - MGTOW 

My first Red Pill, more than 4 years ago...

It is literally every male space. I asked my father what he thought about feminism and he told me how there used to be these great clubs where business men would go and play pool/cards and have drinks and chat. Associations of Women (primarily all the Women's Clubs at Universities) rallied to have these clubs shutdown. Yup, groups that would only allow women in had men's clubs shut down. This was in the 70's. Women have infinite women only spaces but cannot stand men having men's spaces.

I got a personal example of the female level of determination to invade male spaces when I visited my sister in Florida for Thanksgiving. We decided to run some errands and she made a quick solo trip into a grocery store while I waited in the car. I started watching a Sandman video and she returned before it was finished. She got upset after she asked me what I was watching and I calmly informed her it was a private matter. I certainly don't scrutinize her use of the Internet or question her in detail about the videos she watches. I also tend to discuss manosphere videos exclusively with a handpicked group of trusted male associates.

When you think about alcohol in days gone by, it was a psychological coping mechanism. Men used it as a way of dealing with traumatic pasts. You know the old saying, "Better a bottle in front of me, than a frontal lobotomy". Imagine you are a returned soldier from the Great War. There was no recognition of post-traumatic-Stress-Disorder, no psychological assistance. Drinking was your only means of dealing with the many flashbacks of carnage from the war, and probably the only way you could talk out what you had seen. Then these hellions decided to take away the only way for men to unburden themselves from the Industrialized Horror of the Great War.

I knew about the coffee ban and the saloon smashers, but I never thought of them as the same phenomena we see today with male spaces. Great job pulling all of that together!

When talking about destroying men's spaces from the inside, does the name ‎Anita Sarkeesian come to mind? Also search 150 year old, McSorley's Pub, the last men only bar in Manhattan.. It's no female rule was broken in 1970 by NYU feminists. This was not a gay bar, it was a space reserved for men only..

Notice how the women who wrote the letter compared men to other men, yet again It shows they need to pin us against each other

All my life I believed that women can withhold sex for months and don't really need it, while also being 'programmed' to believe that men think about sex every five seconds, looking at the world around me with an open mind I realize that 'every five seconds' might actually refer to the amount of sexual images we men see every day without actually thinking about it

You are quickly becoming one of the more interesting MGTOW voices on RU-vid. Your videos are always fascinating. Keep it up.

I had no idea feminists wanted to ban coffee. This explains why they're so fucking shrill all the time.

When you look at the state our society around these terms, it is disheartening. Women do not like video games, but instead of trying to get legislation like the days of old, many are instead trying to shame the man by saying things such as "When are you going to grow up" or "Those are so childish" But who are they do deem what a man does as such?

Prohibition also spawned the National Firearms Act of 1934, which led directly to the Gun Control Act in 1968, which led to the Hughes amendment to FOPA 1986 & also created the need for the Brady law in the early 1990s. Prohibition led to changing the name of the federal "law enforcement" agency now known as the FBI. You know, the ones who poisoned "illegal" liquor during Prohibition, later spied on MLK & MLK Jr., and bow have had 4 different "confidential informants" &/or their immediate family members commit terrorist attacks on American soil... Yes, feminists brought us *ALL* of that from their efforts to destroy male spaces through Prohibition.

I have once worked on a "Men Only Space" it was a military cimetary in Normandy. 3735 men only to be exact(it was a small cimetary).

Growing up my father use to joke that "there ain't no value in the dick", and that has proven to be true the older i get.

