She was in a DV relationship. You clearly have 0 idea how they go, so maybe… don’t question the decisions someone makes when they’re in a relationship where they’re getting assaulted? Also, where does she say she can’t afford her children? She couldn’t afford the upfront 4k for the lawyers fees but that is not equal to not affording her children. This being you’re only takeaway from this is extremely telling,
She definitely didn't bet she'd have a kid with such disabilities. So she's using that as an excuse, plus we all know she wasn't an angel in her marriage
Judy is so biased always in the man’s favor. She is so rude to this woman talking about her having another kid and then saying she doesn’t look like a prize. Who the hell does she thinks she is? This woman did not seem like a nut nor did she seem irresponsible she takes care of her special needs child. And what business is it of Judy’s if she happens to have another child with her fiancé ‘? Give me a break! There are a lot of manipulative men out there who have ulterior motives for giving a beautiful woman things . Stop being so discriminatory against women!
@@MsFlame54this 100%. This guy came into a lot of money and decided to give this woman some and when she rejected his advances, he demanded it back. Everyone claiming she’s awful clearly haven’t been in a situation where a man attempts to give them things in order to manipulate. He saw a vulnerable woman, which no one can deny considering she just left a DV relationship, is on welfare and has a disabled child, and thought he could throw money at her (that she needed and he knew that) and she would sleep with him.
She never said she wasn’t comfortable, she said she wasn’t sure because it was an ongoing case. Did you even listen? Also, so what she mentioned she was assaulted? Are all victims meant to stay hushed up about their assault?
@@brackenrobertson799 Girl hush. Court cases are public record so it was already out there whether she knew it or not. And if she wasn't sure about it, why even mention the assault in the very same case she claims is ongoing? She's a liar. Or maybe it's you in the video. So that would make you the liar.
He had feelings for her so wanted to help her in hopes of becoming something more than friends, she took advantage of that knowing full well she didn't have feelings for him but he did for her!! She's a user and disingenuous!! She should NEVER have accepted that money!! She is tricky and sneaky!!
Why go to court to get custody of a 1 year old and you're struggling financially to take care of your graduate disabled child? Why have another baby even. 🤦🏽♀️
@katherineduke3232 yeah allegedly and makes me wonder if the ex was abusive in any way I wouldn't have any children from them. Leaves me with the full responsibility of taking care of the child picking the wrong partner. 😖
She couldn’t get the money together to pay for the lawyer, where did she say she couldn’t afford her children? She already had custody, she just wanted custody established by a court.
I feel bad for the guy, but if you give someone $4500, and they have no job and what little money they *do* get isn't enough to take care of themselves and their debt, you can't possibly think they're going to be able to repay it, even to the tune of $20 a week.
Don’t feel bad for him. This woman is vulnerable and he could see that a mile off. She had just left a DV relationship, is on welfare with an adult disabled son that, I presume, she’ll need to take care of for his whole life. He knew she needed the money, gave it to her and then when she refused his advances… demanded it back. He tried to manipulate the situation and it backfired.
@brackenrobertson799 but they have already stated that he had a crush on her in high school. She knew that he had a thing for her and used that to her advantage to get what she needed.
@@brackenrobertson799 You mean he loaned it to her, dummy. His motives are not important. She tried to manipulate him by taking money that she knew she had no intention of paying back. This woman isn't a victim, she's a liar and sneaky.
Man, I don't loan anyone anything. I either give them something or tell them I don't have anything to give. I will work on my ex's house but she knows I need them installment payments before, during, and after the work is done. 😋😋🤣😂
Except she isn’t. Memo to stupid men (like you): don’t try and take advantage of vulnerable women in vulnerable situations by giving them stuff and then demanding it back when they don’t sleep with you. This woman hasn’t got a job, takes care of her disabled son who she’ll presumably be looking after for his whole life and just got out of a DV relationship… he gave her money that he knew she needed then tried to sleep with her then demanded the money back knowing fine well she couldn’t pay it. That’s what sane people call TAKING ADVANTAGE.
she's a deadbeat, you can't really expect her to pay it back. If she paid him $20 a week, it would take her 4.3 years to pay it back... shocked nobody did the math lol
It's funny when a litigant gets defensive because they don't know where JJ's questions are going. She was so ready to defend herself for not having a job that she didn't realize that could *help* her case.
I don’t know how you would expect someone to pay back thousands of dollars if they don’t work and are relying on government assistance and help financially from family.. If they had a payment plan of $20 a week it would take over 4 years to get it back.. I don’t want to sound harsh but if you’re struggling financially don’t have more kids put all your energy into your son who sounds like he needs all the help and support he can get..
Sounds callous: but you get what you want BEFORE you give anyone money. At least be in a relationship before you accept loan requests. I respect woman of the night more than users... dont be a leech.
