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09:00 Homophobia is a Big Issue in the Black Community
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Комментарии : 6 тыс.   
@pasta5818
@pasta5818 2 года назад
i wish there was a bigger age gap between the black men so we could hear more perspectives on this questions
@lyralee5798
@lyralee5798 2 года назад
It's not the same, but there's an episode on black teens vs black grandparents.
@sensemmosta8019
@sensemmosta8019 2 года назад
Yeah, age gap was probably like 25-35
@irrelevance3859
@irrelevance3859 2 года назад
I agree. This is a huge problem with jubilee usually. They only pick young people and obviously their experience different from older generations who have experienced more under a certain circumstance so you don’t hear enough variety.
@lilbabygroot
@lilbabygroot 2 года назад
Agreed. This was a group of jaded men all definitely by the same cultural values
@deetheefoodie
@deetheefoodie 2 года назад
They need some men in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and 60s!
@sit-insforsithis1568
@sit-insforsithis1568 2 года назад
Please do one with : do black Africans and black Americans think the same ?
@highestgoddess9966
@highestgoddess9966 2 года назад
Exactly
@taylorfrink1182
@taylorfrink1182 2 года назад
omg came here to say this
@forebidden
@forebidden 2 года назад
omg that’d be interesting
@forebidden
@forebidden 2 года назад
@Studio. Studio same
@michaelmayhem123
@michaelmayhem123 2 года назад
Black Africans HATE black Americans. It's obvious why.
@rashellexo4470
@rashellexo4470 2 года назад
I really love how open that guy was on the colorism subject because so many black men deny that they’re colorist and also deny their self hatred for dark skin
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
Thank you for the love! I had to be real and authentic. -Percy
@killakam725
@killakam725 2 года назад
Theres more colorist bw if anything
@Cybershadowz
@Cybershadowz 2 года назад
@@killakam725 from experience and this is coming from a black woman myself 💀
@JeromeProductions
@JeromeProductions 2 года назад
@@killakam725 i can't lie, my moms pretty colorist
@wendyallen3085
@wendyallen3085 2 года назад
But want white people to accept us
@niyahguthery
@niyahguthery 2 года назад
Omg Percy has a beautiful complexion, it hurts me that he felt insecure about it!
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you Black Queen. I definitely grew to love who I am, it just took a minute. Thank you though 🙏 -Percy
@jessicabrown5194
@jessicabrown5194 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 you are absolutely beautiful
@theoboegoddess
@theoboegoddess 2 года назад
Agreed, I was really surprised by that. He has the best color of any of them in my opinion. He’s radiant
@hoodiek6802
@hoodiek6802 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 Yea bro your awesome and don't let anyone make you feel Different skin color or otherwise
@peacehappyb237
@peacehappyb237 2 года назад
right!
@DD-by3ys
@DD-by3ys 2 года назад
"Heterosexual men have a fear that homosexual men will treat them how they treat women" 🤯 damn
@kkmcmoo820
@kkmcmoo820 2 года назад
I literally had to pause the video and take in that brilliant quote for a hot minute
@byronstone386
@byronstone386 2 года назад
Hit the nail right on the head
@aceofhearts0
@aceofhearts0 2 года назад
don't get it, can someone explain?
@byronstone386
@byronstone386 2 года назад
@@aceofhearts0 There are plenty of men out there who sexually harass women and think of it as normal or just "boys will be boys". So they think that homosexual men will catcall and harass them the same way and it makes them uncomfortable. Add in the extra layer of having to share male exclusive spaces with them and the fear is exacerbated.
@Yng619
@Yng619 2 года назад
@@byronstone386 isn't that a just a sexist thinking or stereotype over men.
@che498
@che498 2 года назад
Jubilee was like “Baby we addressing every stereotype”. From homophobia to colourism to mental health and absentee fathers. They covered quite a bit.
@aniyahb.5152
@aniyahb.5152 2 года назад
some of these stereotypes hold true...
@heathertea2704
@heathertea2704 2 года назад
That's what I'm uncomfortable with, the Stereotypes in generalizing the Black male American experience/existence.
@Peter_Sokunbi
@Peter_Sokunbi 2 года назад
I actually didn't think they would?
@YuhasLol
@YuhasLol 2 года назад
Yeah, these questions were on point. The only other topic they could have added was "being traffic stopped by the police". But other than that, they hit everything.
@dominiquehudson8077
@dominiquehudson8077 2 года назад
@@heathertea2704 I think that was the point. Videos like these are suppose to address long standing stereotypes and give a different perspective to how the actual affected Black men feel.
@jess_isblessed
@jess_isblessed 2 года назад
Percy has done a lot of inner work, and I hope to see other black men doing the same.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you. Thank you for the love! -Percy
@Igboman87
@Igboman87 Год назад
BM & BW
@vibez.no.cartel
@vibez.no.cartel Год назад
sis, go watch the video "the false promise of Black love" by Mahogany Pink. thank me later
@TheCarlScharnberg
@TheCarlScharnberg 2 года назад
What Percy said about therapy as a black person, is so on point. Well said, my friend! As a future psychologist of colour, I applaud you.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you. Thanks for the love! -Percy
@erin7293
@erin7293 2 года назад
"Do all black women think the same" that would be an interesting discussion.
@P03ticJustice
@P03ticJustice 2 года назад
I think that's been done last year
@seanmorris4601
@seanmorris4601 2 года назад
I agree....
@ajavaldez4791
@ajavaldez4791 2 года назад
Yess!!!!
@DJ-xh8zm
@DJ-xh8zm 2 года назад
@@P03ticJustice no. I don't think it's been done yet. They did one with black people and one with black moms but not just black women. Hopefully it'll be next.
@rinarina9424
@rinarina9424 2 года назад
I WANT IT
@143sierranicole
@143sierranicole 2 года назад
So many dark skin black men feel the same way Percy does. They are so uncomfortable in their own skin that they project their insecurities onto dark skin black women, constantly tearing them down and placing light skin women on a pedestal. Colorism is such a huge problem in the black community and I’m glad Jubilee addressed it
@imanigordon6803
@imanigordon6803 2 года назад
So you probably Ignored his trauma right? Got it.
@143sierranicole
@143sierranicole 2 года назад
@@imanigordon6803 how did you come to that conclusion ? He was completely honest about his internalized hate and how that led to his preference. I’m simply stating that other men most likely feel the same way
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I was just being honest. Many black men feel the same way but won't admit it. I'm glad you understood my perspective
@huldah1605
@huldah1605 2 года назад
@@imanigordon6803 That's understandable. Dark skin black women also face the same issue. The bashing though is honestly getting out of hand.
@imanigordon6803
@imanigordon6803 2 года назад
@@143sierranicole Yes his internalized hate didn’t start out of the blue it came from years of trauma just trying to flesh out that point so it doesn’t look like you’re intentionally skipping over that part
@grandezofm
@grandezofm 2 года назад
I feel like Percy was the only honest one on that light skin/dark skin topic
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I definitely had to be honest and real. Its a unspoken thing that many others have or are currently going through -Percy
@jessicaayo5035
@jessicaayo5035 2 года назад
Yep. Especially with Mike lol
@zoeyvernon83
@zoeyvernon83 2 года назад
“There’s no such thing as a positive or negative stereotype” well said, Jared. It is a huge issue that there is a common misconception that any stereotype can be “positive.” Stereotyping needs to end. Period.