I keep in touch with a high school buddy that lives in another state. As a general rule, I'm not a fan of social media, but I started using Facebook because I have a lot of friends in Thailand (they consider me family and vice versa) as a way to stay in touch without talking on the phone. So I added my buddy to my friend list and he suggested that I 'friend' this girl he has on the down-low from his live in girlfriend, (red flag, I know, but I did it). I posted some photos of some murals that were painted in a Buddhist temple in my ex-girlfriend's hometown. I get along with my ex, and because we now live about 1,000 miles apart, it's easy to get along well with her. So we take vacations together every two or three years and that's how I got to meet these friends. The first time I went to Thailand she asked me to take photos of one specific mural inside the temple because she donated a big chunk of money for the mural, but she's never seen it because that particular building at the monastery was designated 'male only'. I thought it was an interesting bit to share on my FB page. My buddy's girlfriend commented on it. "I'm not sure how I feel about the 'men only' part, but it's a beautiful painting." I replied "I don't believe that, not one bit." When she asked me what I didn't believe, I responded in a frank way that most of my friends are familiar with. "No one believes that you're 'not sure how you feel about the 'men only' part. We all know how you feel about it. You feel either threatened by a male only space 9,000 miles away from you, or you're simply annoyed by it, most likely both." She carried on for a bit about my not knowing her and blah blah blah. So I commented that, "There are women only places as well, if that makes you feel better." (She didn't ask about those spaces, but I was expecting her to. I would have replied, "There are kitchens in nearly every building in that town.") Anyway, my point is that women seem to lose sleep over the very concept of male only spaces, even when there's virtually zero chance they would ever actually see that place or meet anyone that has been inside it. I can't believe it's about women being excluded, I believe that it's about women hunting for another thing that they can take away from men. After all, if you think about it, it's about as hard to find male only spaces as it is to photograph a unicorn in our society. Here's the real kicker.......wait for it.....she's been flirting with me in private chat. People tell me I should tell my buddy about it, but I'd never sell him out to his live-in girl because I don't play those 'chick games'. I'm not even remotely considering hooking up with her, I flirt back simply because I think it's hilarious. MGTOWs know that women that play men have a strong attraction to men that don't grovel for pussy. Sorry this is so long, I'm 'drunk YouTubing', lol.

Another reason men would drink was because drinking boosts your social skills for business.

I am a firm believer in learning from history and from past mistakes others have made. ( Keep in mind, history is my favorite subject next to chemistry... ) Sadly far too few pay heed to the lessons of history... so things will repeat. Hints why we are once again having to deal with the possibility of new laws that, in all truth should never be even a thought in someones mind. Even more so when you consider what the laws are supposed to combat in the first place. These same people that are attempting to get these laws out there. Want you to believe in the rape culture thing. Even go as far as lying about the percentage of false accusations of rape. They want to go back to the age of guilty till proven innocent... Remember how well that worked for people? It inspired a revolutionary way of dealing with criminals. One such instrument was called the Guillotine.

I wish I had found this 40 years ago, it would have saved me from living a miserable life with a horrible woman. Like MLK said free at last,free at last.

MGTOW history lessons is a fantastic idea, please make this a series!!

and it is true, one of the main gripes of feminists is that men talk about women and rate/judge them.

This was one of your best. I truly enjoyed this video.

5:12 "Many women are like the Gestapo" That´s a good one.

So I guess the "drunk housewife" trend they saw in the 60s and 70s was the "if you can't beat them, join them" lol

Just a random thought: The Statue of Liberty. No need to explain further.

awesome video you got my subscription bro. Regarding your last statement, havent women achieved their goal though? In many male groups your status is defined by how often you get laid. My male friends for example shame me for not having a gf.

Video games are making our children violent, heavy metal music is insufferable devilry! You know what is really insufferable? A gaggle of squawking hens and their moral panics! To quote TFM "take their rights away"!

You just earned a subscriber. Good job of presenting the historical method of how feminism managed to become a prevalent ideology in society. This ideology was simulated over the course of human period whereby women have used their sexuality as a way to control men. Now in this modern time where the laws favor women more men are deciding to opt out of the dating scene entirely. This decision to opt out has cause a shift in the dynamics of how men see relationships in general.

You're very best video so far. I've listened to many of yours and this one was absolutely amazing it hit on so much history and explains so much female driven change in this country. These changes have not benefited men their families or even the women that pushed for them. Keep up the great work outstanding job.

this one... just.. wow. next women will be taking away our porn and video games.

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That last part made me have to get up and fix myself a nice cup of coffee. Lol...

