Did He Just Get Friendzoned? ⚠️💔 Catfish: The TV Show Season 9 

Honestly it only seems like she just wants to be friends maybe? but that other part is definitely valid

Don't call someone your soulmate unless you mean it.

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@@oag2167some soulmates can be platonic

@@misnaminglove2748 They were speaking to each other romantically.

She should've told him herself online

Nah because if you can call someone your soul mate you should be able to tell them the truth as well, that's weird. I totally get everything else, but that doesn't add up. "You're my soul mate but I don't see a future with you" ... she plays games

@@MizzKillercultyea she was dead wrong for that and I feel like at the end of the actual epi idk maybe I was too high but I felt like she def was just making herself look good😭 like esp when she was saying bye

@Maddie-fk2tx yeah and she wasn't at all remorseful, did she even apologize for cat fishing????? I'm high right now so I don't remember myself

I mean not catfishing him, but constantly dodging him and lying to him about what she wants. Because if I think you're my soul mate I'm going to want to be with you romantically. I mean I believe soulmates can be friends, but it seems she didn't specify that it was a friend soulmate relationship situation either. She should have apologized

*SHE not *HE she been knew she had kids

Did she not KNOW she had two children when she was talking about her ring size with him???

They're so cute 😂

@@ArielAngelique1 fr. 😩❤️

It looked like a scene from the 18th century, where couples could only walk together with chaperones behind them lol.

😂😂😂

There all like hiiii 😁👋🏾 knowing they were just whispering 😂😂

especially when she has children on top of that!

she should’ve never called him her soulmate either though her having kids and wanting something stable is valid but she was dead wrong for saying that to him if she didn’t mean it especially

I agree with that

She wants a man who's financially stable yet she's leading on a man who is not financially stable, she makes no sense.

Facts!! Look I want somone who can handle their business.

Nah thats lame. You not bout to fwm when i got stuff

@@AkinoSominoCookierzto be fairrrrr she does have two kids and is a single mother, it’s valid to want something stable etc but yea no the way she did him was dirty :(

​@AkinoSominoCookierz and she wasn't going to get used when you don't got stuff.

@@girlcalledmango ppl dont care bout that

Leeching off a single parent is grimy. Glad she has sense.

She had no choice at that point, did she? She was forced into it. Almost all the catfish give it up when they're finally face-to-face with the problem they've been dodging. The problem is that she was doing ALL the sugarcoating for the last 3 years! If she had been honest with him before this point, he would've been under no illusions that he had any chance with her. I feel like she wanted the emotional connection/support from him while, - unbeknownst to him - keeping him at a distance due to his financial situation. There's nothing admirable about that. She's just as much of a leech as she was afraid he would be. He could've been pursuing something or someone else if he had known he had no future with her.

Too bad she couldn't be that "real" with him over the last 3 years.

@@anyaw340 facts tho 😂

Always!

Per usual.. she's gorgeous 🥰🥰

I would as long as his intentions are pure but as long as he is workin to get to dat point I’m ok dats just me tho

Yep and she has kids so she doesn’t have the luxury of waiting for a man to become stable. She needs a man to come into the relationship already together.

​@@drewrites4613yes a single mom trying to tell somebody else they should have they life together while she's playing and leading people on. He should be happy she not that attractive and she just looking for a daddy

@@ccmcgaming327you can have your life together as a single mom

@@ccmcgaming327 Well, that’s another way to look at it. I don’t disagree. Ultimately, as a single parent you mess around and date someone who doesn’t have their stuff together and it’s just like having another kid to take care of.

I would say he wanted her he pursued her on the show and tried multiple times to see her on camera I just feel she could have said what she told him in person she’s right tho

He's young. He has plenty of time to make it. If he loves her, he's not going to let his temporary circumstances prevent him from pursuing her. She just should've been honest about what she was looking for, and her concerns, from the beginning, and not engage in the lovey dovey talk with someone you don't see a future with. She wanted the emotional support/connection without the realness of a relationship with him.

Thank you

While that's true, her texts say she meant otherwise. She didn't want him to come to Florida precisely because she knew there was a romantic pretext underlying their interactions, and she didn't want a relationship with him. But even if she meant it only in a "spiritual"sense, if you're going to use that word, you need to make clear what you mean. Everyone knows that "soulmate" in its standard form refers to a romantic relationship. Like every word, there is the primary definition, and then there are other less commonly used meanings. If someone calls you the "B word", chances are they're insulting you, not mistaking you for a female dog. Likewise, if someone calls you their "soulmate", chances are they're using it in the romantic sense, not a platonic sense. There was a lot in those texts that looked romantic - and that's only what they showed. She seemed like she wanted the emotional connection/love/adoration from him without having to actually be with him. That's why she kept talking about how she liked things the way they are; she liked the idea of him. There's nothing wrong with having standards, but she should've told him all of that a long time ago, and don't call him "soulmate" or engage in conversations about your ring size. 🙄 She 100% led him on.

They was talking about rings stop pretending she was right she led dude on for 3 years and you know it no man considers a chick they not with their soulmate that's a women excuse.

He never said that was the first thing they were going to do. It could've just been aspirational - a goal. He talked about just meeting her when he got to Florida, not just automatically moving in.

