Don't let people's perspectives bring you down, you've proven to be a strong and hardworking lady ❤❤❤. Stay positive, continue trusting and believing in God, all shall be well 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻, hugs beautiful ❤️❤️❤️.
"Broke men are dangerous...especially broke men with scarcity mentality..." that's one of the bluntest but most real things I've heard. Its better to date and marry when both the man and lady have substantial amounts of money. But in Kenya where so many earn so little if the average man spends even sh200 on a lady and does not get what he was expecting it becomes a life and death issue
Yes, people can fake niceness. People can buy love, abuse and manipulate. If we are not spiritually alert, we will fall victim. I fell into that trap coz I too was vulnerable. Not anymore. Proud of you, girl. Sending love, hugs, prayers, healing and light. You'll be ok. Jah bless. ❤❤❤
Experience is the best teacher, everyone makes mistakes but very few learn from them and unfortunately majority are held back from living because of past experiences.
When a man knows also you going to depend on them because they have money and you there for it they will take advantage but when you are both productive there is somw respect in both parties
Honestly speaking, you are doing great. Move on with life and leave the issue of your ex alone. You said your own part of the story but no knows the guys part if the story yet every time your content it's about my ex husband, My uk husband. Leave everything to God or whatever you believe in, let God be the judge.
With all due respect, ma'am, I will create content based on what my audience has loved in the past. And most people subscribed because of this very topic. Whether I've moved on or not is for me to know.
@joy979 if this is not your type of content just watch other videos. I personally love this type of content. At least I'm being enlightened and others as well
This video is super educative especially for young people who are looking to get into long term relationships. It's appaling that some people are hooking on to the word husband and bashing this gal instead of learning from her. She hardly dwelt on the husband, unlike the haters Oh yes she got papers, she is in the UK, you go get your papers too, who's holding you? Seen someone with 3 subscribers and zero content bashing her😢😢😢. Oh dear, go create your content so we can help you grow too.... Acha wivu
I watched your vidéo about your ex husband and I think he was really weird ,I believe what you said about him but I also think you didn't love him , I think you use him to get to the UK and papers cause you knew he was weird, he use to visit you and spend time with you buut you didn't leave you waited and waited still you get to the UK. You're hurt but he must be hurt too when he realise you pretend the whole time and didn't love him for him still you got to the UK and act like you just realise he is a type of way I'm glad you're safe where you are
Nothing but facts. Men need to be very careful too now a days because there are a lot of pretenders out there looking for who ti to use and get to where they wanna be. Sad😢.
I think money should be one of the least reasons for you to date someone. The affinity of most ladies towards money has resulted,and is evident by the number of femicides we see. The problem is that we are not patient with ourselves as young people. Love should lead the way first, material things can be acquired even overnight.*Again this is not to support men to be lazy*
Your locks are beautiful! Love will find you. The right person for you will find their way to you . Ignore the negative callous people throwing stones and pointing fingers, there are four fingers pointing right back at them. Prople who judge have no basis and that same attitude will be the curse on their own lives. They are dark idle spirits. Ignore them. They are harming themselves. Their words hold no value. Just hot air. Keep on being you. They dont have an 1/8th of what you have. Your goodness will take you far!! Blessings always. xoxo
The man being resent because a woman has more money than him is fact. My just ended relationship was a struggle because of this fact. In future, I want a man who has or makes more than me.
I love that you spoke about, gentle love, but in a world that is attached to money as a requirement. I don't think it is possible to find they kind of love you desire. Relationship is about building each other. The are very good guys who are not financial stable but have good ideas and knowledge. Problem can be that they need to meet with a partner like you but because of requirements, you cannot connect.
Its very difficult to have a man who provides those 2 money and emotional availability If hes spending or investing on you thats about it. He may not necessarily be there for you emotionally For me i decided to focus on self love Relationships haven't been able to offer me much
It is a measure of love in the beginning stages because it will what determine if he will be a provider husband. And also even if he manipulated you for money you will be able to see those in the early stages of dating before marrying him.
I agree but don’t explain yourself to idiots they must be jealous when something good is coming or level up this happens with many people , I got accused like that too don’t worry yourself keep your peace of mind xx I don’t see them attacking evil people like themselves they act blind to it my dear get close to Jesus and watch him put everything in place & stay with God no matter what if you aren’t baptised learn more about God and make the decision x stay blessed
There's a fridge I want but I'm waiting for when it's on offer. Do I have a scarcity mentality or I'm just broke 🤔 😅 Another thing I realised about men who earn less than their woman is that many have low self-esteem. Any disagreement they immediately think it's because you earn more.
I don’t think you’re in a position to give advice, you came to a country with a man you knew nothing about, with no support outside your relationship. You have bee completely reliant on the British taxpayers. There is millions of British people homeless. And millions of African single mothers, struggling due to poor judgement and lack of common sense. You have a lot to learn 🇬🇧🇯🇲
You married for papers. You knew that man was weird. You never loved or plan to love him. Granted, I do believe he is everything you said about him. I just don't think you went into the relationship for love. You took a risk and it didn't work the way you wanted, but it worked in another way. I hold no judgement if you did, but just don't pretend as if that was not the case.
You busy texting here because you think of if you got married you will be married for paper and you are blaming every person because you would be married for the reason you are saying ..style up and think like a noble person ..people have money here its just that they don't show .....suck it up if you think soo then so be you not her ...
@@nuruskitchenandfamily honey, happily married to a black man right from my Island for 15 years and counting. We travel the world together and return to our home. I know much more than you ever will.
@@nuruskitchenandfamily papers are different from money. I never mentioned anything about money. Marrying a citizen is the easiest and quickest way to get your papers whether you have money or not. She knows what she did. And as I said before, I have no issues with that. She just needs to stop pretending. Just get herself sorted out quietly and stop complaining and seeking sympathy
@@justforphone1318 dont assume that you know more than the person who is in that relationship and that woman I know her very well she was never married for papers as well ...
You just got married for paper that's all, and please stop using your ex husband or why you left your UK husband just to make views, almost all your videos revolve around your ex. You're divorced so get over it and stop lying to people.