@Bradley_Lute
@Bradley_Lute 2 года назад
Stereotypes are often true. But you should never judge a book by its cover. And it's interesting what kinds of stereotypes we don't mind so much. This whole episode was about stereotypes. But it's also about breaking them a bit. This is the interesting thing about humanity. We can boiled down to a set of circumstances like our culture and genes but there is remarkable diversity even in the most formal cultures and families.
@xelabadman5824
@xelabadman5824 2 года назад
Except for when making fun of British people for having bad teeth
@joesssaucey
@joesssaucey 2 года назад
No. There definitely are. Black women stereotypes are not the same as white women stereotypes.
@Jewel296
@Jewel296 2 года назад
As a dark skin black woman I appreciated Percy’s honest perspective. Growing up in self hate is real and causes a lot of damage that affect both men and women. Also nice to not have someone gaslight what black women experience everyday. We always knew.
@deondrex18k
@deondrex18k 2 года назад
I agree love your skin especially us dark skin we have a royal skin color 👑❤️🤎
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you for understanding me but most importantly I also agree with you. I had to shed a light on that because many black people feel the same way I feel but don't want to admit it
@wrestlinganime4life288
@wrestlinganime4life288 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 Appreciate your honesty. Hope you'll understand that black is beautiful in all shades, as you are.
@missyd1215
@missyd1215 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 thank you for your honesty, I dont believe the other men were being honest though.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
@@missyd1215 when you fear being judged, you stay silent
@adelinelacroix6743
@adelinelacroix6743 2 года назад
It was so nice seeing Black men speak so highly of therapy. I've been seeing a therapist for the past year and I agree that it's one of the best things you can do for yourself and Black people especially could benefit
@niceasf7038
@niceasf7038 2 года назад
You pretty girl😍😍😍
@adelinelacroix6743
@adelinelacroix6743 2 года назад
@@niceasf7038 thank you ☺️
@tibodeclercq2131
@tibodeclercq2131 2 года назад
@@adelinelacroix6743 Tu parles un mot de français?
@adelinelacroix6743
@adelinelacroix6743 2 года назад
@@tibodeclercq2131 lol no I'm haitian so that's why I have the name. But no I don't speak french.
@Johan590
@Johan590 2 года назад
@@adelinelacroix6743 Jesus is the best way.
@mayfl0wers
@mayfl0wers 2 года назад
I'm glad Percy was honest about the colorism conversation. Alot of darkskin black men have this subconscious mindset but havent done the inner work or healing to acknowledge it or accept it.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate it. I definitely am comfortable with who I am now. Much love 🙏 -Percy
@williambrown8695
@williambrown8695 2 года назад
that conversation about becoming the people that bullied us really made me think. So I'm really glad that the conversation was handled respectfully, maturely and honestly
@julioamadeus5777
@julioamadeus5777 2 года назад
Bueno una gringa que no es racista xd
@BlameItOnMercury
@BlameItOnMercury Год назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 But you still prefer a lighter partner because of that trauma, so no... You're not.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 Год назад
@@BlameItOnMercury doesn't mean I still feel that way or haven't dated a dark skin woman.
@abaoaqu1333
@abaoaqu1333 2 года назад
Another huge issue with homophobia in the black community is that a lot of black women will use homophobic language against hetero black men when they either reject them or do not comply with what is being asked of them. It's one of the more under discussed issues imo because it's used to attempt to demasculate.
@terencehammonds3041
@terencehammonds3041 2 года назад
💯💯
@ernestsysbm1175
@ernestsysbm1175 2 года назад
Facts!!!
@renee8544
@renee8544 2 года назад
True. I grew up with a toxic mother and I can't even count how many slurs she would call him when they got into arguments.
@jaelyns2387
@jaelyns2387 2 года назад
I’m not sure if that’s only black woman. Some woman in general.
@michael43567
@michael43567 2 года назад
Then they'll say they're allies to the lgbt community. Nawl, you was just calling me a maggot loool
@babyclown
@babyclown 2 года назад
Percy has my respect for continuing to be honest despite the backlash, I’m surprised he never wavered, since everyone else was disagreeing.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you for understanding my point of you. Its a hard thing to admit but I'm sure others feel the same way
@thenoch2418
@thenoch2418 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 Your hair is awesome BTW too ☺️
@Yng619
@Yng619 2 года назад
Mike is mine. Like he's not stereotyping or prejudice to any race unlike most of the other guys on white people.
@Yng619
@Yng619 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 wassup Percy
@Yng619
@Yng619 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 my boa 14:49 who tf said u wasn't Black enough
@bezadawite4459
@bezadawite4459 2 года назад
strongly admire Percy’s honesty when it came to the colorism question, at first I wasn’t so happy but realized it came from his childhood trauma and of course a persons own subconscious. (pls be kind in the comments 😭)
@friday8370
@friday8370 2 года назад
Right! Like to be so upfront like I’m not all the way there yet, but I’m acknowledging it as I’m so much further and know where it came from.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
Thank you for understanding. I knew I would get some backlash but honesty is the best policy
@WoahhTeamJacob
@WoahhTeamJacob 2 года назад
ThePrinceofFreshAir love you Percy!!! I always enjoy when you are put in videos. 💓💓💓
@workingonmyself
@workingonmyself 2 года назад
Why weren’t you happy? What does his preference (whatever the reason) have to do with you? Honestly asking n
@bezadawite4459
@bezadawite4459 2 года назад
@@workingonmyself I am a Black woman and have experienced colorism to an extent but have seen firsthand the detrimental factors of colorism to my peers and I definitely know that colorism is an issue. But in his case I can acknowledge that growing up as Black children we don’t get to pick and choose what society has ingrained into our subconscious. I am young and my outlooks will change but it definitely hits home!
@kamvacopho9526
@kamvacopho9526 2 года назад
To the brother with a Afro Percy. You are appreciated brother, a lot of us can relate to your experiences. You mean the world brother ❤️✊🏿✊🏿.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate the love. I appreciate the respect and the realness. Thank you bro! -Percy
@kamvacopho9526
@kamvacopho9526 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 I love you brother ✊🏿. Keep safe and strong. Always fly the black and proud flag
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
@@kamvacopho9526 I appreciate you bro 💯
@JeromeProductions
@JeromeProductions 2 года назад
facts
@vibez.no.cartel
@vibez.no.cartel Год назад
BW need to go watch the video "the false promise of Black love" by Mahogany Pink. thank me later
@petparent2241
@petparent2241 Год назад
All these men were VERY well spoken at expressing themselves. Normally you get 3-4 that do all the talking and you barely hear from some, but this group everyone got to talk. Lawrence spoke his mind and that's awesome!! This is why we need 30-minute episodes!!
@oliviaorta-vargas440
@oliviaorta-vargas440 2 года назад
i love how percy is being straight up about his feelings and saying "i'm just being honest" bc that is what i'm hear to watch for.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you. Thank you for the love and support! -Percy
@africangenius6696
@africangenius6696 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 am dark skin to bro, I felt everything you said. I wouldn’t wish anyone to go through what I went through because am dark.