@@anyaw340 ok girly, keep believing that. There’s a reason why she was so apprehensive.

​@@KpTheGbe cause she was a liar

If he can’t find one in LA then he doesn’t want to work

Thank you.....

Yea she was dead wrong for that :/

Instead, she took advantage of him. You don't have to hurt other people to look out for yourself. If she didn't see a future with him, she should've been honest about it and not led him on for so long.

@@anyaw340 in three years passed what had he accomplished to show her he wants her?

@@anyaw340 Took advantage of him how? They just chatted. Did I miss something in the clip where she asked him for something ?

@@bisonchickaright actually she gave him $$

doesn’t matter, She could’ve nipped it before but she didn’t and that’s what’s wrong she lead him on, she didn’t even seem to ever have feelings to begin w

She is 100% to blame. Not telling him how she truly felt while leading him on for 3 years is not minor. She didn't just suddenly find out he was financially unstable. He could've been focusing on something or someone else for all that time. Instead, she led him on and he had his hopes up for nothing. Totally unfair to him, when he was honest about his situation.

Don't engage in a romantic relationship and talk about your ring size with a "broke" person you don't truly want.

Then why should they get to benefit when your doing good if somebody can't love you at your lowest they won't at your highest she had 3 years to tell him that and didn't

Yall.. it was an internet relationship. It couldn't have been that serious.

2 - 3 full-time jobs

@@HouseJudgesyears 14-24 is for working nonstop 💪🏽

@@kno3730 14-64 is the norm....

@@AnnWright-jb2dw 14-24 All work no play. Stack stack stack. 25-35 find a partner to build with. 40-50 work some more/raise a family. 60- relaaaaax. That’s how it should be. 20 years of working 20 years of building.

💀 literal lol!

A DJ?? See, I almost had sympathy for him. Thought he was hustling at a drive-thru. DJ?? Gtfoh, Bruh.

@@mundaneamazingWhat’s wrong with being a DJ? Calvin Harris and Benny Blanco are both highly respected and beloved DJs. Sebastian said from the start that he was a DJ so idk where you got a drive thru from.

@@lydiaboll2872perhaps they didn’t see the entire episode to know he is a struggling DJ

She's wrong for leading him on and not just telling that long before this. She's wrong for leeching off of him emotionally, while not wanting a relationship with him because she doesn't want him to be a leech financially. She wanted to have her cake and eat it to, and when it finally become real, she finally had to be truthful about her intentions.

I dont think she intended to lead him on, They established an emotional connection, and she really did have feelings for him. But over time, she saw a pattern with him after the connection was established. Instead of it being a temporary thing like oh i lost my job... its oh... so you can never keep a job or?

Right??😂😂 it’s was a hint on what was to come 😂😂

😂😂

Same

You can’t always assume you would always be friend zoned!

People do want partners or providers. Just make sure you find the right connection and want.

Yes you can lol alot of times it happens just like this lies and excuses. Women are quick to dis a man for not supposedly having they life together. Men take women regardless she a single mom talking about somebody else's stability she just a want a daddy and a check​@@Kassie.r87

You're a wise man unc.

They will show up unexpectedly, just make sure you are open enough to recognize it

And hurting someone else by leading them on for years. She could've done this a long time ago, but she wanted the emotional connection without actually committing to him. Horrible.

@@anyaw340 that man needed somewhere to stay lol what is she to do with another dependent

None of that has anything to do with her not telling him. She engaged in a romantic relationship with him without ever telling him how she truly felt about a future with him in his current state. She strung him along until he couldn't anymore. That's horrible.

Moved in with someone else

I don't think they ever put the new seasons on Hulu. I think it's just the archived eps.

@@mundaneamazing i hope they do its the only way i can watch it besides whatever they put on yt😭😭

He's rebranding since he got an earring

Seriously. Man needs to get his life together. Not the time to date.

Here's another one: Don't talk to people if you're not going to be clear that all you ever want to do is talk. He did nothing wrong. He could've left her alone if he knew she didn't want a relationship with someone in his financial predicament. Instead, she strung him along until she couldn't anymore. You shouldn't leech off of someone emotionally anymore than you should leech off of them financially.

It would be very foolish of her to allow a grown man who is financially unstable to live with her and her children. She doesn't need another dependent. If he doesn't have his life together he shouldn't be worried about shacking up, he should be worried about being a man that can stand on his own. It's not her job to carry him because she's already carrying enough.

@@SweetBeeNaturalcouldn’t have said it better myself. Thank you…

she is absolutely doing the right thing this dude is not financially right

Well said

Money? Or a job and able to support themselves?

Tf that gotta do with anything

@@RainDontExist BITCH EVERYTHING! TF!!

@@RainDontExistBITCH EVERYTHING!!! TF! But like most u just read the part of me observing how short he is and ran with it MISSING the AND part in the sentence! Carry on

...totally!

Right!!

She is taking care of two kids on her own. Why would she move a stranger into her home. Thats nothing about Capitalism its common sense. She dont know him.

Would it help you to know this man is an often out-of-work "dj"?

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He didn’t get something going in three years though? 🤔🙄🤷🏽‍♀️