Diana, Princess of Wales | Mental Health & Personality 

I've been there and know what it's like. My kids tell me I've BPD but they don't know what I've been thru and they don't care bcz they hv their own lives. I feel for Diana. I was her age when she got married. I stayed up 48 hours straight to watch the rerun of the fairy tale wedding. Didn't like charles from the beginning. She was this gorgeous young lady that wowed the world. She will always be remembered despite her flaws. She was Peoples Princess! I loved her and still love her. Forever in our hearts. Forever remembered! 😔😟😢😭

a stockbroker in the office where I worked brought in a tiny TV to watch the wedding.

It's a terrible thing to be saying your vows when you don't believe them. I allowed my mother to pressure me into getting married when I was pregnant. The whole time I was saying them (to God) I absolutely didn't intend to spend the rest of my life with the abusive man I married. When I heard Charles say, "whatever love is" in the engagement interview, my heart dropped. It really said it all and Diana knew it. She might have been young, but she had massive emotional intelligence. She said that traumatized here.

@@margaretmcgill526I totally agree with you. I feel so sorry for Diana and for all of us who entered into loveless marriages. Of course that messes us up.

Precisely. Diana was made to feel second best from the start. Camilla should be ashamed of herself but it seems the Brits will allow her to be the Rottweiler Queen. Awful woman. Just leave other women's husbands alone.

That was the problem for Diana. She was too honest and open. She could no longer pretend and in the end she just said, 'fuck it'! Sad as she was getting her life back together even though she feared reprisal and that came.

Yes and doing that for all the world to see.

@@independentandfree6466 - the saddest thing for me, as it is in any accident, is why didn’t they just wear a seatbelt?

@@sherunswithscissors who says they didn't? the pressTITutes$? who is at the top of the food ChAIN? that feeds the minds, bodies and soul to their subjects?

And then add everything that is required of being a royal... x10 because she was HRH The Princess of Wales. It was like being a royal... on steroids.

And she blame her parents in public media. That was very embarassing moment for an adult like her. When she lost control of anger, she start to blaming others. I'm 28 years old, and i feel same too because I'm very insecure.

And after a failed and loveless marriage, she was starting dating with an another very rich and difficult man, that didn't suit her, like Dodi Al-Fayed, he already had a very bad reputation with women, hitting, fighting, assaulting and abusing them, the best example was his fiancee, he left her even after giving a very expensive engagement ring, when a mutual friend introduced him to Diana Diana won't be happy with Dodi, he was muslim and didn't care about women feelings only about himself because his traditions and type education, obviously Dodi Al Fayed was even worse than Prince Charles

@@nestorvilla3605 islam teaches people to treat each other with the upmost respect he is obviously not religious because if he was he would know how to treat people right so please do not bring islam into this.

@@rubyroseanne6951 : If you do not know the reality of things, better not speak! you say islam treats others with respect !! ohh yes, where women are third-class beings, they have to cover themselves up, using burqas, they can't go out without their husbands or their father and where others are so respected that they kill them when they say something they don't like, ohh yes too much respect

@@nestorvilla3605 Islam does teach respect for women & girls! Unfortunately, as in all cultures & religions there are those who abuse their power over the fairer sex, as we would say. Women covering themselves is a right. A right to not be displayed like a piece of meat & to not be judged on her looks, & just be treated as “Eye Candy” for the pleasure of men, especially those who have no relation to you & do not love you! Why should a woman have to dress provocatively in tight clothes & her cleavage showing to be valued & accepted in society? Why is she only valued if she is attractive? That is the real repression!! Not being looked at for your mind & treated like a intelligent human being with thoughts & ideas that are respected in their own right. Also, women don’t have to work, but if they do, their money is their own, to do with what they want. They can save it, spend it, loan it, invest it, give it, etc. to whomever, or on whatever, they choose. Women of other faiths are expected to help pay the household expenses, pay for food, car payments, medical expenses, etc. Muslim women are allowed to stay home with their children. Their main focus is to care for their children, organize & keep their home running smoothly. Men’s jobs are to be the breadwinners & protectors of their families. Women have the right to be educated as well. Women in Islam don’t have to take their husbands surname either. It is her choice. Some do, but most do not, unless they hyphenate their surname with their husbands surname to combine the two. She has a right to be known, from what family she comes from. Most women in other religions take the husbands name & are viewed as his marital property after marriage. I’m not saying that there are not abuses that occur within Muslim families, but these abuses happen just as much in non-Muslim families as well. Domestic violence & other types of emotional, physical, & verbal abuses are just as rampant in other cultures & religions too. This is not exclusive to Muslims. My point is, that many people believe whatever the media tells them, even if it’s not accurate. People should investigate for themselves. There are billions of Muslims in many, many countries. They are not all bad. The majority are good. It is actually the fastest growing religion in the world now. Please educate yourself before disparaging another person’s beliefs. You would not want someone to do that to you! It does not facilitate greater understanding & better human relationships when people make incorrect assumptions & then spread it as if it were factual. I invite you to learn more at your local Islamic Center, or online. There are many websites, RU-vid videos, & other resources, that would be happy to give you a free English copy of the translation of The Holy Quran & other books that explain Islam more in depth. They would be happy to answer any questions that you may have. I bid you, Peace!!🙏

I read, Princess Margaret had done it minus the fuss.