@disclose_beauty
@disclose_beauty 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 i thought you were the only spontaneous and honest one. The others were too afraid to speak their mind. Always speak your mind! Love from italy
@iamhardwell2844
@iamhardwell2844 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 don't worry not only African American have that thought we asian share the same thought as well it was passed down from our ancestors
@DaishaMichel
@DaishaMichel 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 where did you grow up? And do you still feel like lightskin women are better? That’s sad
@bxrb_bae7516
@bxrb_bae7516 2 года назад
"Who's ass is 25 pounds with 2 pound legs" that just sent me to my graveee 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭
@alleniverson5941
@alleniverson5941 2 года назад
Kim Kardashian
@alleniverson5941
@alleniverson5941 2 года назад
Black Chyna
@platterjockey
@platterjockey 2 года назад
Sir Mix-A-Lot and Nicki Minaj is responsible this! Grrrrrr! LOL My anaconda don't-want-none unless you got buns, honey!
@merrimankaylynn
@merrimankaylynn 2 года назад
He right thoughhhh
@platterjockey
@platterjockey 2 года назад
@@merrimankaylynn About what?
@cheasly6
@cheasly6 2 года назад
“Heterosexual men are afraid that homosexual men will treat them like they treat women“
@reny7725
@reny7725 2 года назад
“I am a tall glass of chocolate milk” YES KING!! Self love is beautiful✨
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you 🙏
@shareenladd1048
@shareenladd1048 Год назад
It’s the “ok chocolate” for me ❤😂😂
@57goku
@57goku 2 года назад
Percy’s comments on colorism definitely stood out. No one else there had his skin color so I think it’s harder to imagine that experience. Even if someone is lighter they might idealize looser hair or light eyes/hair. His feelings are totally understandable and I feel like it is better to be honest about it than to pretend you don’t feel it. Much respect to him!
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you for understanding!
@toduno927
@toduno927 2 года назад
He admitted to becoming one of his bullies, 0 respect to him
@trolleyam7747
@trolleyam7747 2 года назад
@@toduno927 He meant he internalised what his bullies said to the point that he believed them. Not that he actually went out to bully others.
@imanigordon6803
@imanigordon6803 2 года назад
@@toduno927 my dude please stop it
@YuhasLol
@YuhasLol 2 года назад
@@toduno927 Which makes sense, because it's actually a defense mechanism to the trauma he experienced. To turn into the same "oppressor" you experienced, in order to feel accepted or liked. Kudos on his honesty about it, because it's def real.
@pumitriii6160
@pumitriii6160 2 года назад
Do African and or Caribbean men vs African American men on social issues. The differences will be striking
@david_junior
@david_junior 2 года назад
OMG. This! We've been asking for this for too long🥺
@gidd
@gidd 2 года назад
Africans and caribbeans have very little in common it would be better if it was African vs Caribbean vs African American men
@yoursnatchedweave641
@yoursnatchedweave641 2 года назад
@SP4MAA ok but no one said all black people are african or caribbean
@wrestlinganime4life288
@wrestlinganime4life288 2 года назад
Absolutely. Need more black voices from different parts of the world.
@madss82
@madss82 2 года назад
Yess I wish they’d bring black people from across the diaspora to debate
@hxpewxrld
@hxpewxrld 2 года назад
I love that Percy is so self aware and did some digging to realize the subconscious bias. There are a lot of black men with a very similar experience but they either refuse to admit or recognize the bias and why it's there. We really need more men who are willing to do some self reflection like that. Love it
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I had to be real for the viewers. I appreciate the love. -Percy
@55CINCO55
@55CINCO55 11 месяцев назад
A lot of Black women too lol.
@kmarieking12
@kmarieking12 2 года назад
This video is as very refreshing to watch. I loved seeing these educated Kings communicate their emotions & thoughts in such a beautiful manner. They all were so open and understanding to each other . Wow
@MostOutrageous
@MostOutrageous 2 года назад
I agree with you! Great episode.
@tegamiq7184
@tegamiq7184 2 года назад
@Solaris seriously
@oncode7735
@oncode7735 2 года назад
@Solaris 🤣🙌🏽
@JeromeProductions
@JeromeProductions 2 года назад
@@MostOutrageous what did solaris say breh
@zariyahrakari7181
@zariyahrakari7181 2 года назад
A lot of Black men do feel the way Percy does, but simply won’t admit it. I’m glad he did and explained that it doesn’t mean light skin or dark skin is superior instead of the usual lighter is better. When I was younger a lot of my dark skin friends would talk about getting with lighter partners or a different race so their kids will be lighter or have looser hair. It’s all our own insecurity and trauma.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
Absolutely! But I am confident and comfortable with myself, it just took a long time to accept. And ehat you said is facts 👊 -Percy
@dhisonpadma
@dhisonpadma 2 года назад
It happens in the Asian community too. In fact parents straight up say that “my son is beautiful but I wish he’s a bit lighter” blatantly. It hapens to most races or so I heard, even with white people wanting their kids to be not too pale. I think you’re 100% right and it’s just insecurities from our culture that escalates this
@mirayoon1992
@mirayoon1992 2 года назад
@@dhisonpadma 🥺..This reminded me of Meghan markle's situation
@aniyahb.5152
@aniyahb.5152 2 года назад
@@mirayoon1992 She's biracial and just wanted a father for her son
@mirayoon1992
@mirayoon1992 2 года назад
@@aniyahb.5152 Yeah😞
@AnthoneRay
@AnthoneRay 2 года назад
This episode definitely made me feel like I’m being heard. All black men are not the same and that was displayed in this episode. This was great!
@mr.floops
@mr.floops 2 года назад
Im deaf i cant hear sorry.
@joy-115
@joy-115 2 года назад
It is a GREAT episode!
@newagehero9605
@newagehero9605 2 года назад
Yep Exactly
@cashjones6997
@cashjones6997 2 года назад
I think they could have done better at the beginning. The first 5:20 were fluff and the men did their best to create a dialogue from it but there is soo much more that I want to hear about from black men (as a black woman) then whether they like big butts.
@marielleanderson
@marielleanderson 2 года назад
@@cashjones6997 they were hot takes that people on Instagram suggested. While I agree that there could have been deeper topics discussed, they probably chose ones that were common suggestions. And I mean they’re a RU-vid channel so they’re going to do what a lot of their audience wants so they get more views and stuff
@ChelsseAlexander
@ChelsseAlexander 2 года назад
being adopted myself, and going through foster care like percy, i would be interested in a video about adopted people of different backgrounds and ages. i’d like to see how others were effected differently due to certain circumstances uncontrolled by the adoptees.
@jermainej1746
@jermainej1746 2 года назад
Same, I’ve been In foster care for the last 8 years and I feel like my experience compared to all my friends is so alien I just can’t ever talk about it openly and it’s even harder to find other people in foster care to talk to about their experiences and relate to
@nemamodgeddi5338
@nemamodgeddi5338 2 года назад
So sorry to hear this.
@sneakerhead6625
@sneakerhead6625 2 года назад
Mike was so educated like the points he came out with were so thought out, i’d love to see more of him on the channel
@angela.escobar
@angela.escobar 2 года назад
I'd love it if Jubilee would release extended or uncut versions of old middle grounds and spectrums that were only about 10 mins. They feel unfinished.
@CHopkins73
@CHopkins73 2 года назад
They do. I wish they would put the uncut footage on patreon. I would pay personally.
