Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style | Emotional Immaturity | Narcissism
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This video goes into detail about people who have a dismissive avoidant (DA) attachment style and how it relates to narcissism and emotional immaturity. Someone with a DA attachment style often come off as being emotionally unavailable. They may struggle to commit to serious relationships and tend to push people away who try to get close to them.
Attachment theory proposes 4 attachment styles: Secure, Dismissive Avoidant, Preoccupied Anxious, and Fearful-Avoidant (disorganized attachment). Our attachment style is determined in infancy and childhood with how our caregivers respond to our emotional needs.
Behaviors of a dismissive avoidant include:
1) A tendency to push people/relationships away due to fears of vulnerability and emotional intimacy.
2) Tendency to value freedom and independence above emotional intimacy or viewing relationships/feelings as "weak".
3) Anxiety as a response to emotional or "deep" discussion (ie: status of a relationship, childhood details, anything involving feelings or emotionally charged conversations) leads to shutting down or stonewalling their partner.
4) Employing self-soothing or deactivation strategies when triggered in order to suppress emotions (binge watching TV, video games, projects, substances, ect).
5) A limiting belief that relationships will stunt their independence and inhibit their freedom if their partner gets too close.
6) Employing distancing strategies used to separate themselves from others, often at the expense of their partner.
7) A tendency to shun physical intimacy, sex (more common in females), and a tendency to view even normal amounts of intimacy as excessive or too much.
8) A tendency to sabotage relationships and then confusion over why the relationship ended.
DA's are often confused for covert narcissists, this isn't always the case (or even the norm). Attachment style and personality are different. Emotional Immaturity is something a DA can have, however is not solely associated with DA's. All attachment styles can be emotionally immature as well as various personality types.
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17 окт 2024