Wow fuck me. Let’s canonize her. St Diana of Narcissism

She seemed like a really good person but her story is tragic.

@@lauralutz4538 Correct .

That’s what made the world love her

That's awful. That shouldn't be discussed or even mentioned. That status should be kept secret or not even important.

I remember my mom talking about this and wondering if it was real!!

Who cares about virginity, and why? Why is it important for certain people wheater or not some one is a virgin? I meen except from in crime cases

Better than back in the middle ages when they had clergymen examine your sheets the morning after the wedding night. Yikes!

Diana's virginity was supposed to save their marriage. I guess it didn't.

16:15 especially chemistry.

Especially love

It’s sad but true

Yes it sucks 😢

This deserves to be pinned!👌

Perfectly said.

Please do a search on RU-vid for a film titled: “Unlawful Killing”. This film is a few minutes short of two hours. This film is also banned in The UK.

Just an adulterer

I question Charles as his good friend was Jimmy Saville, a prolific rapist of children and the sick children in a hospital he had the run of. Diana did not like him, even with this information, that was not known by the public yet.

Over the years, I think Diana has been put on a pedestal - and that is a great understatement! - to the point where she can do no wrong. I appreciate it whenever anyone points out that she was a fallible human neing albeit with many admirable traits.

We all have problems, some of us don’t tell all to folks in general. There is bitching & there is constructive outreach. What Di did was selfish & harmful to her boys & the Monarchy.

That is right, and to have married a man who quite clearly didnt love her and who obviously loved someone else was all that was needed to bring on Bulimia and her depression. Especially when you are in such a public elevated position. Poor lady she didnt stand much of a chance.

Who, outside of herself, could she rely on? Fergie wasn't much help other than for temporary laugh and play. Maybe Charles' betrayal was abandonment; however going out and doing the affair game is never a good response.

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@@mc.8391 SHE WAS NOT REALLY AWARE THAT CHARLIE HAD A MISTRESS UNTIL THE NIGHT BEFORE THE WEDDING. SHE TOLD HER SISTER SHE DID NOT WANT TO GO THROUGH WITH THE WEDDING, HER SISTER DID NOT TRY TO HELP HER, TOLD DIANA ' TOO LATE DUCKIE YOUR FACE IS ON THE TEA TOWEL' SUCH A HORRIBLE SHAME.

I guess every mom does lol 😂😂😂🥰

My mother also rly admired Princess Diana.

I still remember how my friends and I wanted "Diana haircuts. 💙✌

People are so weird about Diana and the royal family in general. They talk like they know them. It's so strange.

If it makes he happy -good for her!

Yes that was hysterical!!

He is so clever

SO WELL put!!!! lol if only more people could plainly see things this way! 😊

Funny

This is true for many professions. This particular hospital was undergoing budget constraints. The facility was trying to optimize their work pool. There was this instance where a guy that made keys was forced to perform work in a hospital operating room. One day while upgrading oxygen & anesthesia hoses, he mixed up the connections by mistake. Later when the room was in use, the anesthesiologist attempted to give more oxygen but the patient received anesthesia instead. Fortunately the anesthesiologist caught the error before the patient could have been harmed. Unskilled managers are just as dangerous as unskilled workers

She was not that innocent. In the famous interview, she describe he hatred against her step-mother and how she pushed her from the stairs :-/ When Diana died, I was a teenager and believe in the story of poo, innocent victim of evil husband. Now I think that Charles and Diana were just two unhealthy people, raised in loveless, toxic families, with Diana being BPD and Charles being possibly a narcissist. They were each other's nemesis. It simply couldn't work.

She was BPD and had been since childhood

Wasn't Charles in a loveless marriage too then?

I think you are turning around who was the victim here. What chance did Charles have to make this a marriage full of love with a borderliner who self-admittedly screamed at him every day and was so needy and jealous of the attention anyone else got from Charles she made him get rid of his beloved dog and nearly killed William in the womb for attention. Charles was the abused in this scenario and it's no wonder he turned back to Camilla after this living nightmare had cheated on him several times. I don't see (anymore) how she was a beautiful person. She projected this image on their outside and to the media that she used artfully. She even used her little sons to generate bad press for Charles (called the paps to pick up William from school and told him right then and there that she would divorce his dad, which of course made him cry for the world to see).

Well said. Thank-you, my exact thoughts.

I remember getting up at 5 to watch her wedding before hurrying off to work, and what I was doing the night her death was announced on tv. She really was an exceptional person and taken from us way too soon.