@kidart1763
@kidart1763 2 года назад
Percy's realness got me high key emotional. His transparency was refreshing and absolutely needed because he's right -- a LOT of men (not just Black) have these eurocentric preferences created and proliferated by the media and general culture. The only way to change the course is by engaging in honest discourse.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
Thank you for understanding my perspective. I had to be honest with myself and the viewers. Hopefully what I said helped others in their journey in discovering their truth. I appreciate the love! -Percy
@disclose_beauty
@disclose_beauty 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 thought you were the only spontaneous and honest one. The others were too afraid to speak their mind. Always speak your mind! Love from italy
@tylerknight9830
@tylerknight9830 2 года назад
High key. This is the case for alot of African Americans. It's like Pavlov's dog. Conditioning. As a black person you can't fault someone to how they adapt(non violent) to their trauma of being black in America. At least he's honest instead of projecting onto black women. And he deserves someone who can love him💞 for him regardless of being black if that person isn't black so be it. I'm just glad he finally started loving himself. 👏🐥🖤
@joejacko1587
@joejacko1587 2 года назад
haha i love it when it comes to positive serotype well you know it comes from somewhere wouldn't be a stereotype if it wasn't based on truth when its the negative stereotype its like i don't know where that comes from no truth to that
@JeromeProductions
@JeromeProductions 2 года назад
indeed... that part about show casting was so damn true as well
@holagirl7144
@holagirl7144 2 года назад
i really liked Lawrence, i didn’t really see anyone appreciate his honesty in the comments
@larrythesociologist
@larrythesociologist 2 года назад
Thank you! More honesty to be seen on my RU-vid channel! 🙌🏿😂
@TheePrincessSara
@TheePrincessSara 2 года назад
@@larrythesociologist your realness definitely stuck out 💯
@tylerknight9830
@tylerknight9830 2 года назад
Straight up. He's giving black Twitter realness.
@LyricalIAm
@LyricalIAm 2 года назад
They only like stuff they wanna hear a s can’t accept others truth
@luliboelihlendibongo1036
@luliboelihlendibongo1036 2 года назад
Right samee
@OnlyMichaelJackson
@OnlyMichaelJackson 2 года назад
I'm glad Percy was honest about how colorism has subconsciously affected him. A lot of people wouldn't be willing to admit that.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you! I definitely had to be real and honest because I know I'm not the only one who's felt that way -Percy
@angelalveras101
@angelalveras101 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 Hey Percy, you got an Instagram?
@yabudimsure
@yabudimsure 2 года назад
Percy seemed the most honest out of everyone to me
@imanigordon6803
@imanigordon6803 2 года назад
How?
@yungaj6166
@yungaj6166 2 года назад
cap
@UrbanDecayLova247
@UrbanDecayLova247 2 года назад
Facts! They were badgering the guy with questions on the pro-black & dating outside of your race, yet all seemed confused with Percy’s honesty. Make it make sense.
@kentrader2489
@kentrader2489 2 года назад
“Respectfully I ain’t tryna hear that” I’m stealing that line haha
@CakeOhKubota
@CakeOhKubota 2 года назад
This was one of my favourite to watch! Real chat, respectful and great people.
@devenchambers8003
@devenchambers8003 2 года назад
I have been waiting for this one, and I THOROUGHLY enjoyed it. A part 2/follow up with the same guys would be pretty cool. Great job guys and thanks for sharing your experiences.
@abbiemyrie
@abbiemyrie 2 года назад
When he said that parents can break your heart more than anyone else can i really felt that. Loved seeing all the support they gave each other in this video tho !!
@lachelle81
@lachelle81 2 года назад
That hit home with me as well.
2 года назад
Exactly so please treat you child fairly not based on gender okay.
@NallahBrown
@NallahBrown 2 года назад
Wow I feels that
@madss82
@madss82 2 года назад
I 100% understand where Percy is coming from, growing up dark skin kids were bullied so I can understand how that leads to self-hate and perpetuates colorism. If you don’t like the way you look you’re not going to see the beauty in women with similar features. I
@Bejewelle88
@Bejewelle88 2 года назад
I get that argument to a certain point but at some stage you have to self-reflect and grow. I'm sure dark black girls got bullied too, yet they don't (all/seemingly collectively) look down on dark black men. We know the media has a huge role to play in this, but ijs. No more excuses... self-reflect and grow. You can like who you like, but try not to denigrate while you're at it.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
Thank you for understanding. I have grown and I don't view black women the same anymore
@Pee5Ma
@Pee5Ma 2 года назад
​@@theprinceoffreshair1164 Stories like yours ('I had a bias, realised it and worked to improve myself') are so important. Imo it makes a bigger impact than people just saying don't have a preference. Thanks for being honest!
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
@@Pee5Ma that's what I'm here for. Entertainment and Honest!
@Alex-hj1vk
@Alex-hj1vk 2 года назад
Right. But it's also true that black people masculinize dark skin, which can positively benefit the men and negatively impacts the women. The reverse is true with the emasculation of light skinned men. And we should address the fact that we don't really see dark skinned women who were bullied exhibiting this behavior towards dark skinned men.
@kscott6378
@kscott6378 2 года назад
This is one of the best discussions that jubilee has done. Great video.
@jordandavis1829
@jordandavis1829 2 года назад
This was one of my favorite episodes! This was refreshing and eye opening to a very overlooked group when it comes to emotions! I love the channel!!
@teninterrell
@teninterrell 2 года назад
re: Jubilee Team - ONE suggestion: Make the center/standing line yellow, red or blue so that we can get a better visual of the polarity from the neutral point! 😁
@Somcognito
@Somcognito 2 года назад
Yessssss
@cynless6489
@cynless6489 2 года назад
Agreed
@samuraiboi2735
@samuraiboi2735 2 года назад
This is probably the only channel where i see no bots at all
@stephenleigh4571
@stephenleigh4571 2 года назад
This is awesome, really refreshing. Thank you. 🙏🏾❤☀️🥰
@jeffhufana2389
@jeffhufana2389 2 года назад
I agree with that suggestion cause while watching every Spectrum vids all I see is people getting hecka confused asf on what line they should stand
@luvu4eva16
@luvu4eva16 2 года назад
Love Percy's honesty and vulnerability (and his hair).
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you tremendously! Honesty is the best policy am I right? -Percy
@luvu4eva16
@luvu4eva16 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 it is :)
@divineaw8041
@divineaw8041 2 года назад
Yes I love it! Appreciate your blackbess
@commanderoom-9269
@commanderoom-9269 2 года назад
So we’re lying now?
@JeromeProductions
@JeromeProductions 2 года назад
@@commanderoom-9269 so someone can't like a black person for who they are?
@zara6132
@zara6132 2 года назад
The guy with the afro has amazing hair, it looks better cared for than mine.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate the love. Its definitely my pride and joy 🙏❤ -Percy
@demilishing
@demilishing 2 года назад
As a white dude who lived in Canada where there wasn't a single african american in my home town I sure learnt a lot. I'm also proud of who I've become, from that single minded small town person to someone I'm happy of.
@roxarecool
@roxarecool 2 года назад
I don’t feel morally insufficient just because I don’t live around people with dark tans.
@myoongi613
@myoongi613 2 года назад
@@roxarecool based on how you describe black people, you should
@roxarecool
@roxarecool 2 года назад
@@myoongi613 Aww, did I not fetishize their racial identity?
@achinthmurali5207
@achinthmurali5207 2 года назад
African Americans don’t live in Canada. They’re called African-Canadians. Like Rocky Johnson a black Nova Scotian. Also I don’t think you learned a lot from Jubilee. These videos are highly edited to make people like you think you learned a lot when you watch them.