If women ever complain that you're not listening to them then say "Say something worth listening to.".

"A coffee bean is a seed of the coffee plant, and is the source for coffee. It is the pit inside the red or purple fruit often referred to as a cherry. Just like ordinary cherries, the coffee fruit is also a so-called stone fruit. Even though the coffee beans are seeds, they are referred to as "beans" because of their resemblance to true beans. The fruits - coffee cherries or coffee berries - most commonly contain two stones with their flat sides together." -wikipedia, en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coffee_bean

Men let this happen.

Again...Another great work Mr. "Sandman"! Thank God my sex drive is now all shot to hell.

Good work. I can only prove 99.998% of your dialogue from my short 25 year marriage to a woman nine years my senior. She petitioned for divorce less than two months after her youngest child graduated college. Naturally, the ex-wife managed to work in a college degree for herself. I also have worked for female bosses (nightmare)

I don't like alcohol. I understand why it was almost considered a sin just to drink back then. Many bored people would just turn into drunks and become chemically addicted to it. And since life was boring as all hell back then, I imagine it had an even stronger appeal than it does today. I think you missed an opportunity to actually focus on real demonization of male spaces. Anita Sarkeesian comes to mind as the most recent example.

My grandfather was an alcoholic. He sired 17 children, then died of cirrhosis.

Thanks for the video, the historical context gives it a whole new meaning.. None of this is new, it just takes time to uncover this old truth. I remember I used to think this started in the 90s, then, 80s, 60s, etc..., but, It's been like this all along, strategically ignored and not echoed by published history. I recommend reading Ernest Bax, he's late 1800 and early 1900s writings are basically today's mgtow discoveries and analysis. I doubted it was actual old writings at first (except when it mentions shillings...) and still am not entirely sure..

This is true about women. SO VERY TRUE!

@Sandman my dude you're like the next stardusk or barbarosaaa these video are so thought provoking........ This is my third beer while listening to your videos...... TALK ABOUT prohibition! lol amazing work Sandman you need more view and subs don't stop making videos....... Ima start sharing them on facebook

Good vid Sandman. Much enjoyed. I think ill go have a beer now.

sandman we need more of these

One of your best videos to date!

Yeah, I wasn't much of a drinker until I was around 30. Had my first drink in over a decade and immediately went MGTOW. I can get more enjoyment from a $20 bottle of Johnnie Walker Red Label than any woman is capable of giving me and the worst I have to deal with is feeling a little sick the next day if and only if I overindulge. I still only drink once every couple of months, but alcohol has definitely helped me to break my addiction to women and simping. It is a female's kryptonite.

The big unanswered question is why the fuck wasn't Carrie rendered living impaired with extreme prejudice after that first terroristic rampage?

Very well done. Some of this I only learned from Girl Writes What too.

Where did you get those cartoons???

Very good analysis. Thanks.

Unfettered recreational screen time is better than toxic relationships with women.

Excellent stuff!

Great video as usual man

4:40 is a perfect description of modern day American women.

This currently happening to the NFL and sports bars.

i need to drink more coffee. excellent video.

I learned that women prefer emotional arguments over logical arguments thanks to my Mother, sister, and now ex-girlfriend. My sister being slightly more open to reasoning, but still more female brained than not. All I have to do is say "We never get to do what I want," or literally copy and paste any typical female emotional response. I find less intelligent males to be about as easily manipulated by emotions as most women are, though my experience is anecdotal.

What ever the true reason for why woman wanted alcohol banned, I do agree it shouldn’t be allowed but it won’t be stopped as all drugs, but making it not normalized would be a good start

The fact that there are not 11,798 dislikes means the world sickens me.

Alcohol is the greatest friend

ummm, maybe it's not coffee, maybe it's you.

Never thought I'd find a video made in 2013 being so relavent in 2022... ☹️☹️

I don't know if you people know about the story of Mount Athos, where women entered the space for the sake of trolling or curiousity.

The coffee bean is actually not a bean, but the seed of the coffee berry.

The coffee 'bean' is, in fact, a berry.