Lelleith Murray I was visiting home for Labor Day Weekend, and had just been out to dinner with the family. Came home, turned on the TV, and there was breaking news that she was in a car crash...I really thought she would be ok...It wasn’t possible for her not to be. Sat there glued to the TV most of the night, around 2 to 3am my time, it was announced that she had died. I was devastated. I had just started grad school the week before...that funeral is grilled into my brain....the flowers with the card that said “Mummy” on them...Elton John singing...all of the flowers. Yet another person taken too young, too soon.

I was thinking the same thing. My high school graduation in 1981 fell a month before her wedding and I recall the wedding was the highlight of the summer everywhere on all news networks. In fact, a popular soap opera, Young and the Restless (Y&R) worked it into one of their storylines from the late spring into summer. The next year, I was riveted on the radio during one of my summer jobs, waiting for the announcement of little Prince William's birth. Fast forward to 1997, the world would mourn a beautiful but long suffering soul.

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Just proves being rich is a curse.

This all could have been avoided if he had married Camilla.

The interference from the Press did not help the marriage. First came the publication of a scandalous biography of Diana -- in which she is thought to have cooperated -- depicting Charles as an unfeeling cad who had driven his lovely young wife to attempt suicide. Then came the release of taped phone conversation in which a male admirer breathed heavily into Diana's ear and called her "Squidgy." Weeks later came another tape in which Charles and an old flame, Camilla Parker-Bowles, passionately professed their love for each other, reportedly discussing their "private parts."

Wow that sounds like it'd make a great romance drama movie plot

@@joanlynch5271 which he's married to now...after her death. The guy, Charles has guts. His poor sons...to see the woman your dad actually loved and it's not your mother. So sad!

Different setting/situation and events but I understand what you went through.

@@Rose-xi2ll Same Dynamic. Diana definately had Borderline Personality Disorder with very powerful Narcissistic traits. IMO

@@Stephanie-zd5imeating disorder

It's not accurate at all. She basically turned around who was the abuser and who the victims. And she KNEW that he could not defend himself, ever, because the RF cannot make any statements about private matters like this to the public. She abused the guy, used her sons against him, used the media, leaked info and lies (again, Charles/the RF were unable to correct any of that) and many believe the BS image and lies about Charles (and Camilla) to this day. Wouldn't work anymore today because of the internet (see Meghan Markle).

@@Jade-tf5kb Yes, she had an eating disorder she used as means to self-harm, just like the suicide attempts she terrorized Charles and her sons with.

You’re right. She was obsessed with the Dr and I think it troubled him.

People also forget that she shattered the stigma around AIDS. At that time people didn’t even mention it. (BTW I am glad that you are well.)

I don't know.... When you marry, you take a oath for good or bad, have children..... And your spouse still loved you.... Infedility is down right wrong, it's just pure injustice. People who have gone through spousal adultery know how cruel it is. I still don't like Charles for not trying harder

@@HarlequeenStudio Had he not had to live up to some ridiculous traditions then everyone would have been happier. They were wrong for each other period. She was a teenager and he was emotionaly immature. Given her background she would have probably had problems. It was worst because of the relentless scrutiny and absurd expectations.

@@heidithaw1072 Yes, I deleted my comments. Maybe there are smarter things to do now.

She was such a beautiful soul, a confident woman, and a kind and compassionate humanitarian. She was an amazing woman. And had so much pressure on her shoulders. Her legacy will always remain as a positive, loving woman.

Exactly right. Nobody is at fault here and neither are they angelic. Both are certainly human beings.

So many people seem to forget the fact that Diana was only 19, that should speak volumes regarding the self serving behaviour of the Royals; poor young girl, so badly used by such cunning adults....I live in Britain, hope Charles never gets the crown. People who use children for their own selfish ends deserve no rewards.

@@olasmith8132 She was not a child, she was 19 and a young adult. She had her flaws as well, was quite unstable and also slept with other people's husbands. What was done to her was wrong but she certainly was no angel either.

@@olasmith8132 Diana wanted to marry the PoW for years and did things to make that happen. She wasn't tricked into it. 19 is young but she lived in a world of aristocracy and was well aware of what was going on. Her age and privilege may have convinced her though that once she had him she would change him.

Marriage/relationship with a Narc is always transactional.

If Diana had been older, she may not have married Charles. Surely her sisters could have enlightened her about his relationship with Camilla but she was escaping from an unhappy home and her father was pleased with the match as was the RF, She was embraced by the people and has never fallen from her pedestal.

All pretty normal stuff for marrying into the Royal Family. Princes have always had mistresses.

@@laurastuart3814 I’m not sure what your point is. It clearly wasn’t normal to Princess Diana.

@@laurastuart3814 Not all princes have mistresses. Prince Albert, husband of Queen Victoria did not have a mistress. They were a devoted couple.