@lnsaneMagnum
@lnsaneMagnum 2 года назад
You obviously haven't really grown that much. You just referred to Canadian black people as African-Americans. Faux-virtuosity. Black folks, and all other folks for that matter, don't care to be as open minded about you as you try to be for them.
@silentj624
@silentj624 2 года назад
My mother is really dark and was teased so much and hurt so badly that she only dated light skinned men. She was afraid her kids would come out dark like her. I hate people.
@christinajones6500
@christinajones6500 2 года назад
Teased by other black people or who? I feel like white people don’t tease about that.
@ASMRblack
@ASMRblack 2 года назад
At least u ain’t dark🤷🏾‍♂️
@silentj624
@silentj624 2 года назад
@@ASMRblack I am though and the way you phrased that is the reason she dated the way she did.
@silentj624
@silentj624 2 года назад
@@christinajones6500 white people totally do, just not to our faces. But it was by other black people and that's because dark black skin is furthest from white skin and we live in a country of white beauty standards.
2 года назад
She must've stood up for herself and never let anyone down her. Bur sadly she wasn't strong AKA she was weak.
@paintedinbrown4625
@paintedinbrown4625 2 года назад
“Heterosexual men are afraid of homosexual men treating them the same way they treat women” SAY IT AGAIN
@pedroloto
@pedroloto 2 года назад
I don't get it 😅
@Peprahism
@Peprahism 2 года назад
@@pedroloto women and gay men are the only ones that believe this
@thisname2320
@thisname2320 2 года назад
@@pedroloto Think about heterosexual men sexually harassing women par example. Straight men are afraid that gay men will do that to them.
@pedroloto
@pedroloto 2 года назад
@@thisname2320 honestly I've never thought about it and I didnt know it was a thing
@julieblue3592
@julieblue3592 2 года назад
@@Peprahism Women, gay women, gay men,tans people, non binary people,etc.Literally only men do not think this because they dont want to evaluate their own behavior
@ZEBEEtheoriginal
@ZEBEEtheoriginal 2 года назад
Sending 💛💛💛 to Percy who struggled with his complexion. Appreciate your honesty and ability to talk through your story.
@firebird4618
@firebird4618 2 года назад
14:21: It was painful at first, of course, as a black woman, to see Percy walk over to "agree," but ultimately, it was that much more refreshing and gratifying to hear his honesty and willingness to engage with the other men's questions. Because that kind of honesty and active back-and-forth dialogue is what it really takes to begin unpacking internalized anti-blackness.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate that. We have to be real and honest and I wanted to give people authenticity! -Percy
@vibez.no.cartel
@vibez.no.cartel Год назад
sis, go watch the video "the false promise of Black love" by Mahogany Pink. thank me later
@InternetGirl1093
@InternetGirl1093 2 года назад
Percy’s a real one! 💯 So many people love to act like unconscious bias has no effect on dating/romantic preferences, but it absolutely does!
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate the love. Thank you for understanding my perspective. -Percy
@InternetGirl1093
@InternetGirl1093 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 💛🙏🏽
@raven-kn6lv
@raven-kn6lv 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 everybody in the comments applaud you!! 💓💓. You spoke for the community
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
@@raven-kn6lv I def appreciate that. I didn't expect this much love. I thought most ppl would hate my ass
@temeria1986
@temeria1986 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 I do have a question, when talking about penis size everyone of you goes to "agree" without any mention of statistics or anything. Next question where its about cheating suddenly you need statistics and proof and blablabla. That is bias too.
@josephmitchell1485
@josephmitchell1485 2 года назад
"respectfully i dont want to hear that" hot damn
@awesomeyeahroxs
@awesomeyeahroxs 2 года назад
when was that?
@donm.2068
@donm.2068 2 года назад
@@awesomeyeahroxs around 7:00
@wisdomabdulaziz3694
@wisdomabdulaziz3694 2 года назад
And he was right! 😂
@ThreeLittleBirdsssss
@ThreeLittleBirdsssss 2 года назад
One thing certain black men will go extremely hard for is dating non black women and being able to use the n word
@15yearoldblackguy21
@15yearoldblackguy21 2 года назад
Bruh...
@apoetsbrain6794
@apoetsbrain6794 2 года назад
This was truly was a truly high-quality session. I tend to stop halfway in many of these. But this showcased a very classy discussion between well-spoken and intelligent men on very difficult matters. They also listened carefully to one another and were not combative or condemning. Amazing watch.
@shantitakemoto1058
@shantitakemoto1058 2 года назад
This was a really cool one, loved hearing from these men, they were respectful and honest and quite vulnerable, well spoken, funny and remained positive
@kimelbert3347
@kimelbert3347 2 года назад
To the point of the red-shirt guy drawing a parallel to women reclaiming the B-word. Most women don't like hearing men use the B-word. So you can also see why black people reclaim the N-word but get uncomfortable when other races use it. The negative history is still attached and always will be, so these words have to be used lightly and situationally.
@joellenour
@joellenour 2 года назад
i just don’t understand why he literally said the b word while trying to make a point that non black people shouldn’t use the n word but he said the b word
@NOCLUEinvalid
@NOCLUEinvalid 2 года назад
I’m not down to hear the b word at all. Also I feel like most people are only fine with it if it’s their friend saying it in a joking manner
@dayanaram925
@dayanaram925 2 года назад
Same goes for the f word, Jew slurs, Asian slurs. Everyone knows them but nobody is bold enough or disrespectful enough to say it. So why the demand to say the n word ??
@samuraiboi2735
@samuraiboi2735 2 года назад
Well thats how it goes anyways since the n word probably been used by others races by then
@agathachris9722
@agathachris9722 2 года назад
Jews, Asians, Mexicans are not around here calling each other slurs.
@krishnvm1027
@krishnvm1027 2 года назад
I like how Percy talked about colourism in the black community. This made me think about the colourism in Asian countries especially South Asian, let me tell India is one the country where fairness/whitening products sell for billions and the discrimination done by the film industry and the media is so disgusting. I want jublee to talk about this problem. There where even whitening products for babies and kids, I can't believe how this products are sold and the ads for these are straight up showcasing racism for dark skin tone. I hope people change thier ideologies soon.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you for understanding my perspective. I definitely had to be real with myself and be honest with the viewers. Hopefully others learned something about themselves
@Katlady001
@Katlady001 2 года назад
This south Asian issue dates back to British rule the British rule y’all for over 100 years. They really white washed your history and I’ve been to India in the museums all your ancestors have white skin that is very sad. South Asian can get just as dark as Africans but y’all are racist at times that’s the issue that you need to addressed because a lot of times y’all want to be white and that’s what makes you dislike your old skin color as well as black people that’s the issue that needs to be addressed in your community.
@nmoomoo
@nmoomoo 2 года назад
Mz Nurú it's both that and how colourism is so tied to classism there
@salmaabdullahgb
@salmaabdullahgb 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 Really appreciated the honestly, it's something that can be subconscious in our community and its cool your aware of it to the point you can articulate it so well!
@smashmusique
@smashmusique 2 года назад
It's interesting how they are against negative generalisations, like black people cheat more.. but they support positive generalisations, like black people are funnier
@alos4025
@alos4025 Год назад
This was a great conversation and I’m sure healing for many of them. I wish them all the best ❤️
@adelinemaycan7987
@adelinemaycan7987 2 года назад
I love how they listened to each other so well and allowed one another to have their time to speak their truth
@mihaelasavaa
@mihaelasavaa 2 года назад
Percy s story about his family is so sad.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I don't usually open up but I'm glad I did. It makes my perspective easier to understand. I appreciate you!