This video displays a very paranoid outlook. I'll try to convey why I feel people should be critical of arguments that take the form of an authoritative story. One of the more obvious examples of this paranoia starts at 4:27. Some highlights: "Religion was used as an excuse for women to have a fashion show" (4:45). "Today it seems that every day is the day of worship for women. It's no wonder no one goes to church anymore" (4:55). We are to believe the following: 1. People dressed nicely for church for the sake of women. This is a very dubious claim. It is more likely that people dressed nicely for mass because it was considered a solemn occasion. 2. The decline of religious practice in the west was caused by women's rights. This claim seems to be the product of a confusion of correlation and causation. It is far more likely that the decline of religion in the west is the result of changing public opinion precipitated by better access to education and mass media.

Charles ii banned coffee? This is the same king who re-instated Christmas, music, theater, sport and make-up, never realised he banned anything.

PEARL DAVIS got me here in Nov. 2023

And on another point, coffee beans aren't actually beans, but the pips of berries.

They all ways try and take our space like in footy

First I saw this side of the women's 30 years ago. And I have taken my first red pill 21 years ago.and a remained this way. But how nothing stays for ever I am turning in to a purpul pill and after that I think I will get the blue pill. 😥😫😭😡🤬✋

Those British women sure are wordsmiths, very ornate prose!

Hey Sandman, can you please provide sources for all what you claim in this vid? Thanks.

But today we can all hang out in shopping malls!

Great video.

hi! what does MGTOW stand for?

6:38 Common scold. Where's the Ducking stool when you need one. (jk)

Solid video.

Coffee ; That demon weed ............ no wait ............ a......never mind !

not sure is srs

The PLAIN truth. "Plain" means UGLY; though the word suggests "average," you're talking a 1 not a 5.

13:58 Huh, sounds very much like the gaming industry today.

"Women hate alcohol because..." might want to watch the generalizations.

Coffee beans actually do come from a berry. Sorry, just had to put that out there.

Petition against coffee...a spoof I think.

Drink More Coffee!

You'd be surprised the male space that we have in my church. In the church I go to sunday truly is a day for worshipping god and the priesthood is exclusively a male space

He is largely correct about this.

4:37 Yes, Yes, so much fucken Yes!!

Sounds like what's going on with the current legalization of marijuana.

Thanks Dude Excellent- excellent video, research, insight, extrapolations & opinions !!! Any plans to analysis the subjugation & training of Men, as Boys, by their Mothers? May Peace Joy & insight be yours forevermore, c

interesting and funny

Ive never been less productive or had a problem getting an erection because of alcohol. In fact it makes me care less when I have to do something I don't enjoy doing and sex goes longer because its harder to get off. The only real side affect Iv every experienced because of it was decrease of motor control ability.

this is said about anything that os new.. to include.... books.. movies... alchol.... it's human fear but.... I bow to your point mostly..... btw coffee is a bean that comes from a cherry... or berry. yep surprise me as well.... lastily I am pointing out that I said this--------------but you may have some what of a point here.

Actually pretty much everything from the pamphlet is sexual innuendo. "Stiffe about their joynts" is referring directly to their erectile function.

I take the conspiracy theories about women planning their strategies in back rooms, with a grain of salt. I do get what you mean by shaming techniques. Women have so much power and influence by shaming men. This whole campaign about the rape crisis on campus, along with their white ribbon campaign, is one big shaming tactic.

My two favorite words to use when speaking to women are "Fuck off." Oddly, whenever i tell them this they get all compliant and lose the "tude" with a quickness, to which I respond: "Fuck off."

Cuba Dave on FB or his newsletter said they the Dominican police closed down Passions bar/brothel in Sosua, DR at the US authorities' behest. The whole community has come to his defense. Sound familiar?

Coffee beans actually are berries. Go figure. Many things that are not seen as "berries" actually are. (like avacado and watermelon.)

Evidence?

funny you mention CHURCH.... cuz it is getting out of hand...some of (if not all) of the single dress like they are going to a CLUB (tight clothes... short dresses... low cut this or that)