@@laurastuart3814 bit over the top Charles was with Camilla soon after William was born she said so in the documentary in her own words this must have destroyed her

She wasn’t royalty before her marriage - she was an aristocrat or part of nobility but not royalty, however you are right that she knew what the role required and unfortunately she was too emotionally insecure for the job.

Its called an Aristocrat. Her father was "Lord" whatever. Something below royalty, but means "old money" for sure.

Applies better to Dr Grande himself.

C-PTSD can indeed be mistaken for BPD when the mental health clinician isn't extremely careful about taking a thorough history and/or discounts ongoing trauma particularly that in childhood. Whilst C-PTSD affects the sufferer you're right in that it definitely isn't as debilitating as BPD. Most people with C-PTSD find it difficult to trust others but their symptoms are more ones that affect their moods and redirect them back to the original traumatic experiences such as intrusive recall, panic attacks, insomnia, nightmares and, at times, self-injurious behaviours as an attempt to distract from the emotional pain they feel due to the abuse and an unfortunate legacy of feeling shame and detesting the physical body that was often the target of past abusers. It's a pity that Diana ended up in a marriage with a man who not only wasn't someone who loved her but who had no understanding of psychological matters and no empathy and who was dismissive of her emotional pain as being, he assumed, just dramatics designed at garnering attention. She deserved someone who genuinely cared about her and was empathetic.

Sounds about right.

@Captain Brandon Punk & Horror Lover yes. Thanks!

@Captain Brandon Punk & Horror Lover cool. Auckland is crap... see everywhere else. 👌

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They both did.

No, there is no love in the world that could make a borderliner happy. She was inititally loved by many men and they all ran away as fast as they could after a couple of months, two years at the latest.

@@michaelbee2165 Thankfully Charles had and still has Camilla, a woman who loved him all his life and through the abuse and lies Diana inflicted on him, the decades of isults and hatred and disgusting allegations she received.

@@phantagirlableagreed

After her separation and divorce she still behaved in a bpd way only it was with many many affairs and man addiction

Fairytales, enough said.

Albert and Victoria, George VI and Elizabeth Bowes Lyon

Probably none

A few but not many!

Totally, how he can find such a brilhant way to explain how been in a royal family is not as appealing as people think it is.

He is very good, and I'm very happy about this video. I asked him doing a video about "Charles and Diana" or maybe "Camilla, Charles and Diana"...best triangol ever...

We stan our snark king. 😊😊👑🙇‍♂️🙇‍♀️🙇🙇

Not everyone is on to the conspiracy side of things... but looking at Diana's bloodline, she was 'chosen" due to that, oh and of course the virgin bride thing went down well too.

A man of intellect and grammar.

I have her autobiography book and I can relate to it in so many ways with the : separated parents, not getting affection, parents arguing.

@Nancy Fox Oh yes. Exactly the same. The apple didn't fall far from the tree!

Another bpd symptom is accusing the nanny tiggy of having an affair with Charles and becoming pregnant .Diana was delusional none of it was true. Another feature is her reckless impulsive promiscuous behaviour. She had one night stands and jumped from Hazmat kaln s bed straight into dodis.. Diana want the fame and admiration and prevleges that came with marrying a prince she was not forced and she new that Charles was still keen on Camilla but married him anyway

While she did a lot of good in her life - however she said when she married Dodi Fyed she would not being doing those various charities works anymore.

I'm sure she'd have been ecstatic at lady dimglow and lady neighbourhood bike. One has all the personality of a depressed Golem and the other is the only girl who's played with more short throw stick shifts than Stirling bloody Moss.

She was young and totally unprepared for marriage. She did say that when she became pregnant with William that this actually helped her for a time and her and Charles actually became closer. Unfortunately it didn't last. They were just so incredibly uncompatible. I also see Charles as a victim as well. He made it clear when he met Camilla that she was the one and wanted to marry her. She eas not considered marriage material for the royal family, although today this would be different. He was being pressured by his family to get on with it and Diana ticked all the boxes. I think he would have liked more time to get to know her as I think he sensed they may not be suited to each other. He was pressured by the entire family and did it. It was obviously a mistake. Of course he could have been kinder, but I think her depression, bulimia and mood swings were something he wasn't equipped to handle. I have read that he tried to get her help and was always quite concerned about her mental state. It's a shame because if she lived, I am sure they would both be happily married and maybe even friendly as the old wounds healed and became wiser.

That doesn't matter plenty of women were young back then and got married at 17 and 18 years old and 19 years old. The '80s was the last generation they did it. Diana was just immature and mentally unstable. She wasn't innocent victim she had sex with. The '80s was the last generation they did it. Diana was just immature and mentally unstable. She wasn't innocent victim she had intimacy with other men doing the marriage and she went behind her husband's back and tried to expose him and his family to the world and she did do that. She passed away because of her own undoing

I think she would have been very disappointed in one of them ... he hasn’t turned out very well

@@rosiehawtrey Your comment is nothing but a litany of immature, embittered, spiteful insults. What is your problem?