@mihaelasavaa
@mihaelasavaa 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 As a white woman, I am thankful that you were vulnerable enough to tell your story and educate me and so many others about the black community as it is. I appreciate YOU!
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
@@mihaelasavaa thank you very much. I appreciate your kind words. I appreciate you as well! I'm glad you enjoyed my story
@brandondagoat2342
@brandondagoat2342 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 Imma eventually get on here there’s a lot of issues I would love to address
@RiCra012
@RiCra012 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 you did amazing love!
@HG-fu5cf
@HG-fu5cf 2 года назад
Jared is so lucky to have an amazing relationship with his father
@blackrage6293
@blackrage6293 2 года назад
His father failed him
@richardyoung7267
@richardyoung7267 2 года назад
@@blackrage6293 how…
@nehsangbong7259
@nehsangbong7259 2 года назад
@@blackrage6293 huh....
@duckemwithbleach
@duckemwithbleach 2 года назад
@@blackrage6293 LMAOOOO
@HG-fu5cf
@HG-fu5cf 2 года назад
@@blackrage6293 someone has daddy issues
@nataliaviveros3316
@nataliaviveros3316 Год назад
Jubilee, thank you! Conversations where people are speaking openly, freely, without fear of being condemned is literally the most beautiful thing I have ever seen on the internet in...forever!!!!!!!!! Yay! If you can't teach YOURSELF something new using shame, why use shame to teach another person? If you are using shame to teach, than your motive is to belittle that individual. It's a hurtful and misguided approach. I am so happy to see this approach to conversation being embraced. They were all so open and vulnerable and respectful towards each other
@claudiamador290
@claudiamador290 2 года назад
Hi Mexican-American here, this is really interesting to learn about and understand. Thank you Jubilee, and to these wonderful men for their perspectives ❤️
@platterjockey
@platterjockey 2 года назад
I know that there are a lot of negative stereotypes about Black men in the Latino community, and some of those notions are worse than with what many Whites believe.
@platterjockey
@platterjockey 2 года назад
@Michelle Not out where I live!
@maxhydekyle2425
@maxhydekyle2425 2 года назад
@Michelle That's my experience. I was born and raised in San Antonio and the Latinos just couldn't care less about race.
@cindyu3286
@cindyu3286 2 года назад
10:14 “Heterosexual men have a fear that homosexual men will treat them the same way they treat women, so they are afraid of that treatment.” This is the most powerful statement I have heard all month.
@symoneprice4980
@symoneprice4980 2 года назад
for real
@9tailedbeast392
@9tailedbeast392 2 года назад
@Cheeto Drip men are afraid that men will try to predrize(cant spell lol)them the same way men predrize women.
@yungaj6166
@yungaj6166 2 года назад
@@9tailedbeast392 but thing is majority of men don’t do that to women which makes the statement make no sense.
@9tailedbeast392
@9tailedbeast392 2 года назад
@@yungaj6166 I don’t think I worded it right sorry I wasn’t the one who made it.
@lexm17
@lexm17 2 года назад
@@yungaj6166 it’s a lot tho, just because it doesn’t apply to all men it certainly applies to a large quantity. Every woman I know has been sexually harassed and/or assaulted and it needs to be dealt with by all men
@che498
@che498 2 года назад
I appreciate Percy’s honesty. That’s exactly what I’m looking for when I watch these videos. He is right, societal beauty standards, which influences our self-confidence, plays a significant role in our dating preferences. Even as a young child, I was well aware that my skin tone was not preferred. I only ever wanted white baby dolls, rejecting the black ones my aunt always used to bring me as “ugly”. This was my mentality at age 5; already cognizant of the privileges associated with having Eurocentric features. My journey to self-love, like Percy’s, has been hard fought. Colourism is an unfortunate reality in the black community, and negatively impacts the mental health of our youth, creating unrealistic beauty standards. I’m glad it was addressed.
@ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063
@ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063 2 года назад
Absolutely! There shouldn't be any hate towards percy on his explanation. Its valid because its the truth! Its not an excuse to bash darker women and i dont believe he was saying it was, but he made it clear that his environment didnt help him see the beauty of skin like his and it developed an insecurity. In my opinion, i believe the other men in the video were not totally honest on this topic. Its an overwhelming scene that black men prefer lighter skinned women or at least women with less black features especially the hair. They may be open to darker skinned women but the question was do they prefer lighter partners. The answers would be so different among an anonymous survey.
@Missmonique808
@Missmonique808 2 года назад
Hearing what Percy has gone through is heartbreaking. He’s a gorgeous guy and I am glad he’s feeling himself now. His realness is refreshing. It is hard to hear as a dark skinned black woman but grateful he is real.
@platterjockey
@platterjockey 2 года назад
Wow. I seriously wish I could have been part of this. I want to see another one of these! Rarely do diverse Black men ever get together to discuss these things. We are so bound to societal stereotypes that it adversely affects our emotional well-being.
@gidd
@gidd 2 года назад
This felt like homies hanging out together
@AxxLAfriku
@AxxLAfriku 2 года назад
I have fewer than 1 friend in the World. That's right. Everybody disses me for making bad videos. I think they are perfect though. Who is right? My dissers or me? Which side are you on, dear gid
@nxggascantrollwitthefamily
@nxggascantrollwitthefamily 2 года назад
@@AxxLAfriku bro what
@jeremysmith9694
@jeremysmith9694 2 года назад
It was
@lawtraf8008
@lawtraf8008 2 года назад
@@AxxLAfriku tf
@residentwolf19
@residentwolf19 2 года назад
Exactly that's why I feel this wasn't very engaging. Only 1 person I could say had a different upbringing while the rest seem like friends or go to the same school. To say do "all" black men think the same and only have one age group is misleading.
@Leonaza7
@Leonaza7 2 года назад
As a black woman who happened to study behaviors based on races and cultures, I can say that statistics show black men are more different than you think. It’s a combination of stereotypes and uneducated people that always makes you think otherwise.
@MuMasoo
@MuMasoo 2 года назад
Just like any other race. Any person. People are different, wow what a surprise.
@ekoyal_gemu4446
@ekoyal_gemu4446 2 года назад
@@MuMasoo It's almost as if people think differently
@melvingameryt9386
@melvingameryt9386 2 года назад
There are no races. We all are humans
@nkhensanimakhuba9631
@nkhensanimakhuba9631 2 года назад
@@melvingameryt9386 Too bad not all races are treated the same in society 🤷‍♀️
@imanigordon6803
@imanigordon6803 2 года назад
@@MuMasoo Yeah I agree this comment is kinda speaking the obvious but most individuals don’t have that intelligence and fully dive into stereotypes
@hephzibahadeleye5695
@hephzibahadeleye5695 2 года назад
This was a dope ass Convo, real questions & interesting perspectives. Loved it 💜
@n.d3217
@n.d3217 2 года назад
Im korean but i truely appreciate their honesty and their transparency. I have learnt so much from this.