Sooo true

Why r u upside-down

So true! She was only struggling with her abusers obviously.

I feel this in my bones.

Good point Also the fact around her death suggests there is even more to the story than the public knows The official investigation into her death came to some interesting conclusions - which were misrepresented/misunderstood/misintepreted by the media afterwards For example: it was not paparazzi who followed her information was withheld by different people - untill later where the story was mostly forgotten

Totally agree !!

I asked for this😍 So I'm not surprised.

@Help your cat to drive. It has nothing to do with the video, but I love your name 😻 If I could teach my cats to drive, I would have a little army of chauffeurs 😂

You can't serve two master's!

What cars do cats prefer to drive?

Diana's emotional problems began in childhood. Marrying into the royal family sure didn't help, but she felt worthless the day her mom moved out and left her crying on the steps and her dad would not let her see her mom. Her and her young brother were too young to understand completely why her mom dropped out of their lives for so long. Her sisters were older, although it is interesting to note that second child Sarah was anorexic for a time. Oldest sister Jane seems to have been a lot more stable.

That would be absolutely devastating to me. I look at her and think 'There go I but by the grace of God'.

@@a.nonymous2089 to be fair, she never stated that her parents divorce made her feel worthless. she just said it was an emotionally volatile environment, and an unhappy childhood. traumatic life experiences doesn't equate to impacted self-image. when she reflected on herself, at school, with friends, siblings, working... she was very self -assured. saying that she knew she was meant for something really important and that is why she avoided getting into trouble in her teens. these are all statements of someone with a strong sense of self, very articulate and aware.

Me too

Exactly she was looking for love from her husband but he was not available in the relationship! This whole situation is sad

She let paparrazzi know where she would be at certain times and places for PR purposes..NOT nearly most of the time when they made her life a living hell. That's what I hate about this new narrative that she brought it all on herself. If you look back at old vids she was clearly not enjoying herself with those clowns all in her face at every turn.

@@katpleroux7756 Listen to Richard Kay who was her primary journo. Diana had a direct line to him. Diana would call him every morning at 9'clock. Piers Morgan was another favoured direct contact. Diana also had her favourite photographers she would tip off. Diana's constant use of the media for her own personal gain is not a new narrative it is a well known established fact. I live in Australia and when I visited London in 1990 I asked my brother who lived in London what he thought about Diana. As it happened he didn't have a very high opinion of her because he said she was always tipping off the media and everyone knew it. Diana was a complicated woman of contradictions. She was also contrary. Journalists have talked about how she would call them up to tip them off and then at times complain when they showed up. The point is while Diana was intently and deliberately stealing the limelight from other members of the Royal Family their Charitable work was going largely unreported by the media and this of course meant that their Charities weren't recieving proper attention by the media which could in turn affect funding to those Charities. The fact is Diana could not live without the constant attention from the media! Her desire for attention was insatiable! Sadly her very high profile and fame worked against her in the end.

@@spiritmatter1553 where did you hear this rumor?

@@funclassylassy4426 I suspect he got it from Christopher Hitchen's book. "The Missionary Position." It's a "tell all" book about all of the "unsaintly" things Mother Teresa did in her life. It's a cruise missile for sure. That being said, when I go over and spend my life in Calcutta living and dealing with the dregs of society and with the poor and disabled day after day then I figure I can criticize her. No one is perfect. Even Mother Teresa.

@@funclassylassy4426 It’s not a rumour. The money was given to her. For the poor & she gave it to the ‘church’. She was a wee bit vile.

Technically, Diana wasn't "forced" into her position.

@@kkheflin3 Whose only motivation for the book would have been his hatred of Christianity, generally and Christians specifically. There will always be cowards who try to tear people down after they die, but are without the courage to do so while the person is still alive.

There was precedent. Edward abdicated when he was in a similar position. But Charles was so desperate to be king he refused. I have little, if any, sympathy for him.

I remember during the wedding broadcast commentary that she first dated his brother, Andrew. There was some talk that the jilted Andrew might pull a prank with Charles' honeymoon suitcase.

@@kinkyscartoons don’t be ugly. It only makes you “ look” bad

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Initially Diana was truly in love with Charles. She probably knew it wasn't the right thing but wouldn't concede for appearances sake. Eventually she felt deceived and used.

IMHO, they needed a younger woman like Lady Di to provide the proverbial "heir & a spare." I think Lady Di loved the idea of being married to Chas., but when reality set in, she realized was set up to fail by just about everyone involved. Camilla ('Ol Horseface) was not acceptable by the old fashioned Royal family due to her romance/marriage record.

She thought that it was her destiny to marry him.

And boy was she naive.....only way anyone could get themselves into that sort of a situation.

@@joanlynch5271 I guess Meghan's destiny is to marry Prince Harry. Same logic.

@E Aboudara I agree. She actually said she had a crush on him as a child, had his picture hanging over her bed. She also stated she knew (at least she thought at the time) they could never divorce. (As if that could make happiness) I think she was too naive, immature and emotionally damaged from her childhood and wanted a protector. I also think Charles wanted a mother figure, someone to dote on him. They both were looking for what they could receive from the marriage emotionally instead of how much they could support each other, have each other's back and build each other up. It was a marriage based on emotional selfishness and doomed for failure. Both sides have to give what the other needs....like the book The Five Love Languages.

I disagree that Charles "planned" anything. Like Diana, they both gave it their best shot, but they were just not a good match. Both Charles and Diana were basically good people, but like all of us they had flaws.

What is the difference? I'm not familiar with the concepts

Royalty is the actual queen, king, princes and princesses, etc. Nobility is, I think, the aristocracy - - Diana on her own, before marrying Charles, was a Lady. Her father became an earl. These titles were invented in order to organize society.

@@bluecollarlit oh, thank you!

@@sandrianah : Lizards? C'mon please tell me you're joking. the RF are closer to being commoners than any of the "royals" in the past 1000 years. In order to find non-catholics to take the throne after Queen Anne died with no living heirs, parliament had to bypass over 50 other candidates until they found protestant, Electorate Georg in a podunk little fiefdom in Germany. He & his family were basically hicks. They're NOT all that special. And certainly not reptiles. They're APES....like the rest of us. :)

@@bluecollarlit I'd say those titles were invented to allow the elite to remain the elite. It wasn't about society because there was no society. The elite could kill commoners at will until a few hundred years ago. The elite and the church had everything, the people had nothing. And that's how they wanted it to stay. We still have the House of Lords ffs, it's utterly ridiculous. I have nothing against Queenie as a person, she seems a nice enough old bird. But the whole concept is insanity in this day and age. They are not special, nobody is born special. Humans are humans.

I think this could be that she is borderline, but I also think she is something they call communal/humanitarian narcissist, doing this humanitarian work was a source of her narcissistic supply, else she would be an empty hole. Also, I do not think she was a fit mother, simply because a mother so fragmented and a mental wreck as she was, cannot be a good mother.

Diana was 19, far from being an adolescent. Diana always lived a privileged life, which is much easier than working for a living.

She was getting her life together she would have been great because she was becoming her own woman and looking her best. As the song says looking for love in all the wrong faces

@@deborahmcgee7970 She might have been looking her best but she was still playing reckless games with other peoples emotions. She tipped the paps off when she was on the yacht with Dodi to take the kiss photo to make Haznat Kahn jealous. I believe had she lived Diana would have had a few more marriages and acrimonious divorces with Diana always blaming the hapless husband. I have no doubt that she would have been involved in more scandals. I think she would have become some sort of Society Hostess in New York raising money for Charities hosting Dinners at $100,000 a plate.

That's not what happened at all. Fortunately there is a youtube video which shows exactly what did happen. Diana was persuaded by the professor to play something. She appeared to be quite embarrassed and practically ran out if the room after playing several bars of what everyone knows is a quite difficult piece. Charles bowed twice on a cello.

Stop spreading lies without checking facts.😄

@@shema3579 She was asked to bring William by the Australian PM at the time. Proven fact.

Yes, I remember thinking that she tried to show him up. She wasn't a supportive partner.

@@wf4758 He wasn't a supportive partner either.

Interesting... though I know more than one person who has both Barbara Courtland books and books on Eastern Religion on their bookshelves.

She was 19, a kindergarten teacher, and not a royal but aristocrats; I mean not trained compared to Charles.

@@wendyleeconnelly2939 I can believe that. If someone were to see the mix of books I have they might think three people were living in my space or that I was a multiple personality!

Bear in mind she was still a teen when they got engaged. She did read more serious stuff as she got older.

@@sarahpiaggio2693 That's an excellent point! My own reading became more serious over the years and Diana probably had the same experience of moving beyond what interested her at 19.

I had six attending my first time around, and over a hundred the second time, and most of them were complete strangers, and I felt more at home the second time.

I think Camilla gave Charles those cufflinks that day.

@@donnahilton471 she did! There is a documentary on you tube. Her raw natural videos explaining herself.

right! when i got married i just wanted to get the day over with

She pursued that wedding, all she git was her choice

Catherine did yes but i cant say the same of Markle and she was in her late thirties when she became a Royal where as Diana was only nineteen and very naive...

@Krafty Kreator She wasn't PUT INTO a difficult situation. She knew about the relationship between Charles and Camilla yet she married anyway. She was naive to think she would win that battle. There are some things she had to take responsibility for. I think she did a lot of living and learning. The fact that she moved on after the divorce shoes that she had done some personal growth. I'm the end, she was cordial to Charles and wished him well and carried on with her life. It made her more confident with the paparazzi and public life.