@amooorcuentarandom6178
@amooorcuentarandom6178 2 года назад
I really love Percy's honesty and being so open about he's trauma. I can really understand where he's coming from and I can actually kind of see myself. I'm a birracial person (mulata more exactly) and I've never feel enough "black" because I'm lightskin causing me to internalized a lot of racism so I would actually prefer to date a dark skinned person so if I have children (not that I want them lol) they would feel more connected to their culture without worrying about being black enough (just trauma things lmaooo)
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you for understanding my points. I knew I would get some backlash but I also know many people could relate 🙏
@peace6566
@peace6566 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 nah bro you are right, and there are SO MANY black people who go through the same thing, but don't talk about it.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
@@peace6566 thats exactly why I decided to talk about it
@wilmak11
@wilmak11 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 I am SO happy you spoke out your mind and stood your ground, what you said is what many are thinking but it's uncool to say it out. I've always felt for my darker brothers. I saw it first hand the abuse and bullying on a friend/brother and it left in me a strong impression even though I always stood up for him which I think saved him from suicide. I never got beat down over my skin tone but I've seen it happen to others. Featurism is also another factor in choices of partners and how we and other people perceive us and how we ourselves see others and combine it with colorism and it creates a toxic concoction. So again, thanks brother.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
@@wilmak11 no Thank You 👊 I appreciate you
@poppyseed1058
@poppyseed1058 2 года назад
“I prefer a light skin partner to a dark skin partner” thank you for bringing colorism into this Jubillee, though I wonder how much one would be willing to be honest 👀
@gofaonemotlogelwa4925
@gofaonemotlogelwa4925 2 года назад
Ooop- 🌚😏
@Alex-hj1vk
@Alex-hj1vk 2 года назад
Facts
@nugget814
@nugget814 2 года назад
I prefer white people it's not rqcist their just preferences
@lyralee5798
@lyralee5798 2 года назад
At least he's honest ig
@The_Backman
@The_Backman 2 года назад
Props on them for choosing disagree then. Bro said he wasn't playing colorism games lmao
@magicmantis
@magicmantis 2 года назад
This was a great video and touched me on many levels as a black woman. 💗 This was also the first video I've seen that has been switched up from the A vs B discussions. I love it. Welp! On to the next discussion! 🏃🏾‍♀️
@nicoleosayande8672
@nicoleosayande8672 2 года назад
"RESPECTFULLY, I ain't tryna hear that" -- me neither...THANK YOU!!
@therealist2000
@therealist2000 2 года назад
I can't find that part lol
@wwhyme..
@wwhyme.. 2 года назад
@@therealist2000 7:00
@cuzimblk5719
@cuzimblk5719 2 года назад
Exactly.
@AJ-lm5dl
@AJ-lm5dl 2 года назад
Yeah. We don't do that consistency nonsense over here. Rules for thee, but not for me.
@emilypozi
@emilypozi 2 года назад
you should have these dating questions about race on a middle ground with black men and women. I think it would provoke way more interesting conversations
@WoahhTeamJacob
@WoahhTeamJacob 2 года назад
Agreed
@LondonsLanding
@LondonsLanding 2 года назад
Great suggestion- I’d love to see that one
@DistortedV12
@DistortedV12 2 года назад
Nah, I disagree this one is just for black men. Need to hear the raw opinions expressed in a comfortable space.
@InternetGirl1093
@InternetGirl1093 2 года назад
Hard agree!!
@chrissybrea8735
@chrissybrea8735 2 года назад
@@DistortedV12 what are you even saying 💀
@kristynwoods
@kristynwoods 2 года назад
This was such a great and fascinating conversation. 👏
@Prosperousakua
@Prosperousakua 2 года назад
post the uncut version this is the most intriguing video i have seen in a loooong while
@laurtary
@laurtary 2 года назад
I'm so glad they had a homophobia prompt. Homophobia is such a HUGE problem in the black community and it's something we should address.
@laurtary
@laurtary 2 года назад
@UCqBFfdV8s7StosbctLvz6OA I didn't know that that was something people did. Wow, that's disgusting. Religion obviously does play a huge role in it as well.
@jaycam6823
@jaycam6823 2 года назад
Homophobia is a big problem in all communities but they like to just say black or Latino because they want to give white people a pass
@laurtary
@laurtary 2 года назад
@@jaycam6823 Homophobia is present in all communities, it simply seems more prominent in minority communities. It's something brought up on a black oriented video because it's very present in the black community.
@heavenleigh8273
@heavenleigh8273 2 года назад
It’s a huge problem I’m many minority communities not just blacks
@SupremeST25
@SupremeST25 2 года назад
It’s not that deep
@lickmyloafbruh
@lickmyloafbruh 2 года назад
A video with black women would be nice
@imanigordon6803
@imanigordon6803 2 года назад
Probably gonna be in the next 2 months
@mandalove3408
@mandalove3408 2 года назад
They sort of did one with black moms
@deborah8194
@deborah8194 2 года назад
@@mandalove3408 not all black women are moms….
@mandalove3408
@mandalove3408 2 года назад
@@deborah8194 thats why I said "sort of" ...
@kaylao.3326
@kaylao.3326 2 года назад
They need to!!!!
@centerialee
@centerialee 2 года назад
This was a great group. They were so open . I love it.
@elizabethshields320
@elizabethshields320 2 года назад
Percy is gorgeous...do you guys see his skin,his smile...and his brain is just 🤤..i enjoy his thoughts
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you 🙏 -Percy
@jojosaylor8996
@jojosaylor8996 2 года назад
I didn't
@yaht6172
@yaht6172 2 года назад
@@jojosaylor8996 agree I obviously don't even swing that way.
@yaht6172
@yaht6172 2 года назад
He's your type but your putting him so high
@KevyWhit
@KevyWhit 2 года назад
As a Jamaican. The Belizean guy PERFECTLY described my relationship with my father. Financial based. Throughout my life my dad has always been financially supportive, but we have no connection. There is a lot about my father that I wouldn’t be able to tell my wife or my kids because I just don’t know. We don’t have deep talks or any memorable experiences together. As I got older we talked more and have gotten to know each other more. I think he’ll be an awesome Grandfather, I just wish I got to know him more as my dad growing up.
@michaelsledge3904
@michaelsledge3904 2 года назад
This is EXACTLY THE RELATIONSHIP I HAVE WITH MY FATHER
@typicaldigicamenjoyer
@typicaldigicamenjoyer 2 года назад
it’s never too late my friend.
@aminaalhassandiasso1842
@aminaalhassandiasso1842 2 года назад
I think it's kind of the same for many Africans. Dad's are present for financial support but mothers mostly have that emotional connection. Though I'm sure it'd not be in some households. They make amazing grandparents though.
@Bradley_Lute
@Bradley_Lute 2 года назад
A father seems to be very necessary in a kids life but the amount of presence doesn't seem to matter so much. Men are often stoic providers who aren't big on words and big shows of affection. My dad wasn't. But his contribution to me was priceless. But affection and attention matter.
@savagesalvage9449
@savagesalvage9449 2 года назад
Same. He's been dead over a year now. I don't fault him; he provided for me until I could do it myself and that's all you can ask for. Though I'll admit it sucks he didn't put in a little extra effort to have some small relationship with me or teach me anything.