Diana’s sister had dated King Charles and the family had a relationship with the royal family. She was of aristocratic bloodline and would of been more familiar with the royal family than a commoner would of. She did have a time to back out of the engagement. She had affairs first before King Charles got back together with Queen Camilla. She didn’t want the marriage to be over, King charles and the other royals didn’t know why Diana was always upset and sad. They thought she would fit into the royal family

@@barbo1106 She should have apologized to Charles for all the abuse and the lies she spread about him.

@@barbo1106 Where are these divorce shoes, can I buy some please 🙂

William lost that silly hide behind you fringe eyes up eyes down coy thing as he got older . Diana kept that inteilgant look all her life..

16:58un. Intelligent look

What work? ...

If I was Kate I'd have walked in the church, walked past the alter and legged it to a Charger 440 6 pack all warmed up and ready and got the hell out in Dodge... Flat out. Dealing with that family is like breeding crocodile monitors stark bollockless naked..

I think it was very wise of kate and Wills to have such a long courtship.

Wow I would done the same

Because you have no personality

why? you beLIEve you are enTITled to be a 'fairy princess' too? Hope you didn't Mary a frog as she did.. lol

We all loved her.

Sue, Thanks for sharing the memory. I'm imagining your dress.

The car recently had been a salvage vehicle, was pulled out of salvage, and was serviced. The problem was that the two back seatbelts were broken and inoperable when Diana and Dodi got into the back.

I also have the feeling that Diana was turning it into a race. Also who tipped the paps off when they arrived at the hotel? They entered via a back entrance and went straight up to the Imperial Suite. And someone obvious tipped them off that they were leaving the Ritz again otherwise the paps would have just assumed that they would stay the night at the hotel which was their original plan!

Her life exposed her to the royals regularly growing up. She understood the exoectations very well. Better than over 90% of us.

She could be very cutting in private, and often made terrible comments about the people she had met. When in Aust, the staff in a hotel where she and Charles stayed were devastated by how rude she was and how terribly she spoke to Charles in front of them. He was apparently very patient and kind to her, but her moods were terrible. She talked about suffering, but he really did. He did really care for her.

@Don’t come for me unless I send for you 🤷 Spot on! Still, the lady WAS unhappy,, this has a devastating effect on someone which affects the people around them.

​@Don’t come for me unless I send for you 🤷 Such bull💩 Both men have good & bad qualities. Neither is all good or all bad.

@@tonihazle2034 Diana was always unhappy if she wasn't the centre of attention. James Hewitt said that Diana could not be filled up with love and that no amount of attention was ever enough for her. He spoke of her extreme emotional neediness and impossible demands for attention. Other men found the same. She was even frustrated at the amount of time Haznat Khan used to spend in Surgery. Staff at the hospital spoke about how Diana used to phone up to 6 times in a row using different names to get him to the phone when he was in Surgery. Can you believe that? Where was her concern for Haznat's patients! She even phoned Paul Burrell from Dodi's yacht complaining that Dodi spent too much time in the bathroom and wasn't giving her enough attention! Charles tried very hard in the beginning to please Diana but there is no way he could have given her the amount of attention she demanded. No man could!

There was plenty of love in her life. Many men loved her but there is no amount of love or good men that can make a borderliner happy. Poor Charles and poor William and Harry (the latter of whom has been messed up for life).

@E Aboudara I don't know about bringing her own death upon herself,it could have been an accident caused by the driver trying to flee the paparazzy and one cannot blame Diana for that, as they willl chase anyone who is famous to get a story, it is their job after all,Diana was known to fight for the "underdog" she also was against war and she fought against landmines that continue killing innocent people even after a war has eneded, people loved her and were taking notice of her, this must have been a threat to those who make a fortune selling arms, they are warmonger because they make their money as long as there are wars and so anyone who would influence the public about the destruction war causes in this word would be a threat to them and that person would need to be eliminated.This is not a conspiracy theory on my part,it is quite possible in this corrupt and greedy world.For all her faults Diana was a true humanitarian unlike that fraud called Meghan markle.

@E Aboudara well... she wasn't driving the vehicle she was in. so unless we knew for a fact that she was goading the driver into driving faster, or pressuring him into drinking (do we know those things? i know generally what happened but not granular details) But unless she played an active role in any of the behaviors of the driver of her car, or the drivers of cars following them, the best we can say is she put herself in dicey situations. But she did not cause her own death.

yvette vernet yvette vernet imagine a complete stranger saying ... “that fraud Yvette Vernet (or whatever your real name is). One of the worst things about the great internet is the keyboard bullies. Yes, what you just did there is bullying. ... internet comment section: a vicious and unforgiving environment.

@@goosesmommy6626 Everyone has seen how Meghan markle has been behaving since she met Harry,how she has isolated him from his family and how she has rejected her own family except her mother,if you did not see it then you are wilfully blind,I grew up with a narcissistic mother who was very much like Meghan Markle in many ways and I would also call her a fraud,as she also was very good as coming across as "the victim" you are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to mine,I certainly am not a bully for voicing that opinion.

@@yvettevernet4759 markle I think initially really believed SHE was going to modernize the monarchy fast. She as I believe a narcissist would not think about Diana's experience except to have contempt at her failure. When Markle realized the Queen wasn't going to move the world for her, that the royal life was dull, having a baby didnt change the routines and responsibilities, so plan B was to drag Harry out, and make money off the royal brand, but the wise Queen has kept on top of it. I feel bad for Harry who reminds me of Diana in personality.

You are in for a treat!

Wishing you well, there are great videos from Dr. Grande, check out Marylin's. Was great 💙

Why?

Welcome.

@@tdang9528 why am I self isolating? Because my son is being tested for Covid19 today and while waiting for results we aren't allowed to interact with people (here in Ireland)

I noticed that too. A real American understanding of royalty (I'm Canadian), but balanced and I'm a huge fan of Dr. Grande.

@@margaretmcgill526 If you noticed that when Meghan married Harry the US kept saying that America finally had a princess, and this Canadian just rolled her eyes thinking no you don't.

Meghan was born in California, and lived there most her life. She just worked in Canada. Also the Spencer family is older than the Windsor family.

@@sharhenley I don't think anybody implied that SHE was Canadian.

@@sharhenley I think the Canadian mention was because Canada is in the Commonwealth Realm, and this the Queen is their monarch, not anything to do with Meghan.

Freddie was a vile person. Yes he was a fantastic performer and has an unparalleled voice. But I lost respect for the man after reading and watching material about his life. I didn't know that he hired underage boys for sex. This was hidden from his fans, which I was one of until knowing this.

Where did you read that?

@@lynncrf internet.

@@lynnv8501 What about all the rockstars who had sex with underage girls? Which was pretty much all of them in the 70s. Are they all vile people too?

@@jonnylumberjack6223 that's right. Jimmy Page took an underage girl on tour. I think she was 16. No one did anything except look the other way The stories are there if you look for them. And yes if course pedophilia is vile. Why would you even have to ask a question like that?

She really loved her fans!

Not dead. She goes by the name of David Furnish now.

@@mikeformisano764 You know ....as crazy as its sound , I'm not surprised.

@@mikeformisano764 😂

@@littlesoul9618 Yup, they dont call it Hollyweird for nothing.

I suspect that the wives of the married men (plural) that she slept with might not feel that her vulnerabilities justified the damage she caused

@@wf4758 Those wives suffered because of their own husband's actions. Hoare had cheated on his wife with another woman, before doing it again with Diana. Men are responsible for their own actions.

@@myfemvideo Doesn't change the fact that Diana chose to cheat with married men while crying about the pain of being cheated on by her own husband.

@@myfemvideo And I suppose the mistresses have none.

@@DannyBoy777777 That's right. Diana made no vow to the betrayed wives. Her vow and betrayal was to Charles.

Yeah, was tragic how the Royal family knocked her off. The mystery Fiat Uno that could outrun a S500 Merc - we used to own one A447MAR and the only way you could hit 60mph in less than 20 seconds was to tie a JATO pack to the roof - not to mention it had the all the body rigidity of a cereal box with delusions of grandeur... And the only way you'd get one to do over the tonne was to drop it off the side of Big Ben. She was an inconvenience that was deinconvenienced - and they probably would have gotten away with it if it wasn't for that pesky old bat and the flag lowering argument.

The Spencers were of a higher class than the German Windsors so he was not marry anyone beneath him - just far too young and inexperienced for the older experienced Charles. He had to settle down and bride had to be pure.

@@1928gerry the word is still Nobility, not Royalty.

Thank you.

@@1928gerry The Spencers, being nobility, are *not* of higher class than the Windsors, who are royalty. Perhaps you're thinking of elegance, but the highest possible class is royalty and nobles are very definitely below royalty.

She was related to Winston Churchill

YES!!

That would be great 💙

Yes, I would love you to do grace Kelly, what a story!!!! 🐕🐕🐕

I danced at their wedding in Monte Carlo

@@DardanellesBy108 I had been dancing in ‘The Monte Carlo Ballet ‘prior to the event and was delighted to be asked again to dance at their Wedding !It was a very exciting time ! Rubbing shoulders with Royalty .and Elites of Europe !

She definitely did many good deeds around the world. She will always be a Princess Worldwide

@@kimsmith819 I agree 💙

Stefan Nikola , I think you make an excellent point. I’m an introvert, and it would make me miserable to have to live my life in the public eye like that.

She loved to be photographed. Even on Dodi's boat she asked a friend to take pictures of her and posed for the pictures. She loved the publicity.

You thought that because you are shallow and superficial yourself 👊

The truth does that to some people.💕

She was killed for shoving two fingers up at the Monarchy And threatening to bring Charles and the Monarchy down. Starting with the Panorama Interview. She had become a loose cannon. She was not killed for being nice.

She was "killed?" Please identify your. Evidence and the Source.

100% accurate. You were an incredibly astute child! ❤

@@marigold6920 bcs she’s had enough