@abm6877
@abm6877 2 года назад
It’s interesting to see how people view themselves vs how other people see them. Percy was the first one who stood out to me for his attractiveness because of his skin and hair. Being tall just iced the cake! Meanwhile that’s the same stuff he got bullied for as a child. This world is disgusting, making perfect black features out to be ugly.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
Thank you for the love and the compliment. It took me a long time to be confident in myself but now I have Confidence and Charisma. I appreciate you -Percy
@sueblack5794
@sueblack5794 2 года назад
Same! I think he the most attractive out of the men.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
@@sueblack5794 i appreciate the compliment. Much love -Percy
@sueblack5794
@sueblack5794 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 Percy, you have a strong spirit and mind. Wishing the best for you in life.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
@@sueblack5794 you as well. I appreciate you tremendously
@NatsuoxOkami
@NatsuoxOkami 2 года назад
Jeezz I couldn't be on videos like this. I'd be too scared to be honest. Bravo to all these guys for their truthful answers while being respectful.
@zs4714
@zs4714 2 года назад
This is one of my favorite Jubilee editions in a long time!
@AmiriHipHop
@AmiriHipHop 2 года назад
I don't know what questions would be asked, but I would love an episode on people in their Early 20's who grew up in the suburbs vs. people who grew up in the inner-city and talking about their different experiences growing up.
@westcoastfrank
@westcoastfrank 2 года назад
Yes
@MM-gp9mb
@MM-gp9mb 2 года назад
Why early 20s?
@Feliciatanktop
@Feliciatanktop 2 года назад
I just broke things off with a guy who grew up in the hood, while I was raised in the suburbs. And at first everything was fine, but the differences between our upbringings really molded who we were and the differences were just too much. I didn’t think it would be such a big deal, but it is
@chrissiec2123
@chrissiec2123 2 года назад
@@Feliciatanktop Would you mind expounding on the differences that were overwhelming? I've never heard or thought of the topic you brought up, so I'm interested.
@heathertea2704
@heathertea2704 2 года назад
@@Feliciatanktop are the differences Only because of city vs suburbs/subdivision regions, & or because of That individual's mindset-only?
@QueensNYgirlie1988
@QueensNYgirlie1988 2 года назад
I love how open and honest Percy was despite his responses being so different from the other guys 💖
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
Thank you. I appreciate you for understanding my perspective. It can be tough being honest but I'm all about the truth. Im glad you enjoyed the video -Percy
@sheenashenanigans88
@sheenashenanigans88 2 года назад
On the father topic - what Avery said broke my heart. My dad is also Belizean, he was and still is a great dad to me & my brother. Loved that the guys encouraged him to get of coffee with his dad & try to build a better relationship. Very sweet 🥰
@ImMyOwnAura
@ImMyOwnAura 2 года назад
Percy you are a king bro. You are loved. As with all the kings on the panel. Beautiful video.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate you brother. Much love -Percy
@marthal8862
@marthal8862 2 года назад
I'm so grateful for Percy's honesty, we are constantly gaslighted on this subject and told it's all in our heads when we know exactly what is happening.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
Thank you for understanding my perspective. I appreciate you -Percy
@naomiwilliams8850
@naomiwilliams8850 2 года назад
@@theprinceoffreshair1164 after a certain age it's difficult to change the beliefs that have formed in our subconscious, so don't feel guilty if you feel like the bias isn't going away. Just learn to deal with it so that you minimise the chances of being colourist to people and so that you don't pass it on. Best of luck
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
@@naomiwilliams8850 I realized the error of thinking that way and I'm not like that anymore. But I appreciate you.
@fatherfather2357
@fatherfather2357 2 года назад
he’s the only one with that response on the panel, it is in your head sometimes and you cope by saying it’s that way because black men hate themselves, it’s cathartic for you to believe that the only way a black men could prefer another skin tone is self hate. Some are colorist, some aren’t.
@naomiwilliams8850
@naomiwilliams8850 2 года назад
@@fatherfather2357 We know our history and we also know that preferences for the most part, like most other things, are formed by social conditioning. Not randomly out of thin air as some would like to believe. So to pretend it isn't self hate most of the time screams ignorance. Also I don't believe the original commenter nor I mentioned anything about Black men being colourist let alone all of them, so I'm not sure what the point of saying "some are colourist, some aren't" was. Isn't this obvious and the case with most things
@Camille-yn2yw
@Camille-yn2yw 2 года назад
Proud of the guy who spoke about his internal struggle with Colorism. We need to talk about it.
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 2 года назад
I appreciate it. I had to be true and honest. Thank you -Percy
@ES_Glenn
@ES_Glenn 2 года назад
Real talk; This needs to be a show. These guys are great together.
@MsKim-of1yo
@MsKim-of1yo 2 года назад
Ill have to rewatch a couple more times to unpack, i really enjoyed this one.
@raccoonmoo8225
@raccoonmoo8225 2 года назад
Can we do a video of black teenagers teenager answering questions about how they were raised and how they grew up. Like you could do things like: “I’m often told I act white” and see the results. “I sometimes feel like I’m not black enough.” Or “I feel like I don’t “act black” enough.” I can’t think of too many questions on my own, but that’s what I got so far.
@fluffyhobii3367
@fluffyhobii3367 2 года назад
ikr, people in school used to call me an oreo. it was soo annoying. just because i like kpop & watch anime or go to starbucks here and there. i’m trying to act white…?
@Symmz
@Symmz 2 года назад
Im sure many of us have experienced this. Great idea 👍
@Alex-hj1vk
@Alex-hj1vk 2 года назад
Great idea. People told me I speak and act white all the time.
@Tjelder33
@Tjelder33 2 года назад
Bruh. My friends would tell me this all the time. Almost word for word
@pandagirl2193
@pandagirl2193 2 года назад
@@fluffyhobii3367 exactlyyy
@skimpanana9499
@skimpanana9499 2 года назад
africans vs african americans? East africans vs West africans?(im somali and would love to see an east african person included in one of these “black” topics)
@darrickwhite1986
@darrickwhite1986 2 года назад
Yessss
@rinnah3128
@rinnah3128 2 года назад
@SP4MAA they are black
@rinnah3128
@rinnah3128 2 года назад
that would be amazing. i’m ethiopian and i would to see us (east african or just african in general) on the black topics. no hate to african americans tho💞
@percaholic6939
@percaholic6939 2 года назад
@SP4MAA they are
@keehours2196
@keehours2196 2 года назад
@SP4MAA I’d say they are black, I know some of them don’t think so and can be very anti-black
@kattiaibraimo4232
@kattiaibraimo4232 2 года назад
OMG, I loved this. This is one of the best spectrum videos. Thank'you for this jubilee
@sheeshialove1
@sheeshialove1 2 года назад
This was DEEP😭 I love how open and honest everyone was❤️
@AlatOnDemand
@AlatOnDemand 2 года назад
Please do “do all black women think the same” and make sure it’s mono racial black women.
@twizy14twice48
@twizy14twice48 2 года назад
Yes include black ppl from Africa, that will be interesting
@theelolicious9302
@theelolicious9302 2 года назад
this!!! because if they go and include biracials i will be mad
@Ladysolitude24
@Ladysolitude24 2 года назад
I would be shocked if they cast only mono racial black women in a video like that. It seems like when they cast black men it’s almost always mono racial black men, but when they want to cast black women there are always biracial women included.
@thatgirl6948
@thatgirl6948 2 года назад
Yes and include different types of black women, not just African Americans.
@rayraygaleva9493
@rayraygaleva9493 2 года назад
I agreed with this video idea untill you wanted to purposely exclude half black women. I can understand the mindset and see that this video is all dark skin black men and recognize that we don't have COMPLETELY identical experiences, but maybe having a little different experience then full blacks, could add an interesting perspective to the conversation
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